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Hang around local bars earlier in the day. They won't be staying out late. Follow rule 1 and 2, etc. Become a somewhat regular. The closest I've gotten was a local bar around 5pm, a slim GILF started up a conversation with me. She was with what I assume was her husband but both were very, uh, friendly, and very curious about my dating life. They left eventually, and we gave each other hugs, but she did the little finger drag on my back as she left (you know the type). I was in a committed relati…
/r/seduction01/05/25 04:05 AM
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Lol what is this? Of course bars/nightclubs are looking to make money, it's not a secret lmao, it's a business to get people drunk and spend money. But that doesn't mean you can't get laid. Gonna throw this truth bomb but women like sex lol. They may not go out with that intention, but they are certainly open to it. Source: multiple women who insist they "never do this" or are underprepared (e.g. granny pannies or unshaved).
/r/seduction24/12/24 12:07 PM
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Question: At what point of the escalation are you at when this occurs: It all seems to go well until I actually try and hook up with these girls. Are you just chatting at a bar, or sitting together making out on your couch at your place? Are you talking to them at a party, or laying in bed with them still clothed? Either way, the name of the game is escalation. If you escalate properly, sex should naturally happen. If you're waiting for the right moment to kiss, you have to create a situation th…
/r/seduction26/06/22 08:00 PM
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It gets exhausting when you have to battle the dumb talking points every time, sigh...
/r/seduction25/06/22 05:29 PM
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God bless them
/r/seduction21/02/22 12:16 AM
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Cut down on the porn and jerking off if you haven’t already. Not saying cut it completely out but you need to be able to get physically aroused without external stimulation. If you do that, you should notice that the blood gets pumping during the foreplay stage, which lets your soldier get a head start when the pants come off. Second point is that flaccid penis can be whatever size, and if she is a mature adult she will understand how male biology works. Are you hiding your dick after sex? She s…
/r/seduction02/11/21 06:54 AM
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Happy for you man. I was a late bloomer too and at some point you realize how easy it is to be direct and just shoot your shot. Fortune truly favors the bold. Won’t work every time but you’re never left with the what if. Last month I was at a chicks house, sitting on the couch with her and making small talk, failing to find an opportunity to make “the move.” Then I just stopped mid conversation, looked at her and literally said out loud, “fuck it, we both know why I’m here” and went for the kiss…
/r/seduction02/11/21 06:28 AM
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Sure there are women that are hot and attractive enough that they don't need to expend effort in their romantic life to find success, but there are many women that do not have that luxury. They get nervous about dates. They have fears and insecurities. They are embarrassed about their bodies in the bedroom. They complemplate the texts messages they send. Their boyfriends dump them and their hearts break. And it turns out, those attractive "entitled bitches" also share these issues once you get t…
/r/seduction05/10/21 09:42 AM
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You’re talking about “social circle game”, so you can prolly find some posts regarding this if you search this sub. Personally, I enjoy it more than cold approaches, but it takes good social skills and sometimes a specific lifestyle to pull off successfully in my opinion. Various factors will play a part on how you approach these situations individually as these aren’t strangers, and your reputation could be on the line if things go south. But rewards can be anywhere from a one night stand, to a…
/r/seduction08/09/21 06:21 AM
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Hmm logic seems sound. Like as opposed to Costco. Ugh but then I would have to be in Whole Foods...
/r/seduction20/03/21 05:51 PM
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Here’s my advice and experience, YMMV. Don’t mention the virginity unless she directly asks. When I lost mine (age 24) she had no idea until it came time to undress. I fumbled with her dress and bra and that’s when she was like, “have you done this before?” Don’t stress about the actual sex too much, once you’re “in”, instinct should take over pretty quickly. Just don’t stick your dick in and out; use your whole body (e.g. you hips and hands). Kiss her lips and neck, be passionate. During the mi…
/r/seduction17/02/21 04:57 PM
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Dude this guy keeps posting the same pic with the same story. Saw this post like 2 months ago or something. Either a troll or someone who needs therapy.
/r/seduction21/04/20 10:04 PM
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I agree, and what I'm saying is that if OP had just stayed home, or if the gal stayed home that night, none of this would have happened. Basically you gotta try to put yourself in the right place at the right time as often as possible, which to me means being social since you aren't gonna meet people sitting at home.
/r/seduction14/02/20 06:59 AM
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Half the battle is being at the right place at the right time.
/r/seduction14/02/20 03:50 AM
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Say yes to every social invite (within reason, obv). Some buddy hits you up for drinks? Say yes. You never know when he'll have a lady friend there as well. Just recently a buddy hit me up to hangout and chill with some of his friends. I was gonna say no cause I was exhausted, but decided fuck it and went anyway. Turns out there were two ladies there and that lead to a hookup a few weeks later. In fact, most of my lays have been through friends of friends (but i dont approach much so take that a…
/r/seduction10/01/20 12:06 AM
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You’ll attract more women with a good sense of humour and the confidence to deploy it than any sort of regime of unwarranted touching. This right here is the key part (emphasis mine). The kino "ladder" sounds sleezy when broken down into steps, but the big picture is actually quite natural. Both men and women do it almost subconsciously. It's kinda just how most human relationships escalate. You just don't shake someone's hand and then grab their ass; it's a process, albeit sometimes a not well-…
/r/seduction19/11/19 08:24 PM
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I've done this unintentionally. Was with a group of friends/acquaintances in line a for a gay club. One chick starts giving me shit for liking gay clubs (they have the best music and who cares). So we're going back and forth and then she says "it's because you're gay isnt it? Just admit it." And I apparently shot her a look, a deep intense eye-fuck and not a single word. The only reason I know this is because during pillow talk with her she mentioned that look was the hottest look she's ever see…
/r/seduction18/11/19 06:55 PM
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I'm quoting a comedian, but Bruce Lee basically showed Asians and minorities they could be badass motherfuckas.
/r/seduction14/05/19 04:24 AM
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Also Rick doesn't say "at all". Can't use artistic license for that one.
/r/seduction05/10/18 03:00 PM
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Good read, though posting pics seems kinda sleazy.
/r/seduction02/07/18 10:17 PM
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That was different... but enjoyable. I totally dug it being in another language.
/r/seduction10/06/17 12:52 AM
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Dressing up and dressing well are different; aim for the latter. The former indicates a lack of fashion context (e.g. that one kid who would wear a suit to class for no reason). You can still look good in a well fitting t-shirt and jeans.
/r/seduction27/02/17 06:45 PM
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Plot Twist: OP posted this on an alt only so he could call it out as a repost and reap that sweet, sweet comment karma.
/r/seduction24/02/17 08:11 AM
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Only the intro and the last sentence are different. Losing weight vs gaining weight. Edit: OP's account is one day old
/r/seduction24/02/17 05:52 AM
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Get better at socializing first, with guys and girls. Parties are pretty good, but you MUST be comfortable with group socializing first. Don't get too drunk though. I blacked out this past weekend at a halloween party. But before that, was gaming two chicks pretty well. I had to get the story from friends, but i had one on my lap and another was pursuing me pretty hard and i want to say we made out because i remember being super close to her face, but it's all a blur. I wouldn't say it's the bes…
/r/seduction01/11/16 02:55 AM
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lol I put on my fav movie, Casablanca, and we watched the whole thing. Worth it though, that movie is amazing. She wasn't even mad cause she enjoyed the movie too.
/r/seduction30/10/16 07:59 PM
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I agree here. I'm still inexperienced, so I take all opportunities to practice, regardless of the expected endgame.
/r/seduction13/10/16 07:04 PM
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Something exciting you're doing or some mutually relevant interest.
/r/seduction24/09/16 07:52 PM
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Snapchat streaks are when you snap each other at least once a day. It keeps track so you can eventually reach 100 emoji. If you miss a single day, the streak ends.
/r/seduction26/08/16 05:52 AM
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I use this in IT as well.
/r/seduction27/06/16 08:12 PM
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nursing a semi over here
/r/seduction23/03/16 07:21 AM
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Play the game long enough, and the game plays you.
/r/seduction09/03/16 06:29 AM
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We used to have a similar system back in the day over in /r/malefashionadvice... We stopped it because various problems apparently arose from it: Some people let the status/authority get to their head Discussion was difficult and one-sided if you held an opposite point-of-view of the "certified" guy As you mentioned, the qualifying criteria can be difficult to determine. Seems like the biggest risk is creating mini-Unidans that would have the masses blindly following their advice, good or bad, j…
/r/seduction25/02/16 05:22 AM
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Visit /r/scenesfromahat Even if you don't post, try to think of responses and look at other peoples' responses.
/r/seduction19/02/16 01:25 AM
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4 - Would def bang 3 - if really horny 2 - if also drunk 1 - ??? 0 - would not bang
/r/seduction15/02/16 08:58 AM
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Yes, I have a rose hair tarantula named "worm". Always a great excuse to bring them to your room. Also I'm on a crusade to change public opinion of spiders.
/r/seduction06/02/16 11:53 PM
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How about a small pet (lizard, tarantula, etc)? Besides, they are cute!
/r/seduction06/02/16 09:37 PM
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Damn, I need to work on expanding my social circles.
/r/seduction23/01/16 07:39 PM
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I'm stealing that hatching babies line.
/r/seduction02/12/15 09:31 AM
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Yo
/r/seduction01/10/15 06:26 PM
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Thanks. I'll definitely have to evaluate my mental faculties.
/r/seduction29/09/15 03:03 AM
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Is it worth being friends with a girl after she is no longer interested? We knew each for awhile, flirted and kinda were like friends or something idk, finally went on a date. No real chemistry during the date that we shared during our previous interactions, which bummed me out a bit, but I'll count my losses. Perhaps the case of waiting too long to make a move. Anyhow, I would like to keep the increased social circle. Is there a graceful way to go about this? Something like "hey let's just be f…
/r/seduction29/09/15 12:39 AM
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In case you missed it OP, the point is to have passion and drive about something, not necessarily to use the hobby social group itself but use the hobby to make yourself interesting. Also, do the hobby because you want to; be authentic and it will show.
/r/seduction15/09/15 07:35 AM
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After 3 weeks my standards drop so low it's terrifying. Couldn't concentrate in class because anything that slightly resembled a woman would get me worked up. Solid 4s were suddenly on my radar. Now I just try to cut out porn.
/r/seduction12/09/15 05:30 PM
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Consider how you dress, act, hangout, interests, etc.
/r/seduction11/09/15 09:13 AM
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There is a difference between being drunk and being druuuuunk.
/r/seduction12/07/15 02:46 AM
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