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| 4 | If you could guarantee up to three personality traits in your future partner, what would they be?He’s gotta be conscientious, compassionate, humorous | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/25 04:42 AM |
| 6 | Decentering men, the 4B Movement, MGTOW & "monk mode" are all just copes for men and women who are sexually unsuccessful or failed at dating.Ah. I’d agree if that’s the case? If they’re lying and saying that their lack of relationships is voluntary when they were actually looking for or wanting relationships and failing. But your original post makes it seem like you’re referring to the people who stopped trying and subsequently decentred men/women. Because decentering could also refer to not caring about being undesirable anymore, not just being in “monk mode”. I’d recommend that to more people, tbh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/25 04:02 PM |
| 15 | Decentering men, the 4B Movement, MGTOW & "monk mode" are all just copes for men and women who are sexually unsuccessful or failed at dating.If someone has no luck with relationships, they generally have two options: 1) Keep trying to get some 2) focus their energy elsewhere (And a third cursed option-whining and hating the opposite sex) They’re walking away from trying, if that makes things clearer? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/25 03:40 PM |
| 24 | Decentering men, the 4B Movement, MGTOW & "monk mode" are all just copes for men and women who are sexually unsuccessful or failed at dating.I get the sentiment..but there’s some nuance to it. You can be undesirable and still voluntarily “walk away” as long as you actually do-you stop trying or actually live your life. I.e. actually decentering romantic relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/25 03:15 PM |
| 1 | CMV: "financial abortion" should not be allowedI can see where you’re coming from though I disagree. if I see a woman who’s woefully unprepared to be a mother, my thought process is more “you shouldn’t have sex then” as opposed to “you should’ve aborted regardless of your wishes” (though this is just a matter of opinions). That said, I would still be in support of charity and financial aid for her situation. Emotionally because I’m not convinced it’s a choice made freely (even for pro choice women), but logically it’s the best thing to do fo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/24 04:29 PM |
| 3 | CMV: "financial abortion" should not be allowedIt is a shitty situation where my emotional and logical reaction differs lol. Logically I see this as an unfortunate reality that comes with one sex getting pregnant (they have a unique right to autonomy where pregnancy is concerned), though emotionally I do feel it’s the right thing to do to have a conversation together and ensure a plan in place. That aside…One thing I don’t really see people mentioning about is that a lot of these scenarios assume the mother to be “morally ok” with abortion. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/24 04:04 PM |
| 2 | CMV: "financial abortion" should not be allowedAs someone who doesn’t have a firm stance yet, but leaning pro choice atm, I think it’s because the pro choice position is that you’re preventing a person from existing (person typically being defined as a being with consciousness), so no harm is being done to a person. Whilst a financial abortion is harm being done to a person that already exists. Hence they’re not comparable options. A lot of times such arguments are being made through the lens of fairness which I empathise, but it not always … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/24 03:38 PM |
| 1 | If you demand a paternity test, you are calling your baby mama a cheating whore.Not the best analogy as having an escape plan is saying that that he might do something in the future, but asking for a paternity test is saying that she has already committed adultery. I can’t think of an equivalent analogy though. I know of a woman who said she would (repeatedly and directly) check in on her daughters if their stepdad (or dad, can’t remember) touched them when they were left alone with him “just to be safe”, but that relationship rightfully ended when he found out bc clearly s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/24 04:40 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Your wife is not your mommy. Wives should stop enabling husbands.the account is labelled as satire (caption in the video as well). I believe this is a parody of another TikToker who said she doesn’t do her husbands laundry/certain chores (although that woman is a working mom so I feel the division is pretty justified, although very rigid imo) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/24 03:33 PM |
| 0 | If virginity in men is a red flag for you, after which age would you consider it a red flag and why?I’m waiting (at least that’s the plan, don’t make fun) so it’s not a red flag for me given that they share the same values as me. I don’t care all that much if they are already compatible, so if men were to say the same..I don’t see the problem tbh? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/21 05:59 AM |
| 3 | "Put your finger in the coffee, it'll make it sweeter": endearing or Harvey Weinstein?Something like I have no right to say that the girl in the blog is not traumatised (which I wasn’t at all) lool | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/21 04:16 PM |
| 7 | "Put your finger in the coffee, it'll make it sweeter": endearing or Harvey Weinstein?Yea. I notice older people use their age as an excuse to flirt with people much younger than them. To me it feels creepier than someone of my age (if we take away threat of violence) because the older person isn’t doing it to actually be with you, they’re doing it for their own entertainment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/21 04:07 PM |
| 6 | "Put your finger in the coffee, it'll make it sweeter": endearing or Harvey Weinstein?OP is asking for our opinions about getting that comment, and I did that. Girl r u okay? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/21 03:58 PM |
| 3 | "Put your finger in the coffee, it'll make it sweeter": endearing or Harvey Weinstein?It’s just a gross comment. Not traumatic or anything. I’ve been hit on by two different men when I was serving customers before-one was genuinely flirting and while I wasn’t interested and he was incredibly awkward and blunt, I didn’t find it creepy because you can sense he was genuinely just trying to talk to me. Edit: not that I recommend flirting with staff in general, many women I know don’t like it at all. I am personally okay as long as they are respectful and give me security (e.g underst… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/21 03:53 PM |
| 5 | Are high income blue collar men attractive to modern women?It’s a fair point to say we need to be able to get along with others-but why would you want to be with someone with fundamentally different views? That will just start up a whole lotta fights in the future-e.g your child being trans, wife having an unwanted pregnancy and wanting to abort, wife wanting to start a career. You may also generally don’t want to marry a partner who disagree or is unempathetic of issues that mean a lot to you. I’m not even that liberal socially but I would feel hurt if… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/21 06:33 AM |
| 1 | Women, describe a physically "universally attractive man" which encompasses what you feel is attractive and what the majority of women also find attractiveI’m not gonna dive into the whole gender discussion, but as a skincare nerd I just want to say that while testosterone does affect oil production, it doesn’t require gendered products! More often that not, products for men are more “stripping” and heavily fragranced with more irritating ingredients such as menthol! I don’t think men need conditioner if they have short hair (you can look greasy quite quickly unless you have natural curly/coily hair), but as for shampoo or things like face wash, y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/21 02:05 AM |
| 2 | Why do men avoid "sluts" for LTR/marriageMost guys here then? I'm excluding men who want virgins as they're usually religious, and according to their faith they shouldn't be sleeping around either. So those guys shouldn't be relevant in these discussions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/20 04:22 PM |
| 1 | Why do men avoid "sluts" for LTR/marriageAdvocate seems like a strong term. Are they really encouraging people to marry sluts, or are they saying you shouldn't be disgusted? In the case of the panties, it's gross even when it's used by one person, or used by a hundred. It's the fact that it's not meant to be used in the first place. With people, guys are okay with a woman with a body count of 1 even if she had sex every day for a year, VS a woman who had sex with 20 different guys. It's just psychological. It isn't 'inherently' icky, s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/20 03:41 PM |
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