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Right but this is disingenuous way to present statistics. Men shoot up places because of sexual frustration at a rate 1,000,000 times more than women do! Okay. That sounds like nobody should leave their homes today! But wait! So, for every school shooting in the USA how many are directly tied to incel-dom or misogyny? And for every person who dies in school shootings how many die every day by drunk drivers? You can walk in fear of some gun-toting incel all you want but you should be more afraid …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 06:44 PM
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What he's saying is you're conflating male loneliness or men who struggle in dating with the incel community, exclusively. You're part of the mindless mob that lumps any and all men having any problem at all with women in the incel box. Stop doing that. It's gross. And dumb. Not all men having a rough time identify as being involuntarily celibate. It's a buzzword people should really stop using the way they're using it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 05:33 PM
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Teenage girls are being driven to suicide by cruel mobs of kids too. I have a daughter. I've even intervened once. Boy, did my daughter learn a thing or two about bully slaying that day. Great bonding experience though. But she swears at people on the internet more now. And that's okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 05:28 PM
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Ever think #metoo has had a chilling effect on men approaching women? And this much I know. An attractive woman might be put off by some male attention. But a bitter jaded women can be outright HOSTILE by male attention. Most men don't want a scene in public. Besides, women took the mating game onto the phones. It's safer for the women AND the men. He can get rejected 1000 times in one day, silently, and nobody has a clue. Hurts less without the red-faced walk to your car.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 05:20 PM
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People say all men struggling with sex and love are incels. People suck at statistics and math. Incel in 2023 is what "fag" was as a slur 40 years ago. 40 years ago school kids were calling every guy "fag". Today, the word is "incel".
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 05:18 PM
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Both men and women are on average happier when in a relationship. That's what people pushing relationships and marriage sell. Relationships for me were always more headache and stress and drama than they were worth. I got more sex and had more fun and enjoyed more hobbies as a single guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 07:37 PM
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So 40 year old women should pay for nice fresh sperm from sum yung guy. Nobody says they need to get impregnated by some dudes bad sperm. Women are scorned heavily for smoking or drinking during pregnancy. Ever hear of a man stopping all drugs, smoking and drinking and eating well for optimal sperm health? Some men do this. I was a non-smoker non-drinker when I "made" the babies. But, that was a coincidence more than anything. I can't see a guy having "quality" sperm if he's a heavy drinker or d…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 04:46 PM
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People "know" what they know. Their red flags are what they are. Maybe that person devoted themselves to charitable work for 10 years. Maybe they had a major career challenge they rose up to and didn't have time. Maybe they were caring for a dying relative with a wasting disease. Meh. If people want to "write people off" that's their business. I had friends that used to sweat employment gaps or a bad experience where they quit right away and I said: "Dude, it's not your fucking taxes. It's your …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 04:17 AM

I know a lot of guys here talk about how we are all broken/for the streets/never relationship material, but men like you and my own lover give me faith back in humanity. Well, sorry to smash your (lovely) opinion of me, but I'm one of those guys now. I just don't think I could do it again - try to help someone with that level of trauma. So many things try to make a marriage crumble. Her past trauma and physical and mental health issues were a big load. Not sure which specific burden made our mar…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 12:22 AM

Those might be the male-on-male rapists they were referring to...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 11:53 PM

Most of these guys are eventually going to get it wet.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 11:52 PM

Yup. Mine was my stepfather. 7 years of pedo bullshit and gaslighting. I hope his entire pelvis rots away from gangrene. Fuck him. I hope he gets what you said and it spreads to his face. Sorry you had to experience that. My ex-wife was a child sexual assault survivor. Just being a witness to her suffering was traumatic. Men like that... I would shove them off a bridge deck, walk home and then sleep like a baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 11:46 PM

1/3 of young men are sexless. Fuck, seems about the same number as when I was a kid. 1/3 of men being sexless does not mean 1/3 of men identify as being incel. Most young men know that one day, some way, some how, some girl will sit on their dink and make it wet. I was an unpopular social trainwreck and even I knew that one day it was going to happen. You can't walk that many miles with a raging hard on without it eventually finding it's way into a pussy somewhere. It's just not possible from a …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 11:29 PM

Forcing women to date these men is a terrible idea, I agree 100% Jesus Christ. That this even needs to be said. YES. It's a HORRIFIC idea. Like eugenics, racial cleansing and every other fucked up fascist social engineering idea thought up since the dawn of time. I mean, legalize prostitution for fucks sakes, but getting a card through the door "Citizen 1301445, Your Date for Friday Night Will be Citizen 1619324. Please act cordially. Thank you." Like how fucking Orwellian is it to even think of…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 11:23 PM

Yes, nothing like having a frightened prisoner who relies on your for food and shelter pretend they love you. Barf. These same Mad Men were all angry alcoholics. They knew they were not loved for who they were. They'd come home drunk and beat their prisoner for no other reason than their own pathetic self loathing. I'd rather be naturally rejected by every living woman than have a prisoner pretend to want me. Oh boy I have to watch USS Callister again! so... ew...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 11:16 PM

Socialist governments are what is needed for this game to work. Big Daddy Government is what frees women from the "shackles" of relationships with Betabux Brad. The government is the new defacto husband. Beta Brads whining falls on deaf ears. His sexual frustration is his problem. Men can threaten all they want with talk about consequences (veiled rape threats?), or even some pending social collapse. Nobody cares. Women are fucking who they want, getting pretty babies from top-tier fuckboys and …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 11:14 PM

It's a Radfem construct.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 11:08 PM

X percent of men being without sex doesn't mean every last one of these men identifies as an "incel". Most just chalk up their virginity to being young and awkward and know one day they will get laid like everybody else.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 11:07 PM

Because they say words that fly in the face of what society wants to hear from it's male members. Young men are supposed to have parents who show them the rules: Be nice. Be attractive. Don't be unattractive. Be yourself. Someone will like you for who you are (this is bullshit but it helps women when we encourage men not to pretend to be more attractive than they are, which simplifies the vetting process.) Never say the game is rigged. Or too difficult. To be attractive, you have to play the gam…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 10:46 PM

Men get raped all the time. By other men, in prison.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 10:39 PM

Even distant family relative, or someone "known" to the victim who she thought was a friend. God, I hope all rapists get penis cancer.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 10:38 PM

Yes, some high-school D&D player with autism thinks the solution to his teenage angst about being a virgin at 14 is his fantasy about some state-sponsored sex camp where he can select from caged virgin nubiles who will please him in every way imaginable or else face a spell in solitary confinement with no toilet. These are the ramblings of frightened school children. Not how grown men think. If a man ever grows up thinking this way, it's not long before he's standing before a court judge being s…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 10:36 PM

I know men are frustrated and lonely and depressed and maybe suicidal. But you can’t, as a decent human being with a basic grasp of morality, ever think that a solution to this is the restriction of women’s autonomy over who they let have sex with them. On what planet are women being forced to sleep with men they don't find attractive? On what planet is men noticing that average guys are now sexually invisible is some "attack" on women's sexual autonomy? Do women feel bad about themselves for sl…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 10:26 PM
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I know men, as 5's, who would rather stay single and masturbate than wine and dine an obese 3. The idea all men only want tens is a laughable myth. Most men are just grumpy their sexual equals (fellow 5's) are out banging 8's for fun and look down their nose at them. Women say "you can't negotiate attraction" yet shame men who feel the exact same way. You do the math.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 04:00 AM
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My buddies used to encourage me to go "clubbing" but I always knew the way to a woman's heart was with a fresh haircut, clean car, nice dress, a dinner reservation, cloth napkins, candle-light, expensive wine, decadent seafood, pleasant (yet flirty) conversation and actually hinging on every word she was saying. Some women would sleep with me just for giving them... only that. And when she wanted to just go home, home is where I took her, and thanked her for a wonderful evening, and that was tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 03:56 AM
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It's the lie. It's the duplicity. It's being two faced and using pathetic plausible deniability about what she will "tolerate". Red Pill is so busted up about the fact men are accountable and women are not and can lie like sidewalks. To try and change this... you're going to need to become a different species I am afraid. The more you gaslight / both sides / equivocate things that are demonstrably female-centric behaviors (sexual duplicity / plausible deniability) the less any man with 2 brain c…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 03:20 AM
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I agree with almost all you said. Uh oh. ​ Do you think the Chad will pay for his kids? He does not have to pay. His contribution was his semen with high-value genetic sperm. His debt is paid once he ejaculates. Society (and women) got what they were after. Chad owes us nothing. ​ I sure will not and most men will not either. Yes, you will. "It takes a village" is the new socialist mantra. You WILL pay, as a taxpayer, for her sexual choices. ​ I dated single moms. Me too, but no more. I never da…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 03:14 AM
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I dunno. Dinner first? I can go at least five more minutes on an empty stomach. You don't swim for 2 hours after eating. Just saying. But yeah that was rude. I mean, a burger or SOMETHING...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 12:01 AM
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I was 13 lol don't know what he expected He expected child pornography.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 11:58 PM
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Flicked a booger from their nose at the floor and didn't wash their hands I ALWAYS sanitize after a booger floor flick. ALWAYS. Some people have NO manners... And if we're dining with cloth napkins, I don't even flick. I mash that sucker into the napkin and quickly fold it away. Geeze. I mean, keep it classy people.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 11:54 PM
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OMG. I had to stop talking to a FAMILY MEMBER who believed that the entire world was conspiring against them and that none of their shitty decisions, choices or general non-adult behavior had anything to do with it. That shit will make your head explode.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 11:52 PM
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I would be his Domme and peg him and shit. Do you mean "peg him and other things" or "peg him and then defecate"? Because, well, I'm trying to picture this and it could go either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 11:49 PM
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I never met her. But, my gut tells me she might have been average at worst and they probably would have made a couple nobody would have paid any mind to. Probably a reasonable match. Or, maybe not. Maybe I'm wrong and she was playing out of her league and using "extra nice treatment" for the "privilege" of going out with him. Who can say. I HAVE seen women do this. I've seen a few women marry up in looks and they take all manner of crap from their pretty husbands. Funny stuff. All I know is his …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 11:41 PM
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I'd have to research it more. Preliminary reading gives a non-gendered definition but it's normally followed by a claim that it's almost exclusively a male issue. From the good old wiki on the subject: Psychoanalyst Richard Tuch suggests that Freud offered at least one alternative explanation for the Madonna–whore complex: This earlier theory is based not on oedipal-based castration anxiety but on man's primary hatred of women, stimulated by the child's sense that he had been made to experience …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 11:37 PM
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Yikes. Well this is awkward. You big old slice of lasagna you! Edit: I would have thought filet mignon or shark fin soup would have been the culinary antithesis of the common burger. But your range of burger to high-end Italian is nothing short of impressive!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 11:26 PM
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Do they normalize for gender. STEM is 90% male. I bet more of them have penises and shave too...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 11:24 PM
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I was mostly blue pill. Then I woke up. Then I went full red pill. Then I woke up. Then I turned mostly black pill. Then I woke up. This isn't the Matrix. This is Inception.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 11:23 PM
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Dude, I preached the Red Pill bible for 10 straight years. I get it. But do you really think women's primal desires and mating strategies COMBINED with modern technology AND modern politics (feminism, #metoo, affirmative action, socialism, liberalism) can be gate kept by a bunch of "good well meaning men"? At best you'll end up as Trad Con church leaders of minority fringe groups. And women in the "congregation" will leave the men you're coaching as readily as "empowered" women leave men in the …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 11:14 PM
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I work in an office full of hand-picked top tier engineers and I don't think a single one is remotely on the spectrum. I'm the craziest of the lot, and I suffer from mostly Cluster C personality issues, that combine high agreeableness and high neuroticism but high conscientiousness. I also have OCD which I have learned to use as an asset, by combining it with conscientiousness to do very high quality work and catch little things that sometimes are far from little. I think "technical people are o…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 10:58 PM
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My definition of "chasing" is any and all effort to succeed with the opposite sex. For most AVERAGE men, 'chasing' includes contacting women, initiating, flirtation and entertaining discussions, planning dates, and then getting the interactions to evolve (often quickly) to move in a physical and sexual direction. Most AVERAGE men can't just go on Tinder and "get sex" with people they find remotely attractive like women can. You can't do nothing to impress women and impress women. You're talking …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 10:50 PM
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Thanks! But... I'm not OP. I'm confused. I've been away a while. This must be Purple Pill 2.0 Beta or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 10:31 PM
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Think about this. If overnight, instead of women rewarding shitbags with sex, they rewarded the kindest, most loving, most caring, honest, hard working men, socially responsible men of society, all children would be loved and cared for and all women loved and protected. So ladies, step up to the plate and choose a good man for once, instead of f\cking the bad boys you complain so much about. That would be a real change for the better for everyone.* Okay. I can relate to that theory very well, as…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 10:21 PM
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Oh, maybe so. I was just pointing out that both men and women play a field where there can be LTRs or just casual hookups. The fact women can get partners for casual sex far easier than men is a gripe men, especially Red Pill men, can't seem to get over. But there are biological reasons why this is so. Because of being physically more vulnerable than men, and even MORE vulnerable when pregnant, AND being strapped with giving human babies 100% care until they're much older women need to be select…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 10:15 PM
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The reason men don't get an 'atta boy' from society for rejecting certain women based on their mental state is because sex is a choice, mental stability is not. The reason men don't get an attaboy is because men are praised for being good goal scorers and women are praised for being good goal minders. Also on top of the fact that many men will abuse women to the point they can develope mental/emotional issues just so they can have sex with them. I'd have to see some sources on how common it is f…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 10:08 PM
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So, to young men, I would say, STOP PLAYING THAT GAME. People think it's *GROSS* today to somehow feel you've earned a wife or love or respect. Guys who say "Society has broken this social contract that really worked out well for men despite many women not feeling quite the same but I'm going to be mad and stomp my feet and triple down on Chivalry anyways."...are just dumb guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 09:55 PM
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Relax. You can change your gender on the fly today. Watch... Aaaaand. I'm back! See?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 09:47 PM
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Reason to leave Red Pill #2 (for me): I want myriad sluts to be available for my non-committed sexual pleasure. I want a virgin with no experience when I finally decide to settle down. To claims this is a blatant double standard, their response: "This is just how it's supposed to work." Me: "Alrighty then."
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 09:45 PM
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Actually... there's even rules for war. Love is a shit show.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 09:44 PM
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Consent theft. No such thing. If there were "conditions" for the sex (relationship, love, money) then it's really a case of breach of contract. Listen to "Paradise By The Dashboard Lights" by Meatloaf. Why did they take "Baby it's Cold Outside" off the shopping mall Xmas playlist? The man is 99.99% of the way to third base and about to round fourth. He'll probably say anything in that moment to ensure he'll be there making breakfast in the morning. Women know this. So, stop asking in that partic…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 09:38 PM
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BRAVO. I read all that. Very good. I have one exception to make. Women who like bad boys do not have broken or missing danger detectors at all. They seek out and FIND dangerous, anti-social and violent men because they believe their 'magic vagina' is a sort of leash they can have for what they deem to be a very useful man. And that use is power. Now, when she's in the ER for the 9th time with her face nearly caved in when he goes into a booze or steroid rage... you'll see the 1000 yard stare thr…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 09:36 PM
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Why are women not allowed to play the lottery and Bingo at the same time? There's a lotto's chance Chad is (a) actually a decent guy who (b) somehow finds her average self just adorable and (c) is fully willing to give up his harem to explore monogamous sex with her. A lotto's chance. And it appears this happens quite regularly with most women and it seems to piss a lot of average guys off. I mean, she should be FORCED to play Bingo only. No lottery for her! Except, men like the lottery too. Dou…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 09:29 PM
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Men tend to think in a self-centered way when it comes to women who date: That 'dating', for women, means only seeing one man at a time; Proving herself in some form of chastity and preservation - a rare prize just for him; While for men, that means 'playing the field' and seeing multiple women - a treat for men until they decide to pick a woman to be with. Oh please. I knew women who admitted to having "multiple irons in the fire" who were then offended when they found out I was not giving them…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 09:22 PM
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But is LTR shopping really not the same for men and women when you boil away the slightly different processes they use? A *person* will date and have casual fun until a *person* who they (a) find really attractive and (b) appears to be willing to commit comes around. Men are women are both hardwired to try and find the hottest mate they can given their SMV/RMV. It's really really important for the vast majority of people. Nobody sets out to find that adequately average person or homely person. A…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 09:14 PM
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Ever see a guy after he slams a woman out of his league? It's like he's on crack for the next three months. Some have been known to turn to poetry and song writing. It's crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 09:10 PM
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They also out-earn their male partners if he works at all. They also do all the housework and never complain. They also might be men posing as women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 09:09 PM
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I personally know a girl who has 6-7 FWBs and shes on dating apps and shes told me before that she wants a boyfriend Jesus, I mean her vagina must continually ACHE - yet she's paying all her own rent. Of course she wants a boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 09:08 PM
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I'm not racist I'm culturally challenged.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 09:06 PM
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Yes, white mothers need to name more of their white baby boys "Tyrone" so people like you can sleep better at night.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 09:05 PM
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These are code words for genetically high value men women will sleep with almost immediately while bypassing the "tests for parental investment" they ensure lower-value men must pass before giving them any cookie. Chad is a tall handsome white dude. Tyrone is a tall handsome black dude. Pookie. No idea. Ray Ray. No idea. But they forgot the jacked Ukrainian solider "Vlad" and that beautifully buffed middle-eastern man with the perfectly sculptured facial hair: Asad. Look out Chad. Here comes Vla…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 09:03 PM
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I say this as a man who does the same thing. You don't just throw a perfectly good burger in the trash because your heart wants lasagna, do you? This entire sub is dedicated to all of the burgers who think they're lasagna!! 😎 That goes for both women AND men too!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 08:59 PM
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Men commonly settle for the first "sufficiently attractive" woman they can have regular sex with. And they'll even sacrifice other things like reliability or mental stability to get there. This is why we tell men not to stick it in crazy. Because to have sex with a good looking woman, most men would at least consider it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 08:56 PM
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23 + 37. That age gap will go over like a COVID smothered Kleenex in this place! Shame on you for being happy! SHAME! :-)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 08:53 PM
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I'm not as Red Pill as I used to be. But 'dual mating strategy' is a thing. Men have a monolithic mating strategy. Play a numbers game. A man's sexual strategy is like buying a lottery ticket, betting on a horse at a track, and playing a round of poker with friends. Each are a gamble, but are priced accordingly to their odds. Men who put all of their money into the lottery are dumb, broke and miserable.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 08:48 PM
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Think of average people affording themselves nice reliable cars. Honda. Toyota. Hyundai. Whether it's a man or woman, most people see an Audi, Bimmer, Range Rover, etc. and think "Wow, I'd trade my decent reliable car that I like in a second for that sleek looking supple leathered beauty!" Women do really stupid things to get with the hottest men they can. Men do really stupid things to get with the hottest women they can. Women suffer silently due to slut shaming and knowledge of "social suicid…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 08:39 PM
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Lmfao. in 10,000 years women will still be trying to get wifed up by gigachads and be scratching their heads as to why men with unlimited sexual options won't give all that up for "her big deal" which amounts to a mortgage, nagging wife, whining kids and a 50% chance of divorce and financial indentured servitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 08:30 PM
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I think men have MW complex more often than women do. I think women have "My SMV is that of the hottest guy I can bed but still can't find a partner I deem adequate" complex. I believe men and women are hardwired by biology to go through mental processes about relationships that are often contrary to their ultimate goals, which allegedly are stable and happy long term relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 08:24 PM
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When a woman throws her hat into the "ring of gigachad hotness" and fails that doesn't count as casual sex in her mind. But, it's still casual sex. Women are simply very covert about these things to avoid the (still common) slut shaming. Men tell the world when they get laid (ATTA BOY!!) women do not. This is why self-reporting on promiscuity from women is kind of pointness.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 08:21 PM
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I believe it's a classic case of women trying to turn a hot playboy (gigachad) into relationship material. Every Rom Com is based on this - her getting the commitment from the aloof superhot guy after she shows him the errs of his ways after exposing her big, throbbing heart to him. It's all bullshit. Women hit above their weight for looks as badly as men do. The human female "dual mating strategy" is documented thing. She wants the genetic material from hot guy (a) and the willingness to commit…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 08:19 PM
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