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| 1 | Ladies, do you watch porn? And if so, what kind of porn do you watch and where do you find it?I think im a weird outlier cause I’d only watch porn catered to men. I’d often self insert as the man, even though I’m romantically straight and very feminine irl. But then I made myself quit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/25 11:31 AM |
| 1 | The Overabundance of Male Validation Has Made Us DisposableIt’s reversed. Men are inherently more “disposable” in reproductive terms causing them to do more of the chasing. Yes, this has been amplified by social media, but this pursuit dynamic is biological. A few individuals may opt out but the mass behavior won’t change because it’s hardwired. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/25 12:41 PM |
| -1 | Generally speaking, women are more empathetic than men.It’s nature not nurture | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/25 04:21 AM |
| 0 | Redpill men, how old are your partners? Are you attracted to them if they are over 30?They are, just not you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/24 04:27 AM |
| 1 | What makes a short guy dateable?I’m just saying someone being short doesn’t make a difference in my standards. It’s like asking what makes a blonde man dateabale. And I understand that some women find short unattractive, but if she really does find it unattractive, then she’s just not gonna be into him even if he’s great in other ways. So women either like short men or they dont. And I generally don’t care about height, but I would not date a freakishly tall man, nor a midget. So if you asked me what makes a midget dateable I’… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/24 03:19 AM |
| 1 | What makes a short guy dateable?I don’t think so necessarily, like my friend that’s 5’3 has had two women that are 5’4 interested in him. But I think you still might have a better chance with women on the shorter side. Women usually don’t want a man shorter than them, but some are fine with it so you don’t need to exclude taller girls. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/24 02:43 AM |
| 2 | What makes a short guy dateable?5’1 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/24 12:30 PM |
| 7 | What makes a short guy dateable?Just the same as what makes any other guy dateatable for me. And my bf is 5’4 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/24 12:12 PM |
| -2 | Do women actually care if a guy is under 6 feet?No, me and every girl I know has liked and dated guys under 6 feet | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/24 03:05 AM |
| 1 | Men understand the concept of aggression significantly better than women.The second half of your sentence doesn’t make sense. You think she was just claiming she was in danger for no reason? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/24 07:52 AM |
| 1 | If misandry "doesn't matter" or "isn't bad" because it's not typically radicalized in a violent/dangerous fashion, then why do feminists complain constantly about "innocuous" remarks/rhetoric that are ultimately harmless?I’m not a feminist, but I understand how they see it as harmful and I think it actually is harmful sometimes depending on what the idea is. Misogynistic remarks and rhetoric that don’t seem to be harmful still help normalize those ideas and can still have ripple effects on broader society. And it’s worse than misandrist remarks because misogyny has been ingrained into society for centuries and has deeply harmed women systematically in a way misandry never will. Though I don’t think this is an ex… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/24 01:49 PM |
| -2 | Men understand the concept of aggression significantly better than women.I agree, it’s not just that fighting him would be dangerous, he just didn’t seem to care anyway while just standing there being on his phone | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/24 10:09 AM |
| 5 | Men understand the concept of aggression significantly better than women.You may be right, but how come the bartenders come help then and the boyfriend didn’t? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/24 09:42 AM |
| 6 | More men need to encourage women to wear makeup up less.If you’re no longer attracted to woman that wears light makeup(ex: clear lip gloss+ mascara+ light natural blush) after taking it off, then you honestly probably just have high standards for beauty which can’t really be helped. This just isn’t even really an issue for most men so it doesn’t make sense to think all women should go makeup free for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/24 06:49 AM |
| 5 | More men need to encourage women to wear makeup up less.Why not just date women with no makeup or a light amount of makeup? Or try to see a woman without makeup first before dating her? Because most women don’t even wear heavy makeup. And most men don’t notice when a woman is wearing makeup unless it’s heavy or colorful so you youre probably just talking about women with heavy makeup. If a woman is hearing heavy makeup, yes she probably won’t look as attractive without it. But a medium to light amount of makeup doesn’t make much of a difference when … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/24 06:23 AM |
| 5 | More men need to encourage women to wear makeup up less.Many women actually do wear makeup at home. Women just like feeling pretty even if no one else is around. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/24 06:01 AM |
| 2 | Men are the biggest hypocrites when it comes to women’s dating choices.Yea I know I’m not saying the redpill men have to call out those men out specifically. I’m just talking about the ones that complain about women being attracted to male criminals to demonize women acting as if men don’t do the same either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/24 11:08 AM |
| 6 | Men are the biggest hypocrites when it comes to women’s dating choices.Yes I’ve seen red pill men call out simps. Im talking about simping for criminals specifically, and whenever Ive seen men specifically complain about women being attracted to criminals, they’ve said nothing about men being attracted to female criminals. And it’s typically redpill or incel type men that say this and they talk about how women only care about looks and have a shallow selfish deceptive nature or whatever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/24 04:40 AM |
| 5 | Men are the biggest hypocrites when it comes to women’s dating choices.I would agree they’re probably two different types of men so it’s not hypocritical. It’s just the men that make those generalizations about women act like it don’t apply to men too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/24 04:22 AM |
| 1 | Men are the biggest hypocrites when it comes to women’s dating choices.I agree it’s not hypocritical, it’s just that men shouldn’t make generalizations about women acting as if it doesn’t apply to men too | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/24 04:15 AM |
| 1 | Men are the biggest hypocrites when it comes to women’s dating choices.Exactly just look at @mugshawtys on instagram and all the men in the comments being attracted to the female criminals | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/24 04:09 AM |
| 13 | Ladies do you agree with this hot take?I would agree most women want a masculine and dominant guy and it’d be kinda unattractive for a man to constantly try being nice and appease you. Though this doesn’t mean women always want to go for bad boys. Before dating a guy I assess his moral character. It’s just unattractive when it’s to a point he’s unmasculine and a people pleaser. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/24 04:49 PM |
| 1 | If your husband/partner suddenly became disabled and required care, would you keep the relationship the way it is or make compromises/leave?I would stay and happily take care of him | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/24 07:03 AM |
| 1 | Controlling partnerI think it’s fine. My boyfriend doesn’t want me to be friends with other men and I wouldn’t want him to be friends with other women so we don’t and we do whatever it takes to make eachother feel secure so we’re happy. We care more about eachother than ourselves. But I don’t believe you should punish your partner about anything just talk things out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/24 11:07 PM |
| 20 | How socially privileged are you?About 5. But I don’t see it as me not being privileged, I’m just very introverted. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/24 01:54 PM |
| 1 | I need a trad husbandFirst of all, that’s not a traditional husband. That’s just a man acting like a traditional wife. A traditional husband is masculine, not feminine. Secondly, you’re arguing against conservative men, but conservative men already don’t believe that the genders are equal. They believe each gender has their own roles. So no it would not be reasonable to expect things things from a man because men arent supposed to act like women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/24 01:43 PM |
| – | Men who leave their wives due to cancer shouldn't be judged harshly.You already said that. And I’m not saying that’s wrong, but if you’re truly dissatisfied with your wife, then you’d leave her even when she wasn’t sick. Why would you stay with your neglectful wife for years and then when she gets sick one day, suddenly you want to leave? Just seems like you want an excuse to avoid responsibility | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/24 11:32 AM |
| – | Men who leave their wives due to cancer shouldn't be judged harshly.Back out of what? I’ve remained consistent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/24 11:23 AM |
| – | Men who leave their wives due to cancer shouldn't be judged harshly.You could lose custody either way so that makes no sense to bring up + you actually have even more of a reason to stay for the kids after your wife gets cancer because they’ll have to be raised by a single mom WITH cancer since she won’t have as much time to work and earn money and take care of your kids and will have to be in the hospital for long periods of times. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/24 11:21 AM |
| – | Men who leave their wives due to cancer shouldn't be judged harshly.I mean other stuff like that I’d consider more like foreplay but sure. But I’m talking about how men generally need more sex in a relationship to be satisfied than women due to men’s naturally higher sex drives. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/24 11:15 AM |
| – | Men who leave their wives due to cancer shouldn't be judged harshly.That doesn’t mean you can’t be the one to leave? You’re the dissatisfied one in the relationship, it makes perfect sense to be the one to leave. So why would you stay with a neglectful partner just because they’re not the one ending the relationship, especially when you have the full freedom to leave? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/24 11:09 AM |
| – | Men who leave their wives due to cancer shouldn't be judged harshly.She’s just representing what OP is saying | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/24 11:02 AM |
| – | Men who leave their wives due to cancer shouldn't be judged harshly.You can still have sex after having breast cancer. Pretty sure men would leave their wives at a higher rate if they were unable to have sex considering men are statistically more likely to leave their wives after having cancer + the fact that sex generally a lot more important to men in a marriage. So there’s no point in trying to make up a scenario where women would leave their husbands after having their penis removed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/24 10:57 AM |
| – | Men who leave their wives due to cancer shouldn't be judged harshly.Then you would leave when she started to neglect the marriage and not wait until she got sick and are just looking for an excuse to leave and are being dishonest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/24 10:52 AM |
| – | Men who leave their wives due to cancer shouldn't be judged harshly.And you think men wouldn’t if the roles were reversed? Especially considering men are statistically way more likely to leave their sick wife? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/24 10:43 AM |
| 1 | There is no excuse to let yourself go in a relationship.I understand that. I don’t support it either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/24 10:41 AM |
| 2 | There is no excuse to let yourself go in a relationship.“Your best self” but you’re only talking about looks + when you really love someone you don’t mind them becoming less attractive. Are you gonna stop loving them when they’re old? If you want to just date around with pretty girls short term then sure, but with marriage it’s different. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/24 10:34 AM |
| 0 | There is no excuse to let yourself go in a relationship.It’s not just romantic love when you marry someone your love becomes deeper and you just love them as a person. And I mean unconditional in more of a practical way like if your spouse abused you or cheated on you or something like that, that makes sense. But when you get married you make a lifelong commitment and promise to stay together through thick and thin. If you’d stop loving your spouse because they got less attractive then you should not even get married in the first place. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/24 10:26 AM |
| -1 | There is no excuse to let yourself go in a relationship.Why stay married if you don’t love your spouse unconditionally? Even if you put in effort into your appearance, there’s not much time before you start aging and your looks fade anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/24 09:57 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Men shouldn't help/physically protect women due to the risk of protecting a misandrist or a feministIt’s not even just a woman physically protecting a man, for an example a man could be seriously injured and needs me to call 911 for him or something like that. But it’s not like I’m gonna tell him no and let him die just because of the possibility he may be a misogynist | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/24 08:12 PM |
| 5 | Women shouldn’t complain about the current dating/relationship/sexual landscape when this is everything they wantedWhat exactly about the dating/relationship/sexual landscape you say women are complaining do you mean? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/24 10:36 AM |
| 116 | CMV: Men shouldn't help/physically protect women due to the risk of protecting a misandrist or a feministYou might as well never help or protect any stranger you see that needs help due to the possibility they may be a bad or hateful person | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/24 09:44 PM |
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