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| 1 | If the feminsits movement blows out of peroration and it turns into a full on sex/gender war , which side do you think would have the advantage . men or women ?Thank goodness. Bye. | /r/AntiFeminists | 09/07/23 11:16 PM |
| 1 | If the feminsits movement blows out of peroration and it turns into a full on sex/gender war , which side do you think would have the advantage . men or women ?We wouldn’t have to. We’d be happy to sleep with the men who took our side and agreed with us that you “let’s go to war with women” types were a bunch of fools. There would be plenty. Loving husbands and boyfriends exist. Any guy who didn’t meet the grade would be rejected. Are you done yet? This is boring. | /r/AntiFeminists | 09/07/23 10:55 PM |
| 1 | If the feminsits movement blows out of peroration and it turns into a full on sex/gender war , which side do you think would have the advantage . men or women ?Awesome. Go away. | /r/AntiFeminists | 09/07/23 10:51 PM |
| 1 | If the feminsits movement blows out of peroration and it turns into a full on sex/gender war , which side do you think would have the advantage . men or women ?Re-read. Yes, I did. Best regards, friend. | /r/AntiFeminists | 09/07/23 09:16 PM |
| 1 | If the feminsits movement blows out of peroration and it turns into a full on sex/gender war , which side do you think would have the advantage . men or women ?Nope, wrong again. Is this all you’re going to do, spew the same old nonsense, you can go ahead and end this discussion. I promise you there’s nothing you can say that will make me respect you. | /r/AntiFeminists | 09/07/23 09:12 PM |
| 1 | If the feminsits movement blows out of peroration and it turns into a full on sex/gender war , which side do you think would have the advantage . men or women ?Lol men who go “prison gay” would say yes. In your silly hypothetical war, men would only go so long before they either started begging their buddies to hook them up or trying to find stray women to attack. You guys would eventually cave. Maybe not you, specifically. But enough. You’d demand a truce and wave the white flag. | /r/AntiFeminists | 09/07/23 06:30 PM |
| 1 | If the feminsits movement blows out of peroration and it turns into a full on sex/gender war , which side do you think would have the advantage . men or women ?Nope. Sit down. | /r/AntiFeminists | 09/07/23 12:14 PM |
| 1 | If the feminsits movement blows out of peroration and it turns into a full on sex/gender war , which side do you think would have the advantage . men or women ?You’re very triggered by this, aren’t you? | /r/AntiFeminists | 09/07/23 12:14 PM |
| 1 | The unattractive man who struggles to get women hates the unattractive woman who struggles to get men.Guys spew this nonsense then whine about wanting a virgin. Make it make sense. | /r/AllPillDebate | 08/06/23 10:01 AM |
| 2 | The unattractive man who struggles to get women hates the unattractive woman who struggles to get men.You won’t have any luck with these guys. You could do everything they ever asked and they’ll still find fault because, deep down, they just don’t like women. | /r/AllPillDebate | 08/06/23 10:00 AM |
| 1 | The unattractive man who struggles to get women hates the unattractive woman who struggles to get men.What constitutes “courtesy and respect” for you? Is it “thank you” when you happen to hold open a door? Is it “Thanks, you too,” when you tell someone to have a nice day? These sound appropriate and pretty much the norm. What more did you have in mind? | /r/AllPillDebate | 08/06/23 09:58 AM |
| 1 | The unattractive man who struggles to get women hates the unattractive woman who struggles to get men.How do you propose to do that? | /r/AllPillDebate | 08/06/23 09:55 AM |
| 1 | The unattractive man who struggles to get women hates the unattractive woman who struggles to get men.Dude, who hurt you? | /r/AllPillDebate | 08/06/23 09:54 AM |
| 2 | The unattractive man who struggles to get women hates the unattractive woman who struggles to get men.Resents if she dates anyone other than him, calls the men who date her “simps” and complains that she has an inflated sense of her worth because simps tell her she’s attractive and have sex with her, even though he also wishes he could have sex with her. | /r/AllPillDebate | 08/06/23 09:51 AM |
| 1 | "When your male colleague is 'mansplaining,' here's what to do"No, baby. It doesn’t hurt. Nothing you have to say is going to hurt me. It’s the internet, for goodness sakes. | /r/MensRights | 31/05/23 04:42 AM |
| 1 | Have you noticed feminism has made it practically impossible to vent about how difficult dating has become for men?You seem angry. What would help? | /r/AntiFeminists | 30/05/23 07:45 AM |
| 1 | Have you noticed feminism has made it practically impossible to vent about how difficult dating has become for men?I mean, I’m happier. My daughter is happier. The women with whom I work are excited about the work we do, and take a lot of happiness in it. We have decided, by and large, to reject the male definitions of what is desirable and to take joy in ourselves. When a man says they find one of us undesirable or unsuitable, we laugh at them because it’s funny how men think their opinions should matter to us. Men have always—always, even now, even you—want to tell women how to live, act, dress, eat, fuck,… | /r/AntiFeminists | 23/05/23 11:59 PM |
| 1 | Have you noticed feminism has made it practically impossible to vent about how difficult dating has become for men?So, you’re saying men are struggling with being treated the way men have treated women for the last 200 years or so? | /r/AntiFeminists | 23/05/23 10:51 PM |
| 1 | Have you noticed feminism has made it practically impossible to vent about how difficult dating has become for men?Are you sure? Mostly, they don’t complain about being made fun of. Mostly, they rage that women are too full of themselves and should be settling for the lesser quality men they identify as. They bitch that women they consider ugly or worthless are sleeping with men other then themselves. I don’t see a lot of incelly posts saying people are mean. Just angry ones about women not having sex with them. Do you consider yourself part of the “incel” population? | /r/AntiFeminists | 23/05/23 10:06 PM |
| 1 | Have you noticed feminism has made it practically impossible to vent about how difficult dating has become for men?That’s interesting. Do you think men are mocked as “incels” for not having sex or for raging over it? | /r/AntiFeminists | 23/05/23 09:11 PM |
| 1 | If the feminsits movement blows out of peroration and it turns into a full on sex/gender war , which side do you think would have the advantage . men or women ?Oh, no doubt. 🤦🏼😂 | /r/AntiFeminists | 13/04/23 11:18 AM |
| 1 | If the feminsits movement blows out of peroration and it turns into a full on sex/gender war , which side do you think would have the advantage . men or women ?Yes, it’s clear you’re a tremendous intellect. | /r/AntiFeminists | 13/04/23 11:14 AM |
| 1 | If the feminsits movement blows out of peroration and it turns into a full on sex/gender war , which side do you think would have the advantage . men or women ?Maybe some guys. But you? I’ve kept you stringing along on this thread for two days. You’re soooo easy to provoke. | /r/AntiFeminists | 13/04/23 11:09 AM |
| 1 | If the feminsits movement blows out of peroration and it turns into a full on sex/gender war , which side do you think would have the advantage . men or women ?Cool story. Any more witty, thoughtful comments rattling around up in that noggin? | /r/AntiFeminists | 13/04/23 10:38 AM |
| 1 | If the feminsits movement blows out of peroration and it turns into a full on sex/gender war , which side do you think would have the advantage . men or women ?I didn’t say they’d shut down, silly. I said that eventually most of the men would seek an end to the fighting out of loneliness. Not all. Some would turn to their male friends. Some would go without. But eventually, they would sue for peace. I mean, go ask your male buddies if they could accept giving up hetero sex and affection forever. I’ll wait. | /r/AntiFeminists | 13/04/23 10:37 AM |
| – | Ladies, how would you describe the difference between being a doormat and being submissive?I think that makes sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/23 08:51 AM |
| – | Ladies, how would you describe the difference between being a doormat and being submissive?And if she argues, or asserts her own mindset, does that make her bitchy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/23 08:21 AM |
| 1 | If men were less horny, what would happen?Think of how marketing would change. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/23 08:12 AM |
| 2 | Studies saying women are "happier single" than men are extremely misleadingI’m failing to see how this is a woman’s fault or problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/23 08:10 AM |
| 1 | If the feminsits movement blows out of peroration and it turns into a full on sex/gender war , which side do you think would have the advantage . men or women ?It’s cute you think it would be so simple. If a nation’s men declared war on its women, women would simply stop providing any and all sex and affection. Yes, some women would be raped, and some would die. But enough heterosexual men, men who love sex with women, men who hold affection for their female partners, would want a truce. Meek men who did not like being raped by more aggressive sex-starved men would seek a truce. Men who cared for their mothers, sisters, and daughters would seek a truce… | /r/AntiFeminists | 13/04/23 04:07 AM |
| 1 | If the feminsits movement blows out of peroration and it turns into a full on sex/gender war , which side do you think would have the advantage . men or women ?Before you attempt to fling an insult questioning someone’s intelligence, you should probably spellcheck that puppy. I’m being intentionally obtuse. I’m asking you to spell out the objective. What is men’s endgame of a proposed war of the sexes? One should have goals, right? | /r/AntiFeminists | 13/04/23 04:03 AM |
| 1 | If the feminsits movement blows out of peroration and it turns into a full on sex/gender war , which side do you think would have the advantage . men or women ?Do you have anything of actual value to add, or are you just going to keep on spouting nonsense? Just jump into the hotdog bun if you’re going to keep acting like a weenie, dude. | /r/AntiFeminists | 12/04/23 09:00 PM |
| 1 | If the feminsits movement blows out of peroration and it turns into a full on sex/gender war , which side do you think would have the advantage . men or women ?“Better” meaning what? Faster, with more cussing? Your hubris is what makes you so easy to manipulate and defeat. | /r/AntiFeminists | 12/04/23 08:14 PM |
| 1 | If the feminsits movement blows out of peroration and it turns into a full on sex/gender war , which side do you think would have the advantage . men or women ?One word: yawn. Are you done posturing? | /r/AntiFeminists | 12/04/23 08:12 PM |
| 1 | If the feminsits movement blows out of peroration and it turns into a full on sex/gender war , which side do you think would have the advantage . men or women ?So how long have you had a man crush on Andy. Does he know your in love? | /r/AntiFeminists | 12/04/23 08:10 PM |
| 1 | "When your male colleague is 'mansplaining,' here's what to do"Is it a “personal insult” to direct you to a website where you can conduct quality research? Maybe you need to ask yourself why a touch of sarcasm and legitimate advice feels like an attack. Dare I say you’ve experienced what it’s like to be “mansplained” to? | /r/MensRights | 05/04/23 05:39 AM |
| 1 | "When your male colleague is 'mansplaining,' here's what to do"I haven’t the energy, or frankly, the crayons to interact with you further. You can, as the wingnuts say, “do your own research.” Google Scholar is free if you don’t have scholarly journal access through your school, local library, or college (I mean, it’s not likely you’re in college, but anything is possible). You might even find some research that supports your claims. But that means you’d have to actually look it all up and read it. Sounds like a great thing for you to try. | /r/MensRights | 28/03/23 08:25 AM |
| 1 | "When your male colleague is 'mansplaining,' here's what to do"You must have so many stupid prizes in your apartment. How do you find room to function? | /r/MensRights | 28/03/23 08:20 AM |
| 1 | "When your male colleague is 'mansplaining,' here's what to do"Wow, smart comeback there. | /r/MensRights | 28/03/23 02:33 AM |
| 1 | "When your male colleague is 'mansplaining,' here's what to do"See herehttps://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/122di6l/when_your_male_colleague_is_mansplaining_heres/jdy6ooz/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf&context=3 | /r/MensRights | 28/03/23 01:31 AM |
| 1 | "When your male colleague is 'mansplaining,' here's what to do"Nor do I require your “authorization” to identify your interruptive and argumentative speech patterns toward woman as “mansplaining.” | /r/MensRights | 28/03/23 01:30 AM |
| 1 | "When your male colleague is 'mansplaining,' here's what to do"More than fifty observational sociolinguistic studies conducted from the 1970s onward in the United States and abroad contradict your anecdotal evidence. I’ve cited three below. This is not to say you aren’t interrupted and disputed by women, and it does not invalidate the frustration you experience when your expertise is questioned by someone with less knowledge. This is to say that the phenomena of “mansplaining” and “manteruption” are observable, measurable, and an ongoing pattern of male beh… | /r/MensRights | 28/03/23 01:25 AM |
| 0 | Thought yall would be interested in this trend of the term "male only gym" since 2004. It is a small thing compared to other issues men face, but might be nice to get the ball rolling?That makes sense. Though at the gyms I frequent, I see a lot of male-male camaraderie and encouragement. | /r/MensRights | 27/03/23 07:48 PM |
| 1 | "When your male colleague is 'mansplaining,' here's what to do"Your unsolicited opinion? | /r/MensRights | 27/03/23 07:44 PM |
| 1 | "When your male colleague is 'mansplaining,' here's what to do"Men interrupt and lecture women because they’re “disagreeable by nature?” That’s an interesting take, and incidentally a great way to absolve men from any responsibility for learning how not to be rude. It’s a good thing women have decided to also not be agreeable, I guess. | /r/MensRights | 27/03/23 03:53 PM |
| 0 | "When your male colleague is 'mansplaining,' here's what to do"Except you still don’t really understand research at the collegiate level, and from the look of things, you never will. You won’t read the article because the words are too big and too plentiful, and if you do try, you’ll see something you don’t agree with, and you’ll just give up. So who’s the real winner, here? But here, have a participation trophy 🏆. Thanks for playing. | /r/MensRights | 27/03/23 03:48 PM |
| 0 | "When your male colleague is 'mansplaining,' here's what to do"I said “Best wishes.” Unless you read the Cambridge article, I’m finished with you. | /r/MensRights | 27/03/23 03:35 PM |
| 0 | "When your male colleague is 'mansplaining,' here's what to do"You don’t need to agree. You’re just wrong. Not just because I think so, but because literally every sociolinguistic researcher in the field working today would say so. Because nearly a half century of research indicates you’re wrong. But you’re going to sit there and say you know better. It’s like arguing basic maths with a Labrador. Except at least the lab is charming. This has been an excellent example of textbook mansplaining. This has been screencapped. Be glad to know this conversation wil… | /r/MensRights | 27/03/23 03:23 PM |
| 1 | "When your male colleague is 'mansplaining,' here's what to do"https://www.cambridge.org/core/journals/american-political-science-review/article/effect-of-gender-on-interruptions-at-congressional-hearings/DDD33F28A1C8ED9C162E1793D8126243 Here ya go. Fresh data published this year. They analyze patterns from 1994 to 2018, over 24,000 of recorded congressional committee meetings. But yes, come back in a few and argue men have significantly changed since 2018. | /r/MensRights | 27/03/23 03:16 PM |
| 0 | "When your male colleague is 'mansplaining,' here's what to do"You disagree because you do not understand the nature of academic research, which builds upon foundational studies in order to have a handle on new data. You don’t understand, but you still feel qualified to dispute the whole process. You’re literally illustrating that male behavior is the same now as it was in 1989. | /r/MensRights | 27/03/23 03:07 PM |
| 0 | "When your male colleague is 'mansplaining,' here's what to do"And yet you continue to disagree. Google “literature review.” And I’ll need your address to send you a bill for tuition. Principles of Academic Research 101. | /r/MensRights | 27/03/23 02:42 PM |
| 1 | "When your male colleague is 'mansplaining,' here's what to do"Just do us both a favor and google “why do new academic studies cite older studies.” | /r/MensRights | 27/03/23 02:39 PM |
| 1 | "When your male colleague is 'mansplaining,' here's what to do"Not remotely what I said. Try again. Or don’t. | /r/MensRights | 27/03/23 01:49 PM |
| 0 | "When your male colleague is 'mansplaining,' here's what to do"I mean, I have degrees in this, and you’re literally attempting to say you know this material better than I do, when you didn’t even read either article or any of the 50 or more that have been published between 1989 and 2023. You have a limited (at best) knowledge base on the sociological studies or quantifiable data available on this avenue of research. But you still seem to consider yourself qualified to tell me you know more about this topic than me. Why do you think that is? Do you consider … | /r/MensRights | 27/03/23 01:44 PM |
| 1 | "When your male colleague is 'mansplaining,' here's what to do"Humans don’t. | /r/MensRights | 27/03/23 01:35 PM |
| 0 | "When your male colleague is 'mansplaining,' here's what to do"You didn’t read it. Seriously, dude, you’re maybe a little out of your depth here. I’ll toss you a bone. “The view of language as a comprehensive (and insidious) system of control, power, and dominance did not emerge until several years after Lakoff's (1973) publication, as her linguistic claims were put to the empirical test. Analyzing speaker interruptions, perhaps one of the most well-examined features of conversational dominance, Zimmerman & West (1975) argue that male speakers are more like… | /r/MensRights | 27/03/23 01:17 PM |
| 1 | "When your male colleague is 'mansplaining,' here's what to do"No, you’re just going to have to read it. I am not your secretary. | /r/MensRights | 27/03/23 12:34 PM |
| 0 | "When your male colleague is 'mansplaining,' here's what to do"So you didn’t read the 2023 study I linked. Not even the summary. That tracks. | /r/MensRights | 27/03/23 12:34 PM |
| 1 | "When your male colleague is 'mansplaining,' here's what to do"Maybe this will help. https://www.annualreviews.org/doi/pdf/10.1146/annurev-linguistics-011718-011650 | /r/MensRights | 27/03/23 12:17 PM |
| 0 | "When your male colleague is 'mansplaining,' here's what to do"Um… the 1989 study has been cited more than 50 times, and that’s second study up there was from earlier this year. Jump in the pond if you’re going to be a silly goose. | /r/MensRights | 27/03/23 12:15 PM |
| 0 | "When your male colleague is 'mansplaining,' here's what to do"Have you looked at either study? This isn’t just people in power talking down others. Quite the opposite. This is people on a level field or even from a lower position (vis-a-vis amount of expertise in field) cutting across another speaker, either to wrangle hold of a conversation or to correct the speaker. It is, as noted in these and more than thirty other independent observational studies, a male behavior toward female speakers. If you aren’t going to at least read the summaries of those stud… | /r/MensRights | 27/03/23 11:48 AM |
| 1 | "When your male colleague is 'mansplaining,' here's what to do"Though it’s interesting to note no one has actually requested these articles. It tells me that there are plenty of MRA types on this thread who just don’t give a shit. They want to interrupt women and don’t want to be told not to. Period. | /r/MensRights | 27/03/23 10:05 AM |
| 1 | "When your male colleague is 'mansplaining,' here's what to do"I don’t disagree. | /r/MensRights | 27/03/23 10:03 AM |
| 1 | "When your male colleague is 'mansplaining,' here's what to do"This is an interesting deflection. What do you mean by “women who … educate men on how to be a man?” I ask because there are plenty of discussion posts of guys explicitly asking what women seek in a partner. Otherwise, I can completely understand why unsolicited advice would be annoying. Women feel the same way about unsolicited advice from men when it comes to being more attractive. I’m sure, like women, men get a lot of unsolicited and conflicting advice to that end, and it’s tiresome. As for … | /r/MensRights | 27/03/23 04:23 AM |
| 2 | I’m feeling like I’m going nowhere in life.I genuinely hope it gets better. It’s really hard waking up feeling like there’s no hope. | /r/MensRights | 27/03/23 02:46 AM |
| -1 | "When your male colleague is 'mansplaining,' here's what to do"Let’s look at the language you used. If you did something stupid, like talked out of your ass about something you know fuck all about… Your words illustrate an assumed narrative you believe happened to me. Your rebuttal appears predicated on the unquestioned belief that I speak without knowledge and was educated, and that assumption informed the remainder of your reply, IE that I perceived any corrective dialogue as condescending because I was speaking from a place of ignorance. The derisive ton… | /r/MensRights | 27/03/23 12:21 AM |
| 0 | "When your male colleague is 'mansplaining,' here's what to do"Did I interrupt you? | /r/MensRights | 27/03/23 12:00 AM |
| -4 | "When your male colleague is 'mansplaining,' here's what to do"So, that’s a straw man of your own, and it’s pretty flimsy. Look at your own language. You automatically assume that a) it was my own experience I’m describing, and b) that I was “talking out of my ass.” So many assumptions, and none of them accurate. Your assumptions are predicated on your belief that any woman talking knows less than you and is talking out of her ass. Which goes right back to the point of the article. | /r/MensRights | 26/03/23 10:19 PM |
| -9 | "When your male colleague is 'mansplaining,' here's what to do"Doesn’t it depend on the subject and the individuals involved? Given first the understanding that no one “knows everything,” obviously there are experts in a variety of fields—experts who have devoted years to gathering and assimilating data about their areas of expertise. Given that, men will still often demonstrate an urge to interrupt and lecture these individuals, generally from a place of less expertise, and especially if said expert is a woman. This isn’t my opinion. This is a trait of mal… | /r/MensRights | 26/03/23 10:07 PM |
| -1 | "When your male colleague is 'mansplaining,' here's what to do"Except that studies going back to the 60s exploring interaction and language patterns indicate men have a greater tendency to interrupt in general, and an even greater tendency to interrupt women. I can link those studies if you’d like. They simply recorded a variety of settings — professional, casual, academic — and tallied interruptions. | /r/MensRights | 26/03/23 09:59 PM |
| 0 | "When your male colleague is 'mansplaining,' here's what to do"That’s an awful lot of hate, there. | /r/MensRights | 26/03/23 09:55 PM |
| -1 | "When your male colleague is 'mansplaining,' here's what to do"Didn’t say I was a victim. I said I don’t understand the impetus. | /r/MensRights | 26/03/23 09:54 PM |
| -40 | "When your male colleague is 'mansplaining,' here's what to do"So you don’t mind when people tell you what you already know. That’s fantastic. But not everyone is the same way—not even all men are okay with being lectured about something they know a lot about. Sounds like you really just don’t much like assertive, no-nonsense women. That’s okay, though. No one says you have to. Just don’t interrupt when people are talking, right? | /r/MensRights | 26/03/23 02:02 PM |
| 1 | Thought yall would be interested in this trend of the term "male only gym" since 2004. It is a small thing compared to other issues men face, but might be nice to get the ball rolling?Agreed. A woman at a powerlifting gym is there to do one thing, and if she is taking photos, they’re progress selfies. I’ve only considered filming a guy once, and it was because I caught him photographing me. Instead, I looked at his camera until he noticed, then flipped him off. Pervert. | /r/MensRights | 26/03/23 01:44 PM |
| 1 | Should there be a men’s March in November just like women have their March in March?I say go for it. | /r/MensRights | 26/03/23 12:42 PM |
| 1 | The Story of MariaSo maybe you feel like her initially blocking you was a “bridge too far,” but it sounds like a blessing in disguise. She could have used any future texts twisted around against you if you’d continued conversing. | /r/MensRights | 26/03/23 12:41 PM |
| 1 | Im confused. Feminists have been telling people for years they are "equally physically as strong & capable as men". Today they are celebrating the new ban on all trans people competing in womens sports, saying: "good, because they are stronger than us"....It’s bananas. | /r/MensRights | 26/03/23 12:34 PM |
| -1 | Bit of a ventIt’s a good point. If you go to pages for feminism, supportive men are given an ear and aren’t usually talked down to. Even if I’m on this page asking hard question, I have empathy for what men are up against. | /r/MensRights | 26/03/23 12:32 PM |
| 1 | Thought yall would be interested in this trend of the term "male only gym" since 2004. It is a small thing compared to other issues men face, but might be nice to get the ball rolling?The problem with that is that there are plenty of women now in power or oly lifting. | /r/MensRights | 26/03/23 12:15 PM |
| -1 | Thought yall would be interested in this trend of the term "male only gym" since 2004. It is a small thing compared to other issues men face, but might be nice to get the ball rolling?As a woman, I would support such a thing as men-only gyms. I get that there are guys who aren’t comfortable sharing gym space with women, who find women’s fitness wear distasteful or too sexy. Guys like that should definitely have their own space. But I agree with someone else who said it would be almost impossible to avoid litigation. It’s ridiculous. A men only gym for the kind of guy who complains about women in the gym is a win-win. Women can workout happy without worrying about someone bein… | /r/MensRights | 26/03/23 12:12 PM |
| 2 | Thought yall would be interested in this trend of the term "male only gym" since 2004. It is a small thing compared to other issues men face, but might be nice to get the ball rolling?As a woman, that’s my gym and it’s great. But I’ve been a tomboy since childhood. I want zero to do with pop music, booty bands, and the treadmill (though I will use it for 3/10/30). Point me to the heavy shit and let me work. I still think a dude only gym sounds like a really great idea. | /r/MensRights | 26/03/23 12:09 PM |
| -18 | "When your male colleague is 'mansplaining,' here's what to do"Perhaps. | /r/MensRights | 26/03/23 12:07 PM |
| -2 | According to the feminism that has taken over our entire culture, women who show “empathy” are “toxic”. They are deliberately encouraging women never to show empathy or sensitivity. This is something I would expect to see in a badly-written dystopian story, not real life.What sort of empathy do men require? | /r/MensRights | 26/03/23 12:02 PM |
| 1 | According to the feminism that has taken over our entire culture, women who show “empathy” are “toxic”. They are deliberately encouraging women never to show empathy or sensitivity. This is something I would expect to see in a badly-written dystopian story, not real life.I think it’s just a flat out rejection of the “male ideal woman” motif. | /r/MensRights | 26/03/23 11:46 AM |
| 5 | I asked this question on another subreddit, but I would like to ask here as well. What’s the equivalent of giving flowers/jewelry/clothes to girls is to men?Right, that’s awkward with dad. | /r/MensRights | 26/03/23 11:36 AM |
| 1 | I asked this question on another subreddit, but I would like to ask here as well. What’s the equivalent of giving flowers/jewelry/clothes to girls is to men?I’ve been told guys actually do like flowers. Books are a good thing, too. Does he golf or play another sport? | /r/MensRights | 26/03/23 11:36 AM |
| 1 | I’m feeling like I’m going nowhere in life.Also, check out the web for light pollution maps. Plan an outing to a spot with minimal pollution (city lights are he worst) and go stargaze camping. Bonus if you can time one with one of 2023’s upcoming meteor events. | /r/MensRights | 26/03/23 11:34 AM |
| 1 | I’m feeling like I’m going nowhere in life.I’ve heard them called the “vomit comets” — but it still sounds fun. | /r/MensRights | 26/03/23 11:33 AM |
| 1 | I’m feeling like I’m going nowhere in life.It actually sounds like you ARE fighting some depression. Feeling hopeless, feelings of despair, feeling beat up by the world—those are symptomatic of depression. Have you pursued any sort of counseling or therapy, or mentioned this to your doctor? Contrary to what some say, seeing a professional is not a bad idea. It’s not “unmanly” to hook up with a therapist. And if healthcare access is an issue, talking with a reliable friend (rather the internet, where a spiral of negative ideas can make pr… | /r/MensRights | 26/03/23 11:32 AM |
| -35 | "When your male colleague is 'mansplaining,' here's what to do"I don’t understand the impetus some (thankfully not all) male colleagues have to cut across a female colleague verbally, or worse, to explain something to her that she fully knows. In the non professional world, I’ve watched men attempt to explain to women why they know more about periods, vaginas, breastfeeding, and relationships (claiming they know more than women what women want). I don’t understand it. Can you explain why guys do this? I’ve been married 25 years. I’ll be talking, and my part… | /r/MensRights | 26/03/23 11:26 AM |
| -50 | "When your male colleague is 'mansplaining,' here's what to do"But, at the same time, do not explain something to someone who likely knows more about it than you. It’s rude and condescending, and if you do it, you should be called out. I don’t like the term much because it’s become a joke, but if you interrupt me at work to repeat what I’ve already stated, I will most certainly say “Mr A, I am not finished speaking.” Then I will continue what I was saying. | /r/MensRights | 26/03/23 11:22 AM |
| 1 | Lets speak about MisandryApologies accepted. | /r/MensRights | 13/03/23 12:36 AM |
| 0 | Lets speak about MisandryIf you point to a pile of dog poo and say “That is definitely dog poo,” does that mean you are a big fan of dog poo? Acknowledging something exists is not the same as saying you support it. Spool down there, turbo. I said there are women who exist who strongly embrace a very hateful view of men. This does not mean I support them or are one of them. | /r/MensRights | 13/03/23 12:15 AM |
| 1 | International Women's Day is a tainted, toxic mess of a 'celebration day'.Do you genuinely not see the loathing that saturated a lot of this page? | /r/MensRights | 12/03/23 05:49 PM |
| 0 | Lets speak about MisandryWhat is hypocritical about saying some women aren’t concerned with hiding that they’ve grown to hate males? Saying something exists isn’t endorsing that view. | /r/MensRights | 12/03/23 05:48 PM |
| 2 | Lets speak about MisandrySo where does the cycle stop? | /r/MensRights | 12/03/23 12:15 PM |
| 0 | Lets speak about MisandryI’m pretty sure they don’t care about being exposed, either. | /r/MensRights | 12/03/23 12:15 PM |
| 2 | Lets speak about MisandryIsn’t that generally the topic on this page? | /r/MensRights | 12/03/23 12:14 PM |
| 1 | International Women's Day is a tainted, toxic mess of a 'celebration day'.There is an International Mens Day in November. It’s a day, dude. They have days for moms, dads, grandparents, presidents, activists, and a whole load of religious holidays. You’re making a big deal out of nothing. | /r/MensRights | 12/03/23 12:13 PM |
| -1 | International Women's Day is a tainted, toxic mess of a 'celebration day'.Genuine question. Is this a page for the rights of men, or is this just a page that hates women? | /r/MensRights | 12/03/23 12:11 PM |
| 1 | If the feminsits movement blows out of peroration and it turns into a full on sex/gender war , which side do you think would have the advantage . men or women ?No, of course not. We would cut you out of our lives. Why, would that not work? Would you chase us and seek to destroy us? | /r/AntiFeminists | 10/03/23 01:25 PM |
| 0 | If the feminsits movement blows out of peroration and it turns into a full on sex/gender war , which side do you think would have the advantage . men or women ?And again, I asked what the particulars of this war would be. Did someone come from on high and tell men and women to battle it out? Or did one gender or the other declare war? And finally, what would be the reason for said war. Here’s my take. If men declared war on women (for whatever silly reasons), women would respond by ending all consensual heterosexual sex. Period. Regardless of relationship status. Men would have to settle for sex with their male companions, regardless of their orientati… | /r/AntiFeminists | 04/03/23 12:00 PM |
| 1 | If the feminsits movement blows out of peroration and it turns into a full on sex/gender war , which side do you think would have the advantage . men or women ?I did not interpret it in any way. I specifically asked them to clarify the particulars of this imagined conflict, which they failed to do. | /r/AntiFeminists | 04/03/23 11:55 AM |
| -1 | If the feminsits movement blows out of peroration and it turns into a full on sex/gender war , which side do you think would have the advantage . men or women ?I think we’d be as fine as any population would be if roughly half of the people disappeared. And again, I’ve stated that if there is a job no woman could possibly do, we’d pay a gentleman to complete the job and then go away. | /r/AntiFeminists | 04/03/23 11:54 AM |
| 1 | Have you noticed feminism has made it practically impossible to vent about how difficult dating has become for men?The concept of consent is confusing to you, I see. | /r/AntiFeminists | 03/03/23 11:39 AM |
| 1 | Have you noticed feminism has made it practically impossible to vent about how difficult dating has become for men?The concept of consent is confusing to you, I see. | /r/AntiFeminists | 03/03/23 11:39 AM |
| 1 | Does misogyny exist?I would, though, posit that the existence of anti-male bias does not negate the existence of anti-female bias. | /r/AntiFeminists | 02/03/23 08:36 AM |
| 1 | Does misogyny exist?These are all well worth reading. I’m new to Reddit, so I’m not sure what the old format looked like. I was able to find and read this reply, though, so that seems to work well enough. | /r/AntiFeminists | 02/03/23 08:35 AM |
| 1 | Does misogyny exist?Take your pick, I guess. | /r/AntiFeminists | 28/02/23 05:50 PM |
| 1 | If the feminsits movement blows out of peroration and it turns into a full on sex/gender war , which side do you think would have the advantage . men or women ?Okay, bye then. | /r/AntiFeminists | 26/02/23 12:25 PM |
| 1 | If the feminsits movement blows out of peroration and it turns into a full on sex/gender war , which side do you think would have the advantage . men or women ?I mean, do you want a participation trophy or something, for your profound contributions to this thread? | /r/AntiFeminists | 26/02/23 11:50 AM |
| 1 | If the feminsits movement blows out of peroration and it turns into a full on sex/gender war , which side do you think would have the advantage . men or women ?Are you finished? | /r/AntiFeminists | 26/02/23 10:06 AM |
| 1 | If the feminsits movement blows out of peroration and it turns into a full on sex/gender war , which side do you think would have the advantage . men or women ?Do you need something here? No? Goodbye | /r/AntiFeminists | 26/02/23 09:55 AM |
| 1 | If the feminsits movement blows out of peroration and it turns into a full on sex/gender war , which side do you think would have the advantage . men or women ?Speak for yourself. I’m wounded by your harsh words. I may need medical attention. | /r/AntiFeminists | 26/02/23 07:28 AM |
| 1 | If the feminsits movement blows out of peroration and it turns into a full on sex/gender war , which side do you think would have the advantage . men or women ?Almost as funny as you look. | /r/AntiFeminists | 26/02/23 07:01 AM |
| 1 | If the feminsits movement blows out of peroration and it turns into a full on sex/gender war , which side do you think would have the advantage . men or women ?It’s not my fault you’re not smart enough to figure that out. | /r/AntiFeminists | 25/02/23 12:37 AM |
| 2 | If the feminsits movement blows out of peroration and it turns into a full on sex/gender war , which side do you think would have the advantage . men or women ?I’ve haven’t seen someone more confidently dead wrong in a long time. | /r/AntiFeminists | 24/02/23 07:07 PM |
| 2 | If the feminsits movement blows out of peroration and it turns into a full on sex/gender war , which side do you think would have the advantage . men or women ?That’s the first true statement you’ve made. You don’t fucking know. | /r/AntiFeminists | 24/02/23 07:05 PM |
| 1 | If the feminsits movement blows out of peroration and it turns into a full on sex/gender war , which side do you think would have the advantage . men or women ?Run along with you L. | /r/AntiFeminists | 24/02/23 07:03 PM |
| 1 | If the feminsits movement blows out of peroration and it turns into a full on sex/gender war , which side do you think would have the advantage . men or women ?I thought you were the expert on war here, and at 15 years old, too. No doubt, you have it all figured out. | /r/AntiFeminists | 24/02/23 07:03 PM |
| 1 | If the feminsits movement blows out of peroration and it turns into a full on sex/gender war , which side do you think would have the advantage . men or women ?Prove it? 😂 | /r/AntiFeminists | 24/02/23 06:59 PM |
| 1 | If the feminsits movement blows out of peroration and it turns into a full on sex/gender war , which side do you think would have the advantage . men or women ?Shhhh, my son and I are watching a YouTube about how Andrew Tate is stupid. I am not your mommy. Go away. | /r/AntiFeminists | 24/02/23 06:57 PM |
| 1 | If the feminsits movement blows out of peroration and it turns into a full on sex/gender war , which side do you think would have the advantage . men or women ?I wish. You won’t get out of my inbox. Go bother your mama or something. I’m done with you. | /r/AntiFeminists | 24/02/23 06:12 PM |
| 1 | If the feminsits movement blows out of peroration and it turns into a full on sex/gender war , which side do you think would have the advantage . men or women ?Who said we’d just seduce guards? Pilots, commanders, the guy who sits at the panel? All fair game. Who says we’d meet them at work? Who says we wouldn’t find them half drunk at the bar, or at the store, or out walking their dogs? You really have no clue, do you? This has been somewhat, slightly entertaining, but it’s clear you have a lot to learn. Have a fun day at school! | /r/AntiFeminists | 24/02/23 05:39 PM |
| 2 | If the feminsits movement blows out of peroration and it turns into a full on sex/gender war , which side do you think would have the advantage . men or women ?So, you’re telling yourself a story to make yourself feel better. That’s even more dangerous than underestimating your enemy in war. You’re lying to yourself. Keep believing that, though. It’ll make you even easier to defeat. | /r/AntiFeminists | 24/02/23 05:37 PM |
| 1 | If the feminsits movement blows out of peroration and it turns into a full on sex/gender war , which side do you think would have the advantage . men or women ?My RDL is 100% body weight, squat PR is a bit more than that. My leg press machine max is currently 405lbs. My bench PR is 75% body weight. My overhead strict military press is slightly less than my bench. I run, bike, or climb daily. I’m a nationally-ranked cyclist. You don’t work out to get strong and fast? That’s shameful. How can you win the war if you don’t get stronger? | /r/AntiFeminists | 24/02/23 05:36 PM |
| 2 | If the feminsits movement blows out of peroration and it turns into a full on sex/gender war , which side do you think would have the advantage . men or women ?What makes you think we’d rely exclusively on seduction? Have you overlooked espionage? Defensive strategies? Logistics planning? Resource management? Covert attacks? It’s like you think war is just guns and bombs. Is it, though? | /r/AntiFeminists | 24/02/23 05:32 PM |
| 1 | If the feminsits movement blows out of peroration and it turns into a full on sex/gender war , which side do you think would have the advantage . men or women ?Do you think comments about my age carry weight? Silly boy, I know I’m old. Telling me something I know is rather pointless, don’t you think? Again, your predictability would be your undoing. Please, do enlist in the Marines. They’d love a soldier like you. | /r/AntiFeminists | 24/02/23 05:28 PM |
| 1 | If the feminsits movement blows out of peroration and it turns into a full on sex/gender war , which side do you think would have the advantage . men or women ?Ah, but I’m one of thousands, MILLIONS of women. Women from twenty to seventy, all of whom have spent our whole lives succeeding in spite of men who stand in our way. If we worked together, you’d lose. Not because we are stronger (though some undoubtedly are), and not because we can survive in extreme temperatures (though we all can), but because we’d be steps ahead of you. You can’t even win a Reddit battle with your auntie because you’re so spun and angry. You cannot think ahead, you cannot le… | /r/AntiFeminists | 24/02/23 05:26 PM |
| 2 | If the feminsits movement blows out of peroration and it turns into a full on sex/gender war , which side do you think would have the advantage . men or women ?Three? If you’d only go after three, I’m pretty sure you’d fail, friend. There are thousands of guards. You’re not even interesting at this point. | /r/AntiFeminists | 24/02/23 05:20 PM |
| 1 | If the feminsits movement blows out of peroration and it turns into a full on sex/gender war , which side do you think would have the advantage . men or women ?25kg? That’s it? Like, for bench or RDLs? Leg press? If you want to get into a lifting contest, you’ll have to share your PRs. | /r/AntiFeminists | 24/02/23 05:19 PM |
| 2 | If the feminsits movement blows out of peroration and it turns into a full on sex/gender war , which side do you think would have the advantage . men or women ?This was almost too easy. Did I say women are as strong as men? Are you certain I said that? And did I say it would be women my age that would be on “seducing the soldiers” duty? I’m quite certain I said none of that. But yes, I have raised my kids. They are successful adults. You, though, should put your phone away. Study hall is almost over, and it’s pretty clear you need to do some studying. | /r/AntiFeminists | 24/02/23 05:18 PM |
| 1 | If the feminsits movement blows out of peroration and it turns into a full on sex/gender war , which side do you think would have the advantage . men or women ?Oh, and you clearly do, I’m sure. Those video games taught you all you need, right? You definitely sound like a West Point-educated officer. | /r/AntiFeminists | 24/02/23 05:14 PM |
| 2 | If the feminsits movement blows out of peroration and it turns into a full on sex/gender war , which side do you think would have the advantage . men or women ?Two? Only two? Where, specifically, did I say two? Please, reread this whole silly discussion and find where I said we’d disable only two single guards. | /r/AntiFeminists | 24/02/23 05:13 PM |
| 1 | If the feminsits movement blows out of peroration and it turns into a full on sex/gender war , which side do you think would have the advantage . men or women ?You’re underestimating me. ;) | /r/AntiFeminists | 24/02/23 05:11 PM |
| 1 | If the feminsits movement blows out of peroration and it turns into a full on sex/gender war , which side do you think would have the advantage . men or women ?You’re so angry right now. In your feelings. And all I’ve done is talked to you online. If a 45 year old mom of two can get you this mad with just a discussion on the computer, think of how easily an army of women (and beta men, don’t forget our “simps”) could manipulate you into losing your silly war. | /r/AntiFeminists | 24/02/23 03:54 PM |
| 1 | If the feminsits movement blows out of peroration and it turns into a full on sex/gender war , which side do you think would have the advantage . men or women ?If you’re going to keep talking out of your ass, I’m going to have to ask you to stand up so that I can hear you better. Your refusal to seek sources to back up your claim show just how little proof you have. Maybe it’s you who has watched too many movies? Do you really think this war would be only a battle of strength? | /r/AntiFeminists | 24/02/23 03:53 PM |
| 1 | If the feminsits movement blows out of peroration and it turns into a full on sex/gender war , which side do you think would have the advantage . men or women ?Again, who is declaring war, and what do they want? And can you be sure beyond a doubt that all 84% of those male soldiers won’t join the women? Every single last one of them? Because if we can steal even a third of them to our side, you’d be toast. | /r/AntiFeminists | 24/02/23 03:51 PM |
| 0 | If the feminsits movement blows out of peroration and it turns into a full on sex/gender war , which side do you think would have the advantage . men or women ?facepalm Of course all the resources aren’t in one place. That’s why it would be a coordinated attack from every direction and at every location. Because women talk—we talk especially about men and how to live life with you in our way, up our butts, being babies or acting like tough guys. And we network globally. | /r/AntiFeminists | 24/02/23 03:48 PM |
| 1 | If the feminsits movement blows out of peroration and it turns into a full on sex/gender war , which side do you think would have the advantage . men or women ?Andrew, Jordan, and Shapiro? Those talking heads? That’s all you have? A cranky old incel, a dumb guy who sells “how to be manly” videos, and a 5 foot tall conservative news guy? And all their “alpha” followers? I love that for you guys! I like my chances better and better. Because women also know strategy. There are female soldiers guarding the world’s nuclear arsenals, too. The thing about men is how easily they can be manipulated. You’re so sure of yourselves. | /r/AntiFeminists | 24/02/23 03:42 PM |
| 1 | If the feminsits movement blows out of peroration and it turns into a full on sex/gender war , which side do you think would have the advantage . men or women ?That’s because some men ARE abusive. Some women are also abusive. I think you’re getting angry because you want the narrative to be a simple war of strength and dominance, and I’m telling you it would not work out that way. | /r/AntiFeminists | 24/02/23 03:36 PM |
| 2 | If the feminsits movement blows out of peroration and it turns into a full on sex/gender war , which side do you think would have the advantage . men or women ?Oh, I completely understand. You want it to be simple, and you’re getting angry because it’s not at all simple. | /r/AntiFeminists | 24/02/23 03:34 PM |
| 1 | If the feminsits movement blows out of peroration and it turns into a full on sex/gender war , which side do you think would have the advantage . men or women ?You need to improve your writing skills. I’m only deciphering a little more than half of what you’re saying here. You’re saying men would win a war of the sexes because they’re stronger and better at survival. Again, I’d point you to resources that show that “strength” and “endurance” are not the only tools with which a modern war would be fought. But again, who is declaring this hypothetical war? Is it men or is it women? What is being warred over? You want it to be a simple brawl, but I’m tell… | /r/AntiFeminists | 24/02/23 03:33 PM |
| 1 | If the feminsits movement blows out of peroration and it turns into a full on sex/gender war , which side do you think would have the advantage . men or women ?According to who? You can declare war on me, you can attack me. But I don’t have to engage. I can just put up defenses and escape, right? Switzerland famously refused to engage in WWII with great success. In this hypothetical “war of the sexes,” who declares war, and what do they want? | /r/AntiFeminists | 24/02/23 03:27 PM |
| 1 | If the feminsits movement blows out of peroration and it turns into a full on sex/gender war , which side do you think would have the advantage . men or women ?“Common sense” is code for “I don’t have any data, and I’m not smart enough to read and understand medical journals, so I’m just going to assume this.” | /r/AntiFeminists | 24/02/23 03:24 PM |
| 0 | If the feminsits movement blows out of peroration and it turns into a full on sex/gender war , which side do you think would have the advantage . men or women ?So you’re saying that the only factor needed to win is physical strength. If you rely exclusively on that, you’ll lose to an opponent who found ways to undermine your strength. Women would lure away your more lust-driven soldiers. Women would use their “genetic strengths” to seduce the people you put in charge of guarding resources. Women would outwit and out strategize. And of course, plenty of men would not side with you. You’d call them “betas” because they chose us. But they’d be our spies, … | /r/AntiFeminists | 24/02/23 11:31 AM |
| 1 | If the feminsits movement blows out of peroration and it turns into a full on sex/gender war , which side do you think would have the advantage . men or women ?I’m confused by your response. Where did I say I would manipulate people? And if there IS a war, isn’t any tactic, including manipulation, fair game? If (as you repeatedly assert) women cannot physically overcome their opponents, is it somehow wrong for us to manipulate (outthink, use your desires against you, trick you) our way to safety? Why would that be wrong? | /r/AntiFeminists | 24/02/23 11:23 AM |
| 2 | If the feminsits movement blows out of peroration and it turns into a full on sex/gender war , which side do you think would have the advantage . men or women ?So then, you agree. Men and women could simply separate into different nations and not need one another. There would be no war. Simply a mutual walking away from one another. Why are you continuing to prattle on? | /r/AntiFeminists | 24/02/23 11:18 AM |
| 1 | If the feminsits movement blows out of peroration and it turns into a full on sex/gender war , which side do you think would have the advantage . men or women ?You said yourself that men don’t need women. Therefore, we’d walk away. We would disengage and leave. Are you implying that men would wipe all the women out before letting us leave? Interesting. A lot of abusive males in relationships express a similar position—“If I can’t have you, no one else can either.” | /r/AntiFeminists | 24/02/23 11:15 AM |
| 2 | If the feminsits movement blows out of peroration and it turns into a full on sex/gender war , which side do you think would have the advantage . men or women ?Yes, I said that. Did you fail to read it? | /r/AntiFeminists | 24/02/23 11:12 AM |
| 2 | If the feminsits movement blows out of peroration and it turns into a full on sex/gender war , which side do you think would have the advantage . men or women ?That foolish overconfidence, that disinterest in data and information, is exactly why you wouldn’t win. | /r/AntiFeminists | 24/02/23 11:09 AM |
| 1 | If the feminsits movement blows out of peroration and it turns into a full on sex/gender war , which side do you think would have the advantage . men or women ?Do you have any legitimate data (medical studies, statistical data) to support your claim that women are unsuitable for strenuous jobs? Can you link articles about these 3 or 4 female police officers who failed at their jobs? I can happily link you to information on alcoholism and domestic violence rates for male police officers. Also, which of the last fifteen or so police shootings of unarmed criminals involved female officers? If you want to give an example of jobs women shouldn’t do, police … | /r/AntiFeminists | 23/02/23 09:04 PM |
| 1 | If the feminsits movement blows out of peroration and it turns into a full on sex/gender war , which side do you think would have the advantage . men or women ?“Do some oil well drilling” - You asked for women who work on offshore rigs. “Not talking about doctors.” - What were you talking about, then? “Women don’t have the physical attributes” - what, pray tell, do women lack? What attributes, if not strength, so men bring that women cannot? You don’t mine coal or operate a crane with your penis, right? So what do you mean by “women lack the physical attributes?” | /r/AntiFeminists | 23/02/23 02:54 PM |
| 2 | If the feminsits movement blows out of peroration and it turns into a full on sex/gender war , which side do you think would have the advantage . men or women ?You asked, I gave examples. They aren’t outliers. I work with a vascular surgeon, an orthopedic surgeon, and general surgeon, and five emergency doctors who are all women. They aren’t exceptions to the rule. They’re women who overcame barriers. Remove the barriers, and more will pursue those careers. It’s okay. If we discover a job that requires pure brute strength, and we can’t work out a smarter way to do the job, we will call you. We will pay you for your time and labor (of course!) and then … | /r/AntiFeminists | 23/02/23 02:13 PM |
| 2 | If the feminsits movement blows out of peroration and it turns into a full on sex/gender war , which side do you think would have the advantage . men or women ?Well, most women currently working oil rigs at the moment are engineers. But I can also furnish you with scholastic papers exploring the barriers facing women seeking to enter careers in that field as well as skilled trades. There are plenty who push through, though. Check out Instas feeds for women in drilling. What would qualify for “things of that nature?” I work with women who are trauma surgeons. My friends include women who do finish carpentry, HVAC, home painting, plumbing, and drywall. M… | /r/AntiFeminists | 23/02/23 12:50 PM |
| 1 | Does misogyny exist?I’d be happy to see scholastic literature supporting literally any of what you said above. | /r/AntiFeminists | 23/02/23 11:54 AM |
| 1 | Does misogyny exist?They both exist and they both suck. More importantly, men can be misandrists and women can be misogynists. Nothing good comes from any of it. | /r/AntiFeminists | 23/02/23 11:41 AM |
| 3 | Have you noticed feminism has made it practically impossible to vent about how difficult dating has become for men?You’re misunderstanding. Speaking exclusively for myself (a feminist), a man isn’t an incel because of how little sex he has. It’s about the terminology and worldview he has of women. Males who see sex as capital, use terms like “sexual market value,” or rate themselves and prospective partners on a numerical scale usually meet my definition of “incel.” | /r/AntiFeminists | 23/02/23 11:31 AM |
| 2 | If the feminsits movement blows out of peroration and it turns into a full on sex/gender war , which side do you think would have the advantage . men or women ?It depends on the war you imagine and the desired outcomes for both parties. What would the desired outcome for the men be, do you think? It’s fairly well documented that women make up half the workforce but are comparatively scarce in the skilled trades. The barriers women face range from stereotypes (that women are unable to accomplish the work) to hazing. Men don’t want women in what they perceive to be “their” space. We don’t need men any more than men need women, except for procreation. You… | /r/AntiFeminists | 23/02/23 03:04 AM |
| 1 | As a feminist, would you care if the Tates were innocent?Of course I’d care. Whether I think Tate’s a good person is immaterial. If he was found not guilty, cut him loose. | /r/AntiFeminists | 22/02/23 05:16 AM |
| 2 | If the feminsits movement blows out of peroration and it turns into a full on sex/gender war , which side do you think would have the advantage . men or women ?This is good. This means you’re content being in a relationship based on both wanting to share a life with the other, rather than a relationship based on control. I wish more felt that way. | /r/AntiFeminists | 22/02/23 03:42 AM |
| 2 | If the feminsits movement blows out of peroration and it turns into a full on sex/gender war , which side do you think would have the advantage . men or women ?Yes, but a war seeking what outcome? There are wars for independence, wars over coveted resources, and wars driven by a need to punish or repay a perceived wrong. That is why I ask. It’s not enough to ask “who would win a battle of the sexes” without some context. The desired outcome would influence strategy and what would constitute an advantage or disadvantage. Does that make sense? | /r/AntiFeminists | 22/02/23 01:14 AM |
| 2 | If the feminsits movement blows out of peroration and it turns into a full on sex/gender war , which side do you think would have the advantage . men or women ?I’m asking because I’d like to know what you think. Do you want needed or wanted? Could you be content in a relationship built exclusively on mutual desire, knowing your partner needs absolutely nothing from you but your companionship? | /r/AntiFeminists | 22/02/23 01:11 AM |
| 3 | If the feminsits movement blows out of peroration and it turns into a full on sex/gender war , which side do you think would have the advantage . men or women ?Hmm. So by that rationale, men are incapable of caring for their young, making their own meals, or doing housework. So if we stop performing those tasks and simply abscond, what happens next for you guys? | /r/AntiFeminists | 22/02/23 12:46 AM |
| 2 | If the feminsits movement blows out of peroration and it turns into a full on sex/gender war , which side do you think would have the advantage . men or women ?Not really. It depends on what said battle would look like. | /r/AntiFeminists | 22/02/23 12:36 AM |
| 3 | If the feminsits movement blows out of peroration and it turns into a full on sex/gender war , which side do you think would have the advantage . men or women ?Glaringly unanswered questions. Unsurprised. | /r/AntiFeminists | 22/02/23 12:35 AM |
| 3 | If the feminsits movement blows out of peroration and it turns into a full on sex/gender war , which side do you think would have the advantage . men or women ?This is comedy, right? We would simply be gone. You guys would have nothing but each other for company. | /r/AntiFeminists | 22/02/23 12:34 AM |
| 3 | If the feminsits movement blows out of peroration and it turns into a full on sex/gender war , which side do you think would have the advantage . men or women ?Nope. None of that is accurate. Why is being “needed” rather than “wanted” so important to your identity as male, unless it’s so you can say “Fine, you’ll regret it and suffer without me.” Saying “I want a woman to want me back” leads to behaviors that build a relationship based on mutual attraction and friendship. “I want a woman to need me to survive” builds a relationship that is, at best, codependent and built on the power to control and keep. Why is that something you want? | /r/AntiFeminists | 21/02/23 11:58 PM |
| 2 | If the feminsits movement blows out of peroration and it turns into a full on sex/gender war , which side do you think would have the advantage . men or women ?Again, why would that matter? Who do the purported men in this battle of the sexes propose to assault physically? And for what reason? What would the goal of such a battle be? Total subjugation of the other, or simply building a world without the other? Men are demonstrably bigger, and many are stronger. But women have been negotiating that fact for ages, and have developed strategies to disengage and walk away. | /r/AntiFeminists | 21/02/23 11:54 PM |
| 2 | If the feminsits movement blows out of peroration and it turns into a full on sex/gender war , which side do you think would have the advantage . men or women ?Sure sure :) | /r/AntiFeminists | 21/02/23 11:50 PM |
| 3 | If the feminsits movement blows out of peroration and it turns into a full on sex/gender war , which side do you think would have the advantage . men or women ?How so? | /r/AntiFeminists | 21/02/23 11:49 PM |
| 2 | If the feminsits movement blows out of peroration and it turns into a full on sex/gender war , which side do you think would have the advantage . men or women ?Or maybe there isn’t a battle and there’s no genuine need for MRA protests. Maybe the vast majority of folks get along with each other, and the “battle” is in your head. | /r/AntiFeminists | 21/02/23 11:47 PM |
| 1 | If the feminsits movement blows out of peroration and it turns into a full on sex/gender war , which side do you think would have the advantage . men or women ?Also, kindly read back. I didn’t say “all men want to trap women.” I said “you,” referring to the man who said they’d damage roads to keep women from escaping them. But you and I are silly if we believe guys who feel that mentality are outliers. | /r/AntiFeminists | 21/02/23 03:57 PM |
| -5 | If the feminsits movement blows out of peroration and it turns into a full on sex/gender war , which side do you think would have the advantage . men or women ?Did you not see the comment up the thread where a man was saying men had to fight back to avoid being “enslaved” by women? Or the bombastic “men would win because we can fight more better?” (there were several in that tone). Having a husband is great. I have one too, and also an adult son. Men are great. We just don’t need them anymore—not in the old sense of needing a man to protect/pay for/care for us. We can pay and care for ourselves. Protect ourselves too. We may choose to have men in our l… | /r/AntiFeminists | 21/02/23 03:55 PM |
| -3 | If the feminsits movement blows out of peroration and it turns into a full on sex/gender war , which side do you think would have the advantage . men or women ?Hilarious you believe women cannot do any of those things? We don’t -need- you. Also, unsurprising that your go to is that if you can’t wipe women out, you want to trap them. | /r/AntiFeminists | 21/02/23 03:31 PM |
| 1 | If the feminsits movement blows out of peroration and it turns into a full on sex/gender war , which side do you think would have the advantage . men or women ?Which is different from where we’re at right now how? | /r/AntiFeminists | 21/02/23 03:28 PM |
| 1 | If the feminsits movement blows out of peroration and it turns into a full on sex/gender war , which side do you think would have the advantage . men or women ?What’s there to get? What’s the endgame? | /r/AntiFeminists | 21/02/23 03:27 PM |
| -10 | If the feminsits movement blows out of peroration and it turns into a full on sex/gender war , which side do you think would have the advantage . men or women ?Women would outwit and escape you. Then we’d simply walk away from you. Your need to control is evident in your words. Your hate would be your downfall, make you vulnerable. People full of hate and fear are easy to manipulate. | /r/AntiFeminists | 21/02/23 12:53 PM |
| -1 | If the feminsits movement blows out of peroration and it turns into a full on sex/gender war , which side do you think would have the advantage . men or women ?What does this war look like? Is this all out war? What are the stakes? Consider those questions and come back. | /r/AntiFeminists | 21/02/23 12:51 PM |
| 1 | Remember: "My body, my choice" only applies to women. If you are a man, nobody cares about your body or your choice.If you say so. Have a beautiful day. | /r/MensRights | 13/02/23 03:16 PM |
| 1 | Why MeToo fallout is wrecking the lives of schoolboysWhich replies look like deflection? And yes, words definitely do have many meanings. In this case, though, you’re stretching for a more favorable, less literal definition to suit your needs. Is that deflecting? | /r/MensRights | 13/02/23 01:58 PM |
| 1 | Remember: "My body, my choice" only applies to women. If you are a man, nobody cares about your body or your choice.You’re spinning quite a narrative here. I didn’t mention agency as it is a given. It’s interesting that you perceive an absence of intimacy in a relationship exclusively as intentional manipulation. It says a lot about the lens through which you view the world. Do you withhold things from loved ones when you don’t get your way? There are a lot of reasons why intimacy wanes in relationships, especially in marriages that weather decades. Emotional disconnect. Illness (physical and mental), certain… | /r/MensRights | 13/02/23 12:31 PM |
| 1 | Remember: "My body, my choice" only applies to women. If you are a man, nobody cares about your body or your choice.Oh yes, sage of Reddit wisdom, I have no doubt been educated. | /r/MensRights | 13/02/23 12:19 PM |
| 1 | Remember: "My body, my choice" only applies to women. If you are a man, nobody cares about your body or your choice.Well, what do you want then? What would satisfy your need for control? | /r/MensRights | 13/02/23 11:08 AM |
| 1 | Remember: "My body, my choice" only applies to women. If you are a man, nobody cares about your body or your choice.Well, until the laws change, it looks like you’re stuck. Roe is overturned, so in many states you won’t have a choice about whether a hypothetical female partner carries a pregnancy you’ve partly created to term. And the law still requires biological fathers to pay some amount of child support. Which means wrap your present if you ever manage to get a woman to consent to sex with you. I’d advise against telling a potential conquest this diatribe, though, if you actually want to score. | /r/MensRights | 13/02/23 10:27 AM |
| 1 | Why MeToo fallout is wrecking the lives of schoolboysYep, someone definitely reported you for harassment. You sound like the sort of guy who would send an unsolicited picture of your junk, then become irrationally angry and scream “YOU ARE A PRUDE!” when the other person sent you a vomit emoji and blocked you. | /r/MensRights | 13/02/23 10:20 AM |
| 1 | Remember: "My body, my choice" only applies to women. If you are a man, nobody cares about your body or your choice.If you have unprotected sex with a woman, aren’t you voluntarily giving her your sperm? Do you think once that sperm shot goes in, the woman then decides whether or not to let it make a baby? Dude, have you even ever HAD the sex? | /r/MensRights | 13/02/23 08:22 AM |
| 1 | Why MeToo fallout is wrecking the lives of schoolboysLooks like I hit a nerve. Talking like a tough guy online is childish, dude. You’re not intimidating, at least not to this girl. If a boy texts a girl and she brushes him off, and he continues to text her after she’s asked him to stop, that’s harassment. If he sends unsolicited photos of his genitals, that’s harassment. What would you call it? Is this a story about you? Did you get called out for not taking “no” for an answer? | /r/MensRights | 13/02/23 08:16 AM |
| 1 | Remember: "My body, my choice" only applies to women. If you are a man, nobody cares about your body or your choice.The woman… created a child… against his will? So, as he shot his unprotected load, he yelled “I DO NOT GIVE MY SPERM PERMISSION TO MEET AN OVUM!” Is that how that works? It sounds like the you think woman is solely responsible for the moment of fertilization. Which is exactly why women need abortion rights. | /r/MensRights | 13/02/23 06:47 AM |
| 1 | Remember: "My body, my choice" only applies to women. If you are a man, nobody cares about your body or your choice.You sure got me! Your intellect is truly astonishing. | /r/MensRights | 13/02/23 05:55 AM |
| 1 | Remember: "My body, my choice" only applies to women. If you are a man, nobody cares about your body or your choice.I would say it’s a case by case basis. The concept of “entitlement” is problematic for a lot of people. Couples should enjoy time together. If they don’t, then they should work out the problems or separate. Neither partner “owes” or is “entitled” to anything from the other—physically, financially, or anything else. A healthy couple doesn’t generally see their relationship as a matter of obligations and entitlements. If they do, something is wrong, and a lack of sex would be a symptom of that dis… | /r/MensRights | 13/02/23 05:15 AM |
| 2 | Remember: "My body, my choice" only applies to women. If you are a man, nobody cares about your body or your choice.Could be. Sounds like an unhealthy relationship. | /r/MensRights | 13/02/23 05:11 AM |
| 0 | Why MeToo fallout is wrecking the lives of schoolboysBecause it’s not explained in the article, it’s up to the reader to determine what “awkward fumbling” is, and of course, you have your own biases that don’t align with mine. Such is life, right? I’ll stand by my initial statement. Any child pestering or touching another child without consent needs told off. | /r/MensRights | 13/02/23 05:10 AM |
| 1 | Remember: "My body, my choice" only applies to women. If you are a man, nobody cares about your body or your choice.Silence? I worked, slept, got groceries, made a pot of chili, and then played with my kids before coming back to work. Your ongoing nonsense isn’t a priority. You appear to be the kind of guy who would send a spicy text to a woman, then call her a stuck up slut if she didn’t message you back in your time frame. How dare we have priorities that don’t include you, right? Believe what you want, dude. You can even declare yourself the “winner” of … well, whatever this is. | /r/MensRights | 13/02/23 05:07 AM |
| 1 | Why MeToo fallout is wrecking the lives of schoolboysDo you have any examples of the “awkward flirting”? Any evidence to indicate it’s innocuous or inappropriate? And I absolutely will label it “harassment” if its a case of boys not taking no for an answer, or sending a photo of their junk. Look at you, claiming these boys are “victims” out one side of your mouth, then saying women are prudes because they reject what they construe as sexual harassment. | /r/MensRights | 13/02/23 04:58 AM |
| 1 | Why MeToo fallout is wrecking the lives of schoolboysThe Oxford English Dictionary defines “fumble” as follows: Verb—to use the hands clumsily while doing or handling something, Noun—an act of using the hands clumsily while doing or handling something. You might want to also look up “deflection.” | /r/MensRights | 13/02/23 04:54 AM |
| 1 | Remember: "My body, my choice" only applies to women. If you are a man, nobody cares about your body or your choice.I’ve come to the conclusion that men who perceive sex as something given or denied as a reward or punishment often also have an underlying belief that sex is more about power than romance. They enjoy the notion of making others submit to their desires, and get off as much on the idea that they’re making an unwilling person submit as they do on the actual act. That’s how I interpret what I’m seeing here. | /r/MensRights | 13/02/23 12:44 AM |
| 0 | Why MeToo fallout is wrecking the lives of schoolboys“You’ve got nothing.” Um, okay? Sounds like someone accused you of inappropriate awkward fumblings and you’re eager to defend yourself. | /r/MensRights | 13/02/23 12:40 AM |
| 1 | Remember: "My body, my choice" only applies to women. If you are a man, nobody cares about your body or your choice.Can you kindly quote where I said “Their reasoning is fine”? Like I said, you’re a fool. | /r/MensRights | 13/02/23 12:38 AM |
| 0 | Remember: "My body, my choice" only applies to women. If you are a man, nobody cares about your body or your choice.Sex =/= just spending time together. | /r/MensRights | 13/02/23 12:37 AM |
| 1 | Remember: "My body, my choice" only applies to women. If you are a man, nobody cares about your body or your choice.I imagine plenty. | /r/MensRights | 13/02/23 12:36 AM |
| 1 | Remember: "My body, my choice" only applies to women. If you are a man, nobody cares about your body or your choice.As the hardline pro-life crowd so frequently insists, having unprotected sex is accepting a risk of pregnancy and all consequences therein. Now, I don’t agree with them. So my take is this—no child support, no relationship with the child. If you don’t wish to participate in the costly process of raising a child, you don’t get to see, know, or watch that child become an adult. Instead, you get the child-support luxury of being yet another absentee dad who bitches about the plague of single moms. … | /r/MensRights | 12/02/23 09:42 PM |
| -5 | Remember: "My body, my choice" only applies to women. If you are a man, nobody cares about your body or your choice.Memes? That’s your response? Sit down. You’re out of your depth. | /r/MensRights | 12/02/23 01:18 PM |
| -3 | Remember: "My body, my choice" only applies to women. If you are a man, nobody cares about your body or your choice.That’s a lot of words to say you’re struggling to keep up. Personal attacks are usually a good indicator that you’re out of your depth. Sit down, sweetie. | /r/MensRights | 12/02/23 01:18 PM |
| 0 | Remember: "My body, my choice" only applies to women. If you are a man, nobody cares about your body or your choice.And likewise, if you do not want to pay for a baby, take intensive care not to create one. | /r/MensRights | 12/02/23 01:17 PM |
| 6 | Remember: "My body, my choice" only applies to women. If you are a man, nobody cares about your body or your choice.Which is why paternity tests are vital. | /r/MensRights | 12/02/23 01:16 PM |
| -15 | Why MeToo fallout is wrecking the lives of schoolboysIt could potentially also mean verbal interactions. However, the #metoo movement focused heavily on unwanted sexual touching, and one “fumbles” with their hands. This lead me to assume (perhaps incorrectly) that the writer was referencing physical contact. In a digital world, I would agree that these “fumblings” could also include unwanted text messages and the dreaded dick pics that young boys seem to think will lead to receiving the glorious sex. | /r/MensRights | 12/02/23 01:15 PM |
| -3 | Remember: "My body, my choice" only applies to women. If you are a man, nobody cares about your body or your choice.At this point, it is clear you won’t answer the question. That tracks. | /r/MensRights | 12/02/23 01:11 PM |
| -2 | Remember: "My body, my choice" only applies to women. If you are a man, nobody cares about your body or your choice.Oh, there you go again. Where did I say it was reasonable for women to bully men into surgery? You’re again confusing “acknowledgement” with “endorsement” and wasting my time. It looks like this level of discussion is significantly beyond your capabilities at this time, as you’re not capable, at the moment, of disinterested objectivity. Your emotions, your anger, is interfering with your ability to calmly and logically process what was actually written. That’s fair enough. I’m going to terminate… | /r/MensRights | 12/02/23 01:09 PM |
| 0 | Anyone else notice when talking to a feminist, they always assign the most charitable possible interpretation to women, and the least charitable possible interpretation to men?Is the OP not an example? You can scan through most of the content on this sub and you’d find a lot more content attributing malicious intent to women while coloring men as victims. I would posit that humans tend to default to an “us/them” position when they feel hurt, which manifests this way online: | /r/MensRights | 12/02/23 01:05 PM |
| -2 | Remember: "My body, my choice" only applies to women. If you are a man, nobody cares about your body or your choice.Well, that’s certainly a lot of links to websites that pretend to teach formal logic. It’s good to see you have educated yourself, though any solid researcher knows better than to rely on Wikipedia as a primary resource, just as they know anecdotal evidence is weak. Do better. Find a primary article of a legitimate, respected academic feminist unironcally demanding male sterilization as a way to make things equal. I just worked a 12 hour shift, so I have an 8 hour snooze ahead of me. Eight hours… | /r/MensRights | 12/02/23 01:02 PM |
| -5 | Why MeToo fallout is wrecking the lives of schoolboysI fully expected downvotes. No human being likes to be held accountable for actions they have difficulty perceiving as wrong. | /r/MensRights | 12/02/23 12:56 PM |
| -4 | Remember: "My body, my choice" only applies to women. If you are a man, nobody cares about your body or your choice.Kindly point out where I said “withholding sex” is appropriate behavior. I believe it states otherwise, if you’ll go back and re-read. But you haven’t answered the question. Do you believe a married woman is contractually obligated to provide sex to her partner regardless of inclination? Do you believe there can be exceptions? | /r/MensRights | 12/02/23 12:54 PM |
| 3 | Remember: "My body, my choice" only applies to women. If you are a man, nobody cares about your body or your choice.The fact that people — men and women — are denied bodily autonomy in the form of receiving sterilization upon request is deeply problematic for me, as well. It would appear that the powers that be are intent on a procreating populace to ensure a readily available labor force. That aside, I’ve met men who have dodged child support one day, then bitched to their friends that the ex won’t let them see their kids the next. Likewise, I’ve known women who have strong armed their exes into this or that… | /r/MensRights | 12/02/23 12:51 PM |
| -4 | Anyone else notice when talking to a feminist, they always assign the most charitable possible interpretation to women, and the least charitable possible interpretation to men?In what way have feminists (or women, considering the relative newness of “feminism” in the framework of western history) historically held the bulk of power over MRAs? Furthermore, who is the audience you wish to sway to your direction? What grievances, specifically, do you wish this audience acknowledged and ameliorated? What would amelioration of MRA’s grievances look like? I find that there appear to be as many men ignorant and belittling of MRA causes as there are women, so I imagine you’d … | /r/MensRights | 12/02/23 12:42 PM |
| -1 | Remember: "My body, my choice" only applies to women. If you are a man, nobody cares about your body or your choice.I would say your conversation here is in bad faith, because you seem intent on misunderstanding what I am saying. Please point out where I’ve said it’s acceptable to coerce someone into an undesired medical procedure. Confirming the existence of frustration with being asked to continually bear the responsibility for contraception in a committed relationship is not an endorsement of coercion tactics, and you construing it as such means that you’re either intentionally misreading what has been sta… | /r/MensRights | 12/02/23 12:35 PM |
| -10 | Remember: "My body, my choice" only applies to women. If you are a man, nobody cares about your body or your choice.Not at all. One must consider the semantics of the word “deny.” To “deny” is to withhold something to which another is entitled and due. No one is entitled to access to another person’s body, whether they’re married or otherwise. Therefore, a woman can’t actually “deny” their partner sex. They can—and sometimes do—refuse to have sex with their partners for a variety of reasons spanning from legitimate (health reasons, such as in the initial 6 weeks post partum) to inappropriate (a manipulation t… | /r/MensRights | 12/02/23 12:25 PM |
| 0 | Anyone else notice when talking to a feminist, they always assign the most charitable possible interpretation to women, and the least charitable possible interpretation to men?It’s worth consideration for certain if we are to collectively move forward. I’m not bailing on this discussion—I work third shift and my shift is over. I’ll be sleeping shortly. | /r/MensRights | 12/02/23 12:20 PM |
| 6 | Remember: "My body, my choice" only applies to women. If you are a man, nobody cares about your body or your choice.That seems fair. I guess it comes down to personal responsibility. For while I respect a person’s right to choose, I certainly believe people who can get pregnant should practice contraception. A man who does not want to be saddled with child support should most certainly be taking an active roll in prevention. And when those methods fail, it’s a mess for all parties involved. Until science achieves a way to make these matters equitable, I would support no-contact-no-pay. | /r/MensRights | 12/02/23 12:06 PM |
| -10 | Anyone else notice when talking to a feminist, they always assign the most charitable possible interpretation to women, and the least charitable possible interpretation to men?So then who needs to take their guard down first? There is a lengthy, well documented history of misogynistic and abusive practice leveled at women in most aspects of western society (medically, academically, professionally, domestically). I do not discount that men have also been victimized by society at large (and probably by women at times, also). Who will be the ones who lower their guard to open a thoughtful and productive conversation about grievances, historic and present wrongs, and a be… | /r/MensRights | 12/02/23 11:56 AM |
| 0 | Remember: "My body, my choice" only applies to women. If you are a man, nobody cares about your body or your choice.But here’s the question—if a man does not wish to pay child support, does it follow that he terminated any and all parental rights to visitation? | /r/MensRights | 12/02/23 11:49 AM |
| -7 | Remember: "My body, my choice" only applies to women. If you are a man, nobody cares about your body or your choice.You’re overlooking the beginning of that sentence: “No legitimate feminist,” meaning a person who honestly supports and lives by feminist principles-in this case, a pursuit of equality. One who claims to be a feminist, but who would openly advocate for people to be forced into a procedure against their will, I would argue is not a legitimate feminist. This goes back to people seeing something online and thinking it speaks to them, but not really understanding what it means. It’s easy for someone… | /r/MensRights | 12/02/23 11:37 AM |
| -5 | Remember: "My body, my choice" only applies to women. If you are a man, nobody cares about your body or your choice.I can see that reasoning, and it makes sense in a fatalistic kind of way. I think ultimately the issue is biological. The fetus grows in the uterus which lies inside an autonomous human. There is no way to balance the scales with questions of control and power. The law can neither force someone to continue a pregnancy (though it has strenuously tried), nor can it be used to force someone to terminate a pregnancy. The decision belongs to the woman, until such a time arrives that a biological male… | /r/MensRights | 12/02/23 11:28 AM |
| -5 | Remember: "My body, my choice" only applies to women. If you are a man, nobody cares about your body or your choice.Not one of these is an example of forcing a man to have a procedure. Are you unable to discern the difference between “expressing frustration with again being asked to carry the burden of contraception in a romantic relationship” and “forcing a man to have a surgery he does not want”? They are not the same thing. The only suggestion of mandatory vasectomies I’ve seen was during the aftermath of Roe’s overturn. | /r/MensRights | 12/02/23 11:22 AM |
| -32 | Why MeToo fallout is wrecking the lives of schoolboysOstracized for “clumsy teenage fumbling?” The east answer is to not touch someone without their consent. If a boy “clumsily” touches someone in a vaguely sexual manner without consent, he deserves a stern telling off. And before you say it, yes, I also agree that girls deserve the same consequence. The “backlash” is that boys (and men) are uncomfortable being held accountable for uninvited sexual attention in a way that is largely new and for which they have not been adequately prepared. The rem… | /r/MensRights | 12/02/23 11:10 AM |
| -4 | Why so many chick flicks romanticize women cheating?Laughing in “Madmen.” | /r/MensRights | 12/02/23 11:02 AM |
| -15 | Anyone else notice when talking to a feminist, they always assign the most charitable possible interpretation to women, and the least charitable possible interpretation to men?Don’t anti-feminists do the same thing, attributing wicked motives to every choice a woman makes? Is it okay if both ends of the spectrum do that, or should they both seek to stop? | /r/MensRights | 12/02/23 11:01 AM |
| -5 | Remember: "My body, my choice" only applies to women. If you are a man, nobody cares about your body or your choice.How is child support a violation of autonomy when it’s proven you helped create the infant? | /r/MensRights | 12/02/23 10:57 AM |
| -8 | Remember: "My body, my choice" only applies to women. If you are a man, nobody cares about your body or your choice.Is he complaining about not being able to do things, or is this just their choices being judged by outsiders? | /r/MensRights | 12/02/23 10:54 AM |
| -18 | Remember: "My body, my choice" only applies to women. If you are a man, nobody cares about your body or your choice.Do you consider yourself entitled to sex? That’s an interesting viewpoint. I’ve often heard it said that problems in the bedroom are related to problems outside the bedroom. Maybe counseling would be in order. | /r/MensRights | 12/02/23 10:53 AM |
| 9 | Remember: "My body, my choice" only applies to women. If you are a man, nobody cares about your body or your choice.I agree, it’s definitely not something to do unless you know beyond the shadow of a doubt that you never ever want kids (or more kids). | /r/MensRights | 12/02/23 10:51 AM |
| -8 | Remember: "My body, my choice" only applies to women. If you are a man, nobody cares about your body or your choice.As a feminist, I call bull. No legitimate feminist will call for men to receive vasectomies by force or coercion. Ultimately, the decision to be sterilized belongs to the individual—not their partner. That being said, we aren’t exploring context for this proposition. If the man decides he is finished gathering children, he has a short list of options: he can use a barrier method, he can be sterilized, he can become celibate, or he can ask his partner (assuming a long-term committed relationship … | /r/MensRights | 12/02/23 10:49 AM |
| 1 | Men who kill a woman don't kill her because she's a woman. They're just generally criminals.What are the statistics re: men and women convicted of murder? | /r/MensRights | 12/02/23 10:33 AM |
| 1 | The stigma of the stay-at-home-dadFree? Is labor of no value? Do you know how much a housekeeper, nanny, and tutor cost? A stay at home parent does all those tasks for no cost, saving a household thousands a month. It appears you’re a little out-of-touch. | /r/MensRights | 10/02/23 04:26 PM |
| -1 | The stigma of the stay-at-home-dadStay at home or single moms get shit on too. I hate the stigma. They say “get a job.” But what job is more important than raising and caring for kids? | /r/MensRights | 10/02/23 04:23 PM |
| 3 | The stigma of the stay-at-home-dadI’m 100% here for dads who do this, and I don’t understand the stigma. People say they want involved fathers, but when a father achieved peak involvement, people want to put him down. Be that dad. Be there for your littles. Show them love, support, and how important they are. If your partner makes enough that you can do this, and it’s something you feel drawn to do? Do it! | /r/MensRights | 10/02/23 04:22 PM |
| 23 | Why women lose respect for you as soon as mental health problems appear?It’s rotten, hearing a story about a woman shutting down her own kid. Like, isn’t that what a mom does, care for her kids? | /r/MensRights | 15/01/23 10:36 AM |
| 8 | Why women lose respect for you as soon as mental health problems appear?Your mom is toxic. She has old fashioned ideas about what it means to be a man. Men are allowed to hurt and say they’re hurting. If someone is holding a gun on you, that’s grade A PTSD material. | /r/MensRights | 15/01/23 09:48 AM |
| 73 | Why women lose respect for you as soon as mental health problems appear?Expanding, when ANYONE says “man up,” it’s 100% about them and not you. It’s their jerky way of saying hearing you express pain bothers them, and they want you to put your happy face on so they can stop dealing with it. Treating another human being this way is never okay. | /r/MensRights | 15/01/23 09:47 AM |
| 2 | Why women lose respect for you as soon as mental health problems appear?That’s ridiculous. It sounds like that boss needed to face criminal charges. The behavior was unacceptable. I’m sorry you endured that. Stoicism is stupid. If you’re hurt, you’re fucking hurt. Anyone who would downplay what you endured can be ignored. Have you explored the possibility of therapy or counseling? There’s help. Ignore the assholes who say you should “man up.” You should not just suck up trauma responses. | /r/MensRights | 15/01/23 09:45 AM |
| -7 | If people knew how hard young men had it they would be kinderHere’s the thing. I work with that dude. And you know what? He’s also kind, funny, married, and a really good dad to his kids. I think you guys watch crap online and think we want something that 99% of us don’t want. | /r/MensRights | 15/01/23 09:41 AM |
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