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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 24 | Old school tip: The Brad Pitt RuleWell, I'm not Brad Pitt, so I guess this ain't ever happening.😂 | /r/seduction | 19/04/23 05:45 AM |
| 1 | This is how you cure approach anxiety.This Is a beautiful sentiment. I've never thought of this perspective before. It makes sense though, because we're always thinking about getting our rocks of with someone, when instead we should focus on giving them theirs. Thanks for sharing. | /r/seduction | 16/04/23 01:29 AM |
| 1 | So what are you fellas doing for first dates these days?Anything, but the movies. Doing stuff that involves movement creates the most attraction opportunities. | /r/seduction | 28/10/22 07:32 AM |
| -2 | CMV: Apprroach opportunities are very rare realisticallyI actually agree. A lot of people say its excuses, but I personally think its a lack of opportunity. Let's face it, if you're not in school or anything, the chances of you even getting an opportunity is slim to none. Which is why most guys give up. Everyone's situation is different. | /r/seduction | 25/10/22 10:12 PM |
| 2 | On the rise of lonely single menI somewhat agree. I think the hardest thing outside of college is just finding places to meet women. I've had my fair share of public places, but only when its convenient. | /r/seduction | 24/10/22 05:08 PM |
| -1 | On the rise of lonely single men☝This!! | /r/seduction | 24/10/22 05:06 PM |
| 7 | On the rise of lonely single menThis!!☝ | /r/seduction | 24/10/22 05:05 PM |
| 17 | How do I get a idgaf attitude?You just gotta do it man! Just the other day I approached this brunette chick in the Chick Fil A line at the mall. There were plenty people around, but I didn't care, because I've done it enough in the past. We had a good convo, but she was married. I bid her a goodbye afterwards, but she appreciated my confidence. There aren't any shortcuts to this man, you gotta take the stairs. You'll get there! | /r/seduction | 24/10/22 05:30 AM |
| 1 | What are some mantras, mottos or quotes you tell yourself?All great things start with you. If you don't, somebody else will. | /r/seduction | 23/10/22 04:44 AM |
| 1 | How many times in your life have you been rejected? How often do you have dates?Never rejected, because I've never asked. | /r/seduction | 21/10/22 01:19 AM |
| 1 | How many of you on here have actually improved with women after spending time on here?I'm still learning. My issue is getting out of that mental state of scarcity when approaching. I feel its the only thing holding me back. Plus, Iove my ear buds way too much. Lol | /r/seduction | 22/09/22 10:57 PM |
| 1 | Whenever you give in to approach anxiety, you reconfirm the idea that you’re not good enough!I have BAAAD habit of this too, because I love music so much. It can be a detriment in this circumstance as well. | /r/seduction | 14/09/22 09:21 PM |
| 1 | How do I get rid of this bottled up frustration from being unable to attract women as a 26year old male? I’m always alone and have no one to talk to and it makes me so mad because I can’t figure it out.The Gym. | /r/seduction | 07/09/22 02:05 AM |
| 1 | How do you know if a woman is looking at you because she is interested?You don't. Either way, you have to approach to find out. Simple. | /r/seduction | 07/09/22 12:29 AM |
| 3 | The genius of cold approach (and why dating apps and social media will destroy humanity)This is a God Tier perspective on this. I've never thought of it having a positive effect in other areas. It was just something I liked to do. Not a lot of guys are doing it, but you make some great points as to why they should. Very inspirational. Thank you. | /r/seduction | 02/09/22 03:11 AM |
| 3 | I started cold approaching women. Had no idea this is so easy!Good for you man! Its still tough for me. Still trying to get over that fear.😬 | /r/seduction | 25/08/22 05:27 PM |
| 31 | This is terribleNo one can ever love you as much as you can love yourself. | /r/seduction | 17/08/22 12:17 AM |
| 1 | A Chronic Porn WatcherThank you for answering the question.😊 | /r/seduction | 13/08/22 09:27 PM |
| 1 | A Chronic Porn WatcherThank you for answering the question.😊 | /r/seduction | 13/08/22 09:23 PM |
| 4 | More important than a woman's reaction to you is YOUR REACTION to their reaction.Truth!! A calm response to their rejection is the ultimate example of being a man. If you're respectful and understanding about it, then they'll respect you for it. It leaves them at ease as well, because you showed you understand and it won't make them feel uncomfortable. More than likely down the road, they'll remember your response and even reconsider your investment. | /r/seduction | 05/08/22 05:48 PM |
| 2 | Stuck? Just stop focusing on womenThis...☝ | /r/seduction | 05/08/22 01:08 AM |
| 1 | Stuck? Just stop focusing on womenThis...☝ | /r/seduction | 05/08/22 01:00 AM |
| 5 | Why is being awkward and nervous seen as creepy by women?This... | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 07:47 PM |
| 1 | Does it mean anything if a girl asks you why you get nervous and if you have a gf?Bro! I'm telling you! JUST DO IT! You're gonna wanna kill yourself if you don't. (Not saying you should.) Even if you get rejected, who cares? You still did more than the large percentage of dudes watching porn and jacking off by themselves. Gotta be a man dude! | /r/seduction | 23/07/22 02:34 AM |
| 1 | Girl approached me and gave me her number.Maybe, he thought waiting that long would make him come off less needy or desperate. Idk. I've been in this situation before, but the other way around. Some women do this to play games making you think they were interested in you. | /r/seduction | 08/07/22 03:05 AM |
| 1 | Did I Handle This RightThanks for the advice.😊👍 | /r/seduction | 01/07/22 06:51 PM |
| 2 | Did I Handle This RightThanks man!😊 | /r/seduction | 01/07/22 05:44 PM |
| 1 | Did I Handle This RightI think you missed the "On Her Last Day." part. You're not wrong about the HR thing, that's why I waited until then to ask her. | /r/seduction | 01/07/22 05:40 PM |
| 3 | Why do girls do this?I feel your pain bro! I asked a girl on her last day at work for her number; this was someone who I was very interested in and so was she in me; or so I thought. Anyway, I remember texting her at least once a week about meeting up; just to give her time and not come off needy, and i remember she was responding every time. She said she was down, but didn't know when due to her having tests for school, so each time I was like "Cool, just let me know." After the third week of texting her, I didnt g… | /r/seduction | 01/07/22 04:48 PM |
| 1 | Getting GhostedSo, how often would you text a girl if shes not responding? I'm curious. Is there a threshold to when you cut them off completely? | /r/seduction | 01/07/22 12:24 AM |
| 3 | Getting GhostedWell, usually when I get their contact info, I try to ask them to hang out; but in a way that its not a date, that's when the ghosting happens. It once happened with a girl I worked with; who I thought I was cool with, before she left; she never told me when she was leaving, I tried like 3 times to reach out and no reply. Ended up blocking her. Another girl I worked with I thought was genuinely interested. She even offered her number on her last day and was replying when I texted her at first. I… | /r/seduction | 26/06/22 09:03 PM |
| 1 | Getting Over SomeoneHmm. Never thought of it that way. Thanks.😊 | /r/seduction | 25/06/22 03:24 AM |
| 1 | Getting Over SomeoneI'm sorry. Care to elaborate? | /r/seduction | 25/06/22 02:49 AM |
| 1 | Getting Over SomeoneThank you man! I actually have been working out too! 😊❤ | /r/seduction | 25/06/22 02:49 AM |
| 11 | How do I get attractive female friends?Well first off, don't watch porn. That fucks up your mental and perception of them. Second, go out to where attractive women will be. Malls, yoga clubs, gyms, local events, etc. Third, Treat them as people. You'll be surprised how receptive they'll be towards you. Fourth, Get some kind of contact from them. Phone, social media, etc. Ask them about events they go to and link up with them. Great way to meet more of them. | /r/seduction | 25/06/22 01:16 AM |
| 1 | I find cold approach addictiveHey, its still a better addiction than porn. Just sayin'.😏 | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 01:27 AM |
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