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anon means husband won't know. async comms means she can shot a message when she has a minute. with 6 kids, likely stay at home and doesn't get out much. Reddit may be the only outlet she gets. plenty child related subreddits out there with people posting and commenting how busy they are with kids... but they are still posting and commenting.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 02:57 PM
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> they tell me how happy they are as a submissive women at home with 6 kids and how I need to appreciate men do you think no such woman exists in the world?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 01:36 PM
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That's neither here nor there, I've had my profile verified on reddit before lol. Seriously though I'm not even talking hypotheticals at all. I know women IRL who talked like a red pill man. A mother literally giving her son advice that's red pill style on how to control women. At the same time giving her daughter advice how to counter the red pill and control men. Her allegiance isn't to "the women (or men)", it's to her family. Women can have allegiance to family, party, country, religion etc.…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 01:27 PM
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> I'm still able to see when that woman is a fake, nothing to do with disagreement. you can guess with some % degree of confidence, but will never be sure. You are still basing your detection on a limited sample. Let's put in perspective just how limited that sample is: You could spend every waking hour for 80 years meeting new people every 15 minutes and still meet less <2MM. That would be 0.05% of global women population. Do you think that's enough to make a statement about what the other 99.9…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 12:48 PM
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> sounding anything like a real women insulting women that don't fit a subjective definition of a woman. that's all this was unless there is proof. inability to imagine that there are women out there who think like men is a solipsistic limitation. this kind of mentality perpetuates gender biases like "only blue trucks for boys" and "only pink dolls for girls" and "no women in the military" etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 11:20 AM
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this short characterises this sub so perfectly xD https://www.youtube.com/shorts/vD9k9gBTa0A
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 01:19 PM
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10/10 bait
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 12:31 AM
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the gods themselves are tempting me right now. I ... must ... resist...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 12:30 AM
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https://www.youtube.com/shorts/LTu7HuK4rX4
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 11:26 PM
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yet radio lives hahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 01:16 AM
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and LLMs doing the work. it's like dead internet theory, but for jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 11:32 PM
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so Venezuela is the new 51st state? Thought it was gonna be Greenland. Ah, plenty of time for that, will swing by after picking up Canada. facebook.com/reel/1653834405802482?rdid=IUns8kqEbvNmiOrM&share_url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.facebook.com%2Fshare%2Fr%2F17pwvgzkPt%2F# congrats yall!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 11:26 PM
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> I know I'm gonna get shit for having a fish pic on my profile but let's be honest it wouldn't change a thing if I removed it. legend
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 11:23 PM
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<image>
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 06:15 PM
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body is 70% water
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 12:27 AM
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<image>
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 12:23 AM
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THC is not necessary to do what you're describing. Thats what entirety of Buddhism/meditation/mindfullness is about, minus the potential negative side effects of drugs on the brain (no, weed is not harmless).
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 11:09 AM
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im no bilogist, but i dont think genes work the way you think they do. > Women who have traits that would be undersireable in men That alone doesn't exactly mean much. E.g. studies on attractive face show that most average face is attractive. Faces that deviate from average and towards extremes are received as less attractive on average (can still be niche attractive). So if you could take a mother who has extreme features + father who has extreme features = you may end up with baby face average…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 01:40 PM
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wut?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 12:15 PM
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bro. she may have been /s
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 01:40 AM
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asking for a friend
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 12:30 AM
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:P
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 12:29 AM
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good response (: i was waiting for this response ever since that other thread. introspection + accountability. most people will defend their egos and die on that hill. truth is, i could tell you're bit different so i pushed you intentionally to see what you will do. people talk about "accountability this, accountability that", but when push comes to shove, most will fall back on defending their egos instead. you've just proved to be in a different league. I know i'm nobody and this means nothing…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 12:27 AM
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true and i agree, but if we're gonna follow the causal chain, it doesn't stop at brain chemicals... it goes all the way back to the big bang (that's not euphemism)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 12:01 AM
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very specific hypothetical
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 11:58 PM
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> You felt attacked, great not much I can do there i didn't "feel" attacked. i was attacked. it's all there black and white text. you made direct comments against me. you can do something there - just don't attack me. attack my arguments. that's all in your power. > Great bring up anything you want it doesn’t mean I have to like it of course not. that's why we debate. > I felt like you purposely brought up that women stay in abusive relationships to hurt me when I said that you shouldn’t be mean…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 11:53 PM
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i did. ok fine, if you're looking for real answer, i've detailed it here https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/1q1a8b5/comment/nx5kc93/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web3x&utm_name=web3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 11:22 PM
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please? im really curious how you will respond though.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 11:17 PM
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ok. please have a read, will suspend my judgment till then (:
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 11:12 PM
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uh huh. quick to cast stones eagerly awaiting your response here btw ^^ https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/1pxm9b6/comment/nwfm7cy/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web3x&utm_name=web3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 11:11 PM
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well you can either do 10 Hail Marys or watch this 5 times. your choice <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 10:55 PM
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gotta push it to under ground brotherhood <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 10:49 PM
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sufficient for what? it's sufficient to exclude from categories of love that are "unconditional" because presence of any condition no matter how small is ... conditional. if feel like your comments and OP post are talking past each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 09:56 PM
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are you asking for a friend?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 09:43 PM
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bro, i think you need to check definition of "unconditional". again nothing you said so far contradicts OP. if your partner finds you attractive, that's a condition.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 08:56 PM
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me? god no.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 08:53 PM
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women take care of you because they find you attractive. that is conditioned on them being attracted to you. you haven't said anything to contradict OP
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 06:50 PM
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> Stop looking for unconditional love. Its unrealistic and entitled > That is not the reality for the vast majority of people, and you’re always setting yourself up for disappointment if you think that that’s even attainable for you 99% of the time. <image> check mate atheists
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 06:05 PM
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> What you’re seeing is a social media algorithm shaping your view of the world and making you believe it’s reality. It’s reality for some, but it doesn’t have to be reality for you. Well put. This is the response to this entire sub in a nutshell. I'm still puzzling why this sub exists really. Are people intentionally or unintentionally oblivious to the above? probably mix of both.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 06:19 PM
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reason young women are having less sex overall is becuase they are sluts.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 02:07 AM
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jesus was virgin. thats what he did.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 01:27 AM
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if you ever find your partner on dating apps, they now have legit plausible deniability that they are just looking for a job (: https://gizmodo.com/ai-ruined-job-applications-so-people-are-resorting-to-dating-apps-to-find-work-2000704287 In this economy? no stone shall be unturned!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 11:10 PM
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ableist?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 01:35 AM
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lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 01:28 AM
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now we're cooking. a cousin of nihilism (:
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 01:09 AM
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> You are trying to tell me women stay in bad relationships, sure it happens... that's all i wanted to hear. because this claim: > You know there’s no way you could keep a woman if you treat her like this Is categorically false. that's all. > You are sick in the head thinking this, like it’s some type of power play Maybe, maybe not, in any case: > Even if I am it doesn’t change the validity of the argument!!! Thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 08:53 PM
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mere freedom alone is not enough by itself. are you familiar with Stockholm syndrome? there people living in these relationships who are quite literally free to leave. they're not chained, economically or otherwise - but they still don't. life is rarely that simple
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 08:46 PM
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I understand theres are your preferences. Likewise there are countless women out here, the world over, getting treated in a way you wouldn't personally approve and yet they're not going anywhere nor planning to. That's the reality of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 08:43 PM
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I'm sorry, but do you genuinely believe that? it's wishful thinking. People have different preferences. You may not tolerate something, but others will.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 08:37 PM
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people are free to do w.e. they want
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 08:30 PM
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people see what they wanna see
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 08:24 PM
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really? hard to measure. did you keep careful count?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 08:09 PM
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if that is your goal, then continuing to participate in this sub is not an optimal strategy to achieve that goal. leaving this sub is. can't read nonsense from here if you're not here. this isn't a prescription, but a description of optimal strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 07:01 PM
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so to argue for arguing sake?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 06:56 PM
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ok. but why do you care?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 06:53 PM
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> If you want to think posting online is a hobby. That's your perogative. > Sounds like a dumb hobby to me. But knock yourself out. I hear you. I'm a nihilist, so a hobby is anything i prefer it to be. > I don't care to agree to disagree with you. Why are you on this sub all?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 06:51 PM
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> And I don't consider posting online to be a hobby. > It's hardly an interest given the poor quality of debates and the repeating topics. in your subjective opinion sure. Different people with have different subjective opinions. all we can do is agree to disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 06:46 PM
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life doesn't need a point. actions don't need reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 06:43 PM
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what are you talking about? PPD is an interest and a hobby. plus we're all friends here.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 06:39 PM
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<image>
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 06:38 PM
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> So why the fuck would a prime piece like Betty ever back a “revolution” that stripped her of exclusive rights to king cock? perhaps she wanted to be the king cock instead of being 2nd to the king cock? perhaps she didn't want relationships at all, a luxury you may only have when you're financially independent. everybody has their own preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 06:33 PM
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100%
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 06:27 PM
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the real reason women ain't dating any more https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fUYaosyR4bE&t=26s
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 09:08 PM
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why do you want one?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 08:49 PM
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<image>
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 08:43 PM
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don't yall get tired of all the fighting in this sub?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 06:40 PM
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My neighbour has a very nice pussy. I stroker her gently and give her pleasure. Only seen her a few times.She’s been timid and on the fence, but we’ve built up trust and I can make her come for me. All in all, she’s a great cat!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 02:11 PM
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it was written by god! watch your tongue woman
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 01:44 AM
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must be completely stifled and smothered out of existence, coerced into removing itself from the equation entirely by any means necessary <image> Alright dude, let us know when you've got the first draft of the next instalment in the venerable Mein Kampf series!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 01:40 AM
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Bible says Even came from Adam. check mate. case closed. next topic
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 01:23 AM
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this
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 12:48 AM
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finally someone gets it! agree with every word. the deafening silence on your post is telling by itself. they know bro, they know... been on this sub a few months and imo average PPDer is as you detailed. i will add that there are above average PPDers who seemingly are genuinely trying to help, debating in good faith etc. they tend to be mostly women - do with that as you will. one of them i've talked to in DMs and she's one of the nicest people I've ever known. at the beginning i tried to engag…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 12:37 AM
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man this actually works wow XD
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 02:39 PM
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TIL. nice one.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 02:36 PM
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no one lifeform was designed to desire contributing to that Philipp Mainländer would beg to differ. biological goal of a being ... serve their role as a link in the chain. In my anti-natalist view, the goal is to end the chain. Stop the cycle of suffering. That's the power that we have we have as rational agents. To defy the cruelly indifferent nature design.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 10:40 AM
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congrats (:
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 01:30 AM
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Bro you need to zoom way out. In the future entropy will erase us all, erase everything. There will be no legacy, memory or trace that anything in this universe has ever existed. There is no legacy. Entire history of humanity is (so far) and will be (in far future) an infinitesimal blip on the timeline of the cosmos. We are rational beings in an irrational, indifferent universe. A life forgotten upon conclusion, bereft of legacy. If one thinks deeply enough the concept is horrifying. Universe do…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 01:26 AM
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Lot of bold assumptions there. To each their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 07:53 PM
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ah sorry i assumed you had problem with being killed in your sleep regardless of means. but rather it's just a preference of means. that's fine. (:
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 06:23 PM
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the FDS (Full Doggy Style) package will be an extra though, better start saving now (:
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 06:07 PM
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sorry, sounds like goomba fallacy (association fallacy). can you can point to a single specific user who was pro AI in one post and anti-AI in this post?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 05:05 PM
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this is the way
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 04:59 PM
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given most murders are committed by people you know, i imagine the 'failure rate' of bots doing it too is gonna be far lower that the human average.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 04:49 PM
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that's different from humans how?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 04:48 PM
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i mean, he is speaking for himself lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 04:39 PM
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care to provide a rational argument rather than emotional one?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 12:37 PM
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oh i was asking you, Miss Diamond Hands :P
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 09:55 PM
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whats the asking price?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 09:45 PM
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This sub in particular led me to believe I wouldn't successfully make any romantic connections. I've been pleasantly surprised by the reality. Mods need to pin a disclaimer to the top of this sub: "The following is content is intended for comedic purposes only and should not be taken literally and should not be expected to represent reality. Viewer discretion is advised"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 10:01 PM
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none of that is new, all of that is already being done. if that's not working, why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 10:55 AM
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so what exactly do feminists propose be done about this?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 10:37 AM
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<3
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 09:32 PM
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no.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 09:14 PM
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so Musks 1T pay package got passed with 75% shareholder approval. Not bad for a part time CEO, not bad at all. I dunno why i'm surprised, after all they voted in that Trump convict for president again. someone needs to patch this timeline already.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 11:18 PM
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indeed, it should be welcomed, not resisted.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 06:29 PM
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im sure if you thrust hard enough one of them will get pregnant. maternal IQ is a predictor of child IQ. really wanna risk being saddled to raising one of their kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 01:48 AM
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they're basic questions and they still failed lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 01:11 AM
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https://www.youtube.com/shorts/a3DQFhrWgMU Q4M: would you LTR date the girls in this clip?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 12:53 AM
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oddly specific
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 12:49 AM
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All people are ignorant. Most advice is useless because it's only true for that person in their very specific circumstance (time and place) and is false for someone else if their circumstances are even a tiny bit different in any way. Butterfly effect. Two people can do exact same thing in circumstance that are 99% identical, but the outcomes may be wildly different if there's even 1% difference. Universe is entirely uncertain and unpredictable. Humans crave idea of order over chaos and that the…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 11:22 AM
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i thought that's where it ends.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 12:52 AM
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alright dude c'mon drop it. everyone knows reddit has no women on it, but nice try (:
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 12:00 AM
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with the way AI slop is going and 50% of the internet already succumbed to it, you'll be lucky any of these anon accounts are pretending to be human, never mind which gender
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 11:57 PM
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we need some crispr-cas9 gene editing tech for this. no idea on ETA on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 02:32 AM
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Seems you missed the point entirely. OP is not excusing behaviours. Regardless if men act or not act on this drive, the drive is a torture to men and must be removed - that was the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 02:18 AM
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what do they all have in common?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 02:04 AM
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i like the efficiency
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 05:22 PM
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you can just ask them?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 05:12 PM
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i think the analogy is more like you get the pizza with all the cheese and tomato - but you can't eat it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 05:11 PM
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analogue chad filter xD https://np.reddit.com/r/funnyvideos/comments/1nz2qzo/didnt_set_the_projector_screen_correctly/?share_id=5C7YqX7BvXIMh46ZKmzpt&utm_content=1&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ioscss&utm_source=share&utm_term=1
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 05:08 PM
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hard agree. all these men here whining about women privilege lol i ask them if they prefer to be born a woman and some say yes lol?!? they fail to understand how much power and potential they have by default that women simply don't and then also fail to understand that women's "advantages" aren't really that advantageous anyway for the most part. woman have an advantage in a tiny narrow aspect of dating. be young 20s, fit, single and hot and you can have virtually any man. no man will be able to…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 08:44 AM
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I’ll never be able to understand boring Very easy to understand. Everyone has different preference. Boring is in the eye of the beholder. She wasn’t a huge fan of making out, or oral, or whatever, she’d just be mostly ready to go and want me to get started. It made me feel a bit like a cheap ho when she acted like this lol, not romantic at all. Sounds like a perfect match to me. I'm virtually aromantic and prefer quick vanilla session <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 08:29 AM
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However, some women will say they just like wearing clothes like that and don’t want attention at all which I also don’t understand because they have to know they’re going to get attention from both genders. Nature only cares about one thing - reproduction. Everything else is details. Nature is also devious. It pumped men full of T and wired their brain to respond to sight of boobs with horny. Now, what happens if women cover up said boobs and men can't see? "we can't have that now!" - Nature, p…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 10:54 PM
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<image> not sure, but land, sea or air this man will always be on time
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 10:31 PM
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rock solid 3 inches huh
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 03:50 PM
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concur
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 02:10 PM
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Bean blind date https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qLNhVC296YI
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 11:42 AM
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bridesman
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 08:35 PM
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to the betas out there, i found an alpha course https://np.reddit.com/r/TikTokCringe/comments/1nn4vjv/american_alpha_male_bootcamp_where_guys_pay_18000/?share_id=fkfkPs-NPwLSlMRCNDM7Z&utm_content=1&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ioscss&utm_source=share&utm_term=14 it's as easy as 1 2 3....18000
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 08:26 PM
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well you won't see them of course, they're lurking in the shadows! ... ready to pounce on you when you least expect! <.< >.> <.<
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 08:19 PM
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welcome to the fence! it was getting lonely up there. great view though!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 11:43 PM
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you and me both
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 11:27 PM
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uhm "good", yes. good....
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 11:20 PM
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bruh
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 11:15 PM
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glad to the test results so far are proving the women are wonderful effect u/monster_lily is a bit of an outlier, but i think we can explain that away as lily just not being a real woman (: that's real science folks!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 11:03 PM
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i was gonna make a bet that most women here are gonna end up in the top left. good to see i would have won that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 11:01 PM
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you wicked woman! that's gonna need a lot of Hail Marys to compensate you know! <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 10:58 PM
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not before you pay the bail to get out of jail!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 10:53 PM
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not a million miles off lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 10:39 PM
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Yeah but now you hit your allowed 23% quota for the day so Can't be bad for the rest of the day now, no matter what happens :P
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 10:36 PM
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let me guess, medicine. got sick of the waiting lists, so gonna solve this one from first principles (:
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 10:30 PM
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<image> https://www.idrlabs.com/moral-alignment/test.php
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 10:22 PM
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ooooh sorry, missed that rounding error (:
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 09:57 PM
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how? you would think women. they expect to be approached all the time and when they're not, that's the sign. men do the approach so, if they just don't do that, they'll never know.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 09:56 PM
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redpill is gonna be in the chaotic evil corner LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 09:48 PM
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awfully lawful this one
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 09:48 PM
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well, she does does have "Fairy" in the name so...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 09:46 PM
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have you like, seen the movie bro? im gonna make sure im not even on the same continent if it was real.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 09:36 PM
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damn, now i wish to know what that was
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 09:23 PM
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that's the Tinders top 20% i've heard so much about
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 08:43 PM
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gob layers of smegma under their foreskin oddly specific. is that something you're into?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 08:29 PM
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long live irony.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 07:51 PM
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unironically now that he's off the treadmill, he's probably gonna find someone accidentally in like, 2 weeks...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 07:42 PM
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i was just kidding but... are you serious?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 07:24 PM
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Wedding Ring = Ok to approach works just fine no?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 07:22 PM
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it's not your game that's the problem, it's something else it's the face isn't it. If your're socially normal/confident, find it easy to talk and jab with strangers, older women, men, and taken women, but your "game" seems to fall flat with single women? i know a guy exactly like this and he can't pull a door handle. because of his face.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 07:21 PM
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i heard they're trash. basically a way to scam you out of money. people think Tinder is bad? lol. wait till you get same poor results and much steeper bill for it too lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 07:07 PM
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kinky
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 07:05 PM
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the volume and exposure is too small. if they don't click then what? nothing. you can't compare an app with millions on it with social circles that are at best a few hundred quality connections, which can produce a dozzen or so real leads of which you might like one. also you might not like your social circles at all. they call be uneducated lower class, while you worked hard and reached higher class and want to date someone on your level. apps are fantastic solution to a lot of problems. just u…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 06:04 PM
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First and foremost is that you gotta make them non profit. Yes I know dating apps cost money to run but it should be seen as a charity of sorts. Making your money in other business and spending enough to run a dating app. sooo facebook dating then? Second is mandatory fill in’s on everything that a profile requires. You can’t skip anything or just write a sentence or two on each one. what's the plant to attract women onto the platform. the reason women can get away with murder in Tinder while me…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 04:58 PM
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words. ok. words and sentences. some run-on line. no paragraphs though :/
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 04:30 PM
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i've thought about this problem but not sure how to fix. what's your idea?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 04:15 PM
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So now you gotta start swiping right on everyone hoping one swipes right on you. and so make dating apps useless in the process... sigh
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 04:07 PM
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i really like your username btw
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 04:03 PM
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yup. they want to have their cake and eat it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 04:02 PM
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so seeking help makes one dumb now?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 04:01 PM
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they probably would, but talk is cheap. if there was a magic device to turn them into woman, not sure how many would actually go through with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 03:45 PM
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Women are more likely to UNDER estimate their attractiveness lol i could link you YT video after YT video of women overrating themselves, like most just saying they're 10s (while being 5s). It's not just delusions of grandeur though. There's science behind it. It's familiarity bias. Familiarity with own face makes it look more attractive. I don't know population wide statistics, but i don't think you can assert your claim as confidently as you think. Perhaps more accurate would be to say that wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 03:41 PM
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if they took her back and what's gonna stop her from cheating again? all this does is enable bad behaviour. crime needs punishment. if no punishment given out, then there's no fear for doing crime. cheating is top crime in relationship and deserves top punishment - leaving the relationship. most men are kidding themselves when they say they can't forgive it forgiveness is separate matter. you can forgive your wrong doer i any crime. hold no animosity. does not mean they're off the hook for payin…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 03:23 PM
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conditions for taking you back: you are now a bangmaid, enjoy! LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 03:18 PM
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i was just messing around. i get ya. everyone always thinks grass is greener on the other side. i think a good question to pose to those men would be: would you rather be born a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 03:12 PM
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the gendered expectation is that a man should lead social situations Then be with someone who doesn't have expectation. Problem solved. for the shy introverted girl he is boring because he won't bring anything exciting into her already quiet life Then be with someone who doesn't care or want more than quiet life. Problem solved. Introverted men are boring to most women (even introverted women) Bro, who cares about most women, you're not dating most women, all you need to date is one. There's one…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 02:59 PM
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catch 22 is if you’re both homebodies then you’ll struggle to meet them that's the problem dating apps are meant to solve.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 02:38 PM
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social media addicted brains just can't live without drama in their life for 2 seconds
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 02:37 PM
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God created Eve as a companion and helper for Adam (out of his rib!) because it was not good for Adam to be alone: And God said, "It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him a helper suitable for him." If you don't like the role you're given, don't blame men, challenge the big J (:
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 02:22 PM
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I'm just trying to write this in a way that will finally get y'all to understand the average woman's perspective. any average woman here can confirm this or?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 02:17 PM
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that's why alcohol is popular, it's a social lubricant. but it is a crutch and one should learn to work without it. terrible long term solution for sure. coincidentally there was a Kurtzgesagt video on it recently that breaks it all down https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aOwmt39L2IQ
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 02:06 PM
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I’m pretty witty and can make girls laugh but not with sexual tension. just learn some flirting then? youtube videos out there on the stuff. push pull etc. then practice it social skill is like any other, it can absolutely be learned. no one is born with rizz. the guys you're talking about were just social for longer and practiced it longer. simple as
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 02:03 PM
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romantic love is and should be conditional. it's an agreement between two parties to have an equitable exchange in value. if the value equation changes for any reason, the option is always there to renegotiate the terms or walk away. unconditional love exists as ideal in e.g. Buddhism and it extends to all living things, not just your spouse - that's what makes it actually unconditional. so any men who complain about unconditional love, tell them to join Buddhism if that's what they're after. if…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 01:52 PM
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i'm worry but the studies have already proven that what people say =/= what people do so... we'll need to see it to be believe it (:
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 01:38 PM
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men: hurr durr womenz so silly, fell for the honey pot trap. to kettle said the pot...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 11:55 AM
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carrier pigeons gonna be all the rage again soon!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 11:52 AM
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women on the internet: "the guy on the left I'd swipe on. the guy on the right, ew, narcissistic asshole with veiny dick arms... now where's my Bill Clinton?!?!"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 11:47 AM
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how does that even happen? the man still has to pay child support no matter what
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 11:44 AM
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As-is their prerogative if working isn't actually gonna meaningfully improve their life compared to whatever they're currently doing, <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 11:40 AM
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5-6 hoe hours per month still far more action than you'll see in dead bedrooms that last years bro
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 11:38 AM
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yeah i think he intuitively understands that. I dunno if this is a documented human psychological phenomenon, but i've seen this in many contexts over and over: when people are allowed to do something, they will do it, regardless if they need to or not. examples: speed limit. you're not required to drive at speed limit - it's a limit, not a recommendation, yet everyone tries to be at the limit. income. people have hard time saving, because the more they make, the more they spend - even though th…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 11:20 AM
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minimum wage should be abolished entirely. all it does is make people poorer.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 10:56 AM
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as the other comments said, prostitutes bro. this problem has been "solved" for thousands of years with the oldest profession. now, if you want a romantic partner who likes you for you etc. - how is society suppose to conjure that up out of thin air? you can't make someone genuinely like you. They either do or they don't. money can't buy it. it can't be manufactured.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 10:54 AM
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sounds like fun!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 10:49 AM
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whats a clanker?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 11:57 PM
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me trying to guess your age right now
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 11:54 PM
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<image> the biological programming is to seek out max fertility. not wisdom. not maturity. not hotness. fertility.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 05:08 PM
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how attractive do you find those guys? irrelevant. the point is that one can be happy and content without romantic relationships. not everyone needs a romance arc in their lives. once you don't care about romance, why would you care about attraction? it's not part of the equation anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 01:36 PM
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could you provide the stats please, thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 01:16 PM
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women can try fight off other men as well, doesn't change anything. are you implicitly assuming in your statement that just because men are men, they are more likely to successfully defend themselves? criminals have no incentive to play fair. a criminal man is not gonna target another man who has same size and build to keep things "fair", or worse, be dumb enough to pick on someone literally bigger than him. of course they are gonna go after men who are smaller and weaker than them, or simply ga…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 12:40 PM
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<image> TIL: "fear of crime gender paradox"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 11:42 AM
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not sure what you mean. freedom of speech exists in EU. plenty of gov. criticism going on here. are you confusing us with China or North Korea maybe?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 10:15 AM
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it wasn't until lurking on this sub that i heard, for the first time ever, that girls as young as 12 are getting cat called. never knew. wild. I have sisters 12 & 14. thought won't have to worry about them dealing with the "real life" for another few years. but now i wonder if anything happened to them already :/
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 12:00 AM
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bruh, have you forgotten already? yous elected an alleged rapist and convicted felon for president. bravo on that btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 11:55 PM
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that's funny af xD
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 11:43 PM
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tell them you know about "jury nullification"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 11:38 PM
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what is true? which part? you're not being specific. Escorts make 100s of USD per meet. They are independent, there are no pimps. They work w.e. hours they want, pick and choose their clients. Meet as many as they like. Travel. Make loads of money. These are the ones who choose that job. They are not coerced - they can work other jobs and choose not to. Do you deny this? have you been on sex work subbreddits and see what they say? have you talked to actual sex workers - yes or no? or you basing …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 10:45 AM
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Can the builder get STIs or pregnant from building the house? he can get his back broken, fall to death (most common occupational cause of death) and many other things. point is all jobs have risks. Is he made to build that house under coercion? Does the builder have freedom of movement and financial autonomy? He may not any freedom no. That may be the only job he can get. Back breaking labour on construction site is the most entry level thing a man can do without education and he can easily get…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 10:37 AM
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Trafficking is a separate problem from prostitution, don't conflate them. Do you get your nails done? how do you confirm your nail technician isn't trafficked? should we shut down all industries that have trafficking then? or how bout we focus on the actual issue - trafficking - and leave the industries alone?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 10:21 AM
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pro sex work NGOs in Ireland report that literally over 90% of sex workers are NOT trafficking victims. other religious based NGOs report different stats. so you look at all the stats or just the ones that agree with you? here's some from UK: The UK's biggest ever investigation of sex trafficking failed to find a single person who had forced anybody into prostitution in spite of hundreds of raids on sex workers in a six-month campaign by government departments, specialist agencies and every poli…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 10:19 AM
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Prostitution is human trafficking. Provably wrong. Lazy argument. There are those who do it willingly - do you ever actually bother to look into that? Otherwise we can say nail salons is human trafficking too since it's rampant there as well. Are you lobbying to have nail salons closed as well? Trafficking is a separate problem from prostitution, don't conflate them. You’re buying a person’s body. And? you're doing that in every single service industry. You think the builder building your house,…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 09:53 AM
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no, he hides it because he knows ignorant people will form ignorant opinions. it's not his job to educate people on the realities of sex work - rather than the spoon fed propaganda from religious groups...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 08:59 AM
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problem isn't women, it's all people. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 11:48 PM
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not sure. could be just desperation mixed with numbers game, you could be her Nth attempt.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 11:45 PM
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what's her plan. like she really think you'll just randomly commit to marry her?? if she already knows the competition is so high as your options are so high, why she even bother? just offering sex is clearly not gonna make you marry her, she gotta know this right.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 11:41 PM
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shiiid
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 09:22 PM
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<image>
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 09:07 PM
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I am just going to get to the brass tax some boyfriends only get like one chance at love these days. cheating isn't love tho. if that's all he got, then he never had love to begin with. there are still women out there in the world who have never and will never cheat. these women are thus automatically more valuable than cheaters. cheating just lowers your own value in the dating market. unless 100% of all women in the world will start to cheat, your argument doesn't work.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 08:53 PM
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Was about to say LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 12:12 AM
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Pretty much all customers are men though. So men dont generally get paid to bang women
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 12:11 AM
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Not a BradPittSexual? You really are a rare breed, damn
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 12:04 AM
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don't jinx it cmon
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 11:59 PM
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<image> ok time for final boss. how about this body? i get that Schwarzenegger is on the extreme, fine, but this one is not. it's just lean, but strong (stronger than Clinton). Clinton still better?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 11:56 PM
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could you explain why? why is flabby man is "perfect physique"? while actual objectively perfect physique (as measured by muscle, fat composition) is "gross"? if you're just rage baiting we can stop here. but if you're genuine im really curious how your mind works. i seen and get all the other arguments about "vanity" or "threatening" etc. but "gross"? that's a first.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 11:34 PM
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and there we have it folks! diagnosis: mommy issues. treatment: 100CCs of therapy stat! next patient please...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 11:29 PM
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he's flabby, not robust. his body mass may absorb the hits, but he won't be able to dish out any. why not actually robust? <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 11:28 PM
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why?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 11:19 PM
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you talk about your mother like that too?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 10:29 PM
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Homie axin da real questions
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 12:16 AM
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Can't believe I've read that twice as "My wife as a sex surrogate..."
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 12:06 AM
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Imagine you have bunch of bandits who want to cause harm. They target vulnerable communities that are pacifist, can't find, don't want to fight, too scared to fight w.e. the reason. How do you resolve this issue?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 11:49 PM
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kinda sounds like UBI. which i do like the idea of. still built on capitalism though.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 03:30 PM
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will be interesting to see
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 03:20 PM
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ah i see. interesting (:
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 03:18 PM
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they found out and still went ahead of with it <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 02:11 PM
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get rid of the stock market as it exists right now. restructure our fiscal policy around 20, 30, 50 year gains And how is that gonna incentivise & attract the investors? Stock market as it stands now exists to attract investment, to get funds for the business. If you do what you suggest, people will just move their money elsewhere with quicker ROI, e.g. property (lord knows we don't need to inflate that any further...)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 02:11 PM
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Anarchy would work if we could guarantee only rational people exist who don't want to see the world burn just because. But since we have NPDs & psychopaths, they break that system and so we need to rely on authorities again to keep things in check.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 01:58 PM
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the bullshit you use to fertilize it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 01:54 PM
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so mixed economy, basically most of EU (Ireland at least). it's deffo a decent blend of the two for sure. but it's still a blend of two crappy systems that suck in their own way. I wish there was a real 3rd alternative.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 01:54 PM
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complaining is cheap. eager to hear the alternative (:
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 01:51 PM
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you prefer communism or do you have better alternative?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 01:49 PM
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oh, could you tell me more? my plan is to move to Dublin in about a year. I saw you mentioned the apps down below, what are apps like in Dublin? (I'm assuming you're a man looking for woman?)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 10:41 AM
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There are smaller other things that bother me a little like she made fun of me to my friends and a friend of hers that I cried once, but she was drunk so I did not give her a hard time about it. She also matched with a peripheral friend of mine on hinge right when we met, according to her because she wanted to annoy me. Then New Year’s Eve she spent all the night talking to him. Which was weird. Part of me wants to break up but I feel like I might be acting too rashly, what would the best course…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 10:10 AM
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You make too much sense, i can't disagree with you! (Dang i really suck at debating)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 12:29 AM
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That was my favourite part of the study lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 12:13 AM
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unstable how?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 11:40 PM
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can we like, turn off those factory settings? im sick of em. where's the firmware update?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 11:17 PM
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absurdism
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 11:15 PM
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You're not serious? This is a debate sub, not a "who's better at throwing insults" sub. If you wanna roast, there are roast subs for that. Ad hominems are waste of everyone's time. Attack the arguments, not the person.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 11:11 PM
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Do you care about being attractive for as long as possible? If not, that is your prerogative of course, but if you do - read on. Proteins are in all tissues in your body. Very important. e.g. protein called collagen is in your skin. Collagen keeps the skin tight, supple and youthful. If you don't consume enough protein you'll lose collagen faster. Aging your skin, making it saggier, looser, wrinkly. Nice hair and nails - all protein.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 11:10 PM
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yeah, nobody is every happy where they are
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 08:50 PM
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TIL: it's even more work than I thought
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 01:16 AM
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And the other 10%?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 10:56 PM
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<image>
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 12:11 AM
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door frame? is that to block the exit so the women can't leave?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 12:09 AM
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kinky
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 09:56 PM
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make the most mistakes to draw lessons from (because they’re probably idiots when they’re young) if only they had listened to their parents huh, but they never listen!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 09:55 PM
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hmmm <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 09:52 PM
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race?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 09:28 PM
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Ok i didn't read all of it, just a couple and stopped as soon as it's clear it's a bunch of allegations with no convictions. Anyone can make up any story. <image> Lemme know if Trump was actually convicted of any sexual misconduct. Due process, innocent till proven guilty, etc etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 09:26 PM
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Woah bro what is this wall of text? did you have saved and ready to go?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 09:03 PM
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<image> "The trick is to grab em by the ****" - Trump
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 08:58 PM
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first kiss in high school Those late bloomers huh
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 08:37 PM
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that poor man. he's the real victim all along!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 08:31 PM
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I just want TRUE LOVE is that so hard??? actually... yes. Someone did the math, odds of it are like 1:250000 or so (i'm not gonna bother digging up the source on this). Like true love means best compatibility. People aren't binary though, so everyone is gonna be some arbitrary % compatible with you. The threshold of what you will accept is up to you to decide. The best match of 80%+ is super rare to find. Most people are happy enough to settle with 50%. It all depends what you want to accept.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 08:27 PM
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ooops baby
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 08:22 PM
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just ask Shannon Sharpe
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 08:17 PM
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you do it every day... and you forgot
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 08:16 PM
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NOTE - You're not allowed to say variations of: "I used to think men/women weren't bad, but this sub has shown me differently..." Says the one keeping daily diary of "men r bad" XD
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 08:13 PM
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<image>
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 08:12 PM
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NOTE - You're not allowed to say variations of: "I used to think men/women weren't bad, but this sub has shown me differently..." <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 08:09 PM
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Fair enough. I dunno anything about the story so if thats the case then so be it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 08:07 PM
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now now, what if he really liked her personality (:
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 08:05 PM
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<image>
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 07:50 PM
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Wannabes, losers, lonely men, unsuccessful with dating men, incels, below average men, etc. How does that make sense when those groups aren't getting dates in the first place. You don't end up on Tea App unless you date. To be on a date, you have to be attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 05:07 PM
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So if good men aren't worried and Chads (regardless of character) aren't worried. Then who are worried?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 04:59 PM
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Chads will stay on it as they always had, just less of the rest. I'm sure women will appreciate less men on dating apps, less right swipe spam. Dating apps needed a serious male depopulation for a long time, but it was hard to convince men to do it willingly. I think you're right, this could be a good thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 04:56 PM
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You're more a coffee person?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 04:53 PM
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I don't have crystal ball so I've no idea. I hope it does though (:
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 04:39 PM
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hmmm define local (: NYC is not very wide, but very dense with millions of women. So would the app only work for a few blocks of NY? or whole city?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 04:32 PM
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The Tea App is gonna do so much damage to the dating market its hilarious: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DYg5Eg3TMCE First good men were scared away from approaching. Now good men will be scared away from dating apps entirely. All that will remain will be the f***boy Chads who don't care, since they have the pretty face and halo effect to absorb the reputational hits anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 04:30 PM
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talk and share Among themselves, locally, not put on an app where millions of other women will see who the guy has never met. doing something so bad they get put on blast. Most people just breakup. Right everybody is always brimming with positivity post break. There's never any hard feelings at all right? You're making assumption that people are reasonable. Some people are not and need therapy. There's women out there threatening suicide if BF breaks up. He's done nothing wrong, just wants a bre…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 04:15 PM
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you didn’t know that all this was going on BEFORE they simply made an app that put I all on one platform? It's funny, but you're defeating your own argument here. If he did not know it's going on - that means loads of other people didnt - means it wasn't wide spread - means impact is minimal. Means it wasn't a problem. Dox in the past was 1% exposure. So it doesn't matter - 99% of people don't see it. Now that's all put into one doxxing app, the exposure is 99%. That's why it matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 04:06 PM
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Neither is acceptable of course, but scale is the main difference. Tea app is way larger scale. So it's a lot worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 03:58 PM
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Oh don't apologize, I was just suspicious with how similar it looked. You're saying men are bad, is that joke or serious? If serious I wonder why (:
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 03:50 PM
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Are you a bot? you've been saying same thing over and over
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 03:44 PM
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Young women ARE NOT physically attracted to older men I'm not convinced thats 100% true. There still are a lot of other famous rich people etc. Why him? There's still some element of selection. Some element of attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 03:43 PM
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This does not mean they are attracted to them I'm not convinced thats 100% true. There still are a lot of other famous rich people etc. Why him? There's still some element of selection. Some element of attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 03:38 PM
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How do you know that many young women dating older men? It's pretty damn rare outside of celebrities. Sorry I meant I know one such big age gap personally and I quizzed her. "What about power dynamic? money etc?". They have no power over her. They have more money, she doesn't care. She can walk out any time (and provably so as, dated multiple such men). Ironically from the interactions, she's still the more mature one sometimes haha. It doesn't matter how mature they are. A 20 year old does not …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 03:05 PM
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My neice is 20. She's a kid who knows nothing. So? you can't speak for every 20yo. The 22yo I know know who consistently dates 50somethings is one of the most mature people I know. More mature than women in 30s, 40s. Perhaps that is the difference. Did it ever occur to you that not everyone is a clueless child? Sure there are teenagers these days who can't fry eggs without burning the house down. Yet there are also 12 year olds who can cook entire dinners. If a 20yo still knows nothing, it's a s…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 02:11 PM
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Largely I agree with you, but I'm not convinced thats 100% true. There still are a lot of other famous rich people etc. Why him? There's still some element of selection. Some element of attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 01:59 PM
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It's not that marriages are secret, the marriages don't happen at all because the relationships are secret. That's what OP said. Of course the marriage rates are low, because why would men want to publicize a relationship that is extremely taboo in society So you can't gauge the frequency of age gap relationships solely off of marriage stats (or any stats).
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 01:53 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 01:50 PM
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Any stats. Marriage stats.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 01:41 PM
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rich celebrity men are yet to actually grow up emotionally Yes so you're saying a celeb in his 40s isn't mature enough to date someone in their 40s - great, so they date someone in their 20s - which match their maturity level. So... what's the problem? They're maturity matches. It's a perfect match.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 01:40 PM
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Ok I see why you disagree with the title of the post and I agree it's poorly worded, but I know what he means. His main argument is that "given that large age gap relationships are stigmatised / taboo, we must doubt the official statistic that state they are rare, given that they are incentivised to hide such relationships" Thus we can't take official stats on this at face value. It's same phenomenon regarding stats around LGBTQ+. Over last 12 years the rate of people identifying as such has bee…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 01:32 PM
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I had boys lie about having sex with me in like middle school before I'd ever even held hands with someone romantically, did I screech and cry over it? Nope 😹. This is something women are basically taught to deal with and move on, men are clearly not as resilient... The scales are wayyyy off. Your anecdote is local school and things people are gonna forget fairly soon. Did you have that lie publicly broadcasted? Women on Tea App can lie about an innocent man and he can't even defend himself, one…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 01:06 PM
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there was nothing illegal about it Where? in US, ok. It's illegal in the EU under GDPR. So yes there is something illegal about it, at least in some jurisdictions.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 12:52 PM
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Something being replaceable means that you have an easy time replacing it. Who has a FAR easier time replacing a partner, men or women? You're making a semantic argument that replaceable == easy. let's consult the dictionary. <image> So no, replaceable does not mean easy to replace. Nobody is making that claim here either. It simply means there are more opportunities. Since a man finds more women attractive, he has more opportunities. How well he can capitalize on those opportunities is a separa…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 11:25 AM
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I know right :P
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 12:38 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 11:33 PM
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whats the source? this is hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 10:27 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 09:18 PM
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Human: 1 AI: 0 Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 08:26 PM
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<image> is that some new feature or something? literally can find nothing about that. Can't see your comments either. How did you hide it?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 08:24 PM
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<image> this is what i see. I'm a Reddit noob so dunno if missing something obvious here. But none of the ChatGPT suggestions seem to make sense either (suggesting suspension / deletion / shaddowban).
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 08:22 PM
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No deffo not block. Can't see it logged out either.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 08:18 PM
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I thought so too, but it's quite a few people and i haven't spoke to any of them before. Have you blocked me? I can't see your comments or posts either on your profile.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 08:15 PM
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I tried to google it, but surprisingly can't get an answer to this. When I click on some Reddit users, I can't see their comments & posts on their profile. I can see their comments & posts in public though. Why is that? Is that a bug? some setting?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 07:59 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 04:16 PM
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since i learned men r bad r u a gurl?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 03:49 PM
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hahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 03:48 PM
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well uhm Homeless Millennial Survives By Picking Up Women Every Night | Bustle
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/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 03:15 PM
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You're very welcome ^^
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 01:51 PM
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Yeah Buddhism was just a gateway stepping stepping stone to what it's built on top of - negative utilitarianism - thats the main thing. Meanwhile, as per Absurdism, we're rational beings in irrational universe. There is no meaning, nor there needs to be one. Nothing we do actually matters, so we are instead free to do w.e. we want. Unless you believe in God or something, in which case good for you, that's your choice. That's a different topic altogether though.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 01:26 PM
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Secular Buddhism is fantastic philosophy. If more people adopted it, we'd have less problems. It's largely about negative utilitarianism, i.e. minimising suffering, instead of maximising pleasure (like hedonism).
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 11:50 AM
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Oh, that's not a good look at all for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 11:15 AM
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Some guy threatened to kill himself if my gf stopped talking to him. Boys/men are pathetic Now now, no need to single out men here. Women do this too. It's a people thing, not one gender (:
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 11:08 AM
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I feel like we're talking past each other. Just because men will literally fuck anything doesn't mean it suddenly gives them the ability to fuck anything. Of course. Not arguing against that. But men finding more women attractive means women are more replaceable. Women don't find most men attractive so harder to replace. It's pretty basic logic. That's it. That's the only point I and the OP are making really. Not saying anything about dating market, inflated standards, loneliness epidemic etc. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 11:03 AM
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Risks are still less because women don't find most men attractive, yet men find most women attractive. It's really funny because the same mechanism that makes women hard to get (women being selective) is also the same mechanism that makes women easier to keep. Men should really be more thankful! If a woman finds 1/100 guys attractive and you happen to be that 1, then you know the other 99 who approach will get rejected and your woman will be faithful. The reverse, unfortunately, is not gonna be …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 10:56 AM
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agree with the first, not with the second. If this man were a single man it would not be a valid concern. If he had anything that was desirable to women he would have a woman. Chad can outwardly appear single yet still have rotation of women. So you can't simply judge someone's level of options based on if they are already partnered or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 10:50 AM
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How? OPs points seem decent. Make a female dating profile and see how wrong this post is. meaning what? that a woman is gonna have a flood of likes / matches? that's exactly OPs point. women are easy to replace as most men just want sex so "any woman will do" mentality is exactly why they swipe right too much and women have too many likes. On the other hand "most men won't do" is why more women are becoming single, because there are fewer good men (that want more than just sex), hence if you loo…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 10:46 AM
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I recall i saw a few women on PPD saying the same. They said they live in perpetual fear of being replaced because they think the men have "infinite options" in a sense that they find most women attractive and only one of them needs to say yes to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 10:42 AM
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Dont get your argument?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 10:40 AM
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I'm not arguing what they are choosing to label it as, it's not relevant. My argument is simply confirming that: you argued sexual variety and novelty was akin to a drug that simultaneously made you dependent on it and gave you withdrawal symptoms when getting off it, and that it simultaneously made you require higher and higher doses in order to get the same kick. Yes it is akin to drugs, they are called neurotransmitters. Neurotransmitters are the brain drugs that make us do anything, because …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 10:01 AM
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Yes, there is no way to brand that other than pseudopsychological. It's biology not pseudopsychology. The drugs in question are neurotransmitters. Are you familiar? What can you tell me about e.g. oxytocin, what it is, how it's released etc. ? Last time you argued sexual variety and novelty was akin to a drug that simultaneously made you dependent on it and gave you withdrawal symptoms when getting off it, and that it simultaneously made you require higher and higher doses in order to get the sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 09:34 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 12:46 AM
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I am attracted to both genders...I can also wait around for a woman who’s interested in me by racking up a pile of men Bro playing both sides of the fence, winning on all fronts haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 11:09 PM
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Your anecdote is incomplete information until we know what you look like. i.e. if you're Chad, yeah sure anything is easy for you. Willing to present evidence? i.e. post your picture here? 2. Most of the men in it were really immature and/or neckbeards. You're kinda defeating your own argument there. In your post you said you can be w.e. conventionally unattractive The internet is the ultimate shortcut. ... You don't even have to go outside, you can be a complete antisocial shut in with no frien…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 09:20 PM
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the internet has made dating and acquiring a partner a thousand times easier for most me I do agree that it has made things easier at least in some ways, but that's a bold claim. Would you have data to back it?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 08:51 PM
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I don't think it's strictly easier. The advantages is as you outlined - discoverability. This is double edged sword though as now with max visibility, you also have max competition. The other downside is distance and the bigger the niche the worse this becomes (more likely to be dispersed globally). Sure maybe you find someone, but they could be in another country and since shut ins are famously immobile... they aint getting together xD You don't even have to go outside, you can be a complete an…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 08:34 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 05:36 PM
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Been asking myself the same thing, don't have an answer yet. Starting to get addicted to these pills though
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 08:47 PM
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Thank you for response. I’m a therapist from America in my early 30s Aaa I see, makes sense now haha. Yep agree with all of that. Thank you for being here, making the internet and this sub a better place (:
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 09:42 AM
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You're welcome! If you don't mind me asking, how did you arrive at your world views? What's your education, background, occupation? Also age, early 20s, 30s etc.? Sorry for all these question out of blue, you don't need to answer any if you're not comfortable. I'm just trying to build a mental model of how to find someone like you IRL or on the apps (would you be a type to even use the apps?). I've been lurking on this sub for couple of months since I discovered it and your comments immediately …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 01:10 AM
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Love your comments on this post
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 12:33 AM
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What's the current gender ratio of that group?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 10:28 PM
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6 gears, 6 cars
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 12:23 AM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J1WnL5CJ7Rw
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 11:44 PM
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stupid trainable ppl seems like an oxymoron
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 09:15 PM
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<image> mixed messages for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 08:48 PM
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Most women, not all women. An incel isn't trying to date most women, he just needs to find one and that one can come from the group who doesn't have a prejudice against sex work. So there is no problem here. I know you think you're trying to help, but your not helping. Your advice boils down to "do things that appeal to most women, regardless of your own values". Right. 60%+ of Americans identify as Christian. So according to you, the atheists, Jews, Muslims etc. should abandon their beliefs and…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 10:44 AM
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That makes you a biological cog in a machine. Correct. Nature doesn't care how kids are produced, so long as they are made. Once they are made, they are top priority. Nature only cares about the next generation to perpetuate the cycle.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 11:44 PM
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So what? What's your point besides that most women don't like it?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 10:56 PM
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I assume women have this issue as well. Big assumption.
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<image> gtg fast
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 08:47 PM
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Best thing I've read on this sub bar none. Far more people should be taking this path than they realise.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 08:39 PM
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Pin your comment to the top and close the thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 07:59 PM
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The person you are paying to have sex with you doesn’t actually want to have sex with you. They want money. Yes and so does the plumber, mechanic, chef and all the other service providers just want your money. The idea of having sex with someone who doesn’t want to sleep with me is so repulsive that it makes me want to throw up. If someone can comfortably knowingly sleep with someone who does not want to sleep with them, then we are so far away in terms of values that I want nothing to do with t…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 07:48 PM
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I don’t want to sleep with someone who wants to sleep with an unwilling partner they have to pay. Because? The partner was willing, just for money. It's not some random off the street he tried to convince or threaten into it. It's a service provider who advertised the service on their own accord. So please explain what the problem here is? Are you prejudice against people who pay to have their car serviced or make their food? They were "unwilling" for if they were not paid, you wont get the serv…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 11:42 AM
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women do not like men who sleep with sex workers. Nearly all women I know consider it a red flag or flat out dealbreaker. Why is that? Would you rather them lie to you to get into your pants and ghost as soon as deed is done to achieve same? They'll still want to hookup regardless, if you take escorts away, they'll find another way as per above.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 11:59 PM
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we would not have people who oppose it people opposite it because it looks like it threatens the status quo of normie organic couple relations which is the foundation of continuation of stable society. (whether the treat is real or not is separate matter) I dont want to "cuddle" or "be taken" by a woman who has been taken by another man the night before and ... Imagining all the other guys who touched up on her and did everything I did, likely in the hundreds of others guys, .... So your problem…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 11:39 PM
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not a disgusting unhygienic monkey with lack of self care like most men. Uhm... most men? Where do you live? most men are groomed and washed where I'm at.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 10:55 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 07:50 PM
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What's boring is entirely subjective. There's no right answer. Not sure what the goal of this post was.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 05:28 PM
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Yeah it's very interesting how different minds work
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 11:08 AM
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When youre hungry you like to be challenged for food? Ok, you have to complete a 1 to 10 hour task everytime youre hungry, and by the way, theres no guarantee that completing the task will give you food. Great analogy! We do this all the time, it's called cooking. You could order fast food. No challenge, low risk. It will satiate, but not for long - it lacks nutrition and your body isn't foolish. You don't derive extra satisfaction from order as it's not an achievement. Cooking can take 1 - 10 h…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 11:05 AM
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I never understood you guys who just love the chase. The harder the challenge, the bigger the brain reward (neurotransmitters released).
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 12:53 AM
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Yeah it's what i guessed. The whole red pill designation is not useful as it can be anything you want. All it really says is "i don't follow mainstream", but what that means exactly - not a clue unless that particular person lays out their personal flavour of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 11:43 PM
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Ok sure, if you don't want to let them in at all, that's a separate issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 11:39 PM
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So you've never actually ordered anything? Never had random delivery guy show up at your door? I dunno why people think their address is some big secret. If you're a homeowner and somebody knows your name (or gets it from social media) they can look up your address from publicly available land/folio registry.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 05:21 PM
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All you need to do is get on Tinder and tell them to come to your house. Isn't that as easy as it gets logistically? You can tell them to bring food as well. Saves you grocery shopping. The new DoorDash+ service. Gotta leverage those synergies.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 03:11 PM
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Ok just read the wiki and don't feel any more informed. Its opposition to mainstream dating knowledge paradigm I'm not sure there's agreement on what that is either. Like you said imo LMS (Looks-Money-Status) is basically not redpill Seems like nothing is clearly defined here. Neither mainstream, nor counter mainstream. So how can people have debates on something, they don't even agree on what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 02:44 PM
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Congrats to the Chads & Stacys skewing all the averages there <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 02:40 PM
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srsly <image> blue is the new red, red is the new blue haha
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 02:34 PM
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It sounds to me like we're agreeing. Dude was addicted to winning. To power. Woman was a trophy wife to him. Just a sign that he "made it". He was after the best top woman and he wasn't trying to win her over with being "emotionally available" to her and trying to make her fall in love with how "kind empathetic guy" he is now was he haha
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 02:21 PM
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Ok if we wanna be pedantic. He valued a "woman". He didn't say "loving woman" or "family". He valued "money", he didn't say legacy. Money was means to an end, to get power, which then gets him woman. Steps 1,2,3 in succession. Did Tony really strike you as a blue piller who just wanted a white picket fence with kids running around and a trad wife and quiet life?? Dude was addicted to winning. To power. Woman was a trophy wife to him. Just a sign that he "made it".
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 02:12 PM
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Terrible according to your standards? sure. I don't see them crying about it though. To each their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 02:08 PM
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So he died, but either a loving woman by his side, or his family? If he doesn't value those things, it's not a loss to him. Or his money and legacy intact? None of this matters when you're already dead. These things only matter to the living.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 02:05 PM
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matters far more in what way? Money, power still rules. How you think Trump got Melania? he's not physically attractive. Same with Musk and all his partners. far more satisfying How? money and power are actually earned through hard work. Physical attractiveness is something you're born with. Why is it more satisfying when you use something you put zero effort to have?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 02:00 PM
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tbh i still dunno wth red pill is exactly. gonna have to read that wiki...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 01:57 PM
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He died like he lived, rich, powerful, high. Rarely a dull moment. As a criminal, you either die at the top or live long enough to loose it all. He died right at the peak, it was only gonna be downhill from there so, it was a happy ending all things considered.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 01:55 PM
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<image> Antonio Montana, the OG red piller, well ahead of his time, predating The Matrix by ~20 years
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 01:42 PM
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why is it "dudes", i thought there were red pill women too ("pink pill"?)? tbh it's still not clear to me what red pill is exactly. i mean it feels like everyone has their own idea. is there some consistent core manifesto? the 10 commandments of red pill? feels quite amorphous
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 01:24 PM
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So every well educated person in China is a criminal breaking the law?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 12:30 PM
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Reddit is banned in China. How are you jumping over the Great Firewall? VPN? do you know that's illegal?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 11:25 AM
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For the sake of argument, even if you wanted to achieve this, you'd have to become a hermit in current climate. You can control your actions, but you can't control society and society is perpetually bombarding you with pro relationship messages. "Sex sells" advertising, music, movies, family pressure, societal pressure. If you read some Schopenhauer, society is an organism that is a pure will that wants to perpetuate itself by any means necessary. It will find a way. I don't think your current i…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 10:41 AM
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Maybe some men should stop making women the focus of all their actions. That's literally what OP said no?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 10:14 AM
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You mean she's living life free, doing w.e. makes her happy? Sounds like mission accomplished.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 10:18 PM
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Have you tried the intermittent fasting diet? The most effective diet I'm aware of.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 08:27 PM
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<image> wow
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 12:19 AM
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Don't recall social media getting mentioned once.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 12:06 AM
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Ok here's a 10 second summary for ya https://www.youtube.com/clip/UgkxIIOSQg5XvPM4DBgy1PdHD9YLHlhJ3SEx
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 12:03 AM
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This basically explains everything and why it's so hard https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mefGxK10bWQ
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 11:26 PM
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don’t women LOVE criminal men and bad boys only if they have a model face
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 11:26 PM
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Thank goodness I live in European Union where we have GDPR to keep things like this out of here.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 12:23 AM
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guessing washing hands?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 10:02 PM
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Yeah i feel so as well. Like cold approaching has success rate of about 1%. OLD has success rate (match rate) for avg. man of 1%. So cold approach just seems as good as OLD, but with extra steps, so it's worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 09:55 PM
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how do you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 09:48 PM
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It's possible that's all women you've interacted with or observed, but you can't speak for women you haven't interacted with or observed.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 10:14 AM
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Understand that there's unreasonable people out there? Sure I understand, that's not all people though.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 10:05 AM
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Women hate honesty Good thing you know all women and can speak for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 09:25 AM
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Can we close this sub and pin this to the top? This is the right answer to every single post basically.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 08:50 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 09:27 PM
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Then they're not very "intellectual".
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 08:57 PM
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I don't think the single PPD men realize they are below average. I'm below average.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 08:53 PM
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So what's your point? That consumption is bad / worse than production? You can not have production without consumption. It's two sides of the same coin. It makes no sense to say to say one is better than the other, when both will perish without the other. Consumers decide what is worth producing and support production via consumption. Producing something, consumed by no one, does not add any value to society. It's a waste of resources.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 03:00 PM
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He will teach our children to be lazy in life. I invite you to look up definition of lazy. <image> Nope, not meaningful contributions. Would you elaborate why?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 02:55 PM
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Why do you have that opinion?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 12:15 AM
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So by your logic, since it's mostly women who are approached, that means most women don't put effort in the relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 11:19 PM
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How is it speculation? So you're not having sex? sex is hedonism. you're a hedonist. Q.E.D.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 10:24 PM
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I can only debate what you reveal. I didn't extract this information by pointing a satellite at your back garden and spying on you, you told me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 10:22 PM
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Who made you the arbiter of what is meaningful contribution to society? That surfer guy is at minimum supporting dozzens of local business, buying & maintaining boards, eating food, taxis, renting hotels. Tourism. Nightclubs in the evenings. He doesn't exist in a vacuum. Others are benefiting from his activity and make money. That money goes to peoples pockets and gov. coffers via taxes, which then circle back into society. Those are not meaningful contributions? Difference of opinion i guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 10:18 PM
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You are droning on and on, following my comments like some sort of obsessed weirdo. ad hominem. do you have a proper counter? I thought this a debate sub and unlike other people, you're consistently wrong. What am I suppose to do then? You strike me as this person here. Always so confidently wrong. <image> But look. If I'm in the wrong place and this is not a debate sub - lemme know.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 10:09 PM
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Hedonism is how you're living right now though. Unless you're willing to adopt children, there's no moral justification to producing your own other than feeding your ego - that's hedonism. True anit-hedonism, is negative utilitarianism, e.g. being ascetic Buddhist monk who pursues no relationships, produces no life. I've no problem you doing w.e. you want, just don't think you're being any different to that other guy doing outdoor activities etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 09:57 PM
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So why are you in relationship? That's hedonism. Sex, drinking, smoking. Hedonism. Do you eat delicious food or just plain bread and water? I'll see you all ascetic at a Buddhist temple soon ya (: ? Hypocrisy on the other hand, is actually unpleasant yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 09:48 PM
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"No plan survives contact with the enemy" - Helmuth von Moltke
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 09:41 PM
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That's all roids side effects (one of many).
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 09:11 PM
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How does that make sense? Are you passive yourself just because you get approached? Since you were doing the approaching, you were doing the selecting. Just don't select passive men ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 09:09 PM
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Wait, how did you learn that? You said the men who you approached did not want to date you. So how do you know they are passive??
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 09:04 PM
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From a girl who did all the approaching to a girl who only notices mens' existence when they approach. What a transformation.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 08:46 PM
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No joke, I was literally mulling over about building something like that. It's such an unsolved problem and the irony is that the internet - of all places - should be the solution for the introverts and homebodies! Tinder is failing epically in that regard. Like u/RecognitionSoft9973 very accurately put, men on Tinder just cannot afford to show their true sides. They all have to conform to the box of conventionally attractive normie presentation. Because if they don't, most women (who are normie…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 08:33 PM
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Thanks for sharing. How about you? That's a long story. Don't think this is the time or place for it (:
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 07:59 PM
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<image> wow
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 11:37 PM
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What you're describing is the initial phase of romantic attachment. It's chemical love. Look up neurotransmitters, oxytocin, serotonin and others. This reward system in the brain is what makes you seek out a partner and feel good when you interact with your partner. These chemicals fade over time. Could be year or a decade or longer. See, from nature's POV, it only needed these chemicals to work long enough for you to produce children. Since we invented contraception, we kinda bypassed that noti…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 11:11 PM
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I've read some of your other comments. Do you want a man to lead with money with you? Are you looking for sugar daddy?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 09:15 PM
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And again, I‘m not saying it should be illegal for women. Sex work should never be illegal for women So you're saying it should be illegal for men to buy, i.e. the Sweden model? Have you done any research on that? If you would, you would know it's a trash model that makes sex workers lives considerably worse. Illegalizing buying only drives away good, law abiding customers - leaving behind the less pleasant ones that are happier to take risks breaking the law. The quality of customers for those …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 08:58 PM
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Dang, it's that bad huh? I knew politics were very divisive, but didn't think relations between sexes were that bad. I mean, this entire PPD sub would make you think that of course, but it's only a tiny slice of the population. Is the situation on the ground really as it's portrayed here?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 08:22 PM
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I live in Ireland where few years ago we voted in referendum to change the constitution to legalise abortion. So I think all rights for bodily autonomy should be protected. Women should be allowed to have abortions if they wish, it's their body. Likewise they should be allowed to sell it if they want. No one should tell them what to do with their bodies. Same for men. There's male sex workers too FYI.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 07:18 PM
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I simply think ... <something> ... should be left up to each state... I don't agree. Should we bring back slavery too and leave it up to each state? Why not? Should basic human rights also be violated and up to each state? Why not? This is a fundamental question of morality. This should not be up to each state to decide. It should be universal, worldwide recognition. Otherwise, if you don't agree that each state should be free to set w.e. rules (slavery and all), then why do you draw an arbitrar…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 05:36 PM
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Man are you Jordan Belfort's cousin or something haha
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 08:28 PM
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What was the attention like before hand?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 08:13 PM
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Men get confused and then think most women are gaslighting them when they say they don't care about peak physique. Men swear, by their own experience, that women love built and muscular guys because of attention increase they got when they became built and muscular. Most women in online poles though say they like avg. body, not super built. However, what's going on here is something else. Let's say a minority, 10% of women, are into very muscular men, yet only 1% of men posses that top physique.…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 05:02 PM
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still doesn't prove he made them crazy. he could just be attracted to crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 04:34 PM
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Huge Jackedman
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 04:32 PM
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...hopefully alive... ?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 04:10 PM
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Lovely
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 12:16 AM
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As a fellow antinatalist, I endorse this message.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 11:04 PM
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My husband is probably pretty average looking ... gets hit on at random places at least once a month You've just raised the collective blood pressure of all the average men who are now wondering if they are in fact below average hahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 01:01 AM
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<image> I just love that comment so much
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 11:21 PM
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Just discovered benefits of rings yesterday and got a pair today.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 11:20 PM
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sorry but <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 10:55 PM
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:O wow
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 09:27 PM
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The problem is that online interaction is only a small slice of population and does not represent the real world. Internet has an effect of amplifying the best and worst stuff and bubble it up to the top. So it makes it look like it everything's on fire even thought it's not.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 09:06 PM
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I know right haha, what's going on
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 08:47 PM
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I'm straight as well! Thanks, I just meant your comments are the funniest
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 04:51 PM
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You're my fav. guy on this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 12:59 AM
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People can define self love w.e. way they want. For some it's hitting the gym. For others it's indulging in food.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 12:25 AM
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Thats heavy man
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 11:18 PM
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Are you currently happy? What would you want relationship for? If you're like 80% happy, it might not be worth trying to do 180 to squeeze out that last 20% - when it might cost you the whole 100%.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 09:48 PM
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She replied ‘you are a man, that’s what you are supposed to do.’ I replied you are a woman, what are you supposed to do? Silence.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 09:10 PM
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Your friend tried to steal your man for years?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 07:42 PM
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you agreed I was average looking You're saying it like it's a bad thing. By the bell curve of facial attractiveness, 70% of the worlds population is average. Have you tried dating apps? I'm average looking as well and dating apps still worked (though that was 7 years ago, will make a new account soon). Putting over 6 foot on Tinder should be like having the cheat code on. Avg. face + over 6ft is above average overall.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 12:54 AM
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:P
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 12:03 AM
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I think his face is fine, which only left me more confused now haha
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 11:47 PM
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<image> Q4 u/floracalendula rate these jowls / 10
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 11:25 PM
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Oh i didn't know overeating could cause it. Thought it was purely age.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 11:03 PM
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A lot of men obsess over their jawlines to the point of crazy. Like, men wouldn't care if the women didn't ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 10:55 PM
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<image> idgaf about jawlines .... unless you've got major jowls Then you may want to reconsider that stance :P
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 10:50 PM
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the theory i heard is that back in hunter gatherer days, since men would be out hunting for a long time, tracking pray for days, it would be dangerous for them to be sick out in the middle of nowhere. so any sign of illness that took them out of action ASAP, made them stay with the women to wait out the illness rather than join the men on the hunt. Put another way, those who got ill slower, did so on the hunt and never made it back.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 10:44 PM
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<image>
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 10:32 PM
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Go ahead (:
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 10:30 PM
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Good chins or jawlines? Most men don't have good jawlines. Most men can grow beards though to either give some contour / illusion of jawline shape (it's the male equivalent of make up for women) or grow it out a lot to hide the jaw completely.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 10:30 PM
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Bro you gotta post your face here or somewhere on Reddit. Your lore is too interesting. How can one have so many advantages like you and still have no ioi.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 10:21 PM
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This story is getting better by the day
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 10:17 PM
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<image>
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 08:36 PM
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She didn’t go home with him, but I hope they get married soon <3 well that escalated quickly
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 08:10 PM
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Yes and no. Be the person you want to attract. If you're an extrovert / very social, sure, be social. That also means the women you're most likely to find are also extroverted / social. If that's not your core personality then they're not a good match for you. So you why spend all this energy being someone you're not, attracting the wrong people? 50% of population is introverted. Plenty of women are not very social either. So they are more likely to use the apps. Dating apps, in theory, are mean…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 08:01 PM
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Are you talking to me or him? I'm just curious why six inches is considered special here when it's not. Everything else he said is nonsense yep.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 07:41 PM
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Both are selectors. Neither is forcing the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 05:09 PM
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Why six inches though? That's just average (for western population). The other other two traits are above average.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 05:06 PM
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Black pill: Beethoven - Moonlight Sonata
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 04:49 PM
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brooooo bro bro what? especially if you understand how women are and how they think I bet you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 04:31 PM
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woah... ok well that completely changes the meaning of your OG comment haha. Cause i assumed he had to keep trying cause you kept saying NO. I'm guessing that's why Icyfemboy got on your case. You said YES the first time and he just did it as monthly "count down" ritual till the day - that's a whole other story.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 04:21 PM
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haha nice, i had the exact same thought for black pill actually, though i prefer the OG https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NAEppFUWLfc
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 03:53 PM
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This isn’t an attack on all men. hmm. ok. It's hard not to see it like that with how the post is titled and worded. If you're simply talking about your own personal experiences with no intention to make generalisations out of them that's fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 03:33 PM
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Any man on the planet, or just any men you've dated? If it's the former, I'd like some statistically significant studies to prove this exists in gen pop. If it's the later, there's one common denominator to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 02:55 PM
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Well... uhm... I hope you have a nice time! (:
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 02:41 PM
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Well thats a conundrum. What are you gonna do then?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 02:32 PM
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<image> Occasional water only fasting is healthy, more people should do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 02:29 PM
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That sucks. Is it temporary?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 02:22 PM
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Sounds exhausting, whats going on?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 02:08 PM
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The pills need a theme song, here are my bids: Blue pill: Robbie Williams - Feel Red pill: Artemas - i like the way you kiss me Purple?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 02:05 PM
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Smart and financially savvy. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 10:48 AM
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This should be pinned to the top of this sub haha
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 10:23 AM
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You have any real evidence for that or just guessing? When they’re young, the women freely fuck chad who won’t commit to them. Then those women hit 30s/40s when their looks begin to fade and they become desparate and settle for safe option Billy beta who they don’t lust after (like they did Chad) I really have no idea where this sentiment comes from. Good looking women in their 20s who enter 30s/40s will have their looks fade compared to their 20s of course, but they will still continue be the g…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 10:22 AM
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Respect. You're a great person.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 11:21 PM
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Are you vegan?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 11:15 PM
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Thanks for sharing Is that what you're planning to do, "be the engineer" so to speak and provide for your own finances? I also don't really like the thought of sex work bc it seems like renting ppl which is close to selling ppl which is pretty much slavery/ human trafficking. Hmm. That's all of capitalism. You're always renting people, whether they are building your house, fixing your car or sleeping with you - they are all exchanging physical/mental labour for a period of time for money. But if…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 10:26 PM
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Oh I meant in general, not just Musk. Or is it the same for anyone? What are your thoughts on using the Seeking app to find wealthy men for sugar dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 09:00 AM
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Nice (:
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 12:58 AM
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Lots of respect for this candidness. Reading some of your other comments now, like reading an open book haha. Question 1: how much money you require? Question 2: what do you offer in return?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 12:22 AM
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She's autistic (said so in one of her own comments before). Which made me realise... i might like autistic people more than normies. I just love direct candidness. I can't stand pretence haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 12:19 AM
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I live in Ireland so most here are aggressively white due to low sun haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 11:28 PM
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hmm, we'll see how I do when I make a Tinder profile in a month or so.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 10:47 PM
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make up haha that's a first
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 10:46 PM
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50 shades of Chad
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 08:31 PM
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This is wrong in two fronts: First is not about matching is about rating how good looking the person was; Second is that if women were to no select the top 20% but 20% at random you would get an evenly distribution of looks, at best a bell curve. What you don't have. That's why i asked link to data you're referring to double check my assumptions. If i got that wrong then discard. It's at best 1 to 3 what make all of your logic further meaningless. How? Logic is the same. 3 men for 1 woman means …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 03:35 PM
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Could you link that data please? IIRC the original statement was simply that women match with 20% of men on dating apps. Not top 20%, just 20%. Were the matched man could be anywhere from 1-10 in sexual market value scale. And that is because of one simple fact of dating apps: population imbalance. There are far more men than women on dating apps, like 10:1 Let me demonstrate with elementary mathematics how the fact that only 20% of men get matches on dating apps has no bearing on their IRL attr…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 03:03 PM
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Based on what data?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 01:14 PM
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Men generally dont want it to be a 50/50 split. (Misogyny) And you know this how? what's your source?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 11:37 AM
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Do you believe society is run by men (patriarchy)? If so, do you believe the laws are set by men? If so, why are divorce laws 50:50 if men want women to work for free? Perhaps you should narrow the statement to "ignorant men want women to work for them for free"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 11:23 AM
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Fascinating, thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 11:13 AM
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It's not just opportunity for happiness, they don't even get treated neutral, they are actively discriminated against. Always perceived to be incompetent villains in every situation till proven otherwise. I get from nature's evolutionary POV that yeah it want's to play Russian roulette with genes first and then "let the natural selection sort them out" afterwards. Being ignored is one thing though, these guys get actively hated by everyone, even their own families. Beyond heartbreaking :/
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 08:55 AM
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<image> Sorry what do those numbers mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 08:40 AM
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Actually I just realized, I've been "cold" approached by a few women on Reddit of all places haha. After making some of my face posts. (Yes I've verified them to be real women via video / instagram). Kinda fumbled them all. But I wasn't trying that much tbh. they all abroad so. Though there was this French one that was really cool, wish I didn't mess that one up. She introduced me to notions of sugar dating, the "Seeking" app. Very interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 12:41 AM
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Even the lobster is red(pilled)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 11:57 PM
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This confirms it, the patrons of this sub really have no morals.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 11:13 PM
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Is that progression or regression I am not sure Whats your life goal?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 11:03 PM
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The r/ugly is the most depressing sub there is. The halo effect for pretty people and the inverse of that for ugly people really makes me feel like
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 10:39 PM
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Just have your uh... "friend" do it on their account (:
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 10:35 PM
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<image> He can't get taller, so he should make others shorter. Move to asia.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 10:32 PM
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I'd put myself avg. but to confirm I've posted to rating subs and other places and got avg. score. (you should post on rating subs too if you wanna get actual data). So pretty sure avg. is accurate for me. I can't really compare 1:1 my experience with yours as you seem more social/extrovert than me, I'm just not around people a lot. Last time I used Tinder was ~7 years ago and would say all my matches were avg. women +/- in facial attractiveness, non-overweight, most 3rd level educated.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 10:06 PM
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Sorry guy, but your description doesn't seem to indicate being avg. So unless you're willing to provide face pictures (or w.e. you used for Tinder) to prove you're average, can't take your word for it. People are famously bad at judging their own physical attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 09:45 PM
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Yeah my primary interests are financial markets and sexual market is just like any other, with rational actors and laws of supply and demand. Another example that confuses men and makes them think women are gaslighting them, is when it comes to being very built and muscular. Men swear, by their own experience, that women love built and muscular guys because of attention increase they got when they became built and muscular. Most women in online poles though say they like avg. body, not super bui…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 08:30 PM
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is... is anyone else following whats going on here?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 08:16 PM
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Red Pill taught me that there's always a way, always a system. While it may not be moral or... Well ok, as soon as we toss morals out the window, it's gonna get a lot easier that's for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 11:03 PM
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not that simple. halo effect is cognitive bias (unwillful), not a simple prejudice (willful). Cognitive biases are difficult to counter even if you know about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 10:58 PM
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Yeah I wasn't there even, so hard to say what exactly happened, but from the way he describes it he's not sure what went wrong either. They had some good rapport going. The main thing i can think of and I hate to say it - in this sub especially - but ... he's a little bit below average in the face. Like I'm no expert at rating attractiveness, but let's say he gets obvious minus points because no strong jawline & balding. He's avg. height too so that's neither plus nor minus. He's pretty built th…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 10:32 PM
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It's a skill like any other. I know a dude who was cold approaching, quite a bit, in even less competitive spaces - not clubs / pubs, but like parks or just on streets. No luck though. Like he got conversations going, some back and forth, no numbers though. So your anecdote says it works. My anecdote says it doesn't. Lesson here is YMMV.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 09:38 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 09:32 PM
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Why is it a downside? You've argued how it's not an upside (neutral?), but didn't present an argument as to why it's a downside.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 09:14 PM
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It's just curiosity, I'm not trying to find out who you are (I'm no that good). There's no way i'm gonna do that from a course! Not asking where you studied, I don't even know which country you're in. You don't even need to be any more specific than just "humanities" or "sciences" if you like.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 07:32 PM
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What course?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 07:25 PM
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Quick question, what's your highest level of educational attainment?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 05:17 PM
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The problem with cheating is the lies and break down of trust. Whether that's physical or emotional is irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 08:05 PM
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Then you're just as delusional as she is.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 08:04 PM
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an eye for an eye makes the whole world blind
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 08:37 AM
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Neither misandry nor misogyny are justifiable.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 12:37 AM
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Sorry, are you saying some women are justified to be misandrist because some men are misogynist? If so we'll have to agree to disagree. Misandry is an attack, not a defence.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 12:31 AM
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whataboutism
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 11:13 PM
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Sorry that's just whataboutism. The misogyny does not excuse misandry regardless of magnitudes. So yes misandry may perhaps be bigger and you have a right to complain about that, but also yes - men do have a right complain about misandry.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 11:11 PM
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I thought this sub was a healthy 50:50 split on that? everybody gets their fair share of pain (:
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 11:05 PM
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There's far more complex things out there than dating, like medicine and engineering and we use data and statistics to tame those just fine. I don't see why dating has to be exceptional. Try bringing up statistics in real life to explain why you're not getting success, you'll rightfully get mocked as a weirdo. By anti-intellectuals maybe. I'm more interesting in engaging with people on the right side of the IQ bell curve.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 08:59 AM
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oh, no worries.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 11:44 PM
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Nice one (:
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 11:31 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 11:19 PM
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Sorry, maybe i missunderstood the questions, but i don't think it was asking if one is paying attention, rather "do you form an opinion of someone based on their food".
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 11:11 PM
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This is a wild theory. First time hearing something like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 11:06 PM
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no & no
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 11:04 PM
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Nice, how long that take you?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 10:44 PM
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Well clearly that doesn't work.... Men send plenty of dick pics to women, but get no reciprocity...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 10:34 PM
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whats the golden rule?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 10:25 PM
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<image> In the dating game, the rules are: be attractive, don't be unattractive. Being a jerk and scumbag is obviously not an attractive trait by itself, so they're doing something else to be attractive. Being timid and submissive is by itself also not inherently attractive traits for a man. So you gotta do something else be attractive. It's called a human race, for a reason. It's all competition. You wanna win? You gotta beat the competition. Don't like the game? Then quit it, but don't blame t…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 09:08 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 08:31 PM
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You need a very masculine face to pull off long hair or just looks too feminine. we get labeled as feminine Long hair is polarising, but if pulled off, the pool will decrease, but those who like long hair are true fans. This can work to your advantage in a big way. (I don't have the actual data so using made up numbers to illustrate): Say 10% of women are into long hair. Only 1% of men have long hair. That puts a gender imbalance heavily in long haired man's favour. 10 women fighting over 1 man!…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 08:12 PM
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I like your style
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 07:34 PM
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means you're an optimist
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 06:11 PM
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I'd love to see if you have any actual data to back your statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 05:11 PM
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You're never gonna drop that narrative are you haha
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 04:30 PM
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Anybody know some good pill tests? here's one anyway https://www.idrlabs.com/pilled/test.php no-one is fully one pill or the other, it's good to know leanings <image> Bluepilled: Accepting mainstream narratives and societal norms without question, often seen as naive or conformist. Redpilled: Awakening to controversial or anti-mainstream views that challenge widely accepted beliefs. Blackpilled: Embracing a nihilistic outlook that sees the world and future as hopeless and beyond saving. Whitepil…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 04:16 PM
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Interesting. Are you the sole breadwinner? What value does your husband add to the relationship to offset his lack of financial contribution?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 10:18 AM
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ad hominem wont help you win the argument, just makes you look silly
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 09:41 AM
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3) here for entertainment.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 09:56 AM
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Hear, hear!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 09:34 AM
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Hear, hear!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 09:30 AM
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hahah best summary ever!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 11:44 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 11:39 PM
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Sorry what is a "box" here?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 06:55 PM
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what is heightcel?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 12:10 AM
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But no women? what's the story with that bro. I was convinced by the internet it's physically impossible to stay dry when over >6ft
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 12:06 AM
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lol the guys jumping on you really need to take a chill pill, not a red pill haha This seems nuanced, but I'm leaning towards this not being monkey branching given the presented facts. young, not much life experience, 13 - 17 is super early development stage. Brain don't finish forming till 25. So you stayed with ex longer than you should have, because you could not recognise you lost feelings / were in denial about it. you ended things with ex on the same day you met your husband, before securi…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 12:27 AM
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You haven't explained here why the bill should not be just split?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 11:44 PM
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haha i honestly had to double take that cause even just reading it somehow felt it it was woman's pov. nice
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 11:43 PM
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"The whole time I was wondering how they were going to make the kid innocent" Wait, why?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 12:45 AM
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4 episodes actually. it's brilliant cinematography and acting. Each episode is one continuous shot, no cuts. Mind blowing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 11:38 PM
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Anyone seen "Adolescence" series on Netflix? It's a bout 13 y.o. boy radicalised by manopshere and accused of murdering a girl class mate. Chilling stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 11:30 PM
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Following is just opinions: No strategy works with everyone, but no strategy works on no-one either. Success is dependent on intelligence gap between the partners. Manipulation is a mental skill after all. IQ matters (EQ can be learned). You strike me as more intelligent than him, hence his failure. Sorry you had to go through this, but you don't need me to tell you you've dodged a bullet here. No one who's actually in love with you will play games like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 12:37 AM
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Haha kek
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 12:11 AM
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Demisexuality has a prevalence somewhere between 0% and 1%. A number that's considerably bigger than "one in million" or "one in a billion".
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 11:39 PM
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Believe what you want
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 04:22 PM
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What reason I have to lie?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 10:39 AM
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Inconclusive. The ones who don't have friends by definition cling to no one. While having a lot of friends can just be a cope for clinginess. So you don't exhaust one person, you keep cycling them in rotation to keep feeding you attention. Clingy people can exist on both sides. I've seen examples of each. Having friends is no litmus test for clinginess.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 09:51 PM
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This is it imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 11:58 PM
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This is the answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 06:18 PM
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If only people were this open and honest in their dating profiles as they are in these comments - we would solve all dating issue in 24h, everyone would be perfectly matched up (: But alas it will never happen. Most people put masks on their dating profile to protect their egos and then get all pikachu faced when it fails over and over. "Insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results." - Not Einstein
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 04:19 PM
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Any studies to back that up?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 11:08 PM
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Counter: it's degrading for you subjectively, I fully believe that from your post. It's not degrading objectively though. Haven't proven that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 11:59 PM
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To each their own
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 11:58 PM
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Counter 1: teenagers are notoriously bad listeners to parent's advice. good luck! Counter 2: who said the parents themselves know anything about it? Some people just luck into a relationship without doing anything, just right place right time. Those are the ones that will often say "just be yourself" etc. and fail to notice they just got lucky! Counter 3: who said the parent's themselves have a healthy relationships in the first place. So many toxic dysfunctional families out there held together…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 11:40 PM
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He should not do it, because Hedonism is source of suffering. Negative Utilitarianism or better jet asceticism is a better path to follow.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 11:57 PM
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Which ever ones you have to keep secret from partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 11:47 PM
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Wait really? wth, which communities?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 11:45 PM
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Thank you ^^ sorry i'm new to this pill stuff, what is "beta"?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 11:04 PM
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<image> Silly test. Don't believe it's very accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 10:52 PM
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BTW I appreciate how you're able to stay on topic with a coherent response while not making fun of me. For some reason that made me a lot more happy than it should haha. Thank you ^^ That's really rare on PPD Is it? I discovered this sub like two days ago (I'm not even 100% on what the pill colours mean yet ...), just saw "debate" in the title and some guys and girls debating issues about guys and girls - that sounds cool. Didn't suspect this to be a "RoastMe" sub in disguise :D
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 04:21 PM
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Deficiency is subjective phenomenon that lives in your mind and you are the arbiter. You can decide tomorrow (without even trying new mattress) that the current mattress is deficient. That's why I asked to define precisely, "nothing going wrong", it's far too broad. What are we talking about here?? If the title mean to read as: CMV: It's ok to break up or divorce, even if I just change my mind about what I want or found a better partner who fulfils my existing requirements better, while my curre…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 03:33 PM
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You got together for a reason in a first place, if you want to leave, something has changed. Either old reason no longer valid, or new reason emerged. Your example was an example of new reason emerging. What happened was in the past you did not have a preference for a new mattress (relationship). Then you experienced a new mattress and you created a new preference for yourself that wasn't there before. The new preference is - and can only be fulfilled by - the new mattress. "What went wrong" is …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 10:43 AM
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You'd have to define "nothing going wrong". While in the abstract sure you can do that, in the real world there would be some reason why you're doing it, something went wrong. You got together for a reason in a first place, if you want to leave, something has changed. Either old reason no longer valid, or new reason emerged. "Nothing going wrong and therefore I'm making a change" seems like a falacy. No action can come spontaneously without a trigger. "Nothing going wrong" just sounds like lack …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 12:18 AM
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"these types of forums" is what humanity considers great source material for AI training to save our future. Can't be that bad right? right?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 11:19 PM
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For those of you in the anti AI Robots for companionship camp, I'm curious of the following: have you seen the movie A.I. Artificial Intelligence? do you recall if you got attached to the AI characters in the movie? Was Monica a bad mother in your opinion because she chose Martin her bio son over David her AI son? Was David a real boy? What does it mean to be a real boy? I don't know when this tech is coming. I don't believe it's any time soon (sorry OP). I do believe It will come eventually and…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 10:30 PM
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Thank you for your honest inputs.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 12:18 AM
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Ok, thought experiment: Imagine your husband dies. They offer to create a replacement bot that will be exactly like him, they'll even add in his quirks and flaws etc. indistinguishable. Essentially you can't tell a difference, except you know the real one is dead. (There's even episode on Black Mirror on this) How does that influence your stance now, if at all? Would you take the replacement? Look for new flesh and blood one?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 11:18 PM
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Would you like to gimme you're best argument what makes people so great and irreplaceable (: ?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 11:01 PM
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People are flawed, robots are perfect. People are overrated (:
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 10:52 PM
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