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QUEEN SH*TLavaDogged/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 05:47 PM
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Fake account of a dude pretending to be a woman spending day in day out commenting AcTUAllY aS a FeMAle
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 07:30 AM
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His ex wife wrote about how he did exactly that to her, it’s super sad and predatory
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 11:21 PM
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Middle school me: exists Pastors son from out of no where: shoves my face in his crotch Me: tells parents Parents: “the pastors son? You should be flattered!” That marked the start of the no less than two dozen types of assaults and unwanted advances a dude has made on me where I reached out for help and was told to: accept his advances cause I got picked, accused of lying for reasons, attacked by his friends because I “wish” he would want me, etc. I also distinctly remember an 80 year old call …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 06:07 AM
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Depending o. Her circumstances if she leaves it is almost guaranteed she won’t be let back in. Also asking family for help most likely isn’t an option.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 06:28 AM
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How in the eff is someone literally stating they would murder someone else an acceptable Reddit comment??? How is this even still up, let alone guilded
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 10:14 PM
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Yep
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 10:06 PM
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For real???? Ughhh. I had turned it off after this scene.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 09:24 PM
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I haven’t gotten far enough along in the show to determine that. I wasn’t sure how stringent the rules were on explicitly naming shows and actresses. Figured I’d err on the side of caution.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 06:13 PM
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Not sure if I’m allowed to say, but the person reciting this played rogue in x men and Robyn in this show
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 06:08 PM
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Why does he ask how to do WOMENS hair, if he is intending to learn how to do his children’s hair?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 02:03 PM
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But how else is he going to explain that he’s SINGLE! Why would he just go and ask how to do his daughters hair when he can shout on a bullhorn that he wants his pee pee to be touched?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 02:01 PM
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Holy shit, that’s exactly what he is seeking. He wants to meet up with a grown ass woman to “practice” on her. Yuck!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 01:59 PM
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That’s exactly what the giveaway was for me that he is just fishing for compliments. If he actually gave a shit about doing their hair he would provide relevant information like… is their hair curly, straight, thick, etc. the advice you would give for a child with fine hair versus 3c is drastically different.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 01:56 PM
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Block and move on. Best choice of my lfie
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 01:28 PM
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There was another one that got removed/deleted where a husband was trying to force his wife to give birth to a Down’s syndrome child that she was unable to care for. His reasoning? “What would my family think”. Motherfucker your WIFE is your family first. Literal forced birth for a special needs child. I just can’t with these scrotes and their defenders
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 01:03 AM
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I for one am a fan of masturdating
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 06:55 PM
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I stopped watching after that shitty basketball dude, that was just awful what the show and he did to her. There is no way they actually vet any of these dudes, he was FUCKING HOMELESS. Literally couch surfing at a friends house (showing his “home” was all a ruse). He literally stayed on the show to keep staying in a rent free place.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 02:17 AM
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It can burn their skin as well
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 01:12 AM
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Don’t pre judge on this one. I just inherited my parents dogs (who did not socialize her bc they lived way out In the country and never left their house) who is dog reactive. It’s going to take me months to train with her to undo the bad behaviors that were inadvertently instilled in her by someone else. This can be the case with rescue and adopted dogs as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 12:58 AM
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Shoving their face in their pee when they have an accident
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 12:52 AM
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The writers on the show work directly with the writer of the book too so, it’s on the original author as well
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 01:42 AM
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It’s crazy because there are plenty of movies like the wrong missy that show a dude literally being raped and they all laugh and think it’s hilarious. I heard not a single dude complain about that movie ever, not a single MRA post, nothing. Crickets. They don’t actually even care about other men portrayed being raped, only when it’s in a manner like here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 01:39 AM
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They limit tips too, which is fucking bullshit. I noticed Uber does this as well. I’m sorry but what in the fresh hell happened where I can’t tip what I god damn well please? I’m not made of money but every once in a very rare while (like if I’m sick as a dog and need meds delivered, when I feel like hell it feels nice to do something to brighten someone else’s day) even if my order is like ten bucks I will add a $100 tip. So these billion dollar companies are too irresponsible with THEIR money …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 01:32 AM
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This has happened to me (or women in general but more often than not it was a dude waiting for me specifically) at a few stores and every time I went straight to the cashier/manager and told them a dude was waiting outside for me. For some reason this seems to happen at 7-11s a lot which many have a satellitepolice station in (or cops just hanging out grabbing coffee) so they would tell the cop to get the dude off the property. Thankfully each time the second the cops stepped out the door the du…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 01:27 AM
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I saw some post a pick me made on another “womens” sub and she was gushing about a random man complimenting her (I think it was something like plainly saying she had a nice dress) without being creepy and everyone was like omg yayyyyy see #notallmenarecreepers. I’m sorry… WHAT? Would this man EVER walk up to a dude and say “Nice outfit”. NO. What low god damn standards does the rest of society and this woman have to even take the time out of her day to post this? Just. What?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 01:22 AM
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My grandma had a forever boyfriend later in life. He didn’t have any assets or anything like that and everything was in her name. She made her will clear so when he died and his kids tried to fight they couldn’t do shit about it. He was perfectly fine with this and did nothing to generate assets for his kids to inherit. My parents always teased my Grammy for having a boyfriend but after her boyfriend passed (and her shortly after) I really just couldn’t see the benefit to getting married. Now sh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 01:10 AM
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I would add don’t tag where you are at all, unless it’s far away from your home or where your stalker is. Mine would hear from friend of a friend I went to X place once and he started showing up there hoping to “bump” into me. Also for work make sure they do not publish your contact info anywhere. Unfortunately with my job I have to be accessible BUT the alternative we came up with was having people call our main line and then redirect to me so I don’t have to pick up on my rapist stalker.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 02:13 PM
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I was sitting at a stop light today with my windows up and the music on and this dude (totally fat military scrote that w a way too good looking for him in shape tiny girl) was in his car SCREAMING at this poor woman. He was so loud I though someone was blasting heavy metal. Nope. Dude was FLIPPING the fuck out on this poor woman who was visibly terrified (her “unforgivable sin” was asking for clarification about plans and him claiming she ruined his day by wanting to go over it again, I shit yo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 01:10 AM
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It doesn’t even make logical sense, assuming they actually believe women eventually quit to make babies, doesn’t that mean more promotion opportunities for men??? Oh that’s right. They just want to keep women down period, regardless of their reproductive choices.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 11:32 PM
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Yeah but in time you end up surrounded by quality people. Like for me the number of acquaintances in my circle went from a lot to zero, and I stick to 3-5 friends that are rude or die plus my relatives (and only the ones that are not toxic). Never have to worry about drama, betrayal, bullshit, etc. takes some time but worth it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 09:17 PM
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It’s bizarre, if anything foundation has SAVED my skin. I have always worn foundation or tinted moisturizer or Tinted BB cream with SPF. Most makeup now is non comedogenic and doesn’t clog pores or make your skin worse. Sure there are a lot of snake oil products for skin care, but if I just woke up and did nothing to my face - I would literally just be one big red ball of greasy painfully deep pus pockets that weep throughout the day. It’s so easy to take a dump on women who wear make up when yo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 07:08 PM
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I think it’s great, I asked why the guys do it and while a large part of it is cultural, it is also absolutely done because if the men are expecting a certain level of maintenance- then they are responsible for the cost of it. It makes total sense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 04:29 PM
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FYI - it is not uncommon for a guy to pay for his girls hair/nails/etc. the maintenance for black womens hair is ungodly expensive (minimum several hundreds of dollars monthly) and at least with the circle I’m in it’s expected that the boyfriend pays for the maintenance. At least when they are with a black men, and they have never had an argument with them about it because they all grew up with their mommas and sisters getting their hair done too so they are aware and (unless they are a trash ba…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 04:10 PM
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ME!!!!! I have had acne my entire adult life. In the rare circumstances my skin was clear I wouldn’t wear foundation or wear a tinted moisturizer with SPF. At the end of the day even if my skin is clear I still have dark circles under my eyes made to look worse by the malasma on the rest of my face. I could give a f what dudes think, at this point it’s just about covering it up enough so people don’t stop me in the street and ask if I have a contagious disease or something. If anyone claims walk…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 03:58 PM
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Honestly make up has been a nice relaxing hobby for me during the pandemic. I mean I already wore it, but it’s been interesting figuring out what works and what doesn’t. Then again I don’t really follow anyone in online media (I literally do not care to belong to a billion apps paying attention to yappy idiots). If you have an issue with the women’s content there are plenty of dudes that wear make up and don’t attach any sort of performative message and just focus on being fabulous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 03:48 PM
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His posture is totally the classic “dad in denial about hearing loss and refuses to get hearing aids” pose
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 03:35 PM
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Lobbyists fighting to be able to sell your data and Congress either being too stupid to know the consequences or being fully aware and paid off to ignore them. Plus even without them, there are some things that are public records like when you buy a house, get arrested, etc. it varies state to state on how easy it is to get that information. Florida for example you can just type a persons name in their state system and see their mug shots, charges, etc. literally innocent people’s mug shots just…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 03:28 PM
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Usually you can find that information via the “likely associates” or whatever they call is. For example an ex of mine was Mexican and his whole family had unique and or non Caucasian names and then up pops a much younger kaylee samelast name and you click on that name and they have the same address (either currently or previously depending on how trashy the dude is). Pretty easy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 03:19 PM
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YEP, anyone over the age of 40 can file an age discrimination complaint. Don’t put it past these desperate scrotes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 02:18 PM
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For number 6 that is the hardest, my scumbag brain almost ALWAYS gives me sex dreams with a guy, not even necessarily one I am crushing on, but was just NICE TO ME ONCE. It creates this false “ideal” version of the dude and a false perspective. I.fucking.hate.it. This literally happened to me last night after I talked to the dude I made out with that asked if I stopped because he voted for trump. Why? Because we talked about it like adults and it was fine. Not because he did anything wonderful, …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 04:25 AM
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Jesus Christ. Mine said she trimmed them back (after asking me if it was okay) because apparently sometimes the other person can feel the strings.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 02:42 AM
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That was the first time he directly admitted it (although it was already some what obvious), it actually saddened me to hear that because it immediately told me that we wouldn’t be able to have an adult conversation about it. The last time he got drunk (coping mechanism for the divorce and his PTSD from Afghanistan) and was just generally being an ass - thankfully all of us put him in his place right away, he eventually got frustrated and brought out politics out of no where. No one took the bai…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 04:04 PM
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I almost said, “Well it is now” 😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 03:55 PM
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Not gonna lie me and my girlfriends had a good laugh about it afterwards, it is definitely one of the funniest things I’ve heard coming from a dude 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 05:34 AM
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I got a bit tipsy on cinco de Mayo with some friends and after everyone else left a friend of mine came up from behind me and kissed me. It was actually welcomed! I returned the kiss, but withdrew consent, and told him that it wasn’t a good idea (he is just getting out of a divorce and still not in a great head space), he straight up said, “Is it because I voted for trump?” I was like ?????????!! The dude literally couldn’t comprehend that I could simply just not want to, or that it was because …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 02:39 AM
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Am a Straight female that played in a gay league that was literally 99% men. Every hurled insult was gender based (everyone is a bitch, pussy, girl, girlfriend, etc). Every shared meme was body shaming women. I can 100% guarantee the poster is effeminate (resembling societally female based qualities), and that plays a large factor in the lack of respect for ones partner in male to male relationships
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 06:47 AM
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I have an ex who legit was adamant that his INTENTIONS mattered more than his literal actions. His literal actions of setting up dates with other women at the height of the pandemic but he didn’t INTEND to meet up with them. These length of mental gymnastics these scrotes and Pickmes go to to justify shitty behavior is baffling to me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 06:45 PM
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Yeah you have to be VERY careful about this. There can be a fine line between laughing at the satire and laughing at the victim of the joke. My dad is very much like this. He LOVES all in the family. Not because it makes fun of archies ignorance, but because Archie is saying what he wants to say but can’t. He’s not laughing at the ignorance of the character, he thinks it’s funny when they use the N word or come up with a new racist term.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 06:21 PM
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More likely is they have pushed away anyone in their life that potentially could help them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 06:04 PM
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What is double texting?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 05:47 PM
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Right… didn’t she support 45 and go on a whole skin lightening thing? That’s all super problematic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 03:10 PM
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Haha see those types are my kryptonite but their personalities ALWAYS kill it for me. nearly all of them have some crazy insecurity complex. It’s when someone is THAT muscular and has to put that much effort into themselves - always a red flag. Gym going yes fine, fit in general, purposefully fit (like from a hobby like cycling or whatever), but 4 hours a day in the gym staring at a mirror creatine eating roid ragers? Terrible partners.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 04:07 AM
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I’m 38, and dudes in their 20s look sooooo young but god damn many dudes in their 40s have just straight up given up and look like they could be my FATHER. That shit is gross come the fuck on. I could even tolerate some balding if they wore it well but instead of making an effort they do a combover or wear a hat and I’m supposed to want to suck some combover dick? Yikes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 04:01 AM
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Omg seriously what is up with skipping leg day beer gut having balding scrotes? These dudes not aging gracefully and it is fucking gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 03:57 AM
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Oh I totally, I was kicking myself because I didn’t even see the LVM behavior as it was happening (the whoa is me stories to someone he barely knows), I was too busy crushing on BonBon to notice (white guys bore me but for some reason that dude has me sucked in after west world). After I finished the series I was like god damnit I still have some work to do to see past the hot dude exterior and recognize the behaviors. I did also think the other dude was hot (in general and in his behaviors) so …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 06:20 PM
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The thing though that is good in one sense is that it shows attractive people can be abusive too and not only some hunchbacked pimple face fatso. My ex was super attractive and got away with this shit BECAUSE he is attractive. Think about it, would the darkling have had his pick me fans if he was an uggo? Certainly not. The good thing with the show is that it clearly laid out what he does to take advantage of unsuspecting women, and his mom called him out. The HV male was also attractive so it w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 02:20 PM
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Ugh the captioning on this sucks, I cant understand the last half of this :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 05:28 PM
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That is the only thing (actually after thinking about it not the only thing but the thing that stood out most) about the “in treatment” show that seemed utterly unrealistic. The men in the couples kept coming back and it was always the women refusing, or being late, not listening, etc. then I looked up the writers, creators, and producers and was like, ah, yeah this makes sense now, it is composed of all men (one of whom is known for a literal felony hate crime against an Asian man), and at most…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 12:00 AM
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Fuck that’s exactly what my argument would be if they tried to dismiss me. Like y’all didn’t think it was a crime when it happened and now suddenly you believe me? Hell no
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 04:53 AM
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I mean asking my marital status and when I wanted to have kids certainly isn’t but that didn’t stop two employers asking during interviews
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 04:51 AM
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The half retirement thing frightens me, in my state after ten years they are entitled to half. Half of the money I’ve already spent 20 years contributing to, so if I get married now and divorced I. Ten years, they get half of something I contributed to for only being in a relation with me for one third of the 30 years of contribution. Hard pass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 04:34 AM
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This is literally every single post on “women’s only” forums have this as half the responses. They need to stop allowing men to post this shit to negate women’s experiences
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 02:32 PM
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I’ve read the gift of fear, I get it, but at a certain point (I.e. years, like this victim) you just have to block and move on. No one deserves to be exposed to this insanity constantly and for years, no one should be forced to be retraumatized over and over again, and for what, to gather and keep evidence for a justice system that will, at best, statistically do nothing for the victim, and most likely, blame the victim and traumatize them more? Even at that, it’s really pretty awful to give an …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 04:12 PM
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Also, by posting this we are literally giving him exactly what he wants ATTENTION it only fuels stalkers even more. Ugh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 03:07 AM
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It doesn’t seem to even make sense to exist, because the whole incel thing means they can’t get laid, yet.... I’ve never met a woman who had an issue with that, sooooo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 03:04 AM
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My dad is expecting my mom to be his 24/7 nurse after an injury (she is elderly and disabled herself so that is just simply not an option even if she wanted to do it - she does not). He tried to convince her to come back home from my house ASAFP to their house and stay overnight by offering her McDonalds breakfast. Literally. I said “is that how much you think our time is worth?” He shoved his hand in my face and told me to leave, it makes us gold diggers because neither of are convinced by McDo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 03:01 AM
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Seriously, it’s honestly quite dangerous and I thought was against FDS rules to give abusers the time of day? Aren’t we supposed to block and move on? I could be wrong and completely misinterpreting it, but this seems to go against what I understand. Plus, as a stalking victim myself it’s triggering af to see posts like this. Why give abusers the time of day. This isn’t a win for anyone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 02:55 AM
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Oh, I generally agree, except this case was warranted, Egypt air was trying to refuse my 80 year old neighbor a refund for his round trip to Egypt. His return date was after they shut the airport down for Covid and they lied to him repeatedly saying he would be able to return (literally no) and that they couldn’t refund him because reasons (none of which were true) and literally suggested this 80 year old man just fly one way to Egypt at the start of the pandemic knowing the airport will be shut…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 05:07 AM
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Oh the local police don’t give a fuck, but I’m close with my neighbors and they all keep an eye out for me. My neighbors are almost all retired and home all the time so there is some safety in that. Im 38 but they all see me as a young whipper snapper that helps them with “computers” and has no problem yelling at a customer service rep for them so they benefit keeping me as an alive neighbor as well. That and the whole getting murdered thing would bring down home values
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 09:22 PM
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Ali wong is great, Hannah gadsby is great too. There are so many other female comedians that are legit hilarious, but their entire routine revolves around pickmeism. It’s so disappointing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 03:28 PM
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Yep! Getting death threats as we speak from an ex. He is posting videos with my full first and last name slandering my name while threatening death. YouTube refuses to remove the videos. Police refuse to press charges. All with an active restraining order. If he wasn’t bound to another state for parole (for his animal crimes not all the rape and abuse they refuse to prosecute) I’d be fucking dead already.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 03:24 PM
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Literally as I was typing this the same psycho ex posted a public death threat using my full first and last name to you tube. You tube is refusing to take it down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 03:56 PM
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Watching that woman flee out of court in horror and let out a blood curdling scream in fear for the safety of herself and her children fucking broke me. I saw the pictures of what he did to her, it was brutal. Every time we went to court my ex wanted to “bring it to trial” and every judge forced us to wait until the end of the day (but never tell us when they were going to take our case) so I was forced to witness an entire day of other women’s trauma in court, every single god damn time we went…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 02:40 PM
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I am guessing since you’re English this didn’t happen in the states. Dogs literally have more protection legally than women do here. Idk about where you are but we are fed lies from birth that if you file a report and do the “right” thing justice will be served. I am not exaggerating when I tell you I was eye witness to a judge chumming it up with a rapists lawyer and told the lawyer to say hi to his father for him. They refused to even hear the rape victims testimony because the judge was frat …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 11:03 AM
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If it makes you feel any better, not going through the process of attempting to press charges (you as an individual in the US can not simply press charges, a DA/judge/etc have to choose to press them when you file a complaint) likely saved you a lot more trauma. Think of how few rapists are actually convicted, and how many go free. Imagine how many more never even see the inside of a court house because the victim opted to no longer file a police report after the interviewing cop asked what she …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 03:01 AM
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This was before all the BLM stuff happened too, so whenever anyone started up with “all lives matter” bullshit or down playing the challenges black people face I asked them to sit in court for a day and just observe. In a county that is 20% black, the court is filled entirely with black people except one? And that some how every single black person that entered the court is a “criminal” while the guy who openly admits to rape in court screaming at the judge some how... isn’t a criminal? And it’s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 03:13 PM
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Yeah, like I was glad to see they made the effort to protect the animals, but I definitely cried when I realized that the value of women in the criminal justice system is lower than that of animals Then I saw other examples like how it’s illegal in many states to separate a puppy from its mother before 8 weeks, when there is literally no law protecting women after they give birth. It’s just so damn sad that society and the justice system values literal dogs over women (and I love dogs but wtf)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 03:01 PM
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Especially if you are a white male. Not exaggerating, we were the only white people in the court each and every time I brought him to court. I have seen judges get angry at black men and threaten them with contempt of court for politely asking the judge to repeat himself, meanwhile my ex was screaming to the top of his lungs about Morse code messages being sent to him from satellites in space. My ex admitted to rape and violating my protective order by trespassing my house. Another defendant adm…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 02:49 PM
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I wonder if admission “enough” for a conviction in New Zealand. I know in the states it isn’t. My ex flat out bragged about choking me out and raping me in civil and criminal court and the civil judge cut him off and refused to let him continue to speak so as not to “incriminate himself” and the criminal DA said “I’m not going to be the one to give this man a criminal record”. He went on to rape and assault at least ten more women (five of whom reached out to me for help because he kept giving t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 02:14 PM
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This is exactly what they are doing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 11:41 PM
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I always knew it was bad and skewed towards basement dwelling incels (in a sub full of middle age or older people, these men literally had to be told to do stuff like take a shower before going on a date, clip their fingernails if they wanted to get laid, etc) but that whole thread was god damn appalling. I could almost mods get feigning ignorance to some basics like hygiene but for mods to actively suppress voices in a situation where it is so blatantly obviously assault happening - holy fuck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 10:12 PM
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I got banned too! Literally for saying choking someone against their consent is assault. These scrotes blame Us for “kink shaming” to literally not want to be choked against our will (the way in which women are much more statistically likely to die at the hands of their partners).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 10:02 PM
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Oh man, I tend to do the opposite, make exceptions for other standards (like them needing steady employment) only to get dickmatized by the pool boy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 10:00 PM
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Is this the guy that tried to justify going 50/50 because he can’t afford the (only first and never follow up) dates he is asking women out on? Even though you know Reddit is full of scrotes, it’s still mind boggling when the thread is full of dudes saying heck yeah make them pay, feminism! And women backing them up ‘cuz equality’ as if someone forced this dude to do zero vetting before dates, he is asking them out on, and then no one is interested in him for a second date (I wonder why). Then i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 08:06 PM
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Except that it never does. I have dealt with this and professionally the default is to believe a dude even if the claims are joined with a threat (I had literal death threats in my voicemail and what FPS got from them was asking me more detail about the sex stuff my ex brought up). The reality is men just straight up do not face professional consequences for slander, threats, etc and the onus of proof is on the woman (who is not believed or taken seriously even with solid proof). Seriously. I wo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 02:55 PM
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Also, I would say look into if your company has any sort of policy or procedure in place for protecting employees. After my debacle (posted somewhere else in this thread) I started an employee safety type of commission (which got disbanded and handed off to HR who proceeded to do nothing), but you can document something like that and volunteer to do the work for them without necessarily telling them about the threats against you. That way if the guy does follow through they can’t feign ignorance…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 02:49 PM
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Not one that followed through with the threats (I only got “lucky” in that they almost immediately found someone else to stalk and harass), but a guy went into Lexus nexus to read my exes testimonies during my civil cases about my rape (because literally fucking no one would take it criminally seriously). He threatened to take my exes testimony against me and send it to my boss (i have a unique last name and a public facing government job so that info is all out there). Didnt matter that my ex a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 02:37 PM
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Fuuuuuck that. I just ignore and avoid. These same scrotes also can’t comprehend why I would dress up or pick a character I didn’t know in and out because I think it’s cute. Like bruh I literally do not care, I look fabulous and this was an excuse to get that eye palate at Ulta I wanted. I used to be super pick me about a lot of this stuff but once I figured out it was okay to just like something without having read the characters back story memorizing it top to bottom and just liking it for wha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 12:49 AM
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Not only that but they will never be able to do the same themselves. Plenty of male characters/superhero’s etc they could emulate but that would require taking a Fucking shower. Hard to cosplay a believable captain America when scrotes haven’t seen the inside of the gym before. Women are god damn superhero’s and they can’t deal with it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 12:37 AM
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EXACTLY. Imagine having that much money and still being a bitter miserable incel.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 02:26 PM
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I know someone that worked on their case, and you pretty much hit the nail on the head. The twins (in my friends experience) were likable, hilarious, and wealthy with or without fuckerberg. Zuck could never be them. My friend catches up with them here and there and by all accounts the twins live fulfilling and happy lives, meanwhile, look at zuck. He may be a billionaire but.... ew. The twins on the other hand are still pretty wealthy and not bitter incels.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 03:30 AM
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Best friend dated a guy that strung her along for ten years. He kept adding “conditions” on her for him to be ready for marriage and kept giving her excuses even after she met said conditions (lose ten pounds, make this much money, own a home, etc). He fully well knew she wanted children and was planning for it. They broke up and within six months he had married someone else and got her pregnant right away. My friend was 37 when they split, is 40 now and still recovering from the trauma dude cau…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 03:05 AM
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Was there ever a follow up to that post?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 02:57 AM
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Okay but did they really have to include the victims full first and last name for fucks sake
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 02:42 AM
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Even if the intent isn’t to use an app that deletes messages, fuck no I am never going to have a social media app as a leash to a dude ever the fuck again. They use apps explicitly to maintain a harem, if they were interested they would just contact you directly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 12:56 AM
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My dad has been financially abusive to my mom the last 40 years, he is flipping out on my mom for not magically knowing financial management and is using that as an excuse to claim she has “diminished capacity” (he is literally trying to control my mom after death since he is terminal right now and attempting to send her to the looney bin). I told my mom, and tell anyone that even ATTEMPTS to take my piece of shit dads side on this matter exactly this. “What you are observing is not a result of …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 12:16 AM
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That’s a good description, I watched it for background noise and finished it but meh it was really just fluff
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 08:32 PM
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And THAT is why the incels flood our DMs with hate, because we are not dependent on approval or recognition from our preferred sex, where as they are. They literally can’t comprehend how they could be happy without constant reassurance it is unfathomable to them when someone else is totally fine on their own
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 10:21 PM
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I am a very slow runner, I never expect anyone to slow down to my pace, but I have never run with someone who pulled this crap. Even the NVM dudes I dated and ran with (im a sucker for beefcake gym buddy dudes so there have been a few lol) and had much faster pace than me always would do their pace, then run back to check on me, then go back to their pace, etc. you are so vulnerable while running, fuck playing these games
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 07:39 PM
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Yes! That’s exactly why I was thinking it, because there are quite a few around me that fall into the same price range (assuming no alcohol) as cheese cake but I would consider a better tier of quality and realized the common thread among them was no strollers. I don’t know if it’s intentional or by virtue of our “old town” area not being accessible or what; but that’s usually a big indicator for me. Lots of high quality places can also keep the prices reasonable with limited menus as well. No w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 05:55 PM
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The trick is to find places like that that have happy hour specials and check them out then. That’s how I treat myself to nicer outings without totally breaking the bank :-). Not all the pricier places have happy hours and some only have food specials or only drink specials (so ymmv depending on what you are in the mood for), esp now w the pandemic a lot of places got rid of them all together, but! I always recommend trying that out before doing a full meal at more expensive places like that so …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 03:10 PM
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I always picture A restaurant that doesn’t have or allow children under 12.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 03:07 PM
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I hadn’t even considered using the same principles from FDS on friends, and he ended doing it inadvertently. Honestly it’s been life changing for the positive. I thought it would mean no friends, but ends up being better quality friends. Highly recommend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 02:27 PM
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Solo travel is great, but just be culturally aware. When I went to Spain I was by myself and wore short shorts and a tank top bc it was hot af and had to get all new clothes to cover up. Even in South American as a middle aged woman I wore knee length shorts and got cat called. Sigh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 12:35 AM
19

Document that the step mom directly stated she is concerned that her son will assault your daughter. She ADMITTED your daughter’s safety is at risk in her home.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 12:20 AM
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A worthy battle might be choosing friends that won’t dismiss your rape
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 12:16 AM
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That’s when you return each rep with tennis grunts, they go from crazy grunting to normal weight lifting breaths real quick lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 11:45 PM
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The saddest part about this is that it’s planet fitness, where if the female reported his behavior she would be banned for wearing shorts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 11:41 PM
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Thank you for asking. This happened a few years ago and have been in weekly therapy plus meds since then. Had to get a new doctor bc my old one didn’t listen and found a female one that noticed i was severely under medicated and fixed that. It’s been a challenge and retraumatizing, I normally would leave to another job but that all involves extensive back ground checks, which I would pass but then have to deal with re living the court procedures and have to answer for every false claim my ex mad…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 02:37 PM
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Yep. I got blamed for being a “problem employee” and as a part of my legal defense to show “mitigating circumstances” I literally had to describe in great detail my court experiences and assault to my male second level supervisor. Ultimately nothing happened to me because it is literally insane and illegal (I also had to take a ton of time off for court and my own mental health which she openly discriminated against me for). My direct supervisor at the time was eventually fired for a few other E…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 05:52 AM
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Seriously, if someone is the exception, great for them, but my safety and well being is worth far more than risking that. And guess what, I thought I was the “exception” for the last 20 years and all it got me was nearly getting fired from my job for getting stalked at work by my rapist. I will gladly move on from someone showing red flags and scrote behavior rather than trying to “save” them. If that means delaying marriage or staying single then... great! I’m looking for a partnership, I know …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 08:40 PM
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Lollll https://images.app.goo.gl/R24Kep1yHYnHowtX7 literally me any time some tiny dicked scrote cries and complains about FDS/not getting laid/etc because women wont bend over backwards to touch dirty basement dwelling LVM dick
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 02:33 AM
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Gonna take a wild guess that they fully well know if they whooped their cheating boyfriend they would get the shit beat out of by him, and the “other woman” is as close as she can get to it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 08:56 PM
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These are the same men that feign shock upon hearing it. Any dude that says they’ve never seen or heard about anyone they know sexually harassing or assaulting someone either does it themselves or chooses to ignore it, sexual harassment and assault is THAT prevalent. I cut those scrotes off as well. I’m not putting my safety in jeopardy around someone who can and would WITNESS me being assaulted and say and do nothing. Fuck that shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 05:51 PM
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Back in the day there was some sort of food MLM and I went to my friends and their way of saying it (when you are trying something out you don’t like someone else might) was “Don’t yuck someone else’s yum”. I think of that every time, don’t yuck my yum! Seriously what is the net positive of that action. Nothing. Live and let live.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 01:46 AM
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If you take the argument out of it, what they are doing is “negging” you anyways. I started blocking friends or anyone who’s immediate response to anything I say or do is to ignore me, negate what I say, put me down, etc. at first I thought this would put me in an echo chamber but it hasn’t. I still have plenty of people in my circle that feel differently about many things. They difference now? RESPECT. I’ll take that any day over being surrounded by people who constantly put me down and negate …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 10:27 PM
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It just occurred to me that the dead bedroom my most recent ex was in had nothing to do with her depression and everything to do with him being a scrote. Note to self, stay away from anyone who was in and stayed in a dead bedroom relationship. Period. If they pull The Whoa is me wifey won’t blow me bc her issues, run fucking faster
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 10:17 PM
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Okay wait, what is that last one? Lol I’m guessing it’s saying something along the lines of telling men to take care of their hygiene but i saw peeing and baths and was like uhhhh lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 02:24 AM
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And yet some how they aren’t suffering until someone brings up a women’s issue. It’s never on its own, always only in response to women speaking out about what they’ve suffered from at the hands of men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 02:13 AM
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That’s possible, the dear John dude did that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 09:27 AM
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Got a nasty DM from a Scrote telling me about how guys can’t hold each other accountable because they don’t talk to each other about sending dick pics dudes just can’t stfu
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 09:05 AM
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Ive never personally seen another man hold another man accountable. I want to believe this can happen, but so far I’ve only ever heard vitriol for asking for accountability. Even when it became their problem (these cocky dudes thought the death threats would stop at me and I am disposable) - they literally were silent. Two months later, the metoo movement happened and all I heard were “sorries” (not to me or even anyone specific just a general blast omg girls I support you) and zero action. This…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 04:39 AM
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Seriously, I just saw a thread in another forum (dating centered) where a woman voiced her frustration with unsolicited dick pics or convos that immediately get sexual, stuff like that, and boy oh boy - Queue all the over 40 dudes sweeping in saying how shocked they are this happens and how sorry they are it happened (which I guess means now we should touch their pee pee). Mother f*cker if you made it to 40 and are SHOCKED this is happening, at this point they are intentionally ignoring it. We d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 04:09 AM
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even rich folk can be douchey enough to burn all their bridges
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 04:00 AM
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I literally just had this conversation with my sister, our parents beat it into our heads that any male attention was good and we should be grateful for it. Shamed us both for our life choices (my sister having her son young and me for not having kids at all). The only “advice” we ever received was “wait until marriage” but never any positivity and only shame for being female. People always say to stay away from assholes but when it’s been beaten into your head how useless you are to society if …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 05:23 AM
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It’s interesting because I am obsessed with forensic files and serial murderers and there is less violent rape and assaults against women in those shows than there is in outlander
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 01:33 AM
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And guess what ladies, if you want 6’4” with abs and a big ol dick you will get it. Don’t undersell yourself. I am a huge sucker for bigger muscular types (think david Bautista) and Honestly dudes are no where near as critical as women are of themselves, and any dude that is isn’t worth your time. I thought I would have to lower my standards now that I’m older and my dating pool is in their 40s, but I really don’t have to. Now I don’t need a six pack (and don’t prefer it since it generally requi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 11:01 PM
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Why was the comment asking if she worked down voted? He’s an AH regardless of her employment status, but her working on top of that definitely makes her husband even worse
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 03:50 PM
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Don’t forget, the courts are against men! They just give 100% custody to moms for absolutely no reason what so ever and just don’t want dads to be with their kids. It’s all a conspiracy against men and certainly doesn’t have anything to do with those LVM not even bothered if to seek visitation let alone custody rights or anything /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 08:12 PM
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Oh my god yes. I live and work in DC and I love to fuck with people who try to pull the “I work for x” and “I went to x school” card, I will remember this one for next time haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 02:36 PM
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My dad was pitching a fit over nothing taking it out on my mom. Since he can’t speak and learning sign language is “beneath” him, he communicates by writing. He wrote my mom this long novel blaming her for his issues going off on her and I happened to randomly swing by right after and she shows me his letter and is like the fuck am I supposed to do with this???? I take the pages he wrote to her, slowly walk to the trash can and stare blankly at her. She goes “oh right, that’s an option!! Let’s g…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 03:55 AM
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Yeahhhhh my sister was pregnant at 15 by her 20 year old boyfriend and even in “liberal” NJ they kicked her out of school and punished her. But yeah, sure blame the fifteen year old. It’s even worse bc my parents forced her to marry the dad, and it wasn’t until literally a month ago watching a show on child brides in the US did it occur to me that was the exact situation she was in. All totally legal! Guess the statutory rape and adult predator male is all cool in the eyes of god when they are l…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 03:39 AM
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Fed giving grants to first responders, put in my time so I’m close to the top of the pay scale you can be without being a supervisor. Down side is the extremely high cost of living area so income doesn’t always equal wealth. To put it in perspective, I had a house fire and have been turned away from several different services (like contractors) because the repair work would “only” be 25k. One told me they won’t even consider a job for less than 50k and another straight up told me he was only eve…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 02:19 AM
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It’s suuuuuper insulting when they expect sex for dinner, it is literally placing a dollar value on how much they think they should pay me for sex and seriously. Sit down and do the math. Even IF they spent 100 on just me (which is feasible but unlikely for me unless we also go out for drinks and/or get a bottle of wine). That is less than two hours of my paid desk job I actually enjoy doing, harrrrrd pass. A dinner plus drinks plus getting ready would easily surpass that, and If they ever even …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 09:51 PM
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Yeah, absolutely that too. I know for me some of that feeling comes from my dad and the church beating it into my head stuff like “women are to be seen and not heard” while in the same breath calling them gold diggers (my dad refused to let my mom work or have any access to money and in spite of him making six figures would give her an “allowance” of 100 a month). Any money he spent on her (even necessary medical costs) were lorded over her (and to the shock of no one he tried to pull the same c…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 08:20 PM
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I definitely struggle with this as well, it’s just so deeply ingrained to me to have something tangible to point to to either “prove my worth” or to create a boundary with someone and push them away (I’ll also do it unconsciously to send a message of telling them I have my own money I don’t need them). It’s been really hard to undo all of that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 06:11 PM
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Especially being in the DC area, what bullshit!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 10:39 PM
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Yoooo I am right outside of DC in VA and there are nazi flags flying every where, I am so going to do this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 10:38 PM
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I watched a video of a woman who was inside her own apartment minding her own business and a dude climbed into her apartment via her balcony. Her reaction? she apologized to HIM. That’s how brainwashed we are. To be literally a victim of a break in and apologize to the fucking dude doing it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 04:22 PM
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