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1)I made no mention of universal morality, what I meant is that we can apply universality to an action to help us distinguish whether or not an action is good or bad. Is drinking and driving good? No, if everyone were doing it, the country would be very scary place to drive in. How about promiscuity? Bad, if everyone engaged in this degenerate act, we would see people having more abortions, stds, and even psychological harm that hurts young women-- they end up feeling used and worthless since me…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 11:17 AM
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youre just gonna take your L like that? All those sharp questions just so you can get dunked on? lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 10:18 AM
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Lying? No. Do you think that guys who tell girls they love them get the girl? Do you think guys who care about her get her? No otherwise nice guys and nerds would get her.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 12:58 PM
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What is your central argument? I'm so lost. Idk what you're saying
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 10:27 AM
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what evidence from the text do you have to conclude that I think "men who don’t care about women would somehow care enough to not lie to them."
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 03:53 PM
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Where did I mention anything about lying?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 12:19 PM
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Just like a drunk driver directly endangers himself and the people who are near him, you are endangering 1) yourself 2) the other person 3) a potential baby in the event that your contraception fails (condoms fail). How do we even know that this behavior is degenerate and immoral: let's apply universality to your action. In a world where young women were using their best years being promiscuous, nationwide STDs would go, abortions would go up, men will be unwilling to settle down with women bc w…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 07:38 AM
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1) to answer your question directly, because your actions affect other people, your partner and your potential child-- condoms arent perfect, and it's not uncommon for people to get pregnant despite not wanting to. If the topic at hand didn't involve others then your question would be more valid. The drunk driver can ask the same. Question, "why should I inconvenience myself in getting in Uber when I could "drive" home? Answer: because he is putting people at risk. Further more we know the actio…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 08:02 AM
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stds and abortions browny
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 06:17 PM
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no, factually you are more likely to get STDs, abortions, etc. You wanted answers that werent emotionally or ethically related right?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 05:55 PM
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if you could not read: because youre actively hurting the society you and your kids will live in. Because you are adding decadence. Because youre normalizing having a bad behavior. because youre contributing to a problem for your own selfish desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 05:52 PM
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"Why should I prioritize ruining women, leaving them unsuitable for marriage, destabilize the very society I and my children will live in?" You're beyond help if you can't see it bud
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 05:21 PM
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Even an attractive Chad can't use 🥺 emoji and text back seconds after her texts back etc. He can break more rules but even he doesn't get a free pass to act like a simp without consequences
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 05:07 PM
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it is. in nature, a man pumps and dumps women to spread his seed
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 03:50 PM
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what about them is feminine
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 03:27 PM
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lions dont eat deer? cats dont eat mice? bears dont eat salmon? examples of strong eating the weak
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 02:43 PM
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be specific if you want to have a discussion otherwise youre just seething because you read something that goes against your world view
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 12:20 PM
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Come on dog dont put sex up on a pedestal like that. There is so much more to life than putting your organ in a wet hole. dont devalue your existence like that. It's fun, but no where near getting suicidal or anxious if youre not getting any. That is a mental issue you need to fix bud.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/21 11:50 AM
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toxic masculinity is just masculinity that offends your sensitive ideals
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 11:41 AM
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i am speaking in nature. stronger animals eat weaker animals. I used it as an example to point that nature does not consider morals.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 10:27 AM
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nature just is. it doesnt care that you think its immoral. The strong eat the weak. it just is. you can call it unfair, unethical, disgusting etc. It's just nature and it also creeps into our sexual selection strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 09:35 AM
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hat it has a destabilizing effect on society at large since the family unit is now disrupted. what are you talking about? people coming from good nurturing homes are the foundation of our society. Think of the fucked up bullies who come from broken families. youre prioritizing the tingle sensation of your dick over the well being of the society you live in-- rather short sided of u
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 09:03 AM
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of course, southern europeans, eastern europeans, irish etc were not considered white at different points in history babe https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Definitions\_of\_whiteness\_in\_the\_United\_States
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 08:42 AM
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whiteness has also changed throughout history, yet we understand what we mean. Youre being intentionally difficult to blur what we're talking about. have a nice day. come back when you actually want to engage in reasonable discussion. blurring terms is below me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 08:36 AM
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no go on
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 08:34 AM
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then that is why refer to what the general consensus is on the topic. The general consensus is that jerks get the girl more than the nice guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 08:21 AM
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stop being difficult. this is what i refer to https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Masculinity
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 08:20 AM
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exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 08:18 AM
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what is the point of pointing to the exception? Obviously this isnt a scientific law that is 100% in every case. However if it is commonly observed then it has merit
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 08:17 AM
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you are intentionally trying to blur what it means to be masculine in order to make it unclear to define thus discrediting my argument. This is absurd, everyone knows what it means to be masculine. You can do this over any concept. "blah blah niceness is subjective bc everyone has a different concept of it." Replace niceness with whatever concept you want. It doesnt discredit the existence of that concept because you say people have different interpretations of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 08:14 AM
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not that men are wiser, just that they dont hold onto their emotion over reality as women seem to do because the reality is scary, uncomfortable or hard to accept. just because hiveminds dont exist does not mean you can negate general truths about the genders
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 08:12 AM
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you want a man who is in touch with his masculine energy which manifests itself as someone who is rather aloof rather than feminine and caring and sweet.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 08:11 AM
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generally its seen as a man in touch with his testosterone who isnt afraid to hide it and act castrated.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 08:08 AM
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women are in denial of their nature because its not all flowers and rainbows-- that's fine. women in general seem incapable with handling hard to swallow truths.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 08:07 AM
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precisely
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 08:05 AM
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"no masculine man" is rather exaggerated. I am saying that it is uncommon
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 08:03 AM
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Easy all the benefits of a relationship. Security, having someone give you constant attention, access to extra resources, trips, being made felt special etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 08:02 AM
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what part do you disagree with?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 08:01 AM
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Being bare minimum decent is exactly nice. No masculine man is actually texting 24/7, sending emojis, calling everynight, bringing her flowers etc this is really uncommon in masculine high value men
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 07:59 AM
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commitment and security. It's scary for a woman to mess with a man who can leave her pregnant without resources. The solution? a monogamous relationship where she can help raise a child with the help of his resources and protection. It's all just biological pragmatism masquerading as some silly love story we tell ourselves. Its the equivalent of telling kids santa isnt real for adults though.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 07:57 AM
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this is just women in general. Women in general are biological beings who wish to procreate with high value men, this applies to them all -- more so for some than others
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 07:29 AM
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in a society that embraces sexual liberation this may be the case. The issue is that it has a destabilizing effect on society at large since the family unit is now disrupted. Now when women want to settle down-- which they inevitably do-- the top guy she was hooking up with doesnt want a relationship. So she must now go lower for someone who is willing to give her a relationship. however at this point the relationship is already doomed since she feels she is settling and not getting what she des…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 07:15 AM
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I think you are misguided. Fuck boys are actually highly effective sex getting machines: They're attractive, aren't feminine (arent texting her non stop, arent listening to her emotions, arent caring) they put her on an emotional rollercoaster to get sex. Someone who is being driven by his t is masculine
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 06:42 AM
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no caring is feminine. The one's who get the girl are masculine but can at times be sweet and gentle-- this unpredictable switch up puts girls on an emotional rollercoaster and this is what they subconsciously desire, a man who does whatever the fuck he wants and doesn't give a shit what anyone thinks-- including her.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 06:33 AM
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it's not that they cared that got the girl. It's the mystery, the going hot then cold-- the emotional roller coaster they put the girl on that got the girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 06:31 AM
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Here is the deal with that: Women will say one thing yet act another way. It FEELS better to say they like sweet caring emotional guys. The reality is that that is feminine energy. It's not natural for her to be sexually attracted to feminine energy, thus the "he's too nice." It's a test to see if a man has enough testosterone to pass the test. If he is too nice, he weeded himself out as having low testosterone. Even if he doesn't have low T, by simply acting as if he does, he is walking and act…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 06:30 AM
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masculinity is the state of being unabashedly in touch with your testosterone.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 06:18 AM
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mm it's male dominated, i wouldnt consider idly role playing as a elf warrior as masculine.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 06:17 AM
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I think these "betas" you refer to are thinking about long term relationships. Thus their plights they have with women are because women of today do not exhibit good relationship traits. If you zoom out a bit and not just think with your dick, you can see this can have a disastrous impact on the building block of a nation: the family. Whilst you guys tout the promiscuity and degeneracy, the "beta" is concerned about not finding an adequate mate for starting a family etc. You have a gross over-si…
/r/TheRedPill15/08/21 06:16 AM
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theyre masculine. Why is it surprising women are attracted to masculine traits? This is why women are repulsed by sympathetic sweet guys-- feminine. 10s of thousands of years of evolution make women know strong masculine traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 12:43 AM
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Great idea, I hate that instead of supporting the notion everyone in the comments is talking about unfeasible it would be.
/r/askTRP06/03/21 10:26 PM
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You contradicted yourself. Having and enforcing boundaries is enforcing something????
/r/askTRP03/03/21 12:16 AM
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agreed, not too long, a couple months. She is 21 and never dated before, strict asian conservative house hold, on insta a lot, very naive and idealistic.
/r/askTRP02/03/21 05:53 AM
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yeah LTR, suppose she has an attitude / is rude more and more. Or she is on her phone for prolonged periods of time when she is around you. Or perhaps she is extra playful / flirty around guys. Would the correct thing to do be to check her on all of this but not in a manner that shows you're emotional about the situations?
/r/askTRP02/03/21 04:14 AM
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expand please I cant really make sense of this.
/r/askTRP02/03/21 04:03 AM
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so let me get this straight, you are not allowed to enforce your boundaries? You have to tolerate all of her bad behavior or else youre an insecure beta? That seems pretty beta to me. I think you do not have to overreact and keep your emotions down but definitely check her.
/r/askTRP02/03/21 04:02 AM
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No most millionaires are self-made
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 07:40 AM
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No but even with high value women, being soft and sweet (feminine traits) aren’t gonna get her. Don’t expect feminine traits to attract feminine women. They’ll do the opposite — repel her. Not saying you have to beat her or throw beer bottles at her but don’t do none of that sweet shit. No gifts, no compliments, no validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/21 11:24 PM
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You’re not supposed to be persistent. Show your interest then after that let her be attracted to you. Talk to girls hotter than her and make me laugh she’ll see you having a good time and will be drawn to u by social proof
/r/seduction04/01/21 09:47 PM
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Right a modest 20 year with 2 body counts from long term relationships, no tattoos, does not curse, feminine, submissive is equal to low quality degenerative sluts who have tattoos, drink, smoke, curse, high body counts, not submissive--- sure. Dude it sounds like you can't get high quality women so you rationalize that they are all the same. It would be like not knowing how to find great businesses to invest in and thus only dealing with penny stocks because afterall, ALL companies have risk so…
/r/askTRP23/06/20 02:12 PM
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Very alpha male to speak in a degenerative manner. Get some class, kid.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/20 05:04 PM
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I second this, that book is worth twice it's weight in gold.
/r/askTRP19/05/20 05:28 AM
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I would have said "nah I don't want your number that bad!" Laughed it off and then ask what it was
/r/askTRP25/04/20 04:23 PM
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Your advice is to lie to husbands?
/r/RedPillWives29/03/20 04:11 AM
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