LeanMeanIceQueen Archive

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2	Unlearning my perception of pubic hair. this post is extremely my vibe! I have also stopped shaving in the past two years. It disgusts me that porn culture has seeped into society so much that the 'traditional' beauty standard is the equivalent of a pre-pubescent child with the breasts of a pregnant woman. I don't shave my pubic hair, I don't shave my legs, I don't shave my underarms. I will only trim downstairs if I'm expecting some oral play in my future because it feels polite and it's what I would expect of a partner as well. When…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/09/21 02:06 PM
7	Reflections on a bad date, excuses LVM use, and learning from it You are right on the money. I'm a female engineer as well. My friends constantly give me a hard time when I tell them I won't date another engineer. But every time I have given a male engineer a chance they have been incredibly self-centered, haven't asked me any questions in an attempt to get to know me, or have were incredibly boring! Hard pass.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/08/21 10:36 PM
37	How to cope after blocking a guy you really like When I'm in this situation I repeat mantras to myself like the following... it always helps reframe the situation. "I would rather be alone than with someone that disrespects me" "I would rather be alone than with someone that does not love me" "I would rather be alone than with someone that does not enhance my life" They're all true. Even if a man hits all of my big turn ons and he's my type- if he doesn't treat me right, he's cut from the team, no questions asked. I wont waste time with a man …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/07/21 12:32 AM
7	The Misattribution of Arousal: Why Cliff-Dangling is Sexy Have to agree. I spent a few years in the climbing circles where I live. There are absolutely great people in the sport. There is also a high concentration of polyamory in the scene. Many women I'm friends with stopped climbing in part due to the toxic bro culture in the community. Guys will make their entire persona around the sport, they will act like possessions are meaningless while dropping literally 1000s of dollars on climbing gear while mooching of their friends for food and somewhere to…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/06/21 12:42 AM
7	Reject pornification and leave your pubic hair alone. It has a purpose, a job to do and it's healthy to keep it Y'all- I don't even shave my legs or underarms any more. And guess what- the men I choose to be with have no issue with it! It's a great way to vet out vain and pornsick dudes. And I save money on never buying a razor again!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/04/21 10:55 AM
5	Thoughts from a Former "Submissive" Thank you for sharing your experiences with us! I had very similar experience in the kink / poly scene during my brief time looking into it. Even when I clearly established the boundaries and scenes I was looking for, provided feedback, etc, men would perform whatever act they wanted, and then pout like a child when I told him there wouldn't be a second get-together. The only decent guy I met and am still friends with was a submissive/switch guy that would actually listen to what I wanted and pe…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/04/21 01:50 PM
2	The FDS podcast is now LIVE!!! Weekly Discussion Thread: Episode 1 I just listened to this yesterday and I gotta say ladies... THANK YOU and I can't wait for more 💗 you all sound like wonderful people and I'm so glad to see a unifying force for women's empowerment and betterment on This Site.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/03/21 10:12 AM
3	My THREE YEAR journey from PICKMEVILLE to HVW. Here's my story. Yes, this is so inspiring! Thank you for sharing. Do you have any tips to share? Habits or activities that really paid dividends in your transformation?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/03/21 08:07 PM