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DISCUSSIONLea_Ugly_Lea/r/RedPillWomen12/05/23 04:38 PM
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Ballet Adult Classes or Yoga/Pilates, they help you to rebuild a more feminine body and posture.
/r/RedPillWomen26/05/23 08:20 AM
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Spot on! There is a difference between, don't vote the same party to have massive religious and values differences, OP. One can be easily overcome by talking in a civil matter and respect the other person views. The other one touches intimate things like religion values, which are not easy to change or dismiss.
/r/RedPillWomen23/05/23 11:59 PM
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I wish there were data comparing the trajectory of dating-app-meet couples vs. IRL-meet couples on their path to marriage. Is one group faster, slower? Is one group more likely to have started non-exclusive? Is one group more likely to have changed their original intentions from meeting? Does meeting online vs. offline impact long-term marital success? I watched an interesting debate on a channel that I follow about these questions, and the moderator was great on moving the usual conservation to…
/r/RedPillWomen23/05/23 11:55 PM
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No, avoid! Very rarely they do work, especially after 25-28 age range. I feel the younger generation could use app more fluidly as they grew up with that concept as part of the dating life. HVMs use the apps when they want to have fun and very rarely are there looking for a relationship. If you are part of a niche (religion, hobby) it could be different, however as someone who used the niche apps for so long, I feel like it's super easy to appear serious but have a shallow mentality and reject/r…
/r/RedPillWomen23/05/23 11:50 PM
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I mean, I don't live in US, but if you play with loopholes, you risk to get caught and severely fined/black listed. I understand the desire to save, but you are right, it is now a moral issue between you and him. never finishes what he starts and hangs out with friends who seemingly ditches their joint projects midway. I found this way more problematic than the actual saving by playing games. If he has no ability to finish things or hangs out with friends who are very casual/chaotic and do not e…
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/23 08:50 PM
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Lucky you! Hope you will have a safe delivery, congrats!
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/23 08:44 PM
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you are posting everywhere, calm down. Take a break. It was the first date, concentrate on movies or friends and look for guy number two. Ignore this guy.
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/23 08:31 PM
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As a experienced placeholder here is what I learn (this is a generalisation): -Inability to commit or label things as official in the way you want. -Inability to plan dates/going out, usually always proposing the same place, the same routine. -He is sometimes off, from online or from the conversation. This is telling in the first few months. -He gets nervous around other people, relatives and families. -Access to sex is the only area is making an effort that it's constant. Sometimes he makes you…
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/23 06:36 PM
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The wall for men it is retirement age or were they are not able to produce or provide at the same level. If you can't, you can still bang some young women.
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/23 06:14 PM
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That girl changed my life in a certain way. Amazing content.
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/23 04:07 PM
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Bone cancer advanced, unfortunately.
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/23 02:20 PM
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Thank you. I am actually relief that I don't have a husband or kids, my death will not impact people that much. That's probably the divine order fixing things for me in that way.
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/23 01:26 PM
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I got lucky, it's unlikely I would reach 4 years solo. I just desperately need to wake up and live my life solo with dignity and some femininity as long I am still functioning.
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/23 01:09 PM
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I have been following RP since I was young, so I was not into this after years of faulty frame. I never watched men's beauty and only income/ability to provide. My OP was about maintaining RP now that I failed and I have couple of years left to live due to cancer.
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/23 01:07 PM
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This can become cyclical. You feel bad so you treat yourself badly. You treat yourself badly so it makes you feel bad. It's a hard cycle to break. I think you might be in it. You may not see the point in breaking it because you seem to see yourself as a poor investment of even your own time. This is where I am at and would love to move away from. I don't need a full beauty routine, but if I can at least try to not feel so bad or fixated on the past and my mistakes and see this as punishment for …
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/23 09:32 PM
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What stands out to me the most from your post and comments is that you don't appear to know how to make someone happy. Not a man, not yourself. 100%, not myself and not others, from family to men. Thank you for the video, it really help! To work around things in general and not related in a romantic way. Unfortunately, my illness has no great prognosis and if I am lucky I will be around for 3-4 years. Hopefully, still functional for the most part. So I truly need to avoid thinking about possible…
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/23 08:29 PM
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My sister is still a resident med student, but she married at 26. One of the thing she did that I can suggest is to build 1 hobby that is outside medicine and school. For her was environmental stuff, like cleaning woods from plastics and such. Her husband is just a couple of years older and they kept meet each other in those occasion. She is very feminine outside of work, has a nice figure and is very polite and sometimes detached interest (meaning she would not jump but wait for the men to make…
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/23 07:50 PM
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Social skills for sure, I rarely engage with people anymore, mainly because I am still getting through the diagnosis.
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/23 06:41 PM
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It exists, but has no specific age. Some women hit the wall at 50s, others at 80s or others 30s.
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/23 06:29 PM
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accepted that I'd be happier single than settling for a man who couldn't make me happy, That is the part I want to work. I want to be able to be okay with this solo life and not feel like a failure for not being able to be chosen/selected. The driving instructor was after I stopped following my mother's advice. He was not convince he wanted to marry me/build a future and ended up closing the relationship as he didn't want to commit. Sad thing is that I was not the one for me as he was engage in …
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/23 01:32 PM
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Also, please don’t hastily close the door on the possibility of love. I feel like due to the very scarce success prior and the complexity of my illness, I don't have the energy or the healthy mindset to be a valuable partner. I need to accept that and move away from romantic life. Yes my worry is being solo than single. I struggle to attract friendships too.
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/23 01:23 PM
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f it is your wish to lie down and die gracefully, you go on and do that. That's what I am going towards too, due to the complexity of my case. Maybe I will be lucky and get 3-4 years out of it, and I would love to concentrate whatever energy I have left to just be by myself and maintain some feminine characteristic. Butt thank you very much for your advice and comment.
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/23 01:21 PM
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Thank you that's what I needed, reorganising my feminine side towards my family.
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/23 01:18 PM
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It's becoming a problem for sure. I have been ill for quite something with something else, and my feminine upkeep went to the toilet, plus gaining weight, now I have the bad C, so that is another massive issue. Some days are better and others are gloomy. My Op was to find a new frame for being solo and staying solo.
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/23 01:16 PM
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I don't think I will leave it up, as i think I did not express my thoughts correctly. I think I am taking this illness and most likely short death as an L and as a divine sign that it was not meant and I am not going to achieve my romantic and familial goals. I never cried or felt weird, as I am at least not living children behind or someone I love. Stoic is not what I do nowdays.
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/23 11:51 PM
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Maybe if I survive to this thing, despite the low chance. But yeah you are right, I need to step back from theory.
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/23 11:48 PM
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The illness is unfortunately quite recent, the dating was downhill since my 20s. But I guess I needed to put it writing to see how bad I was/I am. Now I am literally forced to something else, if I survive of course.
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/23 10:18 PM
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It's okay, it is a sign it was never meant to be and at least I don't have a child to worry about. Way better like this.
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/23 10:13 PM
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I express myself wrongly in the post, therefore I am confusing everyone, but thank you for understanding.
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/23 10:12 PM
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At this point of my life one friend who now lives far away. My best friends of my 20s are married with kids or such and changed their habits and lifestyles. And I probably should add, for honesty, that I am most likely weird and a crappy person to be friend with, otherwise I would be in a different mindset.
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/23 09:07 PM
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Try to ask your mother specifics about what your dad was like before they were married. You don't have to get too in the weeds cause that can get a bit weird, but questions like "how did you guys fight?" "How did he respond if he hurt you?" "did you have doubts?" might help you get a better idea of what the green flags are for men your age. Ask for honesty, and explain that you're struggling to know what to look for. Believe spent so much time, investigating my mother's relationship and my dad q…
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/23 09:06 PM
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Thank you for such kind offer! Unfortunately, I am not able to do it. But thank you so much, even the offer warms my heart.
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/23 09:01 PM
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I am a long time fan of Adrienne, since her car-videos! And love the podcast format now. I did applied lots of your advice back in my peak time, but now due to my illness and previous scarce result, I was looking for other type of advice. But I thank you so much. I was avoid her content for couple of month and even took off her page from my feed. I will peek and look over Adrienne's stuff!
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/23 09:01 PM
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I think I made a mistake on posting here, but thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/23 08:56 PM
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It's that you don't have anything to offer a high value man. Absolutely correct. What do you offer a man, that he wants, and that other women do not? Nothing. Not something someone else have or is able to really get that presented in such a powerful way. So I really have nothing to offer that it's unique/important/valuable. ​ Do not seek a high value man, seek a man who is high value when placed in the context of a great life for YOU. They are not the same thing. That's something that's so valua…
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/23 08:55 PM
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I think you are right.
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/23 08:45 PM
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What I meant is that I was looking for someone stable - able to provide for something, not all of it. My mother always pushed me toward hypergamy ideals but the person I liked the most and wanted to marry years ago was a driving instructor. It's just don't want to be the main breadwinner who then goes home and has to take care of the household+kids. But I am not looking for that anymore, just balance out the single life. Thank you very much for your comment and wish you all the best and blessing…
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/23 07:41 PM
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I am going soon to therapy because I am ill with cancer, so I am forced to at least go at one session. Will see what they say. Tbh, my father never had major flaws, never treated me or acted in a way that I will say had negative impact or even things that he did to himself that was detrimential. I will say he even became a better parent now that he has more time to spend with us, especially the younger ones. I am not going to date again, I don't think I am right for it in general and my frame/ab…
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/23 07:35 PM
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I noticed that there was no content at all, and was wondering. You are probably right, I should find some other subs/concepts for the future, if I will have one. Thank you very much for double checking.
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/23 07:28 PM
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Look at the character flaws your father has, was he loving towards you? My father has no flaws, well the only thing that can be seen as negative is his passion for cars and fast driving. But he renounced that for my mother's sake. Really stop this negativity. Stop looking at what you don't have. Please. I have to admit it's extremely hard to not do it now that I am ill. But it's what I am trying to do if I get to live more years. I need to just be content of what I have and live a life without w…
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/23 05:50 PM
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Because they are following is minimal if they are not white. Tons of expert explained that words like black/dark skinned gets the account blacklisted and black content creators of any kind, don't get pushed in the algorithm game. So lots of black people are not there to put curated content knowing that it will never go beyond the small circle of friends.
/r/RedPillWomen09/05/23 08:03 AM
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To be hones some of this online profiles were okay and some of the first articles where like just lazy effort to explain that some women prefer to stay at home. Then a couple of this tradwife started to talk to the media, racking huge following, and boom. The are ruining the larger discussion. I don't think it's journalists fault (apart being super lazy). Some of these social media girls are there for the money, they couldn't care less about the actual larger discussion.
/r/RedPillWomen09/05/23 08:01 AM
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In a certain sense, I am a red pillers. +30. But it didn't work for me, and I let the relationship part behind me. I am trying to re-read things within the red pill that have focus on other stuff.
/r/RedPillWomen15/04/23 10:06 PM
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