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1	Are women aware of how men adjust their behavior to appease them? Depends on the man if you're a giant man and you have very hard features I can see this I'm a big black dude and I've chosen to wear lighter colors or graphic tees or smile because I've been the opposite or even neutral and you'll be surprised how many people get scared or even scared to the point where they call the police You got to remember the human mind is not rational into an unrational person filled with bias normal human behaviors now become something completely different For example the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/24 05:59 PM
1	Are women aware of how men adjust their behavior to appease them? Being a big black dude this is basically every they like that it is hilarious thing in the context of this purple pill debate Reddit LOL I wear graphic tees and make sure to smile and not look too hard for that same reason and it's amazing seeing not only women's fears but men's fears Not everybody is like that but as a big black man you are historically seen as America's bad boy / danger because well were black so we're in ethnic minority but we're also men so we're seeing as dangerous This is …	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/24 05:57 PM
1	Are women aware of how men adjust their behavior to appease them? I'm a large black man and this is basically everyday for us but doubly so when it comes to women and it shows and it does show the hidden hypocrisy in our society We are not equal I work downtown in my city and I can literally feel the fear on people as I walk by and not everybody is like that but I just recently had to tell a female friend of mine this who started going on and on about how she feels scared walking at night I told her look you're a tiny white woman I get it you're going to be lo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/24 05:55 PM
2	Q4Women: At what age do you consider it offputting when a guy is a virgin A female friend asked me why I was so sex at verse and still am even though I have more success with women now and this is it there is no room or space that a guy especially a young teenager just exploring your sexuality can do so that it's safe and without judgment and it's so ironic because it's the opposite for girls If a girl slept with a guy for her first time and let's say she had something perceived wrong with the shape of her vagina and the guy noticed it and did not be humble and made f…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/24 05:53 PM
6	Trying to understand this a bit myself but from a more holistic perspective why would a man on the top rather either add hurdles to a man on the bottom of hierarchy or worse, be completely apathetic to his hardships and turmoils? And ironically this is exactly what I try to tell feminist about masculinity and what they think is male power and privilege most men throughout history were the common working man who was whether he knew it or not being used in a system by much more powerful people men and women One fact of the human nature that has not changed is that the most hardest working people the 99% will always get the least amount back but the people who will work the least will get most of that labor The rich and pow…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	02/06/24 06:48 PM
1	Are women actually entertaining hypersexual douchebags? That's not what I mean I mean. We usually view men as either creeps and worse or weaklings at best. Look at how you just described men with these periodical views and I know what you're talking about but that's not the men I'm describing. A lot of men and women project toxic ideas onto men and I'm not surprised that men that are characterized as weak or beta are like that because they're not overly expressive with masculinity or sex. I will count myself as that and I have had sex. But I'm not so…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/24 01:01 AM
3	Are women actually entertaining hypersexual douchebags? Now imagine this. It's even harder for young boys nowadays because we live in a similar type of thing. A lot of feminist ideas about men sexuality almost scarily overlap with a lot of abrahamic religions dogmatic view of sexuality. That men are just inherently dangerous specifically because of the perceived sexual threat that they could pose to a woman. So many cultic groups religions and of course racist ideologies. You'll be amazed how much the idea of sexual fear is at the base of other fears…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/24 12:49 AM
1	Are women actually entertaining hypersexual douchebags? Oh believe me it's crazy how much the Visions between men and women have and especially when it has a racist or ignorant connotation and it doesn't even have to be a race per se. Men since the beginning of time have always uttered other man as a potential killer and rapist. Which is a big reason for why you see a lot of lynchings in the early 1900s in America the idea of protecting white women and their whiteness and their purity as women. From barbaric dark skin men. Even if those relationships…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/24 12:47 AM
2	Are women actually entertaining hypersexual douchebags? What do you mean by that can you elaborate?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/24 12:40 AM
3	Are women actually entertaining hypersexual douchebags? I promise I'm telling you for my own personal experience it's not just something that they do to it. Women also shame and put down just men sexuality in itself as exist. Because men sexuality has seen as historically predatory or unclean or barbaric. Look at how we view any type of racist serial types especially to the men of the race. What do we describe the mass? Black men brutes and rapey. Mexicans drug dealers and rapey. Arab men terrorist and rapey. You notice there's always some type of ad…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/24 12:33 AM
1	Are women actually entertaining hypersexual douchebags? I'm 27 but I'm kind of getting to that realization now. I'll be honest with you I've had some success with women in the last couple of years but sex has been a little overrated. Dating nowadays feels more like a second job than something I would describe fun. When you do find a great connection it is good though don't get me wrong. But you are correct it's a certain point you no longer want to put on the ACT. I suspect that's what men and women really do especially when we are younger is just pu…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/24 12:20 AM
4	Are women actually entertaining hypersexual douchebags? Exactly. Especially what you said and I don't think that should be seen as immature or beta. You actually want to be nice to someone you like. And that just doesn't extend to the sexual but also to friends and family even. My friends tell me I need to write a book about this stuff but I really do believe what we call confidence or acting toxic or a bad boy is like this necessary evil men having to do to attract women. Even a lot of girls will tell you they do like nice dudes but want him to act …	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/24 12:08 AM
1	Are women actually entertaining hypersexual douchebags? By the way I like your username. I'm A Song of Ice and Fire fan. Anyway I turned down a co-worker that asked me out for ironically the same reason bro. I can kind of sense that because she is extremely beautiful she's used to so many guys coming at her especially dangerous dudes. So even though I can appreciate her attraction to me it probably will just fizzle out because I'm not a dangerous dude lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/24 12:05 AM
1	'Can't your husband/boyfriend cook for himself?' Does anyone else notice the uptick in aggressiveness toward wives/girlfriends for just doing something nice for their partner? I think that's why you also see such a crazy anti nice guy thing on both sides. Conservatives will tell you nice guys or these weak little creatures, feminist will tell you that nice guys are secretly manipulative and sexist. When in reality they're just normal adjusted dudes who aren't overly aggressive. And even more maliciously it goes counters with a lot of people at least grow up with or thought was normal practice in relationships. It's like giving a girl a flower. You don't expect the gir…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	17/03/24 11:56 PM
4	Are women actually entertaining hypersexual douchebags? I'll be honest I kind of agree with you but it's not just women. Especially if you come from Christian backgrounds even today. Men sexuality is seen as something dangerous and disgusting in a suppressed as well. I'm saying this is someone with this experience. The main reason why I did not date in high school is ironically because well I knew how I came across the people. I'm a large black dude ironically a lot of girls like that but a lot of girls are scared. I did not want to make a girl scare…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/24 11:52 PM
7	Do men see women as objects? In the crazy thing is I don't even think most women do think like this but enough women do and it gets reinforced so much with popular culture. And it's ironic when girls think about men they think of men who abuse their women but the people who most likely will also rescue these women will also be men ironically. Firefighters neighbors policemen. Even myself I grew up in a couple abuse of household. I saw my mom and step dad abused each other. Guess who came to the rescue LOL me her eldest son …	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	17/03/24 11:48 PM
2	Do men see women as objects? Some women throughout history have been treated like objects but not all the time and not every single relationship a woman has with a man literally means that he views her as an actual object lol. Objectification exist on many different things and I can see where that comes from. But no I do not view my mother or cousins or coworkers or friends as objects. I didn't even view my own girlfriend's objects and I attracted to them	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	17/03/24 11:46 PM
4	Are women actually entertaining hypersexual douchebags? I kind of hate it bro because other men hate you because you have something that they want and it is a privilege being tall and attractive but because of that you're also getting projected all these different standards onto Yourself by both men and women that don't even fit your personality. The amount of times in high school I had girls without me even hitting on them just telling me that I must be a player was f****** crazy and I was a virgin until I was about 22	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/24 11:43 PM
1	TV's Portrayal of Men I'm going to go off on a tangent but I think how a lot of fans and non fans of Naruto see Sasuke's character completely off-kilter than what the author tried to show and it does kind of feel sexist. Hear me out. Sasuke is clearly a f****** genocide Survivor and he matches so many personality traits with someone who goes through something like that. We could argue that his lack of Attraction for women and also his low social ability that we've seen the beginning of the series go hand in hand with…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	17/03/24 11:40 PM
-2	Modern women still benefit from the idea of feminity without adopting it. You can see it and how we treat missing women especially white women which coined the term missing white woman syndrome. We literally are still making tv specials about Natalie Holloway who's been missing since the 90s. So many different people of all genders and colors go missing but they'll never get as much attention to Natalie Holloway would because they're not little blonde American women	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/24 11:30 PM
4	Are women actually entertaining hypersexual douchebags? Actually I would say the tragedy of it is actually the opposite. Not every nice guy is just acting and not every nice guy somehow lacks confidence or boldness. But I don't doubt people perceive it that way which is the tragedy which is why I suggest literally putting on an act LOL it's hilarious because I've gotten better at dating women now but it's crazy just hearing the stuff they will say out of their mouths because they thought I was x y and z. One girl literally told me that she thought I …	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/24 11:29 PM
1	Are women actually entertaining hypersexual douchebags? My bad but to answer your question. Literally pick any f****** frat boy from any TV show and I get you not if you play it long enough in front of enough women some of them will fall for you	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/24 11:24 PM
1	Are women actually entertaining hypersexual douchebags? That's why some advice for men to get more girls is to get tattoos because tattoos make you at least look more dangerous which is something a lot of girls do find attractive	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/24 11:24 PM
4	Are women actually entertaining hypersexual douchebags? They don't actually see him this is the thing I don't think our society wants to accept. There is a real component of women that do find toxic behavior in men attractive. Believe me I've done it. I was out in the club and I said something so stereotypically ghetto and stupid because I knew it would work because my social skills are that good LOL. Believe me I come from the hood when you have women literally telling you that the good traits about you are unattractive and that you should look more…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/24 11:23 PM
3	Are women actually entertaining hypersexual douchebags? Tell me something as a woman do you think you may have been attracted to these types of traits in men even when you could not identify it. Like a common story for a lot of girls is that they view men as crazy or assholes only after they've dated the stereotypical bad boy. But I wonder do those girls realize that those bad boys traits are What attracted them in the first place	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/24 11:22 PM
3	A lot of guys here are simply too insecure, too self-loathing, and too emotional to ever get into a heterosexual relationship. I get what you're saying but you would be surprised how much people will go just to prove they are right. I've had women lie to me in my own life when I call them out on this because they just refuse to be wrong. And it's okay to admit that I still believe in purple pill ideas and I have had relationships but it's because of my experience seeing what women have done to me and others and even to other women since I was a little boy is what led me to view myself as purple instead of red or blue	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/24 11:21 PM
2	Women cannot accurately assess the wall themselves As a man who has utilized older women I can kind of see this. My experience with younger women versus older women is like night and day. Younger women know that they have youth on their side so they can afford to act a little bit more crazy and be more picky. Older women can't though don't get me wrong some older women still think they're young women LOL but it does happen. But given how sex works and how to get it for a man I think it's a very logical for a young man to start out on older women…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/24 11:19 PM
10	Are women actually entertaining hypersexual douchebags? I have in a weird way I haven't become super douchey but I do not like that acting a little bit more mean does seem to be more attractive to women. I say this as a 27-year-old. Because of how I looked I always was looked at as a player by women but my personality was the opposite but in recent years I have really became much more mean-spirited to people and I don't like it but it's crazy and cliche. Women really are attracted to it. Not everyone though but it's alarming how many women are genera…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/24 11:15 PM
2	Reddit moderation policies in male and female subreddits is extremely biased It's a mixture of the women a wonderful effect and even an online spaces men are still going to be seamless just more dangerous to women not just physically but socially and it's amazing how strong that body is still is within us even in our modern day	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	17/03/24 11:12 PM
3	Modern women still benefit from the idea of feminity without adopting it. I completely agree and it's hilarious seeing getting modern day and I think it's tragic because I would want men and women to actually feel free. The fact that tomboys and sensitive feminine men who are heterosexual exist kind of proves that. Your Hardware as a man and woman. Is of course going to be the biological draw to reproduce but your personality or software is going to be whatever it is and I don't doubt we struggle nowadays because we have more freedom as man and woman but sometimes wha…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/24 11:11 PM
-2	Modern women still benefit from the idea of feminity without adopting it. I actually agree with you and it's one of those things that's an unseen privileged women have but it's not just for women either. When you free up something it is free but a lot of our inherent biases as humans are not controllable. Their biases and they come from something and grinding us that we learned as children that was reinforced no different from racism or ageism. But with many women there is still very much a huge bias in how we are seen not only from each other but to our own group and…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/24 10:57 PM
-1	Modern women still benefit from the idea of feminity without adopting it. I actually agree with you and it's one of those things that's an unseen privileged women have but it's not just for women either. When you free up something it is free but a lot of our inherent biases as humans are not controllable. Their biases and they come from something and grinding us that we learned as children that was reinforced no different from racism or ageism. But with many women there is still very much a huge bias in how we are seen not only from each other but to our own group and…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/24 10:57 PM
5	Modern women still benefit from the idea of feminity without adopting it. And it's ironic because men will tell you the same thing. Some men cannot unlock these qualities that they simply don't possess or have the ability to be in their personality. Like my version of confidence as a man is probably going to look very different from your version of confidence sexually as a woman you see. And I agree with the Opie and we're kind of living in the time right now. Men and women are more free than ever and we live in the most egalitarian time in history yet we still expect…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/24 10:56 PM