LdeLolita Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Which man would you pick? Wise words, I like this!	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/02/23 05:43 PM
1	Most women sexually desire the same small percentage of men the most, based on the data. But most women aren’t dating those same few men. Does that mean most women are settling in their relationships for men they don’t find sexually desirable? The problem with this theory is that it ignores the fact that we can find many different types of people attractive, not just a certain look or type of person. Even if you bought into women finding the same small percentage of men attractive, it doesn't mean they only find those men attractive, it means that's where the overlap is. Like men, women can find attractiveness in different things, not just the top 5% or whatever.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/02/23 04:27 PM
31	How would you feel if your long term boyfriend had a personal "# of blowjobs before cohabitating" rule? This. I'm high libido but this could absolutely kill it for me. Sex should be something fun and a bonding activity, not something I do as a duty.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/02/23 04:17 PM
3	What caused you to raise your standards for dating someone? Lots of things limit your options. Being alone is better than settling.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/02/23 11:23 AM
1	What caused you to raise your standards for dating someone? Like a lot of women I went through some bad relationships, and eventually came to realize being on my own was better than being unhappy with someone else. I spent some time alone working on myself, and as my self-esteem improved realized I was worth more than what I had been settling for previously. When I decided to start dating again, I was much more intentional with the qualities I was looking for in a partner.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/02/23 11:19 PM
4	What caused you to raise your standards for dating someone? When the person is bringing above average money to the table, they have every right to seek the same.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/02/23 11:14 PM
2	Q4W: Do you feel the need to control interactions on dating apps even unconsciously and if so why? See, and I prefer to rule out guys who would ask if I have a cat o' nine tail on a first date before I waste my time in person. My time is very valuable to me, I don't want to waste it on every guy who asks in the first day of chatting.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/02/23 08:13 PM
7	If a woman having strong masculine traits is mostly irrelevant to men (e.g a high paying career) is a man having strong feminine traits irrelevant to women? I wouldn't date a guy who couldn't cook, do laundry or keep a clean place. It's so baseline that bar is on the floor. It's basic adulting.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/02/23 05:57 PM
1	Q4W: Do you feel the need to control interactions on dating apps even unconsciously and if so why? When I was on OLD I wouldn't talk to anyone without the intention of it going somewhere, but to know if it should go somewhere, you have to actually have conversations. You know how guys here are constantly saying choose better? You can't do that without vetting properly, something I see guys place very little emphasis on. Men will often try to get you to agree to a date just a few messages in. How would you even know you wanted to go on a date with me without asking me anything? I could have ju…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/02/23 03:45 PM
1	Where is the line between helping your partner with his insecurities, and being continuously controlled and micromanaged? You can't help people with their insecurities, that's something they have to work out between themselves and a professional if they can't tackle it on their own. The desire to help other people through their traumas stems from codependency and is a problem on its own that should be addressed. We can play a supportive role, but that's the best we can do, and it should never be to our own detriment.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/02/23 08:31 PM
4	How did your upbringing & relationship with your parents shape you in terms of dating? Pretty much this answer exactly. Bad home life meant daddy issues, anxious attachment and a lot of general emotional issues that took years to work out.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/02/23 08:27 PM
1	Red Flag, Green Flag Red flags: Post-wall Divorced Have kids Have slept with more than two people Green flags: Fit Attractive Make good money, zero debt Very kind and caring, generally consider myself to be a good person Emotional baggage has been worked out Consider personal improvement to be a lifelong goal	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/02/23 08:26 PM
1	What is the reason for why women find most men physically unattractive? What would we need to do I say this not to be mean, but because the question is being asked. Lose weight. Lose the neckbeard. Work out your emotional issues before entering the dating pool.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/02/23 08:21 PM
2	Valentine's day revolves around women because most relationships revolve around women. Right? I gave my guy gifts yesterday but Steak & BJ Day is still a holiday on my calendar and will be celebrated. Choose better, guys 🤷‍♀️	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/02/23 04:35 PM
3	Is there something we can do to help raise women's self-esteem? I took psychology in high school, they didn't even mention anything like that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/23 02:30 PM