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She isn't lying, been to Colombia quite a few times. Then again, she is way over generalizing how prevalent macho culture is globally as well. Peru is way, way less macho than Colombia and it's not a long plane flight there from Colombia either. Outside of maybe Russia/Ukraine, Colombia is the most macho country on Earth. It's a special case, not an example of a broader trend
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 07:14 AM
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That's the 'going to work so I can support my family' part of being a father yes. Notice how there is an emphasis on going to work? The money comes from the work, not the fatherhood. It's an action fathers must perform, not that they are entitled to (nor are they compensated for being fathers!!!)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 04:57 PM
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Haven't missed a week in, what, 6 years?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 08:17 PM
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Haven't missed a week in, what, 6 years?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 08:17 PM
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I remember reading that zero calorie soda actually increases feelings of hunger? Something about the zero calorie sweetener they use does that as a side effect
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 08:16 PM
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Nope lol, not who I am
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 08:14 PM
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Literally not the dream of a single passport bro
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 08:12 PM
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I'm moving to the Philippines in 2 weeks, so I feel I have options 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 08:11 PM
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I've sat on the hiring committees for years, I know what the reasons are for any given candidate to be hired. The bar for female applicants is way lower than it is for male applicants. The only reason more women aren't hired is because more don't apply -- it definitely isn't because of the difficulty of the interview lol. Yes, women are paid more than men for the same work, and are usually paid about as much as the next level. So a SDE I female engineer is paid about as much as a SDE 2 male engi…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 07:58 PM
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Not what I was getting at. I was saying it is easier for a woman to get an interview, and for her to pass that interview and get hired, than it is for a man to do so. There's also been quite a few cases where a substantially less experienced and qualified woman was hired over a much better qualified guy... Cause she was a she. Assuming an equal number of men and women applied though, then yeah the company would be majority female in a couple years tho. It's just an overwhelming majority of candi…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 04:33 PM
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Lololol wtf. Did you imagine fathers in the long long ago got money from the government just for being a good dad!? They got money for going to work, not for being a father.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 05:16 AM
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How are women disadvantaged in business, job hiring or government? I've been on the hiring committees for years in several different big tech companies, and women absolutely have an advantage when it comes to getting jobs there. HR always likes to downplay that bit, but everyone knows there is an overt female bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 05:09 AM
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What brought this on?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 11:14 PM
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Wha. Gonna need an explanation for that one
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 11:09 PM
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You, good sir, possess the finest of insights
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 11:08 PM
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Well that was sudden. What's going on?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 11:05 PM
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Yup I am leaving for good 😎 I was tempted by Thailand (I practice the Thai forest tradition of Buddhism), but I just really like the Philippines. I'm planning on visiting Thailand pretty often though 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 08:30 PM
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I'm hardly God's gift to women, and even I've had some success in America. I am moving to the Philippines in two weeks as well, and I've been very successful there in the past. So I really think that, with enough determination, there isn't such a thing as a hopeless dude
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 08:11 PM
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Sure, I think it's possible. I've never been the sort who was so negative as to say there exists men who, no matter what they do, could never find a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 07:52 PM
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Thanks man!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 05:41 AM
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That's very fair, having to make that choice in the first place is not something I'd wish on anyone. As to how American women would react to that? Hmm... I can see some doing the same. I can see plenty not doing that as well though. I am a touch...jaded about America though, so perhaps my opinion isn't worth much on this topic though
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 05:24 AM
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You are a better man than me, no doubt about that good sir. I'm moving to the Philippines in 2 weeks lol... I have rather bypassed my dating issues 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 05:20 AM
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Oh, right. Yeah that's true, but surely most would eventually settle for this?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 05:11 AM
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That's where the clean part came in. If they can guarantee the, ahh, fun area is completely sterile and immaculate, then no problem right? Along with the rest of the bot too of course
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 04:43 AM
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Yeah... But they're in Russia. I believe OP in American soooo... yeah, not too relevant
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 04:41 AM
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I kinda like the idea of a reputable, clean, safe, robot brothel. You don't have one hanging round the house then in case you do enter into a relationship that way. Less social taboo risk that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 04:38 AM
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Thank you master
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 04:04 AM
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Always 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 03:54 AM
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Same boat man. Just mindlessly scrolling at this point 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 03:53 AM
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Idk man you sold that really well. Besides I'm sure with enough mindfulness and meditation I can manage and cope with the symptoms, AND get to slay. Is there a way one can learn this art (become a cluster B slayer)??? Though I am leaving the US in two weeks lol, so maybe not really needed
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 03:51 AM
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That was really heartwarming actually 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 03:48 AM
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Now I am regretting that I don't have a cluster B personality disorder 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 03:47 AM
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Pretty sure the Chads have no problem being dildo
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 03:44 AM
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Holy shit, that's an impressive turnaround man! You should be seriously proud!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 03:42 AM
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Okay, well congrats man. Sorry I just struggle to relate to your view, but if hooking up genuinely makes you happy who am I say anything
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 02:51 AM
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Wouldn't you rather be holding the hand of someone you value when the end times truly come?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 02:48 AM
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Oh boy. Go look at the climate projections, chaos and apocalypse are on their way already. All you have to do is wait if that's what you fancy
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 02:46 AM
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I forget where it is now, but isn't there a study which shows increasing bodies leads to a marked inability of women to maintain committed relationships? Ergo, shouldn't the trend away from a hookup culture be a positive thing? Unless hookups are as valuable (or more?) than committed relationships in your eyes?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 02:40 AM
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Oh you were serious. Wait you truly want MORE hookups!?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 02:30 AM
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Did you recently fall and hit your head? Are you able to phone an ambulance or should we find a network weeb who can locate your precise location, so we can send you an ambulance?!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 02:28 AM
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I am suddenly not hungry anymore. Saved me some money on GrubHub! 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 02:24 AM
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Chinese
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 02:22 AM
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Congrats man!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 02:19 AM
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Hey once we have a realistic humanoid robot, we can begin to have that conversation. From the guys I know in the robotics space, we are a looooooooooong way away from that. So for me it just doesn't sound practical. Besides the AI guys at work have been looking bummed for months. Evidently generative AI is already plateauing!? Or that's what they tell me, idk that's not my space
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 02:15 AM
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What is wrong with today's youth!?!?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 01:12 AM
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Sure, it reduces the bugs. Unaddressed (which is the status quo) it also has the potential to make humanity extinct. I think a few bugs is a small price to pay for a stable climate, right? As an aside, I also read a study on the total economic value of all the ecosystem services provided to humanity by nature. The sum exceeded the combined value of the world economy. You can't even spend your way outta this hole 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 12:24 AM
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Congrats, that belief has just signed you up for a lifetime of insecurity! Women like what they like, you cannot control it. Just do the best you can, and if you have some lemons, there's always the lemonade machine (become a passport bro, I leave America in 2 weeks!!!!!! Yay!!!!!!!!!!!!)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 12:21 AM
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I don't think most do end up alone. I think it takes time, but most do find what they are looking for (or close enough, so maybe a slight compromise). I think the ones who end up alone are mainly the extra delusional fatties who are holding out for a brad pitt lookalike. Never gonna happen, that. But you've been with 2 well endowed guys at this point, so you can clearly attract guys of that calibre (and it wasn't just a lucky one off), so I think you should just hold out for what you want 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 12:18 AM
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Most women don't compromise though? Most just hold out for what they're looking for
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 12:13 AM
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You might want to try dating more black dudes in that case. You're more likely to find what you are looking for in that demo
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 12:07 AM
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Can confirm, dating there was absolutely awful. 0/10 would not recommend.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 12:05 AM
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I'm... shocked. I lived in Seattle (downtown) for a few years, and it was absolutely the classic Chad chase. I'm surprised it's that much different right outside the city! You mean I could have driven through half life trees (lol Valve copied the look of Seattle trees in their games) AND doing better at dating by just leaving occasionally!? I feel this should be a public notice given to all newcomers who are male 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 12:00 AM
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Lol, I was like 'Amos from the Expanse'!? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 11:56 PM
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You're not in a big city, right? Maybe things are different out in the burbs? In the big cities (at least that I have lived in) that almost never occurs. It's your classic Chad chase.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 11:53 PM
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It used to happen on the drive from San Francisco to San Diego via the rural AF route, but that was years ago. Nowadays there are no or very few bugs, whereas in the past you had a windshield full. Guess it's climate change or biodiversity loss, haven't looked into it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 11:13 PM
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What!? Anime is awesome man! Ghost in the Shell kicks ass. Just don't turn into one of those anime pillow guys (you know the ones who carry their pillow in public)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 10:19 PM
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Good time to rewatch some transformers (before Megan Fox got replaced) 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 10:16 PM
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It's just fun, you know? Is having the occasional porn assisted wank really so bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 09:43 PM
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Not just me who is sick, makes me feel less alone lol. I have the wonderful COVID, and here I got the new boaster a month ago 😑
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 02:23 AM
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What's it like? Sorry, I've just never worked retail
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 09:40 PM
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I'm confused. What's there to be envious about?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 03:44 AM
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Pretty rarely. When I do it's usually cause of the news 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 03:43 AM
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Don't try to fight the anxiety. Accept that it is there, but don't focus on it. Focus on your breathing, but in an active way. Like try to figure out how to make the next breath feel especially good,and give all your attention to it. If your mind jumps to something else accept that, reward yourself for being aware your mind has wandered, and bring the attention right back to the breath.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 03:33 AM
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Rather repetitive isn't that?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 02:54 AM
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I've bounced around the big tech companies for a decade now, and I've never personally seen any discrimination against women? I've seen very shy guys get flustered around women lol, but that's about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 01:25 AM
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Hmm... Friends can get you a somewhat similar sense of closeness, but somehow it's not quite the same. I don't quite know how to explain that one though haha. Hookups are just unfulfilling for me really. Sex is just much, much better if you genuinely care about eachother. Haven't been with an escort but I'd imagine it's an even worse hookup?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 04:14 AM
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Hmm... Someone you can say anything to, who supports you (and who you support in turn), and someone who 'gets' you Also seggs 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 04:10 AM
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That's surprisingly hard to explain lol. But surely you know what I mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 04:06 AM
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For the closeness and intimacy a relationship affords you
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 04:03 AM
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Once a week?!?! The horror!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 03:27 AM
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Yeah you definitely rebounded too fast lol. It happens tho. Just gotta be single for a spell
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 03:22 AM
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Sounds about right 😅 You've had a special year
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 03:14 AM
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Sign me up 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 02:19 AM
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Smart man
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 02:18 AM
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Yes they are
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 06:32 PM
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The standard of living is much lower in America than Europe, it might be hard to understand lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 06:11 PM
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Nahhhh get some Sony WH1000XM5s instead
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 06:10 PM
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It isn't (if that's just a preference), but being obsessed with having a virgin GF is kinda a problem
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 07:22 AM
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That is absolutely something you would say 😅 How's the diet going?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 06:44 AM
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Isn't it more important that you lose yours? You see... Rather focused on the virginity there good sir
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 06:31 AM
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Lol, whatever brought you to such a spicy decision!? Eating multiple tablespoons of hot stuff!!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 06:30 AM
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Wah. Has your tongue melted??
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 06:19 AM
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Yeah I can see that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 02:52 AM
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We can make guesses from the copious corpus you have posted lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 02:25 AM
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I'm reasonably successful and pretty happy lol, although I am old
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 02:12 AM
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But can't you be less insular without the hard liquor?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 04:21 AM
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Yes. Yes that is too early. Why are you tempted to drink that early?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 04:07 AM
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Yup you have
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 04:04 AM
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Blue balled men of the world, unite! You have nothing to lose but your chastity!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 03:40 AM
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LMAO ogremaxxing 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 03:23 AM
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30s and 40s year old women do not look as good as 20 somethings.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 02:28 AM
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I'd much rather be a house husband rather than go to a job. Working for some soulless corporation solely dedicated to profit above anything ain't exactly fulfilling
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 06:54 AM
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Good luck man! Sounds fun
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 08:25 PM
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You're starting a business? What kind? Like what would you be doing?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 06:52 AM
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15.5 is a touch low lol, I think most guys here are looking for <= 21
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 05:16 AM
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Nah, I'd rather have a quality woman than money.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 04:16 AM
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Yup 95% of American dudes would go for her no question haha
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 04:03 AM
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Damn lucky you, McDonald's did that to me hahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 11:52 PM
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Pretty much there's a mass shooting here everyday. Glad I'm leaving soon, the US is rapidly declining
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 11:48 PM
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Merely a description of your future in a few hours 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 11:47 PM
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Good job!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 09:20 PM
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American women are not any higher quality partners than American men on average
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 06:53 PM
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Newton? The dude didn't even like women and did everything in his power to avoid them lol. He was a special character
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 12:22 PM
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Pretty face, but that butt is WAY too much for me.😅
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 03:56 AM
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Have fun!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 03:55 AM
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Don't do that
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 03:54 AM
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Find the food with the most fiber and chow down. Fiber is proven to produce feelings of fullness
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 03:52 AM
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Lol the teenage MILF
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 03:48 AM
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Hell yeah! Congrats!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 03:46 AM
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Ooo only Americans. Then yeah that chick is what you want to aim for haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 03:29 AM
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Maybe? It's hard to say. She was light skinned, and I've met guys who just aren't into that. It's that 95% figure you spoke of that makes me hesitate. I think 85% would find the woman I was mentioning attractive though
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 03:26 AM
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There was one woman I met who was damn sexy even to me, but she had medium large boobs and a medium sized butt. Idk what it was but the proportions just worked for her. But usually when I'm in South America, it's a minority of women I find attractive, mainly cause of the big butts boobs lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 03:19 AM
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Well, this is how I see it. Yesterday I met a Colombian dude, and be was positively gushing about how gorgeous his new girlfriend was. So he eventually showed me her pics, and she fit the classic big butt big boobs Colombian ideal. I had to fake saying she was super beautiful, even though I was like: nah I'd pass. To him she was an 8/10 I think, for me, maybe a 4? She just looked overweight. There's just too much variability in what guys find physically attractive I believe
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 03:12 AM
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I honestly don't think you're gonna find a body type attractive to 95% of guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 03:07 AM
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She does look overweight. She's not my type personally, but for the guys into ultra big titties she's about perfect I'd imagine
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 03:06 AM
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Depends on the guy really. The guys who go for the big butts big boob thing would definitely be into them tho
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 03:03 AM
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You do realize men just can't get taller right? That's the equivalent of saying just change your facial structure as a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 01:39 AM
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Maybe I could? I truly don't know, it's not something I've much experience with (dating on reddit) so don't have a track record to look at
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 06:20 PM
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What!? Dogs are the biggest love bugs known to exist!! Clearly you have never met a living hug -- a golden retriever!!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 05:21 PM
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You know what that means 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 04:44 PM
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She's mainly just yelling at men lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 04:09 PM
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Damn nice! Now that's a HVM
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 09:53 PM
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How can you not like some Christmas muppets!?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 09:42 PM
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It just boils down to personal preference, and sometimes who overgeneralize our preferences too. I'm guilty of that. For example, I cannot relate to how you feel about bigger women OP. I like skinny women with small tits and a small ass, and truly am not aroused by bigger women. Even big tits just turn me off. So for me, it's hard to put myself in your shoes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 08:52 PM
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Home pussy > new pussy
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 07:39 PM
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I prefer smaller boobs, so no please! Also natural feels infinity better 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 04:32 PM
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It's a museum piece at this point, wouldn't fetch much
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 03:23 PM
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Thanks! I move there January 1st. I've been there a lot though, I have a fairly good idea what I am getting myself into 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 11:27 PM
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Of course! The Philippines to be exact 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 11:25 PM
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Some.aew shaved lol, but no I'm more looking for healthy BMI women who are loyal and have a good personality 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 11:24 PM
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Well, personally I am moving to where my preferred option is much more common 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 11:16 PM
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Do you gain energy, or lose energy when you socialize?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 11:03 PM
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I can see that
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 10:55 PM
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Dude we all know it's the group who takes showers.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 10:32 PM
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Ikr? She's definitely some kind of E lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 10:30 PM
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For one of the rarest types, there sure are alot of us here here. Maybe INTPs aren't attractive lol?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 10:27 PM
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Maybe ENTP? Lol you seem so extroverted
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 10:23 PM
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I don't think so, maybe alot of confused and hurt people, but I don't think evil is an appropriate description?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 10:23 PM
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I'm an INTP
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 10:22 PM
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That's impressive man 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 10:08 PM
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What kind of test?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 10:06 PM
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Right? Sex bots/AI seems like a win for women. Not sure what I am missing? If the guy is approaching you, and taking you on dates, it's a better chance he wants a human relationship. Cuz of he just wanted sex, there's the robo brothel (or personal sex bot or whatever)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 09:55 PM
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Why is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 09:49 PM
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It's not even a real woman. If some guys want to purchase these pictures, what's the harm?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 09:49 PM
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As an old millennial I think I have a somewhat similar take. I did sleep around when I was younger, but found it really wasn't for me but I don't really mind if others do so now. Just be safe and reasonable about it (condoms, health checks, the usual). Really my ideal now would be an equitable marriage, though I don't mind being more of the financial resources to the table.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 09:47 PM
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Your vagina and butthole are not perfectly light and pink?! Pfft dealbreaker /s
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 07:55 PM
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Save yourself some money and rent one occasionally. Same vrom vrom.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 07:08 PM
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The right has successfully delivered over 40 years of economic stagnation -- they called it neoliberalism. It's a complete failure. No, the right is not 'always right' they are usually wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 06:57 PM
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Oh boy
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 06:55 PM
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Climate change is absolutely not a hoax, you're in some weird right wing echo chambers if you believe that one!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 06:53 PM
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💯 waste. If you just want to go vrom vrom rent one of the buggers on a track occasionally. Owning is a money pit. Pass.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 06:50 PM
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It's not. Look at climate change, resource depletion and general pollution. It's terrible for society.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 06:49 PM
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Ewww. Screw that. Waste of perfectly good money.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 06:48 PM
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This is inject you are speaking to lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 06:23 PM
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Tis just your ADHD, not your fault 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 06:09 PM
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Have some green tea as well, might help a bit
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 06:04 PM
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You're right about that
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 05:34 PM
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I'll pass, that's basically smack dab in the middle of a war zone. The Philippines 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 05:31 PM
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I actually work in big tech, but I'm quitting in a couple weeks to move to the Philippines. Working tech roles in the US can be good for saving money, but then you have to live in the US. Personally I'd only recommend it for a couple years to save up a nice nest egg, the US is just so much worse than Europe otherwise the extra money just isn't worth it
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 04:55 PM
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I'm even older than you, early 30s 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 04:47 PM
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I've heard it a few times irl, I've always just assumed it meant you had no chance of anything romantic haha
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 04:45 PM
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Yikes.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 03:45 PM
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Oh gotcha. Yeah if you don't make enough to support a SAHM then hating on independent women is a bit of an odd position to have (just like that fat woman, who I don't think actually wants kids that badly. Weight loss is not rocket science)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 03:23 PM
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Oh haha. I'm old don't mind me
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 03:18 PM
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I prefer humans sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 03:14 PM
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I don't hate independent women, how'd you manage the mental gymnastics to pull that off from what I said!? Besides I can afford to support a SAHM
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 03:09 PM
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Any gems so far?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 03:02 PM
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I'm not in favor of insulting the woman. But if she truly wants to have kids as soon as possible, why doesn't that motivate her to lose the weight, so she has the best chance of attracting a mate she's happy having kids with? Her remaining fat strikes me that she isn't actually serious about having the kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 03:02 PM
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Sad state of affairs, but true. Thankfully I am leaving for a higher quality dating market 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 02:57 PM
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I meant it would be better in general if you did live in the more tolerant parts of the Western world
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 02:03 PM
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Being born gay would have been soooooo much better lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 01:22 PM
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Aww he's a little cutie 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 01:02 PM
1

That's actually a pretty good approach. I might steal...erm borrow that from you
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 03:13 AM
2

Kinda way I've always been drawn to battleships
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 03:07 AM
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He doesn't look THAT old tbf. At least I don't think so. Sure, older, but not massively so?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 03:00 AM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 02:52 AM
1

This doesn't surprise me lol, but wouldn't it be for your long term welfare to address your social media addiction?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 02:46 AM
1

It's just people reading a book
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 02:45 AM
1

What's wrong with the pic?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 02:33 AM
1

I wouldn't generalize from her too much, she's, ah, rather unique 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 02:32 AM
1

That would have been awesome!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 12:46 AM
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According to reddit, broke guys are the hottest 😎 Apparently their hair is also much longer and shinier
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 11:44 PM
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I mean, if you want to marry for money go for it. Surely the only person's permission you would need is your own?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 11:29 PM
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Riiiight. I'd rather not have a hockey stick shoved up my ass 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 11:21 PM
1

Lol, we all know you have a BF ma'am 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 11:06 PM
2

Couldn't the women date men on their level? Shouldn't be an issue?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 11:03 PM
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I've actually never met one to the best of my knowledge lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 10:25 PM
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?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 08:23 PM
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Oh my bad lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 07:59 PM
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Same for girls too?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 07:38 PM
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Yeah no obesity is not and never will be attractive. I can understand not wanting people to rub your obesity in your face, but trying to convince others it's attractive? That needs to stop, it is insanely delusional and doesn't do any favors to the fatties anyway. It also unfairly puts guys in a bad place for rejecting these women. If you are obese, just accept the reality that you are unattractive to the vast majority of guys. Living in la la land is not the answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 05:28 PM
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Waffles for life man
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 03:28 PM
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Idk man I know Indian dudes (cause tech worker)... They have it super rough. It's pretty common to just throw in the towel and find a wife in the home country
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 04:13 AM
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It definitely is. As a tech worker though, I can confirm tons of tech workers are exactly the beta bux sort haha
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 04:06 AM
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Sure, that'd work lol. Just find a tech dude. Of course the woman would be marrying for money, not sure many would be cool with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 02:47 AM
2

Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 02:42 AM
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I think it's great you do stuff like that lol, idk why people would push back against that!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 02:33 AM
1

Awww that's really nice. Why is that being down bad??
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 02:11 AM
1

Almost 14 is soooo young. He's gonna be immature, he can't help it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 02:06 AM
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Your brother is 12, cut him some slack big sis
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 01:53 AM
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Sounds fantastic! Where do I sign up?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 01:31 AM
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Someone has to push human understanding forward. It's a hard job man.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 01:19 AM
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I like shy women lol, there are just hard to find. I can however find the extroverts!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 01:16 AM
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24 hours in a day.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 01:08 AM
2

Could you start your English assignments sooner, maybe even get ahead? It seems like you are using every available second now, and juuust missing the finish line
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 01:06 AM
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I can fix that bug 😎 There are neural net debuggers
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 01:01 AM
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=(
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 12:37 AM
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What exactly about English is whopping your ass? Could you talk through with your teacher what those problems are, or maybe one of the students getting an A? They could have insight into how to tackle those issues in the future
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 12:35 AM
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A wife
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 12:32 AM
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You could also look at the models, go 'oooooooo', then keep trucking and look for a 1-4?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 10:04 PM
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Honestly, I'd suggest you get a job in AU/NZ, and meet someone cool with moving to the US that way
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 10:00 PM
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Football
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 06:53 PM
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You really enjoy elden ring speech lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 06:51 PM
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Cause incel usually denotes a hatred of women, whereas as the boyfriend in training doesn't hate them, he just doesn't know how to attract one (yet)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 05:24 PM
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So picky 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 04:42 PM
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Catholics have tree and all, at least the ones I knew
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 04:33 PM
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It's a big place you won't run into her
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 04:32 PM
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What if the shirt said "free drugs" hahah
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 04:31 PM
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What if he had a shirt saying "I love Adderall"?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 04:28 PM
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Are the dicks doing anything per chance 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 04:12 PM
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Welcome to 2X hahha!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 04:11 PM
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I consistently flung bullshit at the wall until the shit bagan to stick. I then stuck with that 😅 Also ChatGPT haha
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 04:10 PM
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Oh definitely, I'll let my mind wander when I see a pretty gal 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 04:08 PM
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2X is filled with permanently angry misandrists lol, what did you expect ?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 04:07 PM
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Hey, 2/4! Good morning!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 04:05 PM
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Add extra grease and let dry 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 04:03 PM
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Ma'am, he specifically asked for soap. Did I misread something lol?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 03:22 PM
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Why would you be worried?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 03:18 PM
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Lol 50+?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 01:21 PM
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How old is he on the left?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 03:11 AM
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I tend to meet people from a variety of social classes pretty regularly. Maybe I am just weird like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 02:25 AM
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As in pursuing those of the same class more or less exclusively.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 02:19 AM
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Wasn't getting angry lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 02:14 AM
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Is sex is that dire of a need, get an escort.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 01:45 AM
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Get your tickets man 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 01:22 AM
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Oh, I thought you were bemoaning being single lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 01:16 AM
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I'd bet you you could find someone in the Philippines within 3 months.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 01:13 AM
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What's wrong with 30 yr old dudes?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 12:07 AM
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😂
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 12:06 AM
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Eras are a long time, and you've only been on Earth for a very short time. Something isn't adding up lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 11:52 PM
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A buddy's boss is a partner at a midsized law firm, and his boss married a waitress. I saw a pic of her and she's gorgeous, but things like that happen
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 11:24 PM
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But is his hair long?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 11:15 PM
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Lollllllll
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 11:14 PM
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Got a source for that one?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 11:11 PM
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I thought the cultural narrative is that women who spend their entire 20s playing the field are stunning and brave?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 10:09 PM
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Good afternoon Lillth 😂 Having a swell day so far?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 09:51 PM
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What kind of parade?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 09:50 PM
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That's fair. I have a somewhat varied social circle, so I meet a pretty good range of people
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 09:40 PM
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Oh that's what you meant. Understandable then. I thought you were saying there was something inherently wrong in the character of most female doctors (hence the red flag)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 09:34 PM
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Maybe I am just weird, but I've never understood the whole dating in your socioeconomic class thing. I've dated people making a whole lot less than me before, and it was great!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 09:31 PM
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Sounds truly horrible, I hope your husband can recover
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 09:29 PM
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Wha. Why!? Lots of them are nice!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 09:28 PM
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Are you like a Chad?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 09:25 PM
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Yes and yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 09:24 PM
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Sure sometimes that happens, but he didn't want to be her friend. He wanted more than that. She didn't, and he didn't make a fuss or do anything wrong. He just moved on. That seems like a perfectly reasonable thing to do? Staying friends with her would likely be more painful than fun for him, cause he wanted more.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 09:21 PM
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I don't get this at all. He shot his shot, got turned down, and now wants to move on. That's literally the normal thing to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 09:17 PM
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Ignore them. Problem solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 08:51 PM
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Yeah I'm super curious, why does she hate you?!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 08:33 PM
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That's definitely not a good thing man
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 08:32 PM
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Well being British I would expect their teeth to be garbage, but not quite this rapid of aging! (/s about the teeth for those who need the disclaimer lol)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 08:23 PM
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What did he do to you anyway lol?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 08:08 PM
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Honestly? No. To be a mod you have to be able to put up with a lot of BS and tolerate people you may not like but who are not really doing anything wrong. Sorry, but that doesn't really sound like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 08:08 PM
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There's growing up, then there's looking like you're 50 lol. Maybe it's just a really bad picture of her, I hope it is that
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 08:06 PM
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She was definitely a cutie man, I get it. That wasn't even 40 years ago either what happened to her?!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 08:00 PM
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Good lord lol, it looks like they all starting using crack or something
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 07:49 PM
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I'm the same lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 07:37 PM
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I've never really had this experience lol, and I'm a guy
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 07:29 PM
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4.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 06:28 PM
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Move to Southeast Asia 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 05:05 PM
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Poor dude, that's gonna be tough to recover from. He could use a mentor to teach him the ropes, while SEAmaxxing at the same time
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 05:01 PM
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Yup, dry spells happen to most people I think. Do yourself a favor, and don't rush into anything. The idea is to have a quality relationship, not an relationship in general 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 04:42 PM
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You'll find someone you like, it just takes time 😐
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 04:38 PM
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I think being rude to people in general is a turn off. No need to make unprovoked comments about the fat woman's appearance, just go on with your day
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 04:34 PM
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Guess he didn't make the cut for a good morning, and now has a bad morning 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 04:02 PM
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Lol you could just eat a normal amount
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 03:17 PM
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Ikr? With climate change, resource depletion, and AI, do we really need more people on this hothouse planet? Don't think so!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 02:50 PM
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Actually with AI, I'd imagine blue collar jobs will be the next white collar. AI is gonna decimate the earnings of most knowledge workers in the next 20 years
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 02:43 PM
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I enjoy fishing for relaxing, but I also know just about nothing about it. I rent a poll, some line, and sit in a boat and catch nothing at all lol. But it does wonders about getting things off my mind
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 01:29 AM
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What she said is about the best way
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 01:23 AM
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Hahah oh man, looks like you're gonna have your bad boy phase soon (or now!) 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 01:22 AM
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Those companies bare household names lol, and besides I've worked in those companies for over a decade now. Idk about 7 or 8 figures being easy though man, I know directors who don't make 7 figures
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 12:59 AM
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Lol lower tier gold digger. Most guys in FAANG seem to struggle with dating, and alot end up with an average at best GF. Big issue they have is social skills, and in particular their lack of social skills 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 12:46 AM
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I would have tried to run away to a grandparents house or something lol. That sounds absolutely terrible
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 12:29 AM
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Gold diggers want dudes with serious money, like 7+ figures. That's pretty rare even in FAANG
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 12:25 AM
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Being self aware can be painful, yesz but it also shows you what the intennal problems are. Knowing what the issues are is the only way to be able to confront and solve them, so overall I'd say being self aware is a blessing
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 12:24 AM
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Yeah I don't see the resemblance to refugees in the slightest lol. You're gonna need to flesh out your argument a bit
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 12:19 AM
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No, no it is not. Nerds are used by the true rulers of society (the billionaires) just the same as everyone else
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 12:18 AM
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Holy. Shit. Wait having them stay together was better?! She almost killed you!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 12:16 AM
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That's the plan! I leave the US in January for the Philippines 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 12:11 AM
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You're no where near that bad man. That would be describing an ex of mine /s
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 12:09 AM
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That is rape. Poor girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 11:47 PM
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It really should come with a reset switch. A users manual would also be nice!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 11:46 PM
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Oh. Well shit. Would child support have made a difference?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 11:45 PM
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I never see a SOS unless I leave the city, that's weird
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 11:39 PM
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So it begins. Soon a small tsunami of BS will descend upon you haha. I have a friend like that, to be fair I mainly joke around with her now and call her out on her endless horseshit hahah
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 11:38 PM
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Would'nt it have been better if both your parents were happier, although separated?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 11:36 PM
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What?! It's cheap and it usually works just fine, as long as you are not out in the boons! What's not to like!?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 11:35 PM
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You scare me sometimes lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 11:22 PM
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That dude is sooooooooop insanely creepy looking. I'd nope outta that as fast as humanly possible!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 11:20 PM
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Uh oh. They're not metastasising into born again virgins, are they??
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 11:16 PM
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That's a pretty typical large city girl in America
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 11:11 PM
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Sounds about right lol. Women have it insanely easy on dating apps
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 11:01 PM
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If they are thoughtful and open yes. If they are dogmatic and closed minded no.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 10:25 PM
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Whoa hold up. What's going on??
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 10:22 PM
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Idk man, I think I'd just go off and have a wank lol. That's just too weird for me
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 10:04 PM
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Ultimately is better for all involved for the divorce to happen. It would be hard on the kids no doubt, but having a miserable father is also going to be incredibly hard on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 09:55 PM
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The visual element is definitely a big thing for me, idk about the vulnerability one. I just want a girl who is into me lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 09:54 PM
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Poor dude. I would never allow myself to be in a dead relationship like that. I get it would be hard on the kids, but it is something that has to happen sooner or later, so might as well get it over and done with ASAP.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 09:53 PM
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What if she did something!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 09:50 PM
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Oh boy. In a sci Fi sense you could use something like genetic engineering or neural remapping to accomplish that, but lordy do that same technologies carry the potential for horrific use cases as well. I just don't think something as... Involved as that is nessessary. Go where you are treated best, but the women who are most your type. Problem solved. It can be hard to get yourself into that situation where you can live in that foreign country in some cases, but I believe it is doable with enou…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 09:30 PM
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Passport bro 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 09:23 PM
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Dude. What's with the family supremacy? I thought you were a feminist. Aren't they always yapping about equality? Or was that a lie?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 09:15 PM
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Big butts aren't exactly my thing, but she does have a gorgeous face. But I know what you're driving at, so I'll mentally substitute my ideal woman for the sake of this argument. I still don't think I would do it. I would know I had violated the trust of someone I value, even if they never did. I would rather hold onto my character trait of being trustworthy, and not have sex with the super woman than give in to the temptation. I just don't want to be that person.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 09:04 PM
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It's not quite that simple for alot of guys lol, at least in America. Outside America though that is the normal way it is done
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 08:34 PM
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Well, it is easy to be brave from a distance, but no I don't see myself doing that. I just couldn't live with myself knowing I hurt someone I cared about like that
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 08:28 PM
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I have never cheated on a partner, and to the best of knowledge I have not been cheated on.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 08:23 PM
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Calling the cops IS helping people in need. Cops are specifically trained and equipped to handle situations like this, whereas civilians are definitely not. Randos jumping in could very well just cause more harm than good, even if it was well meaning.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 08:09 PM
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Evidently they are, in that they provide the service they advertised without any problems. But you're right, my policy also would not be implemented in America at least, at least not for now. It's kinda similar to what is the current policy in Germany tho!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 08:03 PM
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Oh okay lol. I'm just a nerdy introverted dude, pretty sure that explains my presence.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 08:01 PM
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That's true lol, she just made it sound like all guys here are evil 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 07:49 PM
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I'm assuming you know of other ways of receiving cum 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 07:36 PM
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Actually, reputable escort agencies exist at this very moment in America. Where prostitution is banned. I know a few guys who enjoy 'hobbying'. There's a ton of independent women too. I think we can both agree that every country banning the selling of sex is not going to happen. I don't think Thailand, or most of South America would do that. It just seems like pie in the sky thinking, not something of practical relavence.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 07:34 PM
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I didn't mean to say that women would have a 100 percent success rate. But I was saying it would be a solid majority
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 07:29 PM
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I await your proposal for accomplishing that one lol. But even if that, by some miracle, actually did transpire, then you would still have not eliminated prostitution. What you create are the perfect conditions for reputable escort agencies to exist. Meaning that prostitution will remain alive and well, if more of a headache because of the requirement for review forums to ensure you don't get ratted out to the cops.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 07:27 PM
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Ohh okay, nvm then
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 07:25 PM
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Anymore and I would get skaven swamped for sure. I am 6'2 and in good shape, so really what I am banking on is scaring the women to back down.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 07:24 PM
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It's understandable to not want to jump into the middle of a fight, I get that. But record it? No. That's just being a shit head. Use your phone to do something actually helpful -- call the cops!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 07:22 PM
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Most are not lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 07:20 PM
1

Dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 07:19 PM
1

Yes. Yes I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 07:18 PM
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Try to break the fight.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 07:18 PM
1

Dude. Nobody deserves to be treated like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 07:09 PM
1

Lol what!? Dudes hands are not covered in cum.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 07:07 PM
1

I've met a few chubster chasers, they're definitely out there. Guys have alot of variety in that they are attracted to I have found. Personally, I go for skinny girls with small boobs and a small butt. That also makes me a little odd, cause usually you'll hear guys gushing about them big tatas. For me big boobs almost always turn me off lol. But speaking personally, I do find her fat and unattractive. But again that is just me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 07:00 PM
1

Respectively turn her down.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 06:57 PM
2

I have a villain origin story? This is news to me lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 06:55 PM
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Nah just her lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 05:03 PM
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Common now, we all know most guys who be dtf with their friends if offered.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 05:01 PM
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The hate runs too deep in her, just let her rant
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 04:56 PM
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Making buying sex illegal, but selling legal. It's a neat idea, there is a problem though. All that does is shift prostitution to other countries. That's because most men who buy sex are also fairly well off, so they fly into other countries. That's why Germany had an influx of sexpats after I believe Sweden outlawed buying sex, but made it legal to sell. The upside of that idea is that female prostitutes in the original country can be safer, and it doesn't eliminate it totally in the original c…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 04:54 PM
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Slavery and prostitution are two very different beasts, they aren't comparable. Slavery is very hard to hide, prostitution is quite easy to hide. That makes your job of eliminating it a ton harder. Besides, I would argue the harm of prostitution is far less than that of slavery as well. You've never touched on how you believe you can eradicate prostitution though. What's your idea for doing it? Prostitution is alive and well in every country where it is illegal. Because if you don't have a plan,…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 04:35 PM
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Yeah, I don't think prohibition even meaningfully reduces the demand for prostitution. Like I said, you can order up a escort right now. There are several famous streets in Los Angeles and New York with street walkers. The massage parlors. Etc etc. Prohibition doesn't work, it only makes the lives of men and women who partake in prostitution more dangerous and worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 04:27 PM
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Being a cute, happy girl who is fun to hang out with is actually sexy as hell too 😎 There's more than one way of pulling off the sexy thing. Also being awkward isn't so bad for a girl, it can be kinda cute
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 03:21 PM
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Yeah, I've never seen an attractive chubby girl. I've always been drawn to skinny girls though, and am a small boobs guy, so could just be cause chubby women are absolutely not my type
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 03:19 PM
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Are people really thinking about that old, dead empire that often lol?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 03:00 PM
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What did you like about school?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 02:58 PM
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Yeah the whole 'they want a green card!!' and identity is mostly BS. Most women abroad, even in poor countries, don't want to leave their hoke county because then they would leave their friends and family behind. There are some green card chasers sure, but they are easy to spot and nowhere near as common as you believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 02:43 PM
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We do not want that
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 02:39 PM
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Nobody does, but it is for your long term welfare 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 02:37 PM
3

Exactly this
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 06:21 AM
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I was saying that sex and relationships being commodities is already the status quo. It's gonna take generations to undo that I think. Said differently, that genie is already out of the bottle. Regarding prostitution -- it has always existed, and it always will. To the best of my knowledge no policy of prohibition has ever worked, in that it succeeded in completely removing prostitution. You can, for example, book an appointment with an escort in America this very day from the comfort of your ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 06:14 AM
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I understand you disapprove of prostitution (and to be fair I am less than thrilled about it), but I genuinely believe that it is an inevitable part of society. There will always be those seeking sexual services, and there will always be those offering those services. No prohibition of prostitution in the history of mankind has ever worked to my knowledge, and I am confident none ever will. Therefore, the best way to improve the lives of the women in prostitution is to let them work out in the o…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 06:05 AM
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If she knowingly dated the felon I'd seriously reconsider if she is the sort of person I'd want to have a relationship with. Now if he just never told her, and she never figured it out on her own until some time into the relationship that's fine
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 09:42 PM
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Prostitution has always existed, and it always will. Neither you, the government, nor any other entity can stop it. All you can do is drive it underground -- and I would argue that by arguing to drive prostitution underground (which is the implication of your argument), you are in fact making the lives of prostitutes much less safe than they otherwise could be. I think prostitution should be legalized and regulated, and relegated to specific red light districts, or in the privacy of your own res…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 09:33 PM
2

Sorry to tell you, but that cat is already out of the bag and it's gonna be a real bugger to get it back in.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 09:18 PM
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Yup, I've dated in quite a few countries now and America remains by far the worst from a dating perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 07:26 PM
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Welcome to America
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 02:37 PM
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Nah I doubt that
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 02:35 PM
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I'm so glad I am moving to the Philippines lol. That article made dating in the states sound absolutely horrific,.which is kinda is
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 02:12 PM
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So you only dates your friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 01:52 PM
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The body positivity movement really made them delusional in that way. They now think overweight is actually attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 01:46 PM
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It is okay for her to do it, but it is also okay for me to break up with her for doing so. It is a question of preferences good sir. As for why I enjoy strangers doing it? I enjoy a good wank lol. It's not complicated.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 04:44 AM
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It is an answer. The answer is the SOs of the porn actresses are cool with what she does for work. I would not be, and her work would be a deal breaker for me. Happily consuming the content created by others has no bearing on me being cool with my SO starting to create that same content.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 04:26 AM
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I do indeed enjoy watching porn, but would not want to date a sex worker either. This includes not wishing my SO to participate in sex work (OF is of course sex work). I don't think there is anything wrong with watching porn, and I don't believe there is anything amiss in not wanting to date a sex worker. It is a perfectly valid and reasonable preference to have, and one I suspect is shared by most men. If other men are okay with dating a sex worker, then that is perfectly fine by me as well. I …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 04:22 AM
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When you are watching porn,.you are literally just watching a video. Neither yourself nor your girlfriend ended up plastered all over the internet getting banged by watching a video. That's your distinction good sir.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 03:36 AM
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I'd passport bro, then I wouldn't be an incel AND I would'nt have an affair with the best buds wife 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 02:59 AM
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Happy relationship hands down. I can take a long ass drive or a flight to Mexico or somewhere for cheaper medical care, with a happy relationship to boot.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 02:57 AM
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Your girlfriend or wife doing porn is in no way equal to you as a guy watching porn. There is a massive difference there good sir.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 02:18 AM
1

Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 09:02 PM
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There's a fair few Filipinas who really go for lovey dovey stuff like that lol. You could pull that off in the Philippines
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 06:19 PM
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Cuz I don't want to look like a Nazi! Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 06:06 PM
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Oh dear lord he gives off a powerful psychopath Nazi vibe. What do you see in him?!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 06:05 PM
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I know plenty of tech workers who are pretty well off, and ... Yeah it's the rare one who is dating easily lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 05:49 PM
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They can choose what happens to their bodies right now. Nobody can force them to do anything they don't want to their bodies. What are you driving at?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 05:47 PM
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I don't follow. How is men's bodily autonomy being denied?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 05:37 PM
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I don't think so ma'am 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 05:36 PM
1

Um. That doesn't sound very, ah, appealing lol. Surely there is a better way?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 05:29 PM
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Heck I'm a socialist and I think dating in America is horrific for guys lol. Big part of why I'm moving to the Philippines in January!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 05:19 PM
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How would this even be implemented? Honestly, I don't see how this could work. I think the best way to handle the situation is to either open up immigration for young women to the states (say 18-32), thereby (hopefully) substantially increasing the 'supply' of potential partners for men, or just passport broing (decreasing the supply of men in general). Other than that, I don't see any other means of addressing the dating markets in America in particular.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 04:39 PM
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=(
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 02:25 AM
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We know lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 02:29 PM
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You were in Russia, and the OP is American from the sound of it. Those two dating markets are WAY different from each other lol, so I can understand why you're confused. The US dating market is a hella of a lot harder for men than Russia's is
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 01:05 PM
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Go dad!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 03:39 AM
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I think he is getting at how much easier dating is for women
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 03:28 AM
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If you just want to always know you can find.an attractive partner whenever you want, then you really should consider SEAmaxxing good sir. Can be a bit of work to establish a reliable source of income living that way, but it is doable
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 03:06 AM
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To each their own lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 11:58 PM
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I dunno as it is very common, but it definitely happens. 7 figures (or 8, 9, or 10 lol) is in the territory of what management gets paid (which is absurdly high, but they are management and they have the power to force it though)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 11:14 PM
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Accounting is rather surprising -- are they in a particularly high role in one of the big 4 firms? Law definitely makes sense though, someone like a partner is likely in that range and of course the finance types
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 11:11 PM
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She's for the streets!! Definitely not the sort to wife up!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 09:22 PM
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Some of the really senior architects (like whole system designers) in Big Tech companies make 7 figures. It's rare, and it takes alot of skill to reach those positions, but I know a few who have. So it's possible to make that much money just working a job, and without really being in management. That being said I've met some scum of the Earth making well into 7 figures in finance as well. Definitely the sort of people you don't want to know, and in general I'd agree that if you are making that m…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 09:20 PM
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I can see where you are coming from with really young guys (less than 22), but after that I don't think the majority are really chasing after those kinds of girls. Sure they may be looking for a casual fling with them, but that's only for recreational activities lol. I think you're getting into an echo chamber here
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 03:23 PM
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Well... yeah I guess so. That phrase just always struck me as very disingenuous I suppose. So not true but not gaslighting either 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 03:21 AM
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I mean, it isn't true right? Surely there exists at least some men who won't ever have a partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 03:16 AM
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Is it not gaslighting?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 03:14 AM
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Sign me up for the third world plz 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 10:36 PM
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If he felt he had no other options, he might stick around that long just hoping to have sex (even if he was lukewarm at best about her as a person)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 01:36 AM
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Only the desperate ones would go through all that work just for sex. That should be pretty effective, you just gotta be firm and consistent on it tho, otherwise some guys might just view it as a challenge
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 01:24 AM
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Everyone thinks their own voice sounds way worse than it really does. I'm sure you just sounded sick, and everyone understood
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 01:21 AM
3

Yay!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 10:58 PM
1

What do you vape?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 09:53 PM
2

I was laughing at myself for misreading what you wrote so badly 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 09:33 PM
2

I misread that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 09:30 PM
2

I misread that 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 09:29 PM
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He meant girls outperforming guys academically , hence 'beating the boys'
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 09:26 PM
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Lol I'm sure they're still gonna swoop.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 09:19 PM
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Um... I believe she was asking for a husband? Has something changed with you lately lol?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 09:15 PM
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Maybe in a Church? Kissless on top of being a virgin is gonna be rare, I wish you luck with that. What's wrong with dating a normal low n count woman? There should be plenty of those around your age
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 09:10 PM
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Congrats!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 08:57 PM
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Assuming you're all caught up on HW/studying, why not just watch em?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 01:17 AM
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Marriage absolutely benefits any kids though (even leaving the question of if women benefit or not to one side -- personally I think they do) But if you are not looking to have kids, then marriage seems a little overkill. Just stay long term BF/GF
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 01:16 AM
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That instinct bite me in the ass sooo many times when I was young lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 10:49 PM
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=(
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 06:25 PM
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Absolutely this. No greater comfort food has yet been discovered by man 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 04:11 PM
1

Not that's a truly terrible idea! Don't date drug dealers!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 12:16 PM
1

Why are you spiritually British?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 12:13 PM
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Thank you for your candor. Dating as a guy is certainly the harder proposition, but it can be pretty good in its own way once you figure out where your dating niche is so to speak
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 01:13 AM
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This is just based on what you've seen in 4chan though? It's not based on IRL experience right?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 01:10 AM
1

Wait, what? That's gotta be super rare. That's so messed up it has to be rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 01:03 AM
1

Isn't 100 bodies like the typical week for Chad?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 03:25 AM
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Quite a few big tech companies will pay 500k+ for senior engineers (Amazon was paying 400k ish to SDE2s in 2021 lol), and you can hit senior with 5 or 6 years experience. Assuming you started working at 22, you could totally be in that range by late 20s
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 03:22 AM
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Never trust the French /s (don't brigade me lol, been reading some British history books and their love of the French is just hilarious)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 03:19 AM
1

To be able to retire and never work again is the greatest blessing of all
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 03:15 AM
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Or those guys are currently located in a suboptimal dating market (ie, changing their location could make a world of difference)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 11:06 PM
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Amen
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 07:08 PM
1

What are you eating rn?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 07:07 PM
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Because the word has evolved from its original meaning. Today, it means many things besides its original definition. Language is not static (like you are treating it), but dynamic (because it is human, not a machine language)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 04:34 PM
1

What's wrong with preferring Asian women? (and Asian women are not submissive lol, odd stereotype which is completely divorced from reality)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 06:50 AM
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What's wrong with saying Western women?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 05:43 AM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 06:56 AM
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Neither do I, I wish they'd standardize on saying savings time already
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 04:46 AM
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An 8 for me, but she is definitely hot
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 01:59 AM
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The enbetafication of today's youth -- the act of raising young men to become betas
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 12:15 AM
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Ma'am, I'm not sure how to deliver this news to you, but you are...well... also a Kid 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 11:46 PM
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No need, live a little more first
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 11:20 PM
2

2/4!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 07:32 PM
2

Yeah it creeps me out! Guess I am old
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 05:33 AM
1

Is it because you believe that would be too good, and you're used to good things always ending?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 03:50 AM
2

What if they just liked giving gifts? Or they wanted to be generous?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 03:45 AM
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That's just the experience of a single lady
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 03:41 AM
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I don't think so? It's a big city, it has something of everything, so throwing all that together should give you a decent idea of average
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 03:39 AM
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Albert Einstein had hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 03:23 AM
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Average plain women get plenty of attention around where I live lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 03:18 AM
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Failure is human, it is how everybody learns. It isn't anything to be sad over. Reflect back on what went well trying to reach your goal, and what didn't, then take your lessons and move into the next goal without loss of enthusiasm. Now that's how you get really good 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 03:16 AM
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They usually do lol, at least in big cities?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 03:00 AM
2

=( Sorry to hear it went that badly for you!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 02:36 AM
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Would you happen to know where to find BPD women? Asking for a friend of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 01:45 AM
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Sounds like some old school Rockefeller thinking lol. I don't know any old money people so I wouldn't know, but if you've already got the money thing covered, why worry about her money? Seems reasonable to me
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 12:37 AM
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She is hot, so she has that already. So she's half way there, and has the immutable but (the looks) already. But assuming she is immune to change? Then yeah you're right
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 12:34 AM
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If she is cool with a nonhot guy, she can just wander into Google's HQ and wander out with a boyfriend making more than 250k lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 12:31 AM
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Well, her personality seems a little less than ideal, but it's a short clip so who knows. But if she had a good personality? They'd 💯 go for her hahha
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 12:25 AM
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Wha? Women are human, they are entitled to any standards they wish to have as individuals
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 12:22 AM
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Shit if I was an old money dude I would give exactly 0 shits about her socioeconomic status hahaha. I'd just make sure I had a solid prenup and all that for asset protection
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 12:20 AM
1

I don't think you're gonna be on the struggle bus forever 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 12:17 AM
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I'd be very happy with a hot, nice Starbucks barista lol. I do pretty well, so why do I need someone else of the same socioeconomic status? I truly don't care what her status is.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 12:14 AM
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Most of the women I know aren't terrible and dysfunctional?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 12:08 AM
1

I'll give it a read when I get a chance, thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 12:07 AM
1

Pretty sure it is. What's your view for how it works?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 12:06 AM
2

For a woman? Nah, if she's pretty and has a good personality that's really all she needs
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 11:22 PM
1

Same
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 10:35 PM
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Good for her! Lol, I don't mind at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 04:20 PM
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F that. If I can't express everything openly with her (with the knowledge she'd be supportive) then I don't want her at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 04:06 PM
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You'd use the database!?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 03:57 PM
2

Good morning 🙂🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 03:57 PM
3

It is definitely this lol. I'm a leftist and I despise the Democratic party, I vote Green every time
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 03:55 PM
2

Time to load up on dark leafy greens, beans, fish and iron supplements!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 03:53 PM
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Well, tbh being a shitty person does work sometimes if you know what I mean, especially in America. They're likely looking at it from that angle
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 03:51 PM
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Siiiiiiiimp
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 06:23 AM
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Sweeeeeet!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 04:23 AM
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What have you done!?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 04:04 AM
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Even if your arms collapsed, all you'd end up with is a bump on your head 🙂 Having your friend spot you is a good idea though!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 03:58 AM
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Daaaamn how many women are you planning to bang???
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 03:26 AM
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What about being upside down scares you? Also, could you try something like exposure therapy? Start by being upside down for 2 seconds, then 10, 20, 40, and finally a full minute. The more often you do it it should become easier
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 03:24 AM
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What about the handstand scares you?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 01:31 AM
5

4, and nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 05:11 PM
2

1000+ Nope, no I'm good. I must have really misread that girl
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 04:43 PM
2

Good morning 😎 (only cause of the or, work uniforms have to suck)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 03:19 PM
2

I don't hang out with cheaters either, so I totally agree with her!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 02:54 PM
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Older women only good sir /s
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 05:40 AM
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I love being an introvert lol, being an extrovert sounds exhausting 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 05:25 AM
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All? Course not. I have met a few especially delusional fatties who thought they were destined to marry Hollywood celebrities tho hahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 03:45 AM
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Sorry I couldn't cook yesterday, so I had taco bell
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 03:40 AM
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Congrats!!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 03:38 AM
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Go to Malaysia or the Philippines. Problem solved. English is widely spoken in both countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 03:27 AM
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Lol, modern American English ChatGPT. Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 03:25 AM
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Yes, yes she is lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 01:24 AM
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Haven't missed a week in years
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 12:59 AM
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That's fair, Poland is a bit different than Germany dating wise for example. Still plenty of similarities tho
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 10:59 PM
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There's still quite a bit of overlap in the dating sphere too. They're not identical, but I've dated throughout Western Europe and they're not so different from each other that they feel like different worlds or anything like that
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 10:21 PM
1

Hell yeah! I finally get a good morning 🥳
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 10:17 PM
1

Patriarchy is not everywhere lol, it's only present in some parts of the world (like Africa for example)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 10:09 PM
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The West broadly shares many similarities, I'm not sure why that makes you tired lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 10:08 PM
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SEAmaxx.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 09:58 PM
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You sound just fine lol. Not having a hot hot temper is a good thing if anything even, because it helps prevent you from doing something you might later regret.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 05:44 AM
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Most passport bros also don't bring the woman back to America, he stays in her country.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 04:48 AM
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I've seen big old jars of almond butter at Costco, it's a thing
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 03:41 AM
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I thought she meant crunchy peanut butter😅
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 03:39 AM
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Dang, 0/4. Guess it's a bad evening for me lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 03:36 AM
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What about this: allow unrestricted female immigration in the 18-30 age range. The women can choose to move to the US (so nobody's rights are harmed), and if enough do so you would flood the 'market' with supply. That likely sounded more dehumanizing than I meant, but it's just a classic idea out of economics. Might restore more equilibrium between the sexes? Just an idea I lifted off an earlier PPD comment some time ago
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 03:35 AM
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there was a UN envoy who visited the US and commented that he had never seen poverty in a developed country like he did in America. Americans have been downwardly mobile since 1979. It's not the 'land of opportunities' it once was. Heck, upward mobility is much higher in Western Europe and Canada than America. If it is hope you are looking for, there are many better countries than America to find it in.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 02:08 AM
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What's so special about Western society lol? Looks at the rates of depression, anxiety, and general unhappiness in America for example. The stats paint a picture of a deeply sick society -- so remind me again whats the upside of staying there unless you have to? Seems to me the smart play is making money in the West when you are young, and when 30+ and established in your career to move on out of the US to someplace that will make you happier
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 02:02 AM
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Seems like the smart thing to do lol. He is getting the success he wants, what's so special about Western women that he should turn down the success he is now having?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 01:52 AM
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That's a little unfair to guys, plenty of dudes have a solid concept of love which includes more than just physical attraction
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 01:48 AM
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Dude is cleaning up, seems very successful to me lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 01:40 AM
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Hell yeah 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 11:55 PM
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If they're an older virgin, then yeah it's a RIP haha. Older inexperienced women are rarer than Bigfoot!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 05:29 PM
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RIP older virgins..... Or rather SEAmaxx beckons 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 05:17 PM
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Nope
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 04:33 PM
1

Could you get a position in a somewhat close country, like Japan or Australia instead?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 06:12 AM
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Can you do a similar job from the Philippines?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 05:58 AM
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Congrats man!!!! Living the life 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 05:45 AM
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Lol sorry kiddo, gotta agree with them too. She's not quite the best looking woman ever 😅 Beauty is quite subjective tho! This isn't some objective statement or anything like that
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 05:41 AM
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She's not ugly, but not exactly the best looking is the perfect way to phrase it haha
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 05:40 AM
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Can you complete those projects remotely.... from a different country, perhaps? 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 05:03 AM
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Wait, you're being serious? You DON'T like dogs!? I thought you were surely speaking in jest!!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 02:39 AM
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But... How lol? Did you really look that much different between 19 and 21?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 02:22 AM
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He's not wrong to be fair, it's very likely they would be just as disinterested or cold. This is in the context of a bar remember.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 02:21 AM
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Go to a bar in Davao (in the Philippines). It's gonna be a small difference 😎 Also why are you going to bars anyway hahaha, they're like concentrators of toxic women
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 02:17 AM
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Aren't you like in your 20s? I don't think t20s can be described as ancient haha. Wait until your 30s arrive! Now that is truly ancient
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 02:15 AM
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Profitsssssssss Also distribution, marketing, and using stronger and higher grade plastics (and usually other materials too) that are able to not break when your phone slaps the concrete (and to help distribute the forces when your phone dies make close contact with the concrete). Play tooling costs and manufacturing costs.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 02:10 AM
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Approximately 4 nanoseconda after turning 30 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 02:07 AM
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I definitely agree, leave should be allowed to naturally break down and release their nutrients back in the soil. That being said, you haven't seen the sheer mountains of leaves that are produced in fall in Wisconsin lol. If you don't rake, your backyard and frontyard is gonna look like shit for a looong time haha
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 02:05 AM
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If nothing else you can figure out if Hong Kong would help you or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 02:01 AM
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Eat lunch outside 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 01:58 AM
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Ma'am, as someone with lots of family in Wisconsin, let me assure you that raking leaves is 💯 a real thing 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 01:58 AM
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They used to rave about Hong Kong, now they just bitch about it haha. Evidently the girls have raised their prices. They're talking now about whatever the one across the street is and Chicago. You could just get a lap dance there though? From what I understand it's an open bar-like place, and you can get drinks, dances, or up stairs course. Though getting a escort in the States seems like the correct move to me tbh, I only pointed out Tijuana in case cost or legal concerns were holding you back.…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 01:54 AM
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No worries, just wanted to give you options.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 01:45 AM
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Are you in the US? If you are, if you live on the West Coast there's always Tijuana and if you live on the East Coast you can fly to Medellin in Colombia. Prostitution is legal in both countries so no possible legal risks. Idk too much, but I know some guys who enjoy that sort of thing. If you're interested I could get more information.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 01:34 AM
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I've known a few lol. They were never single 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 01:24 AM
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Has he learned effective social skills? If he has he should do fine, if not then he likely struggles
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 01:23 AM
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Never gonna happen in America at least lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 01:17 AM
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Hell yeah. I'd 💯 be gay instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 04:24 PM
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The real issue is that the wealthy pay a much lower tax rate than average income earners, and many profitable companies pay no taxes at all. Fairly tax those two, and issues like this can be addressed (and then some)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 02:53 AM
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Nothing a good diet and exercise cannot fix
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 01:58 AM
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I have never heard of a guy doing that lol, I wouldn't get overly concerned. I am sure it happens, but it's pretty rare I'd bet
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 01:58 AM
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According to mainstream economists the gap is explained by women either working less or stopping work entirely when having kids. If you control for men and women who do not have kids then there is no gap at all even. I have yet to see a convincing study show sexism is the cause of the gap though. Do you have sources?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 10:59 PM
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Yes, the billionaires,
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 10:55 PM
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I agree with them as well honestly. Best to move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 04:14 AM
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One woman is plenty for me 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 04:00 AM
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You like what you like lol, don't listen to others 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 03:45 AM
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Try some beetroot juice an hour before you need to practice your handspring. Beetroot juice always gives me an energy boost, especially for physical training
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 03:26 AM
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Actually I want the filtering option for dating overseas. Only a minority of women are overweight in most foreign countries, so it is a very reasonable standard to only consider healthy BMI women there.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 03:05 AM
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We would prefer an automated way of filtering out women we would not be interested in? For the efficiency good sir.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 02:27 AM
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You're too young 😅 I wouldn't recommend it haha
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 09:29 PM
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I'd say on the 3rd or 4th date, that way they have some investment in you and the relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 09:27 PM
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Well f those people! Jeez. You're like gigadepressed ☹️
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 08:27 PM
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I am sorry to hear you're in such a black place, not sure there is anything I could say if you don't believe in the power of your own actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 07:14 PM
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So you don't believe your actions have the power to change your situation?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 07:06 PM
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... That's such a defeatist take yo
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 06:52 PM
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Financial independence retire early (FIRE) and live overseas (expat)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 05:59 PM
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If possible, try and take a 15 minute nap every 2 hours. That made me feel moderately more human when I was pulling inhumane hours like that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 05:55 PM
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It's really not. You can live very comfortably on 2k a month in the Philippines for example -- the hard part is securing remote employment to allow you to stay there. If you can't, then your only other option is ExpatFIRE which is absolutely expensive AF haha
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 05:40 PM
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Oh! Umm.... I can't think of any actually 😅 Dunno if that is a bad thing (not self aware enough?) or a good thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 05:39 PM
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I don't think I am a degenerate 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 05:36 PM
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Personally I'm more of a one girl guy, but if you wanted a main with multiple side women you definitely could achieve that in a few countries abroad lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 05:34 PM
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Of course. Like I said, most of that was overseas lol. Dating (and casual) is just a metric ton easier abroad than it is in America. I'm moving to the Philippines in January too 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 05:27 PM
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It actually works 😎. I'm not a Chad unfortunately, just an average somewhat nerdy white dude
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 05:04 PM
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The trips I take are usually 2 to 3 months long, so it's long enough to meet people in person, or match on the apps and meet at coffee shops or something near the hotel.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 04:52 PM
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Why would men make such a virus? Makes no sense. Certain fringe extremist parts of the feminist movement I could totally see being on board with an anti male virus.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 04:41 PM
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Could you pack some protein bars in your backpack instead?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 04:20 PM
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Making mistakes is human, it's how all of us learn. The important thing is learning from those mistakes and bouncing back. You got this 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 04:04 PM
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But.... Having friends IS normal?? Right? Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 04:00 PM
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I'm not quite a digital nomad, but I have had many, many overseas work trips over the years. I smashed there lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 03:54 PM
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It's not a thing lol, the vast majority of people shower. Those who don't you can't help regardless haha
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 03:19 PM
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100 or so? Not sure. I'm not really the casual sex kind of guy, but I've had some over the years lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 03:11 PM
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Getting a GF isn't better than suicide? There's other countries besides the Philippines too.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 03:09 PM
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Where in the Philippines did you go? Which dating sites were you on? Did you try approaching in person?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 02:54 PM
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Move to the Philippines (if not possible permanently, stay for a month or two or as long as you can) You'll get a GF and see how it is, then you can see where to take your life with that experience available to you. If you really want to stay in the Philippines the easy option is to teach English online. Good luck!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 02:44 PM
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I could have gone with having a father growing up, but that wasn't for me to decide. Gotta play the cards you have as well as you can, that's really all you can do. Comparing the cards you have to others' cards really won't get you anywhere though
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 04:40 AM
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It's not the only way good sir. Besides, being single is MUCH better than being a betabuxx.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 04:30 AM
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So don't become one -- it's not something that can be forced on you. You have a say in it. If you see your relationship has developed into that dynamic, then talk away from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 04:25 AM
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I don't hate that women have freedom? Don't think most men are like that either.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 03:47 AM
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That's not a good sign lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 03:36 AM
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That sounds creepy AF not gonna lie hahahah. Nope that would be the massive downside you overlooked for someone you were really taken by!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 03:23 AM
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Except for that of course 😎 That's a super high bar tho
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 03:16 AM
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I'll pass, sorry. If that relationship went south, then I'd be left with a permanent, incurable problem to explain to every potential future partner. That just doesn't seem worth it to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 03:09 AM
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Hahaha that does sound like her!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 01:45 AM
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Glad to hear the physics is going well!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 12:18 AM
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I've...lost count 😅 In the US though I've never pulled from Tinder, maybe 5 or 6 from Bumble.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 12:15 AM
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Can I ask where you are meeting these old, homeless men?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 12:10 AM
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Nothing better than a good nap 😌
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 07:25 PM
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If you went abroad that'd happen lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 05:33 PM
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Certainly makes life a lot easier, one of the big things (finding a partner) is quite a bit easier if you have your head on your shoulders.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 05:03 PM
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Good sex, likely not. Gotta qualify your original statement though -- you just said sex good sir. Sex is something any woman can get at a drop of a hat, as we all know
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 04:33 PM
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How is the sex part debatable!? That's just a fact lol. Take a random woman, have her walk into a crowd of guys, and have her ask if anyone wants to have sex with her. She will get takers. Try the same with a guy with a crowd of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 04:19 PM
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Good luck on the front! I'm going to Argentina in the event of WWII 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 03:09 AM
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It's easy to diagnose yourself with anything, but more often than not it's not an accurate diagnosis 😅 Best to have someone knowledgeable take a look at it, they'll let you know how to handle it. In the meantime I'm sure your eye won't fall off tonight, so you should get some sleep 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 03:05 AM
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Sure thing 🙂 Best of luck with your studies!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 02:28 AM
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You don't need to be perfectly flat either, that's a little extreme
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 01:08 AM
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Don't burn yourself out on physics either:) I found it really helpful to take studying in chunks. I'd study for 45 minutes (or however long I felt I could maintain peak mental clarity on the topic), then take a 15 min break when I noticed I was fading mentally. During that 15 minutes I let myself do anything I wanted as a reward for the good work, then went back to studying after that. I'd do 2 or 3 sessions like that, then take an hour break. Eventually I found I could make the time I spent stu…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 12:47 AM
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Yes, women are much more picky than men are. There's a wealth of evidence for that in scientific literature. What I was getting at is OLD is the worst case for a guy, so generalizing the worst case onto every other case felt intellectually dishonest to me. I wasn't trying to imply that in person is balanced, only that it is representative of the actual dynamics between men and women (not withstanding cities with lopsided male/female ratios)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 05:47 PM
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That would be true if there were a roughly equal number of guys and girls, but that's just not the case. The massive mismatch between the numbers of guys and girls means the girls present can be overly picky
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 05:20 PM
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There's just way too many guys on any OLD app -- that hypothetical guy would do a lot better in real life as opposed to the apps. That's why they're not very accurate representations of their potential SMV
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 05:19 PM
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Tinder isn't representative of the dating market as a whole, that's really not a fair experiment anyways. OLD in general is just a sausage fest.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 05:14 PM
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Would you even want to date a woman like that? I know I wouldn't want anything to do with her
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 05:13 PM
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You and every Latina 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 06:14 AM
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Yup, same schedule as always
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 05:13 AM
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It was absolutely the right move
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 05:05 AM
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Lordy those are some very uncharitable assumptions!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 06:14 PM
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Having a degree doesn't necessarily mean you are well read and educated, and not having one isn't to say you cannot be educated and well read. It really doesn't mean too much these days I think. I do have a degree, but I honestly don't care if my partner does or not. I am more interested in if they are genuinely curious and knowledgeable, not if they have a degree
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 06:12 PM
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A. Who cares about a university degree anyway? The college wage premium is just about gone these days, why care about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 06:02 PM
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Well that escalated quickly lol. But of a harsh take, don't you think?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 06:00 PM
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There are women like that in America (I've dated some even), but for me Filipinas just make much better partners. They are not perfect, and you definitely need to keep your eyes open for scams, but the overall quality of women in the Philippines (on average) is just way higher than America.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 05:12 PM
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It's likely to be able to sterilize and clean itself
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 04:08 PM
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Glad to hear it hasn't gotten quite that bad in the UK 🙂 To be fair I've never had a woman ask me to pay for her Uber on a first date in America tho, that might just be some small subset of extra toxic women lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 02:40 AM
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I've dated in both America and Western Europe, and I'd definitely agree American women are much more entitled than Western European women generally (British women reminded me a lot of American women tho)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 02:28 AM
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I've been there, what, six times now? Around 2-3 months per trip, so I've spent quite a bit of time there already. Definitely excited to be moving there though!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 02:23 AM
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Yes, things are that bad (at least in my experience). I'm moving to the Philippines in January 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 01:31 AM
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I'd do the same for my brother if he were in that boat. It's not about asking the women to do everything, it's about being a supportive sibling
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 10:59 PM
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Well, if he got as bad as some of the guys here, he could really use your help then to pull him out of that rut right? If nothing else you could always throw him on a plane to the Philippines, if he is white he'll do just fine lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 10:38 PM
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Absolutely
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 10:35 PM
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You'd disown your brothers just because they couldn't get laid?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 10:33 PM
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Marcus Aurelius, dude was a legit Philisopher-King and ruled the empire with great skill. Complete dog shit at picking an heir though!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 09:28 PM
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C. I love being treated exceptionally well 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 09:25 PM
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Why shouldn't women be allowed to provide sexual services for payment? As long as they are not coerced, why should the woman be barred from offering that?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 03:21 AM
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Such as? Assuming the women are not coerced, what's the issue?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 03:16 AM
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For me it depends on the woman -- if she is a traditional woman, I'm happy to pay. If she isn't, it's a split. If she has a problem with the split and she isn't traditional, then she's dropped. Easy. 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 09:39 PM
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Personally I've never found thicc attractive, and I always preferred really thin, but that's just me
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 06:16 PM
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Or move overseas lol. In the Philippines my success rate is orders of magnitudes higher than America 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:03 AM
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? Discord hasn't been weird in my experience (I've not been on the ppd discord tho). Which servers were you in lol?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 12:56 AM
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As long as that makes you happy, have fun!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 11:59 PM
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Disney's many epic failures (see destruction of Star Wars, an iconic brand, as case in point) is because of incompetent management leading Disney, not because of millennials haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 11:54 PM
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Uhhh ... The great powers have nuclear weapons this time around, and China and Russia have large, pretty sophisticated biological weapons programs on top of that. This wouldn't 'just' be a conventional war if it occurred. Dating would be the last thing on anyone's mind!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 11:51 PM
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😅 Yikes!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 08:59 PM
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Lol, I didn't mean that I'd run away if we hadn't had sex within a month, only that it is uncommon for that to occur. Realistically I'd have to be really into her to wait though, otherwise I'd bounce to the next 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 08:57 PM
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In my experience yes
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 08:49 PM
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You could get yourself ahead of schedule as well, thereby making future days more relaxed and less hectic 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 08:22 PM
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I don't hate sex workers? I wouldn't want to date one, but that doesn't mean I hate them lol. They're just people like everyone else, and should be treated with respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 04:55 AM
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Likely just genetics
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 03:39 AM
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Congrats!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 03:39 AM
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Ohhh my bad
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 05:34 PM
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Tons of them in crossfit or at gyms.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 05:24 PM
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Personally I was given Harvard-level beta buxx training lol, it took some time to unlearn that 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 05:32 AM
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I thought all the women where chading the curly haired chads?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 05:11 AM
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What!?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 01:40 AM
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Duuuuuude why not give the carousel another go?????? I’m sure you fiancé would prefer you not shorten you life????????
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 01:24 AM
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Duuuuuude why don’t you seek treatment for the bipolar!!!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 01:12 AM
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I don’t understand, why is your life worthless to you? Also, why get married if you don’t want to live long term?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 01:00 AM
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Are you in the US, and have you ever left the country?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 12:02 AM
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Hold up. How is watching porn cheating??
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 11:47 PM
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💯 this.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 11:40 PM
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Gonna want to toughen up on the sob stories, some of those women are very convincing in their stories. As a rule of thumb, if she brings up a sob story in the first month, run!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 11:36 PM
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Don’t pick the trannies lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 11:34 PM
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Idk as you hate men (you come across more… ambivalent towards men if anything) but daaaaang do you have victim complex people hahha. Me reading half your posts:
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 11:33 PM
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I will grant that Peruvian faces could be prettier, but they’re generally nice people (without being pushovers), and I felt the locals were way less opportunistic than Colombians. For curvy looks it is hard to beat Brazil though lol. Personally I prefer thin types, so Southeast Asia is aweeesome for me, but for curvy South America ia absolutely better
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 11:28 PM
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If smaller cities are cool with you then have fun man 😁 Spanish is a must, but its not too hard to learn either. Biggest thing to look for red flag wise is opportunism — is she wish you cause she think she can extract resources from you? That’s definitely a thing there. Also, don’t fall for the usual sob stories, I’m sure you know those are scams (and run away from that chick as fast as possible).
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 11:25 PM
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Have you considered Southeast Asia? Even Laos and Cambodia felt a TON safer than Colombia lol. There’s also Peru (I loved it!), Argentina, Ecuador and Brazil too man lol. Its not your only two choice are Colombia or Venezuela
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 11:18 PM
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Your life? I know a few Venezuelans (met them in Bogota), and they have family back in Venezuela. Its a nightmare right now lol. You might survive a trip there, assuming you had a trustworthy guide and some protection, but living? No way.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 11:09 PM
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Colombia is dangerous af, and you gotta worry about getting drugged by the ladies there. Also, unless you are very extroverted and macho you’re not going to have the success there you would imagine. Its not a easy place to date really, but if you insist absolutely avoid Cali, Medellin or Bogota. You’d want to look in the smaller cities, but be sure to do your research on safety beforehand. Make local friends, and date via social circle. That’d be about your best chance, and it’s unlikely you’ll …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 11:05 PM
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Why don’t you care about your long term health?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 10:57 PM
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Saying ‘No’ doesn’t make you an asshole 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 10:53 PM
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Those heartless chad hoarders, think of other women! Chad harems must become the law of the land!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 10:45 PM
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I also received that same implicit message when I was growing up, but never felt inspired to write the essay required to justify that either haha. Glad I’m not alone!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 10:36 PM
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When I googled the term, it described fatphobia as a irrational fear. But what you just discribed is a rational fear — your fear of becoming fat protects you from the very real, very well researched harms of being fat. Its rational, and helps protect you. So: still not feeling like a appropriate term?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 08:29 PM
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Fatphobe is such a weird term. Nobody is afraid of fat women haha, it’s just the vast majority of men are not attracted to overweight and especially obese women. Yet somehow that’s interpreted as the men being afraid of the extra plus sized women? Makes no sense to me haha
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 06:32 PM
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You’re gonna be just fine 🙂 I’ve seen tooons of hot af women in their 30s, it’s definitely doable. Also guys aren’t gonna run away from you just cause you are 30 lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 05:40 PM
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Lol you are insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 05:10 PM
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What else could she have done? Wear a shirt with “IN A RELATIONSHIP” in backlit letters?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 05:04 PM
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Probably yeah lol, but who knows right. There might be a few attractive ones there for some strange reason
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 05:00 PM
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I suspect she’s not quite as conventionally attractive as she believes herself to be 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 04:56 PM
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Hunter gatherers lived much longer than 30-40, assuming you survived past 25 or so. The reason the 30-40 figure is around is because many children died very young, and because many young men died in warfare or hunting. Those deaths at a young age pull down the average, hence that figure. But if one of those didn’t get you, you had a strong chance of living into your 70s or so
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 04:49 PM
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Can you be more specific?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 04:32 PM
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What’s eating at you? Why want the off ramp?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 03:57 PM
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Oh damn, acting like a considerate human being. Rookie mistake, don’t worry there’s more fish in the sea /s lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 03:51 PM
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I’ll pass 🙂 I’d rather not have my SO involved in things like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 10:30 PM
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Not sure what you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 05:58 PM
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Well, I’m moving to the Philippines in January, so getting in a relationship in the States seems a little funny at this point 🙂 Other guys here appear to be in the self improvement stage, so for them going for their current SMV would also be a rather odd choice. There’s a littlr more diversity in this sub than you’re implying I believe
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 05:52 PM
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🤦‍♂️ I guessed 24. Some people truly never learn lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 05:40 AM
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You’re really on a bender today aren’t you lol?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 04:50 AM
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This lol!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 02:49 AM
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🤣 This… is a embarrassingly accurate description of me during the pandemic lockdowns!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 02:46 AM
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You don’t get it man its different this time!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 02:42 AM
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Western, most I met were in France/Italy/Spain/Portugal
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 02:14 AM
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I’ve met some American women in Europe who moved there for dating lol, so it happens
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 02:08 AM
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Okay, then I agree with what you’re saying. You were really giving off some ‘women are special snowflakes who would never hurt anyone’ vibes there lol, and… yeah that isn’t true.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 11:08 PM
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They are. From the research I have seen though, they are significantly less verbally abusive than women. Words can still be a manifestation of an aggressive intention. My point (backed up by research) is that women are as aggressive as men, they simply express that agression in a different way (usually verbally) than men do (more often physically)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 09:34 PM
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Link to studies?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 09:01 PM
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What’s going to change in 10 years?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 09:00 PM
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Men tend to be more physically violent, but women are more socially violent than men (ie, verbally abusive). Link: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/digital-world-real-world/202302/research-casts-doubt-on-male-centred-theories-of-aggression?amp I doubt women are less violent than women, they just express that agression in a different way.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 08:56 PM
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If you handled it the way he said, then that’s really on her at that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 08:51 PM
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That is true, but you aren’t reaching anyone just berating them either. You’re just yelling into the wind. They need some way of feeling they can make postive progress, not endless recriminations about how they’re not living up to their personal responsibilities. Admittedly I don’t know how to do that over a subreddit (ie, just text messages), but what I have seen work irl is someone taking them under their wing, then showing them how to become self reliant (but not in a grim way, like you must …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 08:45 PM
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Tons of guys want a LTR, just gotta find places to meet guys who are interested in that
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 11:58 PM
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Yeah that’s all fair lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 11:25 PM
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Oh! Well… yeah, especially if it’s one of the first times you’ve been with a new attractive lady, that’s a fair point. Still fun tho man! Not sure why you’d be traumatized 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 11:12 PM
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Well… yeah thats fair lol. You can pick up on virgins, and super experienced people are kinda obvious too just cause they’re so smooth. Depends on the guy though, if you just come acroos as a normal guy you might be able to ‘hide’ your stratospheric body count? Idk I’ve never tried to concel mine haha
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 11:10 PM
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Pretty much all of them told me they just got tired of casual stuff, and really wanted something substantial. Their wives seem really happy (as do they), so I’d imagine they’re not spinning BS lol. I’m sure some of them may not be trustworthy, but it seems a bit much to just write off all man whores. Everyone’s different after all
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 11:04 PM
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Explain lol. I’ve hooked up with some attractive women before, and it was awesome!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 10:59 PM
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For guys? Nahh I’ve met plenty of older former man whores (35+) who have been happily married for years
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 10:57 PM
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As I guy, I can only recall being asked my N count once by a woman. It just doesn’t come up that often
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 10:55 PM
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Men refusing to settle? Why do you say that? What are these men you have in mind holding out for?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 10:47 PM
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Having an emotionally healthy, fun, attractive to me girlfriend/LTR
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 05:09 PM
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Daaaaamn 😍
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 04:32 PM
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I usually hide those qualities early on in dating (first month or so) Honestly, I’ve just found more success that way. Showing those qualities early on seems to turn off more women than not is my experience lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 04:31 PM
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Lol yeah, but the legit, living and breathing Tom Cruise = chad, not Tom’s cut out 🙂 I got the sense you were about the unsub due to sheer frustration, but we’re not all jaded here though! Way I see it alot of these guys just have alot of pain and hurt in their hearts, and they’re confused on how to improve things in their lives (or even if it is possible). It can be frustrating dealing with guys like that, but ultimately if you can help a few guys I’d like to think it’s worth the frustration!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 06:56 AM
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I’d agree with that — and to be fair, my personal definition of a chad is one of this annoying socially perfect guys who can charm the socks off anyone 😇 They’re fun to talk to though haha!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 06:44 AM
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That’s a great reason to engage in this sub, there’s plenty of… rather jaded guys in here. Most don’t appear open to outside advise, but I’m sure there are some who are. Best just to see how open a guy is, and if he seems like he cannot be reached, move onto someone who might be able to be reached 🙂 I can understand where those guys are coming from though, that was me when I was young. I grew outta that though (unfortunately I am still not a chad though haha, damn)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 06:34 AM
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I’ve been enjoying your posts on this thread, you come across as very genuine
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 06:18 AM
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https://us.mavi.com/cdn/shop/products/RPL-10728_21476-8876.jpg?v=1677238967&width=1206 Model from a random ad, but gives you the idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 04:45 AM
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Haha you are nuts! Good luck!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 03:22 AM
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… but it’s super dangerous, per your own statement lol. Why is the risk justified??
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 03:18 AM
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Skinny woman are my thing (I’m weird I guess haha). For me she’s a 4.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 03:15 AM
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Are you okay?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 03:12 AM
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Compared to a small city in Alabama them are lol. They’re major cities.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 12:27 AM
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For two introverts absolutely hahah
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 12:05 AM
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That’s pretty rare in America I think, at least as far as the major metros go on the West Coast. I’ve experienced it when dating in the US before in all fairness, but at least in my experience it isn’t the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 12:04 AM
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We’re talking like super metros right? Super = really large, American cities like LA, Seattle, New York, Austin, etc?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 12:00 AM
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Its very attractive to the great majority of men (from what I am seen irl, and for myself too)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 10:27 PM
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What I was getting at is if a woman is struggling with dating, all she really has to do is JDBF and (admittedly) be patient. Sooner or later she’ll meet someone compatible. Most people aren’t compatible with most other people after all, so it makes sense most men wouldn’t accept just any woman
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 04:46 PM
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There’s alot of fat couples around by me lol, I can’t make a general comment on it. From what I know though its mainly the overweight dating eachother
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 04:46 AM
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Every healthy relationship includes sex, but you didn’t need to phrase it like that either! Jeez.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 04:26 AM
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Now that was just mean!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 03:58 AM
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Yeah, your average guy is not holding out for a super model hahah. Or a bangmaid! Please go outside more and take a look at the couples you see out there!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 03:57 AM
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Have you considered moving elsewhere? It’d be easy mode for you outside of your predominantly white area
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 03:54 AM
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The feminists are gonna loooove this one hahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 03:50 AM
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The nagging will cease however! Guaranteed. Or stay single, problem remains solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 03:38 AM
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Or move to a different marketplace… 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 03:35 AM
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You should date an Asexual dude. Problem solved. 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 03:30 AM
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Just sex? What happened to also enjoying spending time with the woman outside of sex? You know, sharing interests and having fun talking?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 03:22 AM
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Yeah… men are not demanding 18 year old sex craving virgins lol. Common now.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 03:18 AM
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Oh, yeah, especially in the South that would make things harder (or at least that is what I have heard, I’ve never been there)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 03:18 AM
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They’re good looking. That IS valuable.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 03:16 AM
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In America? Likely never. Why does that surprise you, seeing as you just straight up insulted the women (saying she is low value)?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 03:14 AM
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… Only virgins are worthy of relationships?? I’m a dude, and even that sounds a bit much to me!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 03:13 AM
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Don’t get outside much do you?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 03:09 AM
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Are you in the US? Which city? That’s just very surprising to hear, around by me… it really is as simple as JDBF. Heck, being fat isn’t even a dealbreaker from the couples I’ve seen walking around lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 03:05 AM
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Journey doesn’t have to end you know 🙂, but I think I see what you’re getting at. Thanks for the perspective 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 04:51 AM
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I’m not trying to be purposefully dense here, I’m just not seeing why even going abroad with the primary intention of finding a partner is tasteless? If a guy feels he has a better shot of finding what he is looking for abroad, and he is honest about his intentions with the women he meets along the way, what’s the problem — and why is that tasteless?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 03:20 AM
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Could one not travel to a country, live there for awhile, meet someone, get married, then fly from that country (left undefined because different guys prefer different countries) to France and see the museums? You can be tasteful and date abroad then? Or is France just so amazing to you that the thought of anyone leaving is unthinkable lol? If so, what about France appeals so strongly to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 02:58 AM
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The French museum?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 02:52 AM
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That’s a fair take, there is a little too much Western women bashing in passport bro circles.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 02:42 AM
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Why is going abroad for romance tasteless to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 02:38 AM
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💯 That was an amazing explanation!!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 09:30 PM
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Take it in chunks. Work for 30 minutes, take 10 minute break, and repeat for a few hours. Them get a snack/lunch/dinner whatever, and do a couple more hours. Then call it a day 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 08:41 PM
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I’m moving to the Philippines in January, but I’ll pass on okcupid. Best way to meet quality Filipinas is via social circle or group activities/hobbies, not online. Online is a wonder concentrator of the scammers, though every so often you’ll find a quality woman there too. Can speak to Indonesia or Kenya though.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 08:38 PM
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Is what it is right? I don’t see things improving any time soon, I’d be my bottom dollar dating continues to get worse. Personally I’m moving to the Philippines so I can get outta this dating market (I have alot of friends there already, and have been there alot of times)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 05:29 PM
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Holy shit, STEM has changed since I was a CS major 😒 We just nerded out and watched anime back then! Sure we weren’t studs but what did you expect of a late teen/early 20s nerdy CS group of guys? Most guys I knew dated fellow nerdy girls, and I tended to date theater majors lol. Sad its gotten that… hostile
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 05:24 PM
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Oh my bad
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 04:54 AM
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Just bizarre when someone else reports something never happens, and those same things occur on the regular around you haha
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 04:36 AM
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Just install a dating app? It’d be super easy for any girl to get laid on a dating app if they wished lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 02:07 AM
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It happens, the world is a big place and its hard to run across everyone lol. Sure, objectively ugly women do struggle a bit more than more attractive women, but them seem to do okay in my experience at least
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 10:40 PM
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It is unlikely that AI will be meaningfully curtailed, because China does not (and will not) curtail their own research. Putting restrictions on domestic research would in effect grant the lead on AI research to China. It’s gonna be a terrifying ride with AI lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 10:31 PM
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You don’t have to stay friends lol. Can just move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 10:18 PM
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Biggest drawback is the condoms have a higher failure rate than pills (they can break, slip off, or burst).
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 10:13 PM
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In America thats a solid 90% of women in my experience lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 10:08 PM
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What pain points are ugly women or plain janes experiencing, in your view?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 10:06 PM
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I’ve seen plenty of… unfortunate looking women in relationships. The guys weren’t exactly studs either, but still relationships were had
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 10:04 PM
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They’re called tech workers haha
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 10:00 PM
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I see my coworkers doing that all the time lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 09:59 PM
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Except for the dating model looking upper class guys (drop the model looks though and I’ve seen that!) I literally see everything you write all the time in my part of the US. Totally normal. Where are you from lol?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 09:58 PM
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Chrrrist, find a way to make money remotely and become a passport bro! Teach English or something man, but forcing yourself to become gay (when you aren’t) is not the answer!!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 04:26 AM
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I was thinking the same, but if standards inflate even more? Maybe the number of men who are viable in her eyes would be so small that her choices would be joining a chad harem, or being single. In the case she chooses being single… well, maybe then some would experiment with AI boyfriends? Just a thought
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 04:21 AM
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Speaking personally? No. I’ve met a couple guys who have a thing for ‘chubsters’ though
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 12:53 AM
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Looks like I just misunderstood you — you’re arguing that patriarchy exists in other countries, but not in America. That’s a fair point. I thought you were arguing for patriarchy existing in America.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 09:46 PM
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I’ll grant there are patriarchal societies outside the West, but America isn’t one of them (reddit is a largely American forum, it is a sensible default context if none is explicitly mentioned)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 07:52 PM
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We were not taught fairy tales in my school at least 🙂 There was some mention of this in history classes, but thats because it occured in the past, not the present
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 07:21 PM
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Then make your argument in favor of patriarchy existing in America. I’m well read and educated, and I see no reason to believe it exists any longer. I’m not close minded though, so if you have a compelling argument, I’ll follow along and change my mind if compelling enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 07:17 PM
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A description of how America looked in the last century, but has been relegated to the dustbin of history in this century. It no longer exists in the America, despite the feminist ranting.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 06:43 PM
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The woman who consistently dates abusive guys or drug addicts is a dealbreaker for me, whereas a single mom is only a red flag for me (I’d need to know the context — how many kids? Are the kids from different fathers? What age are the kid(s)…. Many more questions, you get the point) Again, you’re painting people here with too wide of a brush
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 06:29 PM
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Your loss, you are missing out on some great shows
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 03:23 PM
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Lol, that’s true actually, but suuuuuper risky. I’d personally go slow, and carefully vet potential brides, but thats me 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 06:38 AM
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This is true, but you as a foreigner can always learn to acclimate to them. Over time they’ll become less and less foreign to you. At least I think you are referring to cultural traditions? That being said, a traditional Catholic sort of marriage is pretty homogenous throughout the broader Catholic world (which is what he is interested in). Yes, there are different cultural expectations per country, but they are nothing insurmountable either. Just takes patience and socializing to find someone 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 06:25 AM
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What if women only find 10% of guys attractive, but each woman has a slightly different criteria for what lands a guy in the top 10%?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 06:20 AM
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Maaaaybe try visiting a church in Peru or Ecudor lol. Attend one regularly, get to know people. Or just make local friends in general, and see if anyone knows a good traditional girl wanting a traditional marriage. If the chick is doing a line of coke though and you think SHE’D make a good mother, well, then god help you hahah. Obviously don’t go for those ones! 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 04:54 AM
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Well, yeah, some guys do go for the party girls there. Doesn’t mean you have to lol. Just go for the ones waiting for marriage 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 04:47 AM
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Never go to the Philippines lol, you’ll be scared for life!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 04:44 AM
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You mean to tell me you’ve never seen Cowboy Bebop (the original of course!!) What an uncultured person. Instant dealbreaker! 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 04:43 AM
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If a traditional woman is important to you, I’d honestly suggest looking in more traditional countries overseas. Some parts of South America and South East Asia would be filled with traditional women
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 04:29 AM
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Honestly, go with that lol. See if you get anything back which sounds humanish
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 11:35 PM
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Its a bot man
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 11:34 PM
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Which OLD? Also, no bio is usually a red flag man, could just be a fake account
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 11:31 PM
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America is 2043? Hmm… kinda like Japan on steroids? American dating dynamics seem to track Japan (not 100%, but somewhat close) with a lag. Only difference relative to Japan I can see is some guys in the top 1% maintaining overt harems by that point, but otherwise most women and men would be single, with the men either checked out, moved out (left the country) or engrossed with their AI girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 11:25 PM
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It is also possible to leave the US/West generally. Takes work yes, but it is possible. I am moving to the Philippines in January for example 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 10:07 PM
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I make mid 6 figures and am 6’2, but just averagely endowned in the manhood arena. I don’t have a six pack either, but I have a 4 pack lol. I’m in pretty good shape (crossfit 3x a week), but nothing crazy either. I have an average face too
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 05:41 PM
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I know right. If you have doubts, just get the test and out the question to bed. Why the women here start screeching about that is beyond me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 04:00 PM
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…. Love making people blind IS a common story in real life! Christ hahah
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 03:58 PM
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Lol, what!? Nobody wants the absolute worst women, where are you even coming at this conclusion from? I doubt most people here are on section 8 too hahha
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 03:55 PM
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You can be careful and still be in a situation where asking for a paternity test is the reasonable thing to do lol. Its not like careful people are infallible, they’re human after all
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 03:52 PM
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Love can make you blind. You might have genuinely believed she was trustworthy, but later on you see more and more things that leads to more and more doubt. This is hardly a rare thing either lol, its a very common story So: at the point you had kids with her (or thought you did) you did trust her. Afterwords more and more evidence began to pirce that trust.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 03:51 PM
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If there’s an honest reason for doubt, what is the issue with with getting a definitive answer? Avoids any gnawing doubts.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 03:42 PM
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Or, it shows the guy is careful and systematic. You do have a strong tendency for reading the absolute worst into comments, you do realize this? Then you enjoy overgeneralizing your negative read onto everyone lol. Common now.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 03:41 PM
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That is not an accurate assessment of how life was for hunter gathers most of the time (excepting lean times, which occured from time to time). If that were accurate, humanity wouldn’t have survived
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 03:39 PM
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That is not the same thing lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 03:38 PM
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Yeah, I know. It wouldn’t quite be indistinguishable I wouldn’t think, you’d have to have some level of suspicion of disbelief (kinda like how movies work). I say that cause I don’t think eliminating the ‘hallucination’ issue is truly possible with large language models, but I do think it can be greatly minimized to the point that its not too distributing. As for a totally flawless imitation of a human? Well… climate change is likely gonna get us before thats ready, but I think before then there…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 06:05 AM
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Plenty do work hard, you just ignore them or haven’t met them. They exist though. Also no, guys (especially young guys) are not holding out for a porn star looking girl. Might want to meet more guys!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 05:56 AM
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It may not have a consciousness no, but it would seem like it does. Question is if that would be enough, which, for lonely enough people I suspect it would be
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 05:51 AM
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Reeeealy trying to argue 100% of ppd men believe that comment? Really? What’s your reasoning for that??
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 04:50 AM
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Lol, overgeneralizing aren’t ya?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 04:47 AM
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Yet fat, promiscuous older women all do just fine dating in the real world. They’re not pluses sure, but they also don’t mean its time to become a nun and give up on dating entirely lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 04:43 AM
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Open ended, and listen to the response. See if the person sounds like they are into it, and which parts of their reponse invoke the most emotion, and focus on those if they’re postive (or it feels right to do so)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 04:40 AM
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Omg haha, 100% is some next level jaded-ness!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 04:08 AM
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I’m mainly here because its entertaining, but every so often you come across things that are genuinely helpful. I’m always open to and appreciate helpful advise though, and I’m sure I’m not the only one like that on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 03:21 AM
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80%!? Where on Earth are you meeting men?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 02:58 AM
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Lmao that might get ya a smirk at least! If nothing else, it could give some priceless reactions, which is always valuable in its own right 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 02:56 AM
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I’ve been trying to improve on girl lingo for a little while now actually, but I definitely agree they focus on how their words will affect you emotionally, not in like a fact-based or problem solving way. I’ve been a practicing Buddhist for years though, which actually kinda helps in understanding what they are saying. I used to hide my meditation practice from women in America, mainly cause most seem to regard it as a feminine thing, but in retrospect that may have been a mistake because I ten…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 02:42 AM
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Ohh, okay, that makes sense. You’ve become much more competent, in a general sense of being competent at handling life (in its many facets). Nice man!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 02:17 AM
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Better socialization for boys (not sure how exactly, but they clearly need support building their social skills at a young age and especially in their teenage years), along with a cultural redefinition of what a man is. The old model of the provider is still strong (at least in America), but given present economic realities it is increasingly difficult for a man to substantially exceed his potential partner’s earnings (at least for the median guy). Also I think men providing more effective emoti…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 02:14 AM
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What changed?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 02:08 AM
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There absolutely will be, the question is will women really want to use them?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 01:13 AM
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All it would really have to do is ‘act’ in the right way. It wouldn’t really need to think of novel things to sat say, just regurgitate lovey sounding things (or whatever) at the right time based on how the user responds to what has been said. It hard, yeah, but its not as hard as making something geniuely human level. I’d say a decade or so is reasonable to expect an AI to be read that can do what my first paragraph describes
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 01:12 AM
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That’s a pretty narrow subset, most average guys get into relationships, but when it ends struggle to get another relationship. But with enough time, most do find that next relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 12:56 AM
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In America this is spot on lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 12:24 AM
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13,636?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 10:36 PM
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I think you are blowing this one out of proportion. Nobody really cares if you are a catlady or not. You seem to have a mistaken belief that its some massive, glaring issue to all of humanity that such a thing as catladies exist — the horror! When off the internet, and after touching some grass, you’ll see nobody cares. They have their own problems. You (or any other lady) preferring cats to men isn’t something anyone is giving any attention to whatsoever.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 10:21 PM
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First of all, you are overdramatizing it. Most people do not ridicule or pity cat ladies in real life. If the red pill communities are making you feel badly, just… leave them. Second: you don’t need to care what other think about your lifestyle. You are not harming anyone, and if you are genuinely happy living the single life, then great! Just ignore the naysayers and live life on your own terms. It is your life, after all, and it is far too short to allow others to dictate to you how you want t…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 10:07 PM
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Why whatever do you mean ma’am, men can’t be whores 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 09:11 PM
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Why do you need the permission of others to feel comfortable being a catlady?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 08:48 PM
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Yup!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 08:46 PM
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I once unknowingly went on a date with a sex worker, but thankfully for me she was up front up about it before anything happened sexually. I thanked her for being honest, but yes I rejected her for being a sex worker. Pretty sure that fits into the category you were describing?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 08:43 PM
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Small nit: US average income is skewed up by the extremely large incomes of the top 1%. Its a classic right skew, so the mathematical average is not a valid data point for ‘normal’ income. The median is much better for normal US income, thus if he makes 50k, he is indeed average (ie, normal)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 07:44 PM
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More likely the men would just leave, and join a different society. Most people desire love and companionship, and if in your hypothetical society that is not an option for most men, then why would they stay? I’m not saying women should be treated as a resource, but I am saying your hypothetical society has virtually no chance of surviving as well. If things really got to that point, it would be in the interest of all men and women that some sort of mutually beneficial compromise could be reache…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 07:19 PM
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I think the gymbros look being attractive is more of a cultural thing (in America especially) than a genetic thing. I think your typical Thai boxer look (thin, not gaut looking but with some defined muscle) is the more genetically appealing look, and that sort of body type is widely attractive across many cultures which confirms more of a genetic role in that body type. I’d imagine that is also more in line with how younger men looked in hunter gather societies
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 06:08 PM
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Around 70% of American women have well beyond 18% body fat lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 06:05 PM
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They also has active lifestyles (hunting/gathering/building stuff) and a very healthy diet (in general). The modern world is massively different than the world humans evolved to life in.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 06:01 PM
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💯
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 05:39 PM
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I was responding to a comment making the claim she wasn’t fat. I was disagreeing with that claim, for obvious reasons lol. Its not like I was going up to this girl and saying: ‘hey fatty!!’ — that would be very mean, and totally uncalled for.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 03:38 PM
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20 married couples equates to 20 women, which also isn’t a very large data set. It’s possible I’ve been unlucky, and you lucky with the women we have met though. In my experience most women really aren’t emotionally giving, and honestly are not very emotionally intelligent. They sort of just go with whatever feeling pops up, and seem to not pause (ever really) and try to understand it (or decide if is worth holding onto, or best let go). Seems bizarre to me haha
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 03:42 AM
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I’ve some who genuinely do, but I wouldn’t say its most American women either. They’re fairly rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 03:21 AM
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I’m planning on starting in Davao, then Iloio, then we’ll see haha 🙂 Super excited!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 02:27 AM
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Really all of it honestly— I kinda wrote a small book above lol, but cut it short cause I just kept going. I can speak on the remaining points OP mentioned too, if you’d be willing to hear them (except childcare, I have no kids)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 12:39 AM
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Hmm… its not that they’re unemployed with dirty homes, more that they don’t make much money yet seem to believe they are entitled to a man who does (they are also very frequently poor managers of the money they do have, in that they frequently buy nonessential ‘fun’ things while complaining how broke they are lol). So perhaps on the money front, thry bring little and tend to not manage what little they have well. Its on the emotional support angle that things really tracked very hard for me. I a…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 12:37 AM
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What’s interesting to me is how close to OPs list of the downsides of American males tracked to my list of the downsides of American women. I found it interesting at least, mainly at how closly our lists agreed. All good if that close agreement I observed of my list with (her?) list doesn’t interest you tho. Just got me thinking if Americsn culture in general is producing people which match OPs description
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 12:23 AM
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If you don’t mind my asking, which country are you from?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 12:19 AM
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On which point? Not quite clear what you asking for an example of.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 12:19 AM
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My honest experience dating in America is that few women bring anything to the relationship, other than a vagina. It’s sad, really.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 12:16 AM
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It’s interesting. I have a similar list to the OPs — but it applies to American women. Big reason I’m moving to the Philippines in January actually. I wonder if this is less and American male thing, and more of a American thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 12:15 AM
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I would purchase more stock 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 06:20 PM
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I’m not optimistic about dating in the West in the slightest, it’ll become even worse in my estimation. But seeing as I am moving to the Philippines in January, I’m very optimistic about my future dating prospects!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 06:39 PM
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Wasn’t trying to convince you your life was terrible, but was pointing out you misunderstood just how impactful interest rates are. They affect you. That was my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 05:37 PM
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Saying female sexuality has been erased is… definitely a fringe belief I’d say 😅 Thats a new one to me, and I’d thought I heard just about everything at this point!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 07:55 PM
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As in, the idea that female sexuality has been erased (in America) is waaay out of my experience America. If anything, my experience has been the opposite — that men’s sexuality is looked down upon as ‘gross’, and that men should try to be more like women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 07:54 PM
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I don’t call out people as fat on the regular either to be fair lol, in this case though a comment was making the claim she was not fat — which is not true. She’s definitely fat, anyone with eyes can see that one. As for her being ‘objectively’ cute, I’d say there is no objective way of saying someone is cute. Everyone has their own tastes. For me, I don’t find her cute or attractive, but that’s just me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 07:33 PM
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Maybe she’s had sole trauma in the past, and the walls of distrust are how she deals with that?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 07:27 PM
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… very often? I think you’re in some interesting echo chambers if that isn’t the case? Or maybe I’m just in unusually liberal social circles haha?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 07:26 PM
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I didn’t marry one, but 2 of my buddies did! They’re been married going on 8 years now (they got married right around the same time as eachother). At that time, I wasn’t quite into… long term anything😂 I also converted my then existing Japanese job to work from Asia position, and got my first experiences dating in Southeast Asia. Since then, Southeast Asia has always been my personal favorite, and the Philippines to this day remains my favorite place to date (moving there in January/February, de…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 05:59 AM
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My experience with Japan mainly stems from Tokyo, so I’m not too sure about life outside of the city. I didn’t personally notice the Gaijin treatment applied to me or my friends there, but I’ve definitely heard stories lol. It is true though that there’s always some ‘distance’ (for lack of a better word) between you and the locals, though. Dating was significantly easier than in major metros on the West Coast, at least for me, so that was sweeet 😁. Then again me and my friends were… mostly fluen…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 05:52 AM
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Women in different cultures have different preferences. For example, your average nerdy tech guy actually does surprisingly well in Japan (he has a high income, and is seem as cute and responsible). Japan isn’t exactly poor too! But that same nerdy tech worker usually struggles in the states. The preferences of American women are not globalized in other words 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 05:37 AM
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What if the guy goes to a developed country, or dates a well off (financially independent) woman in the developing world (there are plenty of those too lol, they’re not all living in mud huts!)?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 05:30 AM
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Do you have a job? Interest rates strongly affect business sentiment to invest — high rates discourage investment, and can encourage companies to cut jobs as well. Interest rates affect far more than just that too — they affect almost everything in the economy one way or another. Even if you have your home paid off, interest rates still have a massive impact on you — unless you are totally self sufficient (like farmer in the hills, not FIRE style independent)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 05:26 AM
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Wha? How is female sexuality erased in the West!?!?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 05:22 AM
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What’s wrong with dating women in different countries (=passport bro)?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 05:21 AM
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Just got back from a work trip to the Philippines, seeing couples with a truly massive age gap is as simple as going to the local SM mall 😅 It’s a very common sight
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 05:03 AM
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It’s not all about the looks sure, but looks are certainly one of the biggest factors?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 04:53 AM
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… and 70% of women in America are overweight. So its not surprising most women do in fact look like her, but that doesn’t change this fact either: that’s a bad thing yo!!! Being overweight carries an entire mountain range of health risks and problems. So even leaving to one side anything about attraction, its a💯bad thing for her to be as fat as she is! Also I didn’t tear apart her appearance, I dispassionatly stated a obvious fact: she is fat. This is just reality
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 04:42 AM
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💯
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 04:28 AM
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I question your powers of observation 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 04:00 AM
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She is fat? That’s just an honest observation. Idk as I’d describe her as obese, that’s a bit much, but fat is just the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 03:45 AM
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Obviously women lol — at this point, isn’t that just common knowledge?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 10:34 PM
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Yeah, places like Ukraine or Russia (course, now there are other issues there 😅) I’m just basing that on what I’ve heard from others tho
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 04:47 AM
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Or move to a different country in your 30s 😁 — waaay better than school ever was!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 02:46 AM
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That’s more of an American woman thing (maybe Eastern European too from what I’ve heard). In the rest of the world, being a toxic ass won’t get ya far (from my observations being outside America). American women in general (and there are of course exceptions) do strongly prefer narcissistic assholes though. Never understood why, but to each their own rigjt?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 02:25 AM
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The AI is just pattern matching the image you gave it to its trove of publically available images. All it is doing is saving you some time googling — its really nothing more than that. If it can turn up pictures which demonstrate that she isn’t the sort of woman you as a man would want to date, then thats just saving everyone (her included) from wasting their time. Besides, as has been said repeatedly, this is not violating her privacy— the images are publicly available to begin with. They are n…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 03:33 PM
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One guy a day wouldn’t matter!? Christ hahahah. Thats just gross! Talk about a quest to acquire every STD known to man!!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 06:44 AM
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I thought everyone did this?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 11:03 AM
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Good luck man!!! Haha sounds like waaay too much risk to me. Those women have to be pros at manipulating guys, I couldn’t trust anything she said
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 10:38 AM
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Why would you want to seriously date a sex worker? “You can take the girl out of the bar, but you cannot take the bar out of the girl”
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 09:56 AM
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Night here!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 12:15 PM
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Why are you presuming foreign women are only looking for a green card?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 10:41 AM
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Of course, its just the more developed parts make it impossible to make that tired old argument (about them being poor)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 09:33 AM
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Meant to say ‘fantastic’ but I prefer ‘fanatic’ after re-reading it 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 02:18 PM
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So only the exalted women of the west are datable for western men? Thou shalt not date a foreign woman? Talk about cringe!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 02:08 PM
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Okay, thats a different angle lol. Usually on this sub the knee jerk reaction is to assume every assport bro is ‘exploiting’ some poor woman, so I was reflexively pushing back on that (largely BS) notion. East asian women definitely do have the godld dighing gene no argument there, I dunno as they are white worshipping tho. Being white is a but of a advantage in Southeast Asia though no doubt, but I’m not sure what the issue with that is. Also — self hating? Sure I’m sure are like that, but I’ve…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 02:00 PM
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They’re considered distinct and separate regions (east asia and southeast asia). Can’t imagine what the harm would be for a weatern dude to date in Taiwan/Japan/etc. They have their own money there, so I cannot fathom your aversion to guys passporting there
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 01:51 PM
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East Asia? Did you mean Southeast Asia? Easi Asia is rich and developed (thats places like Japan or South Korea)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 01:45 PM
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Sounds like a fanatic conversation to me 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 01:42 PM
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That makes sense, but as the name states… it is a fallacy. I have no doubt it would be extremely hard to walk away from a marriage (especially one you had been in for a long time), but if you have a chronic and incurable case of the dead bedroom, that tells me the relationship is dead already. All that is left to do is formalize the reality of that dead relationship by dissolving it, not to try to cling desperately to the corpse of dead relationship. Thats just me tho!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 02:22 PM
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Like I get it its not easy, but isn’t it for everyone’s long term benefit?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 11:20 AM
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I get that, especially with kids involved. But if you are in a miserable relationship like that, isn’t that unhappiness going to rub off on the kids too? Wouldn’t it be better for everyone if a divorce happened, and both parents are free to pursue happier relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 06:53 AM
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Yeah I’ve never really understood the deadbedroom crew. I get it is hard, but life is way too short to be stuck in a subpar relationship like that. I’d try everything I could to fix things first, but if nothing was working, I’d absolutely divorce or dump her.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 06:47 AM
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Korea is just… weird. Also super racist in general. I didn’t like it at all haha, but yeah the women are cute
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 01:17 AM
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Right!? Most tone deaf comment of all time. Jeez
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 11:22 PM
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Social circles are definitely helpful, but most dudes have one (at least to a limited degree?)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 11:19 PM
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Psychedelics aren’t toys yo, they’re powerful and should be respected. In the right set and setting they can be very helpful, but used irresponsibly they can do waaaay more harm than good!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 09:19 AM
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Christ, that’s some hole you’re digging yourself into 😔 I hope it turns around for you somehow!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 09:16 AM
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Holy hell there’s some powerful shit in that list! You’re playing with fire!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 09:12 AM
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Dude… you’d rather be on other drugs!?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 09:10 AM
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What’s the long term on this? Doesn’t sound like it leads anywhere happy. Could you get yourself into therapy instead and process stuff? Maybe go to a monastery (usually there are awesome people there, they’d be able to help too)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 09:05 AM
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Which part of the west is this lol? Women like that are rare, at least in major American metros on the West Coast
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 04:14 AM
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Oh, yikes haha. Welcome to tech haha! I hope you enjoy leetcode (and if not, neetcode is always there for a more condensed overview of what to know)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 03:56 AM
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Awesome man! If you’re getting internships you should be good 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 03:46 AM
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Yikes, my condolences good sir haha. Rough time to be an entry level dude now I’d think!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 03:40 AM
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Software engineer @ bigco
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 03:37 AM
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I’ve seen tons of dudes happy as can be with their plain jane girlfriends, gonna have to call BS on this one!!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 05:41 AM
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Comon now, most guys aren’t like that. Most guys learn pretty quick where they fall in the SMV pecking order
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 05:31 AM
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I’d recommend getting outside more and seeing the women most guys actually pick lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 10:54 PM
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Yup, it’s gonna get more and more unstable no doubt about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 09:53 PM
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Lol men don’t exclusively want instagram model lookalikes lol, that’d be a ridiculous standard for most guys unless he is 10/10 himself!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 09:51 PM
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Absolutely would!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 07:55 AM
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Personally I’m a software engineer, and I’m looking to move to the Philippines early next year via a remote from Asia position. Maybe you can find a remote gig that allows you to live outside the US as well?
/r/AllPillDebate14/08/23 07:34 AM
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What if she is a raging bitch?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 03:45 AM
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I mean, I have been successful in the past and had a great time dating there. Is it so bad I’d be excited to be returning to the Philippines permanently in that case? I think you are trying to twist my words to be toxic, and from a certain angle I think I can see your point. I just never meant to say that though 🙂 Really, I just like dating there. Its way better for me personally than American dating is — its fun! I’d be surprised if I didn’t find someone tbh, but that is because I am extrapolat…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 12:18 AM
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Wait wha? Dude, I’m just confident I’ll find someone. I’m not trying to be a consumer! Truly don’t feel its fair to regard me dating in the Philippines as somehow misogynistic just cause I’m confident about my prospects!!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 08:49 PM
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Oh that dude, I watch his channel lol! You might not know, but she owns multiple properties and multiple stores lol — she has her own money. I doubt socioeconomics played much of a role between them
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 01:06 PM
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I like my odds 😁 (couldn’t help myself had to use the emoji) I have alot of friends in the Philippines already, and growing up (in the US) my best friend was Filipino. So through him I also know pretty much all oh his extended family in the Philippines. So I feel as home in the Philippines as I do in America, except I actually like dating there. In America dating feels like a horrible job interview half the time, and usually its just not a fulfilling experience. Also, in general, I don’t much li…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 05:29 PM
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I’ve been to the Philippines a number of times already, with the longest trip being 6 months. Its not that I think I have a guarantee of finding someone, its that I am confident I will find someone because I have been very successful in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 12:34 PM
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Move to somewhere?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 03:17 AM
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Attend mixed sex social groups?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 03:15 AM
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LOL that’s that most ridiculous thing I have read all day! I usually date lawyers, doctors, or other professionals when I am in the Philippines. Good luck convincing anyone sane that I’m ‘buying’ a woman! They don’t need my money, they have their own!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 01:00 AM
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No, they should become passport bros and move to better dating markets.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 07:28 PM
1

Awesome man, happy for you! That’ll be me in the not so distant future as well 😁😁😁
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 07:27 PM
3

Oh yeah that gaslighting is soooo annoying, like we all know standards are in the stratosphere stop lying about it already!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 07:24 PM
1

Jeez, what a delusional chick haha. She’s gonna be single for life no doubt! Glad I’m moving to the Philippines soon, I won’t miss dating in America for a single second hahah.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 07:22 PM
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All that would happen is manhattan project 2.0: recreate all the porn ASAP!!! Haha 😅 More seriously, you’d just have alot more frustrated dudes hitting up women who wouldn’t be interested. I don’t think thats a win for anyone really (or maybe the great passport exodus haha)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 03:15 AM
3

That really happens to you??? Dang, whenever I’m in a relationship I never think about porn even lol. That’s just bizarre to me
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 03:10 AM
1

Guys in relationships watch porn lol? Whenever I’m in a relationship I don’t, I thought that was normal!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 03:08 AM
1

Lol very helpful 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 08:49 PM
1

What did you mean then lol?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 06:14 PM
1

Good sir: you should really just spare your keyboard and become a passport bro already 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 06:20 AM
2

I’m a senior software engineer at one of the big tech companies, and I really don’t mind what she does for work at long as I like her a person. I wouldn’t mind if she worked for McDonalds lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 11:01 PM
2

Thanks man, you too!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 06:38 PM
1

I’m a bit in the minority or dating wealthier women, I will give you that. Usually the women foreigners are dating are retail workers, manufacturing, that kind of thing. I think my particular situation would be better described as ‘expat’ really, and also I’d marry under Filipino law — therefore no K1 visa (and no greencard). Gotta be careful 🙂. Any kids though would have citizenship via descent you are right. But if there are foreigners who just fly out to, say, Colombia for 2 weeks and marry t…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 06:38 PM
2

This is just anecdotal and therefore not the most useful, but I’ve seen plenty of short dudes do well dating in America. It seems harder for them yeah, but totally doable. As for me, I’m moving to the Philippines early next year lol. I’ll do just fine dating there 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 06:28 PM
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Ah okay, now I see where you’re coming from. All I’d say is you don’t have to date poor people there — when I’m in the Philippines I usually date women in the middle class (or upper middle class, doctors or lawyers). That helps avoid situations like you are describing. Then again I’m also looking to permanently relocate to the Philippines (via remote work, and I can FIRE there right now anyway), so the prospect of a visa wouldn’t be in their future anyway, which should also guard aganist what yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 06:26 PM
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In the Middle East I can see that argument, but throughout Latin America or Asia women are able to find their own jobs and support themselves without a guy. It’s not like the women there are all desperately poor and hoping for a man to save them lol. They may not be vacationing to Paris during the summer, but they’re not exposed to the elements and barely scrapping by either. They’re doing just fine. Are there extremely poor people in these countries? Yes. But they’re not the majority by a long …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 06:04 PM
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For a variety of reasons, most unique to the dude. But in general, your SMV increases when you are abroad, so you can get a higher quality match abroad than you could in the US. If you’re looking for a more traditional feminine woman (with a healthy BMI) who isn’t narcissistic… that’s incredibly hard to find in the US. But overseas, not too difficult to find. So it can also be a mismatch — the man’s local dating market simply has very few of the kind of women he is looking for, whereas overseas …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 05:46 PM
2

I’d much rather put in the work to become a passport bro rather than use a AI girlfriend 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 05:22 PM
2

The general advise given to passport bros is to not lead with money lol. I’m sure some dudes have done that (and it likely ended horribly lol), but most dudes never mention money to the women and don’t shower her in gifts or anything. They’re seeking out real relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 05:20 PM
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They seek out relationships with foreign women. I’ve yet to hear one talking about showing said woman and her family with gifts lol!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 05:17 PM
4

Then sounds like she’s on the path back to Jabba then 😟
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 04:59 AM
8

Oh that’s awesome! I’m glad she did, she was clearly asking for huge health problems with her pervious weight
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 04:52 AM
2

Looks like walmart! ‘Murica!!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 04:43 AM
5

Lordy!! She’ll bigger than a 737!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 04:38 AM
17

That sir is Jabba the hutt 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 04:36 AM
6

If I had to choose then the fit 50 yr olds, I didn’t find the chubby women attractive. More realistically I say neither tho 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 04:32 AM
1

Yup, making friends like that helps a ton! I was kinda baiting you before — you’re hyper focusing on height good sir. I know why I struggle in America, I have high functioning autism 🙂 If I wear my ‘mask’ I do well, if I don’t… I do alot less well haha. My point here is you need to have the whole package, not just being tall!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 02:59 AM
1

Cute classmates?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 02:54 AM
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I go to crossfit, I may not be a body builder but I have muscles. I may have bad posture though, I am a software engineer with a bad habit to use laptops 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 02:53 AM
3

That was an excellent take, it really jived with my experience in America.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 02:51 AM
2

I’m a 6’2 dude, I don’t slay in America. Make it make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 02:48 AM
1

I’d be a little concerned if the E was pure and not cut with anything dangerous, but if others hadn’t died after 24 hours hahha, I’d be down! I also have not faintest idea where I’d go to participate in this 😔? I am but a humble nerd.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 02:41 AM
1

Why is going back to school heartbreaking for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 02:39 AM
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I wouldn’t really regard that as a transaction, rather as women do expect their guys to be financially stable. Usually transactional to me implies an exchange of money for a service, so I could also be looking at the word too narrowly. As for it being better — you just tend to get many more options (including higher quality ones) than you would in your home country. Sounds pretty good to me! 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 01:14 AM
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It’s not quite fair to generalize from that one example and declare every relationship between a expat and a local woman a transactional one. For example, not every passport bro is old you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 12:30 AM
1

You do you!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 12:03 AM
5

Right? Imagine how easy it would be to slip!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 12:01 AM
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Um… don’t you want to be fucked for you? Not cause you have a mask on?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 11:59 PM
5

Haha it definitely is starting to feel that way! I’m a little new to this forum 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 11:43 PM
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I don’t recommend it in general, but it sure seems like it is better than constructing an entire artificial personality for the sole purpose of acquiring sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 11:39 PM
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Why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 11:21 PM
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Dating in America is just… not a fun or rewarding experience in America for the most part. Whereas dating overseas is (usually) great! I’m a white dude, and I’m planning on moving to the Philippines early next year 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 11:15 PM
3

💯
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 11:10 PM
4

Where did you get this notion that expats are just buying attraction from lol?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 11:07 PM
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💯
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 10:55 PM
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I’m planning on moving to the Philippines early next year! It’s definitely a real thing, though it isn’t quite the most common thing to do 🙂 I wouldn’t say I’ve felt targeted there per se in the past, but there are scammers there though so you do have to keep both eyes open when dating haha
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 10:52 PM
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I decided for sure end of last year, on a work trip to the Philippines! To quote a YouTuber (who said this really well): “I want to build a life I don’t feel I need to take a vacation from” 😁😁 I would have moved earlier this year but the job market for software engineers got a bit wobbly early this year, and while I could FIRE to the Philippines now, I still enjoy being a software engineer so wanted to keep the work portion of my life alive still.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 10:44 PM
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Plenty of expats live abroad via remote from anywhere jobs, or by being contractors for local businesses too 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 10:41 PM
3

Which part of Latin America? Just curious
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 10:40 PM
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That’s a bit… pessimistic. Every foriegn woman isn’t just settling for you
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 10:39 PM
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I mean, on the one hand you are right that money does tend to be valued more highly in Latin America or Asia generally, but on the other you can definitely find a women in those locations who loves you for you as well. You gotta take your time though and not rush into things though (that’s the leading cause of relationship disasters I’ve seen abroad)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 10:37 PM
1

I’m a guy on PPD, and I think defining average for women as OnlyFans/Insta models is literally insane. I think you’re staring reeeal hard at a particularly vocal minority
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 10:27 PM
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Well… um, yeah hahhaha. Now if the goal is finding a partner, then the goal posts shift a little 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 10:16 PM
1

What I read from your post above is: “all guys are chasing over the bitchy hot women and blaming all women for being awful”, which I took to be a bit unfair and over generalized. I may have just misunderstood your post?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 10:10 PM
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I think they’re just lonely and wanting to feel like they ‘made it’ Personally I’ve lost count of my n count (counting foreign and American women), and I’ve got the urge to copulate with reckless abandon out of my system haha. After a while the prospect of getting yet more casual, meaningless sex just feels like ‘meh’ — I think they’re just not at that stage yet is all 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 10:06 PM
1

I think you’re overgeneralizing a bit here. I’d trade down in looks for a more agreeable, kinder woman. Looks are important yes, but not everything
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 10:03 PM
1

I’m 32 currently, and planning on moving to the Philippines early next year so I’d be 33 then.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 10:01 PM
1

Can confirm works great! Only caveat is you want to filter for groups which have (mostly) the same people showing up consistently, otherwise it can be hard to build relationships that stick (at least for me)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 09:48 PM
1

OP needs to go outside more.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 06:00 PM
1

LOL you’re completely delusional and haven’t the faintest idea what you are talking about. Anyone who knows Filipinas knows they are not meet submissive little eomen hahahha. I’ll just do myself a favor and block you now, you have nothing of value to add 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 05:56 PM
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Personally I don’t think money is much of a boast dating wise, as long as you have enough to contribute something to the relationship. If it were really significant my coworkers who struggle in dating would never have an issue (I work at a big tech company, and all of us are well above average income)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 05:47 PM
1

Yeah in the US I agree with this. America is a tough dating market to be a guy in.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 04:50 PM
1

Internationally yeah that’s definitely doable, the US dating market though is much more competitive for men. You’d have to be top 20% to pull that age gap off in the US (or just get really lucky)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 04:50 PM
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I’ve also never heard of a man specifically looking for a virgin to marry
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 04:43 PM
1

Nobody said it was a flex, only that it is an option (one likely to result in better options than you had back home). Also not all of us were born ‘lucky’ — I have high functioning autism. Despite that (after putting in alot of work) I too was able to get chosen in America (several times now). Its just hard for me to find the quality of woman I’d like to marry in the US, wheras finding a quality woman in the Philippines is plenty doable. I’m sure you’ll have some snarky comeback about imagined t…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 12:05 AM
1

That’s only Elon 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 09:50 PM
1

That’s fair lol — there are shit women too! Fixed it 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 09:49 PM
1

Understandable, best of luck man!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 09:41 PM
1

Have you considered passporting?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 08:13 PM
1

Humans can be utter shit regardless of gender 😒
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 08:11 PM
1

It happens, sure, but I can’t for the life of me see this being a widespread thing. Guys who love their older wives aren’t going to drop her if a 25 yr old came knocking — sure a small minority may, but certainly not the majority?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 08:05 PM
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I mean, unless you put in a ton of work being autistic alone will get you turned down by like 100% of women haha. Doesn’t really get more dire than that? Being short sucks don’t get me wrong, I just get the sense short guys think of it as the worst possible thing. Its not haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 08:01 PM
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💯
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 07:31 PM
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Yeah all men do not act like that. I’d suggest you meet more men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 07:30 PM
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Tall men can have autism too 😔 Though I have learned to mask my autism pretty well, so do pretty well for an autistic dude in the states. I’m 6’2, not sure how much that really helps tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 07:10 PM
1

You really need to go to the Philippines good sir 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 07:07 PM
1

Whatevs, your commitment to believing every male is somehow evil is consistent at least. Enjoy your cats!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 06:45 PM
1

Lol my argument remains happily intact— just cause their GDP isn’t huge doesn’t mean they are all desperate and super poor. They’re not, which you would know if you had ever set foot in the country 🙂 But hey enjoy your ignorance!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 06:18 PM
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Exactly!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 05:30 PM
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Totally agree, that’s why I spent a ton of time learning how to mask my symptoms well 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 04:58 PM
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That’s fair, most do tend to stay on their socioeconomic strata that is true, but people definitely do date outside of their strata is all I was getting at. Most of my work colleagues are either married to their HS/college sweethearts (and quite often here there is a large gap between what he earns and what she earns) or married to someone of a roughly similar socioeconomic strata, though usually the woman makes less. There are totally dudes who are married to government administrators, or nurse…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 04:55 PM
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I’m a senior engineer at a big tech company lol, and if I really liked the hairdresser or retail worker I’d totally date her seriously! Maybe I’m an exception? I know plenty of other coworkers who would do the same?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 04:34 PM
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Yup, that can go for both genders! Dealing with a jaded person ain’t worth it, definitely made the right call rejecting them 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 04:28 PM
1

Ohh okay, I read that wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 04:25 PM
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Sure, men tend to value looks more than women, I think we can all agree on that. I think we can agree as well men would try to date up in looks if they have other qualities (such as status, great social skills, etc) that women value as well. But where is the controversy on these points?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 03:35 PM
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Hold up — are you suggesting most women don’t get selected on OLD?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 03:25 PM
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Oh it’s possible. Drop an attractive white guy in the Philippines, and watch the role reversal happen. He’d become the selector, not the women haha
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 03:23 PM
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Sure men may visually find a 21 year old the hottest, but you do realize that if a man wants to date a woman seriously, he is going to be interested in her maturity level and her personality? There’s a reason I usually date women 25+, and its not the looks (the 18-21 yr olds have better looks). Its also not like I am some special snowflake of a guy, literally every guy I’ve ever known looks at a woman’s personality as well if he wants to consider her as a serious girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 03:22 PM
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You’re not seriously claiming men only date 18-21 year olds right? Have you been outside outside, ever?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 03:18 PM
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Yes, they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 03:16 PM
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Sure, men care about looks alot, but if they genuinely like their current girl they’re not just going to dump her the second a hotter women looks at them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 03:14 PM
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PPD comments are not stats. Women are valued for much more than their ability to have kids and their youth. I mean have you ever talked to a married guy who genuinely loves his wife? Just get him talking sbout her and watch his eyes light up talking about her AS A PERSON!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 03:12 PM
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No, that was a sigh born of frustration with your impressive close mindedness. Additionally you also confirmed you don’t know the first thing about the Philippines, so you also admitted you’re in no position to be arguing so vocally on this topic in the first place. Classic dunning kruger effect
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 03:04 PM
1

sigh
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 06:08 AM
1

That seems rather pessimistic. Why are you past the point of no return?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 05:59 AM
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Goodness ma’am haha — you’ve never been to the Philippines and don’t know much about the country do you?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 05:43 AM
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You have a rather twisted view of how these relationships form! Not to mention, its not like Filipino women are desperately poor and praying to their ancestors for some food and shelter hahha. Sure they’re not flying to Paris on the weekend, but the vast majority have food and shelter. There are even ones who actually do have the money to fly to Paris on the weekend on a whim!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 05:41 AM
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Human trafficking is usually interpreted are literally forcing women from their homes to a destination country, usually for the purpose of prostitution. How is a older dude marrying a younger women that?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 05:32 AM
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… yeah, I’ll just excuse myself from this particular thread
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 05:30 AM
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To be fair they are rather resistant to putting in work I will give you that. They operate under the view that they should already be good enough as they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 05:24 AM
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Lmao. How’d you manage jump to human trafficking from what I said!?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 05:21 AM
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No one asked you to clap, but you are being unfair to that dude and infantilizing his wife. You don’t know them, you don’t know the dynamic between them. They could be very happy — both of them. You just started making assumptions because he is 11 years older. She was 30, she was fully capable of making adult decisions. Also, when he is in his 70s she will be in her 60s. She won’t be a spring chicken either.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 05:20 AM
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Again, 24 is about the youngest I have heard. 30s is much more common. Well… I’m not sure me speaking about it will have any measurable impact on normalizing anything? Its pretty normal in the Philippines already as well, so.. thats just the status quo at this point
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 05:02 AM
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Haha no you phrased it great!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 04:58 AM
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