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I mean it fizzles out often for me too. I just kinda numbers game my way through it. But since I’m not emotionally invested it’s not a big problem if it fizzled out.
/r/seduction19/06/22 02:55 AM
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I very much doubt it was an "alcohol" moment. Im pretty used to what youre saying, and this felt different. when drunk i tend to overthink myself more confident, this was total autopilot. Like not even a damn shes pretty or any other thoughts until i walked to my friend who looked shocked
/r/seduction19/06/22 01:35 AM
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honestly, i used to be there and it just came to me from going out and doing it often. Comes to the point where its more about just talking fun with someone and if youre both having fun throw an option for number/snap to show some level of interest and see if you get farther.
/r/seduction19/06/22 01:14 AM
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All of these are good signs with one caveat. There needs to be some sexual tension. Otherwise youre just that gay friend in her eyes.
/r/seduction06/10/21 03:00 PM
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i love how men can be summed up by just one number. /s
/r/seduction06/10/21 02:34 PM
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don't rely on a second person. that said if you're hanging out with a woman already it removes the "instant threat" reaction most women have to being approached. While a wingman usually doubles this.
/r/seduction20/02/21 02:24 AM
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not unless its something theyre obviously showing off. example if a girl has exposed tatoos i might talk about them. Or if shes done makeup to show off her eyes ill mention that
/r/seduction14/01/21 03:34 AM
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not important at all. you should know way ahead of time if she is wanting to go home. women know when youre trying, its more about making sure youre not wasting your time
/r/seduction14/01/21 03:33 AM
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nah, i assume they arent interested to start with lol. obv not a great strategy
/r/seduction14/01/21 03:19 AM
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Ill add onto the glasses bit, i got a set of rayban3016 clubmasters into transition lenses and get complimented on them daily. Compared to my old armani square black frames. I think glasses do make me look better since they tend to hide some of my facial imperfections and bring attention to my green/hazel eyes
/r/seduction14/01/21 03:12 AM
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I don’t like random people coming up to me and trying to talk to me if I didn’t invite them in some way. I try to hold the same standard towards others.
/r/seduction14/01/21 02:58 AM
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i mean obviously. for example ive had situations like OPs happen, only to realize after the vanishing that she was hoping id do something.
/r/seduction14/01/21 02:55 AM
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the problem with this is not all of us get those signals as such.
/r/seduction14/01/21 02:47 AM
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yep, then bolted
/r/seduction26/10/20 09:11 PM
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Ive had the usual ones. Recently was out with some friends. one was talking to this good looking girl for a bit. he goes to the bathroom and she immediatly turns to me and starts talking shit about how weird that dude was and how lame he is and shit. im like, yea hes my friend and one of the best people here. she ignores and we talk for a bit. And out of nowhere asked me if im white. I tell her no and she grabbed her purse and said fuck this and walked out the bar. oh also me and my friend got r…
/r/seduction24/10/20 09:45 PM
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i tend to ask for snapchat. 1- its more impersonal, so its more likely to be given 2- it gives both of you a reason to send a message. if you see them hanging with a mutual friend, or going somewhere you know, doing something cool, etc.
/r/seduction22/10/20 03:45 PM
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Being attractive will open many doors. Your mouth and how you act will decide if they stay open
/r/seduction15/10/20 08:52 PM
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I’m about to turn 30 and going through it still
/r/seduction09/09/20 02:02 AM
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A lot of dating advice is paradoxical. For example telling someone to be confident when they dont have a reason to be. Like yes it is good advice, but its not advice intended for those who dont have the proper experience. And even still theres those who have all of the qualities involved in this advice and it doesnt work for them. TL;DR, advice tends to be too generalized to work. People need to find individualized advice.
/r/seduction07/09/20 05:12 PM
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Constant non stop rejection with nothing to show for it
/r/seduction19/08/20 07:01 PM
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imho both men and women give out the same shit advice. Male advice comes down to work out and play the numbers game. Female advice comes down to be yourself and make her feel special. These cookie cutter advices usually will fail to address whatever specific issues a man has with women.Ill give my experience, im relatively good looking, well spoken, confident. yet struggle with women badly. The numbers game approach destroyed my self esteem for years and took a lot to get it back. And the be you…
/r/seduction18/08/20 09:10 AM
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I’ve been doing this for years. Great way to end up as only friends
/r/seduction25/06/20 08:03 PM
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Yea, honestly I’m technically one. I’m not ugly, though also not hot, but the biggest things are being autistic and women mistaking my confidence and style for being gay.
/r/seduction18/06/20 11:22 PM
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playing an instrument. honestly the only hobby with a good ratio. Sadly my hobbies only drop boxers
/r/seduction25/05/20 02:37 PM
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only happened once to me that I got called cute, my drunk self just responded "I know". llike who do I think I am, han solo?
/r/seduction29/04/20 09:36 PM
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probably the second one. Talking from experience
/r/seduction22/04/20 06:20 AM
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yep all the time
/r/seduction14/04/20 07:53 AM
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you could try to hit up airbus. im sure they have plenty of wings there
/r/seduction16/02/20 03:17 AM
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yea i found out the hard way people simply get nicer as you get older
/r/seduction16/02/20 03:15 AM
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looks like you follow rules 1 and 2 pretty well
/r/seduction22/01/20 05:57 PM
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I got into a cool group but don’t feel comfortable making a move in there and coming out badly.
/r/seduction15/01/20 09:24 PM
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Yep. This is what things like shotgun approach leads to.
/r/seduction15/01/20 04:14 PM
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100% agree. That said im having issues with #2 right now
/r/seduction09/01/20 11:58 PM
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The real question is whats your plan to change this and why? because honestly if you just finish the year and move on nothing will just magically change. if anything itll get worse
/r/seduction06/01/20 03:09 PM
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You should, you also need to understand the places you’re in. If you’re at a bar meeting people it’s kinda weird to have someone asking if you have a 401k or how the bubble on classic Porsche’s is about to pop. That’s stuff you work into.
/r/seduction05/01/20 11:29 PM
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Of course, cause you did not provide a road for her to follow. If you say hey I like that bracelet, where did you get it now she has something to go down. You’re opening, all you’re trying to do is get to an introduction Every opener is creepy if you look at it like that. If you just go to her and say hey it’s still who are you and what do you want.
/r/seduction05/01/20 11:06 PM
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The problem with your logic is youre attributing a flowchart to conversation. opener>introduction>etc. And while yes, thats how it goes naturally its more important to make it situational. meaning instead of having a premade topic ill make one up. a solid opener for me is outfits, find something about their outfit which isnt standard. shoes and jewlery work well here.
/r/seduction05/01/20 10:52 PM
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Agreed, but even just saying sex puts out that he knows he’s hot and is being direct. Yea there’s a ton too who think they’re hot and it doesn’t work out for them. Anecdotal evidence time, last time I went to a club I was out wingmanning a dude I had met that week. I’m mostly walking around gauging interest and he’s getting antsy so I’m like ok fuck it. Found an attractive girl who’s dancing with her friend, jumped in, within 2 minutes we’re making out and she’s got her hand in my pants. Didn’t …
/r/seduction05/01/20 03:29 AM
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I have had multiple times I’ve noticed this. I’m not exceedingly good looking but I catch women looking at me often. I have groups of very attractive girls which I hang out with often and just flirt all night. But I can never figure out how to be direct with it. And since honestly we have fun together I don’t want to ruin anything by doing something boneheaded And then there’s times that a girl is clearly hitting on me. Recently had one who started flirting with me. Mentioned atleast a dozen tim…
/r/seduction05/01/20 02:56 AM
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What is attractive nowadays changes every month. Yea there’s still certain universal attractive but otherwise everything changes too quick
/r/seduction20/12/19 03:12 PM
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Not if they people playing change the rules willy nilly
/r/seduction20/12/19 02:45 AM
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99.99% of the time agreed. That said its about not about what trick youre doing, but what the desired outcome is. Ive dabled in card tricks enough to do one if someone has a deck of cards, and always get great results with the "is this your card, no? fuck wait" routine. Cause in that time youre not straight up showing off, youre acting human. Throw in a bit of comedy and acting like something happened and then bam pull off the trick with a twist.
/r/seduction20/12/19 12:31 AM
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nope, only dating. I make friends everywhere I go, excel at any job ive had, going back to college (ok may not be doing my best there atm) but in general dating is the only place I can say ive tried my hardest and failed the hardest
/r/seduction20/12/19 12:25 AM
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that hit me where I live, minus the 2 other girls bit
/r/seduction20/12/19 12:24 AM
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TL:DR Play the numbers game. get rejected till youre numb to it. and other generalized thoughts from this sub like stop jacking off and work out.
/r/seduction20/12/19 12:21 AM
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well I know what type I am atleast
/r/seduction14/12/19 01:20 AM
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you up?
/r/seduction11/12/19 08:24 AM
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honestly, it does depend on the school to a degree. I go to a known party school, 28 changing professions. at your age its not much of an issue. Thankfully I look 21ish so it only comes up when I reference something from 1999
/r/seduction09/12/19 04:16 AM
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3 things to answer this. first its the same reason car companies always say their model is better. Its a competition. that said, men also have skewed views of what women want. and finally women tend to be more generous about things like this.
/r/seduction07/12/19 04:23 AM
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honestly the big thing is you got caught up in the moment and didnt build up. when yall were sitting and chilling you should have laid out ground rules about what is/isnt ok, etc. Honestly this goes for everything past "regular" sex for me.
/r/seduction06/12/19 03:01 AM
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this is literally most guys wet dream. like id be just afraid of disappointing two girls and a ton of dudes online at the same time
/r/seduction06/12/19 02:28 AM
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"Only Idiots Think Attraction Means “Right Now” - Most guys miss out on tons of sex because they believe that “if she’s not ready right now, it’s never going to happen.” Yeah, maybe she has a boyfriend right now. Maybe she’s busy right now. But right now isn’t forever. Stick her in your friend zone. Flirt with her and tease her here and there, over time. Women are horny as fuck and things change quickly and dramatically all the time. When the time is right, she will show up on your doorstep. Act…
/r/seduction06/12/19 02:24 AM
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Honestly if you spend your 20s alone, its not gonna look good for your 30s and 40s. I'm just 28 and coming to realize this hard
/r/seduction02/12/19 02:09 PM
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Its a way of saying "honestly this sounds like a hot cup of not my problem, and im trying to not be invested so im not going to put any effort into an actual response"
/r/seduction30/11/19 10:35 PM
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Playing hard to get only really works if he knows that’s what you’re doing. Otherwise men will think two things. Either you’re not interested in them, or you’re active with someone else but are still playing in the field.
/r/seduction28/11/19 12:45 AM
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Sounds like you should start investing in cats. no but really thats a bad strategy. Can you get away with it? Depends on things like how social, good looking, etc you are. But why would you limit yourself to what falls in your lap?
/r/seduction28/11/19 12:05 AM
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See that sounds like trying to be a friend and egg you towards the other girl
/r/seduction26/11/19 03:11 AM
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i think you misunderstood something here, im saying it affects me with women.
/r/seduction17/11/19 10:18 PM
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In the sense that it’s very hard to use advice given about interactions when you have difficulties reading them. It sounds weird to bring up in a political talk but when talking about social interactions it seems more appropriate
/r/seduction17/11/19 10:05 PM
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im hoping thats sarcasm
/r/seduction17/11/19 09:55 PM
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LMAO. no but really, im high functioning autistic. ive no idea if someone is interested, flirting, etc until way past me fucking it up
/r/seduction17/11/19 09:45 PM
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i do, i get what he talks about and stuff. but I have issues no youtube video is gonna fix
/r/seduction17/11/19 09:42 PM
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honestly I cant give you signs, but they usually just have a way of letting you know
/r/seduction17/11/19 09:02 PM
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I’d disagree. It’s not like I’ve never approached anyone or tried making a move. It’s that I did it for so long with no success.
/r/seduction13/10/19 01:10 AM
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This is very true. Especially when you can tell they’re doing it cause they’re trying to make themselves look better than you to get the chance.
/r/seduction12/10/19 08:56 PM
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I agree with this whole post, but something that I want to add. I think the key is not to ignore your ego, but to mold it into a way that its not forcing you to stay back. Sadly ive never managed this in dating, but when I started doing drifting I saw that mental change from "ohh you look like youre about to spin out just bail on this" to more of a "pfft hold on and watch this!". It actually got to the point that I was overconfident and had to stop drifting before I wrecked my car or worse tryin…
/r/seduction12/10/19 08:29 PM
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honestly men too, in a different way. I have some friends that will vfind a girl at a bar, chat them up and bring them to the table were at both as a way to progress with her and to see if we aprove. its just a whole lot more subtle than girls going to the bathroom together or any of that other crap
/r/seduction12/10/19 08:06 PM
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I would have done the same thing, that said the context of the random hookup would change how Id follow up on this. If she blew you off to go clubbing and hook up then, unless you really want to sail that sea, move on.
/r/seduction12/10/19 07:55 PM
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wait did it ever work?
/r/seduction11/09/19 01:53 AM
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this is a lot easier said than done. and in my case I notice I always end up making the same mistakes. even when I think ive taken my lesson from them, I find new ways of falling into the same trap.
/r/seduction10/08/19 11:56 PM
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do it, but meet them somewhere public first and figure out what the gameplan and limits are.
/r/seduction08/08/19 11:43 PM
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"• Flirt and tease the girls you approach. This makes you a sexual option. If you don’t, she will always perceive you as a friend and girls don’t sleep with friends." ive yet to see someone talk about flirting in a way that explains what is meant by it. kinda like the whole confidence thing being a catchall category for positive qualities.
/r/seduction29/07/19 06:19 AM
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Yes and no, it simply gets different. Some things better some things worse.
/r/seduction26/07/19 10:21 AM
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it appears you were... SadlyMistaken
/r/seduction24/07/19 06:29 AM
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dont do it. it will eventually backfire on you bad. also popularity isnt shit. everytime I go out someone recognizes me and stops to say hi, mostly cause they know weve hung out in the past somehow, does that make me popular? To an outsider yea, but if someone comes along for the ride they'll quickly see whats up
/r/seduction24/07/19 06:27 AM
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Like all my life choices
/r/seduction21/07/19 06:43 AM
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hopefully its good on the way back up
/r/seduction21/07/19 03:16 AM
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idk, your profile makes you look gay. probably the UF tag jk, but go noles
/r/seduction21/07/19 03:14 AM
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ive been going for the locking eye contact and walking away method.
/r/seduction21/07/19 03:02 AM
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Or you can do what I do and assume every girl isn’t only to find out after the fact that indeed she was.
/r/seduction21/07/19 12:59 AM
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Next time you see that happen, close the pornhub window.
/r/seduction21/07/19 12:18 AM
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I’ve been looking at his things since I saw them here. And while I tend to agree with him he often falls in the trope of just giving out ideas without a reasoning or a way to apply them. Which sure I guess you’d get from attending his lectures.
/r/seduction11/07/19 03:50 PM
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because it is a dedicated account. a lot of throwaways are one time use things. this was supposed to be a one time account but I ended up keeping it.
/r/seduction10/07/19 12:45 PM
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depends what youre looking for. in the general context of this sub its 50/50ish. partly depending on where you are, population, and things of that nature. but it will never be one or the other. you need a certain amount of ability (and not just talking, but also how you look and present yourself) per amount of people you want to approach.
/r/seduction10/07/19 12:23 PM
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I dont think so, having a more active moderating team however I can get behind. this sort of topic is something not many want connected to their main accounts (hence why I have an account just for the dating and relationship stuff)
/r/seduction10/07/19 12:18 PM
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im 28 and recently transferred to a large state school. imho ive been the one to make it a big deal and my own thoughts have been the only ones that lead me down.
/r/seduction10/07/19 12:13 PM
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imho, your one mistake here was the fake snapchat. ive had similar situations, scratch that, I think the same fucking thing any time a woman is forward with me like that. especially if her friends are the ones that started everything.
/r/seduction10/07/19 12:11 PM
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the issue is not approaching, its the style of approaching and what in the end it entails of you that I have an issue with. Most of the advice youll read here involves some bs definition of confidence and a numbers game. why a bs definition? because real confidence should not rest on a numbers game. something ive been learning more and more going out to bars in college. ive seen a lot of guys doing all this pua stuff, and sure it eventually works. but thats not what everyone here portrays themse…
/r/seduction10/07/19 06:36 AM
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This is what I mean about projecting. Knowing absolutely nothing about myself and making a full story to try and put someone down which you well know is your own. You don’t know me, you don’t know what I think or what I do or what my struggles are. So stop projecting your failures at me. Also nice necropost.
/r/seduction07/07/19 04:19 PM
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Nah, regret doesn’t bring your confidence down. And when you’re already lacking that you do not need it brought down any more
/r/seduction30/06/19 01:46 AM
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I have one go to exaggeration line, can’t really speak for it working or not though. Basically I’m pretty skinny so I’ll make a small dick joke and finish it off with well atleast I’m skinny so the proportions are still in my favor.
/r/seduction28/06/19 12:22 PM
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what holds me back? my past. a decade of straight up being rejected, ignored or used. makes me often wonder why I even keep trying to fix things.
/r/seduction29/05/19 05:50 AM
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Lol projecting again
/r/seduction27/05/19 09:22 PM
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Lmfao dumb and racist
/r/seduction27/05/19 06:48 PM
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Lay off the monster and drywalls Kyle
/r/seduction25/05/19 11:01 PM
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There there captain butthurt, have a seat and show me on this doll where the man touched you
/r/seduction25/05/19 10:53 PM
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well youre on this sub too so ill take it youre projecting
/r/seduction25/05/19 08:03 PM
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Lmao. Captain tryhard out here trying to fling some e-peen. Get out before you hurt yourself
/r/seduction25/05/19 06:23 PM
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Yep, definitely captain tryhard
/r/seduction25/05/19 05:07 PM
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Shoulda named yourself captain tryhard
/r/seduction24/05/19 11:47 PM
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its my throwaway so
/r/seduction24/05/19 07:14 PM
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u/captain-americunt username checks out
/r/seduction24/05/19 07:12 PM
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exactly, also 28 and have those feelings.
/r/seduction17/05/19 10:42 PM
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bro youre 16, chill.
/r/seduction17/05/19 10:42 PM
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I went straight for broke on dmt. but no mind altering substance is going to change facts like not being able to read people, or send signals to them.
/r/seduction12/05/19 08:45 PM
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ASD, I have issues socially and especially regarding romantic/sexual interaction. ive managed to fuck up even fool proof situations for the last 10 years of my life.
/r/seduction12/05/19 08:13 PM
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then see me and you dont have the same issue. and thus our remedies are not the same.
/r/seduction12/05/19 08:03 PM
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so do you ever have sex? cause if you do then not only are you wasting enrgy by blowing your load but also from the act itself.
/r/seduction12/05/19 07:54 PM
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the quote was "none of us". hence yourself being included. but to formally answer you. ive been working on myself enough. dropped my career to get back in school and pursue something I really wanted to do in the medical field. I have my hobbies, I take care of myself, I can do all of those things and still rub one out every so often. that advice is about as bad the overly aggressive creepy shit that comes up here often. ive made my choice on how I want to pursue the next 3 stages of my life and …
/r/seduction12/05/19 07:44 PM
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ah yes the dont jack off advice. solid
/r/seduction12/05/19 07:37 PM
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I dont disagree with the focus on yourself bit. but you also have to look at the type of person in this sub. none of us are here because weve been doing well. and sadly thats what many have left just to try to sneak in
/r/seduction12/05/19 07:22 PM
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i mean any club really. if anything the college ones might get more rowdy than you are used to. theres one here on a rooftop with a pool and that place is my kryptonite. way too high energy for me
/r/seduction12/05/19 07:18 PM
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username checks out
/r/seduction12/05/19 07:17 PM
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yea, granted thats just any time I go out.
/r/seduction12/05/19 07:16 PM
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Honestly I’m feeling like that’s my future. 28yo currently in college to go to dental school. I’ve never had a single success with women even in well known easy mode areas. Hell I go to a known party school and haven’t had an ounce of interest my way. But I know as soon as I finish school, and get a nice job that’s when they’ll come out of the woodwork. And everyone I talk about goes see that’s what you have to do. But really? That’s all I’m supposed to be good for? Having been made fun of by wo…
/r/seduction12/05/19 07:39 AM
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Separating worth from response is a lot easier said than done. I could do it back in the day but after a decade of straight rejection that’s a hard thing to do. And I do know I need to work on being more attractive but I’m so skinny that simply getting to average level is gonna take a lot out of me
/r/seduction08/05/19 01:39 AM
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everyone thinks im a player but ive had sex twice. And I mean player to the point of being a bad thing
/r/seduction05/05/19 09:29 PM
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thats my point. I just moved into this college town in January knowing absolutely no one and nowhere. Completely blind. and guess what im still working on expanding my circles. I dont expect it to happen out of nowhere and I know a lot of them are going to be leaving early (all my roomates just left) but the concept is to get out there and learn to find interesting people.
/r/seduction04/05/19 09:53 PM
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I get that, tinder is more of something to do on the toilet for myself. honestly im going through a droping dating apps and actually getting out move myself. ive met way better people and got much farther than anything online plus theyre more likely to give you a number/snap/insta to continue talking after they see youre not a serial killer and have friends/social circle.
/r/seduction04/05/19 09:33 PM
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Why are you using badoo?
/r/seduction04/05/19 09:28 PM
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Ehh they kinda do boi. The fact that this sub is 99.9% male kinda shows it
/r/seduction03/05/19 04:07 PM
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im no male model but i think we both are falling in the same pit. just dont know how to make a conversation in a way that shows interest. i can talk my ass off to any girl but also have never gotten anywhere with that.
/r/seduction03/05/19 01:48 AM
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youll drop more boxers than panties. if youre trying to ball out to show money a nice watch, shoes and clothes will work a lot better. make yourself look good. Most women cant tell a red corvette from a Ferrari apart. even worse is buying something like a 911 turbo when they cant tell the difference between that and a Carrera. and to coaching, while not the worst of ideas do your research on the person.
/r/seduction03/05/19 01:44 AM
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came to say this
/r/seduction03/05/19 01:37 AM
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comment of the year
/r/seduction02/05/19 04:05 PM
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I dont see how this is so hard to believe.
/r/seduction01/05/19 11:53 PM
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I have, it does not change why you aren't getting laid (assuming youre not dropping your standards massively).
/r/seduction01/05/19 10:30 PM
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thats bs, my friends talk about how much they jack off (2-5 times a day) and can get any girl they want.
/r/seduction01/05/19 09:42 PM
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its interesting you post this, cause honestly its almost like a personal attack for me lol (in the im in the same fucking situation). But also im older(28), I do look college age so its not so weird on first impression. That said by the extra 7 years I have my experience has been like this. the human condition will lead you to feel worthless over whatever it is you dont have at the time. Sex, money, friends, looks, intelligence, things you actually could own, etc. Youre going to end up to a degr…
/r/seduction01/05/19 09:38 PM
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yes its possible, that said both persons have to be pretty emotionally mature. And it has to be known before hand that this is all that will come out of it.
/r/seduction01/05/19 08:25 PM
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id disagree, the issue is when us men get approached its 99% of the time to get used (and not in that sense). So we tend to take a girl being forward as what the hell does she want from me.
/r/seduction01/05/19 12:58 AM
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off topic, but isnt that the stockman in Helsinki?
/r/seduction01/05/19 12:54 AM
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came here to post this.
/r/seduction01/05/19 12:51 AM
1

I mean thats the normal success rate for myself.
/r/seduction29/04/19 06:15 AM
1

I’m 28 and in college, and yea any time I walk through campus I keep getting looked at more than I can deal with
/r/seduction25/04/19 07:23 PM
1

the fact that its not such a easily defined thing puts it as a catchall for anything you can do to be attractive.
/r/seduction24/04/19 09:37 PM
1

Man I feel you, turning 28 this week and back in college yet have never had anything going for me. The only thing keeping me from being an incel is I don’t hate women for rejecting me I hate myself for not being good enough for them.
/r/seduction22/04/19 06:11 AM
2

have you considered maybe you suck too much to be of any value to them?
/r/seduction21/04/19 11:17 PM
2

woah woah there cowboy, dont just dump every incel as autistic.
/r/seduction21/04/19 11:16 PM
1

Sadly I’m up in tallanasty
/r/seduction20/04/19 10:54 PM
3

Lol
/r/seduction19/04/19 01:17 AM
3

She’s a gynecologist.
/r/seduction19/04/19 01:15 AM
2

Yea I never do anything if my mom is around but for different reasons
/r/seduction19/04/19 12:37 AM
1

lol, thats every place in this town it seems. Its mostly a case of me needing to feel like I belong in that reign. im not mentally ready for approaching girls at campus or even too far outside my social group (which I need to work on asap since theyre all moving this month)
/r/seduction18/04/19 02:45 AM
1

what sort of environment do you sugest then?
/r/seduction18/04/19 02:32 AM
1

maybe, im going to the same places everyone does. Its a bit of a small town. But honestly im just trying to go through as many bs experiences to practice dealing with people. I had a good time last night with another girl in a group of friends. she ended up immediately deleting me off snap (I use that since its less confrontational than a phone number). But hey I spent a couple of hours flirting with a super cute girl and she likely deleted me since shes going to move out of town in the coming w…
/r/seduction18/04/19 01:15 AM
1

Or there’s the other night I had one girl I was flirting with hard but her friend wasn’t too fond of me so every time I tried to move in on her the friend started making out with her and trying to push me off
/r/seduction17/04/19 03:38 AM
3

I got really drunk last night, had some hottie who was celebrating her bday hit on me for a bit. We go to her place to party more and then I realized her, her overweight roommate and gay best friend where fighting to see who was gonna fuck me. I kept trying to make moves on bday girl but her roommate literally jumped to make out and then bday girl got mad and the night was ruined
/r/seduction17/04/19 03:37 AM
1

Lol I’m more afraid of the crazy things that have been happening to me lately
/r/seduction17/04/19 03:29 AM
2

damn Daniel back at it. im still in the spending time on campus trying to get myself into doing this.
/r/seduction17/04/19 02:15 AM
6

last thread he posted about this. conclusion was tall but skinny with a nice face.
/r/seduction17/04/19 02:12 AM
1

Yes and no. Yes women prefer more manly men, but at the end of the day you can look as great as possible and unless you still play the numbers game nothing will happen
/r/seduction16/04/19 12:57 AM
2

Very easier said than done
/r/seduction16/04/19 12:53 AM
2

pretty good info but sadly a lot of the help is more targeted at women
/r/seduction14/04/19 08:31 PM
1

I agree here, my personal limit is $20 a night (small college town so its doable).
/r/seduction14/04/19 07:09 PM
1

I’m missing the joke here
/r/seduction14/04/19 06:21 AM
2

yea thats kinda what I can see in it, where it really just helps the numbers game and not having the mental block of ohh I approached 20 girls and only got anywhere with 2 and thinking hey I got 2 girls interested in me. I met this dude yesterday I was talking with a really hot girl and he walked up grabbed her, hugged chatted for a sec and left and she was undoubtedly in awe of him even though (not trying to be rude) he is pretty overweight and doesnt look like he takes care of himself. She the…
/r/seduction13/04/19 08:10 PM
2

Yea that’s literally the best way I’ve ever heard it explained. I don’t get how that’s supposed to be the end all be all of attractiveness but atleast I get what it is now
/r/seduction13/04/19 07:45 PM
1

hmm, glad you put in those examples it helps narrow it down cause honestly it looks like something pretty hard to pick up on people. I dont know exactly how you can go with confidence just in loving yourself. id like to say I love myself and who I am but I dont like what happens to me
/r/seduction13/04/19 07:19 PM
1

reason im posting is i decided to do the photofeeler and someone commented that I look arrogant in one of my pictures. At first I was like bitch what, but now im trying to see if I can work that to my favor
/r/seduction13/04/19 06:19 PM
1

see ive always seen people describe confidence as what you say arrogance is.
/r/seduction13/04/19 06:16 PM
1

I dont disagree wih that. if I was above average looking I problably wouldnt be in this subreddit
/r/seduction13/04/19 06:34 AM
1

I’m not sure what you mean. But imho I’m in the not hideously ugly but also not so good looking women throw themselves at me. I just have like an off brand good looking
/r/seduction13/04/19 06:27 AM
1

Nah that’d imply I feel fat
/r/seduction13/04/19 04:39 AM
1

this, take it from the guy that kept pussying out and is now too pussy to go for any approach
/r/seduction13/04/19 01:18 AM
1

I get the gist of it, but I’m not seeing how to do that. Seems like a pretty narrow line
/r/seduction12/04/19 08:19 PM
1

I will look at that right now
/r/seduction12/04/19 07:31 PM
1

Yea I’m not gonna disagree on that but at the same time I feel I’m so behind the curve
/r/seduction12/04/19 03:53 AM
1

I never said it wasn’t. I simply have tried to justify it
/r/seduction12/04/19 02:16 AM
1

i mean i see it as a bad or worse scenario.
/r/seduction12/04/19 01:27 AM
1

how so?
/r/seduction12/04/19 12:07 AM
1

I get that, but im not comfortable in approaching women randomly. i just feel like bothering them or wasting their time. which imho feels worse than getting rejected.
/r/seduction11/04/19 11:38 PM
2

I fully agree there's some great advice here, and that fear is holding me back. But I just don't see things really changing for me
/r/seduction11/04/19 10:44 PM
2

Yea no joke.
/r/seduction11/04/19 10:31 PM
1

The control I'm in is in wether I keep trying or not. So its more of what sort of crappy do I want to feel
/r/seduction11/04/19 10:23 PM
1

That’s what I’ve been trying this year, just cranking things to 11. The closest to success was one girl who ended up banging her female friend.
/r/seduction11/04/19 10:08 PM
8

That’s my understanding of it, but there’s a lot of non verbal stuff involved that converts it from talking to flirting.
/r/seduction11/04/19 10:03 PM
2

Like I told someone else dating is the only thing that I’m not confident in. I already have passions, goals, achievements, etc. if anything I’m trying to get rid of some.
/r/seduction11/04/19 10:01 PM
1

Yea, and also whisper
/r/seduction11/04/19 09:40 PM
12

That just sounds very awkward. Or atleast something I’ll make very awkward
/r/seduction11/04/19 09:40 PM
1

I mean I accept I’m not in control of my feelings. If I was I’d have given up years ago and would probably be super happy. Since this is the only thing where I’m not content in my life
/r/seduction11/04/19 09:38 PM
1

There’s plenty of communities here where you can get rated. From my experience I’m a 6-7
/r/seduction11/04/19 09:35 PM
13

I mean isn’t that how you show and gauge interest?
/r/seduction11/04/19 09:29 PM
2

I always get treated like I was such a bother to them for just trying which is imho worse than the usual I have a bf line.
/r/seduction11/04/19 09:27 PM
2

I don’t disagree. Hence my previous comment about feeling like I’m too far in that boat
/r/seduction11/04/19 09:24 PM
1

idk, ive been rejected enough to say thats not true
/r/seduction11/04/19 09:20 PM
3

trust me I get that, but aproach anxiety and other things dont allow me to do that. like I literally wanted to get rejected by this girl today just so I can brush off the other night but couldn't make it happen
/r/seduction11/04/19 09:18 PM
5

yea thats the sort of shit I dont get. like I understand youre just playing a numbers game to the max but I dont see that as a way of getting the type of woman I want.
/r/seduction11/04/19 09:14 PM
2

likely both. honestly I dont recall the lst time I flirted (or attempted to). best I can think of was last week I met this girl through an acquaintance we most just had banter and talked about little things with lots of eye contact. It ended with her hooking up with another girl in that group
/r/seduction11/04/19 09:01 PM
1

thats pretty close.
/r/seduction11/04/19 08:57 PM
5

its not that I havent started, its more ive failed so much I dont see the point in continuing to fail. its obvious theres something wrong in my style or self and nobody going to tell me
/r/seduction11/04/19 08:55 PM
26

I mean like I have no issue small talking strangers. My thing is more I’m not good(or able) to flirt. Which makes starting a conversation in that regard difficult.
/r/seduction11/04/19 08:53 PM
1

dating is the only aspect of my life that im not confident in though. outside of that ive always been an over achiever and have always managed to push myself farther and better. but im just so lost in what to do outside of making friends with women. its the one aspect that ive kept trying for so long and never had ay success so its been really bothering me
/r/seduction11/04/19 07:15 PM
11

1-find a girl that wants to bang 2-bang well enough that she wants more 3-???? 4-profit
/r/seduction11/04/19 06:53 PM
188

I want to get into doing this but im pretty far in the no confidence boat to even try. kudos to you OP
/r/seduction11/04/19 06:50 PM
45

im 6'1" and 125lb, is that your range?
/r/seduction11/04/19 06:48 PM
1

Look I’m not well versed in what he said but I didn’t see much advice besides don’t put women on a pedestal. That’s not exactly of much help to someone that lacks social skills in dating.
/r/seduction11/04/19 06:00 PM
1

I do the same thing but atleast in my experience it has always been true.
/r/seduction11/04/19 03:44 PM
2

Yea it is, by 50 I’m not going to be trying to pick up 18 year olds. And I’m not going to say men or women have it worse, as that varies per individual. But being told that who you are is the reason no one likes you is very demotivating. I like who I am. Changing my personality isn’t something I want to do just to get women. That’s just as bad as the typical getting buff or making money things most men do imho
/r/seduction11/04/19 03:30 PM
3

I know youre trying to help, but damn thats the most demotivating thing ive heard in a while.
/r/seduction11/04/19 02:51 PM
1

I think either I miswrote or was misread but what I meant by that was that I do the same things successful guys do. its why I dont get the difference in our results.
/r/seduction11/04/19 02:09 PM
2

strongly disagree. everyone cares about looks. but regardless I prefaced this by saying im not ugly just not attractive
/r/seduction11/04/19 01:51 PM
14

trust me im well versed on how I dont meet those
/r/seduction11/04/19 11:51 AM
48

its only a cure if youre able to get more than one though
/r/seduction11/04/19 06:13 AM
1

If you say that imagine the other side of the coin where you’re expected to
/r/seduction10/04/19 03:41 AM
2

It depends on why you struggle. A lot here assume things about you when giving out advice because of their own experience. So if you fall outside of the stereotypical person this sub is aimed for you’ll notice it’s not such good advice. For example myself I have no issues talking or approaching women. My issue is more of intent and attractiveness.
/r/seduction08/04/19 02:06 AM
2

I mean its not that I dont have the courage. its that nothing ever comes out of it.
/r/seduction08/04/19 12:23 AM
1

I feel that on a spiritual level
/r/seduction06/04/19 06:13 PM
1

look im sorry if this clashes with the mindset in these groups but while yes a good approach helps its like 4th on the list of things that make or break a situation.
/r/seduction06/04/19 01:10 AM
1

i disagree, i never get to say even hi before theyre walking away
/r/seduction05/04/19 11:00 PM
1

Its not very appropraite to probe someones head to insert the necessary chemicals to make it happen.
/r/seduction05/04/19 10:57 PM
27

its not that simple for some of us. i find neurochemistry to be easier than flirting.
/r/seduction05/04/19 07:17 AM
19

I like the general thought of this but some of us look like quasimodo
/r/seduction05/04/19 07:09 AM
1

I'm in northern florida
/r/seduction04/04/19 04:02 PM
1

yea thats expected, but I didnt know it would make such a difference.
/r/seduction04/04/19 12:53 PM
1

well I listed atheist, which yea one first message mentioned both zodiac sign and atheism so I know she looked
/r/seduction04/04/19 12:53 PM
-10

Obama won and liberalism went crazy, offended culture, pussification, etc. it just went back to a time of 20% of men get 80% of women.
/r/seduction30/03/19 03:08 AM
1

I mean it was my first time I wasnt planning for it
/r/seduction28/03/19 02:55 AM
1

begin what?
/r/seduction27/03/19 06:14 AM
1

my first time I was so nervous I couldn't cum. which was harder to exlain than id expect
/r/seduction27/03/19 06:14 AM
1

I dont want it badly enough to make it my singular point of focus in my life so I guess not. I also dont want t bad enough to have to become someone else, thats just a timebomb. I do think about it day in and out, I just accept how it comes and move on. No point going crazy over it and ending up in some incel group.
/r/seduction26/03/19 04:57 AM
1

im not "fine with it" and I try atleast once a week to go out and meet women. It just never goes forward.
/r/seduction26/03/19 02:53 AM
1

honestly after so long I dont even know what im missing anymore
/r/seduction26/03/19 02:42 AM
1

I strongly disagree. I manage to screw up everytime. shit late last year I managed to screw up with a girl who got my number from a coworker, and was sending nudes and teasing immediately.
/r/seduction25/03/19 04:59 AM
1

I do, it just doesnt happen. trust me my stories as of late would make great fodder here
/r/seduction25/03/19 04:32 AM
1

I buy lotion wholesale nah buty seriously just a mixture of not being good looking enough to get away with my lack of social skills in a sexual/flirty/ dating way
/r/seduction25/03/19 04:22 AM
1

I wonder the same thing dawg. ​
/r/seduction25/03/19 04:01 AM
5

hm, im going on 8 years here
/r/seduction25/03/19 03:38 AM
1

not to be rude, but your situation is the step forward im trying to make from mine lol
/r/seduction15/03/19 03:05 AM
1

I mean thats an attempt at justification. and I feel you, it sounds like were in a similar point. I decided 2 years ago I would get back into college, just got my AA and transferred to one of the top schools in my state. Have my goal of med school in the future and working my way to that. I dont do gyms, it really screws with my mental health, so im pretty skinny. but everyone ive told how bad my love life is thinks im exaggerating, because they dont think someone like me could have it that bad …
/r/seduction14/03/19 06:47 AM
1

basically dating is like every videogame, theres easy mode, veteran mode and hard mode. if youre attractive (and I mean are not think) youll be on easy mode. Average guys in veteran mode will have to work their way through but are still able to beat level with reasonable effort. Myself im in hard mode, a single move and im getting shot down left and right. and im nowhere near good enough to be playing at that level. First step is to figure out which mode youre in. How much effort have you put? a…
/r/seduction14/03/19 06:04 AM
1

challenge accepted
/r/seduction14/03/19 05:28 AM
2

how dare both of yall challenge my throne! late last year i had a solid 8 get my number from her friend and start sending me nudes within the first 5 messages and i manged to fuck that up. Shit i had a roomate/fwb (first and last) who admitted we didnt bang daily because i managed to fuck it up daily
/r/seduction14/03/19 05:27 AM
4

Thats gonna be a no for me dawg
/r/seduction14/03/19 05:19 AM
0

want real advice? two simple rules 1-be attractive 2-dont be unattractive ​ no but really, im in your same situation (28 not 31), ive asked this question for the last 5 years and apparently the only advice guys know how to say is go to the gym as if thats the answer for everyone.
/r/seduction14/03/19 05:19 AM
1

eh im pretty fugly so im no expecting magic to happen lol
/r/seduction07/03/19 07:34 AM
2

never worked here
/r/seduction07/03/19 07:24 AM
2

what if im even more shy and awkward drunk?
/r/seduction05/03/19 09:06 AM
1

lol yea im not gonna even attempt tp thin abut doing this, have enough trouble getting a real number let alone 100
/r/seduction15/02/19 06:23 AM
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