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I know i am not fueling my body enough yet, as my lunches are lacking severely, i live off 1000~calories a day which is too less, 5x per week exercise did kill my appetite, but i know i need to work on that to get more and better results form my gym/lifting. Also i still sleep alot in the weekends i tend to sleep in the afternoon for a few hours because all that sport does wear me out, but my energy levels during the day are way better then ever. There are still some struggles i need to get rid …
/r/TheRedPill03/01/25 08:52 AM
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Great post! i have steadily build up to 5 times per week gym now for average 1.5~2 hours per gym session over the last 6~ months post divorce. I started with 2x per week half a hour as a indication. Everyday i do 45 minutes of cardio (30 minutes running, 15 minute cycling) the rest i do as heavy weights machines as i can (lower risks so i can keep going daily instead of free weights) I started to take 6 vitamine suplements and fish oil daily for the past few months, i daily have creatine and aro…
/r/TheRedPill03/01/25 08:48 AM
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Thats great for her, facial recognition AI getting better by the day, soon everyone will instantly know her past at all times.
/r/Divorce_Men02/01/25 01:49 PM
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Yes sir! My ex wanted divorce, cheated etc. Now she lives in a ghetto neighbourhood + 40 minutes from me, she already got harrashed by the local hoodlums and spat on her clothes. She works parttime in a local supermarket while she is well in in her mid 30s, no diploma`s, terrible english (she is chinese) does not speak the local language beside a few words as well. She sure as shit does not look anyway near as good as in her 20s after birthing 3 boys and being mid 30s. I had a good run on her, n…
/r/Divorce_Men02/01/25 09:32 AM
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Very good tip from reflog!, it sucks really bad not having my 2 younger sons living with me, but i know they are in good hands with my ex, and i know when they are 12 they will live with me as they will be at legal age to choose where to live then. YOU CANNOT FIGHT THE LEGAL SYSTEM AS A SINGLE DAD, YOU WILL ALWAYS LOSE! Keep your mental and physical sanity. All i have to do is always make sure till that age they having a blast in my house every time they are over, i shower them in love and good …
/r/Divorce_Men02/01/25 08:44 AM
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It really depends on the ethnic and cultural background. I have lived for over 12 years in Hong Kong and asians prefer very feminem (weak, gaylike in the eyes of western males) type of males, BUT they must be sucsessfull, famous or rich! I still strongly believe asian men suffer the most to get into decent relationships. Asians that like westerners want them often to be Tall! They do not care too much about muscles but Tall and financially well off that is their drive. For white girls into black…
/r/TheRedPill02/01/25 08:17 AM
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who said watching porn?
/r/TheRedPill30/12/24 12:12 PM
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I don`t think this is the answer. "Fitness, style, traveling (a part of your life not all of it), and manly hobbies." For years during my marriage i played, competitive paintball, airsoft, skateboarding, BMX, BMX Racing. Pretty manly hobbies. I still frequently travel for leisure. (5 trips or more a year) I hit the gym 5 days per week, doing weights and cardio. 69,5 kg. I like to dress good and feel good and give a professional impression and show off my body honed at the gym. So although i have…
/r/TheRedPill30/12/24 07:40 AM
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I have the same brother, oldest one is 14 now he choose to live with me, because his mum is all day on her phone talking to friends, and do 2+ hour grocery runs a day and let him baby sit his 2 little brothers. All her attention goes to pleasing her female friends. this has always been the case. He got so fed up by her behaviour he lives with me now and barely want to see his mum or visit her, all she does as a co-parent send him 10 bucks a month and send a few whatsapp..... Imagine your mum onl…
/r/Divorce_Men19/12/24 08:54 AM
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Whatever you say or feel. WOMAN DO NOT THINK LIKE MEN! They see you as a utility to aid them. You think with your feelings and dick.... that is the rite of passage of a men, till they wake up from fantasyland... Yes it starts off with butterfly`s and sparks in bed. 6 months in that new car smell worned off and now all you do is either being useful to her or not. Especially single mothers, they need a guy that financially support their hatchlings from another dude who nutted in her. I always get …
/r/Divorce_Men18/12/24 01:44 PM
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No one in my family, kept in touch with me, none of my old friends did. Guess what i did? No contact with them, fuck them they were not real friends and family. I replaced them for people who are genuine caring for me. Including my mum, she is a narcissism bitch that kept complain about small shit about my kids and me. I do not longer tolerate that in my life, no more mister nice guy. You need to cut out a lot of weed. Reinvent yourself, make sure everything around you reflects the best interest…
/r/Divorce_Men18/12/24 12:59 PM
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Bro, honestly do you have a couple of close male friends? If not you need to become part of a herd brother. You need to be under other men, you will quickly adapt and not give a fuck, because you will notice your friends have the same problems, and men do motivate and uplift other men when you meet the right bro`s. You probably do not have enough distraction in your life. keep going to the gym 5~7 day per week, use that anger, that fucking relentless mouth foaming angrer that i feel for my ex in…
/r/Divorce_Men18/12/24 07:55 AM
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No not really, i found it a waste of money, all cookie cutter questions and hypothetical cliche stuff you find on the internet as well. This lady was just not very good.. i learned more about myself by traveling a lot and taking some edibles to find out my youth trauma`s. Why i am often anxiety. (Caused by my mother) Why i have abandonment issues. (My dad more or less abandoned me to the bare minimum after the divorce) Why i have a don't love myself (Child trauma from above issues caused me to c…
/r/Divorce_Men18/12/24 07:42 AM
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Mine also slapped/punched my arm hard inn public whenever she did not like something her way. i told her many times if she do it again one day i will punch her light out, i never did and now i regret it. Never layed a hand on her, some woman need to learn.
/r/Divorce_Men17/12/24 12:21 PM
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Same, but i all blame it on myself. I was and still have some sort of depression, but it was severely build up over a 12 year marriage. She took advantage of me in so many ways, after reading No more Mister Nice guy, i finally saw a TON of red flags. I overstayed my marriage for at least 11 years honestly. The amazing porn sex was what drove me into the relationship and she breadcrumbed hooked me hard..... Kids came in the mix soon after and i was in handcuffs.. I love my kids but she was having…
/r/Divorce_Men17/12/24 08:41 AM
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Whatever you say or feel. WOMAN DO NOT THINK LIKE MEN! They see you as a utility to aid them. You think with your feelings and dick.... that is the rite of passage of a men, till they wake up from fantasyland... Yes it starts off with butterfly`s and sparks in bed. 6 months in that new car smell worned off and now all you do is either being useful to her or not. Especially single mothers, they need a guy that financially support their hatchlings from another dude who nutted in her. I always get …
/r/Divorce_Men17/12/24 08:07 AM
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Ok bro a few things, first off all i am working on them myself i am not perfect. 1: You need to get out of the notion that you need a woman to be whole, this means you don't fully love yourself and not able to stand your own presence and have a alone time. 2: a girlfriend IS NOT a substitute for friends especially male friends, if you lack friends, this is what you need to focus on, you need a strong social circle, you cannot feel alone when you have good friends and engage in frequent social ev…
/r/Divorce_Men17/12/24 07:32 AM
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Thank you so much! It is very hard now for me cuz i miss my little 2 ones did not see them for 2 months now, oldest one lives full time with me also fed up with his mothers bullshit. I hope she will eventually get really fed up taking care of 2 little childeren by herself and come to me again so i can have my kids again in the weekends. Now it is time to be a real man and show that i am not going to play her childish games along. I really find your post helpful thank you so much!
/r/Divorce_Men17/12/24 07:19 AM
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Thats the point, you were good in her eyes to take care of her son for the better of 10 years, till she found another dick who now is apparently better for raising her son solely based on her sexual outbursts. That in is it in its essence. You gave your hearth and soul for her kid, the kid is inoccent but her intentions were always malicious and not truly goodhearted in the best interest of her kid, it was purely for own gains. You provided her with the stability on many levels that she needed t…
/r/Divorce_Men12/12/24 02:18 PM
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Thank you for this post, i saw the one you mentioned yesterday. It was rather cringe yes, it got locked down pretty quick luckely. Very good post of yours, thank you for that.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/24 01:46 PM
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Bro holy moly that is some terrible abuse from her. Please for the love of god, stop this nonsense. Regain your own life, screw her, the dude she cheats with and really harsh to say any kid not of your own is not your concern. These woman make you attached to childeren, they pry on your weakness where you share all your love and care for the kids, its their hook to keep you in reach. Lose some of those morals forced upon you, they are fairy tales. She uses the kids as the carrot to keep marching…
/r/Divorce_Men12/12/24 12:48 PM
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Again thank you so much, this is exactly what my ex is doing, she knows exactly what buttons to push to make me explode. I have learned a great deal in these groups the last few months, to seek the solution within myself and become a real man that takes care of himself first in order to be able to take care of his childeren. Happy and prospers dad, happy kids as a result. The more sucsessful i become the more my childeren will enjoy that, when they enjoy that it is good for me, because the kids …
/r/Divorce_Men12/12/24 07:53 AM
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Thank you so much brother, i am in the same dilemma now, i went stricktly No Contact, because my ex keeps involving police, instances, schools etc for my 2 younger kids that lives with her and she refuses to give them to me now in the weekends. For now i just leave it as is, i know people say you need to fight for your childeren, but this is exactly what she wants... she want me to fight her endless battle because her life sucks and need to vent it, also for her social standing in her circle of …
/r/Divorce_Men12/12/24 07:49 AM
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14 years 3 kids. Oldest one lives with me, younger 2 ones she keeps away from me. -Sex breadcrumbing, it started like a good porn, i chased that because thats why i got together with her. She started breadcrumbing it really hard, i was and still am very thirsty so i did everything for some nookie from her. Never would cheat becasuse a good father/husband does not cheat, she went out partying weekly, ape shit drunk home 6 am in the morning never able to get her on the phone 12/2/4 am in the morni…
/r/Divorce_Men12/12/24 07:31 AM
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Bro my ex is the same, she get apeshit drunk frequently and spreading her legs with no moral compass. But somehow all instances, police etc are all against me and she is the victim in all of this. Fuck the delusional world these woman live in, the sad thing is more and more woman live this lifestyle, homewrecking entire families only to be extremely feministic and femsplaning to men that they are wrong. Hate me for my opinion, but i see lots of males having the exact same issues over and over on…
/r/Divorce_Men11/12/24 09:19 AM
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Thank you so much, the motivation i needed!
/r/Divorce_Men11/12/24 07:45 AM
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Thats great! i have plastered my 2025 goals throughout the house to motivate/remind myself constantly and show my son as well, that things will get better every month a little bit.
/r/Divorce_Men11/12/24 07:45 AM
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Thanks! yes for sure, i do strongly believe in having the longest breath something lots of woman don`t have that type of consistency and perseverance through suffering and rebuilding one self by relying on their own. My ex build up everything with help from the goverment, agencies and friends, once those fall away when she get older etc she will become just another bitter male hating woman. By that time i hope to be on top of my game.
/r/Divorce_Men11/12/24 07:44 AM
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Thank you so much! still a long way to go, another main driver to get on top of things is my son, i want him to see and experience my "sucsess" and start chasing it for himself too.
/r/Divorce_Men11/12/24 07:42 AM
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She never loved you, you provided her utility, till someone came around that gave her more utility, a stable local job, and perhaps more salary. It was not about you but what you provide to her and her kids from a previous marriage. This woman is a piece of shit like my ex. Going forward i use woman like tools too but instead for financial/stability they only serve my dick. Thats it, hard but truth.
/r/Divorce_Men10/12/24 10:13 AM
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I lived nearly 1 year with my ex before seperation, it was hell. She abused the fact that she also lived in the same flat and it was both on our names, despite she never paid a fucking penny for it, and after the divorce managed to get 40.000 euro for it. I could not kick her out of the house, she barely did anything, continued partying getting apeshit drunk and came back next day, she neglected her kids. There are days i think back and would love to give her a uppercut, which i obvious wont do,…
/r/Divorce_Men10/12/24 10:02 AM
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Thank you so much for your reply, especially your last line hit me so hard. And it is so so true. "We all have to find something bigger than ourselves, bigger than the joys of women." We men seek a forefillment that makes us truly happy, you worded it so good!
/r/TheRedPill10/12/24 07:27 AM
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I just got divorced a half year ago after 14 year together, 3 kids. Now i just dont know what i want out of woman anymore, i will be visiting thailands early next year to get a new high score because i feel i need and want it. My desire is a long lasting relationship with a woman and grow old together, but now after my divorce i know this is most likely never going to happen because i refuse to believe in fairy tales anymore. But now i wonder what woman are good for beside the honey moon phase o…
/r/TheRedPill09/12/24 02:41 PM
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