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| 24 | Nothing says love and monogamy like a room full of naked ladiesBut if men are visual creatures, why they leave all their shit on the floor? Not very visually pleasing, eh? Why they dont so nice decorations in their homes? Seems like they are “visual creatures” only when it comes to women. :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/21 12:37 PM |
| 82 | LVM male guide to cheap dating. Watch out for these bright red flags ladiesThat is pathetic. :) Some men are cheap on top of being garbage. Storytime: We were out with some friends and someone brought the typical “alpha male”- you know, the one who was ~175 cm, with more body fat that he is allowed to have when saying he is “a big strong sexy man”. The ugly type that was rejected so many times, he felt so bitter that he didnt get his peepee wet, that he felt the need to be with same mindset as “red pill”. And the beautiful human being that I am, I cannot miss a chance … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/21 03:25 AM |
| 79 | Is it only fair to blame the sex works ?Lol, the patriarchy and audacity in its full light. Underage boys decide to watch porn, nobody educates them on the harms of watching porn; yet adult women are blamed for it? Sex workers that agreed to make content for other adults? See how men blame their porn addiction on women... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/21 02:51 AM |
| 9 | This - exactly this.So I have a collegue that has talked a lot about Jordan Peterson. That collegue is mysogynistic pig, that I am sure at some point of his life was sure TRIGGER WARNING a woman really wanted but was “shy”, so he “gave it” to her despite her “No”. You know that vibe I’m talking about? Some men just have that vibe. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/21 02:43 PM |
| 6 | One of four.He needs therapy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/21 02:39 PM |
| 12 | Question “How do you split house chores with your boyfriend?” and her answer starts with “I do the bigger chunk on chores, after all I am the woman and the housewife at home” ... miss me with that bsGuys, Im Bulgarian too, i would love to have more friends like you. I am also critisized a lot for not wanting to be a maid, lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/21 12:12 PM |
| 5 | Just remember..Thank you, I needed this. :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/20 12:40 AM |
| 12 | FaceTime date with seemingly HVM reveals his repulsive apartment. This is why you FaceTime first, imagine arriving here in person. Needless to say, that was our last conversation.Messy house means laziness or depression (or other mental illness). And trust me, you dont want anything to do with any of them. This guy doesnt need a date, but a therapist. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/20 12:36 AM |
| 27 | Why oh why should we center or even include scrotes' opinions on female health issues?!?!?!?!?!?!?So they want to decide for OUR bodies? Oh the entitlement... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 02:12 AM |
| 73 | Thank you to the queen who called me out on another sub! You’ve helped change my life.Glad you found this sub and that you are taking good care of yourself now! 💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 02:05 AM |
| 56 | Why do men have such shit self care routines?I work in advertising. I recently worked with a huge self-care brand for men. Their primary goal was to convince men that self-care is important, and that it doesnt make them any less “strong”, and it is okay to wash yourself and use deodorant every day. This goal is set after making extensive marketing researches. So yes, I still do not get it and I am still as puzzled as you are. Like, really, I have to convince it is okay to wash yourself? What is it, 18 century all over again? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 02:01 AM |
| 115 | Men trying to convince women we need "a man."A lot of LVM are afraid of women not needing a man. They are the ones that need us, not the other way around and there is enough proof. They are projecting it onto us. A man usually knows he does not add any value to a woman’s life, and that he doesnt deserve her. So, he makes this little story in his head that he is needed just because of his gender (because there is literally nothing else he can offer). Women who disagree bring such men back to reality. It’s easier to mock those women than fac… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 01:53 AM |
| 11 | Man prefers playing videogames over taking care of wife (f60) with cancerHe is disgusting human being. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 01:40 AM |
| 3 | One of the top posts in the dating advice subreddit reddit. LVM are upset that women don't approach them! When will men understand that women want a confident man that puts in effort to date them.But all the holywood movies and the porn they watched thought them otherwise. When you say the truth that you dont care about shy guys they rage because they get their reality check. It’s funny, actually. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/20 10:27 AM |
| 5 | One of the top posts in the dating advice subreddit reddit. LVM are upset that women don't approach them! When will men understand that women want a confident man that puts in effort to date them.I just “love it” when I get a cab in the middle of the night and bald fat driver tries to “approach” me. And I have to pretend nice because it’s midnight and we are ALONE in his car. Now when I call a cab in the night I specifically ask for a woman driver. The deprivity of men knows no boundries. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/20 10:18 AM |
| 1 | Scrotes really love being up on women's businessLol he is ugly, bald and arrogant, I understand why he gets rejected by so many women and end up having his little show trying to put women down. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/20 09:44 AM |
| 4 | Married scrote can't sleep without teddy bear that plays a recording of his dead exShe knew this for 20 years, and although she has extreme case of denial, I do wonder what happened. Why she realized now, after 20 years of this? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/20 12:22 AM |
| 51 | Reddit advice promotes staying in abusive, toxic, codependent relationships with it's counseling adviceYou are right. The thing is, men want to be loved unconditionaly. They can be porn addicts and all you described, but you “have to help them”. I dont think it has something to do with theraphy here, more like men expect of women to be giving no matter how they behave. It was so for centuries and media glorifies it. If a woman cheats, comments will be “leave that w****”, but if man cheats “oh he has problems, help him.”Men have been justifying their deprivity for ages, that is has become “normal”… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/20 06:47 AM |
| 24 | Harmful shows (Private Practice)Let me guess: it was written and produced by men? :) They sneak their deprivity everywhere. That’s why media is so full of women trowing themselves at men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/20 06:39 AM |
| 7 | Have you noticed this distinct hypocrisy in men?He was projecting onto you. He wanted to fuck his bestfriend, so every time he saw you with a friend, he was afraid you want to do the same. He is just NVM. On that note, you have to be cautious when person you date shows jelousy- a lot of cheaters are typically very jealous (they want to fuck everybody, so they think you want to as well); also people who want to own you express a lot of jealousy - they might not let you dress a certain way; do a certain things because they do not want “others l… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/20 09:44 AM |
| 11 | Sounds like a winnerTbh no mentally healthy person will do that. At young age, children start to differentiate where their mother body’s end, and where their own starts. Basic needs like food, bodily functions like pooping or peeing and emotional like need of love and affection helps them learn the difference. This girl wants to be accepted so badly she is unconsiosly willing to compromise her body boundries (engaging in someone’s else needs that usually tend to be private). I bet she is also the “clingy” type of g… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/20 09:36 AM |
| 23 | We need to teach our children about the dangers of hookup cultureCouldn’t agree more. My mother warned me about how many predators are out there. However, the media and society makes you think sexual assaults and rapes always happens by strangers, and this is so wrong. You can be raped by a partner or a tinder datw and young girls dont understand that yet. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/10/20 12:32 AM |
| 11 | The man who pioneered the movement to normalize hardcore porn: Literally the EPITOME of pornsick LVMThat’s so true!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/10/20 12:24 AM |
| 3 | Ladies what's your beauty routine like?Eating healthy. I eat mostly fruits&vegetables, sometimes meat. When you know you give your body the best foods, you feel great about yourself. 2.Skincare!! This is so important. Mine consist of: cleanser, mosturizer, serum, sunscreen and exfoliator (i do exfoliation once a week). Google Hyram for more info, he is great. :) Haircare. You can google Brad Mondo for more info. I do serum for lashes I work out at least 3 times a week. I dance, because I love it. I get my nails done every 2 weeks I g… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 10:51 PM |
| 3 | Do you ever think about how many HVM are/have been secretly bad people?There are a lot of men who pretend to be HVM. Also, a lot of predators out there. And yes, so many walk around being “decent human beings”. What you can do as an individual to stop and avoid this is: 1) Report any abuse/sexual harassment against you 2) Learn a bit psychology, how to spot red flags, how to spot predators; how to defend yourself. Like, I have better things to do than learning how to protect myself from men 7 hours/ week, but here I am doing it anyway, for my safety, which is still… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 10:37 PM |
| 22 | My stbx found my postThere are a lot of organizations that give support to abused women, search them in your area, they will help you out as well. I’m glad you moved on with your life without him. Please stay safe. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 05:24 AM |
| 1 | So in The Netherlands a 17 year old girl who worked in a little supermarket got raped by her boss. Police said they couldn't do anything, so the family took matters into own hands. First they tried to talk with the boss, but he threatend with an axe. Family of the girl destroyed the shop laterI’m so sorry to hear about all of that. The tragedy is that in order to bring the person to justice, that case should raise attention (online petition, news, etc). At the same time, this is the last thing this girl needs... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 03:12 PM |
| 1 | LVM shows his true colors, pickmeishas are in the comments blaming his reaction on women🙄“Is it wrong I have standarts?” :) Btw, when I was dating, I also always had money in me to cover my bill, so if he is trash I can give the money to the waiter and run away. :) I’ve worked as a waitress while I was studying and some ppl like that will refuse to pay your bill after you’ve left (because they didnt get anything in return beside your company and getting to know you, can you imagine?) and I was just making sure the waiter/waitresses will not have any problems with that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 06:43 AM |
| 29 | So in The Netherlands a 17 year old girl who worked in a little supermarket got raped by her boss. Police said they couldn't do anything, so the family took matters into own hands. First they tried to talk with the boss, but he threatend with an axe. Family of the girl destroyed the shop laterThat’s why we should stand up for each other. Today is her, tomorrow might be you or your daughter. Tell me at least people are protesting? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 06:32 AM |
| 7 | What's the best part about being a woman?Our lifes are not ruled or completely controlled by sex desires, so we actually live it to the fullest and enjoy it more than males. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 06:24 AM |
| 5 | My mood, when i get used to the random misogynistic comments and behaviour appearing out of nowhereWhen I hear unecessary shit for women or for a specific woman, I always stand up for us/her. Low value people (LVM and pickmes) should be called out on their shit. This behaviour is not acceptable, and they should be told that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 06:12 AM |
| 40 | “I pReFeR gIrLs WiThOuT mAkEUp”I don’t care what you like. If I feel like putting make up on, I will. I mean, it’s not like I do it for you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 06:03 AM |
| 3 | Disney Princesses discovering FDSHave you read the original stories? If you haven’t you should. In the original “The Little Mermaid” the moral of the story is... if you change yourself for someone else, the consiquenses will be bad. “The Sleeping Beauty” was a tale about a sleeping woman getting repeatedly raped. Disney just twisted the real meaning of the stories... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 11:07 PM |
| 5 | Wannabe tradwives aren’t respected by the men they worshipWe dated for like a month or two and we weren’t official (I didnt want to, it was too early for me). So I didn’t have to break up with him. I was working+studying and I had too many things to focus on, and just... he went at the bottom of the list of my priorities? I was young and not so aware what a big red flag that was, and didnt have the same values as now. However, I always had a good intuition and after he told me this story, I just didn’t feel like seeing him/ spending time with him. I kn… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 09:14 PM |
| 41 | Does this excuse grown men staring at young teenage girls too?Ok, as a bisexual woman, it is my time to shine. There are things called respect and control. If my female coworker is wearing “something thight and bend over” I wont look. Not because I don’t want to. But because in a workplace, it is completely inapropriate and wrong. Also, she didnt wear this or bended over for my enjoyment- that’s how men justify their deprived behaviour “but she wore something thight” - she didnt wear if for unecessary sexual attention from you, scrote!! Imagine going to yo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 06:01 AM |
| 63 | Wannabe tradwives aren’t respected by the men they worshipYou pay dates, because it is part of the courting process and you should prove to a woman you are the one worth choosing. After things turn into a relationship, you should still do this, and most HVM do it without thinking, as a way to show appreciation for their partner. Men that think like the one in the comment, usually cannot do anything for the sake of the other person. Everything nice they do is not out of love, but out of expectation for a return. Be careful of such men and look for red f… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 05:48 AM |
| 55 | Pick-me defending her "HVM" 💀They are going to wake up one day, and it is going to be brutal. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 05:26 AM |
| 130 | What the actual f*** is wrong with menLadies, we need to help her. This is not Ok and anybody shouldn’t feel like that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 05:18 AM |
| 5 | Her BF's parents expect her to clean. What would be the FDS way of dealing with this?Yes, he didnt! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 07:09 AM |
| 7 | Yes, because not having sex with a man is definitely the same as domestic abuse.This disgusts me beyong expression. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 12:56 AM |
| 13 | Her BF's parents expect her to clean. What would be the FDS way of dealing with this?Haha, I had a similar situation in my dumb days! I was living with a bf and his mother expected me to COOK and CLEAN for him. While I was working 12 hours and he-4. Do you imagine? Like what, she raised him, now she is giving him to me to mother him? Yeah right. He didn’t stand up for me. I picked my stuff and left. If you are dumb enough to not understand the difference between partner and servant, I don’t need you in my life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 12:37 AM |
| 21 | How do I move on?He only wanted to sleep with you. Once he saw you actually require effort, he decided to move on with easier targets. Work on yourself so you can start to realizing your own worth. You are nobody’s entantainer or private porn star and you should love yourself more than that. You dodged a bullet and you ahould be happy instead of thinking what you could’ve done different. It is not your fault he is human trash can. What you can do better is love yourself more to realize your worth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 12:23 AM |
| 26 | r/MGTOW gleefully plotting to replace women with machines.I imagine the ads. You think you are entitled to a vagina for your dick, but you dont get any? You want a faithful wife, even when you cheat on her? You want to be loved unconditionally, although you are a massive disappointment of a human being? You want to eat and drink excessively, but still have a woman that finds you attractive? Wait no more! Robo-Woman is here to satisfy all your scrote’s dreams! Because let’s be honest, you know a real woman would never put up with any of your shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 12:08 AM |
| 3 | Boyfriend of two years doesn’t want me to visit his homeThese are huge red flags. Forget how people tell you to be compassionate, loving and understandable. Just because you are all these, doesn’t mean you shouldn’t have standarts or tolerate other people’s shit forever. You have been nothing but patient, understanding and loving. You deserve better, and you know it. You don’t owe him anything. Breaking up with him doesn’t make you a bad person. You are not a charity foundation, you shouldn’t give your time and love to anyone who wants them, but “hAs… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 03:43 AM |
| 218 | My husband's dad just said that he felt bad for a family member that just had another daughter.It’s funny how men are dissappointed when they get daughters. Have you ever been to a hospital? The majority of visitors ( at least in my country) are always women. The ones that are going to stick for you and care for you through your hardest times are women. The world just dont deserve us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 03:27 AM |
| 1 | LIARS CLUB: Isn’t it incredible how easy they lie? It’s literally like breathing- thank you to the sis at the car dealership who worked with me to catch a CHEATERI am very happy for you! A few tips for after finding out you were in a relationship with a cheater: 1. Make sure you are healthy 2. You can read some literature on lies, narcissist or body language. All those things will be helpful recognizing a liar in the future, and are generally good knowledge to have not only when dating men, but in life as general. It’s great that you listened to your intuition- keep on doing that! If you feel something is odd, probably your subconsious picked up on some … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 10:21 AM |
| 13 | When a LVM tries to drop this hot line to reel you in thinking you are a pickme, but you decide to play stupid to give him a taste of his own medicine before you block & delete for good as an enlightened QueenLove it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 07:04 PM |
| 2 | No woman should have to clean up her husbands pee from the living room. I’d kick him the fuck out not treat him like another child!You know what annoys me the most? It is called “Man rant”. People should stop normalizing things like that by calling them “rant”. Like it is normal to complain from your husband who pees in a bottle in the living room? Are you kidding me? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 07:01 PM |
| 10 | Guys in general seem to have 0 empathy or desire to learn what works for women. As a bi woman more into women FDS has opened my eyesI know how you feel. There was a time when I asked myself if I am really a lesbian, because the people I am attracted to 99% of the time are women. Then I realized that men don’t take care of themselves, some have bad hygiene, others have no hair, and on top of that they are a**holes. They also do not care about your pleasure. While most women are nice, caring and they always put an effort. We are indeed blessed to have a choice. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 06:56 PM |
| 4 | How to stop having crushesI feel like that too! Not having crushes because I am in a relationship, but I refuse to spend my time on LVM (and low value people in general). I’d rather do something for my self-improvement - exercise, read a book, learn new things. Also, what i find helpful is lists. Emotions are misleading - you can feel good in someone’s company, but this doesnt make him a HVM. Use logic only. I mean, I know it is cliche but I do write positives and negatives whether I doubt if this person is worth my time… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 06:41 PM |
| 1 | I feel insecureHere is the thing. It doesnt matter how tall you are, how you look, or what you do. Women are always called too X or too Y, or not good enough at Z. No matter what you do and how you look, there will always be someone commenting on your appearance. That’s part of a life as a woman. First, remember that other people comments are almost never about you. It’s about themselves. Calling you “too tall” will make their short/ugly self feel better about themselves, while belittling others. Or maybe your… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 03:24 PM |
| 27 | Can men and women be just friends?Most men will immediately categorize you right after seeing you - “fuckable” or “unfuckable”. Just because you are friends doesn’t mean they dont think of you as a sex object or won’t masturbate on your instagram photos. I dont say every single one is like that, but most are. They would gladly have sex with you given the chance. Even if your fiance is his best friend. That’s how deprived they are. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 02:51 PM |
| 67 | the only appropriate response to when you hear someone say this 😂or “So get one that would” I am not a property. I can go and do as I please. :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 02:30 PM |
| 17 | "if a chick doesn't want you, rape her"He is a public figure? 😲 Did he at least receive a backlash for this post or is it like nothing happened? I just love it when mysogyny is passed like “comedy”... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 08:35 PM |
| 12 | Make Leveling up your full time jobI completely agree. On that note, a little tip for ladies that get some spare/free time on the job: make sure you have read your job discription carefully. For example, improving my technical skills is part of my job description - meaning, I can study whatever I want related to my profession to improve myself while at the job and still get paid for it (Ofc make your projects priority and learn in your spare time). You can also ask for courses that will improve your skills and your company can pa… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 08:28 PM |
| 7 | Guy forgot he hadn’t txt me backHe is well aware OR he texts so many women that he has no idea who you are. If someone is interested in you, you are on top of his mind. Block! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 08:22 PM |
| 38 | "if a chick doesn't want you, rape her"People like that should be put on a “watch list”. Like, having their prints taken as well as sperm samples, so the police have it in database if a woman gets raped. Unfortunately, people will just laugh at something like this and move on with their life. I wish there was enough resource so the police(or volunteer groups) could be checking into suspicious people online. Like of course, there are a lot of trolls, but you can clearly distinguish them most times. Just think about it- do you know how… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 08:14 PM |
| 21 | BDSM IS ABUSEI agree, men who like to dominate, usually want a legal way to abuse. Trauma sometimes expands in all areas of life, including sexual preferance. However, the people who are into BDSM have serious issues, that they dont want to work on or dont realize they have. It’s easier for the mind and the subconcious to mask the traumas in some way. I have met men who like to “dominate”, not because they have issues but simply they want someone to abuse (at some point at life I was lurking into BDSM forums… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 08:00 PM |
| 36 | "how to talk to a woman who is wearing headphones" - don'tExactly what i do. If you try and be polite, they dont give up. If you are rude, they go away. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 12:15 PM |
| 27 | I'm constantly seeing red flags...Too many red flags. He has “waste of time” written all over him :) Your time is valuable, dont spend it on him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 12:03 PM |
| 22 | Can FDS be applied to jobs?I do apply FDS methods for my career. First, set a list of what you look for in a job. Companies will try to look very desirable, that there are many candidates and you should do your best to get hired, as well as lowering your standarts. I know this for a fact because I’ve worked in HR company (although I am not HR myself). The difference as you put it is that you need an income. So find a job to support yourself while you are looking for your perfect place. The reality is that, there are not s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 01:30 PM |
| 60 | McDonald's commercial, what a joke. Hate how widespread struggle love & 50/50 mentality isThe target group here is mostly men, and LVM to be exact. Men are more likely to eat junk food than women in general(there are studies about it), now add lazyness to prepare food, at the same time not enough money to eat regular in restourants; lack of cooking skill, not caring about their appearance, etc etc. So, it is no wonder how they try to appeal to that audiance- LVM who dreams of beauiful smart girl who makes him feels accomplished, although he is crap. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 11:49 PM |
| 13 | TRIGGER WARNING: Just Some Casual Rape and Sexual Assualt Apologising, And They Wonder Why We Think They Have No Empathy?!?! From Men, Going Their Own Way 2.0 (AKA Men FORCED To Go Their Own Way )-VOMITWe are thought to think that “rape” means forced sex by random stranger on a street or at a party. It also took me years to realize I was raped. I gave concent for one thing, he did another that I never agreed on, nor we ever talked about. I was a teen. I didn’t know what to do, I was kind of shocked and didnt know what was happening. I never reported because I didnt even realize it was a rape until years later. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 09:01 PM |
| 45 | Scrotes be like.....This looks like a joke. It can’t be real. Or this person is really delusional. 😀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 08:31 PM |
| 15 | So many scrotes are so dirty and unhygienic that they have come up with their own term for why their nether regions smell like shit sometimes. dear scrotes... if you shower regularly, you shouldn’t stink so bad after a sweaty day (explication in the comments)Also, they dont change their clothes. They sweat in them and use it again anyway. Disgusting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 08:29 PM |
| 15 | Boy bye.Lol. Too big... yeah right. You wish :))) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 08:24 PM |
| 174 | Truth. We are not responsible for fixing or changing men!This is so deep in our culture - holywood movies, fairytales, tv shows etc where a woman takes a disaster and fixes him. But I dont wonder anymore, these movies were created by men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 08:23 PM |
| 41 | And todays catch of the day ladies! Red flag central with a generous serving of emotional baggageBecause later they will defend their shitty behaviour and lack of effort as “i told you so! you knew it from the start” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 08:21 PM |
| 64 | Saw a post about men who get insecure about pretty boys/hvm who actually care about their appearances. Thought I'd post a cherry on top 😂 (there are 2 images here)They just try to drag everyone who puts more effort, because it’s easier that way than actually doing work. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 07:55 PM |
| 12 | TRP guide on how to manipulate a woman to do abortion when she doesn't want to. I want you guys to read this and protect yourselves.So, the bottom line is- men who think like that are too immature and selfish to take responsibility of pregnancy they caused. (On the other hand, the pregnant woman who wants to keep the baby is ready to take the responsibility). They also think that sex exist solely for their pleasure, and god forbid there is a baby out of it, you have to get rid of it. If you have sex, you should be prepared for the consiquences. Don’t get me wrong, I am not anti-abortion. But destroying someones life just bec… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 09:27 AM |
| 8 | Throwaway because my boyfriend has my main account. How do I ask to be taken to a nice place for sex?He is manipulative! You dont need to think how to please him “how to ask without him freaking out” etc. A person who respects you and your boundaries will care for your experience for your first time. This one doesnt care and just want to have sex. Please please please consider this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 05:41 AM |
| 67 | He’s just mad because he keeps getting rejectedThat’s an interesting way to say you are tired of rejection. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 05:29 AM |
| 1 | I think I was taken advantage of.Just want to say, it is NOT your fault. We should be able to drink and have fun without feeling concerns for our safety. I hate it when people try to blame it on women. ‘You should’ve dresses different’, “You should’ve drank less”, “You shouldn’t have gone out with him”. The people who take advantage in such situations are the ones to blame. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 05:22 AM |
| 5 | Because apparently I need his permissionMy bs translator says: “I have a kink of watching my gf being fucked by other guys”. Because most men (douchebags, fuckboys, emotionally unavailable) would still hate it when you sleep with other men (even if you are FWB). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 08:13 PM |
| 32 | Why do I see so many posts like this on OLD looking for women to be free prostitutes to them?But then again, even if it was true (which it is not) if they can’t figure out how an app works, they are still too old to date me. :))) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 08:07 PM |
| 7 | Coming to a Barnes and Nobles near youYou just gave me an idea. Since I like reading outside and I usually get interrupted by males, I can design a book cover (is the word protector? the one you put the book in) with something that men find intimidating (I am accepting ideas). Can also do stickers on my e-reader. But something tells me that still wont be enough to be left alone? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 08:03 PM |
| 40 | My cousin 18F has been talking to this 28M guy and I think it's gross for him to have matched with her in the first place. She says he's looking for a relationship and seems trustworthy but to me, this is predatory behavior. I need FDS arguments to convince her that he's shit and not to meet him.Now that I think about it, the HVM that I know ( which unfortunately are not many), always date around their same age. LVM who did not accomplish anything in life or have small/limp peepee usually seek younger women (inexperienced, who adore them and dont know better) as validation for their ego. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 07:56 PM |
| 2 | Listen up: A few dates, or mere texting is not enough to determine if a man is HVM!I needed that, thanks. In my past relationships people (men & pickmes) have told me that I have trust issues and I am “testing” the person too much. I started doubting myself and trying to fix myself, only to find out there is nothing to be fixed. There is a good reason for what I’m doing, it is not irrational. For me, trust is earned, not freely given. Unfortunately, I know too many women thinking they are in a relationship with a HVM, while he is a complete garbage when alone. Men lie, a lot, … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 05:22 PM |
| 14 | Don’t let anyone take you back to a level you’ve already leveled up from!You know what they find intimidating? You don’t need them. You have a career, you can take good care of yourself and you can leave any moment you please. That intimidates LVM, because if you are not bound by financial (or any other) dependancy, they can’t get away with all the crap they usually do, and actually have to put in an effort. :) Btw, I had a friend that was all that, and after some dates with a guy who seemed nice, he offered her coke and other drugs. She went to WC and never came bac… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 08:51 AM |
| 24 | This sub growing so much just proves how many women are unsatisfied with men todayI have heard FDS terminology from girls and women in my country ( which is a small balcan country). Seems like women everywhere are waking up, which makes me happy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 08:44 AM |
| 3 | Link this dude sends his matches. Click and decide if you wanna laugh or cry.Judging by the name, this man seems to be from my country. And I can confirm there are so many entitled men like that (unfortunately not only here). That’s the kind of crap I have to deal with. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 05:53 AM |
| 3 | This is a girl I went to high school with..Hey hey, no need to drag her down. Maybe she is in a bad place. Maybe she has been disrespected so many times, she started thinking low of herself. I know most of us can recall a lot of dumb choices in our past. Luckily, we didnt get tattoos as a reminder. Don’t judge her without knowing her story. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 07:07 PM |
| 3 | He's depressed" "Try couples therapy" "Give him your love and support" Are they serious? DUMP HIM, GIRL!Dump him. He figured out what he wanted to do actually takes a lot of effort and probably decided not to do it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 06:32 PM |
| 23 | There is no "one that got away"This phrase does not reflect reality indeed. I do not regret for anyone I’ve broken up with. On the contrary, sometimes I remember past relationships and I am like “How the fuck I dated this trash, good decision that I broke up with him”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 06:24 PM |
| 5 | YikesThis makes me feel sick. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 06:13 PM |
| 52 | Does anyone else find that they’re at their best when a man is not in their life?I remember reading a study a long time ago that basically proved women are happier and generally better in life (career, social contacts, etc) than men when single. Men on the other hand were worse when single. So no wonder why men drain you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 06:09 PM |
| 18 | Do you girls find it funny how days, weeks, months can easily go by before you ever see a guy that’s even slightly attractive enough to take double take?It’s on men, they dont want to put in the effort, because they know they dont need to (there is always some pickme that would chase them). I love playing video games, but I do it in my free time, not all the time. I also have a career, social life, always have the time to study new things. I think a lot of society blames video games for making men lazy, but actually the games themselves have nothing to do with it. I can write a whole topic on it. For 14 years playing video games, I’ve only seen … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 02:08 PM |
| 64 | Is it reasonable for a man to expect his girlfriend to make dinner for him while not intending to marry her? Local BDSM man weighs in.BDSM is just a legal way for LVM to abuse women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 02:04 AM |
| 53 | Some Amazing Women , Prob FDS;) on PPD Perfectly Summed Up Why Smart Men Get Why THEY Should Be Paying For Dates...The Market Dictates The Value. Simples!I recently explained that to someone I know. He is a typical LVM. He was arguing men and women should split. And i was like i am 1), 2), 3), etc. If i want a date by tomorrow, I can get at least 50, if you want date by tomorrow, best case scenario, you will get 1-2. So, why should I settle for someone that doesnt match my standarts, when there are so many more there, who would? His jaw dropped. Like he realized something he wasnt. Or like being shocked that women can have standarts. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 01:58 AM |
| 1 | Why are LVM so obsessed with paternity testing and paternity fraud? If you're THAT convinced your wife is gonna cheat on you, why bother getting married 😂They know deep down they do not deserve their wifes. So they think their women would cheat, because probably that’s what they would do in their place, since they can ‘do better’. Just LVM things. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 01:48 AM |
| 12 | Honestly, how dareIt is indeed, audacity. Sometimes i have dinner or coffee by myself, usually reading on my kindle, when LVM tries to approach me. And what i noticed is some will actually think you are being bored by sitting there by yourself. They are convinced you need their company. Like, i am doing my own thing, enjoying myself, you have the audacity to interrupt that and pretend I need you, wtf. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 01:44 AM |
| 5 | Woman finds out dirty dick husband is cheating with his mistress again. She sues the Pickmeisha mistress AND she sues her husband since he bought a condo to use as a love shack. Looks like the condo will be going bye bye.Another proof you should not give second chances. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 01:31 AM |
| 62 | "Where can you lead me? Not up."So at the end he basically says the only thing he can give you is dick. Lol. A dildo will be better, thank you very much. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 01:08 PM |
| 7 | People asking if you’re pregnantI just tell people I dont want children. Otherwise they are like “YoU aRe sO GoOd at cOoking, YoU wOulD bE amaZinG mOtHer” - No, Jason, I just like preparing quality food for myself. It’s funny how when a woman is good at something, they find a way to view this skill for serving others. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 04:14 AM |
| 2 | It's definitely our fault, huh?Unfortunately I dont think it’s entirely her fault for thinking this way. Society always blamed being single mother on women. Like “you didnt choose better”, “it’s her fault she trusted him”, etc etc. She is going to wake up one day and realize... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 04:00 AM |
| 2 | Anyone else here that don't even want to date (anymore)?I am blessed to be bisexual. Currently I have a bf, but if we break up I’m done dating men. It’s not worth it, especially when I have a choice. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 03:55 AM |
| 56 | How do we get more of these?!?!?How we do get more of these? By not giving LVM sex and dont let them procreate. They either have to step up and change their ways, or extinguish. Unfortunately, we are very far from that point. Everyday I see random couple on the street, where the man behaves badly, yet he is still in relationship and has a child. They should just be denied the opportunity to have a family. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 03:42 AM |
| 18 | LVM examplePerfect response 👏👏👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 03:38 AM |
| 9 | How Old Were You When You Learned the Bad Men Weren't an Extreme Minority?Very young, at like 16-17. My mother warned me. Yet, I still managed to date men who turned out to be bad. Unfortunately, with this we need experience to learn better. Because when you are sweet and kind, and generally a good person, it’s hard for you to grasp the idea how manipulative and guild-free some people are. Now at 27 i think I fully get the picture. But who knows, maybe they can still dig deeper. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 03:33 AM |
| 7 | LVM & NVM be like, "I wAs JuSt ChEcKiNg In tO sEe HoW yOu WeRe DoInG bEcAuSe I aM sUcH a GoOd gUy." then get salty when you don't accept their shitty outreach attempt because hE iS TrYiNg!One of my ex who was extremely toxic was trying to “check on me”, so i blocked his ass. About 7 years later, he had a new profile and tried to contact me again. I dont know why, I responded something ( like something about being very happy with my current bf and my career and achievemnts). He said he missed talking to me and it was like “we just picked where we left off”. I blocked his ass immediately. This happened while I was still pickme. Today, i would block him on the “hey”. These guys are … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 03:22 AM |
| 31 | Always be ready to leave. As soon as you feel yourself having the scarcity mindset, remember you’re a queen and deserve peace.My role-model in life, an incredibly strong woman, could fit most of her stuff in a single suitcase and leave if she felt she was mistreated (she doesnt want to have a marrage, ever, so i know what the FDS book says about living with someone you haven’t married, but in her case, she didnt want to). She has done that a couple of times and never settled for LVM. That helped her level up as well as finding a HVM. (still doesnt want to marry, she has seen too much shit from men and wants to be able … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 03:44 PM |
| 10 | "The Way I Are" Is probably one of the most Anti-FDS songs out there...You probably dont know the ultimate cringe song (you can skip straight to the lyrics, it’s in English): https://youtu.be/M3rg-rh6MPo And yes, some of these girls dont have 18. I love South Korea, its culture and kpop, but this song is just... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 09:20 PM |
| 4 | Ashnikko's officially one of us!Love her as well! You should check out “Invitation” if you haven’t already. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 02:10 PM |
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