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Co-signed.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 02:30 AM
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No it was not, and you know darn well that we have maintained a policy of not asking for photos since the inception of this subreddit. You have been a long-time member and are absolutely aware of that rule. As such, your request is more egregious than a new user who may ask by mistake.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 12:50 AM
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You of all people should know better than to ask people for photos. Knock it off. I'm about irritated enough to give you a time-out.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 12:02 AM
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I welcome suggestions for awkward and embarrassing flairs. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/19 01:46 AM
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Guys. This is a post for women. Stop posting top-level comments or I will start giving you embarrassing flairs.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/19 01:11 AM
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Knock it off.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 03:36 AM
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Be civil. Stop being rude or you'll go byebye.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 03:32 AM
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You'd think that, but I honestly think that it's more energy for them to live and let live than yell at someone. I don't agree with that mentality, but it seems common.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/19 07:21 PM
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Tbh, I'll still ban incels. We're giving the regulars who are incidentally incels a chance to post their screeds, but I'll happily become active for a bit to ban the fuck out of non-regular incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 05:16 PM
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Or someone with willful blindness. Mr. Genova literally cannot empty a trashcan to save his life. He will pile it on the bookcase NEXT to the trash rather than change the bag. No, I don't understand why. Yes, it's frustrating to come home to a mound of trash that should be IN the trash but is inexplicably not in it. And he has no explanation. I despair of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/19 12:34 AM
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My grandparents always called it slave labor. Kids were responsible for all the tasks. It also taught us how to do chores well.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/19 12:31 AM
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Though if you ruin a guy's shirt occasionally, he'll probably just shrug and buy a new one and not bitch at you and withhold sex. I see you haven't met Mr. Genova when I run his clothes through the dryer. (Except he's always up for sex and I have to buy him new shirts.) But I do get passive aggressive comments about shrinking his shirts A LOT.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/19 12:30 AM
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I wholeheartedly agree. /u/fuckGuilt, you're gonna have to do better!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/19 12:27 AM
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Yes? I think that's probably one of the most common things I see. That, or head scratches or rubs. Literally all of my female friends do that for their partners. It's easy, casual intimacy that isn't PDA.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 08:12 PM
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I used to be on the other side (Plaintiff's work) and worked with one of the now partners of my current firm. He harassed me for months to get me to give him my resume and meet with them, and they offered me a job at my interview. I spent three months waiting for the other shoe to drop, then figured out that there was no other shoe. "Work/life balance" has always been such a buzzword but I didn't think any firm actually followed through. Turns out, it's just rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/19 07:44 PM
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I'm an attorney. My firm pays a massage therapist to come in two days a month and give everyone a massage. It's great. She's the mother of one of the paralegals and she is AMAZING. She tells me my back is like plywood, though. My job is literally the unicorn in the legal profession. I've had conversations trying to explain how awesome my employer is to other attorneys in the same field, and they're all deeply skeptical. (We have a game room with racing games, Pac-Man, Halo: Fireteam Raven, golf …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/19 01:40 PM
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My work pays for a massage therapist to come in and give massages, if that counts.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/19 01:34 AM
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Haha I did the same thing! Our anniversary is May 4 and I told Mr. Genova I wasn't remembering another date and that he was stuck with that one. It sucks since it falls on a Monday. I'm thinking Sunday party and Monday signing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 09:06 PM
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See, I don't buy it but I always forget I want it after a few days, so it becomes pointless. He's super amazing at getting me things I love, I just can't come up with gift ideas on my own.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 01:25 PM
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He's trying to spoil me since I've been busting my butt at my job. He wants me to have something frivolous that I'll enjoy that has no "functional" purpose. Usually, he'll buy me something nice for work like a new briefcase but he's trying to get me off that train of thought. Thus far, he's offered a car (don't want to have an inquiry on our credit since we're buying a house); jewelry (I already wear a full set daily); spa days (he already bought me a membership to a spa for Christmas); and othe…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 01:22 PM
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So in first world problems for the day, my birthday is coming up and Mr. Genova wants to spoil me and I can't even come up with something for him to buy for me. So frustrating!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 02:12 AM
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Nope. Be civil.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 01:07 AM
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He purchased a trip to New York so I could feed and interact with a red panda - my absolute favorite animal in the whole world. I legit cried when he told me we were going to be able to feed and pet a red panda. And while there, he gave me all the food so I could feed the panda myself. He's the best. I got him a photo shoot of me in lingerie (boudoir shoot) when I was 21. He loves the photos and still has the calendar on the wall, despite it being many years out of date.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 09:03 PM
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It does write itself doesn't it? I always joke that I became a lawyer because having five sisters meant I was a pro at arguing, and when I found I could be paid to argue... Well, it's the obvious conclusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 03:25 AM
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I'd really enjoy seeing that OP!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 10:44 PM
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Allegedly, my alcoholic mother drank heavily while pregnant with me and my sister. Neither of us have FAS and both have significantly above average intellect. While I'm opposed to women drinking while pregnant, the hysteria is a bit overblown.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 10:40 PM
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Yes! I listen to them while I'm driving for work and they're so entertaining. Mr. Genova doesn't like to hear about it since he's much more empathetic than I am which sucks. Which ones do you listen to?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 06:40 PM
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We're not going to include incels because when we did, all they did was shit on the mat and whine. It was highly counterproductive and pissed off the natives - rightfully so. If you want to create your own sub with blackjack and hookers, go right ahead.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/19 01:52 AM
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Shhhh.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 06:23 PM
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Good luck squiddy!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 06:23 PM
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No, you're welcome to block other members. I highly encourage it, and there's a reason I tend to give people 24 hour timeouts from talking to each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 12:11 AM
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He's banned so you aren't going to get an answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/19 01:50 PM
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He was black ops as far as I understand it. He worked for a private military corporation and was stationed overseas. The information I was able to get to prove his wages was heavily redacted with some concerning names for bonuses. I wasn't particularly concerned with finding out more. I just basically had this moment of "cool. I'm going to die."
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/19 01:47 PM
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I had to sacrifice family, to a great extent. There's a biological urge to remain with your family, even if they're toxic. I don't have the capacity to have healthy boundaries with them, so I had to cut them out. That means losing any familial support at a young age, which is a huge sacrifice. I also had to cultivate vulnerability. It's painful. Admitting that something is difficult or hurtful is really hard, especially when weakness has always been punished. It's like having an exposed nerve, a…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/19 02:38 AM
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I honestly can't say. I do know that when I started talking about my past with my therapist, she was visibly upset about how my childhood went and continues to tell me how amazing it is that I'm a functional human being. I think it's easier to stay within the toxic dynamic because you don't have to question your choices or learn new things. You can stay within your reactions that are comfortable, even if they're unhealthy. And unhealthy people attract other unhealthy people, which only confirms …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/19 01:15 AM
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Same. I think a willingness to get therapy might also be a deciding factor. But then again, I've been well served by simply asking myself the question of what would my family do in this situation and then doing the exact opposite. So who knows?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/19 12:30 AM
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Calling users "toots" is not civil. False endearments are directly against the rules of civility here, and as such, you're getting a warning. Knock it off, or it'll be time-out time. One more violation and it will be a timeout, giving your continued downvotes as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/19 12:23 AM
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Be civil to other users.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/19 12:20 AM
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The black ops guy - honestly, I'm still not sure with him. He was just fucking deranged. I dealt with him while working with victims of domestic violence, and he was unhinged. At the time I accepted the case, I thought he was military. Turns out that he wasn't and had basically no moral code. He literally tried to take a swing at me in the hallway at court - thank god the bailiffs had already identified him as a threat and stopped things before he was able to lay a hand on me. He ended up moving…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/19 12:19 AM
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Charming. I was required to wear a bulletproof vest as the police believed that the men (who had trapped a woman and her son in an apartment and then burned it down) would try a hit on the courthouse. Everyone was required to wear a vest. The judge, the clerk, the sheriffs, the defense attorney... literally all of us. And that life is now behind me. I'm a good old-fashioned civil litigator now. No threats to speak of - which is one of the reasons I stopped doing that job. Now I live in a city wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/19 12:12 AM
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Lol I'm loving how many tough guys we apparently have on here. They'd all just take on a guy bigger and stronger than them without issue and put them in their place.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/19 11:47 PM
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It's literally impossible to have to defend myself from a risk that does not exist where I live. I can only take reasonable precautions based upon the risks that exist, not act like a hypervigilant mess attempting to see bogeymen in the shadows. All of this just seems like ridiculous "tough guy" posturing. I'll continue to live my life without worrying about me being the single murder in the five years, thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/19 11:45 PM
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Perhaps where you live lol. Around here, it's more an incentive for making connections. He's WASPy as fuck. (He'd be super pissed if he knew I called him that but he totally is.)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/19 11:39 PM
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Lol you know I'm a former prosecutor who has been stalked by a motorcycle gang, had to wear a bulletproof vest to court while helping with sentencing of a street gang, and been threatened by a black ops specialist, right? I'm well aware of my mortality and have been in many dangerous situations, but my home is not an area where I need to be concerned. I'm not dating men for their ability to protect me. That's why I live in an area where police like to chill outside my home (I like to offer them …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/19 11:37 PM
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Do these guys not have siblings? Getting a reaction means they already won.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/19 10:40 PM
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I don't need protection from a killer. I live in one of the wealthiest suburbs of my state. It's more than slightly irrelevant. What Mr. Genova is protection from is entitled dudes who like to try to put their hands on me without consent. He's protection from guys who don't take "no" as an answer. I don't like a dystopian inner city. I'm not selecting men based upon the Chicago hood, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/19 10:39 PM
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Yes? What does that have to do with anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/19 09:26 PM
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Ugh the silver tongued thing is real. Mr. Genova is like that and makes friends with everyone, including people who are actively trying to hate him. I don't get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/19 08:42 PM
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Not gonna lie, I have a hard time with the initial premise that the aggressor is much larger and stronger than my SO, given he's 6'5" and broad-shouldered af. But hypothetically? I don't want him to entertain idiots, and I find it far more sexy that he just ignores it and laughs it off than giving them the time of day. Regarding a guy trying to attack or molest me, I've yet to have a guy not back down from even hitting on me the moment that Mr. Genova comes around. But I imagine he'd do the sens…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/19 05:53 PM
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Depending on the field, the recession went longer. In 2015, the legal community had a 50% employment rate within the field. It was brutal. $40k for jobs with $100k in debt. I know other professional industries suffered as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 09:56 PM
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We both have an n-count of one. We've been together ~15 years and are getting married. We both like that we're each other's first. It means we don't have much in the way of hangups, since we've never explored something before. There's a running joke that we'll have a sex dungeon by the time we're in our 40s since we get more and more adventurous as the years go on.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 03:53 PM
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I'm always sad that I live so far away from so many of you. It'd be fun to get together. I know /u/planejane is in my state (or was at least).
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 06:39 PM
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Yeah, that's not the point of a debate subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 01:24 PM
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I even stickied it! Next remedy is going to be flairs of shame.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 01:51 AM
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Lol and here I'm on the other end. I'd vastly prefer low N, and Mr. Genova was a virgin before we had sex. Now that I'm a bit older, virgin is definitely creeping into the not good category, since a 30+ year old virgin probs has a lot of health problems I don't wanna deal with.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 01:39 AM
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They do this for Mr. Genova at the bank we go to, since his dad is one of their highest account holders. It's so disconcerting how it comes up after they figure out who he is. Granted, the perks are great (free financial advisor and lower interest rates - I'm pretty sure they're just planning for when FIL dies) but damn it's creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 08:43 PM
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If it's on a date, fucking run. No good can come from that. If it's friendship and a recent breakup, it's not terrible. So long as it stops soon. If it's not recent, fucking run.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 08:42 PM
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Lack the motivation? Really, you're able to discern my physical and emotional response from all the way over there? Since you're so clairvoyant, why don't you tell me what I'm feeling right now? Besides, even if I "tried hard" to - what, ignore or suppress my emotional state (which seems totally healthy and not at all concerning) - Mr. Genova wouldn't want me to. Sex is about what is freely given and received, not about doing things out of duty or obligation. He's got quite a healthy sex life wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 08:14 PM
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Are you a guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 07:48 PM
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Guys. This is a question for women. It has been since it was posted four hours ago. We have removed at least TEN top-level comments from dudes. Read the flair. Follow it. Any new top level comments from men will result in an unappealable day ban. Edit: Three users have been banned for their simple inability to read the flair or my warning.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 07:04 PM
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Nope. By accident. Apparently, my emotions don't care about that. Can't logic my way around that feeling.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 04:51 PM
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I tried to wake my fiance up with a blowjob once. He elbowed me in the face. Over a decade later and I've never once tried again. As much as I hate to admit it, you're kinda right.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 04:21 PM
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And you need to not personalize.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 02:28 AM
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No. Don't make things personal. And be civil.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 11:48 PM
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No, what you said was a personal attack. I'm literally a founding member of this sub and have been around for much, much longer than you. This is your warning to not continue such behavior, or I will ban you and that will be it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 12:53 AM
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This is unabashed incel content and you don't have a history of posting here. Keep that shit in Braincels.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/19 04:21 PM
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Not appropriate. This is your warning to be civil to other users.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/19 11:30 PM
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This is not a thread for witch-hunting other users. Speculating over the mental state of other users, discussing your armchair psychology analyses is not permitted. I will ban anyone else who participates in such a conversation here.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/19 11:29 PM
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My grandparents had a George Foreman for 20 years until it died. That thing was a trooper. Made good food, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/19 11:24 PM
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I cannot stand eating chicken wings off the bone. I eat them, but I pick everything apart like a fucking savage. I get why it's weird. It's also why I don't eat them in public lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/19 10:11 PM
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Is there a story behind this one? I need to know!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/19 10:10 PM
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Axe is always an AAVE thing to me. It doesn't bother me but the rest do.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/19 10:06 PM
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Are undead also dead for purposes of that? Just checking for... You know, reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/19 10:04 PM
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You have an obligation to be a good steward if the three. Telling people to go away does not fulfill that obligation. Your post has been asked and answered a painful number of times. Remember that when interacting with the community.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/19 10:04 PM
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I fucking love paninis! I have this super old waffle maker with reversible cast iron plates and the other side makes bomb paninis.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/19 10:02 PM
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Oh god that was so obnoxious.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/19 10:01 PM
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As a former prosecutor, I loathe Harris. She was too huge a proponent of the school-to-prison pipeline and pretty horrible as AG. I'd rather creepy-man Biden over her.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/19 04:11 PM
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Tenant instead of tenet. Please stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/19 03:29 PM
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"Contract" of marriage is another. I wish I could stop nonlawyers from using legal words. It'd be better for my blood pressure.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/19 01:30 PM
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Seriously? I don't know a single female lawyer who had a child out of wedlock. Literally, not one. Every woman with kids is married with two kids by 35, then done. Hell, I'm as liberal as they come, and I still told Mr. Genova that we'd be married before I had kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 10:28 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/19 09:58 PM
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No circlejerking.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/19 07:26 PM
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Disrespect doesn't warrant further disrespect. If you consider tit-for-tat to be the appropriate way to manage a relationship, I feel like it's already destined to fail. Arrange for a mutually agreeable time and place and have a discussion. Don't ambush someone and lecture them. It's immature and disrespectful.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/19 01:47 PM
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I'd get up and walk away, and know that he'd irrevocably damaged our relationship. And if he tried the radio silence, he'd get scorched fucking earth. I'm a spiteful bitch and that wouldn't play well. God. That's so cringey.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/19 12:52 AM
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True. I read she pulls in at least 50k a month based off her Patreon, so if she has any financial management skills, she'll be fine. I mean, she has a 2.5k tier for her patreon.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/19 12:46 AM
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Yeah, I wasn't impressed. I bought it to soothe my boredom after finishing Mass Effect and Dragon Age, but it was just... meh. I stopped playing near the beginning and just gave up.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 03:59 PM
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Be civil.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/19 08:57 PM
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Yeah, private messages that solicit that are also against Reddit's terms. And if reported to us, will still result in a ban.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 07:25 PM
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Do not even imply that you are requesting users to doxx themselves or provide information to "prove" themselves to you. That's your warning.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 07:07 PM
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Nope. None of that bs here.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 07:05 PM
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You've been warned. Enjoy your ban.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 06:49 PM
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Oh, I got that, too. That was easier to grow out of, since Pippi had a specific vibe. Ariel was way more popular. Nowadays, I tend to be compared to Jessica Rabbit. I've got a pretty awesome Halloween costume for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 01:02 AM
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I find everyone absurd on this one. All I can say is thank God the comparisons to Ariel will fade. And that I learned that Halle Bailey is not, in fact, the same person as Halle Berry. That was my initial confusion lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 11:23 PM
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Yeah I'm never gonna watch a YouTube video whining about Disney. Jesus, I thought y'all hated Disney and now we must preserve it for some reason? Outrage culture is real. Besides, Ariel's a fucking mermaid. It's not like accuracy is even a real thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 10:34 PM
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Somehow, the rest of society is more upset about Ariel being black than us gingers. I for one will be pleased to no longer be compared to Ariel. Plus, Halle has a gorgeous voice.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 10:27 PM
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Oh, she did. Just not in that comment. She's now serving a timeout for incivility.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 05:19 PM
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She's hilarious. Apparently she makes over 250k a month for these shenanigans. Thirsty guys, man. What the hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 04:57 PM
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You type posts abhorrently and nobody with sanity is going to read it. My God why the ellipses?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 04:56 PM
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100%. I do the same, even for the place down the street. I'm just super lazy in this heat.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 04:55 PM
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Just report the assholes and we'll deal with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 04:50 PM
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Be civil. Edit: actually, you've earned a timeout. I've removed too many of your comments for you to not end up having corner time.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 04:38 PM
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It's just weird. I didn't even go to the "party school" but the more "intellectual" one, and I saw craziness all the time. I guess this confirms my theory about a lot of the guys here.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/19 01:03 PM
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Yeah, and I've never done coke. But I've been to parties where friends bring along friends and next thing you know, there are 30 people in a space meant for 10. It's chaos and madness and violence happens. I just can't imagine having gone to college and going to parties and being able to deny that men are violent. Jesus, the number of guys that punched a wall and broke a hand alone...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 08:24 PM
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That's insane. And yet I see guys insisting that men can't be predatory, and that it's just poor socialization.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 07:01 PM
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One: no incel content. Two: no, I mean normal college boys. Not all of them, but enough of them for it to be visible if you're around it. Hand-waving it away as "date rapist cokehead narcs" is just ignorant of the college scene.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 06:43 PM
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No, I mean normal white collar, wealthy white college boys with pristine pedigrees. Jesus, did none of you party in school? Go to a frat house? Throw a house party? Drink fucking jungle juice and panty droppers? Go to a shitty bar to watch a shitty band? I'm about the most straight laced of them all and I've done those things. Normal dudes aren't virtuous. They're people, and give them an excuse for violence and many will take it. Teen/young 20s dudes punch things and hit people. They shove and …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 06:18 PM
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I find the level of pearl clutching going on in here really interesting. It's also interesting that nobody has observed any of this conduct when college parties are rife with these shenanigans.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 03:56 PM
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Agreed. I've had my shoulder dislocated and a chair thrown at me for rejecting guys. Mind you, both guys were 100% aware I was in a long term relationship and that there wasn't a chance in hell for them. Didn't rightly matter, since my "no, I have a boyfriend" rejection hurt their feelings. The ones who walk away after the no are fine. I don't care. It's the ones where I have to argue with them about my no or fear physical violence that I worry about.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 03:53 PM
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You aren't participating in good faith throughout this thread. Knock it off.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 11:23 AM
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Same. My fiance calls me a walking beacon of rape to express his concern. I'm tiny and have bright red hair and seem to attract a lot of unwanted attention. He worries about it more than I do, to be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 11:22 AM
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And that's called a ban!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 05:47 PM
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I don't care. You aren't being civil and you're receiving a warning. Keep it up and you will get a time out. There's a reason s/he started it is written into the rules. Y'all are like children.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 05:41 PM
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Be civil.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 02:33 PM
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Be civil.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 08:37 AM
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To the person who reported this for racial slurs; we don't police for slurs. We police for personal attacks. This isn't a safe space and people say offensive things. Reporting it isn't going to make us remove it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 01:53 AM
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Nope. Be civil.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/19 07:11 PM
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You are treading perilously close to incel territory.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/19 07:17 PM
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Do not personalize issues. You've been warned numerous times.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/19 02:13 PM
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Be civil.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/19 11:37 PM
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OP, please wait 12 hours between posts.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/19 11:16 PM
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I had a potential client who told me he hit his girlfriend because she was flirting with another guy. He hit her so hard that he ruptured both of her eardrums. That, he told me, was a love tap and that he didn't hit her that hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/19 08:36 PM
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This is a CMV post - top level comments must challenge the OP's view.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/19 08:20 PM
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It's gotten so bad that even when we do purge week we have to keep that rule. They wore out their welcome and smeared shit all over the welcome mat.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/19 03:59 PM
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Aww, you got to it before I did.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/19 03:54 PM
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Thanks! While you're a good user, I dont want the newbies to go on screeds. I reapproved.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/19 03:52 PM
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OP, this is a bit too much of a rant. Can you revise your OP and make it less so?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/19 12:30 PM
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Diabetes is super manageable for kitties! And based on my diabetic kitty, they're completely unfazed by getting shots. My cat would flop around and act like I was petting him rather than trying to give him life-saving medication. If you do a little research, you'll see that there are some pretty solid numbers regarding the amount of food consumed versus the amount of insulin. Since kitties can't tell you if they're feeling poorly, I recommend taking extra steps to make sure that she's doing okay…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/19 01:10 PM
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I feel personally attacked rn. I've actually never had a cold shoulder top but I love the way they look. Sadly, it's not something I can get away with in my conservative job. :(
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/19 01:06 PM
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But it's so preeettty and sparkly. I've loved rose gold since I was a kid. My first cross necklace has rose gold roses on it since I was so charmed by the color. I was so excited when it became popular.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/19 01:02 PM
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My cat got the same way at the same age. He ended up having diabetes. If it is diabetes, wet food will be much better for her. It's much less carb-filled, and carbs shoot up blood sugar. And I think it's easier to calculate the amount of insulin you need to give with wet food. Either way, I hope kitty is okay!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/19 04:39 PM
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Shit, my parents loathed each other before and after they got divorced. I still think it was better that they divorced. Lord knows how growing up and seeing abuse would have shaped me. I can't see a way that sticking my parents in the same house would have engendered better relationships between anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/19 03:39 PM
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Haha I got the same reaction from my best guy friend. He then became even more confused when I told him I moderate it - couldn't understand why I would waste my time doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/19 03:36 PM
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Bold move, insulting a mod. Enjoy your timeout.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/19 12:50 PM
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I sure as hell wish it did. That'd make my life sooooo much easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/19 09:07 PM
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I do. That's my TDEE when I'm not working out. I basically can eat one filling meal a day and a few low calories snacks. I'm 5'2 and 115 pounds. It's hella difficult to stay at that weight, lemme tell you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/19 08:50 PM
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Remember that top-level comments to CMV posts must attempt to challenge the OP's view. This does not do that. Please post under automod.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/19 08:48 PM
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Ugh how do you work out around that many people? It's the only reason I wake up so early for the gym - I can't stand having to jockey for equipment. I wish I had the patience for it, since I'd be able to sleep in. :(
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/19 01:21 AM
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Don't personalize and attack other users.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/19 11:46 PM
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No incel posting.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/19 10:20 PM
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You'd think that, but of the few comments we've had removed by the admins, those are the ones they don't like. I don't make those rules, man.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/19 08:59 PM
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It's summer reddit. It's always shit because 13 year olds think they have enough life experience to talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/19 09:21 PM
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It's summer reddit. It's always shit because 13 year olds think they have enough life experience to talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/19 09:20 PM
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HAPPY BIRTHDAY!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/19 09:08 PM
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Yeah, it's weird. I'm in my late 20s and the two I have only started erupting recently. I fear for the day I have to have them removed. Shits gonna be terrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/19 09:08 PM
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I don't care if people flirt with him, because he's mine and we know it. But man, I can be vindictive if I feel wronged. I asked Mr. Genova, and he said he'd call my friends and make sure I was okay, then ask for me to go to a doctor because I might have a health problem causing me to make crazy decisions. So. We can tell who isn't an asshole in my relationship and it sure isn't me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/19 02:14 AM
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Hunt him down and murder him?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/19 02:03 AM
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No, no they will not.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/19 01:50 AM
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Hands down drag shows are amazing. We have Drag Bingo and it's fucking hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/19 01:34 AM
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I went to one after I was 21. It was fun and silly, mostly because it was a girl's night out. It was just an event where we could scream and be ridiculous without any social stigma. ​ I also appreciated the physicality of it - dudes had a ton of muscle strength and control. It definitely wasn't sexually appealing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/19 08:32 PM
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Nope, her comment is fine. If you think there's a violation, just report it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/19 12:58 PM
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Haha, that's true. I was watching a show with my fiance and his friend, and it was clear the women hated each other. Both of the boys insisted I was wrong until they showed a giant fight between the women. Guys don't see the same social interactions that women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/19 12:56 PM
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Oh, bold move to directly insult someone with the power to ban you. Play by the rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/19 01:21 PM
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He's the best. I'm lucky to have him, and I'm grateful every day that we met. <3
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/19 01:29 AM
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Eight years. In fairness to him, we met at a bar, so he thought I was four years older than I was. Thankfully, we made it through. But damn was it by the skin of our teeth. Without him pushing me to be emotionally healthy, I can easily see how easily I would have been sucked into a cycle of toxicity and mental illness. "Eager to please" just means "unwilling to set healthy boundaries and sacrifice mental health for the happiness of another" in my view. It isn't sustainable whatsoever.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/19 12:51 AM
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Fuuck that is terrifying lol. (Then again, thinking back on younger me, it's not too far off a description) Right? It's one of the reasons that when guys say they want a younger woman, I kinda laugh. I remember that age with painful clarity, and I think many men will rue the day they think that a younger woman will be more biddable long-term. Oh, that was me. My fiance started dating me at 17, and I was so eager to please and make him happy. Well, turns out that not knowing how to say no or take…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/19 12:21 AM
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No, I mean that everything gets bottled up until the threshold of meltdown, then it all comes out at once. And because they're young, emotional processing is also harder and it turns into a ridiculous shitstorm of drama because they got pissed about something small. It's crazy and there's no rhyme or reason behind what provokes it. Go ahead. Ask me how I know lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/19 12:17 AM
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The problem with younger women who are more eager to please is that they don't have good boundaries and when shit FINALLY hits the fan, it will be catastrophic. I say this as the previously younger, more eager to please woman. My poor fiance barely survived those years.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/19 12:09 AM
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Plus he can clearly read. -2/10
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/19 11:29 PM
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I grew up with that, too! My poor fiance doesn't understand that it's a family trait to want to have arguments that have no point or resolution because it's entertaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/19 02:54 PM
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We have our antique silver that comes out every Christmas along with the china, but I don't want all the extra stuff because the family is OBSESSED with it. I feel like the part of the family that has traced our genealogy back to our arrival in the 1600s can have it. I like the tradition of taking out the silver and polishing it before Christmas, but I'm not down with the level of obsessiveness that my family has for it. To be honest, I tend to not associate with my UC family. They annoy me and …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/19 11:10 PM
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I haven't figured out how to refuse to take the ridiculous ice cream forks. I think I'm going to pawn them off on an unsuspecting cousin.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/19 10:37 PM
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And let's be honest - we're not talking about Instagram makeup skills. Those are artistically beautiful, but pretty trashy IRL Definitely! Having clear skin and minimal makeup is the way to go. Instagram makeup is Kardashian style - and nobody is going to claim that's high class lol. This might be a New England-only thing, but there's a phenomenon of wearing wrinkled khakis and a polo shirt to parties to signal how close you are to the hosts. The closer you are, the less you dress up Weird! We d…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/19 10:07 PM
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Bad eyebrows are the WORST. But really, bad makeup skills are up there, as well. Lord forbid you haven't learned the art of primer and have eyeshadow smudged all over the place. Basically, anything that says you don't spend three hours a day on your appearance kinda shows the pleb-ness. And I say this as someone who refuses to put in that much work lol. I was thinking specifically the understated designer purses that would fly under the radar of the Louis Vuitton-carrying types. This is huge. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/19 08:03 PM
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It's a pretty awesome school. I still get to go back to campus frequently since I practice often in that area, and it's still great. It's a public Ivy for sure - though I think the "Harvard of the West" motto that we have all over shirts is a bit much lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/19 07:42 PM
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Exactly. It has to be one of the "known" schools, not just of U of X school. I mean, MIT isn't even ivy, but it's definitely not in the "state" school category. I almost went to Penn State, since I'm native to Pennsylvania. But then University of Michigan offered me more money, and that's hard to say no to. UofM is pretty solidly known and definitely doesn't get the "state school" treatment, so I've suffered no detriments.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/19 05:19 PM
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State schools are definitely okay, depending on what one they are. It just has to be more than University of Wisconsin or whatever. If it has national acclaim, it's probably fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/19 05:07 PM
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The US has strong class divides that go back centuries. There's always been this framing between the old-rich and nouveau-riche, and the fear becomes that the sense of "class" that is denoted will be watered down by people from outside becoming a part of the class. It's like having a glass of great alcohol (whatever variety you prefer) and putting ice in it. It's still the same booze, but it's just... a little less than it was before. UMC/UC people fear that. Therefore, the fear is expressed as …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/19 05:05 PM
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Understand the fashion/signaling of UMC/UC women in your area. You know how there's those jokes about the "white girl college uniform"? The same is pretty much true for UMC/UC women. There's a standard set of attire that signals your social standing. Figure out what parts of it are flattering for you and wear them. Do activities that are traditionally UMC/UC in your area. Where I am, all the ladies in that category do some version of SoulCycle or PureBarre. Make friends, figure out their social …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/19 04:41 PM
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Oh my god that's my absolute pet peeve. I fucking lose it when people talk over me. I'm now an asshole who just keeps talking and refuses to acknowledge that I was interrupted. Sadly, that's not a solution in a relationship, but it is pretty funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/19 03:47 PM
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Don't personalize issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/19 01:55 PM
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Seems like it. It appears related to the height threads, and is starting to die off.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/19 09:11 PM
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I think DINK marrieds are more likely to be invited and become surrogate aunt/uncles than they are to be excluded. At least, based upon what I see in my life. I think as long as the childless friends like kids and are willing to interact, there's not a huge social change. Hell, I feel like I see my friends with kids more often, because I'm actually entertained by playing with a kid rather than being exhausted from doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/19 09:05 PM
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Using words like "dear" or "sweetheart" to refer to other users where there isn't an established relationship is incivil. It's deliberately demeaning, and we've policed that for years.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/19 03:51 PM
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Don't use pet names with other users. You're already on thin ice.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/19 01:01 PM
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No invalidation.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/19 01:02 AM
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We're all the same person ~~ woooo
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/19 10:54 PM
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but the average 5'4" woman can't tell the difference between 5'9" and 6'0" This is really true. There's a point when everyone's taller than you that you just give upon figuring out the difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/19 08:41 PM
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No, we don't want automod at the top. Don't make me have to downvote automod. :(
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/19 04:40 PM
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I assume so. Incels and dudebros from /r/short get real salty over these things.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/19 03:27 PM
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Moreso that our users have proven time and time again that they can't handle certain topics, so mummy and daddy had to say no more. But hey, hope springs eternal.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/19 02:02 AM
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Some people never develop a taste for beer. I'm almost 30 and I still hate the stuff. And yes people, that includes your "it doesn't taste like beer!" beer.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/19 11:48 PM
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That's really going to be a tough one. We still have a line against race-baiting posts, which I'm concerned that's going to be. How about this - message us, maybe even with a bit of a proposed write-up, and we'll see if it's something we can work with. We'd also want it posted at a time when mods are able to be on, since even if it's approved, it is likely to be a shitshow. How's that?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/19 11:47 PM
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Do not ask other users for photos.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/19 02:12 PM
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Jesus even elite wives were household managers. Yes, depending on the era they may have had a version of a castellan to assist, but women weren't just sitting around eating bon-bons. ​ Social climbing and connections was also a job in and of itself for the elite.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/19 01:52 PM
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No. That's just gross. Stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/19 02:18 PM
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I agree. I'm notoriously gushy and overly excited by pretty or shiny things. I'm also the breadwinner and neurotically track my credit score, whereas I'm not even sure my fiance knows he has a credit score. I don't think maturity is opposed by having open and expressive feelings. Maturity is opposed by selfishness, in my view.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/19 01:58 AM
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Probably not. Plus, we had the creepers who saved the photos and tried to repost them during the next purge. Which was suuuper weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/19 07:39 PM
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To be fair, that's been the common refrain, at least since I've been a mod. I routinely tell my SO, "hey, I got called a fat blue haired dyke again."
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/19 07:32 PM
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Protip: If you're trying to keep a guy interested in you, maybe don't talk about having ringworm?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/19 05:03 PM
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That doesn't answer my question. What's the benchmark of when you'll stop saying that someone will leave for emotional issues? Or will it always be goalpost shifting and a new standard? So tell me, when will you stop predicting a woman will leave a partner/spouse with emotional/mental health issues?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/19 04:57 PM
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This is a really good way to put it. Living more authentically and as a result surrounding yourself with people who like your authentic self is far, far more honorable than hiding a critical feature of yourself because other people may not like you. I really like the way you put that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/19 04:53 PM
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Let's not try to explain how to break the rules of the subreddit, please.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/19 04:48 PM
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How long do you have to be with someone before you stop making this statement? I mean, I hear you beating the drum, but you seem to always have a new benchmark or a new goal. So tell me, what's the line?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/19 04:46 PM
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Oh good. Now it's rape week. I'm sure this will go wonderfully.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/19 01:59 AM
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God, yes. I told my SO the only way I'd be willing to have kids is if I could get a surrogate. I don't want to deal with pregnancy, but I don't mind having a kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/19 06:10 PM
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Nope. Be civil.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/19 05:13 PM
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This is not in good faith, and I'm starting to get the feeling that your entire post is not in good faith. You are required to be a good steward of a thread if you post. Behave.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/19 05:11 PM
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Don't use pet names with other users. It's clearly not civil.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/19 04:14 PM
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BDSM girls love this. No, no they do not. Unless it's a TPE or 24/7 situation, subs still expect love and respect. Hell, even then they expect love and respect. Stop using kink to justify shitty behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/19 03:47 PM
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The Sims is the definition of a sandbox game. You play in a world where you have influence over nearly every aspect of the world. Have you played the Sims? The Sims has the most expansions out of any game for the PC. This is well known. That, coupled with the amount of mods in existence, indicates that the Sims is an incredibly successful and prominent video game. Yes, other games have mods. Good for them. It doesn't negate that the Sims is a massively successful video game. It is not multiplaye…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/19 11:38 PM
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I just love how ridiculous the gatekeeping is. I've played the Sims since it first came out and it's no different than any other game. I also play "hardcore" games and this whole delineation is nothing more than an arbitrary line. Dudes just gotta make themselves feel special lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/19 11:22 PM
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I mean, that's the point. You can't declare an entire section of gaming to not be gaming because it's not the type of gaming you respect. That's just not how it works. And it can be a common interest - it just requires you to actively engage and understand a bit. I mean, I loathe online gameplay, but I still think my SO's enjoyment of Warframe is a common interest because we both game. He's the same. It's not complicated. Idk if you're a woman or not but maybe you can understand this comparison-…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/19 09:51 PM
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The Sims is basically the older version of Minecraft or any other sandbox game. It's been around for literally 20 years. It's freaking video game. Gatekeeping is stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/19 07:28 PM
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Samesies. I'm aborting in all three scenarios. I'm not having a baby outside of a marriage. Hell, I told my fiance that way back in the day when we started dating. I haven't changed my stance, despite being many years older and hopefully wiser.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/19 09:04 PM
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Have you had a pregnancy scare? I know you're young, so I'm curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/19 09:03 PM
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Seriously. I had a pregnancy scare in college (turns out I wasn't pregnant, thank god) but the instant I thought I was pregnant, I had literally no doubts.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/19 02:29 PM
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I do a lot of negligence cases, which are really fun. My actual client is the driver/owner of one of the vehicles, but I get aaaaall the resources from the insurance company. Those are really the only ones I take to trial, to be honest. (And only with a waiver from the insurance company that they'll cover an excess verdict.) Or the super fraudulent ones. I think expert deps can be fun. I rarely bring them in front of a jury because it's a nightmare to pay for the days of testimony (since they ch…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/19 02:48 PM
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Uuuugggggh nooooo. That's the literal worst. But my cases usually involve depositions of doctors prior to trial and lots of expert witnesses and it's a fucking nightmare to prep and not have it go. That's my literal nightmare. All that prep for nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/19 12:59 PM
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Mediation isn't required here, and I never mediated with a pro se because fuck that noise. But even where they were adequately represented, they bitched and moaned. Hell, I had one guy create a GoFundMe where he went on a tirade about the terms of the agreement which said he'd steal the kids when he got them. You bet your ass I got that order modified in record time. It can be useless but mediation can be incredibly helpful, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/19 02:44 AM
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It's more "don't fucking ignore court paperwork" than "you deserve this" especially in light of the fact that I know for certain that there are NUMEROUS free legal aid clinics who help with these circumstances. I chaired one for several years. We helped with these circumstances all the time. Jesus, even physically show up without filing anything and you'll manage. Help exists, and if you bury your head in the sand, it's not our fault. What is the court supposed to do? Say that because the other …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/19 02:16 AM
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Exactly. Or they even AGREE then complain. Lord I loved the facebook posts following a mediation agreement where the other party bitched and moaned about how unfairly they were treated when they fucking agreed to the terms. I always take those sorts of stories with a grain of salt after dealing with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/19 02:10 AM
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Please tell me you at least use a sunscreen. My poor bitty heart won't handle it if you don't. Fuck, just get some of the CeraVe AM moisturizer that at least has a sunblock in it. I think women have a greater advantage, since we are taught about these things from a young age and there's less of a barrier to entry. Hell, try being a guy going to a store for makeup or skincare - you're likely to be ignored or asked what your girlfriend wants. Women have the natural "in" for those things. But dudes…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/19 09:29 PM
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You hurt my heart my calling a skincare regime "lotion" lol. I guess this might be a divide on how we see things. I don't see bronzer or foundation as giving healthy skin, but only the facade thereof. (Not that I generally think bronzer is at all valuable even for that.) Whereas skincare gives healthy skin, rather than the appearance of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/19 09:18 PM
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I think there's a division here. Makeup is not the same as skincare, which many women consider to be part of their hygiene rather than makeup routine. I personally consider my skincare regime something I do before my makeup routine. Makeup can give the appearance of healthy skin, but it does not in and of itself give healthy skin. I also think women are more adept at picking out the difference between appearance and fact when it comes to makeup.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/19 09:05 PM
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Again, this is dependent on your state's laws. Mine does not consider this to be evidence of paternity whatsoever. You can place a cis woman's name there and the state doesn't care. I practiced in family law for years (and had a brief stint doing child support cases for DHHS in the prosecutor's office), and I still don't get it. You have to sign an Affidavit of Parentage to be held out to be the father in my state. Otherwise, there needs to be an Order of Filiation entered by the court, which is…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/19 08:56 PM
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Again, this is dependent on your state's laws. Mine does not consider this to be evidence of paternity whatsoever. You can place a cis woman's name there and the state doesn't care. I practiced in family law for years (and had a brief stint doing child support cases for DHHS in the prosecutor's office), and I still don't get it. You have to sign an Affidavit of Parentage to be held out to be the father in my state. Otherwise, there needs to be an Order of Filiation entered by the court, which is…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/19 08:56 PM
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"I ignored court paperwork, ignored the court taking money from my check, then got upset that it was for a kid that isn't mine. This is so unfair!" It literally doesn't matter if it's about a kid or a divorce or personal injury - if you fail to respond to COURT DOCUMENTS you will be defaulted. Basic civ pro people. Sorry, kinda irrelevant to what you said, I just needed to rant for a moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/19 08:48 PM
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"I ignored court paperwork, ignored the court taking money from my check, then got upset that it was for a kid that isn't mine. This is so unfair!" It literally doesn't matter if it's about a kid or a divorce or personal injury - if you fail to respond to COURT DOCUMENTS you will be defaulted. Basic civ pro people. Sorry, kinda irrelevant to what you said, I just needed to rant for a moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/19 08:48 PM
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That is incredibly state specific. In my state, it literally means nothing for paternity. You can put whomever you want on it, and it isn't even circumstantial evidence of paternity.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/19 08:44 PM
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That's a terrible article to link. First, Michigan has a revocation of paternity act, which is one of the few states to have that option. MCL 722.1439 even provides recourse where a father has been determined as a matter of law by the court. The issue in that suit had to do with the fathers missing court dates. Unsurprisingly, if you fail to show up for court, the court is going to rule against you. Of course, this article doesn't even provide enough facts to be able to tell if the stories are e…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/19 01:46 PM
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Only if you're trying to go K-JD. If you take a few years off and buff yourself otherwise, you might have a better shot. Plus, admission essays will help, too. It's a shitty process, not gonna lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/19 08:46 PM
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A lower LSAT can be balanced by a good GPA and extracurriculars. The exam is getting to have less and less to do with admission since it's freaking useless. Hell, some schools even accept the GRE now, which is pretty cool. Good luck! I hope you get in wherever you plan to go!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/19 07:42 PM
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Awesome! That's a really solid score. I fucking hated that exam. Any thoughts on where you want to go?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/19 06:51 PM
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Stop with the pet names. It's not civil.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/19 01:32 AM
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Nope. Be civil.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/19 03:55 PM
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I really really need my door. My current office was newly renovated and didn't have a door for a while (they ordered the wrong door) and it was MISERABLE not having a door.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/19 04:54 PM
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Lol I love the idea that you and Atlas could ever be the same person.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/19 11:44 PM
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Nope. Be civil.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/19 11:34 PM
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Nope. Be civil.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/19 11:34 PM
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You're this close to earning a ban. Knock it off.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/19 11:32 PM
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Removed. There is no discussion point and this is a rant. Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/19 11:31 PM
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Some people really are that boring? Also, I don't feel like cheating at Monopoly is bad. That's the devil's game and the devil cheats so cheat back.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/19 12:52 AM
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OP, please include a summary of what the link is about. Some people are not able to (or just plain don't want to) watch the video.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/19 12:50 AM
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Oh god it's absolutely miserable. I grew up with one foot in poor and UMC, and thank god it's given me enough to brazen my way through. But damn do I hate events like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/19 10:06 PM
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Count of Monte Cristo is hands down my favorite book. I really enjoyed Man in the Iron Mask as well, but I'd say take a break from Dumas. What'd you think of it?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/19 07:34 PM
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I've wondered about this myself. I've said it before, but I'm about 50/50 on whether I'd go fuck 100s of guys or just become a nun until I found someone new. It's hard to predict, tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/19 03:48 PM
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Can you give an example of an objective Chad? I've always believed that if there is a Chad, it's more of a situational Chad. Meaning, the guy who is a Chad in the artsy group isn't going to pull with the bodybuilding group.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/19 07:21 PM
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I mean, I'd be stoked that Jason Momoa made a pass and immediately go tell my partner, but ain't no way I'm cheating or being shady. I've got integrity.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/19 07:15 PM
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No invalidation and stop this incel bullshit. You've been warned before.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/19 02:54 PM
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Nope. Not having that bullshit here.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/19 03:49 PM
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Ugh the confirmation bias drives me nuts. Fifteen people will say one thing, and one will say the opposite. Of course, people jump on how the ONE PERSON's position validates their entire life perspective. Whhhhhyyyyy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/19 12:16 AM
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Be civil.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/19 10:12 PM
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I consider myself low libido at this point because my sex drive has massively, massively dropped from what it was a few years ago. It has nothing to do with Mr. Genova, but is due to my BC. I've tried going off of it, and my sex drive skyrockets. It's artificially low and drives me up a wall. Honestly, my "typical" sex drive isn't low at all. But since I have to be on the pill, it's incredibly frustrating.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/19 01:46 PM
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Mr. Genova's looking into it. But it doesn't get rid of my need to be on BC, since I have hormonally induced migraines if I don't stay on the pill. My gyn won't even give me an IUD because I need the active hormones from the pill so I don't become incapacitated by pain.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/19 01:46 PM
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I'm pretty similar, though I like kinky sex despite being low libido. I'm starting to think my BC is partially to blame, though. Which sucks, since I can't discontinue it. It's going to be a nightmare if I try to switch.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/19 01:14 AM
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While amusing, knock off the circlejerking, please.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/19 09:19 PM
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Has no one here ever ruined the roof of their mouth on Lucky Charms??? Haha this is the best comparison. Some people haven't ever had too much of a good thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/19 09:18 PM
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Exactly. I knew I was interested in kink years before I had sex. It's not like it's hard to figure out what turns you on in this day and age.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/19 08:49 PM
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Awww, he wasn't very bright. That's really cute though.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/19 08:45 PM
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Well, obviously I want a man that's good in bed. But to be good in b d and satisfy me, there's gonna have to be some kink. That's just what I enjoy. Again, I know what I'm talking about is possible since I have it. Thankfully, Mr. Genova is quite amazing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/19 11:36 AM
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Yes. I already have it in my fiancee so I'm not inclined to compromise. We've been able to explore everything without any previous experience and it's been a blast. It's not like kink requires promiscuity to any extent.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/19 11:34 AM
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Well, it's clear we'd be sexually incompatible. If he's not good with kink, we're gonna have a bad time. Secondly, I'm not keen on getting with a guy with a high N count. Personally, the issue for me is lying. I have a strong no significant lies policy (my SO has a "no lie" policy but I'm more relaxed on white lies), and that's a dealbreaker. Lying is unacceptable, especially if its repeatedly done. And if he volunteered such a complex past (why are we talking about it - I don't have any desire …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/19 01:37 AM
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You know, this is looking more and more like bad faith. Do you want to do something besides repeatedly restate what a user clearly didn't say? Otherwise, I'm inclined to remove this post.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/19 10:28 PM
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N=1. Late 20s, Midwestern US. I'm still with the man I lost my virginity to, and we're getting married next year.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/19 08:40 PM
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Right? And I'll add anyone who modifies their truck to roll coal. So, I basically hate everything to do with truck culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/19 09:43 PM
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More lawyers seem to drive Audis and Lincolns around here. But they all drive like absolute fuck heads.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/19 09:41 PM
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Oh, same! Plus lifted trucks. And anyone with truck nuts. I judge those haaaard.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/19 09:38 PM
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The car itself? Very little. How a guy treats his car? Quite a bit. If it's a trash heap of disgustingness, I'm out. I also like Priuses but I'm weird. I have a particular fondness for ugly cars. They're like pugs. So ugly they're cute.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/19 02:05 AM
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Lol Superman is basically the original Mary Sue. Lord, he's ridiculously OP. I'm no fan of DC in general, but Superman is definitely dated as far as his character.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/19 12:57 PM
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As a reminder, all top level comments must challenge OP's view. Comments that do not will be removed.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/19 12:44 PM
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Yell at them until they figure out how wrong they are? That seems to be the general course of action.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/19 02:54 AM
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There are just so many to choose from, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/19 01:34 AM
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Haha I just adore animals too much. I don't much like people, but animals are my jam. I found a book I wrote in 6th grade where I wanted to move to Paris and adopt like 50 cats. I'm pretty sure that's still the dream. Still, I find it impressive. It's a good thing you're doing. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/19 01:29 AM
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KITTY! S/he's super pretty. I love the eye color. I give mad props to you guys who can foster and not end up as foster failures. I have a friend who fosters itty bitty kittens and I could never do that without adopting all of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/19 01:19 AM
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Yeah, and a lot of people here could do with getting a life.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/19 01:12 AM
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In my early 20s though anything between 2 and 8am was a hell no. I love how different we can be! In my early 20s, I was all down for middle of the night sex, including waking me up by fucking me. In my late 20s, I started threatening bodily injury if he even thought of waking me up lol. Guess college was easier than being at a job all day. By the time I get my AARP card I'll be an accomplished morning sexer looking to get to breakfast during senior citizen discount times Haha, I figure this is w…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/19 01:11 AM
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Just out of interest outside of marvel as we've kind of established they don't do it well, who is your favourite female action hero? I suppose that depends on if we're going modern or more old school. Linda Hamilton in T2 was phenomenal. Sigourney Weaver is highly rated, too. More modern, Charlize Theron in Mad Max was fucking amazing. Emily Blunt in Edge of Tomorrow was also great. (Side note: I'm shocked I liked a Tom Cruise movie. What the hell.) I'm not a fan of the Lara Croft archetype even…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/19 01:09 AM
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Cat tax! You mentioned having cats and I now demand kitties! I really should add that to our rules. If you mention having pets, Leane needs pictures.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/19 11:52 PM
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How are you liking KH3? I want to play it but I don't have a PS4 and I'm not willing to buy one for a single damn game.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/19 11:51 PM
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I'm the opposite! I fucking love morning sex, but my partner hates it. I usually have to convince him to go for it and bribe him with another sex session later. I'm a bit jealous!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/19 11:40 PM
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Pepper I liked at first, but I felt they did a disservice to her character in IM3 regarding dealing with Tony's PTSD. That was a very personal issue, though, since it arose from me living dating someone with PTSD and learning how to be respectful of it. If I ignore that part, I quite like her character. I think it's also hard with CM since she's so new to the MCU compared to Tony and Cap who've been around for a ridiculous number of films. CM ends up looking more Mary Sue-ish since she's not bee…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/19 11:39 PM
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I just don't see BW ever being vulnerable for the right man. The Banner/BW arc fell flat for me. She seemed poorly written and two dimensional - about the same level of development as Jane Foster. And don't get me started on Darcy because that's some bull shenanigans there. I found Captain Marvel more interesting because at least her motivations were understandable and grounded in some personality. I've never felt BW had a personality. I don't know. I just can't stand BW or Pepper.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/19 11:29 PM
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I'm sure it's my bias showing, but I always felt that her affect was bitchy. I particularly hated her in IM2, which just started my hate boner. She's like the try hard bad ass woman. BW in the comics has some great arcs, but man they missed the mark on the MCU version.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/19 11:15 PM
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I don't really think women mock video games. I've never heard that in real life from a single woman I know. In fact, most at least casually game or support their partner's gaming habits. Regardless, I don't think there's any difference between gaming and Netflix, for the most part. And that's my point: there's no moral superiority to "gaming" over "watching Netflix" but you see time and time again guys extolling gaming as leagues above. That's bull. Besides, many women bitching about men's hobbi…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/19 11:03 PM
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Does it? Oooh, that might persuade me to buy it. I love virtual pets. I blame growing up with a Tamagotchi as a kid. Mr. Genova bought me Sims Medieval since I love that era, but damn that was a mess. I just pretend it doesn't exist now.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/19 10:56 PM
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Yet fiction includes substantial categories beyond "sappy romance novels" or Netflix. And he also failed to define what's negative about reading - regardless of whether it's a romance novel or something else. The gatekeeping and psuedo moral superiority over hobbies is just asinine to me. Yes, I like reality TV. No, there's nothing wrong with that. It doesn't define me as a person any more than my love of history or Renaissance festivals does. It's just so ridiculous to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/19 10:47 PM
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I hated Sims 4. Its interface was so weird. It's better than Sims Medieval, but well below 3. But anything that lets me have virtual pets is pretty damn awesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/19 10:44 PM
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Ah, good ol' gatekeeping. It's ridiculous to try to define gaming as though the Sims isn't a part of it, especially given that the Sims has been around since 2000. And who the fuck cares what games people play? Are you going to pretend that there's some sort of inherently greater value in playing FIFA over the Sims? I mean, come on. If the only way you can feel good about your own hobbies is by shitting on other people, you need to 1) get better hobbies and 2) get a damn life.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/19 10:40 PM
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I hate that device with all the passion of a thousand suns. My trainer cannot fathom why I can bench and lift so much but can't do a damn pull up. I should probably use it more, tbh. It's a balance because it fucked up my shoulder at the beginning of the year and put me in PT for two months. Maybe rock climbing will get me over the hump. My gym has a decent wall, so maybe I should just try it. Is it fun?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/19 04:31 PM
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Beautiful women spring forth from the sea like Aphrodite, rather than having to do anything for it. At least, that seems to be the common refrain. Being pretty is work, ya'll. I've spent the week making appointment after appointment and shopping so that I can look super pretty for my anniversary. Shit ain't easy or cheap.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/19 04:28 PM
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Nah, I can do all that. I'm a pretty decent lifter, but my lats and rear delts are assholes that I can't get engaged to save my fucking life. I bench close to my own weight and lat pull downs are the easiest thing in the world. I just am not sure about the transition from lifting to actually, you know, lifting my body lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/19 04:26 PM
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I've been wanting to try rock climbing, but I'm just worried that my upper body strength isn't going to do it for me. It's decent, but I swear to go my lats refuse to engage for anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/19 04:06 PM
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It's really fascinating. I read it previously, but I obviously retained next to nothing from it lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/19 03:50 PM
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I have! I studied the plague pretty extensively, since my concentration was the socio-economic development of Western Europe especially related to the Renaissance. There have been a few new arguments regarding how the plague spread, and whether quarantines were at all effective. I'm currently reading John Kelly's The Great Mortality. I've neglected the area for the last few years, so now I'm trying to get a handle on some of the new arguments. Then I got side-tracked by some of the arguments com…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/19 03:42 PM
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"Consuming" fiction? Is that somehow supposed to make reading fiction less intellectual? Man, that's ridiculous. I'm an avid reader, and I'm currently reading a few updates to theories of the Black Plague as well as studying the history of Amarna and Queen Nefertiti. I know so little of that era of Egyptian history and it's absolutely fascinating! I also work out regularly and consider it to be something I do for fun. I knit (not super great at it yet) and cross-stitch. But if you were to ask me…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/19 02:38 PM
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Atlas’ talk to text notwithstanding. Haha that's painfully true. I sometimes start wondering if I had a stroke when I start reading some of them, then realize that it's just an Atlas comment that got kinda fucked up by voice-to-text.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/19 01:20 PM
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See, that's the thing. BW doesn't seem conflicted. She's a poorly written archetype that prances around as though she's useful when she's not. It's literally every trope that women dislike in female character. She's not strong. She's a bitch for no reason. That's not redeeming. She's as annoying (if not more) than Jane Foster, who was a shoehorned romance for no other reason than an attempt to appeal to a female audience. (Side note: did they really think women wouldn't go see a movie with Hemsw…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/19 01:09 PM
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Nah, I loathed Scarlet Witch and Black Widow. Particularly BW. She's such an obnoxious trope. The useless femme fatale makes no sense on the scale that the MCU is on, even if they go with the Red Room backstory. Captain Marvel had more growth than either of those two idiots and at least earned her place. I don't consider CM a Mary Sue the way Superman is clearly a Gary Stu. Plus, the movie had far more nuanced female characters, which also redeemed it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/19 11:21 AM
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God, Pepper pissed me off so much in IM3. I was an early 20s woman dating a guy with PTSD and I had more wherewithal to deal with his issues than a fucking grown woman with life experience. I liked Captain Marvel, and I think she's probably one of the better written female characters. I'd place her above Gamora or Nebula as a character, tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/19 11:25 PM
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Yes! That's the one that I was thinking of! My lord, it's just painful around here sometimes. Hell, I have very limited scopes of my history knowledge but damn if I don't at least know how to approach these things critically.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/19 11:03 PM
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I mean... guys literally just make up everything to do with the liberal arts. My favorite was that the Hunchback of Notre Dame was from the Middle Ages. If ya'll want to be stemlords, that's cool. Just stay in your lane.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/19 04:05 PM
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Yeah, it's obnoxious. I think they've fucked with their coding too much and it's starting to show.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/19 04:15 PM
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Op, your post was reflaired to CMV because you are making an affirmative claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/19 06:51 PM
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I'm starting to think you need to automate a bot to respond this to half the OPs we get.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/19 10:07 PM
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I highly highly encourage it. It's one hell of a movie. Don Bluth has this creepy way for all his animated films.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/19 01:57 AM
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I highly highly encourage it. It's one hell of a movie. Don Bluth has this creepy way for all his animated films.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/19 01:57 AM
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I mean... I know literally nobody from undergrad who got a liberal arts degree who ended up at Starbucks. There is the one STEM grad who is studying naturopathic "medicine" but that's the worst of them. It's not hard to leverage a job from a liberal arts degree.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/19 01:56 AM
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If, as I suspect, "being pleasant" actually means "make things pleasant for me," then that involves considerably more work. I think you hit the nail on the head. They think of the sweet, soft-spoken housewife who greets him at the door with a kiss and a drink, not the woman who runs the household and raises the children. It's easy to be agreeable on the surface, but there's a lot of invisible labor that goes into having a household that's pleasant. And that labor is, I expect, largely discounted…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/19 01:54 AM
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It's probably the most annoying part about academia. The publishers have every author's nuts in an iron grip and refuse to let go. Authors only have a few copies they can give out for free. Hell, the only reason I know this shit is because I studied it for years. I also blatantly stole my little sister's school login to get access to databases that I no longer had access to.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/19 01:01 AM
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Haines' figures are underestimates. Basically, his figures don't take into consideration migration erasure and other factors for newly established areas. They're close(ish), but still underestimate because it's more economic driven and mathy than sociological. It's what happens when people who don't look at things beyond numbers try to come up with figures for eras without good data collection. It seems like there's a lot of anecdotal, primary source information that says marriages were younger …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/19 12:47 AM
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Same. We didn't marry early, but I've been with him since I was 17 and I'm now a lawyer. I'm pretty sure this hasn't been a death chamber for my life or social status lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/19 12:27 AM
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Or they're control freaks who don't want people in the house. What, no, that's definitely not me. I cannot fathom letting people into my space. It's so weird to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/19 12:26 AM
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I knew you were going to link to that. I literally already had it open because I was so certain. Stop linking to sources without knowing what you're doing. In fact, if you actually read the text, Haines specifically states that we lack the information to make any conclusions about the ages of men and women during their first marriage prior to 1850. Please, I'm begging you. Read what you link before you link it. I'll refer you to The Ties That Bind: Perspectives on Marriage and Cohabitation by Li…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/19 12:24 AM
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He helped me study for and pass important tests, he even drove with me to the testing site the day before the test so that I wouldn't be nervous getting there the day of (and quizzed me on the information on the way there and back). Mine made sure to have an amazing meal ready for me the night I came home between bar exam days. (The exam is two days. Unlike every other law grad, I came home rather than get a hotel.) He massaged my shoulders and listened to me vent about the test for hours. I dou…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/19 12:04 AM
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Um. That's not what the chart says. You linked to a primary source regarding a summary of HRM's colonies in 1876, specifically regarding Victoria. As in, during the time period that it was only considered a "permanent settlement" rather than a full-fledged city/territory. That is a terrible, horrible way to cite to something so specific for the overarching view of what society would have been like. A primary account of a single colony, in 1876, with a tiny population of under 100,000 white peopl…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/19 11:57 PM
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Yeah, I have a friend from law school who had six kids by the time he was 28. I'm incredibly baffled by him, to be honest. He's got super cute kids, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/19 11:48 PM
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It's the female version of a nice guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/19 11:33 PM
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I'm with my high school sweetheart. I think I'm the only one I know who is - everyone is always shocked by it when I tell them. Most people follow your trajectory, especially in the UMC culture I'm in.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/19 11:32 PM
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I wrote a whole long post about it. There's the massive misapprehension based upon the aberrant behavior of certain nobles, which then gets generalized to the entire population. Based upon the data I've found, mean marriage ages remained in the mid/late 20s from the 1500s through 1800s in England. (I can't comment so much on the 1800s, but it's certainly true throughout the 16/17th century.) Interestingly, there seems to be a reduction in age for marriages following the Protestant Reformation - …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/19 11:30 PM
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Lol this is actually my field of study. I got really excited that my super specific field is actually relevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/19 11:19 PM
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I have no expertise on the 16th century marriage (who the fuck does?) You know that moment when you get really excited that your obscure area of specialty is actually relevant? This is mine. My specialization was in this area, and involved a lot of comparisons between nobility marriages and serf marriages. Let's focus on England, since it's probably the most commonly used example. In Tudor England, most people married once they were capable of sustaining and supporting their own household. This …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/19 11:18 PM
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I would never sleep with a guy who is in a relationship. I'm not a homewrecker. Plus, any guy willing to cheat on his partner is a sleezeball and completely unattractive. I think people who sleep with a person in a relationship where they are aware the person is in a relationship are shitty people.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/19 07:22 PM
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Be civil.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/19 05:46 PM
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I LOVED that book as a kid. And the movie was pretty awesome too. Don Bluth is my childhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/19 04:20 PM
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Nobody cares about incels. Nobody.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/19 01:23 AM
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I always loved the tidbit about Wilson and his wife. Allegedly, there's a lot of thoughts that it's because the VP didn't want to step up to the plate (either because he was a wuss or because he didn't want to become in danger of assassination) so Wilson's wife stepped up to the plate. It was so hilariously cloak-and-dagger. I love it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/19 05:16 PM
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Well, that's one way to earn a timeout.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/19 02:36 AM
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Be civil. I don't care if you don't like other users, you have to be respectful.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/19 06:38 PM
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All the love! But also. Cat tax! We demand photos!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/19 01:07 AM
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Lol. Why are you still trying
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/19 02:55 AM
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Just because you dislike a legal order doesn't make it theft. Theft is the absence of legality. Feelings don't make the law illegal.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/19 02:54 AM
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Nope. Knock it off. Not appropriate. This is your warning that further bad behavior will result in a ban.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/19 02:44 PM
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Mine does too. I feel like it's a trap because all of my bosses are still working though.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/19 07:48 PM
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I mean, I'm technically part of the Rust Belt but still. Damn. That's like rural PA prices.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/19 09:49 PM
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Not one mile from my house are neighborhoods full of solidly-built 3 br 1.5 or 2 bath houses, 1200 sf, for $60K or less, in a pretty good school district. Jesus and I thought my $200k house for the same was cheap. Damn.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/19 07:49 PM
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Yes. You were being rude and as the OP of a thread, you have a heightened obligation to be a good steward. Being civil is required, and you certainly weren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/19 01:17 PM
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This is not being a good steward of a thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/19 01:57 AM
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Yup. I deal with insurance fraud all day, every day. You wouldn't believe the number of lying bastards I deal with lol. What sort of issue is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/19 05:09 PM
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Where's /u/willow-girl when you need her?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/19 05:06 PM
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Because I find that behavior disgusting and unattractive, and I'm not inclined to enjoy it. My SO has an N of one, as do I. That's where my values are. Plus, I'm a jealous soul. I don't share well, and I get incredibly proprietary of anything or anyone I deem "mine". It's a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/19 01:52 PM
1

Be civil.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/19 01:50 PM
26

I'll admit that I care. I have a n-count of one, and I'm definitely more inclined to value the same in a partner. This is purely hypothetical, though, since you know... n-count of one. (I have told my fiancee that the two ways our theoretical breakup would go is that I'd become a nun or fuck every guy I see. I have problems with reasoned decisions lol.) I don't angst over it or cry salty tears of rage that guys want to fuck around. I just won't be on their list of fucks, and that's okay with the…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/19 09:04 PM
2

Really? I feel like I tend to have better relationships with guys. With a lot of my female friends, I feel like there's this subtle competition thing going on. My guy friends are more likely to let the crazy out, which is nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/19 02:18 AM
7

Okay, though, that show is hilarious to watch. It's my favorite trash tv. But that's because it's absurd that people spend more than I did on my car for a fucking dress.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/19 07:27 PM
9

make their eyes fall out at the sight of a women's column. Perhaps also be struck deaf and dumb?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/19 06:56 PM
1

It's not. It is not and never has been. I've been on PPD since before there was a PPD. We are here to discuss RP ideas, not advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/19 04:45 PM
2

Paging /u/creightonwabrams to come give her incredibly well-written rant about how this is BS.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/19 03:59 PM
1

Maybe there were a series of very angry men running the account and only one was a lawyer? Or he wasn't compliant with his meds. IDK
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/19 10:51 PM
3

I'm not very agreeable and I enjoy arguing a LOT. Welcome to PPD! I'm pretty sure EVERYONE here should be saying the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/19 08:33 PM
2

100%. My FIL is a pilot (now retired) but goddamn they're all lecherous OCD jerks. I'd rather hang myself than date a pilot - even with the flight benefits.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/19 08:33 PM
3

It is super common. Basically every event is an alcohol fueled thing, and it definitely is something where everyone "jokes" about having a few to wind down daily. As a lawyer who drinks once a month, I've had to learn how to dodge drinking lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/19 08:26 PM
3

I've had a few conversations where I felt like he was. We got into this argument about the concept of corporate waste in child support proceedings, and it's the ONLY time where I was like, "huh, maybe he actually knows something about this." Otherwise, though, I agree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/19 08:24 PM
1

Not an excuse. Don't do it again, or I'll just ban you. I've removed several comments of you doing the same thing. It's not appropriate and it's against the rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/19 07:21 PM
0

No. Knock it off.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/19 07:16 PM
1

Be civil.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/19 12:39 AM
1

And people seem to love to man-handle tiny women. I've been picked up and carried about SO OFTEN when my short guy friends have never had that issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 08:09 PM
2

And I'm guessing sentencing enhancements for causing the victim mental distress. We have Offender Variable IV, which increases the points towards a sentence where the People can prove the victim has lasting psychological effects from the event.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 08:06 PM
7

And to add, what the attorneys say is not evidence. They are trying to create a narrative out of the evidence, but their statements are not testimony or other evidence of the event. The jury has to consider the evidence and the elements of the crime, not just the words of attorneys.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 08:05 PM
2

Then perhaps familiarize yourself with the entirety of our rules?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 05:47 PM
2

What do you mean by angular? I'm guessing you essentially mean hammer toes, so I'm going to answer with that assumption. Again, if you wear shoes with a correct toe box, there's no risk. The cause of it is wearing short, too tight shoes. It's fairly easy to purchase heels with a correctly sized box, so long as you're willing to be picky. I have very tiny feet (5.5) and most fit normally. But it's also important to care for the shoes properly and ensure that they are properly shaped to your foot …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 04:51 PM
1

Not really. If you wear heels that fit properly (have enough room in the toebox, proper lining and padding), they're not bad at all. I wear heels daily and honestly dislike wearing flats far more. Flats are thinner and seem to have less support than my heels.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 04:29 PM
-1

A reminder to not invalidate.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 04:26 PM
2

I do the same. People actually estimate my height as being about 3 inches taller than I am since I'm wearing heels nearly every second of every day. Plus, it means people can look down my shirt less, which is a nice benefit.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 02:32 PM
1

Omg, my dad got so pissed when my stepmother wore heels, since they were the same height. Insecure little man baby throwing a tantrum isn't a good look on anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 02:30 PM
9

That's just like, your opinion, man. Follow the rules and stop being a dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/19 08:25 PM
7

You failed to define a term and got questions about what the term meant. Don't be rude. You've been warned and banned for that behavior before.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/19 08:12 PM
5

OP, remember that you have an obligation to be a good steward to your thread. Being rude is against the rules and not conducive to discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/19 08:04 PM
1

Argh, I hate it when they do that! I've told Mr. Genova he'll die in his sleep as a result of eating my leftovers.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/19 10:21 PM
5

Toddlers are prone to assault lol. At least when they do it, it's because they don't comprehend what they're doing. Guys, who have assaulted me, certainly know better.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/19 09:46 PM
18

And they will not accept most responses to the question, either. "But why?" It's like having a conversation with a toddler who is liable to end up assaulting you. Which I've had happen to me multiple times.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/19 04:31 PM
1

God, I hope so. I already have my stylist thin my hair when I get it cut. It's just too much to handle.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/19 04:29 PM
3

It was super skeevy. Though Mr. Genova corrected me that this circumstance happened while I was 19, not underage. I was confusing it with the times he hit on me while I was completely underage. I did help his ex-wife with her divorce. Then he knocked up a really ugly fat chick and had an ugly baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/19 01:32 AM
4

Lol. I would like to correct the severe misapprehension that he should have ever been put in the category as a hypothetical Chad. Definitely not. No, he asked me for sex while I waiting for a soda at the bar. Ick. On the plus side, I helped his now ex-wife with her divorce after I became an attorney.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/19 01:30 AM
5

I had the groom hit on me (while I was underaged and with my current fiance) at his reception. His now ex-wife did not enjoy that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/19 12:43 AM
2

Thankfully not from his face, but still. I think it's from spending a ton of hours in a plane as a kid, since he was exposed to a lot more radiation as a result. But either way, he's using it - which I know because he has a pathological inability to put it away after use lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/19 09:39 PM
1

You should take my old flair of ruiner of fun. :(
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/19 07:05 PM
2

I've been chasing Mr. Genova to make him actually use some freaking sunscreen, since he's already had precancerous moles removed. He does use moisturizer in the AM and PM, which is super progress! (And the moisturizer in the AM has SPF and the PM has niacinimide/ceramides in it.)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/19 06:40 PM
2

Awww, you removed his response before I could make fun of him it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/19 06:37 PM
1

So, you are saying that someone who is accused of a crime will be coached by their attorney to deliberately lie and point the finger at the accuser, rather than defend the crime on its merits? I'm honestly somewhat speechless, that you assume all attorneys are happily violating their ethical obligations and coaching clients to perjure themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/19 05:37 PM
1

Which is basically what exists in states which consider fault for purposes of things like child support, spousal support, and property division. My state, for instance, considers whether a spouse was cheating, abusive, or otherwise neglectful in divvying up assets. It doesn't seem to change the divisions by much, but it is one of many factors.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/19 05:34 PM
0

No, it's not. And if you think attorneys are coaching their clients to allege domestic violence, you're sorely mistaken. DV just complicates matters and turns a simple process into a ridiculously painful one that doesn't have net positive results.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/19 05:32 PM
4

Because, for some godforsaken reason, they think the entire legal system is run off of fairness (their idea thereof) rather than, you know, the binding legal documents.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/19 04:31 PM
1

Yup. It was revealed to us as soon as we were modded. He's the best chameleon lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/19 12:39 PM
1

Ooooh, yeah, that sounds about right. Brb, figuring out if they're the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/19 12:13 AM
2

Not enough capslock. But I guess we'll see - if so, byebye.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/19 11:59 PM
3

The question really is if they're the tormented or the tormentor. Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/19 06:25 PM
3

RES tags are great. But then users get salty because they think RES tags = mod tags and it starts getting messy lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/19 06:11 PM
1

What's the alt now?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/19 06:10 PM
2

Pfft. People still couldn't figure out who PPD_FE is. I think some of us are easy to peg and some aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/19 06:09 PM
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Removed. This isn't relevant to PPD. Go to /r/AskFeminists if you have questions about feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/19 02:39 PM
3

Yup, Michigan is working on it. Recreational is legal, but selling recreational isn't in effect yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/19 11:41 PM
4

People think me and sublime are the same person. She's probably more patient than I.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/19 10:11 PM
2

I haven't been able to get buffalo chicken to taste amazing in the crockpot. Props to him!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/19 08:25 PM
3

I do, too! I used to do family law and had ring-side seats for family feuds. It was always interesting to see what the opposing party started posting all over facebook, because it in no way conformed with the realities of what was occurring. Since then, I always view personal accounts with a healthy degree of skepticism.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/19 04:36 PM
1

I hate to give a lawyer answer, but it depends. Make it an effort post, and I'm likely to allow it. If you want to send it to us in modmail, we can work with you to have it conform to the rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/19 04:27 PM
1

No worries! Just copy and paste the comment below automod. I've removed this one for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/19 12:54 PM
2

This time, it's not the clarion call of outlier, but the ridiculous accusation of lying. And way too many men posting top level in Q4W, of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/19 12:54 PM
10

The problem I have with the "weakness" argument is that "weakness" isn't defined. Is weakness losing control and throwing a temper tantrum when upset? Yeah, I'd agree that's unattractive. But if weakness means getting upset because of a genuinely saddening event and even crying, I reject that premise.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/19 02:11 AM
3

I'm done with this line of discussion. Don't attack people and their spouses and stop invalidating.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 11:58 PM
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Dear men - This is not a question for you to answer. Please stop post top level comments. I'm going to start awarding "Can't read" flair to people who keep posting where they aren't supposed to.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 08:27 PM
1

50 Shades' popularity has little (if anything) to do with rough sex. That's just the veneer for the story.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 07:37 PM
28

In my view, a complete myth. I've seen all of my female friends choose men who are mentally healthy and have a strong connection to their emotions. I did the same, and am probably with the ringleader of strong male emotions. That said, nobody wants to be with someone who makes them responsible for that person's emotions. Be an adult and learn coping skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 07:31 PM
1

He's fantastic and insightful, but I get paid to read at work. I don't like to have to read a book to debate online lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 12:13 AM
1

Nope. Be civil.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 09:27 PM
2

I can't say. All I can say is that I can understand the reason it's somewhat earth-shattering to them. Asking me why people are insecure and act crazy is not going to get you anywhere, because there's a myriad of reasons I don't get.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 12:28 AM
1

Don't personalize issues and start these types of arguments. Knock it off.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 08:34 PM
2

I think there's a difference between "don't trust men" and "don't trust your spouse" as a concept. There's years of relationship that are the foundation of trusting your spouse, and I can't imagine how crushing it would be to realize that your spouse doesn't seem to have the same foundation.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 08:34 PM
2

I've got this theory that it's because that's the only level of casual physical contact guys routinely get. Guys don't usually hug or kiss each other, but they will jokingly punch each other. That gets translated into affection, and then they expect women to respond that way, too. Even though it's not how women express affection, but contempt. I haven't thought it all the way through, but I think it has to do with casual violence and male affection.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 01:31 AM
5

Lewis hated everyone. Even people he was agreeing with. It was always interesting to have him agree with you while insulting you. I've been around here since before PPD existed, back when it was /r/RedPillDebate. It's interesting to follow the evolution over the years.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 01:27 AM
1

Be civil.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 12:35 AM
1

Be civil.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 12:35 AM
1

Nah. Just read the first paragraph and then make up in your mind what the rest says. It's what the rest of us do. I wonder if he's figured out that I only respond to the things he says in the top paragraph lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/19 02:22 AM
1

No. Be civil.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/19 01:22 AM
3

Things women are like today: dog breeds. Tomorrow, vehicles.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/19 10:55 PM
4

Yeah, he switched to an alt that is also banned.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/19 12:36 AM
0

No incel content. And this is a question for women. You're batting 1000 right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 01:54 PM
2

Okay, so I've decided we have to be long-lost twins or something, because you and your husband are far too much like me and my fiance for me to be entirely comfortable with it lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 01:53 AM
4

We didn't speak of it, but yes. Kids = marriage. I've been willing to be a long-term girlfriend for years, but I won't bring kids into our relationship without the trappings of societal approval and protections for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 01:50 AM
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No. I have no maternal instinct. I'm pretty much considered one step from a sociopath based upon my lack of innate empathy, according to my psychologist. (I had to learn that when someone starts crying, I should at least manifest the trappings of concern, otherwise it'd be weird.) If we have kids, he'll be the stay at home parent and I'd continue working. I suggested surrogacy, but he informed me that my suggestion was weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 01:15 AM
3

Same. I told my fiance that was my one limitation. If he wanted kids, marriage was going to happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/19 10:56 PM
1

True! California is a clusterfuck of an exam. I think they made it so hard because of the ridiculous number of people taking it. I can't imagine such a low pass rate - Michigan's is somewhere in the 70s/80s, I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/19 10:56 PM
2

I mean... the bar is a bit of a low bar. It's a godawful test, but Cs get degrees. There are many friends I went to school with that I would never, ever trust as my lawyer.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/19 10:16 PM
3

That's really sweet. I'm happy for you!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/19 08:45 PM
2

It's more drive based, imo. Education and income can both signal drive, but someone who is driven but makes less money in their field is going to be better than a guy who makes bank but doesn't give a damn about anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/19 04:13 PM
2

Lol you're definitely not one of the people that I have a suspected alt listed. I probably should have an alt, but I'm far too lazy to do so. People do love to accuse me and /u/sublimemongrel of being the same person, but I'm pretty sure they just think "woman lawyer" and refuse to accept that there may be multiple female lawyers who like to argue about things on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/19 04:09 PM
4

I have... no idea how you got that from my comment. Literally, being the type of introvert described in the OP is probably bad for both genders. It's really not healthy, tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/19 02:39 AM
5

Exactly! There's a lack of care or enthusiasm that exists in "I don't go out to eat" that screams mal-adapted or poorly socialized. It doesn't signal good things.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/19 02:38 AM
1

Bye.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/19 01:54 AM
1

Be civil.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/19 01:47 AM
6

True! But it definitely can - I think. I'm not sure I'm so good at the frugal dinner thing. But if this guy had said, "I like making meals at home and exploring new dishes" it'd be way less beige than "I don't go out to eat." This just seemed sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/19 01:46 AM
2

Be civil.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/19 10:14 PM
1

OP, because your post is an affirmative claim, it has been re-flaired as a CMV.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/19 09:30 PM
38

Yeah, this doesn't sound like frugality. This sounds like an extreme introvert/shut-in. I don't want to be with a guy who doesn't want to do anything and have any experiences. This is... sad and boring. That said, cooking at home can be an experience and can be a lot of fun, so it's not like being frugal equals being boring. But the hypothetical posed seems far more "doesn't want to do anything" rather than "trying to be fiscally responsible".
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/19 07:06 PM
2

I love it when users prove the point, don't you?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/19 07:12 PM
1

No prob. And if you feel we aren't getting to it quickly enough and it's a trainwreck, please don't hesitate to message us. We may take a minute to respond, but it's usually because we're discussing and making sure we agree with the plan of action.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/19 07:09 PM
1

Report it when you feel it's a problem. If you want to get hyper-technical, OPs have three hours to engage on CMV posts. If it's been that long without engagement, report it. If you feel an OP who is engaging is not responding in good faith, report the post and the comment you feel is not engaging in good faith. Typically, we'll warn them at that point and let them change their attitude, and if they continue, the post gets removed. The issue here is that users complain in the comments about a la…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/19 07:02 PM
7

No, it really wouldn't. These complaints have been going on for longer than wokein has had an account.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/19 06:46 PM
1

None of this incel bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/19 04:16 PM
2

I suppose it depends on what sort of value they have on your life. Personally, I'd not feel comfortable with my fiancee hanging around cheaters. But I know there's some people you have to deal with (bosses, coworkers, colleagues) that cheat. Otherwise, if it's friends or family, I'd not be cool with that. Maybe call out the bad behavior, if you can? I don't know how other women feel about this, but I think it's skeevy to have a friends group that's filled with people who cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/19 02:32 AM
2

Haha we came up with the same reason. I'm bad at sharing, even for possessions I don't like. I can't imagine sharing my partner, whom I love more than basically anything else in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/19 11:53 PM
6

I'd never do that. One, I'm too selfish, and two, I don't share well. I think in order to actually respect fidelity, it means that you have to respect other people's fidelity as well. I judge the hell out of people who hang around cheaters, have been the "other woman" or help a friend cheat. If I had a partner who had ever been in one of those situations, I'd definitely re-evaluate my relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/19 09:37 PM
5

Oh hell yeah they do. Target has this spell about it. You walk in to buy something, walk out with $200 in useless shit. Mine's basically only filled by UMC/UC women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/19 02:02 PM
2

This is me, as well. My SO says that even when he brings me coffee and donuts as a treat, I still look annoyed. Personally, I think I look happy, but I'm guessing I'm a bad judge at that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/19 11:57 PM
7

On the plus side if BF/husband wins the fight he's going to reap quite a bit of affection. :) Are you kidding? If I saw my fiancee act violent to someone else based off of a verbal provocation, he wouldn't be in the same house as me for a loooong time. I expect him to not act like a barbarian. And if some rando can provoke that response, why would I feel safe being in the same house as him?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/19 07:47 PM
8

Same. His usual reaction to me being hit on is to watch from a distance, wait until the guy sees him, then comes up behind me to give me a hug or a kiss. He thinks it's funny to see the crestfallen look. I think he just enjoys claiming me as his lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/19 01:30 PM
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Hi OP - I've approved your post. Please make a small edit to summon automod. Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/19 02:02 PM
2

No incel content.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/19 03:17 AM
14

Really? Because that was the exact issue that /r/RedPillWomen had, which is that men started recommending women be plates, and when RP women shot that down, they were told to be quiet and to not contradict the men. It's literally how /r/RedPillWives started. Women are well aware that putting out right away is a terrible idea. Men are the ones who encourage the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/19 02:51 AM
2

It was initially posted in /r/AmItheAsshole so probably a fake story. Entertaining subreddit, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/19 11:13 PM
1

Yeah, no. Be civil and knock this shit off.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/19 01:56 AM
11

Oh, I'd agree I was super forward. But I personally think IOIs can rise to the level of approach depending on what they are. It's not like women just sit there like a brick regardless of whether they're interested in a guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/19 03:33 AM
1

Financially he wasn't wise. He's a miser, who hoards money for no goal besides the possession thereof. He denied his child money to get necessary asthma medication, which resulted in his son getting walking pneumonia. Which he got because his father didn't get him treated for strep when he was two, which resulted in him being hospitalized for scarlet fever. Which caused permanent lung damage, thus necessitating the medication. So no, he's not financially wise. He's a foolish boomer who hasn't fi…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/19 03:24 AM
1

How can you enjoy cardio?? I'm getting lectured by my trainer to add cardio in, but I fucking hate it. How can anyone love this? Is it just Stockholm Syndrome????
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/19 03:16 AM
1

OPI is a great formula, but I swear it goes on too thickly sometimes. I'm actually a huge fan of Julep's line of polishes, which are a middle ground between OPI and Essie. On the indie side, INLP is phenomenal.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/19 03:12 AM
0

He had a great father with great values. Really. Don't talk about things you don't know about. Honestly, this is so infuriatingly wrong that I don't even think I have the capacity to respond to it cogently. His father is an abusive, narcissistic piece of shit. But I'm so glad that based off of one comment about his father's spending, you can know everything about him! Please, tell me more about my own FiL. Does it ever get tiring, using your psychic powers? Your children may not like having to p…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/19 03:09 AM
3

I feel anxious and unsettled in mess. Yes! I'll be slightly on edge and not realize it until after the home is clean and I realize I can relax. It's like a noise just below your hearing that makes the hair on your spine stand up. It's awful.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/19 02:42 AM
3

Well, that's a new visual for my body I never expected to have. Thanks for the new and terrifying dreams, I'm sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/19 02:40 AM
24

Lol then they don't want that guy. I plonked myself in my SO's lap the first time I met him and have been dating him ever since. I wanted him, I got him.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/19 02:39 AM
1

Wrong! He has an older brother and lived with his dad. Who was the most miserly human being imaginable, which is probably why he goes to excess. His dad is the living embodiment of Scrooge. That said, he's going to get all the rooms he wants, so it's not like he's being unreasonable cost-wise, just space-wise. But as long as I have a nice kitchen and office, I'm happy. (Plus the gaming room works for me, so I can exile him and his friend when they're playing Smash.)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/19 02:38 AM
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Ugh, whereas mine wants an office, a craft room, a gaming room, and a workspace for power tools. Lord have mercy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/19 01:51 AM
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Lol we are fine. A decade and a half relationship and we haven't killed each other yet. I also love how you decided I'm controlling and throwing tantrums from a generalized statement. Interesting. I also don't need relationship advice, thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/19 04:55 PM
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Lol I found this funny and told my fiance and got the sulky silence back. Clearly it hit a nerve. I think he alleviates guilt by saying "I was going to do that!" because then it's just me being crazy rather than him being a slackass.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/19 01:11 AM
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The problem is that guys often claim they don't "see" that tasks need to be done. They're fine living in filth. So really, this approach results in the same thing, except then the guy doesn't have to hear about it. So yeah, I get why a guy would come up with that approach. I don't have this problem since I work and my fiance does the chores. But damn if I didn't have to train him to understand what a mess actually is.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/19 01:09 AM
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Because then you end up cleaning everything for them, and congratulations! You've become a mom to your partner. And guess what that means? No sex drive. Good job, now you've played yourself because vidya games were more important.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/19 11:15 PM
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Def not true. My SO cried in my arms when I was 18 and I still think it's the first moment I figured out I loved him. I think you're being slightly melodramatic.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/19 01:54 AM
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It can happen. I had a meltdown over him not putting a new roll on after I'd specifically asked if he could even replace it once in a freaking week. Granted, I was studying for the bar, but the meltdown was real. I'm pretty sure how he reacted there could have been a death knell.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/19 01:52 AM
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No, I would not. Because they are inextricably linked. Children abused in sex trafficking rings often grow up to be adult prostitutes. There's an incredibly unsavory underworld dealing with these things, and I got a first-hand look at them. It was beyond distressing and disturbing. The question of whether a prostitute has been forced into the job is an unknown variable, and I cannot in good conscience support it. But way to be condescending. Good job.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 06:24 PM
2

It is an atrocity upon mankind lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/19 11:01 PM
1

Stop running around and insulting users. This is your warning.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/19 10:18 PM
2

It can be! I chipped my hipbone by hitting it hard against a marble counter when my hips first widened. A coworker's hips widened with pregnancy, causing her to have joint instability that didn't go away. She had to stop working out the same way because of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/19 09:26 PM
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Lol he's having the same conversation with me. He seems kinda salty over women not wanting dick that's been in a hooker.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/19 05:39 PM
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Wut. You literally responded to a comment that was about whether I personally would date a guy who slept with prostitutes. Meaning my personal relationship was the subject of discussion. Then you called me hypocritical and sexist, and I explained that you were full of it. So really, how does your comment relate to mine, again?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/19 05:36 PM
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I don't think it's hypocritical when I've slept with one man in my life, whom I happen to be engaged to. Oh, and he's only slept with me. So yeah. And I don't judge guys who won't sleep with the town bicycle. I probably wouldn't want to date her, either. But man you seem salty about my preferences lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/19 03:17 PM
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Haha I'm not gonna lie, he has literally no tact. It's his worst trait. I mean, you ask him a question and you're getting a truthful answer. His response to your statement was, "Man, this is the first time my lack of tact has been a good thing." Note: I’m not claiming your husband is no longer into you lol Nah, no worries on that. You've been around long enough to get the benefit of the doubt. :) My guy is definitely still into me lol. Actually, I think he's more into me now, based upon his acti…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/19 01:26 AM
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This is something I've been curious about, and haven't bothered to ask yet... We know that teenagers have less than optimal success at childbirth compared to women several years older. According to scientific data, between 20-30 (usually averaging at 25) is the best age for impregnation that will result in live young. Why then, do men seek women younger than that? Is it that the disparity in impregnation is too low for the male sex drive to care about? It's just weird to me, since the claimed dr…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/19 11:10 PM
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Agreed. Mine just likes to joke that he clearly didn't groom me that well. He's never indicated that I'm less than I was when I was 17 or 20 or 22 or whatever. I get that there's an age I wouldn't want to date, but there's this visceral disgust that I see on here that is just slightly baffling. It goes beyond "this is my personal preference" into some sort of pseudo divine commandment territory.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/19 10:58 PM
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For me, no. I wouldn't. First, I have an ethical issue with prostitution, since I used to be a prosecutor dealing with sex crimes with children. I dealt with babies who were part of sex trafficking rings - it definitely sours the whole "consensual paid-for sex" vibe, not gonna lie. Secondly, we obviously have a different attitude about sex that means we're probably incompatible. Thirdly, I find it highly unattractive. It's just icky. And yes, I recognize that's silly, but I've never had an STI, …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/19 10:55 PM
1

This is a question for women. You can repost under automod.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/19 10:41 PM
1

Question for women. You can post this under automod.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/19 10:39 PM
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Judge away. I kinda reverse judge on that, because IMO people who claim cleaning takes no time usually don't actually clean, but just give the appearance of cleanliness. Like, if you vacuum, do you just run it over the open space, or do you move furniture to vacuum under tables and get the baseboards? Those are both technically vacuuming, but there's a whole other level of effort to the second.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/19 10:30 PM
1

Huh. I never thought of that. I guess having a personable wife as a realtor would be a definite plus. Also, fuck whoever came up with this model for buying houses. I hate everything about this process.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/19 10:03 PM
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Atlas. C'mon.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/19 10:02 PM
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I'm so excited for you! Like, I know we don't know each other IRL, but I'm super stoked! I always thought I'd like girls more than boys, but when my nephews came along... Man, little boys are awesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/19 09:49 PM
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One: be civil. You've been in quite bad faith to the rest of the female users you've been speaking to, and I'm growing tired of your rudeness. Knock it off and be polite. Second: Requests to admit are a part of the legal process. I was describing the aspect of work I was doing lol. They're tedious and annoying, but I hate farming them out to paralegals because they do so much for me already. Three: I like arguing. It's fun. And this way my poor SO doesn't have to get the brunt of my weird thrill…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/19 09:24 PM
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Nope. I'm outside counsel. We spend a ridiculous amount of time wining and dining our clients. To be honest, my previous firm was entirely different. I never met any of my clients in person (except once) and talked to them only on the phone. Here, we text/email constantly and take them out at least once a month. I'm still getting used to the difference - I think a lot of it is that my firm is younger and we're being aggressive on keeping business. I bet if we were more established, I wouldn't ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/19 09:21 PM
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You are aware that it's easy to BS while working? There's no bragging that I'm a lawyer and I have an amazing SO. Those are just facts. That my clients love my SO is also a fact. If I were bragging, I'd probably come up with something far more exciting than that lol. For instance, I'm currently sitting on my couch while working remotely because I couldn't be arsed to go into the office. (Okay, that's a bit of a lie - I went in, saw the chaos going on due to the move to our new fancy offices and …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/19 09:14 PM
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Insurance work. We often have lunches and dinners with our clients - hell, I'm 99% sure most of my claim reps know the passcode to get into our office without having to be buzzed in. My firm also sends us to basketball/hockey/baseball games with our clients, and allows us to bring our significant others with us. (There's a whole set of drama involving this particular thing, as my current firm is an offshoot from an older firm and is currently only the warpath to prove how amazing we are by throw…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/19 09:11 PM
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Not to mention things like pelvic floor dysfunction, abdominal separation, and other serious medical conditions arise. Those are hella risks to take.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/19 08:18 PM
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Really? My dad used to take my model mother (literal model in her prime) to all sorts of events as arm candy. And he rose in the ranks because she was pretty, vivacious, and someone the bosses enjoyed seeing at events. Hell, I take my SO to my law firm events. He actually made numerous friends who I could then impose upon when I needed a favor. And my clients adore him, since most of them are women. I'm pretty sure the same can be said for my male colleagues. This kind of stuff happens all the t…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/19 08:17 PM
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I don't think I've ever had a discussion specifically about commitment with my fiance. We just kinda... started doing things together. Moving in was just assumed, then when we moved, it was assumed we'd make the move together, and now, it's just assumed that my money is his. (At least on my end; I keep having to convince him that he's free to use my money as he pleases.) I've never had to demand or otherwise do anything to force commitment. That seems so weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/19 08:13 PM
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Be civil. You're on thin ice at the moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/19 06:51 PM
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It gets to the point, sometimes, where it's really hard to tell with some of the crackpots we remove. Are they crazy but with genuine beliefs, or are they trolling? Lemme tell you, it's a damn hard line to draw 'round here.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/19 02:11 AM
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I love my TO products. Cheap, effective, and easy to get. It was sad to see the owner's decline, tbh. I really hope the line stays the same. Their azelaic acid is my absolute favorite. Haven't gotten their Vit C yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/19 12:57 AM
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No incel content.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/19 12:53 PM
1

Bullshit that's a melt. A grilled cheese has CHEESE on it, not any of your BS meats.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/19 01:15 AM
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Completely false. Like, so categorically false I can't even imagine claiming that with a straight face. Every women knows that's cheating. Jesus.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/19 04:15 PM
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Do not downvote on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/19 01:20 AM
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Don't tell other users what their own experiences are. Don't invalidate.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/19 09:00 PM
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Eh. It wasn't really that much different than being a regular employee. I was on the board after being a regular employee, and both were incredibly difficult. I was lucky to have a (mostly) great crew, which made things much easier. Plus, I ran it through a major anniversary, which allowed me get a lot more donations than other directors. But anyone who says non-profit work is easy hasn't been down in the trenches lol. My office had a leak in the radiator that wasn't fixed for the entire time I …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/19 05:41 PM
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Lol. I worked as a director of a non-profit providing legal aid to victims of domestic violence for several years. I made $40,000. I had a law degree and was actively practicing. When I transitioned to government work, I got a $30,000 pay raise. My work in the non-profit was back-breaking and soul-destroying. Not only did I have to advocate for my clients, I had to work to get grants, donations, and keep our name relevant to keep donors. I can't imagine calling it a cushy desk job.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/19 04:15 PM
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Dude, my cat was named Baby! I adored that stupid cat. It stops being weird when you call them that daily. His nicknames included stupid, dummy, fluffybutt and the like.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/19 01:22 AM
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You weren't. Your post got caught in a spam filter, and you jumped to conclusions and began making yourself the victim.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/19 10:45 PM
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I'll admit I believed there might be a bit more intellectual honesty, which made this all the more disappointing. I mean, we have such a strong and clear definition of civil here that it's not hard to figure out. But they started without a definition and just... pigeonholed things into being uncivil so they could ban and remove comments. In retrospect, it's not all that surprising.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/19 04:22 PM
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And yet, here you are. Very convincing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/19 04:20 PM
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Be civil.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/19 02:28 AM
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One comment, as far as I see.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 05:10 PM
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No circlejerking.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 03:42 PM
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You absolutely hit the nail on the head. I adore my fiance, but his compliments about my lawyering skills mean nothing, because he thinks I'm amazing regardless of how well I do my job. But my boss or coworker that I admire? Hot damn, that's an awesome compliment!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/19 11:33 PM
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Be civil.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/19 03:13 AM
1

I'd say a lot of cuspers are closer to millennials than Gen X, at least based upon my SO and friends. But yeah, I agree with your date range.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/19 03:12 AM
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I don't recall that at all, but I noticed people in there, so clearly I have burned that from my memory. Good Lord. I'd love to ask RPers what they think of Heloise and Abelard, but I'm 100% certain they'd have no idea who or what I was talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/19 03:08 AM
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Nope. Based upon our math, he's one of the first gen y/millennial. He's a cusper, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/19 07:33 PM
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Well, he's my fiance now - 1.5 decades later. At the time, he was just my boyfriend. And no, we're both millennials.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/19 12:53 AM
1

Their face washes are really good! If you're looking for something to help with sebaceous filaments, I recommend an AHA or BHA. Personally, I use azelaic acid, which does amazing at reducing pore size, helps with redness, and got rid of my sebaceous filaments. I'd also check out the wiki on /r/skincareaddiction.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 11:22 PM
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Interesting. I've still seen realtors defer to my fiance over me when we're house hunting. And since I am paying for house, it's kinda funny to watch. But his opinion matters more because he works from home and has a lot of time spent at home. He's better like the place! (I'm easy - give me space for a garden and I'll be happy.)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 09:36 PM
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I'd be concerned. Those relationships have a high chance of falling apart catastrophically with some severe repercussions. That said, I was 17 and my fiance was 25 when we first started dating. I think we are an absolute statistical outlier. But nobody said a damn word about the difference in age, excepting the one time I got asked if I needed a children's menu at 21 years old.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 09:14 PM
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The one annoying thing that some men do actually do, is that they expect to be waited on by their partner when they have with a cold, as if they are literally dying, and then don't return the favor. That's a good point! I imagine I'd more be more annoyed fussing over my fiance's sicknesses if he didn't fuss right back. As it is, I'll tease him about being melodramatic a bit, but nothing more since we both do the same for each other. (That said, I can't really compare my experiences, because my p…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 06:20 PM
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As far as I understand it, women are now birthing larger babies than before, partially as a result of better diet and nutrition. But women are still, well, women-sized, and therefore the ratio has been thrown off. It does mean some new challenges for birthing, coupled with positioning that is more favorable to the physicians delivering the child than the mother birthing the child. Add in things like the over-use of pictocin and episiotomies, and the whole birth thing is completely messed up for …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 06:15 PM
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Right? Ironically, it was actually how I transitioned to prosecutorial work. Man, it was nice to be able to bring down the hammer on some of the abusers. I kinda miss it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 03:03 AM
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During the course of my career, I've worked in courts from state district to federal appellate. Domestic cases are, by nature and jurisdictional requirements, state circuit cases. Judges are elected, but rarely do their prior decisions matter for elections. Most people don't even know who their judges are, but vote for the name with "incumbent" next to it. It's incredibly frustrating to have people who have no experience with the legal system, especially the domestic or criminal side, make claim…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 03:02 AM
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What? One, what are you even trying to ask, because that is a vague question. Two, an appeal in this circumstance was based upon procedural violations made during the court of the trial, including an erroneous standard of review for an established custodial environment. It wasn't intended to "help men" whatever that may mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 02:57 AM
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No, but it means you're talking about a subject that you don't have any experience with. I was a divorce attorney for years - specifically for victims of domestic violence - and worked as a prosecutor dealing with child sex crimes as a part of a government grant. The burden of proof still exists, and is probably the only solid rule that domestic court has. Court rules don't really exist, and there's some dodginess with procedural requirements, but a woman cannot just walk into a court and claim …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 02:55 AM
2

Literally anyone else would be more qualified.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 01:09 AM
1

We don't really do anything for Valentine's Day. It's too overly commercialized, and I'm one of those stubborn, spiteful people who rebels if I'm told there's an expectation. I'm thinking of buying him a watch (he needs a new one, since the Breitling is too extra to wear daily) and making a nice meal. I did buy him a cute card with squirrels on it that have super fluffy tails. I'm pretty stoked about that!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 09:40 PM
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It got appealed because it was so egregious. That entire county was garbage for custody cases. Thankfully, while the appeal was happening, prosecutors filed a termination proceeding and his parental rights were terminated. Thank god termination proceedings are fast-tracked, especially compared to domestic appeals.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 09:32 PM
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Made-up land. I can't count how many trials I've had where I had to argue abuse and saw parents still get custody of their children. My favorite was the one where I established that the abuser routinely choked his wife to near-unconsciousness whenever he was upset (it had happened ~10 times that I was able to prove) and the parents were ordered to SHARE THE MARITAL HOME with the children and they had to move in/out according to their parenting time.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 09:27 PM
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E.g. If a woman claims her husband was abusive, no proof is required, and the judge will be more generous towards her. Not the same for men. Really? That'd be a nice world. At least then I wouldn't have had to fight for custody where the husband groomed his wife and raped her from age 13, then moved on to raping his children. Oh wait. No, I did have to prove every single painful allegation in open court. Which wasn't at all humiliating for my client or her children, who had to be probed regardin…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 09:25 PM
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This is a really good point. Men didn't want their dirty laundry aired, so they changed the system to allow for a mere statement that the bonds of marriage were irrevocably broken with no chance of rehabilitation. I guess this is where the play stupid games win stupid prizes saying comes in.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 09:05 PM
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Same. I did do a classy boudoir shoot for my SO, since I wouldn't be embarrassed if those came out. But damn, dudes, this is why women don't give nudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 02:18 PM
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I dunno. He even unbanned me while I was calling him a pantywaist, so he seems good on his word.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 03:25 AM
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I swear, someone even called you a dude the other day. The guys see a comment they agree with, and it must have come from a dude. Baffling.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 02:49 AM
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Aw, did you get lured back in by the promise of a shitshow?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 12:03 AM
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because TRP mods have itchy trigger fingers. Yes, yes they do. Case in point, I've been banned from there for like four years, despite never commenting there. Ever. Pantywaists.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 02:46 PM
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What things do you think we as a mod team can do to address the issue of crazies? I'm open to ideas!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 11:58 PM
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And you may be right. But I'd rather try and see that it's a shitshow than say no and potentially lose a fun opportunity. PPD will remain business as usual during their purge day.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 11:42 PM
1

Do you think that was civil?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 11:40 PM
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I think that's the most negative way to interpret this. It's a subreddit full of crazy people. Maybe it will be interesting and we'll learn something. (That something might be holyshitnevereverevergooverthere but it will still be something different. It's more an attempt to allow people over here to interact with RP folks without worrying about a ban. Yes, it may go poorly, but it will go poorly over there and not here. I'll be far too happy to wield my banhammer and jackboots, as TGP always say…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 11:39 PM
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It takes a lot for Reddit to get really upset with a subreddit. It's possible, but I'm willing to give this a shot on the basis that it's something new. Maybe we'll get some interesting discussions on here about it! (Please dear god someone come up with something new to discuss that isn't n counts or feminism or rape or whatever week we're in now oh god why won't it stop?)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 11:34 PM
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While I concede that I can see why you guys are distrustful (and I probably would be too!), I also think that if TRP turns out to use this in bad faith or as an attempt to stir up traffic, it's not going to do them any favors. They're already quarantined, which we know means Reddit thinks they're on thin ice. If they stir up shit, Reddit is likely to give some sort of smackdown. That said, I'm willing to extend a bit of good faith and see if they can meet that good faith with some of their own. …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 11:27 PM
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Please report posts that break the rules rather than stooping down to their level. He started it doesn't excuse you being incivil.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 10:50 PM
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Oooh, and that's a strike! Be civil to other users. Looking at your comments, time for a timeout. Edit: Actually, I changed my fickle female mind. Bye bye.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 10:50 PM
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It really depends on what the issue is. For me, I had to figure out how to feel my emotions and communicate them without waiting until the box I stuffed them into exploded and burst out all my crazy. Three books I used back in the day were Couple Skills, Try to See it My Way and When Anger Hurts Your Relationship. But more realistically, it was just practice and therapy that did it for me. I don't claim to be the greatest at it still, but I'm way better than I was. I credit my SO for having the …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 10:46 PM
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To be fair, I've banned a lot of the higher RP users over there. They don't tend to want to follow our rules and get yelled at a lot. So it's a bit hard for them to come here. I mean, if we do attract a bit more RP blood, it's not the worst thing in the world. It'll be interesting to see how long it takes for them to be banned or come around the the near universally agreed upon ideas of this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 10:23 PM
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I love that "men made civilizations" and "don't blame me for my ancestors" often come out of the same mouth.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 10:18 PM
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I assure you, they'll be keeping it over there. I have no problem banning freely and without remorse if they start trying to bring their crap over here. Hell, we've banned pretty much all of the prominent RP users at one time or another. We can do it again if needed. I can give you my word as a BP moderator here that I won't let this place change to allow RP direct content. It's not the point of the sub, and I've sunk far too many hours into this place to have it get messed up.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 09:46 PM
2

Definitely no ulterior motive. At least, I can say I don't, and maybe I'm a little slow, but I can't come up with an ulterior motive. The only way I was willing to allow it to take place was if banned users were able to participate. Otherwise, it'd be pointless.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 09:44 PM
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Now, now, sweetcheeks. Don't break your arm patting yourself on the back.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 09:43 PM
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In part, I think it has the potential to allow for some productive (albeit downvoted) conversations. Plus, cooperation and communication when our focus is on talking about TRP is reasonable. If TBP wanted to do the same, we'd also be open to it. It may also be an absolute trainwreck, but it's a trainwreck I don't have to moderate. So long as they keep it over there and not here I'm happy with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 09:36 PM
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Awww, that means my comment calling TRP mods pantywaists went away. :((
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 09:19 PM
2

I'm definitely banned. I'm 99% sure I got banned waaay back in my /r/TBP days - despite never having posted there. Buncha pantywaists. This will be interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 09:14 PM
2

Nah, we all bur our strawmen. Who burns them? Monsters!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 09:08 PM
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Dude, I'd probably put more effort into it. I'd have SO MANY OPTIONS. I'd be able to do vampy daytime looks that get me disapproving looks now. I'd be able to rock glitter EVERYWHERE. As long as I have some cats and dogs, I'm so down for that life.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 05:20 PM
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Shit, my stepgrandmother's tubes were tied after she gave birth because the doctor knew that if she had another child, she'd end up dead. That was after 13 children.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 05:17 PM
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Also, those numbers don't tell us the usage rates of the medications. I have an anti-anxiety that I take once a month, if that. But I do have an active prescription for it. And I also have a beta blocker I use when I go to trial. Neither medication implies I struggle with my daily life or somehow "need a man".
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 05:15 PM
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Right? There are so many removed comments, and so many that I haven't removed despite an urge to do so. This is a mess. Guys. Stop being like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 04:42 PM
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I've never had to ask him to open up emotionally, because he's one of the most emotionally intelligent people I've met. I guess years and years of therapy has helped with that. I've comforted him through panic attacks and insomnia. And here we are, a (holy shit, it's been that long??) decade and a half later, still together. I think there's a massive misconception on what being emotionally open means, because I think guys see having a meltdown after repressing their emotions as being open or exp…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 02:59 PM
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Then politely call it out without violating the rules. If you can't do that, refrain from trying to help.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 02:51 PM
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Be civil to other users.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 02:48 PM
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The one I use and love is this: https://www.amazon.com/CeraVe-Facial-Moisturizing-Lotion-Lightweight/dp/B00365DABC?th=1 It's considered one of the best inexpensive moisturizers out there. I use it daily, and am currently on a campaign to have my guy do the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 02:26 PM
1

Have you tried a hyaluronic acid? It's the only thing that's kept moisture in my skin this winter.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 03:32 AM
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I recommend taking a gander at /r/SkincareAddiction which has amazing guides to help you find what will work for your skin. I'm a huge huge huge fan of CeraVe, which has the added benefit of being incredibly affordable. I use the PM lotion daily, and my SO uses the AM lotion with sunscreen. Personally, my routine involves a gentle cleanser (currently Neutrogena daily), a toner (either witch hazel or Pixi Glow Tonic), azelaic acid (for redness - I use The Ordinary's version), a niacinimide (eithe…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 03:29 AM
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And here I am, harassing my guy to use his moisturizer more than once a week. It's good for you - I even bought you one with ceramides and niacinimides and hyaluronic acid! Just use it once a day! C'mon dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 03:24 AM
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Do not insult other users. Do it again and you'll be put in timeout.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 03:10 AM
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Yes on the stupid jokes! He loves to make fun of some of the weird hypotheticals I ask him, since they usually are unprompted. I also inform him of whether he's been called an alpha or beta that day. I really should keep track lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 02:02 AM
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Honestly, gaming isn't something that comes up in conversation a lot. I've had coworkers of a year and I'll idly mention that my weekend plans involve playing a game, and they'll express surprise that I game. Now, dudes who talk about it a ton are seen as immature, because there's a time and a place to discuss it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 01:54 AM
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True, but the number of idiot guys punching walls and breaking their hands in college is drastically higher than that of women. Let's be real: college guys do A LOT of dumb shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 01:49 AM
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Nah. I'm a frequent reader of /r/TrollYChromosome and /r/TrollXChromosomes and they're not bad at all. Ya'll just get salty, that's all.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 12:20 AM
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OP, in order to have a proper CMV post, you must manifest a good faith belief to have your view challenged. I'm not seeing that here. Please keep that in mind going forward, as we will remove posts that don't comply with the rules of the subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 12:14 AM
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/r/GenderCritical is the worst of the worst, given it's comprised of TERFs who are pretty much completely repugnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 12:11 AM
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Take him to get a pedicure! If he can't manage it himself, get the professionals involved lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 11:27 PM
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the times that I have taken it upon myself to just execute whatever responsibility Mr. Abrams is slacking on, he gets INCREDIBLY ANGRY. Yessss! I'm like, do you want me to remind you or do it for you? Because I'm not leaving the festering pile of wet towels sit there until they mold, so those are the choices. Thankfully, it doesn't come up often, but man it's frustrating when it does.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 03:10 AM
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crickets
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 12:41 AM
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You've been warned about the Tina Arena bull in the past. This is your last shot. If you do it again, I'll ban you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 03:38 PM
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Agreed. It's fun and there's no harm. I'm never going to see that guy at the coffee shop again, and he's going to probably go home to his wife/girlfriend and feel proud that he's still "got it" and be a bit smug. I highly doubt he feels like he's been used.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 03:37 PM
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Be civil.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 02:02 PM
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I always use the English cucumbers in the winter, since they seem to be better than the normal ones. I have no idea what the real difference is, but they are a bit better imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/19 08:31 PM
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I looove tzatziki sauce! It's so easy to make, too!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/19 08:27 PM
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as a man, wanting to have a complete spectrum of shoe colors to match all my outfits seems ridiculously frivolous and unnecessary (i could easy get by for the rest of my life and look totally coordinated with two pairs of shoes, one brown one black). but for her, that specific color of shoe was a necessary purchase. I think a lot of that has to do with your profession and networking needs. I know so many male attorneys who are absolute clothes horses and have to have the fanciest and ridiculous …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/19 11:59 PM
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I'm so freaked out at making homemade pasta. I make a killer choux pastry, so I'm thinking I can handle it, but it seems so intensive!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/19 11:31 PM
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Literally nobody. I don't even know anyone who still has a DVD collection. JFC, you can just rent them from Amazon.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/19 11:01 PM
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Inherited funds to purchase are also protected for community property rules. Again, don't co-mingle. Interesting! Does that still apply to the marital home? What about circumstances where the non-purchasing partner spends a ton renovating the home?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/19 11:00 PM
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100%. We fell for the trap with my car, and I regretted it daily. My FiL spent DAYS obsessing over every little ding, and the number of miles we put on it (I'm a litigation attorney - I drive EVERYWHERE). There was no way in hell I'd agree to take money for a house. I'll pass on having every decision regarding my home questioned and freaking out about every little thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/19 10:57 PM
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100%. We fell for the trap with my car, and I regretted it daily. My FiL spent DAYS obsessing over every little ding, and the number of miles we put on it (I'm a litigation attorney - I drive EVERYWHERE). There was no way in hell I'd agree to take money for a house. I'll pass on having every decision regarding my home questioned and freaking out about every little thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/19 10:57 PM
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Yeah, there's a huge difference between having access and actually digging through. I have permission to access my fiance's phone, but I use that permission to check when he has his alarm set for so I can turn it off and wake him myself, or check if plans with a friend solidified after I went to sleep. People who routinely go through their partner's phone are weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/19 09:39 PM
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For real. The only one worse is pulling it out of the fridge and leaving it when you leave. Then you stew at work, knowing you'll have to throw away your delicious meal when you get home.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/19 07:04 PM
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Exactly. I love and adore my fiance, and I can't really fathom us breaking up, but the possibility exists. I'd rather make sure future me can't scorched earth our breakup, and a prenup is the best way to go for that. Plus, it'll help us structure his inheritance, which is going to be ridiculously large.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/19 02:57 PM
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Not at all. It's why I'm getting married. I want him to have access to my assets, and I want him to have a stake in the home I'm buying. It's why I'm in favor of a prenup, because I know that I'm a giant asshole and if my relationship fails, I'd be liable to try to screw my wonderful SO over. So my rational self is going to prevent me from being the bitch I know I can be, to protect my SO and ensure his entitlement to my assests.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/19 10:46 PM
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DON'T TELL ME HOW TO LIVE MY LIFE.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/19 09:12 PM
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I have a problem with users who don't follow the rules. If you want to have this discussion, you may message modmail. But the warning stands.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/19 03:52 AM
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Don't insult other users and conform to our rules. We've been down this path before, so you know what you're not allowed to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/19 03:07 AM
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Tone it down.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/19 01:26 AM
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Exactly! He's had to start telling me just because he has a passing interest in something doesn't mean I need to buy it for him. Especially since we're saving for a house right now. But I love him and I want him to be happy, and I want him to enjoy spending time at home, so... And that's how he ended up with an entire room dedicated to his hobbies while I work out of the living room.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/19 12:30 AM
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I try to make sure he has everything he needs and wants, which gets a bit expensive. I rarely buy myself anything since I use most of our disposable income on him. Are we the same person? Because I do the same thing. This is also how I learned spending multiple thousands for Christmas on one person is not normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/19 12:18 AM
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I sacrifice a lot for my fiance, though I'll acknowledge I think he's made more sacrifices than I have. I'm definitely the more fiscally indulgent and he's the more emotionally indulgent partner. That said, they're choices we make willingly because we're building a life together, which means sacrificing my own wants to fulfill our wants. We don't keep count of what we sacrifice, since that's the way to end up keeping score.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/19 10:06 PM
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Because 1) it's uncivil, 2) it doesn't lead to productive debate, and 3) it's against the rules. Don't do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/19 03:39 AM
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Wait, you're in Michigan? How did I not know this??? I'm dreading the storm tomorrow. Forgot my charger at work so I can't just stay home and work from home. Blech.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/19 03:38 AM
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A reminder that telling a person that they don't believe what they're saying is against the rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/19 03:32 AM
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Do not invalidate and tell other users their beliefs.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/19 04:13 PM
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Genetic Information Nondiscrimination Act. It prevents employers of over 15 employees from requesting genetic information from an employee for any reason. It's an interesting bit of law. I'll be curious to see how it develops over the decades.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/19 02:16 PM
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I think GINA comes into play on those situations on the civil side. I haven't dealt with it myself, but I've read some interesting discussions about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/19 03:24 AM
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No. What is wrong with you. Be civil or get a time out.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/19 01:54 PM
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Same. I actually didn't develop secondary sex characteristics until I went to college and got on birth control. Years of ballet and the ridiculous "diets" I had to maintain kept me from having a period, boobs, or wide hips. I did chip a hipbone once my hips started widening. That was a rough time.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/19 01:06 AM
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Eh. It's not as hard as I anticipated, tbh. I mean, it's only visible while flexing, but it's there. Now abs are fucking hard to have.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/19 12:42 AM
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Please remember that invalidation (telling someone what they actually feel or experience) is against the rules of the subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 11:25 PM
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Knock off the incel whining bullshit. Keep on subject or you'll be put in the corner until you can behave.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 03:56 PM
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I was a teenager a decade ago in the Midwest and virginity was definitely not prized to any meaningful extent. Hell, girls were more likely to make up a sexual partner than admit to being a virgin. I think you are rather overstating the value of virginity amongst teens.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 12:19 AM
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Depends on the age. If you're talk to ng younger years, definitely not. Most kids get jealous that mom or dad can come along. Older kids? Sure. But at that point, I don't even think kids pay attention to what parents are there.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/19 03:10 PM
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I'd disagree. School parties happen during the day, schools often ask for volunteers for field trips, and there are still doctor's appointments during the day. It's not like the absence of kids in the home means peace. If only lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/19 02:15 PM
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In order to determine who gets to rape us to death. Hard pass.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 03:39 AM
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FYI, your account appears to have been banned by Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 01:05 AM
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True story. I'm glad you continue to point those things out, because I got hella tired of having the same argument about my fiance all the damn time.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 01:04 AM
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To add, you don't have to give a numerical password. If it's a print or faceid, you do not have a fifth amendment right. Which I think is ridiculous, but that's the current state of the law. Use puzzle or number passwords, people!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 10:20 PM
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Suure, says the lover of cow lovers. We really can argue about anything round these parts.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 10:10 PM
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It was about a year or two ago. It wasn't just posts, but comments and near constant derailing of every topic to their shitty lives and perspectives. It was honestly somewhat impressive that they could turn a discussion on the wage gap into a discussion about their inability to get sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 12:45 AM
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Question for women. Automod, please.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 05:31 PM
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Purge is over. Knock it off. I have removed multiple comments in a row. One more and bye bye.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 04:35 AM
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Be civil.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 04:34 AM
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Purge is over. No incel content, even during the Purge. No.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/19 09:12 PM
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Aww, man! You got a bag of lizards. They only gave me one!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/19 02:37 AM
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How do you remember things?! Jesus, I was commenting on that and I recall none of it. It's like an out of body experience lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/19 02:34 AM
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It's all they know. And yet, they're shocked! Shocked, I say! That women aren't into them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/19 02:31 AM
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Same. All I've figured is he's a dick and that he doesn't know how to use his dick. Such a sad fate.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/19 02:30 AM
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Pfft. Gingers have souls. We just... appropriate them from other people first.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/19 02:27 AM
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Lol says the guy who reported me for calling him intellectually dishonest. People in glass houses, Lewis.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/19 02:23 AM
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I love you and I will have your babies.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/19 02:22 AM
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No. We don't want to see them. Ick.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/19 02:19 AM
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I think that might be sexier than whatever he does. Poor woman. Maybe she's able to buy a Sybian with all his money and have some fun
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/19 02:16 AM
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I'm pretty sure I watched when I was like... 13. Not sure I could even tell you what happened in that movie beside a scene where Mel Gibson tries on pantyhose?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/19 02:12 AM
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I think these posts are getting even more stupid the more I drink.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/19 02:11 AM
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Maybe the poor woman would get an orgasm that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/19 02:08 AM
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Yeah, I'm trying to decide if I'm going to avoid the gym for the week or just suck it up and go super early. It's always madness.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/19 12:38 AM
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REPORTED.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 11:23 PM
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We banned it like four days in last time. Because it got that bad. And the users were happy with it, too. Which says something lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 08:22 PM
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We banned it last time. But last time was a shitshow. And it took the incel idiots a few days to make their way here.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 08:17 PM
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Yes. We're drunk and lazy and far too irritated to do things like "reading" and "editing". Deal with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 08:17 PM
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Same. And I bet the university's attorney is going to get in that prior instance of sex harassment - he's a certified creep and a jury isn't going to like him at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 02:33 PM
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Knock it off.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/18 11:57 PM
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Stop posting sarcastic comments. It's circlejerking, lazy, and isn't indicative of good faith posting. Knock it off.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/18 08:35 AM
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We don't allow the use of "cope" as a response around here. It's low effort and lazy language.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 11:14 PM
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He was told (by a RP mod at that) that his title was needlessly inflammatory and to modify it. He then interpreted that to mean his post would not be allowed. Why an I mod again? Jesus.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 03:14 AM
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Well, that's extreme hyperbole of what we say. Yes, we focus on positive attributes. That doesn't make them perfect, and you know it. I feel as though you've become quite intellectually dishonest lately and have driven every response to extremes and I can't figure out why. How does it benefit you to mischaracterize what we say in such a way?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 03:13 AM
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Lol I'm a bit jealous and impressed with your focus. I suck at working from home because I always want to cuddle. And I've gotten used to two monitors, so it's hard to cuddle and be productive. But I think it's interesting that we are both needy and both have stay at home partners. So long as we're emotionally fulfilled, it doesn't seem like the rest matters as much.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 03:05 AM
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Oh thank god someone else gets it. He's sleeping and I miss him lol. Golden retrievers with separation anxiety is a good way to put it! We still get asked if we're newlyweds or just started dating because we're so affectionate. We earned the nickname "Kissy and Mrs. Kissy" at our favorite restaurant lol. Your spouse is also a stay at home partner, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 02:54 AM
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That's pretty true. I've realized I'm an incredibly needy person and want a partner who has the patience and capacity to indulge that. The idea of being ignored for hours on end would be terrible to me, and I'd probably end up in a murder-suicide if I were with Mr. Abrams lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 02:48 AM
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So we love our spouses and think they're amazing people. I'd imagine that's the standard that RPers would want from their spouse, rather than having their spouse shit-talk them online constantly. My guy isn't perfect. But why the hell am I going to go bad-mouthing the man I've chosen to yoke myself to? It makes zero sense!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 02:47 AM
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Do not downvote in this sub. It is explicitly against the rules. Consider this your warning.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 05:35 PM
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I'm an attorney, so I have a somewhat antagonistic relationship with opposing counsel. If they're being a dick, I play into it and then kick their ass because they don't expect competence from me. It works well for my client, I find. It probably doesn't work in any other profession, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 12:56 PM
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I'll admit I strategically use it in my job. I look young, and my bar number is higher than my experience shows, so I am easily underestimated. I play young and dumb, then kick ass after their guard is down. Surprisingly, that tactic works on the same person repeatedly. Older guys are easily led, I guess. Otherwise, I won't. My guy likes me smart, and I like being smart. I wouldn't do it in my dating life, since I love intellectual conversations.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 01:25 AM
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I get it. I get told all the time I'm a weirdo for not wanting a guy with a high count, but clearly we have different views on sex, and since I'm fully clean, I don't want to risk my health.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/18 06:14 PM
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Nope. You make a personal attack. That's not something you can do politely. Knock it off.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/18 05:31 PM
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Nope. Knock it off. Your schtick is getting tiresome and if you keep it up, bye bye.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/18 05:13 PM
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No. What is wrong with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/18 05:07 PM
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A virgin. It's what I'm doing IRL, so I'mma stick with that. Personally, 30 partners is waaaaay too many. That's not something I find attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/18 05:07 PM
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My guy is gorgeous, inside and out. He's the guy where all my girlfriends ask if he has a brother. Or proposition us for threesomes. Sometimes both. He's tall, sharp featured, and had the most amazing ice blue eyes. I routinely climb him like a tree (literally and figuratively) and I'm super lucky to have him.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/18 03:54 PM
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Some of us like to argue. And this place can be a refreshing way to practice consideration and gratefulness for our spouses. God knows how many times I read something, look at my SO and think, "I'm so lucky to have you." Besides, this way I argue on the internet rather than with him lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/18 03:51 PM
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No, I just practiced family law for years and have no idea how any of it works. I ran around committing malpractice daily. You caught me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/18 01:30 PM
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you will all graduate college one day, i promise. Eeeeh. Maaaybe?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 09:05 PM
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Lol I'm a short, late 20s redhead. And I hate making lasagna. It's a pain and isn't even worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 08:59 PM
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Same. My finances have been his for years, but his name isn't going to be added to my account until marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 07:24 PM
2

Seriously? It's Christmas Eve. Be nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 06:27 PM
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Well, that's some crazy accusations. How bout you take a break and work on yourself, 'cause I don't even have the ability to deconstruct that level of... whatever that is. Stop making everything about you, and you'll be fine. Keep making everything about you and woe-is-me-ing it, and you won't be. Simple as that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 05:33 PM
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Yeah, I don't have to make a case. I'm telling you that you are woe-is-me-ing and to stop it. Review the rules and follow them. Oh, and look at that! A downvote. One more strike and bye bye.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 03:52 PM
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I always waver on this, because I worry that abusive ex-spouses will have another tool in their arsenal to harass the victim. I also think that level of financial literacy is above what most people can manage. That said, I think there is a bit of a fiduciary duty, but I have no solutions for how to enforce that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 01:50 PM
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Play nicely. Some of the kids have a lot to learn around here.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 01:47 PM
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I'm also getting tired of you woe-is-me-ing across this thread, which is also against the rules. Not everything is about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 01:45 PM
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Stop downvoting. If you keep that up, it's a timeout for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 01:42 PM
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It's mommy wars. And she's hella mommy virtue-signaling. She's the purest, bestest mother ever. Or she could admit that she also wants to shotput one of the little fuckers out a window at some point, but that wouldn't let her win the mommy wars. (My sister is exactly like this. It drives me up a wall since I've seen how she really lives.)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 01:39 PM
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Ha my mom did the same thing. It definitely means I know how to manage a household, though!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 01:36 PM
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Yeah... I have a fucked up family lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 02:35 AM
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I act like that because he killed my dogs, tried to commit suicide on my sister's birthday, and fucked off for the rest of my life. A felony is what he deserves, quite frankly. And don't worry, he works in a field where he isn't background checked and has a younger woman he leeches off of. He's fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 02:05 AM
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Did I say I agree with the law? I'm against the prison industrial complex and don't think that this needed to be a felony. Especially with good old fashioned contempt proceedings - it's really not necessary. But please, continue to circlejerk. You know, the thing that's against the rules. To a mod. Good choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/18 11:52 PM
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He's been a mod for.... Eight months? I dunno. Ironically, he's far more lax on enforcing the rules than most of the rest of us. It's a good balance.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/18 09:38 PM
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I find this funny, because based on the number of times I get called a fat blue haired bitch around here, I'd assume y'all thought we were all massive legbeards lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/18 09:36 PM
2

Imputing income usually only happens when there is no proof of income but it's clear the individual makes money. So, under the table, drug dealer and the like. I don't know what the modification laws are in CA, but in my jx, you just file a motion to modify with the Court/Friend of the Court and have it modified at a hearing. It's pretty easy, and as long as there aren't any bad faith allegations, it goes smoothly.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/18 09:33 PM
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It is in my state. A previous governor and AG ran on a deadbeat dad campaign and got the legislature to pass a law making over $10,000 in arrears a felony.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/18 09:31 PM
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No, it's spite. Trust me, the amounts assessed were pittances and didn't impact anything. And garnishments didn't happen in most of those cases, because the mothers didn't know how to pursue it. Quite frankly, when someone was assessed $20 and you knew they spent at least that much on booze or cigs, it's pretty damning that they won't pay child support.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/18 09:01 PM
3

Yeah I think demographic matters for this. Also, the relative mental health of the people involved matters, imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/18 07:56 PM
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I think it depends on the population you're dealing with. I did low income legal aid family law, and dudes were working under the table constantly. And spite quitting happened a lot. Not to mention the challenge of imputing income onto drug dealers.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/18 07:45 PM
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Only if you have a garnishable wage. The number of under the table jobs people get are ridiculous. Plus, if you switch jobs, the process begins anew. My dad managed to avoid paying out about $200k by switching jobs until he was caught on a bench warrant for felony failure to pay. And I used to see the same thing when I practiced family law.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/18 07:43 PM
3

I'd agree. Crappy relationships end up with fights over everything because they have no ability to have actual conflict resolutions. Now, I still yell at him daily to put the cap back on the toothpaste, but that's because he's a heathen.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/18 07:39 PM
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Oh, I know that feeling! I love baking, and bring in treats often. But I'm definitely not a domestic wife lol. I don't get why people try to create that sort of conflict.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/18 05:33 PM
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Lol I'm always weirded out by fixing a guy his plate. I do that for children, not people I want to fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/18 05:23 PM
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I don't care who started it. Read the rules. And, quite frankly, you started it. I'm finishing it. Be civil or you can come back in the new year.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/18 05:21 PM
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You're about to be due for a timeout if you keep this up. Be civil and knock it off. It's freaking Christmas season. Stop being a jerk.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/18 05:14 PM
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My fiancee does 80% of the household chores. He cooks, cleans, and does most of the errands. He does the car maintenance, makes appointments, and plans life around my schedule. I do the laundry for both of us (most of the time) and cook meals 1-2 times a week. I also tidy up, since his and my definition of clean are different. We've figured out this split over the years. It works and we're both happy with it. I consider that the most important thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/18 05:12 PM
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Forever and ever and ever and ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/18 02:40 PM
3

Congrats!!!! I'm super excited for you!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/18 02:32 PM
3

And all you're going to do is piss them off. Protip: pissing off the person responsible for splitting your assets is a bad life choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/18 01:37 PM
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I'm not maternal. I don't care about children, and they're not a drive for me. If our life is busy, I highly doubt that I'll be inclined to have children. I'd only have kids if my partner decides he really wants kids. Otherwise, I'd be perfectly happy to be child free. While I mean nothing against you, it drives me up a wall to be told that I should have a child regardless of how overwhelming I find my life. The level of proselytizing I experience is ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/18 12:59 PM
0

Lead with what? Being smart?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/18 11:44 PM
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I don't care what you want. I care that you follow the rules. Which you weren't. Follow them or get a timeout.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/18 04:36 PM
1

Be civil.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/18 03:55 PM
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I absolutely agree on the foundation of honesty. My relationship with my fiance is as strong as it is because I can trust him to tell me the truth no matter what. It's hard to be that honest, but we try. He's better at it than I am, tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/18 02:22 PM
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None. We've started talking about it, since I don't care either way, his opinion matters more. Plus, he'd be the one raising them while I'm off being the breadwinner. We'll see. I think he'd be a great dad, but since we're house hunting right now, adding a baby in sounds terrifying .
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/18 02:13 PM
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Lol. I told my fiance that, and he leered at me. So I can see where your brains are at.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/18 02:11 PM
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Don't harass customers is definitely a rule. One he broke. One that would still be broken if an attractive guy was creeping.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/18 01:56 AM
1

Same! I have great conversations with my fiance about feminism and tons of concepts that we disagree (at least in part) on. It's great. I love how intelligent he is.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/18 12:26 AM
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I don't much care about what people I'm not banging do with their bodies. That said, I won't date one. We clearly have different views on sex. I and my fiance both have an n of one, so I've put my money where my mouth is.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/18 12:19 AM
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I'd agree, but also say that if he's ignorant of the risks of sex trafficking and whatnot, it would be even less appealing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 12:07 PM
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Ugghhh mine has done the same. I've bought him a Prusa 3D printer, a new gaming keyboard and I'm gonna sneak and buy him a switch and games. But I still feel like it's not enough. Argh he's killing me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 01:08 AM
4

I don't think feminism is responsible for the New Deal programs, but maybe I'm wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/18 08:59 PM
3

If you would like to discuss, you are welcome to message the mods. I'm familiar with the rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/18 08:58 PM
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If you think trashy people haven't been reproducing for generations, I'd like to place my family as Exhibit A.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/18 07:55 PM
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I'm sure they will. To be fair, TBP cross links here a lot for things even more tame. Unfortunately, asking a hypothetical where an answer can be "hit her" is always going to be polarizing. But it's in line of what we discuss here, so it's hard to say it shouldn't stay just because I find it distasteful. (If that was the basis, there'd be a looot more nuked.)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/18 07:53 PM
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Quite possibly. I wouldn't say it's a shining star of opinions by any means. But I try really hard to not mod by whether I dislike something, since that's horribly biased. I've opened a discussion with the rest of the mod team and we'll address the issue once we have consensus.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/18 07:23 PM
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It's fine to report comments. I would rather reports than not. I find her comments distasteful, but they don't fall afoul of our rules. It doesn't seem to fall afoul of Reddit's rules, given there is not incitement of violence. It's a theoretical.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/18 07:14 PM
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Atlas is a user, and using a user's spouse/partner is against the rules of civility. That's the line. There's no debate on it. If you start attacking a user or their family, you will be banned. If you think comments should be removed that have not been, message us or report it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/18 06:23 PM
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Those are personal comments about a user here. That's the line. Don't personalize issues to our users. We have never policed for criminal conduct. Users endorse a lot of shitty, illegal, and morally repugnant views. That doesn't make them against the rules. We're not the morality police. We're the civility police.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/18 06:14 PM
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What rule does it violate? Offensive statements aren't against the rules. Nor can they be, given the subject matter discussed here.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/18 05:54 PM
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Well, strike two. You've admittedly violated two different rules. Knock it off. And her conduct doesn't influence your bad behavior. Be civil, respect the rules, or be banned.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/18 04:12 PM
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Be civil. I'm also noticing that comments you don't like are downvoted, which is also against the rules. Knock it off.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/18 03:59 PM
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Time for a break. Be civil.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/18 12:49 PM
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When it happens once, sure. But when you take the bill, put your card on it, and hand it to a server, and they STILL hand it back to the guy, it gets annoying. It happens all the time and drives me up a fucking wall. I never drop my tip for it, but I have tipped higher for servers who hand it back to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/18 11:42 PM
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My pet peeve is when the check gets handed to my SO and then I pay and they still hand it back to my SO. Bitch, can you read?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/18 05:14 PM
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No, there is no such mod note. Mods can make personal notes via RES, but you have no such mod note and never have. You've been told that before.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/18 02:49 AM
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Given the fact that this is the hasn't been raised to us, it's hard to do anything about it. Whining and complaining without discussing it with us does nothing. We're not omniscient and unless an issue is appealed to us, we won't see it to review it. I'd expected a bit more from you as a regular. That's disappointing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/18 02:47 AM
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The only thing I can think of is in policies regarding superiors dating down. Even then, it doesn't make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/18 08:46 PM
2

I briefly dabbled in rape/domestic violence cases before landing in abuse and neglect, and the police in my jx typically wouldn't even request a warrant if there wasn't anything beyond the existence of semen. If there was physical evidence like signs of injury, blood/skin under nails, a warrant would typically be requested. We typically authorized for anything that had more than just semen.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/18 06:31 PM
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Arguably, there's some collateral estoppel arguments in there, given that a jury would have to find the elements of rape, meaning they established the victim did not consent. I can see a defense attorney using the necessarily decided portion of res judicata to their advantage on that one.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/18 06:13 PM
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No, but if you answer from a BP perspective, it can still be removed. When I don't know what happened in this case, we do have to look at more than the label. You're a regular, so you should see the people who mislabel themselves to circlejerk on a post. You likely got caught in the crossfire.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/18 06:09 PM
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Are you a lawyer? I'm guessing no. Because incapacity is a legal concept related to intoxication. Again, non-lawyers trying to tell lawyers the law.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/18 06:08 PM
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But at least we'd have the right answer! What was it Atlas said last week? At least she doesn't tell computer people that computers run off of fairies? That's what this is. Non lawyers telling lawyers what the law is. And arguing when they're wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/18 04:24 PM
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I vote we also prevent non lawyers from trying to explain legal principles. This is painful.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/18 03:56 PM
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I've actually had tons. I think it's because my high school friends were super nerdy and geeky, and while I grew up a bit, most of them are still that way. I have friends (loosely using the term) with literal neckbeards, fedoras, and cargo shorts. And they lack the self reflection to realize what they are. I think it all depends on the groups of people you know, tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/18 02:30 PM
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Be civil to other users. You're being disrespectful and not engaging in good faith. Start engaging in good faith, or I'll remove this post.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/18 12:23 PM
4

The same when I was in law school. Whoever is the most stressed and sleep deprived won. I avoided the hell out of that game.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/18 02:03 PM
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Same. I had one scare early on in my relationship, and while I knew I would get an abortion, it was terrifying. Thankfully, it wasn't a pregnancy, but damn. It's terrifying.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/18 02:25 PM
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This screams of trolling. You have one hour to turn this around, or I'll remove it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/18 02:23 PM
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Do not tell people to downvote.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/18 02:46 AM
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You wouldn't believe the amount of weird things we end up saying. Sometimes seriously and sometimes you just say fuck it, and say bizarre things. Hell, my office has a running joke of picking a word/phrase of the day and trying to fit it into oral argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/18 05:49 PM
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Agreed. And when the case doesn't plead out, it's either because the defendant is an idiot who thinks he can do better at trial (he probably can't) or is hoping forcing the PA to go to trial will result in a better plea deal (it won't).
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/18 05:41 PM
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My grandfather fondly reminisces over being cast adrift in a typhoon during the Korean War and having to peel the green core from a hot dog before eating it. I'm not sure that using "old person fondly looking back that the past" is a good metric for whether things were actually good.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/18 05:34 PM
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Farmer's wives never had children, apparently.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/18 05:31 PM
1

No circlejerking, please.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/18 05:21 PM
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Time for a timeout.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/18 05:41 PM
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You were warned for this behavior. Bye.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/18 10:21 PM
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I will be very excited to get out my banhammer and drunkenly ban people if that starts to happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/18 05:32 PM
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Do it civilly and you'll be fine. If you can't manage that, then you can't participate here. It's that's simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/18 10:42 PM
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I don't care about your truths. I care about you being civil to other users, which you were not. Follow the rules. Last time I'll say it. Bricks aren't this dense.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/18 10:41 PM
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Don't circlejerk. You're not a woman. Basically, failure all around. F- for execution.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/18 10:36 PM
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Blah blah blah bringing the truth. Heard it before and don't care. Follow the rules, or I'll ban your ass. Seriously. It's the holidays. Lighten up.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/18 10:33 PM
1

Seriously? Knock it off. One more and you're getting a time out.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/18 10:02 PM
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Knock it off.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/18 09:33 PM
5

I guess this depends on what being an "adult" means in context. Financially? Emotionally? Perhaps division of chores? I mean, we've got to have a working definition before we can decide if two people are "equal" in that context. I'm better at certain skills than my partner. He's better at others (usually the ones that require patience). Are we equal? All I can say is we balance each other out, and when we don't, we just laugh and accept that we're shitty at a task.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/18 01:47 AM
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My sister's fiancee's best friend. We met at the fiancee's 21st birthday. He also made a small child cry by merely existing lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/18 03:57 AM
1

Yeah... You're not doing anything to establish any credibility. Bye.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/18 03:22 AM
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Nope. This has already been decided. We're not a help subreddit for incels. They can do that somewhere else.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/18 02:59 AM
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Incel posts are banned. We're not a support subreddit for incels. Incels aren't part of TRP. Honestly, if you've been around for a while, you'd know why we have this stance. It's what the community wants, and we've listened to our users. Just because you don't like it doesn't make us dicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/18 02:51 AM
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Maybe same. It's Sunday night. But also, the post is a rant. It doesn't add anything, doesn't have a discussion, isn't asking for advice, isn't making an affirmative claim. It's a rant. Ergo, against the rules and shan't see the light of day.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/18 02:47 AM
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While we try not to comment on the transgressions of other users, I can say that we have a simple list of rules, and there are only a few that will realistically result in bans. Take that as you will.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/18 02:44 AM
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This is how we know you aren't familiar with PPD. You just unironically used a purge post to support your point. Congratulations.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/18 02:43 AM
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It involves them in the broadest senses possible. It's not BDSM since it doesn't follow either SSC or RACK. It's not "gatekeeping" when a community has clear principles that have to be followed in order for something to fall within that community. Go ask /r/bdsm_community if they think FSOG is BDSM. I'll wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/18 12:14 AM
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That is true. I've told a guy to just sit there and be pretty because he fucked it up every time he opened his mouth.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/18 09:49 PM
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Which is a fine aesthetic to match if you live there. But as I don't, it's not the fashion style that is appropriate for a guy to match. All I'm saying is fashion is important to women, and most want a guy who matches even a modicum of the woman's effort at style.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/18 09:47 PM
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It's not about what you "can" wear, it's about understanding context and not being an embarrassment. I don't want to have to either be awkward because if a guy or deal with picking out his clothes to be appropriate.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/18 09:34 PM
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That's... Frighteningly normal for someone who gets banned. Y'all should see what PMs I get. Some users try real hard to be creepers.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/18 07:38 PM
4

And what does this have to do with what I said? Please, point out where I or another woman in here said diet equals fad diets. You're derailing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/18 05:17 PM
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K. Bye.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/18 05:04 PM
4

I'm getting tired of your incel shit. Keep it up, and I'll ban you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/18 04:52 PM
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I think it's more a problem of men reading a word, defining what they think it means, then railing against the term. All without having looked at what it means outside of their miniscule context. Fashion has never, ever meant solely fast fashion. Fashion means understanding body lines and cuts to know what is flattering and what is not. If a guy can't get that, I don't think the problem is with imprecise female language, but with their inability to put a modicum of effort into researching the te…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/18 04:05 PM
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No worries. My eyes always catch on it, think I've read what came before it wrong, then double-take. Jet lag is an absolute bitch. I'm surprised you're even cogent enough to be online!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/18 03:25 PM
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*elicit. Illicit is illegal. It's making me twitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/18 03:22 PM
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It's not about being a social conformist or "freaking out". It's about comprehension of social norms and social cues. Things that women screen for, given that a deviation from them can be quite unfortunate for a woman. But women care about fashion. Fashion is not the same thing as "trendy" but includes fit. Don't be surprised if you're not attractive with a wrinkled band tshirt that is ill-fitting. You can be hot as fuck under it and nobody will care, because you failed the initial screen.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/18 03:20 PM
2

I still feel outraged on your behalf. Goddamn, if the kindest description is nice, someone's done you wrong. Literally. So, I've only been with one guy (my fiance), so I'm speaking from limited experience, but sex is like food. You can have meh food, but you can also end up with an all you can eat buffet that is filled with your favorite foods. It's an experience that is fun, fulfilling, and pleasurable. I can't see what's not to like.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/18 02:57 PM
2

Girl, what kinda sex you having that you think it's boring? I feel outraged on your behalf.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/18 02:51 PM
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Ugh, I got a toy that is chargeable and I love it but I hate it. I have to actually plan my masturbation sessions.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/18 02:48 PM
1

Same. But standards sometimes lower. My FIL was with a golddigger for about 20 years. When he got with his current girlfriend, the standard was that she could be a golddigger so long as she was nice. Turns out she's a cunt, but oh well.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/18 02:47 PM
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P.S. Watching The Good Place don't make you smart. But it does mean you don't have complete shit taste in television.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/18 02:46 PM
2

I do too. That one was weird to me, not gonna lie. But I guess if you've never talked about it, it would be super weird. And awkward.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/18 02:45 PM
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Well... we know he's wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/18 02:36 PM
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And! Sometimes you can be aroused and your body says, "Fuck it, I'm not getting wet. Fuck you and your desire for sex." And that's when the lube comes out!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/18 02:35 PM
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I also fail to see the importance of fashion. I see and hear very few women who seem to care. If anything I've heard women say they prefer men who don't give a shit. There's a time to dress up, but otherwise who gives a shit? Just wear your Captain America t-shirt and enjoy yourself, fuck this kissing ass fashion bullshit. Nooooooooo. So, so so so wrong. Fashion has to do with wearing things that are flattering and appropriate for the circumstances. If you show up to a restaurant in basketball s…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/18 02:33 PM
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It should be, but libido waxes and wanes. I don't think it's being "held" but more that the desire is just gone. Not even due to the other person. I'd agree that sex is still necessary, but I think both partners need to be sympathetic to the position of the other. Maybe that means duty sex for one, and the other recognizes the extra effort of their partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/18 02:19 PM
1

Nope. Enjoy the ban.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/18 12:52 PM
1

Be civil.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/18 12:48 PM
1

Don't troll.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/18 12:45 PM
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It's not super common in my generation, either. I'm on a 21 day schedule (no placebo) and my friends do get weirded out. On the plus side, I last had a period sometime in 2015.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/18 12:37 PM
0

A reminder that invalidation and telling people what they believe is against the rules. I've warned you about this before. Stop responding so hostilely to everyone when you personalize the issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/18 12:31 PM
1

Everyone fails. It's part of life. To pretend it won't happen is foolish. I'd rather be there, be able to help when it happens, and help him succeed than pretend he'll never fail and that everything will be fine. I'm not saying to lurk and look and pray for failure, but it's damn naive to think it won't happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/18 12:46 PM
1

Disagree. Yes, we want to see a guy stand back up, but we want to see him knocked down and help him back up. It's incredibly rewarding.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/18 12:47 AM
1

A reminder: Don't tell people what they're actually experiencing or feeling. Invalidation is against the rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/18 12:45 AM
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This is a reminder that your arguments must be in good faith. I'm getting tired of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/18 10:57 PM
3

Omg mine calls his resting psycho face! I'm so happy someone else gets it!!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/18 12:05 AM
1

Jesus I'm jealous of the cost of your personal training. Mine's like $85 a session. You suck!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/18 01:16 AM
1

Man, I have my routine down to 15 minutes with hair, makeup and getting dressed. Granted, I have chosen to sacrifice the things called "breakfast" and "coffee" to make that work, but it's sooo worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/18 01:15 AM
1

Dude, I'm a cuddle whore and I still love sex more than cuddles. I've never met a woman who likes cuddles more than sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/18 12:59 AM
3

You forgot the classic: heyyyy
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/18 11:20 PM
2

This is... a fairly accurate summation of moderating here. I just wish the boys would tattle a bit more so we catch more things lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/18 11:17 PM
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It's typically guys who indicate that's no big deal. I prosecuted a teacher for that circumstance, and so many guys told me it was ridiculous that I authorized charges. I don't typically see women saying those things.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/18 07:03 PM
3

Nope. None of this incel bullshit. Take it elsewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/18 01:25 PM
2

I have blue eyes with central heterochromia. They look kinda like this. My SO calls them solar eclipse eyes, which is a balm for my grumpiness for not having green eyes. My hair is a bit darker than yours. I've actually never had any color whatsoever put in my hair. I've yet to convince a hairdresser that it's a good idea lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/18 01:25 AM
2

Hello fellow ginger! I'm super jelly of the green eyes - I always wanted to be a green eyes redhead.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/18 01:12 AM
1

I think he just has a wider stance? Hell, I can just say it's the easiest, and that when I told him that people thought it was hard, he gave me a confused look.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/18 01:21 PM
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I mean, I can't fathom how it's hard. That's my point. I'm 5'2" and he's 6'5", and it's the easiest position. Granted, we're both pretty athletic, so maybe that helps? And I'm super flexible (thank you hypermobile joints!) so that also probably helps.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/18 01:12 PM
1

Oh, I've been buying jeans and stuff for him for ten years. I've got it down, thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/18 11:25 PM
1

Yeah, shower sex just doesn't happen. It's just impossible. I'm baffled at doggy style though, since I personally think that's the easiest with a height difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/18 11:24 PM
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Yeah, tried those. They look godawful on and I promptly returned them. You'll note they don't even put a model wearing them because hello dad jeans. I don't think I'd be able to wrest him into those if I tried lol. I've just accepted buying expensive ones because if he can't try them on it's a fucking process so I'll pay the premium and buy them in store.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/18 11:18 PM
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17.5?! Holy shit. And I thought 14 was bad! Wow, that would be painful.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/18 09:17 PM
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Ha! Five sisters, no brothers. You're lucky. 😂 But seriously, everything is more expensive I can buy $2 jeans but that bastard can only find his size if I custom order it. (Apparently 34-36/42 is super uncommon)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/18 08:40 PM
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I love how so many of us just rope our poor SOs into these bizarre discussions. They're all so long suffering lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/18 08:24 PM
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And the simplest clothes are ridiculous expensive. A pair of basic jeans cost fucking $80. Goddamn, tall people pay a premium. Or in my case, the person who pays the bills pays a premium for the tall people clothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/18 08:20 PM
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Try to actually answer the question next time, rather than using the post as a jumping point for a tirade. Review the rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/18 07:46 PM
1

Thanks for saying that so succinctly.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/18 03:00 PM
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Yeah, that's not the purpose of this sub. Interact in good faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/18 01:54 PM
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Be civil.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 12:02 AM
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Seriously. You were just banned for this kind of conduct. Wanna make it another one?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/18 10:58 PM
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Haha omg I didn't even think of how that would come out. My head hair is to my waist. My body hair is tiny since I ruthlessly shave every two days lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/18 09:15 PM
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I shower when I go before work. My gym isn't close enough to my work to go during lunch. Not that I could, since my job is too high maintenance for that. But in the evening, I go home and convince my so to shower with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/18 07:43 PM
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The only one I'll give is the shower. Mine if I'm shaving are around that long, since I have hair to my waist. That said, I take ten minute showers at the gym when I have to. I'd rather go home sticky and shower there than at the gym. Who the fuck showers at the gym when they're going home???
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/18 06:07 PM
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Oh God. That sounds so miserable. I'm impressed at you finishing. I would have given up for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/18 06:05 PM
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I do splits, so leg day is brutal on my legs. I time my run days to avoid being near leg day. My typical week looks like this: Chest Run Back Shoulders/arms Run Legs Assorted - usually accessory work for whichever lift I felt was shitty during the week. Right now, I'm running maybe 3-4 miles, trying to up it to six plus. I'm not a strong runner, so this kills me as it is. (How I did track in high school I couldn't tell you.)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/18 06:05 PM
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OP, please be advised that if you keep making posts that are about a third party and then start responding about yourself as the supposed third party, I'll start removing them. Either make an advice post or keep the post not about yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/18 04:51 PM
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Jesus, that is way too much time at the gym. Any guy would feel neglected by that. I powerlift five days a week and run two, and I'm gone for an hour and a half max. That includes driving there, working out, and driving back. Maybe learn to not faff about and be more focused. That much time there says you value the gym time (even not working out) over your partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/18 04:45 PM
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Shit, my weight workouts take less than an hour. Granted, I rest 2-2.5 minutes between, but damn. Four hours at the gym? Jesus fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/18 04:42 PM
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I've never fantasized about a male friend. I'm not a fantasy person, though, so I'm probably odd. I'm guessing my guy friends fantasize about me, given the jokes they make. I'd guess most people fantasize more often, though I have no idea how often. I'm useless when it comes to these questions.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/18 05:56 PM
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Be civil to other users.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/18 06:49 PM
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This isn't the place for your rant. And posts meant to be internal to trp are also not permitted here.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/18 09:40 AM
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Depends, really. If I don't think it's going to detail things, I might let it be. If it's derailing and becoming a circlejerk (which often happens when the non-requested side chimes in), I'll remove it. Here, I left everything but the top comment. Nothing harmful or likely to blow up was said, and there's minimal karma.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/18 12:38 AM
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Yes, but it doesn't count against you. It's just to keep things neat. Mods are like housekeepers in that way lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/18 12:31 AM
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Being sassy is fun. And it's usually fun for everyone but the sassee. Why deprive us of fun?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/18 12:30 AM
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But... Are you real?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/18 12:27 AM
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This is a question for women. Your comment is welcome under automod. 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/18 12:25 AM
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Stop going around this thread and being needlessly rude. This is your one warning. And before you say something, please remember that being rude to moderators is also against the rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/18 11:45 PM
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I think so! Size sixes always have sooo many on clearance. I love having tiny feet. Though I hate how close to the kids section it can be lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/18 03:53 PM
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Please make sure you are answering the question rather than using it as a chance to circlejerk about your own views. Consider this a warning.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/18 03:43 PM
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Stop trolling or you'll get a time out.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/18 12:24 PM
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Exactly. And often, advice misses the crucial points based upon the situation. And the advice is usually something I've already considered and rejected, meaning the person is making me tread old ground because they don't want to listen to what I'm saying. I'm grateful my other half doesn't do this, but SO MANY of my guy friends do.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/18 12:14 PM
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Be civil.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/18 11:43 PM
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Too late. Look at the post history. I'm banning.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/18 06:33 PM
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Wait, I think we have the same backstory. I'm also pretty sure I'm nothing like what terpers would want lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/18 01:07 AM
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Ah yes, I clearly summoned the mod brigade. Dude, you attack and get aggressive with users all the time. You can hardly cry foul now.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/18 04:53 PM
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I should do that!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/18 04:52 PM
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I do the same! My guy is a stay at home husband, and he will send them with a warning so I don't open them around other people. It's fun!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/18 03:59 PM
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I'm not sure you get to throw stones on that one. I've seen you do the same to non-reds frequently.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/18 03:58 PM
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Hey now. Thems fightin words.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/18 11:51 PM
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Nope. Ain't happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/18 11:14 AM
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Apparently you missed my top comment where I called the behavior rape. I am okay with it in my relationship because I gave permission. If he did that without permission, it would be another story. Hell, he's aggressively groped me in his sleep and wouldn't stop when I tried to get him to, and I spent the next day refusing touch or anything sexual. It's really freaky and unnerving on a lizard brain level. I get people being upset by it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/18 11:09 AM
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Yeah, I know. When I say wake up for sex I mean waking me up by sticking his dick in me and having sex. It doesn't bother me since I gave him permission to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/18 12:56 AM
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I mean, I don't know too much on that since my partner still usually hints that he might do so that night. It makes it less surprising. I'm cranky when I wake, and sleep sex is less crankifying than you'd think. Sex then sleep is pretty awesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/18 10:35 PM
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It's something where lube is 100% necessary. It's not as weird as you'd think, but it can be startling. I've accidentally punched him in the face before lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/18 10:22 PM
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The way that is written? Creepy and rape. Now, my SO has permission to wake me up for sex. He knows there are days that's not allowed (trial days, days I have super early training, etc.) but otherwise he's free to do as he pleases. If he did what the guy in the OP did, he would be removed from the bed and be in the dog house. And sex would be off the table for a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/18 10:20 PM
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That sounds about right. You'll also have to pay for your flight hours, which often isn't included in the licensing/schooling portion. My FiL is a retired pilot and he loved it. He made bank, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/18 06:36 PM
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And potentially dangerous to their partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/18 01:17 PM
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Nah, you went overboard. You were rude to nearly every top level comment. Not okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/18 12:43 PM
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Be civil to other users. You're all over this thread insulting answers, and I'm tired of it. Knock it off or it's timeout for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/18 11:22 AM
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I knowwww. I should switch back to my ruiner of fun flair.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/18 10:51 PM
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Yes. Societies are founded by enforced social contracts. That is the basis thereof. You're railing against a system for being against you while refusing to take part in the system. What do you expect? The world isn't going to change for you. Either work outside the system and find a girl who also rejects the system, or accept that you have to play within and figure out how to make it work for you. Either way, the way to do that is not posting thousands of words on a subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/18 10:50 PM
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I'm aware you have questionable views on matters related to therapy. If you have the expertise you claim, I cannot fathom how you would advocate for removal of children from a stable home because of a lie. Or how you would handle such circumstances as fall under ICWA.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/18 10:37 PM
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Sooo your thesis is that men who reject traditional dating are screwed by the process of traditional dating? Yes. Obviously. Fail to play the game and you can't help but lose the game. This is not shocking to anyone and doesn't require paragraphs of text to explain.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/18 10:35 PM
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Be civil. Honestly, how hard is it to not personalize a statement?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/18 10:28 PM
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Amen. I went from baking at home to this teeny shitty gas oven in student housing while in undergrad, and I could have cheerfully destroyed that thing for the number of times it destroyed my food. I wish I'd been able to claim a mess as a reason for replacement! Hell, it did destroy all my cookware. Had to buy a whole new set because it warped the pans so they wouldn't sit on my fancy induction stove.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/18 10:22 PM
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I don't think enough users read your posts to see the supposed harsh truths. Lord knows I can only stomach half of one before giving up. Perhaps others have deeper wellsprings of patience than myself. Besides, you were already asked in this thread to tell us these truths, and you refused. I'm seeing a lot of talk and no walk. Tell me, then. What truths are we so opposed to that we must never allow them to see the light of day?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/18 10:18 PM
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It's nearly like a pumpkin pie. They're super easy. The biggest lesson I've learned is to incorporate the liquid slowly. I used to think it made no difference and spilled so many pies in my oven. Now, older and wiser (and having cleaned many oven messes), I know better.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/18 10:13 PM
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They were definitely original! We haven't had content like that in a while lol. I'm not sure we're going to change his mind, as it seems he thinks we're all the deluded ones who don't understand his genius. Either that, or I just hate the truthbombs he's dealing out.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/18 10:09 PM
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At this point, I can't say the concept is good, since it appears to be inextricably tied to the prose.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/18 10:06 PM
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You really don't get it, do you? But that's fine. We'll just continue removing posts and keeping the content relevant to PPD. Just another stall to shovel of manure.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/18 09:59 PM
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Yeah, the only diary entry I can remember was waaay long ago when (I think) misspearl did a four week attempt to RPW it up and posted weekly reports. And those were fun, because we liked her and it was relevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/18 09:57 PM
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Yesss. It will motivate me to make another apple pie. And even try lattice crusts, which I suck at.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/18 09:55 PM
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I said active. Not someone who posted that he wished women liked him as his only comment in a week. Good Lord. A shallow mud puddle has more reflective capabilities than you. Dude. Realize that what you're doing isn't interesting, relevant, or enjoyed by the community. Then think about why, despite that, you keep posting it here.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/18 09:41 PM
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You don't make good quality content. Name one person who is an active member of this sub who would vouch for your content.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/18 09:26 PM
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Just a teensy bit lol. That, drugs, and Harley are probably some of your more predictable quirks haha
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/18 08:40 PM
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I knew I was going to see you quote that in here!!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/18 08:24 PM
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Yeah, if she's earned your trust, I think that's a fair way to go. I jump to the terrible legal things based upon my job. Hopefully, she loves it and you can share her art with us!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/18 08:22 PM
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Nah, it's not a tough mudder or something. 5ks are usually pretty chill, based off the few I've done.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/18 08:19 PM
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Hi OP - link dropping isn't permitted here. If you'd like to submit a post with this link in it and place some discussion points, you are welcome to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/18 08:18 PM
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I can say it didn't come from me and I know TGP and I share the philosophy of upvoting downvoted comments to even things out. But dude. If you don't report, we ain't gonna see it. Reports are anonymous, so we won't even know who reported it. But reds hate reporting then complain of uneven moderation, not realizing they're the reason for it!!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/18 08:17 PM
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Just saying. Peer pressure is a hell of a thing. I've seen kids do stupider things with barely any encouragement. But you seem like a pretty awesome parent!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/18 08:13 PM
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Already been together for over a decade lol. So check that off. We survived undergrad, law school, the bar exam, and babbies first legal job just fine. Even if I wanted to smother him with a pillow for being a twat at times.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/18 08:11 PM
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Wait. I can post pie pictures? Damn. All that wasted karma.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/18 07:58 PM
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No. We find your writing intolerable.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/18 07:57 PM
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Haha I understand that! I'd suggest you keep the gun somewhere they have to get permission to access, because I can see a sudden rise in popularity if people think your kid will tattoo them. Might be difficult for them to navigate.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/18 07:56 PM
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Are you aware I'm a former family law attorney and abuse and neglect prosecutor? Because I have done this for a living. Lying about parentage is not something that is nearly as abusive (or realistically abusive at all) as the things that parents do daily which don't result in termination or guardianships. Your proposed solution would foist children into foster care, a prospect that near certainly damns them to a life of poverty and crime. Fix the system, then your change may be appropriate. Unti…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/18 07:52 PM
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All the time? Lord knows there have been weeks where all I want to do is strangle my fiance, but I choose to actively see the good and love him. Even when he's being a twat.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/18 07:47 PM
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You can definitely walk for parts of it. The idea of having a running group just prevents the beginning from getting clogged as runners try to navigate around walkers. So start off running and take breaks as you need them and you'll be fine!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/18 07:44 PM
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Stop personalizing posts and attacking other users. You know better than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/18 07:41 PM
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Just make sure she doesn't agree to tattoo any friends under 18, because that's some legal shit you don't want to get involved in. But otherwise, I think that's pretty neat! I know nothing about tattoos but as an art form it's really impressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/18 07:39 PM
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Where did we agree that this sub was your diary?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/18 07:37 PM
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Be civil to other users.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/18 07:16 PM
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Children often feel betrayed by their parents. That's not exactly a great metric for whether that person is a good parent. It's why young children don't get much of a say in custody, because their brains aren't developed enough to make those types of decisions without their momentary feelings drowning out reason. Besides, the current standard for child welfare favors reunification above all else. A lie isn't even a factor in child welfare, and CPS would laugh if you called a lie like this emotio…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/18 05:24 PM
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Statistically, removing children from biological parents and placing them in foster care is a neat absolute way to damn the child to failure. Kids who are beaten are still better off with their biological parents, and you think lying is enough for a termination or temporary guardianship? Lord. And that's not even hitting on things like ICWA.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/18 04:12 PM
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Yeah. I was the sos call for a friend who went on a date with a guy who said he wanted two children, a boy then a girl, and had their names picked out. She ran.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/18 04:02 PM
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We both know the answer to that one.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/18 03:58 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/18 12:19 PM
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I was talking about PPD as well. Honestly, guys are pretty easily misled on makeup. I wear BB cream, blush, highlighter, finishing powder, eyeshadow, eyeliner, mascara, and matte lipstick daily. I have repeatedly been told how nice I look, not wearing makeup. It's bizarre.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/18 06:47 PM
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Based upon the photos guys usually use to say no makeup, yes, I do think they're stupid when it comes to makeup. For fucks sake, I've seen guys here link to Taylor Swift and say she's wearing no makeup in a photoshoot.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/18 06:32 PM
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6'4" and 290 is still damn heavy. My SO is 6'5" and 220 in great shape. An extra 70 pounds seems insane. 6'4" 290 puts you clearly into obese BMI territory.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/18 02:38 PM
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Sounds a bit up my alley, then. I've avoided let's plays of it because I hate spoilers but I probably should just look at one.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 11:14 PM
1

I've been eyeing the game. How is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 11:09 PM
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Goddamn, the level of destruction on that sex bot is insane. Lord, that just makes it even skeevier to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 11:08 PM
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Question for women. Post under automod.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 11:05 PM
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If they had more and better humor, they'd probably not be incels. And thus, the cycle continues.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/18 01:42 AM
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Don't tell other users what they believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/18 12:44 AM
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Go sit in the corner and think about what you've done! But yes, it is very pretty there.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/18 09:48 PM
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Also, for those who trolled via their flair, please make sure you change it before I change it for you. Y'all don't want to know what I'll change it to.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/18 09:19 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/18 09:18 PM
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Nope. Except for the ones who turned to violent, threatening meltdowns after being told playtime was over. Those ones were.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/18 01:22 PM
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Existed. Also shat up the place and piddled on the rug. So they got put outside where we don't have to deal with them. Win-win really.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/18 02:52 AM
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You're either a guy poorly larping as a woman, or you're one of those super fake annoying "teehee I'm not like the other girls!" girls. Either way, you suck.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/18 02:50 AM
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Honestly, I still use salted for baking. I've yet to notice an appreciable difference, and my sugar cookies are always a massive hit. I feel like unsalted butter is just trolling me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/18 02:47 AM
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You know you were thinking it, too. Now at least I can say I warned him.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/18 02:45 AM
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Also, Hall and Oates have some of the best 80s jam tunes. Rich Girl and Maneater are great.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/18 11:14 PM
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I swear to fucking god, if you post something this long after the Purge, I will ban you with no remorse. Jesus Christ dude, do anything else with your life. It will surely be more productive. And it will stop me from wanting to gouge my own eyes out.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/18 11:12 PM
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Making the sub private would be an interesting way to take it. That might be a viable way to go.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/18 06:55 PM
2

So... go on...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/18 02:01 AM
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The only joy I get is knowing that I will soon be swinging the banhammer with great abandon when the incels think they can keep shitting up the place.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/18 12:56 AM
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There aren't enough whys being asked and requests for elaboration.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 02:49 PM
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She is. I'm in a less demanding area of practice and I want to murder people here daily. Which is why I laugh when people accuse me of being her alt. No, she's a nice person. I'm not.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 01:49 AM
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I thought you forgave me last purge?? 😞☹️ At least now I've earned it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 01:45 AM
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Yup. That's me. The racist who literally worked legal aid in the trenches of Detroit. Just an awful human being who has not protected the civil rights of minorities ever. Right. Have fun on your high horse, castigating everyone else for having emotional bonds with people you dislike.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 01:40 AM
2

Same. I literally took it because I like planetariums. Instead it was math. That sucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 01:21 AM
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As I said, Atlas is family. You, clearly, are not. And even if my papa says the n-word all the time, I still love him. Doesn't mean I condone his actions or words. Perhaps spend a bit more time not making the world and everything in it about you personally and you'll see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 01:13 AM
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Atlas is more like a beloved, slightly bizarre aunt. You can't not love her.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 08:58 PM
2

PM me! My trainer has been after me to do more cardio. I can powerlift like crazy, but I haaate cardio. I feel like I need to have some sort of real goal.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 11:08 PM
1

How is training for a marathon? I'm tempted to have it as my next fitness goal, but... running is kinda sucky.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 10:32 PM
4

And then whining when we don't remove her comments even when they're just a gender flipped version of WHAT THEY ALWAYS SAY and telling us we're biased.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 01:27 PM
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RP does have something to do with this conversation. Calling out something as "manipulation" when you view the world through a lens of manipulation is certainly relevant, and gives rise to questions regarding the authenticity of the claim. It ends up being a flawed claim, given that the viewpoint ascribes that every action and reaction is manipulation. So from that perspective, yes, it's manipulative. From a normal person perspective, it's not. 99% of people aren't in a category to be able to re…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 01:10 AM
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There's recognizing differences on average and then there's "blacks score lower on IQ tests hurr durr they're all dumb" which is far more common. And isn't it the RP way to say everything is manipulation? So I feel like there's a point where calling something manipulation just becomes a lazy rhetorical device itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 12:55 AM
1

It's like a baby arm holding an apple.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 12:41 AM
0

I know who you are!!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 12:18 AM
0

I am the manager. Muahahahaha!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 12:14 AM
1

I've just accepted our fate. Nihilism is the only way to get through this week.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 11:41 PM
1

I thought it was hilarious. I just had to laugh at it since it was the best example of purge week I'd seen. <3 you
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 11:29 PM
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I've seen such enlightening conversations as "eat a nail" and "get ass cancer" so clearly we're winning. If by winning I mean reaching a new intellectual low.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 11:24 PM
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God, probably. I feel bad for anyone who wanders into this and has no idea what the fuck is going on.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 11:17 PM
3

Shhh. The adults are talking.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 10:37 PM
2

Nah. Socks are gross. I don't even wear them to the gym. I just wash my shoes a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 10:36 PM
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IT'S FUCKING PURGE WEEK YOU GODDAMN IDIOTS. HOW DO YOU NOT GET THIS. WHY ARE YOU IDIOTS REPORTING THINGS BECAUSE YOUR FEELINGS ARE HURT.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 10:31 PM
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People. Stop reporting shit for being racist. You're all idiots and I hate you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 10:24 PM
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Mine humors me. Granted, my best friend thinks I'm an idiot, and also don't understand why I'd willingly devote free time to being a janitor here. We are all weirdos. It's awesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 10:23 PM
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I wish I'd come up with that. Granted, I don't know what he says because it's just SO LONG. Presumably, unlike his dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 10:20 PM
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I feel personally attacked right now
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 10:16 PM
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Which is honestly more impressive because they have the ability to multitask. Something that most of the idiots on here can't do.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 10:14 PM
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Yeah... But c'mon, let's be real. It's racism.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 10:05 PM
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Race realist is typically racism. It's the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 09:10 PM
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Nope. We have deleted three comments, all for breaking site rules. His was not included.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 08:35 PM
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People will report purge comments after the fact, thinking we're not smart enough to know they're from the Purge. So I believe it. But if they think you're a troll because of this week, they must be new and therefore their opinion doesn't count.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 03:26 PM
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Shit, I was always kicked inside while the men cut firewood. I was so excited the one time I was allowed to move the cut pieces to the tractor. I usually baked a pie instead. Lucky bishes, getting to do something active.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 02:16 AM
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Yes. Or a weird quiverful which makes Mormons look sane. Either way, not a good look.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 02:05 AM
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His dick has ruined me for any other man. It's just not fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 02:03 AM
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Cxj for sure. Squiddy is my bae but he's so mean sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 02:01 AM
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Nope. Just a wonderful reminder that there's a reason I wield the hammer of God against incel bullshit. And lo, her determination to smite the incel scourge and to banish it from the plains of PPD grew, as did her raging lust to fuck only the Chadliest of Chad's.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 01:57 AM
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Lol we've had two admin actions over the years where they randomly removed a comment and went on their merry way. We're so far off the radar.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 01:55 AM
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God fucking damn. Thanks for reminding me why I continue the incel ban.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 01:48 AM
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POST CAT PICTURES
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 01:01 AM
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BRB, getting to a computer to give you this flair. In gold. Smite them, Almighty smiter!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 12:51 AM
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What about lesbian porn?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 12:39 AM
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Thank you for confirming women are smarter than men. We already knew it, but maybe you finally figured it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 12:38 AM
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He tries to circumvent the rules. He also thinks we can't tell.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/18 11:26 PM
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Drive 30 minutes to Canada?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/18 11:18 PM
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Aww, look at you using emojis! I'm so proud!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/18 11:17 PM
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JFC I managed to forget about the jaws thing. Goddammit.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/18 11:16 PM
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Nope! Spam it up!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/18 11:11 PM
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Laaaaaaaaaaaaazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/18 11:05 PM
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Well, out of the prolific posters, he's on the reasonable side. Granted, that's not saying much.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/18 11:03 PM
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I'mma go find that. Also, saying frozen section doesn't mean much. Half the fucking store is the frozen section! God, I love and hate that place.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/18 11:00 PM
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Have you watched People of Earth? It's hilariously awkward. Wyatt Cenac is great in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/18 10:57 PM
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At least you have an excuse for licking your own eyeball. The rest... Not so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/18 10:56 PM
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Dude I meant to do a post on it, but there was this one thread where everyone in the comments was bitching about how terrible it was AND IT HAD ZERO REPORTS. How lazy are these guys that clicking a button is too much work??
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/18 10:55 PM
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Wait, this is a thing? I need it. Fuck. I hate going to TD's.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/18 10:53 PM
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And Jesus fucking Christ, if you're gonna bitch about it, go through the MOMENTOUS EFFORT of clicking the damn report button. Bitch bitch bitch and you don't do anyfuckingthing about it. Goddamn people.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/18 10:41 PM
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Nope. Because compared to y'all, our trans users are far more balanced and sane. Some of you seem like the type to lick your own eyeballs.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/18 10:37 PM
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Right? They wander around like hobos and wonder why women want them to change. Dude. You look like the hobo king of the hobos. It's not pretty.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/18 10:36 PM
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Oh no! Your super rigorous data that I will totally (not ever) consider. You guys bitch and moan no matter what.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/18 10:15 PM
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Be civil.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/18 04:57 PM
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As always! And you're back just in time for purge week.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/18 10:29 PM
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Hiiii bby. We miss you! <3 <3
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/18 10:00 PM
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Play nice with others, please. Otherwise you'll be sent to your room with no dinner.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/18 09:59 PM
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Oh dear God no we won't.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/18 09:00 PM
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Yup. Or I stand on a higher surface. Like the coffee table at home. It's very annoying. When I hug him, my face is in between his pecs. And sex can be a pain, since the size difference prevents us from kissing and from certain positions.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/18 04:20 PM
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I'm 5'2" and he's 6'5". Personally, I think he's too tall, and I'd much prefer him shorter. (Or me taller, whatever.) Sex is a pain in the ass. He prefers short women and really tall women. He gets excited every time he sees a tall woman lol. Me, I don't care about height. I've accepted everyone is taller than me, so whatever. I come from short stock, so this tall guy thing is confusing. I'd much rather be able to kiss his cheek or hug him without it being so difficult. He's also 8 years older t…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/18 04:17 PM
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Remove your temper tantrum. Don't ask for advice and then get mad you don't like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/18 03:56 PM
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The fact that you're ready to leave when it's time to go is a plus. But woman you would DRIVE ME INSANE if we were dating. I'm one of those "if I'm early I'm on time" type people. Works well for my job, but I think my fiance might murder me one of these days...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/18 09:50 PM
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He makes enough to support himself. I just make more. A lot more. And I'd rather we live to my standard of living than live at his, so I support us. His money is a drop in the bucket, so what do I care if he uses it for fun? Fun often means buying me presents and indulging his hobbies, so it works well for him. And therefore for me, because I like it when he's happy and fulfilled. Though I could do with less projects scattered throughout my living room lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/18 09:45 PM
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Well, I think your problem is assuming that he's somehow my bitch. He's certainly not and is very much his own person. Money doesn't make someone in charge, contrary to the RP way of thinking. He has as much say as I do in every major decision - often more, since he's more likely to get use out of something than I am. I mean really, how did you think that was going to go? Calling my partner a bitch is rather rude, don't you think?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/18 09:36 PM
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I definitely did that. But I would more tell him he had 15 minutes left and let him plan from there. He's usually on time now, unless we are meeting friends who are always late.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/18 07:18 PM
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When I refer to him being stupid, I mean that law school is a brutal process where you're told that you all suck. Typically, you're taught by professors who went to elite schools, have done elite things (I was taught Con Law by a guy who wrote the brief on Gideon v Wainwright for god's sake), and will make sure you don't have an ego. But I recognize insecurities are real and that people have to work on them. God only knows how long I spent insisting I was smart for my age or that I wasn't like o…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/18 06:52 PM
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Ah, he'll fit right in at law school. Until he realizes that he's just as stupid as everyone else, which will hopefully only take until his first set of exams. If you have to put on a show of being intelligent, it's more than likely that you aren't. Or you have crippling self esteem issues. Neither of which indicates anything good.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/18 06:46 PM
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It's a dog. Of course it's of interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/18 06:06 PM
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Honestly, he's gotten better about it over the years. His nickname used to be Captain Dragass because he was always so late. Now he's usually ready when we need to leave. The turning point was missing my best friend's wedding because he was a slacker. I nearly killed him. But the marriage didn't last so at least there's that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/18 06:01 PM
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Yup. I'm an evil harlot. It also saves me from his irrational guilt about spending "my money" (our money) on things that aren't essential. (I have now learned to not listen to that guilt and just buy him what I damn well please.)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/18 05:58 PM
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Oooh, I should have said no concept of time. I swear he thinks showering and shaving takes 15 minutes when it really takes 30 minutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/18 05:56 PM
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Positive: Socially and emotionally intelligent Intellectually curious Amazing in bed Handsome as all hell Doesn't take himself too seriously Negative: Thinks every negative observation is criticism Forgetful Has opposite preferred sex times to me Overly self-sacrificing Poor financial planning skills
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/18 05:50 PM
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This should be under automod.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/18 05:49 PM
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I do this with nearly all clothing for my fiance. If I find a shirt he likes, he gets ten. Pants? Ten. Underwear? Five packs. It just saves so much heartache and then I don't have to hear him complain about clothes shopping.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/18 05:45 PM
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I feel like my SO would agree with your husband, which is why I am going to never, ever mention that stance to him. At least your taxes are done?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/18 05:43 PM
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Yup. As TGP says, mod are included. Which also means we get to be (even more) mean, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/18 05:41 PM
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I hope we get some nice posts. The flaming ones are fun for a day or two then get boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/18 05:40 PM
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Change history to science and you have my guy. Also the calendar thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/18 05:31 PM
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Yeah, nothing about it was polite. And I'm telling you to knock it off.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/18 04:59 PM
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I out-earn my SO about ten to one. His money is his own, my money is ours. He also receives an allowance from me and has access to my cards for whatever purpose. Since we don't have kids and don't plan to have kids, we have a lot more discretionary income. It works for us. He is the house husband and does most of the chores, which I love. Side note: sneaking up and pantsing him while he does the dishes brings me such joy. We have a healthy sex life, so it hasn't impacted that. Honestly, now that…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/18 04:56 PM
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They have awesome work dresses, too. I think half my wardrobe is from there.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/18 04:41 PM
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Be civil.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/18 04:35 PM
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It's the most wonderful time of the year
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/18 06:53 PM
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Be civil to other users. Don't make things personal.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/18 10:19 PM
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Dude. Not cool. At this point, I'm leaving this post up, but if you keep up this behavior, it's not going to go well.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/18 02:59 PM
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Be civil.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/18 11:50 PM
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Really? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/18 04:46 PM
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Hi OP - we don't allow link dropping here. Please provide a summary and questions for users to discuss. Let me know when you have done that and I will approve it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/18 02:48 PM
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I'd agree. I consider lifting to be one of my hobbies - I spend more time at the gym than anywhere besides work and home so it damn well better count for something. Plus, there's a ton that goes into it. If you're pushing yourself to lift heavier, you might be researching techniques and determining what works best.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/18 10:36 PM
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Be civil. Don't use endearments to be derogatory.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/18 10:33 PM
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Honestly, I think the people there who lift are just more considerate. They're all super jacked too, which is weird. I only ever see employees dusting or refilling the cleaner. Granted, I'm there like one day a month so...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/18 07:22 PM
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Honestly, the planet fitness that I also have a membership to actually is neat at all times. I have no idea why. Of course, it has no squat racks or bench press stations, so it's useless for the most part. But damn can people rerack their weights!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/18 11:10 PM
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I go to a super bougie gym and it's ridiculous. I spend my rests cleaning up after them. It drives me nuts.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/18 10:58 PM
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Be more civil when responding to other users. Please review the rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/18 10:15 PM
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And fucking put the plates back in the right spot. My one year old niece can play the matching game better than most gym idiots.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/18 10:14 PM
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As soon as I hit my late 20s, I felt like I had my shit together. Buying a house, investments, working out and having a proper diet... And I have the money for a bangin wardrobe, too!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/18 11:23 PM
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Because otherwise, you're just whining for the sake of whining, and you are willingly abdicating any agency you could have. It's lazy, and means your whining has less merit. But by all means. Just sit and whine.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/18 05:49 PM
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Did you report it? Nope, you did not. Instead, you sat here and whined about bias when nobody (including you) bothered to lift a damn finger. Jesus, people.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/18 04:59 PM
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Thank you for noticing and editing your response! We appreciate it and you!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/18 05:39 PM
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Not here you won't. Be civil or I'll ban you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/18 05:37 PM
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