LeMayhem Archive

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1	First date proposal's been ignored. Should I try a 2nd? To be quite fair, I feel like this case is a lost one. I'm pretty sure that You didn't build enough comfort/attraction before setting up the meeting. If she was truely interested She would've rescheduled or ofcourse answered. You could always just ask what went wrong or w/e just for the purpose of learning.	/r/seduction	21/03/19 10:31 PM
10	How do I stop being a nice guy? I'm gonna assume that you're just trying your best to be liked by everyone? If so, stop immediatly. The moment people actually dislike you, is the moment you're doing good. If it's the majority, then it's no good. Find a balance is being true and harsh at times needed, and ''nice'' at other times. Make sure they're justified. When people say ''being'' the nice guy, just spells out lack of confidence.	/r/seduction	21/03/19 10:26 PM
1	How do I make the first move without being creepy when a girl invites me to her home? Always start with light kino, just slowly build your way up. It's like testing the waters to see if She's truely interested, which by the fact that she invited you over ''to watch a movie'' is probably enough of a signal. There is nothing wrong with showing intent, i'm not sure who chained you up on this in the past, but let go of that mindset of ''akwardness''.Try kino once, she might neglect because she's nervous af, if she still doesn't bite the second time, it's probably done for. But atleas…	/r/seduction	21/03/19 10:22 PM
3	How to not lose my empathy and loving, caring personality? What sadboi1225 has mentioned is very true, I've been on both sides, but the way he explained things is what eventually pushed me into the right direction. It's advice that's given a lot, but it holds a lot of meaning. The problem with a lot of people that try to learn on how to become good with women tend to forget the many truely important aspects of attraction and are pushed into some strange form of tunnelvision on how ''the game'' works. Rather then looking at it from the outside, try to fi…	/r/seduction	21/03/19 10:17 PM
2	I was stood up You got her to initially agree to go out with you, that's further then many people get. I'm sure You'll do even better next time and the flakes become less & less. I struggled with it a lot at the beginning aswell, but I haven't had the issue for more then a year, not once.	/r/seduction	21/03/19 09:54 PM
1	Talk to alot of people at parties and such, but never make real friends out of it I absolutely love your post, and you are 100% correct. it's all about being genuine, and what most people do not seem to realise, is that they are not forming bands because they lack identification, they are merely being puppets by seeking validation.	/r/seduction	02/01/18 05:20 PM
3	How to be more audacious with women ? I think it lies in the issue that most guys seem to forget, which is that we are almost all raised to treat people equally, resulting in trying to befriend girls rather then expressing our sexuality towards them. When you talk to most people about being sexual towards girls, they start sweating, this should say enough. If you want to start dating girls, you have got to treat them differently. Be open about your sexuality, flirt with them, be honest, be confident in you as a person, that's how yo…	/r/seduction	02/01/18 04:53 PM
1	Very salty about this Flake, help me discover why. Ofcourse, i have a new one set for tommorow but still, it'd be cool to up my game, and it's not gonna happen if i don't know where i'm lacking. Convo skills maybe? We had good talks, i'm sure she has had a ton of matches, but everything went well up till that point. A date can't hurt right?	/r/seduction	11/12/16 03:03 PM
1	Amazing night! RSDFreetour, met some wings, and got over my life sucking approach anxiety all in one night. Yeah, I had similar experiences in the past. It's crazy how much i was influenced by who i'd go with, guess it's because people around you who are shy as fuck sort of DHV you as a person aswell. That's why i decided to sarge alone and when i go out, people are well aware that i'll probably be gone after a bit of time. Met new people though who are very similar, one guy who's way better then me which brings on that sense of competition again.	/r/seduction	08/07/16 05:39 PM
1	There's this girl that's busy. And doesn't text much. She talks nicely when she has time. But is usually busy, so I can't meet her or text that much yet. I'm impatient. Should I just say 'fuck it' and tell her she's my crush? Not a good idea, no. Did you try arrange a meeting with her? She says she's too busy? Time to move on. If the interest was somehow mutual, she'd have some time for you. If you never asked her out before, just do it and decide after you got your answer.	/r/seduction	08/07/16 05:37 PM
2	How can I develop a social life? I thought exactly the same as you did, how am i supposed to meet random people by saying hi? It's just a matter of timing. When they're walking down the street towards work then 9/10 they will say hi and run off. Try and come up with a conversation? Ask directions and start holding a personal conversation if you see a person walking by. It's easier in foreign countries for sure. You could also try and find a couple of hobbies, i go snowboarding and to the gym atleast 6/7 a week. Besides that i a…	/r/seduction	16/06/16 03:00 PM
13	How can I develop a social life? Yeah man, socializing is all about taking initiative really.. Nothing more, nothing less. You could easily meet a few people a day if you'd just say hi to everyone you passed. If you do the effort you should be doing, you'd be unable to keep up with the invites.	/r/seduction	15/06/16 10:00 PM
1	Searching for a quick and effective way to strike up a conversation. I guess that could work. I tend to mention that i'm not into facebook that much and prefer to have an actual face-to-face meeting too girls. Are you certain that a bit of small talk would be less effective tho? The sexy voice part actually made me laugh, but i'm afraid that that isn't the case for me, or atleast i believe so. When i'm tired and not in the mood, i don't really mind not opening up as it's just not a priority for me at that point.	/r/seduction	19/05/14 03:44 AM