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| – | The reality of dating for menWhen I put up a dating profile I got 187 messages inundating my message inbox within the first four hours. If I averaged six minutes per message to work my way through the messages and thoughtfully answer them all it would be an eighteen and a half hour job. If I averaged one response every three minutes the job could be done in only nine hours. In the meantime the guy who I answered first is writing his next message; he expects a rapid volley of messages to be racing back and forth He doesn’t t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/23 07:47 AM |
| 1 | The reasons for women to want marriage and children are often outweighed by the reasons not to, despite children being necessary for society as a wholeReplace the words “fun uncle” with “bill paying service” and I will agree | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/23 12:04 AM |
| 5 | Lonely Single MenBecause more women are university educated, working full time and their salaries are higher than in the past they don’t have a desperate need to marry for financial reasons. Men no longer represent the irreplaceable stable male providership quite as they did in previous decades. So, what happens to all the disgruntled boo ballers who aren’t fantastically wealthy or genetically gifted with amazing personalities? They sit about on their grimy semen stained mattresses watching porn, playing with th… | /r/ExRedPill | 01/11/23 06:56 PM |
| -4 | Women just expect men to pay, even on bad dates. Is this reasonable?I don’t feel guilty, because many men don’t read the dating profiles but only look at photos. I prefer to go to “buffet” type dates where the gentleman has to pay at the cash register before entering, he can’t dip out the fire exit at half time if he doesn’t like the way the conversation is going. My dating profile clearly states “marriage minded only.” However let’s imagine that ten minutes into a nice meal it comes to light that a particular scrote with a saggy baggy blue ballsack isn’t lookin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/23 07:51 AM |
| 11 | As a single woman, what do you hate about dating in 2023?Cheapskating lowballing blueballers aren’t looking for anything serious, just wasting time | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/23 05:56 AM |
| 2 | Women don’t want men to have success in datingDon’t be short, that’s my saged advice | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/23 04:44 AM |
| 1 | I spoke to him about us and if he can promise me future together after 2 months together. He was vagueDealing with psychology is always about probabilities. So, yes, there are cats who play fetch but not many, mostly it’s dogs who do that. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/10/23 06:38 PM |
| 1 | Should a woman who has lost significant amounts of weight give men who did not want her a chance after weight loss?I suggest high end restaurant dates only for such individuals | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/23 08:44 PM |
| 3 | How come there aren’t as many women into fat guys as there are men into fat women?I’m interested, send complete details of the amazing offer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/23 08:36 PM |
| 1 | Serious question. What will you do with your lives if you don't find anyone?Porn | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/23 05:33 PM |
| 9 | Is marriage inherently emasculating to a man?Ideally a relationship is a partnership or a joint venture with compromise and negotiation. Hopefully isn’t a self prioritized struggle or a competition that ends in a standoff. You could invest many years of attempting to bully various women to preserve your masculinity or you could give a little and go be moderately happy with someone a lot sooner. You could be enjoying some amount of cooking cleaning and sex or you could be at loggerheads for a long time with an endless string of women. So wh… | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/10/23 04:02 PM |
| 6 | I spoke to him about us and if he can promise me future together after 2 months together. He was vagueThe true answer to your question is “No, He cannot promise you a future together”. Vagueness is merely a tactic to string you along because he doesn’t want to disillusion you or completely burst your bubble. Right now, he’s getting entertainment value out of prolonging your efforts to catch him. What he really meant was “No”. No, there is no shared future, no couple hood, no family situation, no pending offer of any kind, certainly no ring 💍 Two months of wasted time could turn into more months … | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/10/23 02:58 PM |
| 3 | Is there any couples here who see eachother everyday?Three times a week is enough for the average person | /r/ExRedPill | 04/10/23 02:36 PM |
| 2 | In an age where you’re damned if you try to get sexual too quickly and damned if you stay platonic for too long, what’s the best approach?Quite a few ladies enjoy hugs, try that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 06:39 PM |
| – | Why do women often not try to get me to like them on dates?Quite a few women are listening to hear about a shared future together | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 01:11 PM |
| 16 | There is roughly a 50/50 gender ratio so why are so many men having trouble finding a SINGLE girlfriend ?Hypergamy, Pareto distribution, preference to pick and choose selectively or remain celibate | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 01:08 PM |
| 1 | i think that being a smooth talker is the best ability to pick up womenI would love to talk about all those interesting subjects, hit me up | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/23 05:48 PM |
| 1 | Advice on prenupAsk for the house in advance, get him tested for STD | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/09/23 01:46 PM |
| 2 | Red Pillers: What do you actually consider to be sufficient evidence of r*pe and SA?Scrapes, scratches, bruises, or other marks that show up on medical examination all lend credence to the story along with eyewitness testimony and ripped clothing or broken furniture, added together with the forensic evidence from the crime scene | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/23 11:55 AM |
| 2 | Ever since false allegations I've been a prude.Try dating to a public location at lunchtime and build rapport slowly over text messages | /r/MensRights | 23/09/23 06:50 AM |
| 1 | Yea it's true that wealthy men tend to marry wealthy women but this has nothing to do with attractionIn the movie “titanic” jack has no money | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/23 07:12 AM |
| 1 | Ladies would you date a man who makes less money than you or who is unemployed?I once responded to an online post of a man advertising himself as a “starving artist”. The artistic shtook convinced me to call and speak to him for twenty minutes. I imagined him standing in front of an easel, myself as his muse, the Rose to his Jack enjoying a bohemian lifestyle together. During that initial call I really didn’t hear too much about art, it turned out to be a flimsy ruse. He is simply a loser, with baser “unmet needs” and a bullshit story line about nonexistent art. Shortly af… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/23 12:12 PM |
| 2 | Have you hooked up with someone for non-sexual reasons?$200 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/23 04:09 AM |
| 1 | Forget sex or relationships, how tf does a man even become friends with a woman?I will be your friend, send me a DM where you clearly state that you are strictly seeking a platonic friendship | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/23 01:45 AM |
| 1 | Do you think men's fashion really matters in attraction?It depends how drastically sloppy is the sloppy outfit but in general I can tell if a man looks good or not in spite of his outfit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/23 01:29 AM |
| 8 | At what age did you first receive sexual attention from adult men?14 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/23 03:00 AM |
| 0 | Do women often assume if a guy isn’t salivating over them that he must not be very interested?I think the converse, if a guy tries to cash in his chips early in 1-2 dates he wasn’t that serious about developing long term and is probably scamming about for random easy women. If he respectfully waits for three dates then he’s probably trying to develop a longer term relationship with select women and if he bides his time for more than 7 dates he is mostly wanting a supportive friend. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/23 07:59 PM |
| 2 | Q4W why is dating so important to you?I’m a lady hermit shut in , hmu | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 02:45 AM |
| 1 | Would you date a mute guy?Do you have any sources for steady income and are you handsome | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 01:23 AM |
| 1 | How to avoid being 'boring' to ladies?Don’t talk about your medical issues | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/23 08:34 PM |
| 2 | How do the women who are always aloof and dismissive towards men’s approaches expect to meet someone?Most women aren’t interested to meet just “someone” The idea of remaining alone for a while until a spectacular gentleman comes along is preferable to settling for mediocrity. A few aren’t looking at all, they’re just going about their daily lives being pestered from people who assume they’re “looking”. These women aren’t expecting to meet any romantic Romeo and they aren’t interested in being approached by nice guy scrotes either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/23 11:07 AM |
| 1 | Why cant men immediately withdraw all their money and flee the country before a divorce to save their assets.I’m pretty sure cash has to be declared at customs. It could be confiscated or stolen in luggage. I am not an expert on how this customs inspection might be handled differently works with planes being chartered, but instinctively I suspect that the basic laws pertaining to currency declarations doesn’t change because of chartered planes. Technically down the road this man could become guilty of bigamy if he got married again at some future time down the road so it might be useful to tie up that … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/23 07:18 AM |
| 1 | If you don't find a partner, are you ready to live alone for the rest of your life?I’m a widow alone, not dating | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/23 02:57 AM |
| 1 | In your experience, do platonic opposite-sex friendships often involve a lot of "giving" by men without reciprocity?I have sent housewarming gift type items from Amazon to a male telephone only friend. I also sent a pizza in the day he moved house. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/23 11:06 PM |
| -3 | Women Assume The Worst Whenever A Man Leaves A Friendship After RejectionFaking pretend friendship to “get” pussy is wrong, scamming and lying is wrong | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/23 10:50 AM |
| 1 | Is it harder for a man or a woman to be considered attractive?If a woman is 4/10 she can get likes on Tinder. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/23 10:10 AM |
| 1 | Can porn and masturbation discourage men from getting sex?I care some but not to the level of providing charity “services” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/23 01:04 PM |
| 1 | Women: What is a high-value man?Physique Personality Intellect Assets Income Unencumbrances | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/23 02:49 AM |
| 1 | Say No coffee dates!!!!! have standardsWould this no coffee shop dating philosophy apply to first dates, from online dating? I agree you have to keep standards up obviously. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/23 02:11 AM |
| 6 | Do you think marriage will die out completely once Women start out earning Men on average?I’m collecting social security survivors benefits because my late husband paid into the system. No marriage license means no insurance money from your spouse passing away. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/23 04:17 PM |
| 2 | Female women, how would you feel if most men did not desire you at all?What a relief, if suddenly nobody had blueballs | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/23 03:14 PM |
| 1 | Women, how would you or did you prepare your sons for dating?Go to an all you can eat smorgasbord buffet to prevent the girl from ordering more stuff | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/23 04:54 PM |
| 1 | Would you consider dating or even marrying an Average Joe or Plane Jane?Do any of these average men own their house outright? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/23 12:45 PM |
| 3 | Question for Women - Is it true that you find the majority of Men unnatractive?For 80% of men their sexual market value is a negative number | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/23 02:03 AM |
| 1 | People underestimate how circumstantial attraction isMyself personally I’m reluctant to date the supermarket checkout person or my next door neighbors or people that I know from the gym for the same reason people don’t date co workers. It’s shitting where you eat, if you like living in that neighborhood, working out at that gym, shopping at that grocery store going forward. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/23 09:31 PM |
| – | CMV: Women are incredibly entitled and take male providers for grantedI always enjoyed doing housework | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/23 02:59 PM |
| – | Spend insignificant money on a girl until after she is sexually productive.Didn’t you openly admit that you’re divorced? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/23 07:42 PM |
| – | Should men only seek affection if they earned or deserve it?Only your mother offers a unilateral relationship, all others are reciprocal with a quid pro quo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/23 09:31 AM |
| 7 | Do you think the lonely men online actually just want sex?I talked to various men on a telephone chat line who appeared extremely friendly until I refused to “meet up”. At some point they realized that to me telephone chat only means telephone chat, I am not building confidence toward setting up any in person meetings. After this realization they stopped “wasting their time”. Building rapport is a vehicle for men to get sex, they don’t want a female friend | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 03:51 AM |
| 1 | Guys should filter out women who don't show any interest, romantically or sexuallyThe dating apps are filled with men who are “tire kickers” and wouldn’t have any money regardless of whether the woman showed interest or not. The lady showing romance doesn’t transform a flat broke scrote into anything other than what was/is/will continue to be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/23 10:49 AM |
| 6 | Subtlety of GaslightingI saw a hot headed young woman move into the apartment complex with her much older boyfriend. He walked with a walker and they both lived off his social security money. She badgered, nattered and screeched at him frequently; there was plenty of noise coming out of that apartment. One day the two of them were out at the pool area when she got angry at him over something petty and I watched while she deliberately broke his glasses. The next day I called adult protective services to discuss everyth… | /r/MensRights | 13/07/23 01:20 PM |
| 2 | Would you lose interest if a man didn't pay on the first date?Some guy suggested dutch dating and I began to think he may never step up to maintain a wife. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 12:46 PM |
| 1 | For those women that believe they deserve rich, high value men, where do you go that you think you'll meet them? What are you doing to attract them?First class seating on an airplane | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/23 05:46 AM |
| 1 | For those women that believe they deserve rich, high value men, where do you go that you think you'll meet them? What are you doing to attract them?Golf courses? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/23 05:45 AM |
| 7 | Observation: girls are constantly baiting guys into destroying their own futures at every point in lifeMen are likened to dumb animals being led to the slaughter by women who sing a siren song. Men are mindless slaves to their unmet sexual needs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/23 04:52 AM |
| 0 | Men struggle because they treat women as equalsIf you’re desperate for pussy, am I wrong? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 11:56 PM |
| -2 | Is gossiping more common amongst woman or men?Men engage in locker room talk all the time | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/23 09:18 AM |
| 7 | Men struggle because they treat women as equalsPerhaps you and I could have a completely platonic relationship as equals where I won’t ask you for money as you conversely agree not to ask for sex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/23 12:11 AM |
| 2 | what do men really think of female virgins?It all would depend on what he wants her for, I imagine | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/23 10:18 PM |
| 2 | What's more important, finding one person who loves you completely or being desired sexually by many people?If someone wanted to love me as a brother that’s not a tragedy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/23 10:52 PM |
| – | Why are "happily married" people browsing these subs?People in functional marriages have plenty of useful advice and relationship tips to offer | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/23 09:32 PM |
| 7 | Boyfriend wants kids in his mid thirties, im not sure if I can wait that longI’m a widow today because of an age gap relationship but older men may be in the right headspace to take on responsibilities | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/07/23 11:15 AM |
| 9 | What to do when a man is saying sexual things in initial talking stages (Online dating)?Desperation is not sexy | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/07/23 07:05 AM |
| 3 | Women have an hard problem knowing what they should put effort into to be more attractive as a long term partner.I think you’re a smart woman and you know what side your bread is buttered on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/23 12:14 AM |
| 3 | Non-monogamy is the perfect solution for people who were raised from broken homes and dysfunctional families.Perhaps you could apply for a job in one of Nevadas legal bordellos and then you could be dysfunctional and non monogamous and get paid for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/23 08:22 AM |
| 0 | How the hell can women commit to a man they don't lust after?$$$MONEY$$$ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/23 04:03 PM |
| – | In what ways could both sexes come to a better understanding?Well, at one point I offered to pay my clothes shoes and personal items if the man would offer me free rent and utilities. His monthly expenses would remain precisely the same, with no additional cost to take a woman into his home. He refused so I went off to pay my own bills and he carried in with his porn channels. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/23 07:56 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: would you move into a house your SO owned as a tenant?You’d be on a month to month tenancy, in the eyes of the law. It’s thirty day’s notice in California or sixty days in Nevada notice to evict without cause. The fact that you’re boinking would not help. The law doesn’t recognize you bumping uglies as significant to the eviction process. If a fight breaks out it’s domestic violence. If you get a 12 month lease on the spare bedroom of her house you would stay for the term of the lease guaranteeing you that minimum. Presumably you would save on rent… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/23 02:11 PM |
| -3 | Why do women treat men as disposable commodities?Racehorses get put to pasture when they can’t run any more, leased vehicles get traded for a newer model, it happens to women or men, either way. The woman gets breast cancer, enters menopause, gains weight or whatever so the man swaps her out for a big titty boom boom girl. The man gets fired, incarcerated, disbarred, loses his business, fails to maintain his medical license etc then the woman thinks he’s not the man she intended to date, not as expected | /r/MensRights | 26/06/23 09:23 PM |
| 1 | Most women basically see men as machines that provide for them and give them material things.Whenever I meet a modern male feminist who gives me this 50/50 my money is my money, your money is your money type narrative, I immediately agree with him. Yes. I’m a woman alone in life and I’m paying my own bills. I could do this sustainably every day going forward for the rest of my life. This is all true. Another statement is that is true is this: he is a man alone who over the recent months since his divorce has become accustomed to using his right hand. Himself being a modern age man with … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/23 07:28 PM |
| 2 | In what ways could both sexes come to a better understanding?As a woman whenever I try to negotiate a balanced deal that’s fair, reasonable and equitable to both sides, I get accused of being “transactional”. Men frequently have antithetical psychology. What they say they want doesn’t fly when the time comes to implement it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/23 10:14 PM |
| 1 | Most women can’t admit that they care about looks just/nearly as much as men because they see themselves as the sophisticated and non-primitive gender as opposed to men.Men who date bombshell women with no brains and a shallow personality frequently deny the obvious and claim their motives aren’t what it appears. This is virtue signaling, in contradiction of the evidence. Here in Las Vegas Nevada if you see a beautiful young woman holding hands in public with an unattractive older man the onlookers will assume it’s a sugar baby and he’s paying to play. Again, that’s all assumptions, maybe she has other motives we can’t imagine | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/23 09:40 PM |
| 2 | Loneliness cannot be solved in the long term without romantic relationshipsI’m available as a platonic friend | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/23 07:12 AM |
| 2 | Most women haven't experienced loneliness, touchlessness and sexlessnes. That's the reason why they downplay this conditions.Invite this touch starved woman to apply to work in the bordello in Nevada. Men will touch her for thousands of dollars each day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/23 12:42 AM |
| 1 | What if humans laid eggs?Humans would become as solitary as frogs | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/23 01:45 AM |
| -3 | Men are showing emotional maturity and skill by leaving friendships with women after expressing unrequited sexual interestI’m a woman speaking out against “beta male orbiting” Why did the deceptive orbiter ever mislead the woman down the friendship path in the first place that he would later find himself in the dire situation of having to end the pretend “friendship” with her if she doesn’t put out? Back on day one a real man would have asked her out point blank and gotten his clear answer of yes or no. Why he make it into a multi step process of making a woman into a pretend “friend” then scamming about for weeks … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/23 07:12 PM |
| 3 | If men and women had the same sexuality, the dating market would be very differentIf men and women had the same sexuality could the men get pregnant and carry the baby? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/23 05:17 PM |
| 3 | When women have bad relationships they are told to “pick better” but when men are, we assign blame to womenPicking better is good advice for everyone | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/23 04:49 PM |
| 2 | Women’s hypersensitivity to awkwardness and lack of social prowess/dominance is not rooted in fear or some “survival instinct” they’ve evolved in response to dangerous men, but rather in their privilege and abundanceYou left out the major part; today’s woman can maintain herself financially without a man, so the option of remaining alone is a viable option for her. Even if there was one man with a nine inch pecker, a second man man of social grace and a third man who was six foot seven and a fourth man with long silky eyelashes or whatever, she might well check the box marked “none of the above”. Living under the thumb of some man, cleaning up his messes and keeping his balls drained is a lot of work. I wou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/23 12:34 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: Have you personally, or do you know any women who were only able to find success with men after lowering their standards? How do you feel in general about men or women lowering their standards to find success?Men make a mistake when they allow themselves to become a beta orbiter simping about in the friend zone. Women make a mistake when they peddle in endless circles trying to “fix” a flat broke scrote who fears commitment, suffers from Peter Pan syndrome and doesn’t want to grow up and take responsibility. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/23 03:09 AM |
| -1 | Marriage is not worth it for women who do not marry richQuite a few perennially angry Elliot Rodger incel types get online and assert how no woman will get between him and his money, he will live like king Midas perched atop his gold pile while foolish bitches get pumped and dumped. The problem with this concept is a numerical problem the supply and demand curve. There’s not enough fully comped easy pussy and too many butthurt blueballers trying to get to what little of it there is. For every female profile on Tinder there’s five male profiles. 80% o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/23 01:03 PM |
| 4 | Are women only attracted to fit men because it's currently trendy?If you had lived in the past you would get married and maintain a wife to have sex. In the post feminist modern hook up culture a man’s physical looks matter more because you subtract out the idea stable male providership. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/23 05:13 PM |
| 2 | The women who end up as single "cat ladies" are usually not the typical hot, party girlI don’t have pets, but I became a widow and when post widowhood dating efforts didn’t lead to commitment I gave up and I officially retired my pussy at age 55. It’s an age issue and I used to be married what happened before isn’t relevant. If I hadn’t been previously married I would have done the same | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/23 02:13 PM |
| 0 | QW: For women who are against hookup culture, what made you not want casual sex and value sex as exclusively a romantic activity?Men of hook up sex think only about themselves because there’s no expectation of an ongoing thing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/23 01:29 PM |
| 2 | QW: For women who are against hookup culture, what made you not want casual sex and value sex as exclusively a romantic activity?The men of hook up have an orgasm at the lady’s expense | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/23 01:27 PM |
| 2 | QW: For women who are against hookup culture, what made you not want casual sex and value sex as exclusively a romantic activity?Her time was wasted, no enjoyment for the lady | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/23 01:26 PM |
| 5 | QW: For women who are against hookup culture, what made you not want casual sex and value sex as exclusively a romantic activity?Orgasm gap, ongoing hassles over latex condoms, stealthing, welshing on the previous handshake deal for hookup sex by pestering for additional dates in spite of no string pre agreement, in bedroom debates over preset boundaries, general disrespect for what types of sexual activities are agreed upon or not agreed upon, kiss and tell afterward and social aftermath of humiliation, locker room talk, ruin of reputation, harassment by other men who were told which door to knock on for constantly avail… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/23 10:59 AM |
| 1 | Why does logic and prudence usually get thrown out the window when it comes to dating?Look up social catfish type romance scams on YouTube. It’s shocking how many people live in complete and total denial | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/23 12:25 AM |
| 4 | Women can be borderline autistic, even mentally and socially retarded and they will still be able to get guys, have dating options, overall, still be able to get into a relationship, but not so much the other way around.Every post on this sub goes back to one basic reality: men are not women. Men can’t be women not physically or psychologically not legally or socially or economically not at home or at work not on the battlefield or in the bathroom nor at the moment of childbirth and nobody asked to be born a woman. Nobody asked to be born rich or poor, male or female, black or white autistic or otherwise. Nobody asked to be born at all. Life certainly isn’t fair. Yes, I would say that any female of any descript… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 03:52 AM |
| – | Isn't it shameful or at least weird for a woman to let herself used like a human fleshlight?Because of the orgasm gap, most women who try hook up sex eventually stop doing that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/23 12:03 PM |
| 4 | Who and where are these invisible women?If a woman gets catcalled and sexually harassed by losers on the street, she is still thinking she doesn’t get the right type of male “attention”. She’s still single. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/23 11:31 AM |
| 1 | Women don't appreciate male breadwinnersI will take you up on the housework for money deal, send financial details immediately | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/23 08:03 AM |
| 3 | CMV: The fire that's burning dating down started with women unrealistically raising their standards. And men are fanning those flames with pumping and dumping.When providing is out of the equation there’s not that many Adonis type with the mind of Einstein left | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/23 07:47 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Sugar dating is a perfectly viable and maybe even recommendable dating strategy for some men and womenQuite a few men are into variety, and wouldn’t want to become repeat clients to one provider while others don’t have the money for an ongoing expense. A few men aren’t able to maintain a sustained long term quasi arrangement type relationship anymore than they would have the necessary skills to maintain an actual relationship. The idea of the lady working outcall on long trips sounds like a tiring triathlon of being constantly in character LARPing as the happy hooker for two days straight, trapp… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/23 06:46 PM |
| – | Thought Experiment and Question: how much of "enforced monogamy" is actually just "enforced heterosexuality"? How many relationships would exist if genuine romance was the only thing to create them?I have learned to be wary of fake friends who are potentially orbiting | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/23 09:17 AM |
| 18 | Thought Experiment and Question: how much of "enforced monogamy" is actually just "enforced heterosexuality"? How many relationships would exist if genuine romance was the only thing to create them?I responded to some random person who posted wanting a friend. I sent off a sweet kind message to this person message inbox. So this replied with “So, U got pics?” I don’t think most men want a “friend”. I believe they quite resent being in the friendship zone. The word “friend” is frequently misused It’s a code word that means blueballs | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/23 11:04 AM |
| 2 | CMV The main reason why Dating today is f*cked for Men is not because of feminism/equality. 90% of the damage comes from Online Dating.The women do understand that the men from online dating are unlikely to commit, what we think is that the dubai heir is a player, albeit with money the sports professional is probably a player, good looking Chad may be a player and average Brad is likely a player | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/23 06:43 PM |
| 1 | Women of PPD, how often do you get hit on in public?Hourly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/23 04:35 AM |
| 3 | Why women claim they hate when a man cold approaches and why almost all men should cold approach.If we took a headless zombie and dressed it in a petticoat some blueballer would want a piece of that action. Some men have no real standards other than whatever is available, with low investment of time, money, effort or emotion. They dropped their standards through the sub basement to pick the low hanging fruit. Within four hours of me posting up a new OLD profile I had 187 messages waiting for me in my message inbox. Apparently every worthless wanker west of the Rocky Mountains wants some of … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/23 08:13 AM |
| 4 | Why women claim they hate when a man cold approaches and why almost all men should cold approach.Today at age 57, I now belong to the group of people that Mysterious_Pickle_78 refers to as “mid women” These are the degraded creatures whom men like to use for target practice. I am approached often and still considered quite doable, and men feel no compunctions about hassling me in public, stringing me along and wasting my time. For this same reason, I made a well considered decision to delete my online dating profiles and taken myself off the market. I did this in 2020 as the pandemic was ra… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/23 07:21 AM |
| 1 | No one ever seems to want to acknowledge that women consistently go for abusive, bad natured men. If you bring this up all they do is shame you to silence the discussion, and this is probably the most prominent example of gaslighting in dating/gender dynamics.Men seem to think that that if they mindlessly move forward and choose a woman with ideal looks, her glaring personality flaws can be somehow managed on the back end. Every other person witnessing the situation sees the red flags but for the man involved the blood has rushed away from his brain to inflate his boner | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/23 06:53 AM |
| 2 | Male Widowers getting re-married quicker is better explained by female pre-selectionWidowers are less likely to be flat broke than divorced men and therefore desirable to prospective new partners | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/23 04:37 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: would you enter a marriage where finances were not mingled and costs were split 50/50?I will gladly agree to this roommate type arrangement as outlined, but after my share of the bills are paid nothing more will be owed. I would immediately retire to enjoy the tranquility of the room I paid for and not one precious millisecond of my valuable time would be wasted by the scrote with the spreadsheet | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/23 04:54 AM |
| 2 | Women who believe their “platonic” male friends aren’t in fact orbiters; why do you think they aren’t attracted to you?I like to directly ask this question when I meet a new friend. “Are you open to a potential romantic connection?” If the person says “yes” then they aren’t friendship material, they’re an orbiter | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/23 10:33 PM |
| 1 | What advice do you have for women to avoid being pumped and dumpedIf the gentleman takes the lady on some well planned high end dates it hints that he may care. Low budget last minute dates may suggest he is using her for target practice | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/23 10:59 AM |
| 1 | As a straight man, being hit on by gay men is what it must feel like to be a woman being hit on all the time by men you're not attracted toIt’s scary for a 120 lbs weight man to be aggressively hit on by a 240 lbs man, not comparable to a 240 lbs man hitting on another 240 lbs man | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/23 10:33 AM |
| 1 | I think I now have relationship anxiety because of consuming red pill contentI suggest you date a handful of possible candidates and evaluate each prospective woman on a case by case basis. For example, you could interview the ladies about the problems in their past relationships to get a general impression of what her general tendencies may be going forward | /r/ExRedPill | 20/04/23 09:29 PM |
| 4 | Are forever girlfriends another category of women?I recall “John John” Kennedy Jr strung Daryl Hannah along for SEVEN years until she gave him an ultimatum. He replied “I don’t like ultimatums” in a curt tone, then he promptly married Carolyn Bessette. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/23 07:28 PM |
| 12 | Dunning–Kruger effect in action: Those who suggest that men who struggle with dating hire sex workers are the ones who know the least about itMany men who claim they just want intimacy have rejected the idea of a telephone only relationship because what they really mean is they are trying to figure out a low cost path to pussy that doesn’t involve restaurants or paid providers | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/23 07:43 PM |
| 1 | Do you honestly think that out of all the men approaching or expressing interest in a woman the number seeking genuine relationships are non-existent or minusculeIf the woman is an 8,9 or a 10, he might view her as wife material but if she is a 5,6 or 7 she is just doable and he will just waste her time, use her for target practice and game her | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/23 08:26 AM |
| 1 | Female women, how would you feel if you learned that your boyfriend/husband used to do things for his ex that he never does to you?I am extremely jealous. Once on a date some guy told me he was still making his ex girlfriend’s car insurance payment so naturally called a cab. I left him sitting at the restaurant alone unless he wanted to call her, ask her to accompany him home after our date, maybe give him a quick blowjob or something to show her appreciation. I don’t ever plan to do any part of a job another person is being compensated to perform | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/23 06:24 AM |
| 1 | Hey guys, have you ever noticed how society seems to give women a pass when it comes to cheating on their husbands? It's time for us men to stop being biased and start supporting each other! Let's stop treating infidelity differently based on gender.I wish I could retroactively share your comment with King Henry XIII | /r/MensRights | 15/04/23 06:55 PM |
| 5 | Practically no men are "obsessed" with sex, they just can't satisfy their healthy, normal desiresWhat “position” has the blueballer been “put” in and who is at fault for “putting“ him there? There are plenty of working ladies at the bordellos in Nevada who need this type of business | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/23 03:27 PM |
| 1 | What do you dislike about female behavior with regards to sex and dating? What changes from women would you like to see?I would gladly roommate with a man and pay half the bills but after my half the bills are paid I want to sleep alone in the room I paid for, nothing more would be owed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/23 06:05 AM |
| 0 | Given we are living in an age of sexual liberation and mutual promiscuity; why is there still a narrative that men “use” woman for sex?I believe that if a person lies in their profile claiming they are looking for marriage/cohabitation/long term when they’re not, that’s using the other person, wasting their time for entertainment and sexual gratification | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/23 05:57 PM |
| 2 | Dear women reading this: you're not competing against other women.There’s blueballers aplenty in droves, no shortage | /r/MensRights | 02/04/23 07:20 AM |
| 3 | People say male privledge doesn't exist what are privledges males have that females don't in society? (List in bullet points)If a woman is married the company doesn’t want to invest in any training because she will soon get pregnant and quit, any investment in her will only be lost. | /r/ExRedPill | 20/03/23 11:37 PM |
| 4 | I am crying because I am not getting women. Do you think my BBD is related to lack of women? I was feed too much red pill crap.BPD is traceable to your early toddler years | /r/ExRedPill | 20/03/23 06:26 AM |
| 1 | Could it be that women just do not like men that much?The friendship zone is real | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/23 01:44 AM |
| 1 | Analogy: Male attention is like air for women, Female attention is like food for menMale attention representing narcissistic supply plus $5 will buy a medium coffee at Starbucks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/23 04:19 PM |
| 0 | Does status indicate sexual success?During rutting season the stags will battle each other, the doe goes with the winner | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/23 09:12 AM |
| 1 | Most women sexually desire the same small percentage of men the most, based on the data. But most women aren’t dating those same few men. Does that mean most women are settling in their relationships for men they don’t find sexually desirable?As a grandmother could I expect date a man who is a ten out of ten in personality, physique and wealth? If I did would we make a quick dash to the Quicky wedding chapel in Las Vegas? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/23 07:54 AM |
| 1 | Modern day dating is basically a winner takes all market…They are just broke, they would buy sex if they could afford it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/23 10:41 PM |
| 1 | How to stop being “one of the bros?”There are various YouTube tutorials in feminine body language. Start there | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/02/23 09:20 AM |
| 1 | Do women really want a man who opens up in a relationship?Providing ability all the way | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/23 08:35 AM |
| 1 | circumcision is the most basic and obvious ways to show people don't care about menIt’s the Abrahamic religious lobby, that’s what is driving the tradition, not women | /r/MensRights | 08/02/23 09:39 PM |
| 2 | Should I give up on marriage if I am an ugly woman?Being alone is better than being with the wrong man. It is a decent option. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/02/23 06:35 PM |
| 2 | Does equality prevent divorce?90% of men aren’t actually going to find a likable woman of exceptional looks with a million dollars who is a freak in the sheets and willing to marry them on the proposed zero sum basis. This is all hypothetical. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/23 04:20 PM |
| 2 | How to tell if a man is gay?If a man isn’t actively pursuing you it’s best you leave him as he is. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/01/23 01:37 PM |
| -1 | The dating sceneIf I lose weight will you buy me a house? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/23 10:35 AM |
| 0 | More identity politics insanity from Feminists. Men have been observed across cultures to be attracted to thinner women for evolutionary reasons, it has nothing to do with "beauty standards".I am currently off the market but if I was interested to date anyone I would do a series of 72 hour water only fasts | /r/AntiFeminists | 04/01/23 10:18 AM |
| 0 | White women are the most, by far, privileged group of people in Western societyThis post is halfway between misogyny and rascism | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 08:53 PM |
| 1 | What’s the most disheartening thing you’ve seen in your local dating marketI am an older widow lady and I wouldn’t bother dating unless I thought the end game was such that I could improve my situation. You imagine I will ultimately be finding my “looks match” or better but you ignore the default option of myself staying in my current situation. If I can’t find the ideal situation my plan is to stay here alone. Online I am just fielding offers to see if I do hit the progressive jackpot. If I do not get a valid offer then right here I will stay. There is no grand moment… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/22 02:43 PM |
| 2 | Why do you guys think women still date men?Money, babies | /r/MensRights | 29/12/22 09:34 AM |
| 7 | First time taking my daughter to grocery store aloneLong ago, I got a call from the police confirming my husband had our daughter | /r/MensRights | 29/12/22 12:01 AM |
| 2 | It's bad for men's mental health to tell them that women like sex as much as themSome men want sex only if it doesn’t cost them too much to date the lady | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/22 01:30 AM |
| 2 | Do women have their own version of “self improvement”?Manicure Haircut Gym membership Nutritionist | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/22 10:45 PM |
| 2 | My boyfriend is older, richer and better educated than me. Should I marry him?Blue balls, that’s his motive | /r/MensRights | 25/12/22 02:50 PM |
| 2 | How often should I text my partnerText him once a day shortly after dinner time | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/12/22 02:24 AM |
| 2 | Guys.. be careful at holiday work parties, consider not even goingI like the idea of a cameo appearance for the first hour to get the food and leave early | /r/MensRights | 22/12/22 02:17 AM |
| 1 | I’ve poisoned most of the sexual/romantic relationships in my life and driven myself a bit crazyI want to add that “maintaining frame” sounds performative, like keeping up an act or an image and sets you up for a contest with a winner and a loser rather than a win/ win partnership. | /r/ExRedPill | 21/12/22 11:59 PM |
| 1 | Height preferencesWould men like an older pear shaped flat chested woman? | /r/ExRedPill | 16/12/22 02:13 PM |
| 12 | Advice on raising your kids with good morals in a society dominated by hypersexual cultureThe friendship group needs to be carefully managed. Teens adopt attitudes from their peers. You might have a brief conversation to determine what your teen’s existing attitude is. For example I began a seven year relationship at age sixteen but I never had the urges to get drunk not even for my 21 st birthday. If your teen isn’t the hookup type you may be worried about nothing. Is having a long term multi year relationship hooking up? | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/12/22 08:21 AM |
| 7 | Are relationships becoming more openly transactional?Now I see men openly admitting they are after pussy. That used to be shameful. In the past they made a pretext of an actual courtship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/22 12:23 PM |
| 2 | If marriage is a good idea for men, why does society treat it like a gift for women?Possibly you are wasting another person’s time | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/22 11:42 AM |
| 1 | Do you think some women are against sex work because it takes away a lot of their power over men?Yes, and sluts for the same reason because it throws off the supply and demand curve. Men find it distracting, no one wants to get married and pay a mortgage reliably when they can queue in line for a freebie. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/22 09:08 AM |
| 1 | Men being f*ckboys is propagated by women, and ultimately beneficial for menEverything you say is true for the top 20% of good looking men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/22 04:34 AM |
| 2 | The women who advise men they should get to know women as "people" first before trying anything also crap on "sneaky nice guys" for having with ulterior motivesIt’s best if the gentleman uses words like couple, romance, courtship, going on a date, or otherwise makes his intentions clear. Friendship fraud is not the way to go | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/22 03:06 AM |
| -3 | Does anyone else fear wasting their youth on a man because they so often eventually cheat?Ask your fiancé to put his house jointly into your name, then you can guess his levels of sincerity | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/12/22 02:29 AM |
| 5 | If "men are loyal" and women are opportunistic, how do you explain the concept of "starter girlfriends" and the phenomena of men leaving their SO when they achieve a certain level in life?Yes like Mackenzie Bezos never cheated but she lost her younger years and regretted building a man, also Justine Musk | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/22 03:49 PM |
| 2 | My partner has “Peter Pan Syndrome” and I feel guilty for wanting to leave because of that.All you can do is move out | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/12/22 09:49 AM |
| 1 | How do you keep yourself from getting hurt by insensitivity of the opposite sex?You need better boundaries. If a man has an excuse for why he will not buy you a ring, tell him to get a night job but don’t agree to sex or marriage until he has one. If a man won’t have sex with you in the way you indicated, including foreplay, get up from the bed and ask him to stop. Sex from now on needs to be your way or the highway. If he grabs at you without your consent, as him to stop raping you and threaten to call the police. If you share your important topics and a man doesn’t care a… | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/11/22 09:58 PM |
| 4 | Is it even realistic/common to expect a girlfriend that will listen to your past issues and baggage, and work it through with you?Your girlfriend is not a substitute therapist | /r/ExRedPill | 29/11/22 07:31 AM |
| 2 | Men who lack ambition. What can they do to find a life partner?A woman who lives in section eight or section forty two low income housing might be amenable to a man with long term disability, underemployment or unemployment. I cannot really say she is there to provide any extreme porn starring but she might tolerate some amount of basic sex if the gentleman cleans the apartment regularly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/22 07:25 AM |
| 1 | Average women who somehow scored a very attractive man a few years earlier who left them and now they won’t lower their standardsThat’s my situation, my husband passed away. If I can’t get a good deal, I will prefer to live alone. There is no life of unsatisfactory settling , just a choice to be alone while the hunt goes on for as long as it takes, no particular hurry. There is no point of capitulation where I would start boinking a loser just to say, I wasn’t alone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/22 06:35 AM |
| 3 | The last posts about intimacy and standards show how disconnected women is from the average men reality and how discussion is mainly a pointless effortIf the lady is self financing in the modern age, she can set the bar as high as she likes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/22 09:13 PM |
| 1 | My ex-of-sorts just told me she’s pregnant. She’s now writing me handwritten letters on behalf of the unborn child claiming a psychic link with the child. Feeling abused here but struggling because I’m finding that, as a man, it’s that much harder to be taken seriously when asking for help/adviceYou stick yer Dick in crazy | /r/MensRights | 26/11/22 05:55 AM |
| 1 | Men settle for me due to my tall height :(I look young for my age, it’s a backhanded compliment | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/22 04:35 AM |
| 6 | Do women stay in abusive relationships because they can't get better ones?Sunk cost fallacy, financial dependence, Stockholm syndrome, family pressure or misplaced religious values as well as mixed abuse alternating with other positives such as hot make up sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/22 11:29 PM |
| 3 | I never understood this concept when it comes to sexI have four categories 1. Men who have money like Bill Gates. 2. Men who look like young Arnold Schwarzenegger. 3. Men who have a mind like Stephen Hawking. 4. Men who are famous and well positioned or otherwise good for career or social advancement. Think of Johnny Depp making some calls on behalf of Amber. Each case would be handed separately as far as what I am hoping to get from the situation. Obviously the extreme ultimate porn star super deluxe pussy train would not be immediately revved i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/22 01:52 PM |
| 1 | It doesn’t matter the level of attractiveness of a woman, they ALL still only find attractive men attractiveAt age 56, I may be old but I am not complete blind yet | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/22 06:04 AM |
| 6 | Is it possible to marry a rich man as my goals (F 23)?Try to work as an airline hostess/ stewardess to meet men flying in first class | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/11/22 06:02 AM |
| 1 | Do you actually receive tons of flirting, orbiting and puppying attempts by guys every day just by you going about with your daily routine, hence validating the frustration written by men online about women being utterly spoiled for choice?In Las Vegas Nevada there are abundant thirsty scrotes but nobody wants an actual relationship | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/22 10:38 AM |
| 1 | I will never fit in any society because I don't find the modern lifestyle appealingI will talk to you on the topics you suggested. DM me if you are interested | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/11/22 08:03 PM |
| 1 | Why is it constantly asserted that all women have to be constantly in “fear for their lives” of being assaulted, raped or killed by men despite most men being harmless?Why are mailmen cautious around dogs? Most Dobermans don’t actually bite, only some of them do that | /r/MensRights | 12/11/22 09:48 PM |
| 1 | How are women supposed to solve the sexlessness issue?If women sold themselves then there wouldn’t be sexlessness only financial complaints of being underfunded | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/22 06:02 AM |
| 1 | Question about the incel conceptInspin, involuntary spinster | /r/MensRights | 12/11/22 04:29 AM |
| 7 | Women often complain about lack of male friendships and getting "fuckzoned". But the truth is, women generally just aren't as good of friends as men.I have provided a long car ride for a male friend more than once. I have sent items shipped from Amazon to a male friends in the hospital once and another time for one who recently who got out of the hospital. I have paid the check for a mixed group at a restaurant more than once. I bought a pharmacy prescription for a homeless man once. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/22 09:46 PM |
| 9 | My boyfriend called me used up…Next time limit your dating to six months for him to start talking about a future, nine months to produce an engagement ring and one year to set the date for marriage ceremony. Ask twenty carefully thought questions on the first date and follow up questions on the next three dates. At any point be prepared to cut your losses and move on | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/11/22 09:56 AM |
| 1 | Online dating for women is just f*cking ridiculousAny woman who is above a four will have her choice on the dating apps | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/22 07:58 AM |
| 1 | Are women just overwhelmed with the dating options they have, or do they truly dislike the majority of them?There is a great cesspool of eager candidates each one more worthless than the next | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/22 11:21 PM |
| 2 | My marriage is falling apart and I don’t know where to begin to fix it.I am a retired lady with no family. If you were in my neighborhood I would help clean the kitchen | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/11/22 09:43 PM |
| 1 | Leaving my husband alone with the babyAnxiety producing noise is stressful so maybe hubby needs a “safety plan” for how best to handle this. It’s also important to understand crying is normal and this is to be expected from a baby; it’s what they do | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/11/22 09:27 PM |
| 8 | Are men wishing to avoid relationships in droves?Online many men just say “Do you want to meet up for some naughty fun?” They clearly don’t want an actual relationship and as a woman I don’t have a choice in the matter. I could whore myself out or not whore myself out but there is no path to a relationship | /r/ExRedPill | 07/11/22 01:07 AM |
| 2 | Why are so many women unashamed of being overweight in OLD?For some people dating is not about finding their looks match, it’s about other things as well. If there was a hung stud with serious credit card debt living in his car with no job, and a barely a high school education then who cares how many hours he spent in the gym? Who cares if I am fat, when he is unemployed? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/22 12:35 AM |
| 48 | Should I text my ex?No humble pie, no eating crow, just get on with your life | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/11/22 05:40 AM |
| 7 | I was committed to celibacy but have given in to him twice. How do I regain control of the situation?If any woman didn’t want to have sex, she wouldn’t be heading back to his place | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/11/22 12:01 AM |
| 18 | Do women care about a man’s sexual past?If a man had been a regular customer at the brothel then I would not want to do the job for no money right afterwards | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/22 11:44 PM |
| 3 | If hypothetically, female participation in the Job market drives down the value of male labor- creating an economy requiring Dual income households. Why do SOME women get upset about splitting bills or going “50/50” ?I won’t date dutch 50/50 because I could eat alone for that price | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/22 11:22 PM |
| 1 | How do attractive women pick a man to commit to?Not everyone is perennially looking for the bigger better deal. This is a personality trait that some people have. In my case it was about the value of my time to marry now or go back to square one and start over. Is the process vetting a million people out all that fun? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/22 05:34 PM |
| 6 | How much does leaving parents and living alone improve dating chances?No improvement in dating chances while you are living in your car | /r/ExRedPill | 05/11/22 05:13 PM |
| 6 | what's happened here, someone help me understandThe men online use a buckshot approach to online dating | /r/MensRights | 04/11/22 04:28 AM |
| 1 | What should I doThis is the beginning of the end, it’s about to be over | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/11/22 02:43 AM |
| 7 | Women who have dated or is dating a man who have claimed to RP what were the Red Flags and negative traits that you found in him and have you ever spoken to them about it?It’s best not to date men with massive IRS tax debt, high credit card debt, student loan debt, gambling debt or child support substantially in arrears. | /r/ExRedPill | 29/10/22 12:57 AM |
| 5 | Can you tell when you've encountered a "post-wall woman?" What are they like?I put up a dating profile at age 56, and I got 187 messages in the first four hours. Every single wanker west of the Rocky Mountains wanted some of this post menopausal action | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/22 04:44 AM |
| 19 | Help! My husband and I are at a complete gridlock as it relates to personal belonging boundaries.His house? Where do you live that you have no legal residency in the marital home? | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/10/22 09:39 PM |
| 1 | What is the female equivalent of height on a guy?No youth | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/22 04:19 PM |
| 1 | men who care about a women's body count, how would you even know what it is?I knew a woman worked as a licensed professional prostitute in Nevada but the clients all wore latex condoms. At age 54, she was treated for MRSA with IV vancomycin at an infusion lounge so she bought some probiotics to repopulate her gut bacteria and she used them to give herself an enema Probably this throws off the results of her virginity test | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/22 10:14 AM |
| 3 | why don't older men take younger men to brothels anymoreThe brothel is not designed as a “school” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/22 02:22 PM |
| 2 | Is it considered a female privilege that almost all women have access to live out all of their fetishes/sexual fantasies in real time with only the slightest of efforts?The men if FetLife are disrespectful and they don’t want to pay for a restaurant or provide a residence | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/22 01:27 PM |
| 1 | Have you ever turned a woman down for her body count?Some of the licensed prostitutes who staff the legal bordellos in the US state of Nevada are married. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/22 10:13 PM |
| 10 | I wonder what marriage looks like for me, I want to relaxI will vote for no legal marriage license with manbaby | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/10/22 09:12 PM |
| 2 | Female colleague at work told me "Imagine how great it would be if all men stopped existing for like, a month..."I agreed to go on a date with someone from online dating but my date stood me up. On my walk home some Wierdo made a series of right turns driving slowly and rubbernecking out the window of his car. WouldI be wrong to say that online dating is potentially dangerous? If I got bitten by a particular dog breed that was known for biting would I be wrong to say let’s not have such an animal in the house with our newborn baby? You do learn from past experiences | /r/MensRights | 19/10/22 09:09 PM |
| 2 | When women find most men ugly, it's because they overrate their own attractiveness due to desperate men and the added benefit of makeupAs an elderly grandmother I can still se which men are attractive and my view of men hasn’t changed because my own appearance changed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/22 08:48 PM |
| 1 | If women approached men more, would there be less men identifying as incels?A man may feel emasculated if a woman asks for his phone number, calls him, plans the date, asks him out, picks him up for the date in her car, brings him flowers, opens the door, pulls out a chair, takes his coat, orders from the menu, pays the check, walks him to his doorstep and kisses him goodnight. Some men may feel uncomfortable in their manhood with all that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/22 06:34 PM |
| 1 | What is a good Monthly allowance amount?Make it a percentage of his income | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/10/22 05:39 PM |
| 1 | The lock and key analogy is irrational, because it entails a premise that isn't agreed upon to begin withMaternity is historically certain, whereas paternity is historically uncertain, this is how mate guarding evolved. Men will maximize their genetic contribution to the next generation whereas becoming cucked works against those same interests | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/22 04:05 PM |
| 3 | Even women well into their 30s and 40s think they can afford to be insanely selective, often even more so than younger far more attractive girlsI don’t necessarily think I can afford to be selective at age 56, what I am thinking is that taking on the responsibility for a husband is a big job and I am fairly comfortable living where I am right now. It would take a good offer to make me give up living alone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/22 12:29 AM |
| 8 | Can someone explain the whole alpha fucks/beta bucks thing to me? Do you think it’s real? What are your thoughts. It sounds downright terrifying.Okay so I dated a retired air-force pilot back in 2017 He was former state department and a lot of people seemed to defer to him. His attitude of being top brass came with a certain obnoxious bossy personality constantly quarterbacking people about. His general demeanor and military bearing often includes barking out orders in a mildly impolite tone. I am a woman he is dating not a new recruit obviously. He never says please or thank you. He was a Purple Heart veteran who got his nose shot off i… | /r/ExRedPill | 18/10/22 07:01 PM |
| 2 | Why is porn hated by so many women?You people who lack social skills are engaging in a workaround solution to replace the most intimate human experience | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 06:20 PM |
| -2 | Mamas boys are easily the least datable personality type of man imaginable, and it's not talked about nearly enoughI would extend these observations beyond the mother to say that if the man lives with anybody, anybody at all there may be a problem. If he doesn’t live completely alone he may be in a pathological codependent “enabling” relationship with that person. It’s possible that he may even be an under ambitious “parasitic” personality type who will remain financially dependent on someone or conversely the aging mother or young adult son daughter step daughter or sister or whomever may be siphoning resou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 07:22 AM |
| 0 | Why is if considered offensive to ask women what they bring to the table?It’s a tit for tat type of deflection of the conversation The lady is asking a legitimate question and the gentleman doesn’t like the direction the conversation is going so he “negs” her and takes the spotlight of of himself to hear her ass sizzle in the hot seat. I like to say that I would prefer to offer nothing at this point in exchange for the nothing he brings to the table. That shuts him down. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/22 08:15 PM |
| 1 | CMV: if women's preferences can "evolve" over time, then so can men's.Leopards don’t change their spots. If a man was whoring around for two decades he won’t change his pattern and probably can’t | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/22 07:54 AM |
| 1 | The average guy should not be frustrated at the selective nature of average Woman as he would act no differently if the tables where turned.“Inflated ego” is your speculation about causality of the woman’s decisions. I would not scuttle the situation I have now unless there was a valid offer on the table. The default option is to remain at my present location. Your assumption that some worthless scrote somewhere will inevitably be selected for the pussy opportunity regardless of being broke and unattractive is mistaken. When I put up a dating profile I am fielding offers. If no offer is forthcoming I continue to live here. Comically… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/22 03:59 PM |
| 1 | Women want to make all of these ridiculous rules, be insanely selective and play well above their league but then refuse to acknowledge that the ONLY thing affording them this luxury is that men are significantly hornierEven if a woman was horney it doesn’t necessarily mean she is sponsoring a distress fire sale on her pussy. She could manage her situation for a few months while she shops around for a good deal | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/22 01:17 PM |
| 8 | men who think "if a woman can get an abortion, I should be able to not pay child support or to not be a father for them"Pregnancy is rarely a unilateral decision, men generally participate in earliest stage of the process | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/22 11:08 PM |
| 1 | What factors determine a woman's attractiveness?Age is a huge factor. Even a well maintained older woman won’t get marriage proposals. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/22 08:58 PM |
| 1 | Is this a safe strategy for a man to have a family with a woman these days?I am a grandmother and I have raised children. It’s time consuming and requires patience. Children are emotional and cry a lot. They make frequent messes. They are hard work to care for and quite expensive. They cannot be left alone for the first ten years, and things can go wrong fast, even when you’re in the shower or on the phone. It’s a huge undertaking to go into this entire project alone. Domestic employees are not fun to manage. There is a fair amount of high stakes liability if a mistake… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/22 08:56 PM |
| 24 | Is this a safe strategy for a man to have a family with a woman these days?It’s all very speculative that you can find a woman to carry your children while you play the role of a commitment phobic Peter Pan and refuse to marry her. Nonetheless she agrees to cohabitation in the state of Kentucky and she diligently cleans house, while working a job to pay bills. She keeps fit while undergoing multiple back to back pregnancies. She regularly drains your ballsack turning a blind eye to your sociopathy while not exploring her options with other men who are potentially marri… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/22 03:06 PM |
| -10 | What factors determine a woman's attractiveness?I agree 100%. Hourglass figure, youth and inexperience | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/22 02:51 PM |
| 2 | What's the male equivalent of a promiscuous woman?Punter. Coomer. John. Pornography addict | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/22 01:12 PM |
| 1 | Is being “BB”, settled for, or being seen as the “safe/stable” guy a valid concern?Let’s imagine that I was lucky enough to get set up on a date with British Astrophysicist Stephen Hawking, and he came to my front door in his wheelchair. Maybe I could imagine myself enjoying some fine dining with a man of such great intellect. It would be an honor and a privilege to listen to him speak. We could spend time with his intellectual friends and have truly high level conversations at dinner parties. I could imagine the prestige of myself being seen with him, I could imagine myself w… | /r/ExRedPill | 08/10/22 05:47 PM |
| 20 | Why do many women no longer desire sex after marriage?The dead bedrooms subreddit has plenty of examples of low libido men married to high libido women. It could be either | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/22 07:41 AM |
| 1 | Military DivorceNegotiate for joint custody | /r/MensRights | 04/10/22 06:08 AM |
| 0 | A man reaches the age of 30 without ever experiencing sex, intimacy, or a romantic relationship (30 year old virgin). What is your initial honest reaction / assumption, can his life be corrected, and what advice would you give?Buy me a big fancy house and I will hug you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/22 10:48 PM |
| 3 | When the good guy is also very sexual too earlyIn general it’s not a good idea to get in a man’s car or meet him at a hotel, nor any private residence neither a friends house nor his place nor yours nor anyplace private especially not a room with a bed in it until you’re ready for sex to happen. Just arrange your own transportation to the restaurant and your own transportation home. Only plan lunch type dates for mid day. That will help solve the problem. | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/10/22 06:58 PM |
| 1 | Woman accidentally kills herself, men who tried to help get arrestedYou may have heard of a television show featuring a “bait car”. The car is left conspicuously available with it’s key in the ignition. Various random passers by are tempted to try to steal the car but when they do drive off they are on camera the whole time. Well, in Las Vegas there is now a seemingly abandoned “bait purse”. So, if you see a weird purse perched invitingly in a public location don’t go into it looking for an address so you can ship it back to it’s owner. No, just pretend you didn… | /r/MensRights | 02/10/22 11:49 AM |
| 5 | Weird ass question, but why don’t women like to be treated like objects?If a person was objectified they could be reduced to the sum of their parts: an age, a race, a cup size, an earnings potential, a skin tone, a virginity, a fertility, a health status, a penis size, a height, a weight, a bank account, a profession, a square footage, a family name, a caste, a circumcision, a top tier city, an upscale neighborhood, an educational level, a citizenship, a passport, an intelligence quotient, an income bracket, a clothing brand, a student loan debt, or a type of hosier… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/22 01:18 PM |
| 2 | If women are allowed to abort, men should also have the right to relinquish their parental rights.I believe the universal basic income might be one solution to this problem. I certainly don’t see a world where babies who didn’t ask to be born will be allow to die of hunger in the streets | /r/MensRights | 30/09/22 07:52 AM |
| 5 | How do I find out what makes him crazy?Yeah. Ask him what you did right to deserve that good time in the bedroom | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/09/22 06:22 AM |
| 4 | What’s your dating profile bio?Men typically don’t read my profile In my profile I wrote summerlin area widow lady retired non smoking non drinking no kids etc and they ask how long have you been divorced? What time are you off work today? So what do you do? 420 friendly? Where you stay at? Wanna grab drinks? | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/09/22 05:02 AM |
| 1 | What are some reasons someone would be attracted to you, that you would be offended by?I would be willing to be your platonic telephone only friend and never ask for money | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/22 05:28 PM |
| 1 | Do some women don't mind being a single mother?If I had plenty of money I might consider becoming a client of the repository for germinal choice in Escondido California. I don’t necessarily see myself Tinder dating anytime | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/22 04:00 PM |
| 0 | Which Would You PickDefinitely not the second. Possibly not either | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/22 03:27 PM |
| 0 | What age does it start to become 'weird' to still be a virgin? When does it go from "that's cute" to a red flag to a dealbreaker?Age 25 is where I might wonder if the person is emotionally stunted or socially unusual or psychologically damaged in some way. If the person had a physical or medical problem or a logistical problem that could explain their predicament. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/22 02:36 PM |
| 8 | Not only is past promiscuity a good predictor of infidelity it accounts for twice as much variance in infidelity in women as in men.I knew a man who tried to date a “masseuse” and she never wanted to “work” on her days off It seemed she had enough of laboring | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/22 05:42 AM |
| 0 | Why are there so many gendered slurs for women, but not as many for men?Foid | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/22 01:52 AM |
| 1 | Belief systemsI converted to a different denomination because of family harmony. My first boyfriend experienced Peter Pan Syndrome and wasted seven years of my time. The second boyfriend was a reaction to the previous problem. He wanted kids and was ready willing and able to marry me without delay. He had a great career, MENSA IQ, was super tall and handsome, great in the sack, and wasted no time buying us a nice house. We became the first family to live in brand new construction in a sunny climate. He wanted… | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/09/22 12:16 AM |
| 2 | How to deal with intrusive yet sweet girl?Use the phrase “It’s private” or “Stay tuned for a future announcement” or “You will have to wait until you’re married one day to know that” | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/09/22 09:51 PM |
| 1 | Apparently, women were seen as the hornier sex for much of HistoryHaving sex to stop some one from going to war would make these women the manipulative sex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/22 05:23 AM |
| 3 | Q4W: Would you be mad if a man you liked a lot made you wait for sex?I have had men say this but in the end they don’t mean it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/22 05:02 AM |
| 7 | Does society (and most women) not understand, or even really care about male loneliness?When people think about loneliness they first think about the elderly as being the most obvious demographic of person to be lonely. Furthermore if the lonely male is gaining sexperience would be one reason why a woman would avoid that man and let him hire a service. Why should she buy into his lonely narrative when he is just broke and horney | /r/ExRedPill | 26/09/22 11:21 AM |
| 2 | Q4W: Do you care whether or not a man has been “run through”?Here in Las Vegas some men are seasoned experienced “punters” familiar to the the local prostitution industry. There would be an obvious concern for any woman who might consider dating such a sex addict. One such concern would be the financial misallocation of his resources because whoring is an expensive hobby. Assuming a lady did waste her time getting to know him, how likely is it that he going to form any type of lasting emotional bond? Will he ever provide a home and a stable future for any… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/22 11:34 AM |
| 1 | What is a "bad personality," and how do women automatically know you have one before you even talk to them?Well, let’s give an example. I post a profile on a dating app, and it indicates that I live in Las Vegas Nevada. Now let’s say a man messages me and his first message says “What side of town are you on?” Well, the lady might begin to think he isn’t really interested in long term but he only wants somewhere convenient to swing by on the weekends. It sounds like he is really trying hard to save money on gasoline, and he is calculating out the multiplied total cost of many trips. Dating isn’t cheap… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/22 04:06 AM |
| 1 | Many men like to talk about how women end up in abusive relationships because they "pick the wrong men". So let's hear it, how would YOU pick the right man if you were a woman.If I was to move in as a married woman then the rules of the marital home would be mutually negotiated. I would be thinking of it as “our house”. There would not be a supreme dictator making rules, nor a debate over whether his autocratic rules were reasonable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/22 06:02 AM |
| 1 | What is a "high value" male?Not commitment phobic, ready for a whirlwind courtship leading directly to long term marriage and kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 06:02 PM |
| 50 | Many men like to talk about how women end up in abusive relationships because they "pick the wrong men". So let's hear it, how would YOU pick the right man if you were a woman.I spoke on the phone to one random dude off a dating app and he began telling about the rules of “his house”. It’s an early indication that he doesn’t see a need for negotiation or partnership. There are red flags, foreshadowing, tells, hints, early warning signs that people pick up on but may ignore for various reasons. One reason is they may feel overeager to be in a relationship | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 07:19 AM |
| 2 | Women tell men to stick to their league, but women are attracted to the type of men - those out of their leagueIf the situation is one of a modern employed woman on Tinder seeking hook up sex, you subtract out the idea of stable male providership and looks matching is all you have left. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/22 05:57 PM |
| 1 | Why aren't friendships required (or at the very least encouraged) before ALSO entering a relationship?I prefer a courtship, not a friendship | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/22 02:45 AM |
| 3 | Would most college-aged women be willing to date a 30+ year old man, or are they an anomaly?I believe the embittered divorced men boasting on social media isn’t fully truthful in every case. For example Tom Leykis was telling a story on his podcast when he made a brief mention of some young woman he met while he was staying in a hotel and claimed to have sex with her the same night. When I heard the word hotel I imagined that the unspoken detail of this story is prostitution. Meeting and fucking women who charge $300 for the first carefully clocked hour latex condoms mandatory is a dif… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/22 09:09 PM |
| 0 | Have you ever cheated or felt the urge to, if so, why? (no judgement, just curious)Kids, money, not having another person willing to commit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/22 07:31 AM |
| 1 | A lot of men in this sub say they have been berated and humiliated by women for making a moveI think it’s a good idea to ask the person directly one time for a restaurant date as opposed to stalking them and or orbiting about like the creepy delusional weirdo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/22 08:43 AM |
| 4 | "Men aren't entitled to getting laid!" is a lazy, intellectually dishonest red herring intended to derail discussion. The root of the difficulties young men face in dating is finding fulfilling romantic companionship, not getting laid.Whomever wrote this post, I suggest a social experiment involving a woman’s profile on a dating app and then you will see how few sensitive caring souls in need of human contact message you compared to the preponderance of lowballing blue ballers | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/22 08:51 PM |
| 0 | Sexual ignorance is better for long-term partnershipsI had a similar thought about how watching porn May make men unrealistic. They don’t want an hour of basic vanilla twice a week from the farmer’s daughter because they conflate human sexuality with carefully choreographed paid performances delivered by trained actresses in surgically modified bodies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/22 06:50 AM |
| 3 | What do you think the average bodycount is for a 25 year old college girl in 2022 ?I had three at age 22 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/22 05:40 AM |
| 1 | What is your opinion on men who will not marry women whose parents are divorced?Some studies have looked into what predicts a probability for divorce. Age at first sex, multiplicity of previous partners, previous divorces herself, unplanned early single motherhood, lack of education, financial poverty, length of time dating before marriage, age at marriage, tendencies towards substance abuse, marital status of parents, lack of religious values, history of sexual molestation, history of working in a sexually commodified trade such as a sugar baby, a go-go dancer, stripper, p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/22 07:42 AM |
| 2 | Women fuck emotionally distant men, and keep "good communicators" in the friendzoneI have been known to call a chat line after becoming a widow just to talk but never to meet anyone. If I were to become romantically involved with no strings the gent would be extremely handsome. If I were to get married my new husband would be extremely wealthy. I don’t believe in “friendship bucks” that are redeemed for pussy. Fake friendship is a form of phony Monopoly game money as I see the situation. I figure if the friendship is so true and real and speaks for itself then lets be friends.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/22 06:26 AM |
| 1 | Why shouldn't EVERY guy prefer a virgin for a serious commitment?I read a story on the dead bedroom subreddit posted by a religious man who married his girlfriend after a hands off courtship and the relationship never turned the corner. I think in this day and age you would have to ask why is this girl a virgin at whatever age she is at? Going forward is that quite possibly her general mindset and disposition to be low libido, hung up, frigid, not sexually open minded or generally not into men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/22 05:56 AM |
| 2 | How to be kind without leading men on?As a single woman in Las Vegas, I have learned that men approaching me with meaningless pointless conversational patter is a learned technique to case you out and get a window into how your thinking works to see what leverage or psychological advantage they can gain. They are "building trust and rapport " which frequently segues to a creeping sexual advance. As far as I am concerned all the pointless rapport in the world plus $5.00 will buy you a cup of coffee. As the young woman already decided… | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/07/16 02:50 PM |
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