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| 19 | Steps on becoming indifferent towards your abuser and trauma (bond)?It helps to learn – from places like FDS or Lundy Bancroft – that patterns of abuse by abusers are so similar it’s like they’re all reading from a textbook It helps because it makes it less personal to you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/22 07:55 AM |
| 38 | Let’s talk safety tips all women should know (even the obvious ones)Don’t use OLD | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/22 09:46 PM |
| 12 | Harbouring resentment in future relationshipsYou’re talking about approaching your 30s like you’re approaching your 40s, and it is over for having a kid. I promise you that the 30s are an amazing decade for women. We often look very little different to how we did in our 20s, but are immensely more experienced and life is richer as a result. We are also much better at protecting ourselves against the bad behaviour of others | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/22 08:13 AM |
| 7 | Scrote insults his girlfriend to his friends, then takes joy in telling her about itWhat’s the motivation to do it though? I don’t quite understand. I am grateful that you shared, but is it because you don’t respect her, you want to put her down further? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/22 09:28 PM |
| 4 | You Have to Vet Harder Despite Health ComplicationsI would love to see more disability content on FDS. 0P you did the right thing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/21 10:49 PM |
| 1 | Man in a hetero relationship doesn't do housework -> solution = "get a cleaner!!!!"My ex did zero housework, we both worked full time, I was looking after my mother who had cancer, I had multiple physical health problems with one caused by the stress of that, and he wouldn’t get let me get a cleaner saying he didn’t want one in the house | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/21 03:18 PM |
| 1 | Any halfway decent Christmas films?Read the Lindy West takedown | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/21 11:19 AM |
| 1 | When posting here have you gotten Reddit Cares messages from scrotes because they’re big mad?I posted briefly about a former relationship here and one scrote thought he should message me to Query my actions. Imagine thinking your opinion is so important you actually have to personal message someone from a female sub to give them it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/21 08:09 AM |
| 1 | Your thoughts on this guy?I just opened this post and only read “hot and cold” and immediately know you should end it Edit, I read it, you are 100% on his rotation. Block and delete and assign no more thought to this guy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/21 08:42 PM |
| 1 | Why you should vet harshly. Please learn from my story.Hang on, he was clearly a terrible lazy partner but that’s not a reason to be glad he died | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/21 09:28 PM |
| 2 | recognize & avoid the energetic vampires in disguise: men who only target women in distress/ in difficult situations because it makes them feel superior and who act passive-aggressive when the women get betterMy ex was exactly like this. It’s not the same targeting of vulnerability that you get in malicious narcissists. They don’t want to grind you down further. Instead they are somehow attracted to and turned on by your vulnerability, like it makes them feel like a big strong man. My ex also had a complete flip as soon as I began to recover, like it was a massive turn off Edit – have now read the full post, candle guy is an absolute psychopath. But white knight syndrome is a real thing & it’s import… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/21 08:31 PM |
| 1 | Anne Boleyn Has Had a Bad Reputation for Nearly 500 Years. Here's How One Historian Wants to Change ThatIn the film “the other Boleyn girl” they portray Anne as crying as she goes to her death. In fact Anne Boleyn went to her death very calmly and extremely bravely, making a speech designed to save her family It just struck me because men in Hollywood films are always portrayed as a very brave in the face of death, and women often as openly emotional. This was a real life example, and they had to change it to fit that narrative | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/21 07:41 AM |
| 32 | Can’t wait to see the male commenters of DM collectively lose their tiny minds.But what the media don't say is it’s 99% about women avoiding men who treat women badly i.e. most of them It seems SO simple | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/21 03:28 PM |
| 22 | How long to wait for men to reply? (Busy career-oriented men)I think it’s generally not a good idea to attach any weight whatsoever to any conversation on online dating, before you meet. They mean nothing at that point, and I think people frequently stop talking to the majority that they interact with. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/21 07:52 AM |
| 44 | Beware of fuckboys who pretend to be HVM - mistakes I've made and how I dodged a bullet!Can confirm – with one I liked at the time I said hey look, it seems like what you want is sex, maybe we should just sleep together and then end it (pre FDS). He was like no of course not, I like you, let’s see where it goes. Then of course after we slept together he ended it and he tried to do it in as humiliating way as he could Thus proving that the goal wasn’t actually getting sex, the goal was getting sex from somebody who wanted more, breaking down their boundaries and trying to humiliate … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/21 07:36 AM |
| 76 | How many red flags can you pack into 1 profile? LET'S COUNT!OMG what did he say? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/21 07:04 AM |
| 23 | “Never tell men about your trauma”Comment of the day | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/21 06:48 AM |
| 26 | Hookup culture is a scamWhen I got out of a very long eventually sexless relationship I was not averse to sex outside of a long term committed relationship-went for it with a guy I’d been dating for a good few months. I was ok or prepared for sex with someone who did not want a longer term commitment. What I was NOT prepared for is just how little regard men seem to have for the basic humanity of sexual partners outwith long term relationships. I would go so far as to say domination, degradation and attempts to deceive… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/21 04:13 PM |
| 7 | In case you're tempted to dip your toe back into OLD...Can I ask the age range you’re dating? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/21 04:12 PM |
| 3 | Who remembers the little dancing gremlins from the 80’s movie Labyrinth? It’s them that I see every time scrotes get in groups and delight in clowning and trolling for ego boosts, reactions out of women, and cool points from other dudes . Pay attention to how they dance!I realised that Jareth, the goblin King, was the ultimate narcissist as well Charming, negs her all the time, manipulative, narcissist smirk and at the end she’s like “you have no power over me” and he vanishes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 05:33 PM |
| 11 | This insta account is great to see the entitlement that LVM have. (She’s 28 and only matches with old men for science)Yeah and then right after that he said “just experimenting, trying new THINGS” Things ladies, we are things | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 06:49 PM |
| 10 | Be careful about helping "disabled" men!(potential trigger warning!)“the best clue is, of all things, the pity play. The most reliable sign, the most universal behavior of unscrupulous people is not directed, as one might imagine, at our fearfulness. It is, perversely, an appeal to our sympathy” . Martha Stout, The Sociopath Next Door | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/21 05:21 AM |
| 72 | A man who is into casual sex and hookups won't give a damn about your sexual health. Stay away from community dick.I think that’s the bit where we fall down – generally most women have enough empathy to have concern about people they interact with one-on-one, even if they’re not in a relationship with that person. They therefore may assume that most men they have casual sex with will think in the same way Whereas in fact the majority of men don’t care if the women they’re having casual sex with live or die. Edit. The casual sex is therefore not worth the risk of: rape with unconsented activities, murder, STD… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/21 02:00 PM |
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