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| 16 | Women SHOULD only aim to reproduce with the top 20% of menThat is true. You’d have to burst a lot of men’s bubbles that 90% of Instagram hotties were in fact average before the lip filler, Botox, brow lifts, rhinoplasty, cheek filler. Etc. And those yassified traits will not be passed down. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/24 06:00 PM |
| 2 | Normal men don't care about women who are attracted to terrible people.The only men horrified by this are the ones who feel they need a endless carousel of barely legal pussy until they die of old age and are disgusted at the thought that some might just not be a virgin anymore. Those men will never be satisfied. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/24 08:50 PM |
| 1 | Women shouldn't give average guys a chance in their youthAre you the same guy who posted yesterday that all women over 25 should basically yeet themselves off the planet, because whether single or in a relationship all men will despise them because women don’t possess the power to halt the natural passage of time? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/24 06:50 PM |
| – | Men aren't attracted to their aging partnersOr just women over 30 period. Cuz like OP said, all men apparently hate/ throw up at the site of their wives and girlfriends once they’re no longer in their 20’s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/24 01:32 AM |
| 10 | Men aren't attracted to their aging partnersThis mind set just shoots men in the foot. Why tell women they have a no win situation once they pass the age of 25? It makes the single cat lady scenario you all use to try and shame single women look like the best option over all - and it’s been proven time and time again that it’s women who thrive being single while men do not. Men are already frustrated and enraged that more women don’t offer their time and bodies to them whenever they please (just look anywhere on the internet). So why are … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/24 07:08 PM |
| 5 | Women are poor communicatorsIt’s a little bit more nuanced then that. The majority of my personal communication issues with men is that men often don’t want to acknowledge that there’s an issue that needs to be addressed- specifically if it their own actions that need addressing. I can recount more times than I’d like when I’ve practically given my partners a full power point presentation over an issue that’s bothered me and why (complete with a list of solutions) only to be brushed off/ ignored completely. Usually because… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/24 06:08 PM |
| 0 | CMV: Males should stop walking away from marriageThis is ironic coming from the sub that bends over backwards to find reasons that make it ok for men to cheat | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/24 07:01 PM |
| -4 | “More women should start approaching men” and the average guy would still be invisibleWomen approach men they’re attracted to. If she’s not talking to you she ain’t into you. Women are not like men who will let anything or everyone, no matter how nasty and disgusting, plow them even if they are desperately and obscenely horny. Simple as that. End of story. We can all go home now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/24 09:18 PM |
| 5 | “More women should start approaching men” and the average guy would still be invisibleCan’t tell if you’re a troll or obscenely obtuse | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/24 09:13 PM |
| 2 | Why is there a belief that a lot of men have it easy?I think so too. The one thing I believe men do have the upper hand on is how society finds male promiscuity acceptable and normal. Take any debate on N count as a prime example | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/24 04:25 AM |
| – | Women are championed for their preferences while men are demonizedThis is why I taped out of this sub for so long. It’s so over run with red pill losers that believe the ideal relationship with a woman is one who has no thoughts or agency, and hides herself away so he doesn’t have to acknowledge her existence unless he wants his dick sucked. If women ask for basic human respect that’s somehow too much for them to handle. “But women are so entitled they only want rich Chads with 8 packs in sports cars! Waaah!!” Fuck off with that noise. Red pill men are the one… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/24 09:32 PM |
| 3 | The Big Difference of Aging between Men vs Women is...Women have never dressed well or put on makeup for men. It’s to show all the other girlies within a ten mile radius who the hottest of them all is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/24 12:33 AM |
| 17 | Men adapt to women's needs therefore women are the problemI really miss when this was a debate board and not men blaming women for all their personal problems in life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/24 09:38 PM |
| 5 | Girls always shame you for approaching or “hitting on” multiple women, sharing screenshots of their dms trying to humiliate you but men are FORCED to cast a wide net due to the fact that most women are taken or “uninterested.”So it’s a dammed if you do, dammed if you don’t situation. She’s said “no” and is single: pressure her until she says yes She’s says “no” and is in a relationship: pressure her because she could be lying or bf/husband isn’t there Why not just stop at “no” and the move on? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 09:25 PM |
| 16 | Girls always shame you for approaching or “hitting on” multiple women, sharing screenshots of their dms trying to humiliate you but men are FORCED to cast a wide net due to the fact that most women are taken or “uninterested.”Always said by the one’s who believe “men and women can’t be friends.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 07:21 PM |
| 9 | Men who regularly do the dumping are high value.Yes, this whole post reeks of “putting these sub-human women back in their place makes me a big boy!” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/24 06:25 PM |
| 2 | What is a red pill and a blue pill opinion you have?As long as you don’t have sex. Sex ruins all friendships. I have a mutual deal with all my long term guy friends that we never have sex strictly because because we want to still be friends in the ten years. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/24 02:54 AM |
| 1 | What is a red pill and a blue pill opinion you have?Red pill: if you think it’s ok to only be nice to women so you can use them for sex, it’s only fair for men to foot the bill for her. No perks, no sex. Blue pill: a 40yr old man has nothing in common with a 20 yr old woman. She will eventually leave you for someone her own age no matter how much of a catch you think you are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/24 02:51 AM |
| 0 | I am thoroughly confused by the current sexual landscape.I’ve heard that a black Amex provides the best lubricant with a 100% success rate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/24 09:46 PM |
| 1 | Men are wanting women they don't measure up to and women are getting tired of dealing with it which is the main cause of issues between them.Idk why men always think women want giant roided monsters. 99% don’t. Men want themselves to be steroid jacked. Women want men who are healthy and don’t look like complete slobs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/24 05:13 PM |
| -2 | The Rise Of Male Subcultures is Disheartening.Lolz, you realize that mentality does the exact opposite. That mentality had created inc*ls I wouldn’t call them the most happy, mentally healthy dudes out there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/23 09:31 PM |
| -4 | The Rise Of Male Subcultures is Disheartening.Yes, because blaming women for men not getting laid is productive and healthy and should be encouraged. Carry on then | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/23 09:25 PM |
| -5 | The Rise Of Male Subcultures is Disheartening.They need to talk about their problems and feelings in a more productive and healthy way than simply laying the blame for everything wrong with their lives on “Chad” and women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/23 08:26 PM |
| – | Men are constantly told they overrate their appearance but you very rarely see men do this, and women do this to such a greater degree that it is classic projectionIt’s like OP saw a random woman sitting with her girlfriends hyping each other up and thought, “how dare these delusional women call each other pretty.” They legit don’t think women fully realize they way our female friends look at us is thru a completely different lens then how men see us. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/23 03:23 PM |
| – | The worst quality for a good man to have is EmpathyHave we seriously gone full circle where showing your partner just a small glimmer of hope that you might give a shit about them beyond using them to get your rocks off is now bad? Do know what a real relationship between two adults is? This is a serious question. Because if you don’t care about your partner your not in a relationship with them. You’re fuck buddies at best. The very basic foundation of a relationship is empathy and caring for the comfort and happiness of your partner ALONG WITH … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/23 03:18 AM |
| 1 | Men are wanting women they don't measure up to and women are getting tired of dealing with it which is the main cause of issues between them.I’d be cool with that as long as all the men I’m dating are also slim with a six pack, have zero baby mamas, and stay young and sexy forever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 06:35 PM |
| 1 | Does tattoos increase men SMV to high quality girls?Heavily depends on the tattoo. A shitty tattoo (or multiple shitty tattoos) will really drag your fuckability down to the level of “women who are a 5 with make up and habitually makes bad decisions (probably has multiple kids each with a different father), has an OF, or is a BPD hoe looking to get knocked up so she can tie you down.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 08:36 PM |
| 1 | What's wrong with average men?I never said looks didn’t matter. They obviously do but I think you answered the question yourself; everyone have a different threshold for what they consider attractive. So the harsh reality is that you will have to meet a lot of women before you find one where the chemistry matches from both sides. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 03:22 PM |
| 1 | What's wrong with average men?This claim from a small group of extremists is very different from reality. Obviously it not happening. If it was you all wouldn’t be bitching about how you’re not getting laid by a new woman every night. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 03:00 PM |
| 1 | What's wrong with average men?The problem is men expect all women to fuck like men. I.e. being horny 24/7 and spreading her legs for anything that moves. (Which is contradictory to how the majority of men are uncomfortable with the thought of the women they pursue having a body count) This is the big disconnect between the sexes. When men see a women they like they’ll immediately approach with the intent of eventually fucking her. Women are not like men. They have different views on sex and attraction. Women tend to hang bac… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 10:26 PM |
| 4 | What would happen if all Men abstained from sex for a entire year?There would also be a huge influx of men identifying as women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 12:59 AM |
| 78 | What's wrong with average men?One of the most over analyzed topics here is how women have a significantly lower sex drive and aptitude to engage in quick casual sex compared to men and this a reasonable irl example of that. It’s not that women don’t like average men, aren’t attracted to average, won’t date/ have sex with average men (looks matching is real so the majority of women are going to end up with average men), it’s that women generally don’t get the spontaneous urge to get fucked by every guy they meet that slightly… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 09:34 PM |
| 1 | Men are projecting the whole 'alpha widow' thing.Last guy I dumped compared me to all his ex’s. Not just one. All of them. I was/am not like a single one of those bitches and he should have been thankful for that (because they were ex’s for a reason) instead of sizing me up against girls he claimed that in the end “weren’t good enough.” People like to say women carry around relationship baggage but men do it just as much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 04:32 PM |
| 1 | How hard do you think it actually is to date as a heterosexual man.I personally knew a guy who had a wicked combo of NPD and BPD. Couldn’t keep a single relationship for more than three months. Every woman he was with he ended up driving away and he would never admit that the problem was him. Never wanted to take a step back a think that of every women you’ve ever dated dumped you on grounds that you were a total asshole to them might actually be some truth to it. No, It was always the woman’s fault. A lot of people here like to deny that men struggle with ment… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/23 01:03 AM |
| 6 | I don't blame Deadbeat fathers as much as women, because women control almost 100% of the sexual market and still choose those menSO…. Once again, the same group whining about how all the issues with the current dating market is 100% due to women being too picky with their sexual partners/relationships and need to be more open and enthusiastic about having sex with THEM, are so quick to turn around and say all women are wanton sluts getting knocked up left and right by the lowest common denominator. I don’t even need to guess whether these guys are/would be the deadbeat dads. You just know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/23 08:16 PM |
| 3 | CMV: If you're in a happy relationship, you've "settled".I’m, yea?! Look at any post on PPD. The popular consensus is that men should always play the field and typically you can’t play the field while in a committed relationship. Theres been at least a dozen threads that conflate this myth about how relationships instantly lead to dead bedrooms. You can’t rotate multiple women when your tied down to one. Even guys who push the statistic that the majority of men are lonely encourage for men to stay single, prioritizing casual sex with multiple partners… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/23 01:25 AM |
| 10 | CMV: If you're in a happy relationship, you've "settled".Too them we need to be constantly looking for the next “best” thing and never find real satisfaction. And it’s this frame of thinking that makes it hard for me to pity men who complain about how men are always alone. They’re voluntarily keeping themselves single and miserable to chase an unobtainable fantasy of perfection and for the sake of the game. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 04:22 PM |
| 1 | Are most women not sexually attracted to their partners?Would depend on what I was attracted to in the first place and what I like now because people’s tastes change. I don’t like the same guys I did when I was a teen or early 20 yr old. The exes I am still attracted to look like type of man I want and am looking for right now. For you example, if I had fasted a surfer guy, but I had way out grown that phase and became career oriented and wanted a man who was too, and said ex popped up looking like a CEO - yes, I’d be into him. If he stayed the same … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/23 08:00 PM |
| 15 | Are most women not sexually attracted to their partners?Yes, I’ve been attracted to all my partners however, I admit that sometimes the attraction fades and that’s when o know the relationship has run it’s course and it’s time to part ways. It’s just a fact of life. Not everything works out. I personally, wouldn’t stay with a man that I didn’t want to have sex with. Some ex’s though, I’m still attracted to and would be DTF in a heartbeat even though I’d never date them again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/23 02:19 AM |
| 2 | Where do above average but not hot men fall in terms of dating?This was similar to my experience with a hot guy I used to hook up with a lot a got to know pretty well. Lots of emotional baggage that caused him to have extreme commitment issues and personal insecurities, relationships he had were extremely unstable, substance abuse issues, etc. On the surface he looked like the type of Chad all the guys here want to be: hot, had abs, lots of money. But this man would break down into tears about how he felt he wasn’t good enough and would pass up countless op… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/23 06:43 PM |
| 0 | You’re only a “dancing monkey” if the woman isn’t dancing backOk, it seems like you don’t know the difference between an survey from OkCupid with an agenda to push and a creditable non-biased academic study. Good luck out there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 07:39 PM |
| -1 | You’re only a “dancing monkey” if the woman isn’t dancing backThat’s not a study. It’s a biased survey based on a dating app. Come back with a real study from a credible academic source that proves women think 80% of all men are unattractive and then I might believe you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 07:35 PM |
| 2 | You’re only a “dancing monkey” if the woman isn’t dancing backStill waiting on these groundbreaking studies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 07:17 PM |
| 3 | You’re only a “dancing monkey” if the woman isn’t dancing backLink to studies? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 06:27 PM |
| 4 | You’re only a “dancing monkey” if the woman isn’t dancing backFrom my observation, men will say this because they don’t like knowing that some men they deem average or unattractive get laid and they don’t. So they conflate some made up statistic that all women think all but Henry Cavill tier men are unattractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 06:01 PM |
| 3 | You’re only a “dancing monkey” if the woman isn’t dancing backDo men really think all women are wooden dolls who are completely incapable of independent thought, expression, emotion, and lack any and all personality? The answers from men seem to think so. I’ve seen lots of women act the fool around guys they want to bang and those guys weren’t the top 20% (unless getting hit on as a man automatically gets you into the top 20% club regardless or physical or monetary attributes). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 03:23 PM |
| 0 | You’re only a “dancing monkey” if the woman isn’t dancing backYou’re in a sub where the unspoken rule is that men can’t be blamed for anything and are never wrong. Welcome to the biggest non- debate sub on Reddit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 03:13 PM |
| 3 | Why would a woman marry young if her husband will eventually end up lusting after younger women?Can’t do that! Then women are being too choosy and not picking the “right” guys. But if the “right” guy cheats with a younger women it’s not his fault because he biologically hard wired to seek out as many breedable women as possible. One women not being able to satisfy him isn’t something he can control. It’s the woman’s fault because the “right” guy she chose was actually a “bad boy” and women should know the difference. /s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 10:11 PM |
| -1 | Why would a woman marry young if her husband will eventually end up lusting after younger women?It’s almost like… men are human beings capable of love. Idk why this sub likes to paint all men like they’re helpless slaves to their sex drives and “biology” to the point where the concept of loving one person is completely lost to them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 09:57 PM |
| 0 | Should a person in a relationship be allowed to see other people if their partner doesn't want sex?That’s life though. Sometimes life hands you shitty cards. And just because that happened to someone you know doesn’t mean that every man who gets divorced will suffer horribly. In fact, a lot of men who get divorced enter new relationships that do end up working for them and make them happier. It’s not an excuse to say, “welp, this sucks but I might as well just suffer it.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/23 07:28 PM |
| 2 | Should a person in a relationship be allowed to see other people if their partner doesn't want sex?And that’s more important than your happiness? Not ever partner will agree with one going out and banging half the town. And if still do that knowing this you’re only making your own life miserable. So first PPD is saying that dead bedrooms are the worst thing possible and should be grounds for ending relationships and now tour saying that you SHOULD suffer a dead bedroom because x,y,z. Humans constantly make sacrifices to be happy. If a break up, alimony, etc. is needed in order for you to live… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/23 06:29 PM |
| 6 | Should a person in a relationship be allowed to see other people if their partner doesn't want sex?Break it off. I’m serious. Why being in a relationship you’re not happy with? This shouldn’t even be a debate. A healthy relationship is where both partners are happy being together. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/23 05:41 PM |
| 1 | Except for gym, i don't see TRP helping men get laid, at least honestly.How a lot these men don’t want to have kids is probably for the better. Lol! Like nature trying to right itself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/23 07:57 PM |
| 1 | Except for gym, i don't see TRP helping men get laid, at least honestly.Then you have empathy and a conscious and those seem to be a foreign concepts to a lot of these guys. I’d say the biggest flaws of TRP is that they don’t consider what makes a good partner outside of money, status, and looks (though many will argue mens looks won’t matter as long as they have money). It’s like money and status are the get out a jail free card for all their worst behavior. Take Andrew Tate for example. If you go around thinking that people have a problem with you because they’re … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/23 07:21 PM |
| 1 | Except for gym, i don't see TRP helping men get laid, at least honestly.You’ve got to understand, none of the guys care if they’re being honest. They’re doing see it as wrong because in the end it gets them what they want. I’ve hung around PPD for a long time and literally nothing will change their minds. They believe that they will live their best life going through an endless stream of new women well into old age. A lot of them will probably grow out of it as peoples values and outlooks tend to change with time, but as it stands now, they believe this is the only … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/23 06:14 PM |
| 2 | The problem with online dating is just that it breaks dating dynamics and only promotes one piece of the piePictures can convey a lot about a person’s personality. If you like hiking and are an outdoorsy person post a pic of you enjoying hiking or being out with nature. If you like food post a picture of you at a restaurant or cooking (women love men who can cook or grill a good steak). The pic will always be what someone initially sees but if it’s you doing someone fun or something that whoever’s viewing your pic has an mutual interest in it will make them pause to read your profile. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/23 03:59 PM |
| 1 | Except for gym, i don't see TRP helping men get laid, at least honestly.I think what your trying to say in the title is TRP helps men attract clout chasers and gold diggers instead of life long partners. But that’s the thing. TRP was never about finding love. It’s always been about having casual sex with multiple women. Men aren’t attracted to TRP because they want to get married to one woman and be monogamous for the rest of their life. They want to hook up as frequently as they can and they’re happy with that lifestyle. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/23 01:59 PM |
| 11 | The problem for all of us is sex itself.BP men 100% do want sex in the same ways RP men do. The difference is they acknowledge that women are human beings with agency and they aren’t entitled to fuck any woman they see on the street purely because “me man, you woman” like the red pill does. Can we stop shaming men who treat women like anything more than mommy fleshlights? You’re whole statement is reaching so far you’ve entered another plane of existence. I think you need to log off, touch grass, and not come back for a looooooong whi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/23 11:01 PM |
| 3 | Men aging like fine wine is a myth and women "hitting the wall" is overstatedRe- read my comment. I’m specifically talking about age. I’m specifically talking about how older women are less likely to pull shit than an immature 19 yr old. You just focused on the part where I said “unless she’s mentally unstable” and ignored the rest of my comment | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/23 02:45 AM |
| 2 | Men aging like fine wine is a myth and women "hitting the wall" is overstatedLaughable because that’s exact what I said. You just blatantly ignored the part where I said evil, mentally unstable, immature (I.e. the type of women who takes advantage of everyone around her without a grain of remorse) are more likely to do that than a women who’s sane. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/23 01:57 AM |
| 2 | Men aging like fine wine is a myth and women "hitting the wall" is overstatedAnd if a 50 yr old guy married a 19 yr old she totally wouldn’t bleed him dry. Absolutely would never ask for alimony to support her hardcore drug and party lifestyle. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/23 12:59 AM |
| 2 | Men aging like fine wine is a myth and women "hitting the wall" is overstatedIf the woman is severely immature, mentally unstable, desperately trying to cling to her highschool/ college days, or just plain evil she probably could/would. Older women typically are more mature, emotionally stable, and have steady means of supporting themselves, so they’re less likely to symbolically shank men left and right than a hyper teenager who’s drunk on their own delusional feelings of celebrity and pseudo immortality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/23 12:29 AM |
| 1 | Men aging like fine wine is a myth and women "hitting the wall" is overstatedHe was seriously one of the sweetest most generous men I’ve ever met. King just flew too close to the sun. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/23 10:50 PM |
| 2 | Men aging like fine wine is a myth and women "hitting the wall" is overstatedThey certainly are more docile 18-22 yr olds (though still not immune to FOMO and all the other downsides of being young, impressionable, and naive) but those are not the girls these guys dream of chasing. The want the outgoing, hyper sexual, sorority party girl because those are the girls all the guys within her city limits are lusting after. Not the demure nerdy girl sitting in the back row. It’s funny how they talk about women being tyrants for having unlimited options and this is the most re… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/23 08:26 PM |
| 6 | Men aging like fine wine is a myth and women "hitting the wall" is overstatedAre we talking typical 18-21 collage age? Or also taking into consideration than many start college later in their mid 20s? Because a 26 yr old dating a 30 year old is much more common than a 19 yr old dating a 30yr old. I only knew one women who dated a 40 yr old guy starting when she was 18/19. He paid for all four years of her college education, gave her free room and board (they lived together), bought her expensive clothes and jewelry, and she dumped him the day after graduation for a guy h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/23 06:53 PM |
| -5 | Women are outcompeting men in a number of areas, and it’s no mystery why men are falling behind in romanceRules for thee but not for me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/23 10:44 PM |
| 4 | Women are outcompeting men in a number of areas, and it’s no mystery why men are falling behind in romanceI live in one of the biggest metro cities and see similar daily. Even the hottest, most well put together guys I see dress in trends from 5-10 years ago. It’s like whatever year they figure out how fashion works they religiously stick to that one specific style and un-ironically turn to to walking time capsules. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/23 10:40 PM |
| 1 | Average guys just looking to hookup are 'shallow', but women doing it are 'empowered'Sounds like your in group that “loses out.” I’m giving you solid, reasonable advice. But ignore advice from women who prooooobably know more about the female mind than you do and keep doing what your doing then. Seems to be working for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/23 06:48 PM |
| -1 | Average guys just looking to hookup are 'shallow', but women doing it are 'empowered'They don’t give a fuck because, just like men, they’re looking out for their own sexual or emotional pleasure. It literally comes down to communication. Men have no fucking clue how to communicate with women. That’s why you all lie to us when you don’t fucking need too and that breeds all this general distrust in men that women have. More women are resentful towards men who lie and treat them like girlfriends only to ghost them once they have sex than they are towards men who are upfront about o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/23 06:18 PM |
| -6 | Average guys just looking to hookup are 'shallow', but women doing it are 'empowered'On dating apps. Hasn’t it been proven through multiple surveys and studies that apps are nothing but one huge sausage party and the majority of women meet their partners through more conventional means such as friends and social gatherings? The women of this sub tell men to go out and meet women at social functions for a reason. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/23 06:08 PM |
| -2 | Average guys just looking to hookup are 'shallow', but women doing it are 'empowered'This is what I don’t get about dudes like you. You want to live in this self pity circle jerk by acting like they’re only 20 women on the entire planet and not millions. Your opinions are not that slim. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/23 05:52 PM |
| -1 | Average guys just looking to hookup are 'shallow', but women doing it are 'empowered'Why not be transparent? Be upfront that you want casual sex and that will weed out the women who want relationships and demand to be wined and dined before they let you lay a finger on them. Sure you will get more rejections, but you’ll be wasting less time and money on women who want more out of you than sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/23 05:33 PM |
| 41 | James Potter is a perfect example of women preferring "bad boys"We’re also forgetting that Snape was close friends with Lily until he royally fucked up by calling her a racist slur in front of all her friends and basically joining the wizard KKK. It’s very debatable that he had a chance to begin with but ultimately losing it was definitely due to his own actions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 06:32 PM |
| 2 | How many of you would reject this guy because he is redpilled?He looks like his whole personality is simply talking endlessly about how hot he is and how many chicks he’s banged. Very stimulating stuff. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 04:41 PM |
| 1 | WOMEN DONT ENJOY SEXAccording to PPD there’s currently a huge lack-of-sex epidemic happening among 100% of men so they need to take whatever they can get. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/23 07:39 PM |
| – | WOMEN DONT ENJOY SEXThat makes no sense. Women are human. Humans enjoy sex. And if women wanted sex they aren’t doing themselves any favors by pretending they don’t want it. This might be a shock to you but women enjoy sex for the orgasm too. Women have one night stands and hookups. Women like sex. You’re trying to complicate something due to some defect of your own. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/23 03:32 PM |
| 5 | WOMEN DONT ENJOY SEXIf ALL women hate sex them why do we obsess about it 24/7 in the forms of steamy eroticas, dramas that border on flat out porn, and oh yea, continuously look for a partner to have sex with? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/23 03:18 PM |
| 5 | CMV People that claim that eating out a Women is wrong or emasculating or submissive are the biggest dorks on the planet.Wow, I stand corrected. These masculine heroes are already living the straight and narrow. Emphasis on S-T-R-A-I-G-H-T | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/23 05:33 PM |
| 4 | CMV People that claim that eating out a Women is wrong or emasculating or submissive are the biggest dorks on the planet.Not only that, but every sperm lost is considered wreck less abandonment. Don’t waste your precious resources, men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/23 05:18 PM |
| 15 | CMV People that claim that eating out a Women is wrong or emasculating or submissive are the biggest dorks on the planet.I’ll be patiently waiting for the day when they go full tilt and start claiming sex with women is emasculating and will make your dick fall off. Jerking off to them in the same room is a-okay. Still be a player, dawg and keep spinning those plates. Just make sure those women know they’re TAINTED. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/23 03:41 PM |
| 9 | CMV People that claim that eating out a Women is wrong or emasculating or submissive are the biggest dorks on the planet.We are truly coming full circle from “play the game, be a sex god” to “if you can’t get a woman to cum, not only is that ok- in fact it’s preferable and solidifies your status as alpha Chad.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/23 03:00 PM |
| 62 | CMV People that claim that eating out a Women is wrong or emasculating or submissive are the biggest dorks on the planet.News flash: Pleasuring a woman in bed is now gay and should be avoided at all costs. And these cucks seriously think they’re gods gift to women. Smh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/23 02:09 PM |
| 1 | Is vulgarity, machismo and political incorrectness a turnoff to most women?This is incredibly true. The only reason women would get offended is if you were blatantly trying to offend/insult them. No one likes to be insulted. Other than that both genders are dumb and loud, but that just people. People are dumb and loud. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/23 03:19 AM |
| 12 | CMV: Getting married is one of the worst decisions a man can makeThat’s why they should stop ridiculing them? If they’re the last thing contributing to mens problems, why give them a hard time? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/23 02:20 AM |
| 16 | CMV: Getting married is one of the worst decisions a man can makeIf this is the case dudes need to stop ridiculing women who just want to be cat ladies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/23 01:48 AM |
| 1 | Why do a lot of men believe they will get sexier with age?I don’t either but unfortunately we are in a place on the internet where our opinions might be unpopular. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/23 07:43 PM |
| 3 | Why do a lot of men believe they will get sexier with age?By today’s beauty standards, yes, they are considered fat. It shows you how the concept of beauty is constantly changing. Who knows, that might be the ideal again in the next 50 years when we’re all dying for the nuclear apocalypse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/23 07:16 PM |
| – | CMV A man that cheats on his wife will be more respected and loved by her (as long as she doesnt find out) then a dude that doesn’t.It’s tragic. Why doesn’t the government outlaw marriage already?! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/23 03:12 PM |
| – | CMV A man that cheats on his wife will be more respected and loved by her (as long as she doesnt find out) then a dude that doesn’t.Ddduuude, I completely forgot about that one Harvard study that proved 100% of marriages immediately lead to dead bedrooms. Researched and written by Andrew Tate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/23 03:04 PM |
| – | CMV A man that cheats on his wife will be more respected and loved by her (as long as she doesnt find out) then a dude that doesn’t.What if he’s always tired or going home early because he and his wife are constantly having mind blowing sex? If the only upside to marriage is guaranteed sex by RP standards, is he still losing? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/23 02:03 PM |
| – | CMV A man that cheats on his wife will be more respected and loved by her (as long as she doesnt find out) then a dude that doesn’t.It also steams from this idea I’ve noticed that redpillers believe that ONE woman can’t make a man happy so he must be out getting a constant influx of multiple women to make him happy. It’s like they over thought the initial dating phase but their brains fuse out the second they get to the relationship stage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/23 01:59 PM |
| – | CMV A man that cheats on his wife will be more respected and loved by her (as long as she doesnt find out) then a dude that doesn’t.We can flip the table on Brad and ask: If Brad’s wife kept herself physically attractive and always had a bunch of guys simping over how hot she is, was always out late every night with her girlfriends (incandescently cheating with multiple guys), would Brad like that? I doubt it. So why would it be ok for one side and not the other. Also, why does the red pill always treat marriages and relationships like the kiss of death? Once you enter them all the fun in life ceases to exist. By that logic … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/23 01:50 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI seriously wish the incel subs weren’t shut down so they’d be less dumb 12 yr old edge lords running amok around here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/23 03:57 AM |
| 5 | The majority of people are too self-centered and it's why so many relationships have problemsI agree for the most part. So many men and women go into relationships believing the other “owes” them. It’s repugnant. A relationship should be a symbiotic experience. Men and women should WANT make each other happy. Not this bull shit game of “how much can I squeeze out of this chump” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/23 03:03 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadBut what if they’re two lesbians on a date? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/23 02:48 AM |
| – | How do you know if a man who has sex with you is truly sexually attracted to you?By ensuring you’re forever alone and left to wallow in blackpilled sadness on how bleak and meaningless your life is because a woman hasn’t even looked in your direction for the last ten years???? GLADLY 😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/23 09:33 PM |
| 1 | How do you know if a man who has sex with you is truly sexually attracted to you?Titles are confusing. He’s a FWB more or less. We both satisfy each other’s physical needs and we’re happy with leaving it strictly at that. I’m in a place in my life where I’m satisfied emotionally with being on my own. The physical part is a tad more difficult solo and that’s where my guy comes in. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/23 09:29 PM |
| 1 | Are woman generally more needy than men?It’s the letting dopey shit like that pass and partly because men are either intentionally or unintentionally emotionally distant. Though where men would more likely to cut things off and look for greener pastures when their partner appears distant or uninterested, women are more willing to want to beat your feeling out of you with passive-aggressive quips. Most guys approach the subject of asking how their partner feels about them as a form of relationship seppuku. So they’re less likely to pul… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/23 06:50 PM |
| 2 | In your opinion, is telling people not to actively search for love and let it come to you good advice?This has been true with all my female friends and myself included. I never met someone while cruising the apps. It nearly always seems like someone falls into your lap while your hyper focused on something completely unrelated to relationships - almost to the point where your a tad annoyed this chump is diverting your attention. I think one of the most unattractive things is someone of any gender moping around because they can’t find a date or get laid. People are more attractive to a partner wh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/23 05:55 PM |
| 0 | Sex work could be a real alternative to relationship for many men, but...There are prosties by the railroad tracks and desperate meth addicts on Craigslist willing to bang for $20 bucks. Where the hell are you even getting $200 hookers? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/23 05:48 PM |
| 16 | Sex is extremely important to people and when they say it's not, they're lying.Or getting subpar sex that leaves you wanting for more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/23 05:10 PM |
| – | How do you know if a man who has sex with you is truly sexually attracted to you?Don’t feel stupid. It’s rough out there and men are dogs. That’s not even a rad-fem hot take. It’s stone cold facts. We’d all be doing ourselves are service if we woke up as lesbians tomorrow. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/23 04:58 PM |
| 5 | How do you know if a man who has sex with you is truly sexually attracted to you?Basically you’re describing my regular hookup. The key i supposed would be to assess what you want to get out of it. With my guy, I don’t want to date him and I don’t see that changing in the future, so if he’s not showing me off to all his friends I couldn’t care less. That’s not what I want out of this. The eyes closed is a new one for me… nearly every man I’ve ever been with has started straight at my face. It scares the shit outta me. I almost always have my eyes closed because eye contact f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/23 03:59 PM |
| 8 | There's just as many women, as men, that are unsuccessful in romance, and they are so mostly for the same reasons as men.I actually agree. If I had accepted every offer I’d have had multiple guys devoted to me at any one time. When I was single it was because I chose to reject men’s advances. Mainly because I was either not attracted to them at all or I was and a complete lack of chemistry killed it. Whomp whomp. And I was totally happy being single. I wasn’t sitting around twiddling my thumbs waiting for some studly Chad to sweep me off my feet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 09:28 PM |
| – | How would you feel about your gf losing weight/having a glow up while with you?This should be the only response. Why da fuq would any dude want his chick to not look so fucking hot that every time anyone, male or female, sees her they go home crying in envy that they aren’t the lucky bastard who’s gets to wreck her pussy every night. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 04:16 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadRiiiiiight?!? How should I know if he’s the one if I can’t do that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 03:39 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadAs it should be | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 03:35 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadBy this logic my N count is over 9000 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 03:33 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI’d date him and we’d have hot girl-boy-boy 3somes just like how God intended. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 02:06 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadCWV: N count doesn’t apply to butt stuff. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 02:05 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI’d hit the bars and clubs with my bf so we could pick up a third. There’s a silver lining to everything!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/23 07:44 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThey can only do it in the butt | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/23 07:58 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI wonder what happened to that famouschildkillerfan club user | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/23 02:29 AM |
| 3 | Women DO LIKE nice guys who treat them right - but men don't understand female language - CMVI’m a woman who’s regularly approached by Chad’s and have turned down many because aside from being hot they couldn’t keep my attention for more than 30 seconds. I have gone with less attractive options (and to clarify, I’m not talking about so ugly he’s deformed. I’m referring to run of the mill average guys) simply on the grounds that they didn’t bore me and had more to talk about than how awesome they are or some generic hobby every dude thinks women like to hear (I like hiking and traveling.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/23 01:59 AM |
| -1 | Saying that unlike men women today are "happier single" is very disingenuousAs long as a man isn’t ugly to the point of physical deformity or a total creep, he can still get laid. There are more than enough women with low standards to keep their dicks wet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/23 10:40 PM |
| 8 | The whole “wOmEn dOn’T oWe yOu sEx” narrative is bullshit, the vast majority of men do not think this at all. Most men just rightfully expect to be able to get women at or below their level of attractiveness.To add on, it’s absolutely ridiculous when there’s a thousands of comments from men in this sub claim that women “aren’t worth the time” if they aren’t immediately dropping their panties for them. Seems less that women are entitled and more like women all have different standards, and some men get butt hurt when they don’t get treated like God’s greatest gift. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/23 12:40 AM |
| 3 | The people saying "your league is who you can attract" forget they're giving this reply to men who can barley attract any women at allThe insecurity and victimhood in this post is deafening. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/23 04:31 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSaw a guy this his green flags simply as “enthusiasm.” Enthusiasm over what? Life? My hobbies? Pleasing him in every way sexually because he is just so fucking hot and I’ll never do better in my life? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/23 10:09 PM |
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