Exactly! Pickmeishas only live through the eyes of others for lack of personality. Before there was no internet to realize as much as a relationship is abusive. In 2020 we no longer have an excuse to let ourselves be trampled on.
I think that man's height isn't a big deal as long as he is an HVM. But the guy who you are talking about seems so insecure... I don't live in North Europe but in France a lot of 170 cm men have a girlfriend.
It's because yesterday your Reddit has been posted on a male-dominated French-speaking forum so this may explain that. Personally I am a woman and as soon as I discovered your page, I immediately created an account because I didn't think that there were as many women on the same wavelength gathered at the same place. Forgive me for my English.