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1	A female friend told me that I have no sexual vibe. What to do? I see what you're getting at, and my experience has made me inclined to agree with you. You take long view of things as do I. Really, we should count ourselves lucky to have had more than one relationship where the woman was head over heels with us, at least for a period of time, and accepted us for who we are and even loved us for it. But I do get resentful and discouraged when I look at guys who are better looking and attract women more frequently by that alone, or men who seamlessly hop from …	/r/seduction	16/12/21 06:31 PM
2	A female friend told me that I have no sexual vibe. What to do? I have the same problem. What you have to realize is that most of that is in your head. It's anxiety. It's fear. Simply put, it's not real. That old cliche of "be yourself"? It just means to live in the moment. It's trite, but that's how most wisdom seems when I finally grasp hold of it.	/r/seduction	16/12/21 05:39 PM
26	Having a good fwb is much better than having multiple ONS When I was younger, I thought it was all about notches on the bedpost. Now that I'm older, having one really good notch on that post is better than going through dry spells wondering why I was such a shitty inferior male 'cause I wasn't getting laid like I was Stiffler or something.	/r/seduction	16/12/21 05:40 AM
3	A female friend told me that I have no sexual vibe. What to do? I mean, I get where you're coming from on this one, but I don't think that the human species has been entirely neutered of its nature by the horribleness of corporate workspaces and human resources departments. You have to know when it's appropriate to act on base and instinctual intuitions and urges, and when it's not. That's what our adolescence and teenage years are for, and why I kinda worry about a generation of kids who went to school over zoom and dated via apps or whatnot as opposed to, …	/r/seduction	16/12/21 03:22 AM
42	A female friend told me that I have no sexual vibe. What to do? Just skimming this thread I had an immediate reaction when I read over the first few questions of your post. We're animals. We react to things like certain kind of eye contact, a tone of voice, body language, smells, other external indicators like dress. I think a lot of men are taught early on, somehow, that it is the woman's job to be sexy to attract the man, while the man just has to be not disgusting. That is not true. Figure out what makes you feel sexy, and you'll notice women starting to …	/r/seduction	16/12/21 03:18 AM

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