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| 1 | How long does it take to learn game?I will give you a clear example. I usually volunteer advice to guys for free on these forums. And some guys take it and run with it . It has also happened a couple of times that I feel my limitations so I ask my mentor if he would talk to them for free . Surprisingly a lot of those guys start screaming scammer when I mention that . Which is a bit crazy to me because scammers do not give free advice. Where is the scam? When I had the opportunity I took it. It was a no brainer for me . And coincid… | /r/seduction | 26/05/25 10:52 AM |
| 2 | How long does it take to learn game?Its actually pretty easy if you follow the right method. The issue is there are so many scammers out there to rip money off people, so they will teach you garbage they know themselves is not working. You also have guys who get mediocre results but will go around pushing their advice as a way to convince themselves that they don't suck at dating. One last factor that's very important: a lot of guys think they want to change, but in reality they don't really want it . They are scared of change . T… | /r/seduction | 26/05/25 08:12 AM |
| 2 | Physical escalation is mandatory on a first date, never forget thatPhysical escalation is proportional to her emotional escalation. | /r/seduction | 26/05/25 01:22 AM |
| 2 | I constantly take L's and its getting frustratingIt clicked for me around a year ago. Took me 3 months to lose my virginity. Last month I hit the two lays per week mark, so approximately a year later . I exclusively do daygame. But two things to consider: I was mentored . But every time I mention that some retard comes out of nowhere and starts telling scam, as if I was supposed to lie and say that I learned all of this by myself. My mentor is 20 years deep into this . He also despises the forums for that exact reason. So sometimes when I look… | /r/seduction | 25/05/25 05:54 PM |
| 1 | I constantly take L's and its getting frustratingLearned it from someone else . | /r/seduction | 25/05/25 05:34 PM |
| 1 | I constantly take L's and its getting frustratingYeah learned from someone else . Everything I know some guy taught me last year . | /r/seduction | 25/05/25 05:32 PM |
| 1 | I constantly take L's and its getting frustratingAdd to that the fact that a solid number comes from reaching that "subconscious man to woman" zone as well. A lot of guys deal with a huge numbers game because they are not able to do that . I don't collect numbers, I connect with these women fast . | /r/seduction | 25/05/25 05:31 PM |
| 1 | I constantly take L's and its getting frustratingOn average in daygame you are dealing with a woman who had a plan . And generally speaking to won't be able to make her change her plan unless you operate in the "subconscious man to woman" phase . So you have a "buffering" time of approximately 25 minutes to get into that zone and make her change her mind. If after 25 minutes you're still in the "friendly" stage it becomes really difficult to change her mind about what she was planning to do . | /r/seduction | 25/05/25 05:29 PM |
| 1 | I constantly take L's and its getting frustratingThe two scenarios will have the same answer. Learn the human mating dance . The human mating dance is universal. If you follow the checkpoints it doesn't matter if you are in a bar, in a mall, at the airport, or in the metro . It doesn't matter if you're in the middle of nowhere in a village. It still works. You have to go from stranger, to friendly, to sexual in under 25 minutes. There are specific checkpoints to protect your social value along the way. Once you learn how to do that it's like r… | /r/seduction | 25/05/25 09:34 AM |
| 1 | I constantly take L's and its getting frustratingYou're exactly the type of person I was referring to . Just negative for no reason. How do you expect to change if you don't try anything that anyone tells you? | /r/seduction | 25/05/25 09:30 AM |
| 0 | How long does it take to learn game?Update: some guy was complaining about being stuck here about a week ago . We talked and for some reason he listened to me. He just pulled two girls home at the same time, on his first nightgame session after months . He never did that before. its too bad I give so much advice on the forum and it just gets lost in the noise . | /r/seduction | 25/05/25 03:43 AM |
| 1 | I constantly take L's and its getting frustratingThere is a guy that was complaining last week about getting stuck . We talked and he just pulled two girls at the same time from night game. I'm not a coach but I have been through shit and I constantly give advice on the forum, but it gets lost in the noise . Too bad . | /r/seduction | 25/05/25 03:39 AM |
| 1 | A couple of approaches from last night - self rejection or not?I wrote you in private | /r/seduction | 24/05/25 10:31 PM |
| 5 | How long does it take to learn game?I don't enjoy bars and clubs. I stopped going on the apps in 2023 So all of these women I met at the mall, street, some in the metro station. When you get the skill its not so much about where you meet them but how to connect. Once you're able to go from stranger to friendly to sexual in under 25 minutes , it's usually a wrap. After a while it's like riding a bike. Feel free to reach out I don't feel like writing long texts for no reason. | /r/seduction | 24/05/25 10:29 PM |
| 1 | turning 25Bulking up won't help. I was in your situation last year . I reached out , let's talk. | /r/seduction | 24/05/25 06:14 PM |
| 2 | After 4 years I finally brought a girl home, but it was awkward as hell.Sexualising wasn't deep enough | /r/seduction | 24/05/25 06:09 PM |
| 4 | What to wear for casual date with older woman?In my opinion you're focusing on the wrong things . You should instead try to map out the Interaction in such a way that it will end up with sex | /r/seduction | 24/05/25 06:08 PM |
| 6 | How long does it take to learn game?Took me 2 months more or less to get good enough at daygame to lose my virginity. One year later I'm having sex twice a week with random girls from daygame . I only talk to girls during the day, no apps, no bars or clubs and I have a pretty abundant sexual and romantic life . So no it shouldn't take that long. Issue is most of the advice is wrong or outdated. | /r/seduction | 24/05/25 06:06 PM |
| 3 | Paid coaches or bootcamps worth it?Reach out . I know a coach that would teach you for free. And I can vouch for him he changed my life completely. Too many scammers out there . | /r/seduction | 23/05/25 01:22 PM |
| 1 | Dying for answers lolHe's sometimes when a girl is really secure on her relationship, she will flirt with yoji because she feels like you aren't a threat to her couple and she likes the attention. The tricky part is if you have skills her little game becomes serious (under your leadership) and she actually falls for you. | /r/seduction | 22/05/25 09:51 PM |
| 1 | Text/online game is an amazing tool to get you laidI truly believe in the first interaction. Any guy o have met irl that was truly good at not only getting, bit keeping quality women around wasn't a mega texter. But they sure were master conversationalists . | /r/seduction | 22/05/25 09:46 PM |
| 1 | Strange thing happenedCuck | /r/seduction | 22/05/25 09:41 PM |
| 2 | Why do fat chics always pose next to hotties in OLD and think that builds attractiveness?It's odd. | /r/seduction | 22/05/25 09:40 PM |
| 1 | Parties and festivais ratio getting worse?I build a narrative that explains why I'm talking to her . " Hey you're cute " isnt good enough as a narrative and will generate negative knee-jerk reactions that will stop you from actually building trust and establishing value through your attractive qualities. You're essentially shutting yourself down when you go too direct too early. I don't feel like being too specific here on the forum, feel free to reach out if you still have questions . | /r/seduction | 21/05/25 04:51 PM |
| 1 | Parties and festivais ratio getting worse?I use an "accidental" approach. | /r/seduction | 21/05/25 04:47 PM |
| -5 | Can you pull 9s and 10s while you are 6 or 7?Its hard for me to admit it as "truth" when Samantha buys me designer clothes with her monthly allowance after I fucked her brains out in my modest apartment. What is there to accept? Any guy thinking this way is just clueless. Are they going to date a rich guy by convenience? Yes. But it's still prostitution and those guys get cheated on, denied sex and so on. | /r/seduction | 21/05/25 03:37 AM |
| 1 | How to get over fear of being perceived as a creep or horndog?Accept that too will probably seen as a creep in the beginning. Be ok with that . Once you know the proper way of doing things and you start getting results accept your new results. | /r/seduction | 21/05/25 03:35 AM |
| 1 | What Makes a City "Good" for Dating? Or for Single Guys?Lots of attractive women walking around Low cost of living : especially drinks and food/restaurants | /r/seduction | 21/05/25 03:32 AM |
| 1 | How do you deal with phases where you lose your gameIts called a plateau. Sometimes you stagnate while the new skill is building up in silence . | /r/seduction | 21/05/25 03:29 AM |
| 1 | Hoeflation.You only have to work harder if you follow the mainstream narrative. If you follow biology and the human mating dance it has become easier because most guys have become sheep's. So it's easy to stand out . My 8 lays in the last month can attest to that . And I was a virgin last year. | /r/seduction | 21/05/25 03:28 AM |
| -2 | Can you pull 9s and 10s while you are 6 or 7?Getting a hooker isn't "getting women" These girls you are talking about fuck me for free. Some of them even spend money on me sometimes. Its your fault if you succumbed to the mainstream narrative. You are supposed to be a seducer and go against the norm. Think about it' these girls have managers right? They pay these managers right? Do you think these managers pay them to have sex? | /r/seduction | 21/05/25 02:57 AM |
| 1 | In order to be really successful with women, you have to like and love women first and foremostAccurate. My results exploded when I shifted my mindset from " what a b"tch" to " poor girl let's see if I can help her make better decisions " . I now know that one of the only ways to get a woman to listen to you is to make her fall for you. She won't listen to a guy she doesn't care about. So that's my role. If I see potential I will try to make her fall for me so I can "help " her. If she doesn't too bad for her . That's her loss. | /r/seduction | 21/05/25 02:36 AM |
| -4 | Can you pull 9s and 10s while you are 6 or 7?I can't believe in 2025 you still think it's money that gives you 9s and 10s | /r/seduction | 21/05/25 02:25 AM |
| 1 | Can you pull 9s and 10s while you are 6 or 7?Yup. Not only that I also do so very consistently. 8 lays in the last month. All complete strangers. But since what I do is going against many of these rules you see on this sub Reddit, and Also since I have noticed that advice given too easily isn't appreciated... Id rather keep it to myself a little bit . Reach out if you're really interested. | /r/seduction | 21/05/25 02:23 AM |
| 1 | Shopping mall approachesI reached out in private. Don't want my way of doing things to spread on this forum . | /r/seduction | 18/05/25 05:28 PM |
| 1 | 30+ datingI will DM you . | /r/seduction | 18/05/25 04:56 PM |
| 2 | Shopping mall approachesI see a few issues here : Mystery method is outdated: there are better ways to initiate conversations, and better ways to get into a sexual interaction. In daygame, Moving sets require more game than static ones. And this should be more talked about . Replace negs with fashion and body language. Those are more impactful in daygame . Also when you get advice make sure the guy who is giving it knows what he is talking about . I had sex with 7 new girls in the last 30 days. All from daygame . I wou… | /r/seduction | 18/05/25 12:53 PM |
| 1 | Lithium Orotate for approach anxiety?What guys don't understand is by treating anxiety like a wall they make it bigger . They turn it onto a mountain to climb . You need to look at anxiety like the little stone that got stuck in your shoe . The more you wall despite having that stone on there , the smaller the stone becomes, until it's just a little irrelevant scratch that you feel at every step. You conquer your anxiety by acting on it. Medicating it will make it stronger and bigger . | /r/seduction | 18/05/25 12:43 PM |
| 3 | Parties and festivais ratio getting worse?To be honest I get a headache when guys start talking about building a lifestyle, throwing or attending parties for the sake of getting women. These days I get off work and I walk up to the first cute woman I see in the street, metro, mall whatever . I initiate a conversation and usually have a solid chance of getting her on a date on the spot. From there you do your thing and most of the time end up having sex with her. I slept with 7 new women like that during the last Month. So I never see my… | /r/seduction | 18/05/25 12:40 PM |
| 2 | Am I Being Realistic…You are realistic...only of your social skills are good enough. You can't be floppy. You can't rely on luck . You need to be organised and have a system. where to find the women you like how to approach them in a non intrusive way how to portray the image of a guy she could see her self dating, even if she never dared a black guy before . My mentor is black. he usually does that by talking about dating girls like her before. In subtle ways .Well crafted stories help for that . how to get her to … | /r/seduction | 18/05/25 12:32 PM |
| 1 | We talke -> exchanged phone numbers -> no resposne ??Yup, that's what some guys call flaking. Like ghosting , this comes down to either a lack of attraction or a lack of connection. Either she wasn't that much into you , but she was nice and polite and having a good time . So when you text she isn't responsive because she sees no incentive to make you a part of her life . Or she was actually interested, but she doesn't trust you enough. You're still a stranger. She has safety and comfort concerns. The two main ways to bypass that are: giving her e… | /r/seduction | 18/05/25 12:25 PM |
| 4 | 30+ datingI know a 45 years old bald guy on the shorter side who goes to Ibiza , mingles and had sex with girls 20+ years younger than him. Not only does he bang younger girls regularly, they are also top notch. On his last trip he banged one flight attendant on 3 of his flights. Saying this to say: age is an excuse. We often laugh about this because we both learned from the same source. The amount of excuses most guys have : age, money, status. I'm young but I was dirt broke when I started learning prope… | /r/seduction | 18/05/25 12:12 PM |
| 3 | I Keep Losing Momentum With Girls After Good Dates - What Am I Doing Wrong?If you lose momentum after the date. The date wasn't as good as you think. Remember in any seduction process there should constantly be both elements of attraction and connection. | /r/seduction | 18/05/25 12:08 PM |
| -2 | Creating the Dating Life You Want: What Worked for MeI will write you in private. Dont want my way of doing things to be spammed all over Reddit. | /r/seduction | 15/05/25 03:40 PM |
| 3 | Creating the Dating Life You Want: What Worked for MeI think the main issue for most guys isn't looks. Especially when it comes to daygame. I know a lot of chubby average looking guys that are killing it because they are not using the generic approach you see all over the internet. What matters in daygame is the ability to make things feel organic and "accidental" . Feel free to reach out if you have questions . | /r/seduction | 15/05/25 03:12 PM |
| 2 | Creating the Dating Life You Want: What Worked for MeOP is legit . | /r/seduction | 15/05/25 03:10 PM |
| 0 | What do you guys think of this seduction advice?Both strategies are valid depending on what you're looking to achieve. | /r/seduction | 13/05/25 03:09 PM |
| 1 | Could really use some help and insightYou need to start attracting women, not chasing them. Give them an opportunity to get to know you by taking the first step. You also definitely need a clear plan and defined steps to execute. | /r/seduction | 13/05/25 03:08 PM |
| 1 | Should i just get tinder?The only way to get tinder to work properly is to not rely on tinder . | /r/seduction | 13/05/25 03:02 PM |
| 2 | Uncomfortable with being sexualI don't think you simply finding a witty retort to her being named Nasty would have magically unlocked the situation so stop bearing yourself up. There is way more to do to go from the situation you were in to full blown sex. Also, I think one of the reasons why you stopped flowing is because subconsciously you had an issue with her being potentially a prostitute. Anytime I have suspicion that a girl might be a prostitute I do not try to pull her on the same night. I will invite her another day.… | /r/seduction | 13/05/25 02:59 PM |
| 1 | Cold approach during the day to sex?I can't message you so hit me up. | /r/seduction | 12/05/25 07:35 PM |
| 2 | Cold approach during the day to sex?What's going on if you're getting dates and a kiss with no visible plan is that you have some sort of passive value (assuming you're talking to attractive women), which means with a bit of optimisation and a clear step by step plan you can double or triple your results and get laid within a couple of weeks. From what I'm reading you just lack a plan and viable strategies. I'm not a fan of "going with the flow" because if you take your time, your energy and you put your mental health at risk by t… | /r/seduction | 12/05/25 05:33 PM |
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