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LayOnTopOfALady/r/askMRP26/06/25 08:53 PM
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You're right. I spend too much time thinking instead of doing.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/09/25 09:32 PM
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OYS #21 Stats: 44, 6'1", 225 lbs, married 20 years, 3 kids under 12, BP 220 lbs, OHP 88 lbs, DL 262 lbs Read: NMMNG x2, MMSLP, WISNIFG, MAP, The rational male, Book of Pook, WOTSM, The Game, Mystery Method. Fitness: Right now I’m on a three-day full-body routine. Before this I was running a six-day PPL, which was great, but I just don’t have the time for it at the moment. I’ve also been doing rehab work for some distal bicep tendonitis I picked up earlier this summer. Thinking I should add a bit…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/09/25 01:02 PM
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I'm not weak by any real life standard. Hitting the gym 3-4 days per week and doing other sports. It's true, I'm fat. Will cut down to 200 lbs by a combination of fasting and calorie restriction. What am I doing about not being attracted to my wife? Not much I can do besides focusing on improving myself and hoping the resentment I feel towards her will go away. The reason I returned is that I want improve some areas of my life (game, finance, social life).
/r/MarriedRedPill06/09/25 12:24 PM
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OYS #20 Stats: 44, 6'1", 225 lbs, married 20 years, 3 kids under 12, BP 220 lbs, OHP 88 lbs, DL 262 lbs Read: NMMNG x2, MMSLP, WISNIFG, MAP, The rational male, Book of Pook, WOTSM, The Game, Mystery Method. I'm back on OYS after almost one year. There has been many changes since my last entry. We bought a house. I have joined two new sport clubs in addition to hitting the gym three to six times per week. Earlier in the summer I participated in an endurance race. Overall I'm living an active and …
/r/MarriedRedPill30/08/25 09:12 PM
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"I always pictured myself with a girl with bigger tits."
/r/askMRP27/06/25 10:06 PM
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AWALT?
/r/askMRP27/06/25 09:56 PM
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Hair color
/r/askMRP27/06/25 09:50 PM
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It's the hair color. Such a weird thing to keep bringing up over the years. Usually out of the blue and not tongue in cheek. I never dignify petty stuff like that with a response.
/r/askMRP27/06/25 09:49 PM
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“The third case for divorce is that in which one of the parties deprives and avoids the other, refusing to fulfill the conjugal duty or to live with the other person. For example, one finds many a stubborn wife like that who will not give in, and who cares not a whit whether her husband falls into the sin of unchastity ten times over. Here it is time for the husband to say, “If you will not, another will; the maid will come if the wife will not.” Only first the husband should admonish and warn h…
/r/RPChristians18/12/24 08:18 PM
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1 cor 7 also describes the mutual duties within a marriage... Say what you will about secular red pill but they have a far better grasp about intersexual dynamics than tradcons. By saying "I'll never leave this woman no matter what she does (except for cheating)" you are signaling "I'm an optionless loser who will stay with you regardless of how bad you behave". Ironically you increase your chances of having a healthy marriage by being willing to walk away from it. That said I think every other …
/r/RPChristians18/12/24 10:20 AM
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Sounds like you have oneitis for your wife. He didn't say to threaten to leave just that you should be WILLING to leave. That's not something which is overtly communicated but it does inform your behaviour. Are you saying that there is no situation where divorce is warranted for a christian man?
/r/RPChristians17/12/24 08:28 PM
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Give mindfulness meditation a try. Helps you observe and detach from emotions. The headspace app is good.
/r/askMRP24/10/24 09:16 PM
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Anyone can lose their temper but when it happens you have a choice. Do you engage with the emotion and let it control you or do you observe it and let it pass? If you get angry at yourself for getting angry you just pour gasoline on the fire. So cut yourself some slack when you mess up.
/r/askMRP23/10/24 06:33 PM
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OYS #19 Stats: 43, 6'1", 210 lbs, married 19 years, 3 kids under 12, BP 210 lbs, OHP 117 lbs, DL 293 lbs Read: NMMNG x2, MMSLP, WISNIFG, MAP, The rational male, Book of Pook, WOTSM, The Game, Mystery Method. Reading: MMSLP Mission: To build social, financial and sexual abundance mentality. My OYSes have contained too much useless rumination disguised as reflection and too little actionable items. This is my attempt to fix this. I'll set trackable goals, follow up on them and keep myself honest b…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/24 10:47 AM
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You're right I'm just moving in circles here. Next OYS I'll focus on action.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/10/24 06:41 PM
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OYS #18 Stats: 43, 6'1", 208 lbs, married 19 years, 3 kids under 12, BP 210 lbs, OHP 113 lbs, DL 293 lbs Read: NMMNG x2, MMSLP, WISNIFG, MAP, The rational male, Book of Pook, WOTSM, The Game, Mystery Method. Reading: MMSLP Mission: To build social, financial and sexual abundance mentality. Physical: I've joined a martial arts club. Feels good since I haven't been able to practice since I moved to the new city. Haven't been able to deadlift or do sandbag work because of sore lower back. Lately I'…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/10/24 11:39 PM
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I can feel sexual energy and performance is never a problem. It's not like she repulses me. My needs weren't met for a long time so I did the nice guy thing and conditioned myself to become needless.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/10/24 09:03 PM
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OYS #17 Stats: 43, 6'1", 211 lbs, married 19 years, 3 kids under 12, BP 205 lbs, OHP 113 lbs, DL 293 lbs Read: NMMNG x2, MMSLP, WISNIFG, MAP, The rational male, Book of Pook, WOTSM, The Game, Mystery Method. Reading: MMSLP Mission: To build social, financial and sexual abundance mentality. Physical: Last time I did blood work everything looked good except for one value. The doctor recommended I get more extensive blood work done so I did. It all came back normal. Thinking back I realize how my e…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/10/24 08:46 PM
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OYS #16 Stats: 43, 6'1", 203.5 lbs, married 19 years, 3 kids under 12, BP 200 lbs, OHP 109 lbs, DL 264 lbs Read: NMMNG x2, MMSLP, WISNIFG, MAP, The rational male, Book of Pook, WOTSM, The Game, Mystery Method. Listening: Rian Stone's sidebar series: NMMNG Mission: To build social, financial and sexual abundance mentality. Physical: Things are going well. Alpha_wolflord9 called me out for skipping leg day so I decided to try some deadlifts. Didn't push it too hard since I'm a bit worried about my…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/09/24 08:22 PM
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Sure, I'll include them in OYS when I get around to doing them.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/09/24 07:47 AM
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Just trying to keep things interesting. I'm doing three sessions per week of the same stuff and it becomes repetitive. Focusing on upper body because it's lagging behind my legs which are naturally large.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/09/24 04:13 AM
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OYS #15 Stats: 43, 6'1", 203.5 lbs, married 19 years, 3 kids under 12, BP 200 lbs, OHP 105 lbs Read: NMMNG x2, MMSLP, WISNIFG, MAP, The rational male, Book of Pook, WOTSM, The Game, Mystery Method. Listening: Rian Stone's sidebar series: NMMNG Mission: To build social, financial and sexual abundance mentality. Physical: Changed things up in the last training session by replacing the isolation exercises with sandbag EMOM. Also set a new PR on the assault bike. Financial/career: No point in going …
/r/MarriedRedPill20/09/24 02:29 PM
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OYS #14 Stats: 43, 6'1", 204 lbs, married 19 years, 3 kids under 12, BP 200 lbs, OHP 105 lbs Read: NMMNG x2, MMSLP, WISNIFG, MAP, The rational male, Book of Pook, WOTSM, The Game, Mystery Method. Listening: Rian Stone's sidebar series: NMMNG Mission: To build social, financial and sexual abundance mentality. Physical: Bodyweight is moving sideways but my lifts are going up and I lost another quarter inch on my waist. That schampoo I got for my beard has totally cleared up my skin. To think I wen…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/24 09:26 PM
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No, I didn't tell her. Thanks, I'll check his videos.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/09/24 08:12 PM
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OYS #13 Stats: 43, 6'1", 203 lbs, married 19 years, 3 kids under 12, BP 191 lbs, OHP 102 lbs Read: NMMNG x2, MMSLP, WISNIFG, MAP, The rational male, Book of Pook, WOTSM, The Game, Mystery Method. Mission: To build social, financial and sexual abundance mentality. Physical: Things are moving in the right direction. Quarter of an inch less on the waist and more on the upper arms since early august. I credit the arm gains to me finally pushing the isolation movements. The compounds still get priori…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/09/24 08:40 PM
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What size rocks are we talking? Could be lots of air gaps in that bag which would affect the overall density.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/08/24 05:45 AM
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Are you saying that her looking at my body and asking how many women there are at the gym isn't a good setup for a cocky funny response? Or are you saying that I shouldn't go for cocky funny responses since I'm not attractive enough yet? I'm not trying to be Mr Funny Man all the time. Just trying to get a hang of game.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/08/24 06:46 PM
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Sure, you may be right. I can't say for sure what's going on in my subconscious. Maybe I overuse humour as a form of ego protection.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/08/24 06:46 PM
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Nah, it's only validation seeking if I care about her response. Next time I'll apply some oil before posing.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/08/24 03:14 PM
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In general we get along really well, and during the day our vibe is good. My wife will often come up and touch me, hug me, or grab my butt. But 9 times out of 10 once the kids are in bed the mood disappears. It’s like as soon as we actually are alone together she is suddenly not interested. Same situation here. She'll tease during the day and fall asleep at the same time as the kids. If I go for morning sex she'll complain that I woke her up. At some point I started ignoring her sexual teasing b…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/08/24 10:40 PM
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OYS #12 Stats: 43, 6'1", 208 lbs, married 19 years, 3 kids under 12, BP 185 lbs, OHP 99 lbs Read: NMMNG x2, MMSLP, WISNIFG, MAP, The rational male, Book of Pook, WOTSM, The Game, Mystery Method. Mission: To build social, financial and sexual abundance mentality. Physical: Bodyweight went up since last OYS because of some cheating during the weekend. Didn't eat any crazy amounts so hopefully it's mostly water weight. Financial/career: My employer has hinted they finally have an offer for me. Afte…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/08/24 10:12 PM
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Why is that?
/r/askMRP24/08/24 06:30 AM
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They define normal range as 290 ng/dl to 1100 ng/dl and I have 630 ng/dl.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/08/24 05:11 AM
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OYS #11 Stats: 43, 6'1", 202 lbs, married 19 years, 3 kids under 12, BP 185 lbs Read: NMMNG x2, MMSLP, WISNIFG, MAP, The rational male, Book of Pook, WOTSM, The Game, Mystery Method. Mission: To build social, financial and sexual abundance mentality. Physical: Bodyweight going down and lifts going up. Pushed my PR for 100 kcal on the assault bike down to 6:35. Waist down by 1.8 inches since OYS #1. Wife joined for group training today and last weekend I brought two of my kids to the gym to show …
/r/MarriedRedPill21/08/24 09:36 PM
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I do bench, overhead press (machine), cable rows, pull-ups, curls, tricep extensions and lateral raises. Hollow body holds for core and dead hangs for grip strength and shoulder health. I'll post a number for ohp when I've tested with a barbell. Sleep could be better but I usually get 7-8 hours. Getting lab results in a couple of days.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/08/24 08:09 PM
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OYS #10 Stats: 43, 6'1", 204 lbs, married 19 years, 3 kids under 12, BP 176 lbs Read: NMMNG, MMSLP, WISNIFG, MAP, The rational male, Book of Pook, WOTSM, The Game, Mystery Method. Reading: NMMNG Mission: To build abundance mentality in all aspects of my life. Physical: Consistently training three times per week and making slow but steady progress. Added some sandbag throws over shoulder (88 lbs) and 100 kcal on the assault bike as a finisher. Took me something like 7:20 to get 100 kcal. Sex: Get…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/08/24 10:00 PM
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OYS #9 Stats: 43, 6'1", 207 lbs, married 19 years, 3 kids under 12, BP 176 lbs Read: NMMNG, MMSLP, WISNIFG, MAP, The rational male, Book of Pook, WOTSM, The Game, Mystery Method. Reading: NMMNG Mission: To build abundance mentality in all aspects of my life. Physical: The three days per week full body routine is going well. I'm making steady progress on all my exercises. In the group sessions I've noticed that my poor cardio is a limiting factor. Will add some rowing and assault bike to the end …
/r/MarriedRedPill08/08/24 10:38 PM
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OYS #8 Stats: 43, 6'1", 207 lbs, married 19 years, 3 kids under 12, BP 176 lbs Read: NMMNG, MMSLP, WISNIFG, MAP, The rational male, Book of Pook, WOTSM, The Game, Mystery Method. Reading: NMMNG Mission: To build abundance mentality in all aspects of my life. Physical: Haven't stuck to my meal plan and it shows in my body weight. Will meal prep today so there is less risk of deviating next week. The lifting has been more consistent and I've gotten experience with several new exercises in the grou…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/08/24 11:08 AM
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A year ago I weighed 230 lbs but it was all excess fat. My goal is to get down to 187 lbs and then go on a small calorie surplus. Will get my T level tested. It would explain my low energy problem.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/07/24 08:42 PM
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OYS #7 Stats: 43, 6'1", 204 lbs, married 19 years, 3 kids under 12, BP 173 lbs Read: NMMNG, MMSLP, WISNIFG, MAP, The rational male, Book of Pook, WOTSM, The Game, Mystery Method. Reading: NMMNG Mission: To build abundance mentality in all aspects of my life. Physical: The fever came back and I was down for half a week. Went off the calorie deficit while I was sick but now I'm back on it. Figured I'd test my bench since I haven't benched in a long time and was surprised how weak I've become. I'll…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/07/24 02:06 PM
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Thanks, I'll check it out.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/07/24 02:20 PM
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OYS #6 Stats: 43, 6'1", 204 lbs, married 19 years, 3 kids under 12, BP 173 lbs Read: NMMNG, MMSLP, WISNIFG, MAP, The rational male, Book of Pook, WOTSM, The Game, Mystery Method. Reading: NMMNG Mission: To build abundance mentality in all aspects of my life. Physical: I've been going to the circuit style group training at the new gym. Have to find a routine where I can combine the group training with my own strength training. Will either go for two separate sessions or do my strength work before…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/07/24 12:37 PM
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In what way is it outdated? Isn't Mystery method one of the fundamental books when learning the theory behind game? Are there some other books you would recommend?
/r/MarriedRedPill13/07/24 07:39 PM
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Point taken. Game has to be internalised so it becomes part of your personality.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/07/24 07:32 PM
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The situation MAY improve if your physique and game improve. What I meant to say was that I'll have more opportunities to initiate when the kids are away in school. But yeah, I'll still have to do the work. What do you think game actually is? Mystery method divides the courtship phase of game into three steps: attract, build comfort and seduce. You build attraction by demonstrating high value while appearing disinterested. In the case of the woman at the gym she was telling me about the various …
/r/MarriedRedPill11/07/24 09:15 PM
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OYS #5 Stats: 43, 6'1", 209 lbs, married 19 years, 3 kids under 12. Read: NMMNG, MMSLP, WISNIFG, MAP, The rational male, Book of Pook, WOTSM, The Game, Mystery Method. Reading: NMMNG Mission: To build abundance mentality in all aspects of my life. Physical: Tried another gym. Didn't like it as much as the first one I tried so I decided to sign up for a membership at the first gym. It's a "crossfit style" gym with a wide variety of equipment as well as group workouts. I plan to go there for my ow…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/07/24 09:51 PM
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You're right. I'm low energy and I've made zero progress since I started OYS.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/07/24 05:54 PM
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OYS #4 Stats: 43, 6'1", 213 lbs, married 19 years, 3 kids under 12. Read: NMMNG, MMSLP, WISNIFG, MAP, The rational male, Book of Pook, WOTSM, The Game, Mystery Method. Reading: NMMNG Mission: To build abundance mentality in all aspects of my life. Physical: Went to a new gym and tomorrow I'm going to check out another gym. Bought a pressure cooker to simplify meal preps. Should set up some goals for the remainder of the the summer. Career: No progress here. Need to send out a few applications to…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/07/24 09:29 PM
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OYS #3 Stats: 43, 6'1", 213 lbs, married 19 years, 3 kids under 12. Read: NMMNG, MMSLP, WISNIFG, MAP, The rational male, Book of Pook, WOTSM, The Game, Mystery Method. Reading: NMMNG Mission: To build abundance mentality in all aspects of my life. Physical: Training and diet has been less consistent lately because of a move to a new city. Last week I've just done some burpees and push-ups. Tomorrow I plan to go check out one of the local gyms. I've also found a couple of promising martial art cl…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/06/24 12:00 AM
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The only one stopping from me from getting this is myself and my misdirected sense of loyalty.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/06/24 09:51 AM
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OYS #2 Stats: 43, 6'1", 213 lbs, married 19 years, 3 kids under 12. Read: NMMNG, MMSLP, WISNIFG, MAP, The rational male, Book of Pook, WOTSM, The Game. Reading: NMMNG and Mystery Method. Mission: To build abundance mentality in all aspects of my life. Physical: I've tried to lose weight multiple times this year but I keep falling off the wagon. Yesterday I saw a photo of myself taken from behind with love handles visible under the t-shirt. Later me and my wife talked diet and I mentioned I'd lik…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/06/24 11:56 AM
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