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There’s a recent twitter/meme trend, making fun of people who choose bad places for dates or hook ups. Personal favorites are “Introverts will be like ‘I know a spot’ and then go home.” “Boys will be like ‘I know a spot’ and then take you to rock bottom.” “I’m gonna tell boys ‘I know a spot’ and drop them off with a therapist.”
/r/seduction09/09/20 04:36 AM
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If you want to think about human interaction like that then that’s your prerogative. I think that’s really cynical and I wouldn’t want to live thinking like that. Plus that explanation normalizes manipulative behavior and implies that since everyone does it it’s normal and fine. Which is not true. And plus, I don’t think your explanation really holds up. Yes, maybe every social interaction is a sort of manipulation. However, normal healthy people do not view other people as expendable tools to g…
/r/seduction04/07/20 10:35 PM
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Firstly, I was speaking with a generalization, which is never going to 100% accurate. And psychopaths lie outside of normal human behavior. I’d say women’s lizard brains don’t recognize them because there aren’t typically enough psychopaths to drive adaption away from them. And plus, psychopaths and sociopaths are intelligent, manipulative, and know how to present themselves positively. Women don’t fall for the psychopath, they fall for the image the psychopath presents to them.
/r/seduction04/07/20 09:26 PM
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I’m personally of the opinion that women want relationships with MEN. Confident, capable, caring, mature, fun, and unique men. Women can be attracted to bad boys OR nice guys (and I disagree that these labels need to be throw out, because they absolutely DO describe real social distinctions), but I think women are attracted to the positive traits of either the bad boy or nice guy which stem from being a good man, and simply overlook the shortcomings of the man they’re with. They like that nice g…
/r/seduction04/07/20 08:54 PM
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The premise of this post was that you don’t need to be afraid of the ‘friend zone’ during early encounters. Which means we aren’t talking about a woman you have feelings for, just one you find attractive. If you can’t manage to have a friendly relationship with attractive women, I have bad news for you: you see women solely as sexual objects.
/r/seduction26/06/20 03:43 AM
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We’re talking about early encounters here, so we aren’t talking about a girl you’ve developed feelings for. We’re just talking about an attractive girl. Please don’t tell me you can’t just be friends with attractive people. Women are not solely sexual objects for you attainment.
/r/seduction26/06/20 03:40 AM
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Literally. Dudes should be happy to be put in the ‘friend zone’. Having female friends makes it infinitely easier to meet other women. It’s social credit.
/r/seduction25/06/20 10:59 PM
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Not a turn on really if I wasn’t already marginally attracted to the girl. If I was, I would be standing at attention most likely.
/r/seduction30/05/20 03:50 AM
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I’m sorry but I disagree. Some people suck at communicating and some are truly just not interesting, no matter how much you try to get to know them. And it is not your job (or worth your effort) to do all the work whenever you talk to a girl, just because she’s the one that reached out.
/r/seduction15/05/20 02:11 PM
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Needing someone to confirm that your attractive, capable, or valued. Needing to be reaffirmed that they’re serious about you.
/r/seduction01/04/20 01:09 AM
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Seeking/needing validation, attention, and reassurance. Relying too heavily on the other person. It means you can’t fully take care of yourself and don’t really know who you are outside of the relationship. Girls don’t tend to want a child to take care of, they want a partner they can rely on and who can enhance their life.
/r/seduction01/04/20 01:04 AM
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There is a LOT of truth in this, but I don't think this is entirely true. There are some good skills/principles to learn here that can help you get the attention of a woman and ensure that she is viewing you as a potential romantic/sexual partner. Past that, you are right, you are going to have to be yourself if you want to actually have a relationship. But some of us definitely need to be taught how to get their foot in the door.
/r/seduction04/03/20 02:42 AM
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Do females really need this?
/r/seduction14/02/20 02:43 AM
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I’m a (psuedo) professional track athlete. I get travel, lodging, and entry compensation from my club and I compete and pace races for prize money. I spend at least two hours a day training or recovering from that, and it happens to be a true passion of mine. I can talk about training theory, technique, race tactics, or track history indefinitely if you let me. I’m a bit of a nerd and still relatively new to DnD, so if I’m on the right wavelength with a girl I get to share the wonder of discover…
/r/seduction07/02/20 12:38 AM
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The ‘sharing you past’ is kind of the introductory phase of emotional intimacy. If you’re already doing that then you need to move on to talking about your present and future. So look at my first response’s first paragraph. Find something you can be excited to do every day, something that maybe gets you out around other people. Something you enjoy. Find something you can get ambitious about or makes you excited for the future. Maybe you train for a marathon: that’s an interesting part of your li…
/r/seduction06/02/20 02:57 PM
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Yes because girls want to know everything about you when they get interested and she feels like you haven’t shared everything about yourself. She wants you to be vulnerable and trust her, and above all she wants you to WANT to share things with her. If you can’t do that now you’re either subconsciously avoiding that intimacy or you need to find/create more interesting things to share. Another thing you can do to is talk about your past. Happy summertime memories, crazy lunchroom stories, college…
/r/seduction06/02/20 02:41 PM
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Completely aside from this relationship you need to find some other things to do with your life. Something that makes you excited to get through your day. Pick up a hobby, like DnD or rock climbing or home brew beer brewing. Find something you can enjoy talking about... not so you have something you like to talk about, but so you can feel like your life has purpose and you can share interests with people in those social circles. That’s the most important part. Second part here is it sounds like …
/r/seduction06/02/20 02:28 PM
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The truth. I have a pretty low number (by virtue of consistently being in ltr’s) so I don’t have to worry about coming across as some kind of horn dog. I also absolutely suck at lying
/r/seduction05/02/20 07:59 PM
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A smaller number of men are pulling a proportionally higher number of women, because women have higher standards than men do. Which makes you think men would have more relationships cuz they’ll take anything, but the bottom tier men have no chance at actually getting a gf, whereas even the least attractive girls have a chance.
/r/seduction04/02/20 01:28 AM
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If it ever worked I doubt it stopped working. I just suspect that it doesn’t have a high rate of accuracy, based on my own experiences and cynicism.
/r/seduction31/01/20 07:16 PM
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I’d say that the height of the fence isn’t what is changing, it’s the desirability of the fruit on the other side. Her resistance will stay the same, but if the guy is more desirable to her then it is more likely to overcome her resistance. I’ve never used this test but honestly it looks like self-important freshman in undergrad level pseudo-psychology. Especially the part about “the number of berries represents the number of people you could be in love or lust with at the same time.” I’d steal …
/r/seduction31/01/20 06:56 PM
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It’s creepy if you’re creepy or pushy. If you’re being an easy-going person, you make decent conversation, and you jump ship when you realize she’s not interested it’s not creepy. Also, it’s possible that EVERYTHING about dating is going to feel weird to you. You just got out of a 6 year relationship. I had to completely relearn how to interact with women after the dissolution of my 4 year relationship
/r/seduction31/01/20 03:22 PM
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This is called having social anxiety. It happens to a lot of people and varying degrees. Your inhibitions are preventing you relaxing and fully engaging. Alcohol lowers inhibitions. Its possible you just need to get out of your own head and start giving fewer fucks when you're sober. But the way I got out of it was by realizing that it was being caused by more deeply rooted issues and going to therapy.
/r/seduction08/01/20 05:18 PM
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It sounds to me like this particular girl was either more serious about you than you expected (and was hoping for more consistent interaction) or is simply high maintenance. "You literally haven't texted me since Saturday" is an angry response. I personally doubt that she's trying to flake. Just ask her if she wants to reschedule for another day. If she says yes then cool, if she says no well you don't exactly lose anything. If she says yes then I'm inclined to believe that she's expecting consi…
/r/seduction08/01/20 04:28 PM
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I briefly dated a close friends sister. It was a little weird, but only because there was more overlap between friend/gf than I was used to. Assuming everyone involved is a reasonable person, and assuming you are going to be a stand up guy, it shouldn’t change your relationship even if you breakup. Now if anyone involved is not a reasonable person, or you’re a shitty boyfriend, then yes, the whole thing is a bad idea.
/r/seduction03/01/20 10:32 PM
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Yes, aspects of the triad are useful in everyday life, but basically only up to the point that people don’t realize really that you are using them. People tend to despise actual psychopaths, narcissists, and Machiavellian types, and displaying more than a bit of all three is a good way to make people hate you. Cuz you won’t be a good person.
/r/seduction03/01/20 02:35 PM
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Some people are attracted to narcissists. IME it’s the people with underlying psychological issues. Many more people are attracted to the narcissists who keep their dysfunction under wraps enough that they just appear confident. It’s the confidence that people are actually attracted to.
/r/seduction03/01/20 02:25 PM
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If she is keeping guys within easy reach who are interested I’m inclined to throw up at least a yellow flag. Some girls aren’t trying to keep those guys around and are genuinely just friendly people who can have platonic relationships with dudes. But some girls are keeping these dudes in orbit for ego boosts or ease of access, and that’s a no go for me. Unfortunately you kinda need to decipher which it is on a case by case basis.
/r/seduction28/12/19 03:35 PM
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I think you’re spot on. I believe that at some point you need a partner, someone you’re excited about and you want to hear from an share everything with. A confidant. That’s the type of loneliness that gets me. The first kind you mentioned actually doesn’t bother me at all. I’d also like to add that this second type of loneliness can also be massively worsened by having and then losing a lover/confidant. Because not only do you not have it but you also know precisely what you are missing out on.
/r/seduction26/12/19 04:29 PM
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Drastically. My last long term girlfriend was no slouch in the looks department but for a couple years there I truly saw her as the most beautiful woman on the planet.
/r/seduction26/12/19 04:22 PM
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