LavenderMechanism Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
776	Vow to yourself “never again”	MOOD FOR LIFE	LavenderMechanism	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/04/21 07:06 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
-3	CMV: Women's SMV is very flexible whilst men's SMV is very rigid. Men struggle on the sexual market because they lack the requisite social skills to attract a woman.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/21 02:56 PM
-4	Most moderm women seem to think that the bar is set extremely low for men. What do you guys think? Are you saying women should give their time to men for nothing in return? Don’t you know that men are a horrible drain on women? Most of you would suck the lifeforce right out of us if you could, whether it’s by insulting our appearance, cheating and/or watching porn, denigrating our achievements ie: “your advanced degree means nothing to men”, using us as therapists, maids, for sex, for money, a place to live, or to trap us into mothering your children, etc., and some of you would rape us and k…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/21 06:25 AM
0	Most moderm women seem to think that the bar is set extremely low for men. What do you guys think? It’s normal for women to go after the most attractive men just like it’s normal for men to go for the most attractive women. Men aren’t entitled to women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/21 06:05 AM
-1	Most moderm women seem to think that the bar is set extremely low for men. What do you guys think? Women face all the standards men face plus the standards to be flawlessly beautiful—naturally—perfect mothers and pornstar-like in bed.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/21 06:03 AM
2	What is the average n-count of men/women? Is that because Giga Chads spread so much disease?	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/21 05:54 AM
1	What is the average n-count of men/women? Do you really believe all women have lesbian sex?	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/21 05:52 AM
4	What is the average n-count of men/women? You believe women engage in sexual activity with an average of 50 men? By what age? I don’t know any woman who has had even close to that many mutually consensual sexual encounters. I doubt the average n count of men reaches 15 either.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/21 05:51 AM
1	Feeling "lied to" is an extension of a horrible victim complex Media should feel relieved that the image it portrays of women isn’t real because the media really treats us like sex objects and second class citizens. You also only see images of young women, which gives the impression that older women don’t work or have hobbies or do things, that we aren’t interesting people. If anyone should be mad about being lied to, it’s women. We were told the world was becoming a better place for us all the while men are making a killing of sexually enslaving and coerci…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/21 05:37 AM
1	How literal of a thinker are you? No. It means “Men get mad when we tell them the truth so we tell them a polite lie so they won’t get mad and jealous and hurt us.” Men are too emotional and volatile to handle directness from women so we adjusted our communication style lest we be murdered.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/21 05:21 AM
0	How literal of a thinker are you? Why do you think obese and disfigured men are entitled to sex with a woman?	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/21 05:19 AM
0	How literal of a thinker are you? You need to communicate to women that you want us to be blunt. Men sometimes hurt and kill women who bluntly tell the truth. We lie to men and say “looks don’t matter” to be polite so we don’t have to worry as much about angry reactions. Imagine the outrage, imagine how men would feel if women bluntly told the truth ALL the time? Men get mad when we say we don’t like baldness and pot bellies. They call us body shamers, same when we say we don’t like short men or men with small hands or small pen…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/21 05:17 AM
3	How literal of a thinker are you? “Looks don’t matter” is just politeness.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/21 05:04 AM
1	How literal of a thinker are you? If a guy harms a woman SHE is one of the PEOPLE around him. You shouldn’t even be involved in this debate if you don’t believe women are people. You mean men when you say “to a woman, a bad guy is a guy who harms her, the people around him don’t matter.” Why should a woman care about other people around a man when that man hurts her?	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/21 04:31 AM
45	Remember to love yourself first and don’t let anyone dull your sparkle. I’m having problems figuring out what he’s trying to say. It sounds a lot like: “Don’t fight back when he abuses you.” A man thinks all the “good” is gone in a women if he can get her to sink to his level like if you throw something back at him when he throws something at you. Or “Men are naturally violent and you can’t expect all men to stop being violent against women so the onus is on the woman to leave a relationship when he gets violent.” Or “Walk away at the first sign of disrespect from a…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/04/21 03:35 AM
22	They fought to the death for our rights, died in childbirth, survived domestic violence, outlawed divorce rape, got us our own bank accounts just to VOLUNTARILY tie yourself to a lvm? Our ancestors made these sacrifices so that future generations could be different. Break generational curses/trauma! I don’t like that a man is looking down at us. It’s women who got us these rights, not a white guy with blue eyes.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/04/21 03:21 AM
-7	Scrotes act like we have a biological clock as though adoption doesn't exist. Parenting is so much more than “guiding a young person.” I don’t want to try to bring you down but I have a special needs child and “guiding a young person” does not accurately describe what I do or what other parents do. The most rewarding part about being a parent is watching your child grow up, seeing who they become, learning about them, their likes and dislikes, seeing what makes them happy. As for “guiding a child”....well, you don’t necessarily guide them, you also have to let them guide …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/04/21 03:18 AM
20	Scrotes act like we have a biological clock as though adoption doesn't exist. The days of getting a baby from a teen mom are long over in many many places in the world. Adoption is much more challenging than you think it is and for many people it isn’t what they want—and that’s okay. It’s okay to want to have biological children. And while it may be very expensive to have a biological child, it’s also very expensive, there are a lot of hurdles and many of the children available are older and/or have special needs. I have a special needs child and it’s not an easy life—but…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/04/21 02:49 AM
7	Realizing just how scrote-y the music of my generation was That’s hate speech. Imagine if that song was about a racial minority or religious group it would never have been played. Song should be banned.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/04/21 02:31 AM
229	As it should be. We’d care what men thought if their thoughts weren’t so depraved, if they thought of us as human beings, and if they cared what we thought. All they think about is subjugating women through manipulation, sex, money and violence and dominating other men through money, manipulation, violence, and sex so it’s not like they’re telling us something new when they open their mouths. It’s just the same old crap over again: “we like you do to whatever we say and if you don’t you’re oppressing us as men.”…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/04/21 02:27 AM
27	FWB Because You’ll Be Fucked Either Way And Not The Way You Like! That sums it up well.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/04/21 09:38 PM
86	Scrote wants to divorce his wife that recently gave birth to their child because he's no longer in love and he's mad that they haven't had sex in FOUR months (she just have birth!). Now he's upset that his family and friends see him as selfish (not the fact that he's created a single parent home). The baby is four months old and his marriage has been dead for a year, he says. So he stopped loving her when he found out she was pregnant. He’s obviously not at all invested in being a father.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/04/21 09:35 PM
42	Are there any specific and subtle questions you can ask male acquaintances to vet them? Ask them what they want in a wife.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/04/21 08:54 PM
129	Fat lvm hitting on fit women He’ll expect her to save him.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/04/21 07:30 PM
9	I'm a porn addict, my wife forced herself to watch with me instead of asserting healthy boundaries. Now we are divorcing, she resents me. It couldn't have been the porn. Anyone? 🤡 Relationships aren’t hard. FDS holds that relationships should be easy and doesn’t glorify “struggle love.”	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/04/21 05:34 PM
15	I'm a porn addict, my wife forced herself to watch with me instead of asserting healthy boundaries. Now we are divorcing, she resents me. It couldn't have been the porn. Anyone? 🤡 He’s clean so he concludes she automatically owes him another chance and can’t be upset anymore.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/04/21 05:31 PM
13	I'm a porn addict, my wife forced herself to watch with me instead of asserting healthy boundaries. Now we are divorcing, she resents me. It couldn't have been the porn. Anyone? 🤡 He doesn’t even acknowledge that she’s spent their entire marriage working on the marriage.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/04/21 05:29 PM
53	I'm a porn addict, my wife forced herself to watch with me instead of asserting healthy boundaries. Now we are divorcing, she resents me. It couldn't have been the porn. Anyone? 🤡 Had	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/04/21 05:23 PM
33	Men scientifically conclude porn doesn’t affect their perception of women 🤡 They talk about being hunters as if they are capable of taking wild animals down with spears. It’s pathetic.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/04/21 05:16 PM
30	Men scientifically conclude porn doesn’t affect their perception of women 🤡 And vaccines.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/04/21 05:13 PM
78	Men scientifically conclude porn doesn’t affect their perception of women 🤡 Really? I didn’t realize porn addicts could recover an appreciation for women, I thought they were all lost causes. Too bad we can’t find out if their appreciation level for women’s sexuality rebounds to levels it would have been at had they never watched porn to begin with.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/04/21 05:13 PM
26	Men scientifically conclude porn doesn’t affect their perception of women 🤡 There was a study conducted decades ago about rape rates in US states that had legal pornography. Alaska was the first state to allow legal porn and the rape rate went up.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/04/21 05:07 PM
106	Men frame women's sexuality as desiring to be looked at, as passive object brought to life by lustful male gazes. Women's sexual desire is suppressed by men using shame and gaslighting. Men who actually want to give a woman an orgasm and master the art of doing it also reap the side benefit of better orgasms for themselves and better relationships with their woman partners. They also get more sex. I would go further too and say that men who don’t prioritize the woman’s orgasms aren’t truly attracted to the woman they’re with, they’re just interested in another notch on their bedpost.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/04/21 05:03 PM
87	Men frame women's sexuality as desiring to be looked at, as passive object brought to life by lustful male gazes. Women's sexual desire is suppressed by men using shame and gaslighting. Beware the man who repeatedly turns down your sexual advances while you’re in a relationship with him. He does it because he doesn’t like you have your own sexuality and expressing your sexual desires. Porn addicts especially can’t handle a woman expressing herself sexually, they believe you should exist to be on call for sex on the occasion they desire a real woman instead of a digital image of one.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/04/21 04:55 PM
70	It's still the same thing Pornography has to be made illegal again. It’s the only way forward.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/04/21 04:51 PM
224	I live in a van down by the river - is this a turn off? Hobosexual. As soon as he finds a girlfriend who “loves adventure”, he’s going to move right into her place and park his van on her driveway. Houses are expensive in Canade, my house has doubled in value in the past two years, that’s why this guy is living in a van. Also his payments on a van are NOT a mortgage. He can’t afford anything. I don’t believe him when he says he’s financially secure. Also, who lives in a van year-round in Canada? It’s far too cold in the winter and far too hot in the …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/04/21 12:52 PM
15	Do men use filters on their faces for their pictures on OLD apps?? Men should only wear custom-made suits.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/04/21 10:13 AM
1	For a legit HVM, what does he get out of dating an FDS woman? What's in it for him? FDS women work hard to be high-value themselves in as many aspects of life as possible. When a HVM dates an FDS woman, he gets a woman who has her life together and isn’t needy because she doesn’t need a man to complete her life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/21 08:27 AM
4	If a man is equal to you, then he's not good enough for you. There is no sweet spot. That’s the sad part. Most men are low-value even when they have high salaries.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/04/21 08:20 AM
36	Literally every male oppression narrative is just blatantly describing toxic masculinity from the perspective of eternal victimhood Man should hug and touch each other more often if they want more physical affection.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/04/21 08:09 AM
28	What Is FDS position on Matchmakers? A friend of mine tried a matchmaker in her late 20s and kept getting set up with men who were substantially older than her.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/04/21 12:29 AM
11	Parent in NY seeks to marry their child. Parent HAS to be a man. The lowest of the low. I’m disgusted. Horrified.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/04/21 12:27 AM
29	The surprising reason so many young men are virgins Men don’t do well in school because they don’t have to. They know everything will work out for them in the end.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/04/21 06:17 PM
23	Flashback to when my exes would ‘compliment’ my labia by saying they were ‘perfect porn star lips’ and I actually thanked them proudly 🤡 I recall feeling complimented in my pick-me days when my ex told me “I don’t usually like women with short hair but it looks good on you.” He then proceeded to try to get me to grow my hair for the remainder of the relationship.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/04/21 06:12 PM
38	Homeless men: an example of how men twist the narrative There are also men who become homeless on purpose because they’re waiting to be rescued. Their ex-partner or parents or friends have come to their rescue in the past and offered them a place to stay so they just sit around waiting to be rescued, telling their sob story to whomever will listen. “The wife kicked me out, I had nothing so I started drinking and smoking crack to cope. If that bitch hadn’t left me I’d still have my business/finished school and I’d still get to see my kids. I miss them…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/04/21 06:10 PM
122	But only if he can't go in dry I would never have sex with a man who used spit as lube. I can’t believe it’s become so common.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/04/21 05:47 PM
6	“How can I be a pick me when I’ve already been picked?” Well said.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/04/21 05:42 PM
3	“How can I be a pick me when I’ve already been picked?” I slip up too on that front. It’s hard after hearing the word day in and day out.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/04/21 05:41 PM
14	“How can I be a pick me when I’ve already been picked?” That’s how I felt in my last relationship too.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/04/21 05:39 PM
18	“How can I be a pick me when I’ve already been picked?” You’re not alone in this one. The sunk cost fallacy is strong with me and so many other women.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/04/21 05:38 PM
89	Is it possible to trust any man these days? Men are never satisfied with the woman they have. It’s the “I wouldn’t want to join a club that would have me as a member” mentality. Men with that kind of low self-esteem could have 10’s lining up for them and they’d find a way to devalue them all.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/04/21 05:36 PM
328	But if we say these porn-fried brained, repellent scrotes have absolutely lost it, we are wrong? (TW: necrophilia, rape) This is how they speak of a dead woman but mention Kobe Bryant was a rapist and men freak out.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/04/21 04:28 PM
17	It's easy to think that people should care about your opinion, when you're not talked over, told to STFU, and scared into silence. Benzos are exceedingly addictive. I had a prescription for Valium at one point for anxiety and I couldn’t get off the drug myself because the withdrawal was so horrendous. I had to be weaned off them in hospital. I wouldn’t recommend anyone touch them unless they have no other choice. Peterson should have known better than to take them for more than a few weeks at a time. As a side note, it turned out my “anxiety” was a prolapsing mitral valve, but being a woman, doctors initially just chalked u…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/04/21 06:43 PM
22	It's easy to think that people should care about your opinion, when you're not talked over, told to STFU, and scared into silence. One of my exes actually stomped his feet like a toddler when I said no to buying him alcohol.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/04/21 06:35 PM
120	The circlejerk of reddit is nauseating It shows how little men care about the reality of women’s lives and I find it more than nauseating—I find it downright infuriating. The worst part about it is they know how much work we do, they just don’t value it, or believe it could be taxing or difficult, or that we could possibly have anything other way we’d like to spend our time other than caring for children and a household. They don’t care to understand the effort that goes into housekeeping, how boring and repetitive and isolating it i…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/04/21 06:31 PM
0	What's an advantage that the opposite sex takes for granted? Why should women care about isolated men when men who are down on their luck will abuse women to try to feel more manly?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/21 01:20 PM
0	What's an advantage that the opposite sex takes for granted? Rape and sexual assault are the most invasive dehumanizing crimes anyone can be subjected to.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/21 01:18 PM
1	What's an advantage that the opposite sex takes for granted? Women have to propagate the species and pregnancy is life threatening. I’d say military service for men is fair.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/21 01:17 PM
-8	What's an advantage that the opposite sex takes for granted? That’s because of poor male behaviour on a large scale. You can help change that by being a good man.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/21 01:15 PM
12	What's an advantage that the opposite sex takes for granted? He lacks fine motor skills and visual discrimination abilities. Can’t recognize an advertisement or a flier versus any other types of media. This also means he also can’t read. I guess his mom typed his answer for him.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/21 01:14 PM
1	What's an advantage that the opposite sex takes for granted? How are men treated like complete shit? Are you constantly exposed to videos and stories of men being raped and murdered by women or something? Can you tell the truth and produce evidence and still not be believed or get justice? Do you die propagating the species? Is ejaculation as life threatening and painful as childbirth? Pretend I’m a truly non-binary alien and you’re making first contact with me and you’re trying to explain how men have it so badly versus women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/21 01:11 PM
-2	What's an advantage that the opposite sex takes for granted? Who does all the killing? Men or women?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/21 01:07 PM
6	This isn’t empowering. That made me sick. I feel this pit of horror in my stomach from watching that. She wasn’t clear on what constitutes the bimbo lifestyle. Can anyone enlighten me?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/04/21 12:34 AM
15	Stop sexualizing women— not because they’re people too, but because it will benefit you more somehow. 🙄 Notice he still brings it back to how have female friends benefits him. What does he bring to the table of heterosexual friendship?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/04/21 06:52 PM
18	Seriously, what IS IT with the 20 something girls?! No need for “freaking out” or being scared and “terrified” you'll “never find love”. Those types of posts make me fear for the next generations... I thought like this in my 20s, I had been so brainwashed, being told my whole life that women peak at 18, even by my own father. Now I’m scared of the opposite, that I will find love and that the mask will drop to reveal a LVM or NVM like it has in the past.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/04/21 06:49 PM
2	Context: the boyfriend has sex with other women for OnlyFans and promotes it on TikTok. The girlfriend says she is “happy”. Comments are saying “y’all mad you get cheated on for free while they’re in a healthy relationship with boundaries, trust, and more money than you” 🤦‍♀️ I hope she escapes from that situationship.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/04/21 06:46 PM
40	Just scrotes being scrotes 🤷‍♀️ Men think dick solves everything.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/04/21 06:08 PM
380	This is the type of obtuse mentality that I'm referring to when I say "men are committed to misunderstanding us" They don’t even bother to reflect on the reasons we don’t want advice from men. For male lurkers: It’s because the advice you give us is always to lower our standards, act in the man’s best interests and ignore our own needs and wants. Yes, men. We know most of you want and expect women to choose to become your slaves but we’re seeking a higher existence.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/04/21 07:03 PM
13	The secret strategy they don't want you to know about - aka do as I say not as I do. Ever wonder why women are so encouraged to find their 'one true love' and 'soulmate' while men are constantly watching porn and looking for the next branch to swing to? But we're supposed to put our blinders on. My love is unconditional for my children, and my pets but if my dog attacks a person or starts attacking other dogs, that dog will be put down no matter how much it hurts.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/04/21 01:32 PM
46	Who else can relate? My last ex once ranted at me for 19 minutes straight without taking a breath. I once took a taxi home from emergency after a gruelling illness and the taxi driver ranted to me about his ex-wife, how she had become a prostitute and how he was applying for full custody of their daughter. He was borderline screaming the whole time. I was very afraid.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/04/21 01:28 PM
105	Who else can relate? My last ex once ranted at me for 19 minutes straight without taking a breath. I was once in a relationship with a divorced man and I left him once I started agreeing with his ex-wife’s criticisms of him. One of the turning points for me was when he responding “nothing, I did everything perfectly,” when I asked him what he could have done differently to have kept his marriage intact. Cue my laughter. This is what he did to his ex-wife, he signed up for another year of university to do a specialized writing program when it was her turn to go back to school. He signed up wit…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/04/21 01:26 PM
54	Who else can relate? My last ex once ranted at me for 19 minutes straight without taking a breath. BPD is a victim-blaming diagnosis psychiatrists give to abused women who express anger.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/04/21 01:22 PM
21	Imagine being in a Long Term Relationship... That’s the strategy I have taken too. They also have to make me cum with oral consistently before I’ll give them any head and I never let them cum during head because they can cum from intercourse and that’s fun for me, while giving head is a chore.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/04/21 01:19 PM
26	I really enjoy watching antifeminists have a meltdown every time we discuss penis size. Just take your L and leave us alone! 😂 Ladies, please enjoy this curated collection of male tears, from the left-wing manosphere 🎁 It’s not just penis size that matters but testicles size too. Once saw a man with super small testicles. I called him “walnut.”	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/04/21 12:41 PM
1	WHICH ONE OF YOU QUEENS DIVORCED THIS LVM LMAO That looks like my gay single brother’s bathroom.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/04/21 12:14 PM
8	Poor woman. He should have started his own OnlyFans.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/04/21 12:13 PM
23	Did this crusty just blame rapist on women?? You don’t need a father to teach a man not to rape. They are sent the message every day that rape is wrong, they just don’t care.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/04/21 10:48 PM
1	Female Dating Strategy Yes there is a lot of discussion about character traits, morals and values. You’ve barely looked at FDS, you’re just spouting BS you’ve heard from other people. There’s also lots of discussion about what they’re bringing to the table beyond being a woman. The fact women create humans with our bodies means we inherently bring tons more value to the table than any man. What we bring to the table—the ability to create human life—is more valuable than anything a man could bring. We don’t need you. Y…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/21 04:21 AM
1	Female Dating Strategy The subreddit is heavily about self improvement and frankly, you have no idea if the women using FDS over over valuing or under valuing themselves because you don’t know what they look like or what their life is like.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/21 03:33 AM
2	Female Dating Strategy I bet you’re not a young, attractive woman.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/21 03:30 AM
1	I'm so effing mad about France, help me calm down I’m happy about this development. I don’t think children should have to wear the Hijab and I don’t like what the Hijab symbolizes. Also, it’s not France preventing Muslim women from enjoying life—it’s Muslim men. France is liberating women from oppressive religious purity dress. Now men can’t use government as a tool to force women what to wear. In fact, a man can say to a woman “put on your Hijab” and she can dance around and say “you’re not allowed forcing me anymore!” If France wasn’t secular…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/04/21 01:37 AM
4	What are physical insecurities that a man has drilled into you? He tried. He tried keeping me as an option, aka “just friends” but my self-respect kicked in and I said no. My self-esteem, though, was broken and I became a full-on Pick-me in my next relationship and was hung out to dry. I excused porn, cheating, him not going down on me because I didn’t have a perfectly flat stomach. That man wasn’t kind about my body either. Took me five years with him to find my voice and courage and stand up for myself. Wish I’d had FDS back then to guide me, or at least s…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/04/21 05:48 PM
2	What are physical insecurities that a man has drilled into you? LVM from all over flocked to that movie and I swear men my age are still fixated on that character.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/04/21 05:39 PM
54	Scrote can't stand a woman isn't attached to him. Well, TRUTH BOMB: he isn't attracted to her either! Bonus truth bomb: she has her pick of partners. He... doesn't. So he’s begging her for sex BUT isn’t attracted to her YET he still believes she should give him a chance because he hardly gets any matches? He’s looking for charity but has no respect for the woman he’s requesting charity from. Only men could have that audacity. This is the kind of man who would take free sandwiches from a nun if he were homeless but yell at her about the immorality of the Catholic Church. Then would be mad when he was banned from free lunches for the homeless. “DON’T YOU KNOW…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/04/21 04:56 PM
218	“This is the future that FDS wants!!” 😂 Notice all the running he has to do? That’s why we want our men fit.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/04/21 04:37 PM
170	Every day the bar descends deeper into hell... Then he gets “post nut clarity” and decides he’s better than you and ghosts.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/04/21 04:34 PM
123	There’s so much creepiness here. I can’t believe he thinks women will actually respond to this ad.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/04/21 04:28 PM
108	I’m never having kids, men just can’t be trusted to stick around, pull their weight or treat you properly after you start family. Then they blame woman for picking badly. I hate him. I don’t know any single mothers who are looking for another man to step in and be daddy to their kids. Most don’t want to date men AT ALL because men are useless lumps, total drains on society and on women.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/04/21 04:26 PM
26	Very important watch that sums up sad reality of dating in London. I'm really scared to make men wait for sex because there's such a high risk he's willing to run the marathon and leave afterward. https://www.instagram.com/tv/CFZf60RAN3q/?igshid=vpdkcxkma87h Men pride themselves on screwing women over. Dumping her after a long chase, after convincing her of his affection, is fun for many of them. They get off on being mean and cold because that’s how they believe a man should feel.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/04/21 06:15 AM
40	What are physical insecurities that a man has drilled into you? One of my exes told me that of all the girlfriends he’d had, he was least attracted to me. We were 30 and I was only the fourth woman he’d ever had a date with. I was devastated. He and I had known each other since we were 19, we had been very good friends and he had been the one to pursue me. I should have broken up with him immediately but didn’t. I knew it was over but I wanted to try to hold on to the good feelings that had been happening for a few months. While he ended for good a couple of…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/04/21 05:59 AM
16	Beware of men dumping their baggage on you early on That indeed is an awful date. Just horrible.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/04/21 05:22 AM
14	Men claim you have stronger feelings towards them to manipulate you Yes this has absolutely happened to me. You’re nice to them or you joke around, flirt with them once or twice, and they think you’re in love with them rather than just trying to get a feel for them.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/04/21 04:44 AM
5	Is there a word for this? They want you around for their ego and that’s it.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/04/21 08:02 PM
28	The other "female" subreddits are disingenuous. I don’t understand why men can’t just mind their own effing business for once. They have the nerve to call women gossipy busybodies but we leave men alone while they believe they get to dictate how women’s spaces are run and what we’re allowed to say in them and they hold us to higher standards than men so we can’t speak the truth. Fuck men.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/04/21 05:15 PM
1	Nick Miller from New Girl was the worst NVM on TV. The entire sitcom is about the emotional immaturity of men, and this dude represents the worst of our culture. Join me in listing the reasons why he’s the worst. 1. Who dumps Megan Fox in a train???? I don’t consider Nick a NVM. I save the NVM label for men who are abusive. I think he’s rather a LVM and that’s because he’s an alcoholic, has no ambition, treats Jess as less than, messes up all his relationships, is selfish, lazy, takes his friends for granted.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/04/21 01:06 PM
2	your money? what money? lmao Then they explain their lack of money by saying they stay poor on purpose to ensure women love them for them.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/04/21 11:15 AM
1	What it means to grow up in a pornified culture. I disagree that education is the answer to combatting porn use. I think legislation is more important because men are self-described animals and their porn usage habits speak for themselves. We need to enact a curfew on men and cut them off cold turkey.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/04/21 05:12 AM
20	Discussion: why do men think they can bring nothing to the table and still be valued? Why should we value a man who offers NOTHING? They expect you to bestow your love on them in return for their attention. They believe women exist waiting for men to acknowledge their existence so we can exercise our natural instinct to love them. It’s all so narcissistic.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/04/21 04:36 AM
22	George Carlin On Women George Carlin never sugarcoats it	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/04/21 12:34 PM
74	Don't fall for it, ladies. Be smarter than this. We need a public campaign to educate women on marriage vs cohabitation rights. That might prevent this from happening. We also need changes to the law to prevent men from taking advantage of women like this.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/03/21 11:59 PM