| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 9 | Need advice on communicating a birthday trigger without making my boyfriend feel accused | ADVICE | Least-Interaction576 | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/07/26 02:41 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Sexual deception & exitI am grateful to have come across this post! Such a beautiful perspective that is helping me challenge my expectations that I have held within me for so long when it came to my relationships. | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/08/26 05:46 PM |
| 2 | Need advice on communicating a birthday trigger without making my boyfriend feel accusedWe talked and he understands that I just have bad past experiences around my bday and stopped hyping it up afterward :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/08/26 04:43 PM |
| 2 | Need advice on communicating a birthday trigger without making my boyfriend feel accusedDefinitely will be keeping the past relationship drama to myself. All of you who have commented mentioning that are so right, he does not need to know about any of that. | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/07/26 10:07 PM |
| 1 | Need advice on communicating a birthday trigger without making my boyfriend feel accusedThank you so much for this response. Your words have me thinking about how it really isn’t easy to assume what kind of way to show up for someone. I am absolutely not expecting a weekend in Paris and will be super content with whatever he thinks of at the end of the time. It’s absolutely more about the time we spend together and we’ve had a conversation today that lets me know that he is very much so aligned with what I’m loosely expecting ☺️ | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/07/26 10:02 PM |
| 4 | Need advice on communicating a birthday trigger without making my boyfriend feel accusedAmazing point! I do NOT want the guys from my past coloring my future. I appreciate how you phrased it. | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/07/26 04:42 PM |
| 2 | Need advice on communicating a birthday trigger without making my boyfriend feel accusedThank you for this! I agree, I do not want him viewing me as someone who is comparing him to men from my past. I would love to see how he shows up for me without the added stress of him knowing that I’m feeling any of this since it truly has nothing to do with him and all to do with my unresolved issues. The advice here has been very sound, I will look into the Just-World Fallacy. | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/07/26 04:41 PM |
| 2 | Need advice on communicating a birthday trigger without making my boyfriend feel accusedI think this is super sound advice! Thank you | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/07/26 03:44 PM |
| 3 | Need advice on communicating a birthday trigger without making my boyfriend feel accusedI will have some girl friends present for dinner! Him and I were just meant to have some solo time prior to that. | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/07/26 02:47 PM |
| 1 | Is this what most men would consider the female equivalent of getting flowers?New shoes for playing recreational basketball if that’s a hobby they’re into! Buying the steak for them to cook because they love cooking steak. A massage! My boyfriend loves to give me massages and help me ease tension in my body since I work a sedentary job so when I forcibly (but cutely) tell him it’s his turn and spend extra time massaging him and kissing him on his back here and there, I’d say that’s his equivalent of receiving flowers. | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/07/26 10:59 AM |
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