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Update: she's safe!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 05:07 PM
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But fr you are right on the money. Don't waste your breath, he ain't home sis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 05:04 PM
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Your eyes are beautiful
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 05:03 PM
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I didn't mean to be disrespectful. I was speaking from experience of being in support groups for people with situation I thought was similar to yours.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/20 03:21 AM
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Added an activity portion because I'm big on participation points and actionable steps. What are some steps you have taken towards ensuring maximum queen energy mentally? (taking meds, attending therapy, whats your routine?) (I also have chronic illness) I take my meds consistently I attend my appointments always I practice yoga once a week for mindfulness I get 8 hours of sleep May sound simple but the simplest things are challenging when you deal with an extra layer of disability. If I slack i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/20 04:28 PM
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I would focus on building financial security right now. You need to start contributing to a safety fund and budgeting. Much easier said than done, I don't mean to insult you. It doesn't have to be wild, even if its a couple of hundred bucks at the end of a year, focus on building up a month's rent if you have to. That's a safety fund!! Budgeting is HARD but you can do it! Look up ynab.com and watch some of their videos. The point is, look for every oppurtunity to increase your own security.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/20 04:17 PM
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It is completely unacceptable behavior! I refuse to put up with anyone man or woman who tries to convince me I am not worthy because I'm "broken" lmaooo. My disabilities do not make me a discount woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/20 04:11 PM
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Definitely exercise your right to keep your health information private. LVM will exploit the hell out of any percieved weakness. The whole "this one can't run away" mentality sickens me but is very real.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/20 04:07 PM
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AWESOME I was just going to suggest this the other day. Gotta remember that this is femaleDATINGstrategy, but the lines get blurred when self-development inadverdantly help your dating life. Hope this sub clears that up!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 08:28 PM
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No biggie! There WAS a post on red flags :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/20 08:34 PM
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I disagree. I've dated teachers before and they were all PERVS who wanted to surround themselves with young, unsuspecting girls who looked up to them. I used to be a teacher and it's DISGUSTING some of the men they have allowed in the field. It doesn't matter if they were from poorer schools or private schools. Please don't think teacher = safe, a lot of them are teachers because they don't have a choice and it's easier. That said, I have a lot of respect for teachers. Just please don't fool you…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/20 04:34 PM
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Please listen to this OP, most of us on "level 300" have gone through men-inflicted trauma and we have to actively work on this areas that have nothing to do with dating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/20 04:31 PM
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I literally saw this man toss a plastic flower he found on the ground to his wife. And his wife was just disgusted because it was dirty and she got annoyed (rightfully so). And he says "I'm just trying to be sweet to my wife damn, I can't do anything right, geez". LOL, your poor wife doesn't want garbage to go along with the garbage she married. TL;DR: Man thinks dirty litter == effort
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/20 07:02 PM
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Lets not even talk about long hair, let's just talk about women's hair in general. Men are always shocked that a haircut for me costs upwards of 75$ while theirs is like 15$. Congrats, if your barber messes up, it'll grow back in a literal week. I am not willing to pay less for the risk of a bad job, it would take more money to get it fixed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/20 06:59 PM
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No worries, don't feel like you have to! Just tryna spread good vibes around.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/20 11:37 PM
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You blocked him and broke up with him. So proud of you realizing your worth! We stand by a queen who knows her value and ACTS ON IT. Do not take him back, he's had more than enough chances. I did everything right Gonna stop you right there. It's normal and reasonable to be sad and cry over a break up. It's NOT okay to stay there, you need time, I get it. But you are FREE now. Enjoy your FREEDOM to do wtv the fuck you want without dead weight, friends or otherwise. I don't know your full story bu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/20 05:47 PM
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Good luck!! You have cool goals!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/20 04:07 PM
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Im not disagreeing with you but imo, Sandy only did a makeover one night. However, Danny ran track for long enough to get a Varsity jacket, which is a higher commitment than a makeover. I always thought the scene where they took it off both their jackets was meant to show them as equals (or their attempt of it). I chose to see it as men will do whatever it takes if he's into someone and treat the rest like trash. But I can definitely see your point :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/20 11:10 AM
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Assuming you mean HVM, it's High Value Man
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/20 10:57 AM
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That total transparency thing is GOLD. I have a story to share, this guy once said he wouldn't post couple pictures on social media because he wouldn't want to "depress the singles" omfg im dying. You dont want to depress the singles??? But its okay for ME to be bothered over this lack of effort to this SIMPLE request??? Wow. Just wow. Just so ludicrous. I can also relate to the potential pedophile thing. Yikes. Age can be just a number but not in your teens or 20s, no. Don't waste your youth on…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/20 12:54 AM
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AWALT - All Women Are Like That AMALT - All Men Are Like That
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/20 12:36 AM
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Thank you! I have my own behavioral problems in the past and I appreciate resources that helped me. Im glad I can finally share my experiences.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/19 11:40 PM
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Learning the Splits This is dependant on your current progress so if you give me more detail, that'd be great. (I'm also assuming front splits over side splits) But the splits app is fine. I use it too when I'm feeling a little tight and want to do more targeted stretches. I would recommend Pigeon Poses and LOTS of it. When training flexibility, the key is to go slow and know your limits. Overstretching can lead to injury that will set you back for weeks if you're not careful, so if it HURTS rat…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/19 08:55 PM
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I'm going to follow the 80/20 rule here, where 20% of the advice below will help you reach approximately 80% of your goal. In other words, this is not a complete guide but will help you get pretty far, we can talk about the rest later if you like the progress :) This is my personal philosophy. Learning the Basics of Java Set up your tools. I recommend BlueJay for absolute beginners. IntelliJ is another IDE I recommend but stick to BlueJay for absolute basics (unless you already know what your co…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/19 08:42 PM
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I can help with: Learning Java - I'm proficient and can look up resources for you (comp. engineer) Splits - I teach yoga, look above Share my experience and strats for the college thing because I have chronic pain too Be your friend !!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 06:48 PM
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For me at least, mommas boy =/= respecting mothers. Respecting their mothers is desirable but looking for a girlfriend to also perform mom caretaker duties towards them is a no no. This includes cooking while they play video games, doing their laundry or saying "well, my mom does X" etc. Nothing wrong with these scenarios in itself but if they feel entitled or treat it as a right rather than a privelege, boi bye 👋
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/19 07:28 PM
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Welcome! I hear you. I agree on keeping it private until trust is established. During this time, you will be able to determine if he's ready for it. You will definitely want to focus on leveling up during this time (which sounds like you have taken steps towards). This benefits you, which is the most important. But also, HVM recognizes that HVW are not a product of their environment in this situation. Hope I'm inferring the right message from your post, it's quite late. If not, I'm sure some oth…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/19 06:21 AM
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FDS for Relationships. I dig it. I feel like if you don't have successful relationships after playing the dating game, it's all for naught. Thank you for this post.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/19 05:51 AM
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Omg this is awesome
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/19 03:37 AM
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That's what Im saying 👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/19 03:37 AM
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I love the post where it says "This sub has been created because y'all need Jesus"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/19 09:47 AM
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I need your flair omg
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/19 09:05 AM
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When I bring up that I like being with men who consistently tries to maintain his shit, I get attacked and get responses like "No one's perfect 100%" of the time. I get that and that's not what I asked for.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/19 08:50 PM
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Yeah the comments are pretty straight to the point and hard to swallow sometimes. But there are literally TONS of other subs that offer a more light-hearted, apologetic and sympathetic form of support and response. The responses here on FDS is a BREATH OF FRESH AIR. Sure, sometimes the advice of ghosting and walking out seem drastic for the text screenshot you posted but we don't know everything and we certainly don't indulge in the benefit of the doubt. No more excuses for men, it never benefit…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/19 08:41 PM
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Are you sure??? He said no pressure 😘 That makes it totally okay to be a skeez /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/19 04:49 AM
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Thanks for sharing, sorry he was immature and toxic and you have to deal with all this trauma. But I am SO PROUD OF YOU FOR WALKING AWAY FROM THAT SITUATION. You 100% believed you did not deserve to be treated that way and that is HUGE and takes raw strength. I wish I could give you a big hug. I get that it hurts to see somewhat barely bruised and even recieving praise after commiting multiple abusive experiences. I sense the guilt you have for not seeing it earlier, but this isn't your fault. H…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/19 04:42 AM
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Ooh level up oppurtunity! If you ever catch yourself thinking "Am I being too sensitive?" remember that he did not stop to think "Am I being sensitive enough?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/19 03:49 AM
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I was going to privately DM you because Im afraid of revealing too many details and get doxxed one day but I think this needs to be heard. First off, travel costs are much more affordable in SEA. Plane tickets were around 20-50 dollars round trip on several respectable budget airlines. It is not strange for Asians to travel often to neighboring countries. Depending on a person's age and experience with traveling, it's not strange to travel alone if you're at a point where you just can't wait for…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/19 03:09 AM
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Support
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/19 11:37 AM
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MOOD 👏 FOR 👏 LIFE
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/19 11:36 AM
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"I only date face models" courtesy of Andy Bernard. But seriously, "You won't regret it ;)" is something I usually hear before regretting it almost immediately. "Does it hurt?" (lol) "smile, you'll make my day" "you haven't tried that with me" when I say no, Im not into that "I shaved just for you" (lol) "I know something that might cheer you up ;) “ "I've got the cure for that ;)" when I say I have a headache
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/19 11:04 AM
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Was from saudi arabia, showed me pictures of his family pet "panthers". How he owns his own company and how stressful it was conducting business as a student. He was 17. Was bragging about being accepted into MIT while I tutored him the basic of the basic courses EGR 101 (it isn't even a require course, its a class for interested students who don't want to wreck their GPAs by taking the actual intro course. Im talking like pre-pre engineering. I digress. ) Anyway, I'm explaining Rate of Change t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/19 10:47 AM
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I mean, what's done is done. A lot of this FDS stuff takes determination and practice. This is why it's so important to guard your heart, lady. So these sort of feelings don't take up your precious time and energy. That said, don't think you value any less just because you slept with him, no man has that power over you. So what if he's a lawyer, good for him lol, don't let that cloud your judgment. Decide if you even like him as a person. Move on if you don't. Men who sound good on paper can sti…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/19 01:21 AM
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