| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| – | Sex is a need.ive only had sex once to an escort and im a perfectly functioning human apart from the crippling loneliness tho. :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/25 11:43 AM |
| 1 | Men should care about friendship for the sake of friendship on its own, but if that’s not compelling enough, they should care because friendship has benefits for potentially leading to romantic lovenah im good, im not interested in being " friends" with women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/25 01:36 PM |
| 5 | The male loneliness epidemic is worse than you think.its not men's job to prop up society :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/25 12:42 PM |
| – | Using dating apps is beta male behaviourragebait title but actually text below is solid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/25 10:25 PM |
| 2 | Straight men and women generally cannot be friends.Its not that they CANT be, its just that both parties have to be platonic and not have any feelings for one another. If one of them does its always going to cause problems down the line. Also in the past when i cared about being social i noticed that female friends require way more upkeep. One of the many reasons i stopped really bothering. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/25 10:19 PM |
| 1 | The Patriarchy Is Dead In Most Western Countriespatriarchy is dead but women still date like its in full effect ( men paying for everything, expectation of fully providing,etc.) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/25 10:18 PM |
| 1 | When You’re On a Date with a Woman, She Usually Has 3 Other Guys Alreadyi literally dont believe you but pop off bud. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/25 08:44 PM |
| 1 | You cant claim “Men take responsibility more” in a sub where men cant be blamed for anything.im sure some women do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/25 08:43 PM |
| 4 | You cant claim “Men take responsibility more” in a sub where men cant be blamed for anything.This entire sub has an extreme slight towards hating men who struggle, its why twitter and 4chan are unironically better for dating discourse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/25 05:29 PM |
| 13 | When You’re On a Date with a Woman, She Usually Has 3 Other Guys Alreadyyou must be delusional if you think most men have even 1 option. self reporting on yourself there bud. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/25 05:27 PM |
| 2 | For Men, Single Life Is the Solution—Not Something to Fearyeh i just have zero interest in meeting the modern womens standards, especially when they have x5 the body count of past women, children to other men and an entitled attitude. Solitude is vastly preferable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/25 12:25 PM |
| 4 | The big problem with telling survivors of abuse to “pick better”.funny how women's personality detector turns off around abusive men. Wild how it works like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/25 12:24 PM |
| 11 | If every average man dropped out of the dating market it would not affect women one bit. Their dating problems are entirely based on the behaviour of top tier menafter this study data came out i remember the meltdown blue pill types had and then moved the goalposts to " actually these single men are getting sex easily chud!" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/25 12:18 PM |
| 8 | If every average man dropped out of the dating market it would not affect women one bit. Their dating problems are entirely based on the behaviour of top tier men> 70% of average men are currently in committed relationships so we just out here lying now? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/25 12:08 PM |
| 1 | If you are currently unsatisfied with your romantic/relationship prospect, what is your next play for 2024?Nothing I've given up completely | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/24 10:57 PM |
| 2 | Avoiding the Coming Demographic Collapsei imagine your tune will change once europe and america become a muslim majority and they enforce their culture. lmaoo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/23 11:32 AM |
| – | Men: Stop ComplainingNah giving up was a more logical option | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/23 08:44 AM |
| 5 | The narratives pushed in this sub are not representative of the average dating experiencedata doesnt agree with you but ok. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/23 03:55 PM |
| 1 | Women are against the legalisation of prostitution because they want the "hoeflation" to continue, and are ok with men being miserable.yep, the only winning move is to not play the game. Hoeflation will course correct when society collapses or more trad religion/society takes over ( islam in the west ) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/23 03:54 PM |
| 2 | Dating is not a meritocracy and it's toxic to suggest single men should "work harder"id rather just bow out than peform some endless treadmill to appease some shallow cunt | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/23 03:45 PM |
| 14 | Most single lonely men are not struggling with women because they're old fashioned misogynistsnot nearly to the same degree as woman, female coworkers always gaslight me at work | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/23 01:55 PM |
| 3 | Better Bachelor’s audience is absolutely insaneSociety does despise straight white men, to deny that is to deny reality | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/23 07:38 AM |
| 4 | Passport bros seems like a lot of work. Are things really that dire?yes things are that dire. kudos to the guys who can uproot and leave their family to pursue a woman but the rest of us non-chads just have to wallow in loneliness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/23 08:26 PM |
| – | Do guys here seriously never get approached by women at all? Not even indicators of interest?No | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/23 08:12 AM |
| 3 | The reason high-functioning autists struggle with attracting women is that they don't conform to the rules of hegemonic masculinity as women generally like bravado mentrue not to mention conforming to some idealistic view of what a man is fucking exhausting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/23 07:30 PM |
| 6 | Not coming across as creepy to women when approaching is incredibly simple and boils down to 4 things, does not involve "mind reading", and coming across as creepy once will not ruin your lifeif it was this simple i dont think paragraphs would be needed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/23 07:29 PM |
| 1 | Men don’t put in the effort yet they complain about their lack of dating successNa I'm not wasting effort or mental energy on it anymore, and the data suggests more men are giving up aswell. Also gotta love this boomer bootstraps logic of we aren't trying enough... Just lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/23 07:04 AM |
| 4 | If you fail to get a partner, do you visualize living your life alone for decades?Chads always feel the need to humble brag to ugly men it's fucking pathetic | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/23 06:46 AM |
| 1 | If you fail to get a partner, do you visualize living your life alone for decades?I just have become more nihilistic and won't kill myself out of spite, I've accepted I'll die alone but hopefully I get to see the west collapse even more before that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/23 06:41 AM |
| -3 | It’s women fault men are such trashCrazy how their is so many single mothers nowadays, idk maybe vet better and stop fucking men based of your vagina tingles. Crazy how many women think they can baby trap chad | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/23 06:33 AM |
| 4 | Men are shamed far more for being single for life than women> every ugly male who cant get a gf is creepy thank you for enforcing hypergamy, i hope chad plate spins you until your post wall. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/23 09:49 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Male spaces are losing because they won’t kick out those who don’t want help.male spaces are losing according to whom? you? maybe if your only sphere is reddit that is true, but plenty of places discuss mens issues at length, youtube/4chan for example, not to mention red pill forums | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/23 09:29 AM |
| 12 | LOOKS DISCUSSION MORATORIUMmods increasingly censoring the subreddit to the point ppl go elsewhere to discuss dating issues ( already happening) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/23 09:27 AM |
| -1 | "AI girlfriends contribute to the epidemic of young male loneliness"na ai waifu's would help lonely men like myself to cope. i wonder why woman fear ai companions for men so much... hmmmmm | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/23 11:34 PM |
| 1 | It seems dating is not for ugly people anymore, but it waswhy are u calling me a child. weird af take | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/23 11:33 PM |
| 1 | Why does this sub look at men willing to date single moms so negatively?because i dont want to be a settle choice because she had her fun with chad and couldnt get anybody else to commit, id rather just stay a lonely virgin. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/23 07:55 PM |
| 0 | Women do get rejected by menoh no you cant get chad to commit, cry me a river. yeh no shit your just one in his many rotation of woman, have you tried actual dating your looksmatch instead of fuccboi chasing? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/23 05:41 PM |
| 6 | Just because older men are doing better than younger men , it doesn't mean it's not a problem to struggle in your youthsuuuure, its always funny when woman try to argue ugly men's lived experiences. you sound like you believe in just world fallacy aswell. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/23 05:38 PM |
| 5 | Observing how my male and female friends adapt to reality as we age.i love when ppl telll me my lived experiences are wrong, and glad strangers on the internet know me better than me! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/23 01:43 PM |
| 9 | Just because older men are doing better than younger men , it doesn't mean it's not a problem to struggle in your youthna, giving up is perfectlly acceptable when youve always been rejected. not that you would know this. You have the luxury of passive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/23 01:34 PM |
| – | How hard it is for you all to be social?its also that the social situations dont even exist anymore. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/23 01:08 PM |
| – | CMV: The normalization of women approaching men would also make it obvious who the 'players' are.woman deep down know they are fuccbois but go for them anyway, because for some bizarre reason they think they will be the exception to the rule and somehow change him ( lol ) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/23 12:58 PM |
| 11 | Just because older men are doing better than younger men , it doesn't mean it's not a problem to struggle in your youthbeing put off from dating is completely reasonable if everytime you do try u get shot down. men arent mentally invincible, rejection and alienation takes a toll. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/23 10:49 AM |
| 7 | Observing how my male and female friends adapt to reality as we age.if your an introverted man you literally have no other outlet than online dating, we live an extrovert world. social spaces are an extrovert's domain. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/23 10:47 AM |
| 1 | Why are women immediately turned off by guys who lack experience?IDK PROBABLY BECAUSE IM FUCKING UGLY | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/23 01:14 AM |
| 1 | Why are women immediately turned off by guys who lack experience?> me reading this thread as a 27 touchless virgin | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/23 01:13 AM |
| 3 | It seems dating is not for ugly people anymore, but it waseverything is just so fake and shallow and hollow. sometimes i think being an ugly virgin is a blessing because its like i can see past the walls of the matrix. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/23 12:32 AM |
| 25 | Observing how my male and female friends adapt to reality as we age.> They repeatedly date clones of the same guy, which is any attractive dude they can match with on OLD. The guy hits it, quits it, and the women are left scratching their heads - AND THEY KEEP DOING THE SAME THING increasingly large population of woman do this, maybe if they keep going for chad fuckboi he will eventually change right? fucking delusional beyond belief. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/23 12:29 AM |
| 3 | How do you explain most young women being in relationships?good luck surgerymaxxing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/23 12:23 AM |
| -1 | How do you explain most young women being in relationships?pretty self explanatory comment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/23 12:23 AM |
| 0 | How do you explain most young women being in relationships?liar. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/23 06:36 PM |
| 19 | How do you explain most young women being in relationships?because 20% of men are fucking 80% of woman. ive given up, the game is rigged and life is a bad joke | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/23 06:34 PM |
| 3 | Women aren't attracted to confidence, they hate confidence in men they don't find attractiveIdgaf if you call me pathetic , I'll gladly die a virgin at this point aslong as I can continue to watch Western society go down the shitter, let it all burn | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/23 12:06 AM |
| 10 | The truth is that majority of men won’t even approach/talk to women, yet they keep blaming them for the their lack of success.> approach woman > get rejected woweee that really changed things! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/23 05:24 PM |
| – | Do you guys honestly not understand where Redpilled and Blackpilled people are coming from?Your delusional plenty of immature chads have no issues getting woman, if maturity mattered you wouldn't have a growing number of 30+ virgin men. Your woman are wonderful argument is both pathetic and Simp behaviour. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/23 07:38 AM |
| 3 | Men cuck themselves every time they watch pornim not complaining im responding to OP's statement | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/23 06:25 PM |
| 2 | Men cuck themselves every time they watch pornno i gave up a while ago | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/23 05:03 PM |
| 12 | Men cuck themselves every time they watch pornreminds me of this pic <image> | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/23 04:15 PM |
| 2 | Men cuck themselves every time they watch pornmaybe reflect on simping for woman on the internet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/23 04:11 PM |
| 14 | Men cuck themselves every time they watch pornok? is that the best you got? oh no some woman on the internet called me a child how will i ever recover | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/23 01:55 PM |
| 8 | Men cuck themselves every time they watch pornnah im in this situation because im ugly + dating apps + modern society has made woman delusional about their looksmatch | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/23 01:54 PM |
| 6 | Men cuck themselves every time they watch pornim not cucking myself, a cuck is someone who has an adultrous wife. i dont know the woman or the man | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/23 01:53 PM |
| 47 | Men cuck themselves every time they watch pornCuck myself from what? Woman weren't even giving me a chance anyway. Porn is the only outlet I have for that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/23 08:22 AM |
| 3 | Women are outcompeting men in a number of areas, and it’s no mystery why men are falling behind in romancewhy play a rigged game, i find much more peace in giving up | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/23 08:05 AM |
| 2 | I believe autism is a bigger death sentence for your romantic prospects then looking uglyi hit a double whammy of being both ugly and autistic | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/23 07:59 PM |
| 1 | The average young man is objectively absolutely unappealing and it is a GOOD thing for the rest of men in general that he is not dating or having sexSimp | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 06:59 AM |
| 1 | Are average men really "struggling" to get relationships with girls?literally didnt say that. stop creating imaginary monsters to fight. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/23 08:36 AM |
| 4 | Are average men really "struggling" to get relationships with girls?plenty actually, pretending that such things dont affect dating is delusion or ignorance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/23 04:56 PM |
| 1 | Men also have a ticking clock until they become undesirable to women. That is why men should do anything to gain experience with them especially in terms of sex.or give up and become a hermit, like i have | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/23 08:20 AM |
| 19 | Are average men really "struggling" to get relationships with girls?i can only speak for myself but im a 27 white, 6f2 virgin. the other guy around my age at work is also single. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/23 08:16 AM |
| 1 | Why studs are trash. Addressing the consequences of hookup culture. Dynamics of healthy relationships. Adressing hypocrysies on the dating sphere. The good woman as a foundation for a healthy heterosexual relationship.woman choose this men in despite of their red flags, you get what you fucking deserve. zero sympathy for single mothers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/23 07:48 PM |
| 10 | Men with few options usually screw up the few options they hadim not being a dancing monkey for a woman, id rather die a virgin at this point tbh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/23 08:26 AM |
| 12 | There is no hook up cultureyour right its more like loose chad harems now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/23 08:16 AM |
| 6 | Why is being a virgin an indication that there is something wrong with guy?woman dont want to date someone who is seen as unattractive by other woman. speaking as a 27m virgin im familiar with this topic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/23 08:24 AM |
| 7 | Where do you people find „ugly” guys?because we are invisible to you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/23 08:12 AM |
| 1 | Are you guys in tune with the dating culture of your own country?no, not at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/23 11:43 PM |
| 6 | Would you rather be a tall, good looking (high functioning) autistic guy or a short unattractive neurotypical guypeople overestimate how beneficial height is, im 6ft2 white male but still a 27 virgin because face literally trumps all else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/23 08:04 AM |
| 2 | The situationship , a new, emerging form of relationshipliterally just a slang word to make woman feel better about being one of many in chad's harem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/23 10:46 PM |
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