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It definitely made me do a lot of self-reflection these last couple of months, wondering if this was all my fault, etc. I know I made some mistakes during our relationship, but none that would cause this. Even my ex's mom, after meeting new guy and talking to my ex, reassured me that there was nothing that I did/didn't do that caused this, and said that new guy had "infected her brain like a virus". Gotta stop trying to blame myself for this.
/r/MGTOW22/02/18 10:04 PM
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I believe so as well, and thanks for your well wishes. Of all the women I've dated/FWB, there are very very few that have truly disappeared. It's like it's hard wired in them to try to connect again at some point, for whatever reason.
/r/MGTOW22/02/18 08:34 PM
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You're right about this. It happened to me once before, with the first girl I dated back in high school. We dated for about 2 years, broke up and she was dating someone else for the next 3 years then, one day out of the blue, she shows up at my college and long story short, we were married 2 years later. Then, nasty divorce because of her cheating. Women are all the same!
/r/MGTOW22/02/18 08:33 PM
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Marraige? No way. Even if I did, I'd have the most iron-clad pre-nup imaginable. But, it would be fun to "reconcile", bring her back and fuck her, then show her straight to the door. That would be nice.
/r/MGTOW22/02/18 05:15 AM
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I think that's one of the worst parts of it. We literally spent all our time together (when I wasn't at work or travelling), and even when I was absent, we were always calling or texting. So going from that every day for nearly 3 years, to poof, gone, no contact is like quitting smoking cold turkey. I've been going back to my old life pre-ex of working out extra hard, going out with friends/girls, partying it up, working extra hard, spending more money on myself, etc. I know her well enough to k…
/r/MGTOW22/02/18 04:52 AM
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Thanks for your words of support! I may be biased toward myself, but I didn't think I was boring at all. I flew her to exotic destinations all over the country on a regular basis, got her into some of the hottest clubs in LA, Miami, New Orleans, etc., our sex life was always amazingly good, I drove her to fancy dinners in my $80k car...it was like a dream life, we were planning a two-week vacation in the Caribbean in January as a Christmas gift. But you're exactly right when you say low self-est…
/r/MGTOW22/02/18 04:48 AM
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Thanks for the tip, I'll check it out.
/r/MGTOW22/02/18 03:03 AM
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Not unplugged, just serving other customers now :)
/r/MGTOW22/02/18 03:01 AM
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That's what concerns me, is that she's eventually going to reach out to me for something (money, validation, loneliness, wants the good life back, whatever) and it's going to be hard to just ignore it. As someone said in the above comments, that usually happens around year 3. If I can make it that long with no contact from her, I'll be in a perfect place to "who's this?" her.
/r/MGTOW22/02/18 03:01 AM
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Always. The more you do for a woman the further it gets you.
/r/MGTOW22/02/18 02:02 AM
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I should have, hindsight is 20/20.
/r/MGTOW22/02/18 02:01 AM
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Best I can tell you is it's like driving by a 20 car pile up on the freeway. Best course is to keep your eyes on the road, but you can't help but looking to see what happened. In this case, she told me a few things about him during the breakup, and I just had to know a little more. It's laughable thinking she traded all we had for such an abject loser.
/r/MGTOW22/02/18 12:15 AM
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All women tend to be the same, selfish bitches who don't give a rats ass about anyone but themselves. Lie, cheat, back stab, just to get what they want. I have no desire to take her back.
/r/MGTOW22/02/18 12:12 AM
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Love this. I've seen SO many women who could have any guy they wanted, shack up with absolute losers, pop out kids, go through DV and stick around for more. So unbelievable. She wants to live a life like that, she can have it. I stopped dating trash in high school. While she's sleeping on that air mattress, I've been on 6 different dates with some of the hottest girls in Hollywood just this week. Her loss!
/r/MGTOW21/02/18 11:24 PM
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She moved him in not once, but twice! The first time I was gone, and he was out when I got back, so I never faced him. The second time was a week later, when I was back and she brought him over to stay the night, inviting him to basically live with her in my spare room until they found a place together. Needless to say, I gave her 30 seconds to get him out before I took him out myself. Never been so disrespected in my life. Firmly in NC zone and have no desire to respond if she contacts me.
/r/MGTOW21/02/18 11:16 PM
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Nope not one bit. Have more self respect than that. Just curious if its a scenario where she'd even try to come back is all.
/r/MGTOW21/02/18 11:13 PM
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