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She isn't lying, been to Colombia quite a few times. Then again, she is way over generalizing how prevalent macho culture is globally as well. Peru is way, way less macho than Colombia and it's not a long plane flight there from Colombia either. Outside of maybe Russia/Ukraine, Colombia is the most macho country on Earth. It's a special case, not an example of a broader trend
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 07:14 AM
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That's the 'going to work so I can support my family' part of being a father yes. Notice how there is an emphasis on going to work? The money comes from the work, not the fatherhood. It's an action fathers must perform, not that they are entitled to (nor are they compensated for being fathers!!!)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 04:57 PM
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Lololol wtf. Did you imagine fathers in the long long ago got money from the government just for being a good dad!? They got money for going to work, not for being a father.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 05:16 AM
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How are women disadvantaged in business, job hiring or government? I've been on the hiring committees for years in several different big tech companies, and women absolutely have an advantage when it comes to getting jobs there. HR always likes to downplay that bit, but everyone knows there is an overt female bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 05:09 AM
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Thanks man!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 05:41 AM
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That's very fair, having to make that choice in the first place is not something I'd wish on anyone. As to how American women would react to that? Hmm... I can see some doing the same. I can see plenty not doing that as well though. I am a touch...jaded about America though, so perhaps my opinion isn't worth much on this topic though
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 05:24 AM
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You are a better man than me, no doubt about that good sir. I'm moving to the Philippines in 2 weeks lol... I have rather bypassed my dating issues 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 05:20 AM
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Oh, right. Yeah that's true, but surely most would eventually settle for this?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 05:11 AM
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That's where the clean part came in. If they can guarantee the, ahh, fun area is completely sterile and immaculate, then no problem right? Along with the rest of the bot too of course
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 04:43 AM
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Yeah... But they're in Russia. I believe OP in American soooo... yeah, not too relevant
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 04:41 AM
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I kinda like the idea of a reputable, clean, safe, robot brothel. You don't have one hanging round the house then in case you do enter into a relationship that way. Less social taboo risk that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 04:38 AM
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Thank you master
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 04:04 AM
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Always 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 03:54 AM
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Same boat man. Just mindlessly scrolling at this point 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 03:53 AM
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Idk man you sold that really well. Besides I'm sure with enough mindfulness and meditation I can manage and cope with the symptoms, AND get to slay. Is there a way one can learn this art (become a cluster B slayer)??? Though I am leaving the US in two weeks lol, so maybe not really needed
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 03:51 AM
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That was really heartwarming actually 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 03:48 AM
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Now I am regretting that I don't have a cluster B personality disorder 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 03:47 AM
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Pretty sure the Chads have no problem being dildo
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 03:44 AM
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Holy shit, that's an impressive turnaround man! You should be seriously proud!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 03:42 AM
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Oh you were serious. Wait you truly want MORE hookups!?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 02:30 AM
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Did you recently fall and hit your head? Are you able to phone an ambulance or should we find a network weeb who can locate your precise location, so we can send you an ambulance?!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 02:28 AM
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I am suddenly not hungry anymore. Saved me some money on GrubHub! 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 02:24 AM
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Chinese
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 02:22 AM
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Congrats man!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 02:19 AM
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Hey once we have a realistic humanoid robot, we can begin to have that conversation. From the guys I know in the robotics space, we are a looooooooooong way away from that. So for me it just doesn't sound practical. Besides the AI guys at work have been looking bummed for months. Evidently generative AI is already plateauing!? Or that's what they tell me, idk that's not my space
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 02:15 AM
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What is wrong with today's youth!?!?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 01:12 AM
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Congrats, that belief has just signed you up for a lifetime of insecurity! Women like what they like, you cannot control it. Just do the best you can, and if you have some lemons, there's always the lemonade machine (become a passport bro, I leave America in 2 weeks!!!!!! Yay!!!!!!!!!!!!)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 12:21 AM
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Not just me who is sick, makes me feel less alone lol. I have the wonderful COVID, and here I got the new boaster a month ago 😑
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 02:23 AM
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What's it like? Sorry, I've just never worked retail
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 09:40 PM
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Once a week?!?! The horror!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 03:27 AM
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That is absolutely something you would say 😅 How's the diet going?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 06:44 AM
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Isn't it more important that you lose yours? You see... Rather focused on the virginity there good sir
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 06:31 AM
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Lol, whatever brought you to such a spicy decision!? Eating multiple tablespoons of hot stuff!!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 06:30 AM
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Wah. Has your tongue melted??
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 06:19 AM
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Yeah I can see that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 02:52 AM
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We can make guesses from the copious corpus you have posted lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 02:25 AM
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I'm reasonably successful and pretty happy lol, although I am old
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 02:12 AM
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Blue balled men of the world, unite! You have nothing to lose but your chastity!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 03:40 AM
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30s and 40s year old women do not look as good as 20 somethings.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 02:28 AM
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I'd much rather be a house husband rather than go to a job. Working for some soulless corporation solely dedicated to profit above anything ain't exactly fulfilling
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 06:54 AM
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Yup 95% of American dudes would go for her no question haha
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 04:03 AM
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Damn lucky you, McDonald's did that to me hahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 11:52 PM
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Pretty much there's a mass shooting here everyday. Glad I'm leaving soon, the US is rapidly declining
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 11:48 PM
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Merely a description of your future in a few hours 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 11:47 PM
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Good job!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 09:20 PM
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American women are not any higher quality partners than American men on average
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 06:53 PM
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Newton? The dude didn't even like women and did everything in his power to avoid them lol. He was a special character
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 12:22 PM
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Pretty face, but that butt is WAY too much for me.😅
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 03:56 AM
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Have fun!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 03:55 AM
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Don't do that
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 03:54 AM
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Find the food with the most fiber and chow down. Fiber is proven to produce feelings of fullness
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 03:52 AM
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Lol the teenage MILF
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 03:48 AM
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Hell yeah! Congrats!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 03:46 AM
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Ooo only Americans. Then yeah that chick is what you want to aim for haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 03:29 AM
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Maybe? It's hard to say. She was light skinned, and I've met guys who just aren't into that. It's that 95% figure you spoke of that makes me hesitate. I think 85% would find the woman I was mentioning attractive though
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 03:26 AM
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There was one woman I met who was damn sexy even to me, but she had medium large boobs and a medium sized butt. Idk what it was but the proportions just worked for her. But usually when I'm in South America, it's a minority of women I find attractive, mainly cause of the big butts boobs lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 03:19 AM
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Well, this is how I see it. Yesterday I met a Colombian dude, and be was positively gushing about how gorgeous his new girlfriend was. So he eventually showed me her pics, and she fit the classic big butt big boobs Colombian ideal. I had to fake saying she was super beautiful, even though I was like: nah I'd pass. To him she was an 8/10 I think, for me, maybe a 4? She just looked overweight. There's just too much variability in what guys find physically attractive I believe
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 03:12 AM
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I honestly don't think you're gonna find a body type attractive to 95% of guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 03:07 AM
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She does look overweight. She's not my type personally, but for the guys into ultra big titties she's about perfect I'd imagine
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 03:06 AM
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Depends on the guy really. The guys who go for the big butts big boob thing would definitely be into them tho
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 03:03 AM
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You do realize men just can't get taller right? That's the equivalent of saying just change your facial structure as a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 01:39 AM
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Maybe I could? I truly don't know, it's not something I've much experience with (dating on reddit) so don't have a track record to look at
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 06:20 PM
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What!? Dogs are the biggest love bugs known to exist!! Clearly you have never met a living hug -- a golden retriever!!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 05:21 PM
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Damn nice! Now that's a HVM
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 09:53 PM
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How can you not like some Christmas muppets!?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 09:42 PM
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It just boils down to personal preference, and sometimes who overgeneralize our preferences too. I'm guilty of that. For example, I cannot relate to how you feel about bigger women OP. I like skinny women with small tits and a small ass, and truly am not aroused by bigger women. Even big tits just turn me off. So for me, it's hard to put myself in your shoes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 08:52 PM
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Yikes.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 03:45 PM
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Oh gotcha. Yeah if you don't make enough to support a SAHM then hating on independent women is a bit of an odd position to have (just like that fat woman, who I don't think actually wants kids that badly. Weight loss is not rocket science)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 03:23 PM
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Oh haha. I'm old don't mind me
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 03:18 PM
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I prefer humans sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 03:14 PM
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I don't hate independent women, how'd you manage the mental gymnastics to pull that off from what I said!? Besides I can afford to support a SAHM
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 03:09 PM
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Any gems so far?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 03:02 PM
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I'm not in favor of insulting the woman. But if she truly wants to have kids as soon as possible, why doesn't that motivate her to lose the weight, so she has the best chance of attracting a mate she's happy having kids with? Her remaining fat strikes me that she isn't actually serious about having the kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 03:02 PM
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Sad state of affairs, but true. Thankfully I am leaving for a higher quality dating market 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 02:57 PM
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I meant it would be better in general if you did live in the more tolerant parts of the Western world
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 02:03 PM
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Being born gay would have been soooooo much better lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 01:22 PM
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Aww he's a little cutie 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 01:02 PM
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?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 08:23 PM
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Oh my bad lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 07:59 PM
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Same for girls too?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 07:38 PM
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Yeah no obesity is not and never will be attractive. I can understand not wanting people to rub your obesity in your face, but trying to convince others it's attractive? That needs to stop, it is insanely delusional and doesn't do any favors to the fatties anyway. It also unfairly puts guys in a bad place for rejecting these women. If you are obese, just accept the reality that you are unattractive to the vast majority of guys. Living in la la land is not the answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 05:28 PM
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Sounds fantastic! Where do I sign up?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 01:31 AM
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I like shy women lol, there are just hard to find. I can however find the extroverts!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 01:16 AM
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Football
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 06:53 PM
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You really enjoy elden ring speech lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 06:51 PM
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Cause incel usually denotes a hatred of women, whereas as the boyfriend in training doesn't hate them, he just doesn't know how to attract one (yet)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 05:24 PM
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So picky 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 04:42 PM
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Catholics have tree and all, at least the ones I knew
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 04:33 PM
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It's a big place you won't run into her
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 04:32 PM
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What if the shirt said "free drugs" hahah
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 04:31 PM
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What if he had a shirt saying "I love Adderall"?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 04:28 PM
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Are the dicks doing anything per chance 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 04:12 PM
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Welcome to 2X hahha!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 04:11 PM
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I consistently flung bullshit at the wall until the shit bagan to stick. I then stuck with that 😅 Also ChatGPT haha
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 04:10 PM
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Oh definitely, I'll let my mind wander when I see a pretty gal 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 04:08 PM
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2X is filled with permanently angry misandrists lol, what did you expect ?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 04:07 PM
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Hey, 2/4! Good morning!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 04:05 PM
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Add extra grease and let dry 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 04:03 PM
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Ma'am, he specifically asked for soap. Did I misread something lol?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 03:22 PM
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Why would you be worried?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 03:18 PM
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A buddy's boss is a partner at a midsized law firm, and his boss married a waitress. I saw a pic of her and she's gorgeous, but things like that happen
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 11:24 PM
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4.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 06:28 PM
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Move to Southeast Asia 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 05:05 PM
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Poor dude, that's gonna be tough to recover from. He could use a mentor to teach him the ropes, while SEAmaxxing at the same time
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 05:01 PM
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Yup, dry spells happen to most people I think. Do yourself a favor, and don't rush into anything. The idea is to have a quality relationship, not an relationship in general 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 04:42 PM
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You'll find someone you like, it just takes time 😐
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 04:38 PM
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I think being rude to people in general is a turn off. No need to make unprovoked comments about the fat woman's appearance, just go on with your day
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 04:34 PM
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Guess he didn't make the cut for a good morning, and now has a bad morning 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 04:02 PM
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Lol you could just eat a normal amount
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 03:17 PM
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Ikr? With climate change, resource depletion, and AI, do we really need more people on this hothouse planet? Don't think so!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 02:50 PM
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Actually with AI, I'd imagine blue collar jobs will be the next white collar. AI is gonna decimate the earnings of most knowledge workers in the next 20 years
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 02:43 PM
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Whoa hold up. What's going on??
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 10:22 PM
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I await your proposal for accomplishing that one lol. But even if that, by some miracle, actually did transpire, then you would still have not eliminated prostitution. What you create are the perfect conditions for reputable escort agencies to exist. Meaning that prostitution will remain alive and well, if more of a headache because of the requirement for review forums to ensure you don't get ratted out to the cops.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 07:27 PM
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Nah just her lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 05:03 PM
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Common now, we all know most guys who be dtf with their friends if offered.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 05:01 PM
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The hate runs too deep in her, just let her rant
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 04:56 PM
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Making buying sex illegal, but selling legal. It's a neat idea, there is a problem though. All that does is shift prostitution to other countries. That's because most men who buy sex are also fairly well off, so they fly into other countries. That's why Germany had an influx of sexpats after I believe Sweden outlawed buying sex, but made it legal to sell. The upside of that idea is that female prostitutes in the original country can be safer, and it doesn't eliminate it totally in the original c…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 04:54 PM
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Slavery and prostitution are two very different beasts, they aren't comparable. Slavery is very hard to hide, prostitution is quite easy to hide. That makes your job of eliminating it a ton harder. Besides, I would argue the harm of prostitution is far less than that of slavery as well. You've never touched on how you believe you can eradicate prostitution though. What's your idea for doing it? Prostitution is alive and well in every country where it is illegal. Because if you don't have a plan,…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 04:35 PM
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Yeah, I don't think prohibition even meaningfully reduces the demand for prostitution. Like I said, you can order up a escort right now. There are several famous streets in Los Angeles and New York with street walkers. The massage parlors. Etc etc. Prohibition doesn't work, it only makes the lives of men and women who partake in prostitution more dangerous and worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 04:27 PM
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Being a cute, happy girl who is fun to hang out with is actually sexy as hell too 😎 There's more than one way of pulling off the sexy thing. Also being awkward isn't so bad for a girl, it can be kinda cute
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 03:21 PM
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Yeah, I've never seen an attractive chubby girl. I've always been drawn to skinny girls though, and am a small boobs guy, so could just be cause chubby women are absolutely not my type
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 03:19 PM
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Are people really thinking about that old, dead empire that often lol?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 03:00 PM
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What did you like about school?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 02:58 PM
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Yeah the whole 'they want a green card!!' and identity is mostly BS. Most women abroad, even in poor countries, don't want to leave their hoke county because then they would leave their friends and family behind. There are some green card chasers sure, but they are easy to spot and nowhere near as common as you believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 02:43 PM
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We do not want that
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 02:39 PM
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Nobody does, but it is for your long term welfare 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 02:37 PM
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Exactly this
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 06:21 AM
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I was saying that sex and relationships being commodities is already the status quo. It's gonna take generations to undo that I think. Said differently, that genie is already out of the bottle. Regarding prostitution -- it has always existed, and it always will. To the best of my knowledge no policy of prohibition has ever worked, in that it succeeded in completely removing prostitution. You can, for example, book an appointment with an escort in America this very day from the comfort of your ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 06:14 AM
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I understand you disapprove of prostitution (and to be fair I am less than thrilled about it), but I genuinely believe that it is an inevitable part of society. There will always be those seeking sexual services, and there will always be those offering those services. No prohibition of prostitution in the history of mankind has ever worked to my knowledge, and I am confident none ever will. Therefore, the best way to improve the lives of the women in prostitution is to let them work out in the o…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 06:05 AM
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Prostitution has always existed, and it always will. Neither you, the government, nor any other entity can stop it. All you can do is drive it underground -- and I would argue that by arguing to drive prostitution underground (which is the implication of your argument), you are in fact making the lives of prostitutes much less safe than they otherwise could be. I think prostitution should be legalized and regulated, and relegated to specific red light districts, or in the privacy of your own res…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 09:33 PM
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Sorry to tell you, but that cat is already out of the bag and it's gonna be a real bugger to get it back in.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 09:18 PM
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Yup, I've dated in quite a few countries now and America remains by far the worst from a dating perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 07:26 PM
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Welcome to America
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 02:37 PM
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Nah I doubt that
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 02:35 PM
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I'm so glad I am moving to the Philippines lol. That article made dating in the states sound absolutely horrific,.which is kinda is
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 02:12 PM
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So you only dates your friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 01:52 PM
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The body positivity movement really made them delusional in that way. They now think overweight is actually attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 01:46 PM
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It is okay for her to do it, but it is also okay for me to break up with her for doing so. It is a question of preferences good sir. As for why I enjoy strangers doing it? I enjoy a good wank lol. It's not complicated.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 04:44 AM
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It is an answer. The answer is the SOs of the porn actresses are cool with what she does for work. I would not be, and her work would be a deal breaker for me. Happily consuming the content created by others has no bearing on me being cool with my SO starting to create that same content.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 04:26 AM
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I do indeed enjoy watching porn, but would not want to date a sex worker either. This includes not wishing my SO to participate in sex work (OF is of course sex work). I don't think there is anything wrong with watching porn, and I don't believe there is anything amiss in not wanting to date a sex worker. It is a perfectly valid and reasonable preference to have, and one I suspect is shared by most men. If other men are okay with dating a sex worker, then that is perfectly fine by me as well. I …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 04:22 AM
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When you are watching porn,.you are literally just watching a video. Neither yourself nor your girlfriend ended up plastered all over the internet getting banged by watching a video. That's your distinction good sir.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 03:36 AM
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Your girlfriend or wife doing porn is in no way equal to you as a guy watching porn. There is a massive difference there good sir.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 02:18 AM
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How would this even be implemented? Honestly, I don't see how this could work. I think the best way to handle the situation is to either open up immigration for young women to the states (say 18-32), thereby (hopefully) substantially increasing the 'supply' of potential partners for men, or just passport broing (decreasing the supply of men in general). Other than that, I don't see any other means of addressing the dating markets in America in particular.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 04:39 PM
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We know lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 02:29 PM
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She's for the streets!! Definitely not the sort to wife up!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 09:22 PM
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Some of the really senior architects (like whole system designers) in Big Tech companies make 7 figures. It's rare, and it takes alot of skill to reach those positions, but I know a few who have. So it's possible to make that much money just working a job, and without really being in management. That being said I've met some scum of the Earth making well into 7 figures in finance as well. Definitely the sort of people you don't want to know, and in general I'd agree that if you are making that m…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 09:20 PM
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Congrats!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 08:57 PM
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That instinct bite me in the ass sooo many times when I was young lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 10:49 PM
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=(
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 06:25 PM
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Absolutely this. No greater comfort food has yet been discovered by man 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 04:11 PM
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Or those guys are currently located in a suboptimal dating market (ie, changing their location could make a world of difference)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 11:06 PM
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Neither do I, I wish they'd standardize on saying savings time already
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 04:46 AM
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An 8 for me, but she is definitely hot
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 01:59 AM
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The enbetafication of today's youth -- the act of raising young men to become betas
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 12:15 AM
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Ma'am, I'm not sure how to deliver this news to you, but you are...well... also a Kid 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 11:46 PM
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No need, live a little more first
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 11:20 PM
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Good for her! Lol, I don't mind at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 04:20 PM
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Siiiiiiiimp
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 06:23 AM
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Sweeeeeet!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 04:23 AM
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What have you done!?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 04:04 AM
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Even if your arms collapsed, all you'd end up with is a bump on your head 🙂 Having your friend spot you is a good idea though!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 03:58 AM
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Daaaamn how many women are you planning to bang???
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 03:26 AM
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What about being upside down scares you? Also, could you try something like exposure therapy? Start by being upside down for 2 seconds, then 10, 20, 40, and finally a full minute. The more often you do it it should become easier
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 03:24 AM
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What about the handstand scares you?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 01:31 AM
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Older women only good sir /s
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 05:40 AM
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I love being an introvert lol, being an extrovert sounds exhausting 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 05:25 AM
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All? Course not. I have met a few especially delusional fatties who thought they were destined to marry Hollywood celebrities tho hahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 03:45 AM
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Sorry I couldn't cook yesterday, so I had taco bell
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 03:40 AM
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Congrats!!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 03:38 AM
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Go to Malaysia or the Philippines. Problem solved. English is widely spoken in both countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 03:27 AM
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Lol, modern American English ChatGPT. Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 03:25 AM
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Yes, yes she is lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 01:24 AM
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Haven't missed a week in years
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 12:59 AM
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SEAmaxx.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 09:58 PM
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You sound just fine lol. Not having a hot hot temper is a good thing if anything even, because it helps prevent you from doing something you might later regret.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 05:44 AM
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Most passport bros also don't bring the woman back to America, he stays in her country.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 04:48 AM
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I've seen big old jars of almond butter at Costco, it's a thing
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 03:41 AM
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I thought she meant crunchy peanut butter😅
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 03:39 AM
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Dang, 0/4. Guess it's a bad evening for me lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 03:36 AM
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What about this: allow unrestricted female immigration in the 18-30 age range. The women can choose to move to the US (so nobody's rights are harmed), and if enough do so you would flood the 'market' with supply. That likely sounded more dehumanizing than I meant, but it's just a classic idea out of economics. Might restore more equilibrium between the sexes? Just an idea I lifted off an earlier PPD comment some time ago
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 03:35 AM
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What's so special about Western society lol? Looks at the rates of depression, anxiety, and general unhappiness in America for example. The stats paint a picture of a deeply sick society -- so remind me again whats the upside of staying there unless you have to? Seems to me the smart play is making money in the West when you are young, and when 30+ and established in your career to move on out of the US to someplace that will make you happier
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 02:02 AM
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Seems like the smart thing to do lol. He is getting the success he wants, what's so special about Western women that he should turn down the success he is now having?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 01:52 AM
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That's a little unfair to guys, plenty of dudes have a solid concept of love which includes more than just physical attraction
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 01:48 AM
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Dude is cleaning up, seems very successful to me lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 01:40 AM
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Hell yeah 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 11:55 PM
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Wait, you're being serious? You DON'T like dogs!? I thought you were surely speaking in jest!!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 02:39 AM
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The real issue is that the wealthy pay a much lower tax rate than average income earners, and many profitable companies pay no taxes at all. Fairly tax those two, and issues like this can be addressed (and then some)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 02:53 AM
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Nothing a good diet and exercise cannot fix
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 01:58 AM
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I have never heard of a guy doing that lol, I wouldn't get overly concerned. I am sure it happens, but it's pretty rare I'd bet
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 01:58 AM
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I agree with them as well honestly. Best to move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 04:14 AM
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If possible, try and take a 15 minute nap every 2 hours. That made me feel moderately more human when I was pulling inhumane hours like that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 05:55 PM
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Oh! Umm.... I can't think of any actually 😅 Dunno if that is a bad thing (not self aware enough?) or a good thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 05:39 PM
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I don't think I am a degenerate 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 05:36 PM
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It actually works 😎. I'm not a Chad unfortunately, just an average somewhat nerdy white dude
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 05:04 PM
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The trips I take are usually 2 to 3 months long, so it's long enough to meet people in person, or match on the apps and meet at coffee shops or something near the hotel.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 04:52 PM
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Why would men make such a virus? Makes no sense. Certain fringe extremist parts of the feminist movement I could totally see being on board with an anti male virus.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 04:41 PM
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Could you pack some protein bars in your backpack instead?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 04:20 PM
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Making mistakes is human, it's how all of us learn. The important thing is learning from those mistakes and bouncing back. You got this 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 04:04 PM
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But.... Having friends IS normal?? Right? Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 04:00 PM
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I'm not quite a digital nomad, but I have had many, many overseas work trips over the years. I smashed there lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 03:54 PM
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It's not a thing lol, the vast majority of people shower. Those who don't you can't help regardless haha
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 03:19 PM
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100 or so? Not sure. I'm not really the casual sex kind of guy, but I've had some over the years lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 03:11 PM
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I could have gone with having a father growing up, but that wasn't for me to decide. Gotta play the cards you have as well as you can, that's really all you can do. Comparing the cards you have to others' cards really won't get you anywhere though
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 04:40 AM
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It's not the only way good sir. Besides, being single is MUCH better than being a betabuxx.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 04:30 AM
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So don't become one -- it's not something that can be forced on you. You have a say in it. If you see your relationship has developed into that dynamic, then talk away from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 04:25 AM
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I don't hate that women have freedom? Don't think most men are like that either.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 03:47 AM
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That's not a good sign lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 03:36 AM
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That sounds creepy AF not gonna lie hahahah. Nope that would be the massive downside you overlooked for someone you were really taken by!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 03:23 AM
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Except for that of course 😎 That's a super high bar tho
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 03:16 AM
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I'll pass, sorry. If that relationship went south, then I'd be left with a permanent, incurable problem to explain to every potential future partner. That just doesn't seem worth it to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 03:09 AM
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Hahaha that does sound like her!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 01:45 AM
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Glad to hear the physics is going well!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 12:18 AM
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I've...lost count 😅 In the US though I've never pulled from Tinder, maybe 5 or 6 from Bumble.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 12:15 AM
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Can I ask where you are meeting these old, homeless men?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 12:10 AM
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Good sex, likely not. Gotta qualify your original statement though -- you just said sex good sir. Sex is something any woman can get at a drop of a hat, as we all know
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 04:33 PM
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How is the sex part debatable!? That's just a fact lol. Take a random woman, have her walk into a crowd of guys, and have her ask if anyone wants to have sex with her. She will get takers. Try the same with a guy with a crowd of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 04:19 PM
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Yes, women are much more picky than men are. There's a wealth of evidence for that in scientific literature. What I was getting at is OLD is the worst case for a guy, so generalizing the worst case onto every other case felt intellectually dishonest to me. I wasn't trying to imply that in person is balanced, only that it is representative of the actual dynamics between men and women (not withstanding cities with lopsided male/female ratios)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 05:47 PM
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That would be true if there were a roughly equal number of guys and girls, but that's just not the case. The massive mismatch between the numbers of guys and girls means the girls present can be overly picky
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 05:20 PM
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There's just way too many guys on any OLD app -- that hypothetical guy would do a lot better in real life as opposed to the apps. That's why they're not very accurate representations of their potential SMV
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 05:19 PM
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Tinder isn't representative of the dating market as a whole, that's really not a fair experiment anyways. OLD in general is just a sausage fest.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 05:14 PM
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Would you even want to date a woman like that? I know I wouldn't want anything to do with her
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 05:13 PM
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Yup, same schedule as always
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 05:13 AM
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It was absolutely the right move
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 05:05 AM
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Lordy those are some very uncharitable assumptions!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 06:14 PM
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There are women like that in America (I've dated some even), but for me Filipinas just make much better partners. They are not perfect, and you definitely need to keep your eyes open for scams, but the overall quality of women in the Philippines (on average) is just way higher than America.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 05:12 PM
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Glad to hear it hasn't gotten quite that bad in the UK 🙂 To be fair I've never had a woman ask me to pay for her Uber on a first date in America tho, that might just be some small subset of extra toxic women lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 02:40 AM
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I've dated in both America and Western Europe, and I'd definitely agree American women are much more entitled than Western European women generally (British women reminded me a lot of American women tho)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 02:28 AM
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I've been there, what, six times now? Around 2-3 months per trip, so I've spent quite a bit of time there already. Definitely excited to be moving there though!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 02:23 AM
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Yes, things are that bad (at least in my experience). I'm moving to the Philippines in January 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 01:31 AM
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I'd do the same for my brother if he were in that boat. It's not about asking the women to do everything, it's about being a supportive sibling
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 10:59 PM
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Well, if he got as bad as some of the guys here, he could really use your help then to pull him out of that rut right? If nothing else you could always throw him on a plane to the Philippines, if he is white he'll do just fine lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 10:38 PM
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Absolutely
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 10:35 PM
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You'd disown your brothers just because they couldn't get laid?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 10:33 PM
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Marcus Aurelius, dude was a legit Philisopher-King and ruled the empire with great skill. Complete dog shit at picking an heir though!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 09:28 PM
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C. I love being treated exceptionally well 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 09:25 PM
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Why shouldn't women be allowed to provide sexual services for payment? As long as they are not coerced, why should the woman be barred from offering that?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 03:21 AM
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Such as? Assuming the women are not coerced, what's the issue?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 03:16 AM
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For me it depends on the woman -- if she is a traditional woman, I'm happy to pay. If she isn't, it's a split. If she has a problem with the split and she isn't traditional, then she's dropped. Easy. 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 09:39 PM
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? Discord hasn't been weird in my experience (I've not been on the ppd discord tho). Which servers were you in lol?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 12:56 AM
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As long as that makes you happy, have fun!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 11:59 PM
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Disney's many epic failures (see destruction of Star Wars, an iconic brand, as case in point) is because of incompetent management leading Disney, not because of millennials haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 11:54 PM
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Uhhh ... The great powers have nuclear weapons this time around, and China and Russia have large, pretty sophisticated biological weapons programs on top of that. This wouldn't 'just' be a conventional war if it occurred. Dating would be the last thing on anyone's mind!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 11:51 PM
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I don't hate sex workers? I wouldn't want to date one, but that doesn't mean I hate them lol. They're just people like everyone else, and should be treated with respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 04:55 AM
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You’re gonna be just fine 🙂 I’ve seen tooons of hot af women in their 30s, it’s definitely doable. Also guys aren’t gonna run away from you just cause you are 30 lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 05:40 PM
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Lol you are insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 05:10 PM
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What else could she have done? Wear a shirt with “IN A RELATIONSHIP” in backlit letters?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 05:04 PM
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Probably yeah lol, but who knows right. There might be a few attractive ones there for some strange reason
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 05:00 PM
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I suspect she’s not quite as conventionally attractive as she believes herself to be 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 04:56 PM
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Hunter gatherers lived much longer than 30-40, assuming you survived past 25 or so. The reason the 30-40 figure is around is because many children died very young, and because many young men died in warfare or hunting. Those deaths at a young age pull down the average, hence that figure. But if one of those didn’t get you, you had a strong chance of living into your 70s or so
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 04:49 PM
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Can you be more specific?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 04:32 PM
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What’s eating at you? Why want the off ramp?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 03:57 PM
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Oh damn, acting like a considerate human being. Rookie mistake, don’t worry there’s more fish in the sea /s lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 03:51 PM
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🤦‍♂️ I guessed 24. Some people truly never learn lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 05:40 AM
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You’re really on a bender today aren’t you lol?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 04:50 AM
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Western, most I met were in France/Italy/Spain/Portugal
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 02:14 AM
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I’ve met some American women in Europe who moved there for dating lol, so it happens
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 02:08 AM
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Okay, then I agree with what you’re saying. You were really giving off some ‘women are special snowflakes who would never hurt anyone’ vibes there lol, and… yeah that isn’t true.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 11:08 PM
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They are. From the research I have seen though, they are significantly less verbally abusive than women. Words can still be a manifestation of an aggressive intention. My point (backed up by research) is that women are as aggressive as men, they simply express that agression in a different way (usually verbally) than men do (more often physically)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 09:34 PM
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Link to studies?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 09:01 PM
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What’s going to change in 10 years?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 09:00 PM
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Men tend to be more physically violent, but women are more socially violent than men (ie, verbally abusive). Link: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/digital-world-real-world/202302/research-casts-doubt-on-male-centred-theories-of-aggression?amp I doubt women are less violent than women, they just express that agression in a different way.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 08:56 PM
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If you handled it the way he said, then that’s really on her at that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 08:51 PM
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That is true, but you aren’t reaching anyone just berating them either. You’re just yelling into the wind. They need some way of feeling they can make postive progress, not endless recriminations about how they’re not living up to their personal responsibilities. Admittedly I don’t know how to do that over a subreddit (ie, just text messages), but what I have seen work irl is someone taking them under their wing, then showing them how to become self reliant (but not in a grim way, like you must …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 08:45 PM
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Tons of guys want a LTR, just gotta find places to meet guys who are interested in that
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 11:58 PM
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Men refusing to settle? Why do you say that? What are these men you have in mind holding out for?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 10:47 PM
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That’s a great reason to engage in this sub, there’s plenty of… rather jaded guys in here. Most don’t appear open to outside advise, but I’m sure there are some who are. Best just to see how open a guy is, and if he seems like he cannot be reached, move onto someone who might be able to be reached 🙂 I can understand where those guys are coming from though, that was me when I was young. I grew outta that though (unfortunately I am still not a chad though haha, damn)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 06:34 AM
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I’ve been enjoying your posts on this thread, you come across as very genuine
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 06:18 AM
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https://us.mavi.com/cdn/shop/products/RPL-10728_21476-8876.jpg?v=1677238967&width=1206 Model from a random ad, but gives you the idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 04:45 AM
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Haha you are nuts! Good luck!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 03:22 AM
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… but it’s super dangerous, per your own statement lol. Why is the risk justified??
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 03:18 AM
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Skinny woman are my thing (I’m weird I guess haha). For me she’s a 4.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 03:15 AM
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Are you okay?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 03:12 AM
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Compared to a small city in Alabama them are lol. They’re major cities.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 12:27 AM
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For two introverts absolutely hahah
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 12:05 AM
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That’s pretty rare in America I think, at least as far as the major metros go on the West Coast. I’ve experienced it when dating in the US before in all fairness, but at least in my experience it isn’t the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 12:04 AM
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We’re talking like super metros right? Super = really large, American cities like LA, Seattle, New York, Austin, etc?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 12:00 AM
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What I was getting at is if a woman is struggling with dating, all she really has to do is JDBF and (admittedly) be patient. Sooner or later she’ll meet someone compatible. Most people aren’t compatible with most other people after all, so it makes sense most men wouldn’t accept just any woman
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 04:46 PM
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There’s alot of fat couples around by me lol, I can’t make a general comment on it. From what I know though its mainly the overweight dating eachother
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 04:46 AM
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Every healthy relationship includes sex, but you didn’t need to phrase it like that either! Jeez.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 04:26 AM
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Now that was just mean!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 03:58 AM
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Yeah, your average guy is not holding out for a super model hahah. Or a bangmaid! Please go outside more and take a look at the couples you see out there!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 03:57 AM
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The nagging will cease however! Guaranteed. Or stay single, problem remains solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 03:38 AM
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Or move to a different marketplace… 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 03:35 AM
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You should date an Asexual dude. Problem solved. 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 03:30 AM
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Just sex? What happened to also enjoying spending time with the woman outside of sex? You know, sharing interests and having fun talking?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 03:22 AM
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Yeah… men are not demanding 18 year old sex craving virgins lol. Common now.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 03:18 AM
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Oh, yeah, especially in the South that would make things harder (or at least that is what I have heard, I’ve never been there)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 03:18 AM
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They’re good looking. That IS valuable.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 03:16 AM
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In America? Likely never. Why does that surprise you, seeing as you just straight up insulted the women (saying she is low value)?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 03:14 AM
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… Only virgins are worthy of relationships?? I’m a dude, and even that sounds a bit much to me!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 03:13 AM
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Don’t get outside much do you?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 03:09 AM
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Are you in the US? Which city? That’s just very surprising to hear, around by me… it really is as simple as JDBF. Heck, being fat isn’t even a dealbreaker from the couples I’ve seen walking around lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 03:05 AM
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Journey doesn’t have to end you know 🙂, but I think I see what you’re getting at. Thanks for the perspective 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 04:51 AM
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I’m not trying to be purposefully dense here, I’m just not seeing why even going abroad with the primary intention of finding a partner is tasteless? If a guy feels he has a better shot of finding what he is looking for abroad, and he is honest about his intentions with the women he meets along the way, what’s the problem — and why is that tasteless?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 03:20 AM
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Could one not travel to a country, live there for awhile, meet someone, get married, then fly from that country (left undefined because different guys prefer different countries) to France and see the museums? You can be tasteful and date abroad then? Or is France just so amazing to you that the thought of anyone leaving is unthinkable lol? If so, what about France appeals so strongly to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 02:58 AM
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The French museum?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 02:52 AM
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That’s a fair take, there is a little too much Western women bashing in passport bro circles.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 02:42 AM
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Why is going abroad for romance tasteless to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 02:38 AM
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Holy shit, STEM has changed since I was a CS major 😒 We just nerded out and watched anime back then! Sure we weren’t studs but what did you expect of a late teen/early 20s nerdy CS group of guys? Most guys I knew dated fellow nerdy girls, and I tended to date theater majors lol. Sad its gotten that… hostile
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 05:24 PM
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Oh my bad
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 04:54 AM
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Just install a dating app? It’d be super easy for any girl to get laid on a dating app if they wished lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 02:07 AM
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It happens, the world is a big place and its hard to run across everyone lol. Sure, objectively ugly women do struggle a bit more than more attractive women, but them seem to do okay in my experience at least
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 10:40 PM
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It is unlikely that AI will be meaningfully curtailed, because China does not (and will not) curtail their own research. Putting restrictions on domestic research would in effect grant the lead on AI research to China. It’s gonna be a terrifying ride with AI lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 10:31 PM
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You don’t have to stay friends lol. Can just move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 10:18 PM
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Biggest drawback is the condoms have a higher failure rate than pills (they can break, slip off, or burst).
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 10:13 PM
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In America thats a solid 90% of women in my experience lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 10:08 PM
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What pain points are ugly women or plain janes experiencing, in your view?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 10:06 PM
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I’ve seen plenty of… unfortunate looking women in relationships. The guys weren’t exactly studs either, but still relationships were had
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 10:04 PM
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They’re called tech workers haha
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 10:00 PM
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I see my coworkers doing that all the time lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 09:59 PM
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Except for the dating model looking upper class guys (drop the model looks though and I’ve seen that!) I literally see everything you write all the time in my part of the US. Totally normal. Where are you from lol?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 09:58 PM
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Chrrrist, find a way to make money remotely and become a passport bro! Teach English or something man, but forcing yourself to become gay (when you aren’t) is not the answer!!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 04:26 AM
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I was thinking the same, but if standards inflate even more? Maybe the number of men who are viable in her eyes would be so small that her choices would be joining a chad harem, or being single. In the case she chooses being single… well, maybe then some would experiment with AI boyfriends? Just a thought
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 04:21 AM
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Speaking personally? No. I’ve met a couple guys who have a thing for ‘chubsters’ though
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 12:53 AM
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Lol, that’s true actually, but suuuuuper risky. I’d personally go slow, and carefully vet potential brides, but thats me 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 06:38 AM
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This is true, but you as a foreigner can always learn to acclimate to them. Over time they’ll become less and less foreign to you. At least I think you are referring to cultural traditions? That being said, a traditional Catholic sort of marriage is pretty homogenous throughout the broader Catholic world (which is what he is interested in). Yes, there are different cultural expectations per country, but they are nothing insurmountable either. Just takes patience and socializing to find someone 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 06:25 AM
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Maaaaybe try visiting a church in Peru or Ecudor lol. Attend one regularly, get to know people. Or just make local friends in general, and see if anyone knows a good traditional girl wanting a traditional marriage. If the chick is doing a line of coke though and you think SHE’D make a good mother, well, then god help you hahah. Obviously don’t go for those ones! 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 04:54 AM
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Well, yeah, some guys do go for the party girls there. Doesn’t mean you have to lol. Just go for the ones waiting for marriage 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 04:47 AM
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If a traditional woman is important to you, I’d honestly suggest looking in more traditional countries overseas. Some parts of South America and South East Asia would be filled with traditional women
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 04:29 AM
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Honestly, go with that lol. See if you get anything back which sounds humanish
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 11:35 PM
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Its a bot man
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 11:34 PM
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Which OLD? Also, no bio is usually a red flag man, could just be a fake account
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 11:31 PM
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America is 2043? Hmm… kinda like Japan on steroids? American dating dynamics seem to track Japan (not 100%, but somewhat close) with a lag. Only difference relative to Japan I can see is some guys in the top 1% maintaining overt harems by that point, but otherwise most women and men would be single, with the men either checked out, moved out (left the country) or engrossed with their AI girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 11:25 PM
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It is also possible to leave the US/West generally. Takes work yes, but it is possible. I am moving to the Philippines in January for example 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 10:07 PM
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That is not an accurate assessment of how life was for hunter gathers most of the time (excepting lean times, which occured from time to time). If that were accurate, humanity wouldn’t have survived
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 03:39 PM
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Yeah, I know. It wouldn’t quite be indistinguishable I wouldn’t think, you’d have to have some level of suspicion of disbelief (kinda like how movies work). I say that cause I don’t think eliminating the ‘hallucination’ issue is truly possible with large language models, but I do think it can be greatly minimized to the point that its not too distributing. As for a totally flawless imitation of a human? Well… climate change is likely gonna get us before thats ready, but I think before then there…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 06:05 AM
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Plenty do work hard, you just ignore them or haven’t met them. They exist though. Also no, guys (especially young guys) are not holding out for a porn star looking girl. Might want to meet more guys!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 05:56 AM
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It may not have a consciousness no, but it would seem like it does. Question is if that would be enough, which, for lonely enough people I suspect it would be
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 05:51 AM
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Reeeealy trying to argue 100% of ppd men believe that comment? Really? What’s your reasoning for that??
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 04:50 AM
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Lol, overgeneralizing aren’t ya?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 04:47 AM
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Yet fat, promiscuous older women all do just fine dating in the real world. They’re not pluses sure, but they also don’t mean its time to become a nun and give up on dating entirely lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 04:43 AM
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Open ended, and listen to the response. See if the person sounds like they are into it, and which parts of their reponse invoke the most emotion, and focus on those if they’re postive (or it feels right to do so)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 04:40 AM
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Omg haha, 100% is some next level jaded-ness!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 04:08 AM
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I’m mainly here because its entertaining, but every so often you come across things that are genuinely helpful. I’m always open to and appreciate helpful advise though, and I’m sure I’m not the only one like that on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 03:21 AM
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80%!? Where on Earth are you meeting men?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 02:58 AM
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Lmao that might get ya a smirk at least! If nothing else, it could give some priceless reactions, which is always valuable in its own right 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 02:56 AM
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I’ve been trying to improve on girl lingo for a little while now actually, but I definitely agree they focus on how their words will affect you emotionally, not in like a fact-based or problem solving way. I’ve been a practicing Buddhist for years though, which actually kinda helps in understanding what they are saying. I used to hide my meditation practice from women in America, mainly cause most seem to regard it as a feminine thing, but in retrospect that may have been a mistake because I ten…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 02:42 AM
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Ohh, okay, that makes sense. You’ve become much more competent, in a general sense of being competent at handling life (in its many facets). Nice man!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 02:17 AM
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Better socialization for boys (not sure how exactly, but they clearly need support building their social skills at a young age and especially in their teenage years), along with a cultural redefinition of what a man is. The old model of the provider is still strong (at least in America), but given present economic realities it is increasingly difficult for a man to substantially exceed his potential partner’s earnings (at least for the median guy). Also I think men providing more effective emoti…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 02:14 AM
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What changed?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 02:08 AM
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There absolutely will be, the question is will women really want to use them?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 01:13 AM
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All it would really have to do is ‘act’ in the right way. It wouldn’t really need to think of novel things to sat say, just regurgitate lovey sounding things (or whatever) at the right time based on how the user responds to what has been said. It hard, yeah, but its not as hard as making something geniuely human level. I’d say a decade or so is reasonable to expect an AI to be read that can do what my first paragraph describes
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 01:12 AM
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That’s a pretty narrow subset, most average guys get into relationships, but when it ends struggle to get another relationship. But with enough time, most do find that next relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 12:56 AM
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13,636?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 10:36 PM
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I think you are blowing this one out of proportion. Nobody really cares if you are a catlady or not. You seem to have a mistaken belief that its some massive, glaring issue to all of humanity that such a thing as catladies exist — the horror! When off the internet, and after touching some grass, you’ll see nobody cares. They have their own problems. You (or any other lady) preferring cats to men isn’t something anyone is giving any attention to whatsoever.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 10:21 PM
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First of all, you are overdramatizing it. Most people do not ridicule or pity cat ladies in real life. If the red pill communities are making you feel badly, just… leave them. Second: you don’t need to care what other think about your lifestyle. You are not harming anyone, and if you are genuinely happy living the single life, then great! Just ignore the naysayers and live life on your own terms. It is your life, after all, and it is far too short to allow others to dictate to you how you want t…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 10:07 PM
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Why do you need the permission of others to feel comfortable being a catlady?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 08:48 PM
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Small nit: US average income is skewed up by the extremely large incomes of the top 1%. Its a classic right skew, so the mathematical average is not a valid data point for ‘normal’ income. The median is much better for normal US income, thus if he makes 50k, he is indeed average (ie, normal)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 07:44 PM
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More likely the men would just leave, and join a different society. Most people desire love and companionship, and if in your hypothetical society that is not an option for most men, then why would they stay? I’m not saying women should be treated as a resource, but I am saying your hypothetical society has virtually no chance of surviving as well. If things really got to that point, it would be in the interest of all men and women that some sort of mutually beneficial compromise could be reache…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 07:19 PM
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I think the gymbros look being attractive is more of a cultural thing (in America especially) than a genetic thing. I think your typical Thai boxer look (thin, not gaut looking but with some defined muscle) is the more genetically appealing look, and that sort of body type is widely attractive across many cultures which confirms more of a genetic role in that body type. I’d imagine that is also more in line with how younger men looked in hunter gather societies
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 06:08 PM
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Around 70% of American women have well beyond 18% body fat lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 06:05 PM
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They also has active lifestyles (hunting/gathering/building stuff) and a very healthy diet (in general). The modern world is massively different than the world humans evolved to life in.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 06:01 PM
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I’m not optimistic about dating in the West in the slightest, it’ll become even worse in my estimation. But seeing as I am moving to the Philippines in January, I’m very optimistic about my future dating prospects!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 06:39 PM
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Wasn’t trying to convince you your life was terrible, but was pointing out you misunderstood just how impactful interest rates are. They affect you. That was my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 05:37 PM
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Saying female sexuality has been erased is… definitely a fringe belief I’d say 😅 Thats a new one to me, and I’d thought I heard just about everything at this point!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 07:55 PM
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As in, the idea that female sexuality has been erased (in America) is waaay out of my experience America. If anything, my experience has been the opposite — that men’s sexuality is looked down upon as ‘gross’, and that men should try to be more like women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 07:54 PM
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Maybe she’s had sole trauma in the past, and the walls of distrust are how she deals with that?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 07:27 PM
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… very often? I think you’re in some interesting echo chambers if that isn’t the case? Or maybe I’m just in unusually liberal social circles haha?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 07:26 PM
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I didn’t marry one, but 2 of my buddies did! They’re been married going on 8 years now (they got married right around the same time as eachother). At that time, I wasn’t quite into… long term anything😂 I also converted my then existing Japanese job to work from Asia position, and got my first experiences dating in Southeast Asia. Since then, Southeast Asia has always been my personal favorite, and the Philippines to this day remains my favorite place to date (moving there in January/February, de…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 05:59 AM
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My experience with Japan mainly stems from Tokyo, so I’m not too sure about life outside of the city. I didn’t personally notice the Gaijin treatment applied to me or my friends there, but I’ve definitely heard stories lol. It is true though that there’s always some ‘distance’ (for lack of a better word) between you and the locals, though. Dating was significantly easier than in major metros on the West Coast, at least for me, so that was sweeet 😁. Then again me and my friends were… mostly fluen…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 05:52 AM
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Women in different cultures have different preferences. For example, your average nerdy tech guy actually does surprisingly well in Japan (he has a high income, and is seem as cute and responsible). Japan isn’t exactly poor too! But that same nerdy tech worker usually struggles in the states. The preferences of American women are not globalized in other words 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 05:37 AM
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What if the guy goes to a developed country, or dates a well off (financially independent) woman in the developing world (there are plenty of those too lol, they’re not all living in mud huts!)?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 05:30 AM
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Do you have a job? Interest rates strongly affect business sentiment to invest — high rates discourage investment, and can encourage companies to cut jobs as well. Interest rates affect far more than just that too — they affect almost everything in the economy one way or another. Even if you have your home paid off, interest rates still have a massive impact on you — unless you are totally self sufficient (like farmer in the hills, not FIRE style independent)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 05:26 AM
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Wha? How is female sexuality erased in the West!?!?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 05:22 AM
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What’s wrong with dating women in different countries (=passport bro)?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 05:21 AM
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Just got back from a work trip to the Philippines, seeing couples with a truly massive age gap is as simple as going to the local SM mall 😅 It’s a very common sight
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 05:03 AM
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It’s not all about the looks sure, but looks are certainly one of the biggest factors?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 04:53 AM
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… and 70% of women in America are overweight. So its not surprising most women do in fact look like her, but that doesn’t change this fact either: that’s a bad thing yo!!! Being overweight carries an entire mountain range of health risks and problems. So even leaving to one side anything about attraction, its a💯bad thing for her to be as fat as she is! Also I didn’t tear apart her appearance, I dispassionatly stated a obvious fact: she is fat. This is just reality
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 04:42 AM
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💯
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 04:28 AM
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I question your powers of observation 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 04:00 AM
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She is fat? That’s just an honest observation. Idk as I’d describe her as obese, that’s a bit much, but fat is just the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 03:45 AM
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Obviously women lol — at this point, isn’t that just common knowledge?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 10:34 PM
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Yeah, places like Ukraine or Russia (course, now there are other issues there 😅) I’m just basing that on what I’ve heard from others tho
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 04:47 AM
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Or move to a different country in your 30s 😁 — waaay better than school ever was!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 02:46 AM
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That’s more of an American woman thing (maybe Eastern European too from what I’ve heard). In the rest of the world, being a toxic ass won’t get ya far (from my observations being outside America). American women in general (and there are of course exceptions) do strongly prefer narcissistic assholes though. Never understood why, but to each their own rigjt?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 02:25 AM
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One guy a day wouldn’t matter!? Christ hahahah. Thats just gross! Talk about a quest to acquire every STD known to man!!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 06:44 AM
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I thought everyone did this?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 11:03 AM
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Night here!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 12:15 PM
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Why are you presuming foreign women are only looking for a green card?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 10:41 AM
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Of course, its just the more developed parts make it impossible to make that tired old argument (about them being poor)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 09:33 AM
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Meant to say ‘fantastic’ but I prefer ‘fanatic’ after re-reading it 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 02:18 PM
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So only the exalted women of the west are datable for western men? Thou shalt not date a foreign woman? Talk about cringe!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 02:08 PM
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They’re considered distinct and separate regions (east asia and southeast asia). Can’t imagine what the harm would be for a weatern dude to date in Taiwan/Japan/etc. They have their own money there, so I cannot fathom your aversion to guys passporting there
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 01:51 PM
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East Asia? Did you mean Southeast Asia? Easi Asia is rich and developed (thats places like Japan or South Korea)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 01:45 PM
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Sounds like a fanatic conversation to me 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 01:42 PM
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That makes sense, but as the name states… it is a fallacy. I have no doubt it would be extremely hard to walk away from a marriage (especially one you had been in for a long time), but if you have a chronic and incurable case of the dead bedroom, that tells me the relationship is dead already. All that is left to do is formalize the reality of that dead relationship by dissolving it, not to try to cling desperately to the corpse of dead relationship. Thats just me tho!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 02:22 PM
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Like I get it its not easy, but isn’t it for everyone’s long term benefit?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 11:20 AM
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I get that, especially with kids involved. But if you are in a miserable relationship like that, isn’t that unhappiness going to rub off on the kids too? Wouldn’t it be better for everyone if a divorce happened, and both parents are free to pursue happier relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 06:53 AM
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Yeah I’ve never really understood the deadbedroom crew. I get it is hard, but life is way too short to be stuck in a subpar relationship like that. I’d try everything I could to fix things first, but if nothing was working, I’d absolutely divorce or dump her.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 06:47 AM
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Right!? Most tone deaf comment of all time. Jeez
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 11:22 PM
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Social circles are definitely helpful, but most dudes have one (at least to a limited degree?)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 11:19 PM
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Which part of the west is this lol? Women like that are rare, at least in major American metros on the West Coast
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 04:14 AM
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Oh, yikes haha. Welcome to tech haha! I hope you enjoy leetcode (and if not, neetcode is always there for a more condensed overview of what to know)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 03:56 AM
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Awesome man! If you’re getting internships you should be good 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 03:46 AM
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Yikes, my condolences good sir haha. Rough time to be an entry level dude now I’d think!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 03:40 AM
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Software engineer @ bigco
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 03:37 AM
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I’ve seen tons of dudes happy as can be with their plain jane girlfriends, gonna have to call BS on this one!!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 05:41 AM
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Comon now, most guys aren’t like that. Most guys learn pretty quick where they fall in the SMV pecking order
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 05:31 AM
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I’d recommend getting outside more and seeing the women most guys actually pick lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 10:54 PM
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Yup, it’s gonna get more and more unstable no doubt about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 09:53 PM
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Lol men don’t exclusively want instagram model lookalikes lol, that’d be a ridiculous standard for most guys unless he is 10/10 himself!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 09:51 PM
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Absolutely would!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 07:55 AM
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Personally I’m a software engineer, and I’m looking to move to the Philippines early next year via a remote from Asia position. Maybe you can find a remote gig that allows you to live outside the US as well?
/r/AllPillDebate14/08/23 07:34 AM
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What if she is a raging bitch?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 03:45 AM
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No, they should become passport bros and move to better dating markets.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 07:28 PM
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Oh yeah that gaslighting is soooo annoying, like we all know standards are in the stratosphere stop lying about it already!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 07:24 PM
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Jeez, what a delusional chick haha. She’s gonna be single for life no doubt! Glad I’m moving to the Philippines soon, I won’t miss dating in America for a single second hahah.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 07:22 PM
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All that would happen is manhattan project 2.0: recreate all the porn ASAP!!! Haha 😅 More seriously, you’d just have alot more frustrated dudes hitting up women who wouldn’t be interested. I don’t think thats a win for anyone really (or maybe the great passport exodus haha)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 03:15 AM
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That really happens to you??? Dang, whenever I’m in a relationship I never think about porn even lol. That’s just bizarre to me
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 03:10 AM
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Guys in relationships watch porn lol? Whenever I’m in a relationship I don’t, I thought that was normal!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 03:08 AM
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Good sir: you should really just spare your keyboard and become a passport bro already 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 06:20 AM
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I’m a senior software engineer at one of the big tech companies, and I really don’t mind what she does for work at long as I like her a person. I wouldn’t mind if she worked for McDonalds lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 11:01 PM
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Thanks man, you too!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 06:38 PM
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This is just anecdotal and therefore not the most useful, but I’ve seen plenty of short dudes do well dating in America. It seems harder for them yeah, but totally doable. As for me, I’m moving to the Philippines early next year lol. I’ll do just fine dating there 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 06:28 PM
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Ah okay, now I see where you’re coming from. All I’d say is you don’t have to date poor people there — when I’m in the Philippines I usually date women in the middle class (or upper middle class, doctors or lawyers). That helps avoid situations like you are describing. Then again I’m also looking to permanently relocate to the Philippines (via remote work, and I can FIRE there right now anyway), so the prospect of a visa wouldn’t be in their future anyway, which should also guard aganist what yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 06:26 PM
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In the Middle East I can see that argument, but throughout Latin America or Asia women are able to find their own jobs and support themselves without a guy. It’s not like the women there are all desperately poor and hoping for a man to save them lol. They may not be vacationing to Paris during the summer, but they’re not exposed to the elements and barely scrapping by either. They’re doing just fine. Are there extremely poor people in these countries? Yes. But they’re not the majority by a long …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 06:04 PM
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For a variety of reasons, most unique to the dude. But in general, your SMV increases when you are abroad, so you can get a higher quality match abroad than you could in the US. If you’re looking for a more traditional feminine woman (with a healthy BMI) who isn’t narcissistic… that’s incredibly hard to find in the US. But overseas, not too difficult to find. So it can also be a mismatch — the man’s local dating market simply has very few of the kind of women he is looking for, whereas overseas …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 05:46 PM
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I’d much rather put in the work to become a passport bro rather than use a AI girlfriend 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 05:22 PM
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The general advise given to passport bros is to not lead with money lol. I’m sure some dudes have done that (and it likely ended horribly lol), but most dudes never mention money to the women and don’t shower her in gifts or anything. They’re seeking out real relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 05:20 PM
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They seek out relationships with foreign women. I’ve yet to hear one talking about showing said woman and her family with gifts lol!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 05:17 PM
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Then sounds like she’s on the path back to Jabba then 😟
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 04:59 AM
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Oh that’s awesome! I’m glad she did, she was clearly asking for huge health problems with her pervious weight
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 04:52 AM
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Looks like walmart! ‘Murica!!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 04:43 AM
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Lordy!! She’ll bigger than a 737!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 04:38 AM
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That sir is Jabba the hutt 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 04:36 AM
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If I had to choose then the fit 50 yr olds, I didn’t find the chubby women attractive. More realistically I say neither tho 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 04:32 AM
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Yup, making friends like that helps a ton! I was kinda baiting you before — you’re hyper focusing on height good sir. I know why I struggle in America, I have high functioning autism 🙂 If I wear my ‘mask’ I do well, if I don’t… I do alot less well haha. My point here is you need to have the whole package, not just being tall!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 02:59 AM
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Cute classmates?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 02:54 AM
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I go to crossfit, I may not be a body builder but I have muscles. I may have bad posture though, I am a software engineer with a bad habit to use laptops 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 02:53 AM
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That was an excellent take, it really jived with my experience in America.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 02:51 AM
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I’m a 6’2 dude, I don’t slay in America. Make it make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 02:48 AM
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I’d be a little concerned if the E was pure and not cut with anything dangerous, but if others hadn’t died after 24 hours hahha, I’d be down! I also have not faintest idea where I’d go to participate in this 😔? I am but a humble nerd.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 02:41 AM
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Why is going back to school heartbreaking for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 02:39 AM
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I wouldn’t really regard that as a transaction, rather as women do expect their guys to be financially stable. Usually transactional to me implies an exchange of money for a service, so I could also be looking at the word too narrowly. As for it being better — you just tend to get many more options (including higher quality ones) than you would in your home country. Sounds pretty good to me! 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 01:14 AM
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It’s not quite fair to generalize from that one example and declare every relationship between a expat and a local woman a transactional one. For example, not every passport bro is old you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 12:30 AM
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Right? Imagine how easy it would be to slip!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 12:01 AM
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Um… don’t you want to be fucked for you? Not cause you have a mask on?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 11:59 PM
5

Haha it definitely is starting to feel that way! I’m a little new to this forum 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 11:43 PM
2

I don’t recommend it in general, but it sure seems like it is better than constructing an entire artificial personality for the sole purpose of acquiring sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 11:39 PM
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Why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 11:21 PM
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Dating in America is just… not a fun or rewarding experience in America for the most part. Whereas dating overseas is (usually) great! I’m a white dude, and I’m planning on moving to the Philippines early next year 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 11:15 PM
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💯
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 11:10 PM
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Where did you get this notion that expats are just buying attraction from lol?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 11:07 PM
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💯
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 10:55 PM
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I’m planning on moving to the Philippines early next year! It’s definitely a real thing, though it isn’t quite the most common thing to do 🙂 I wouldn’t say I’ve felt targeted there per se in the past, but there are scammers there though so you do have to keep both eyes open when dating haha
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 10:52 PM
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Plenty of expats live abroad via remote from anywhere jobs, or by being contractors for local businesses too 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 10:41 PM
3

Which part of Latin America? Just curious
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 10:40 PM
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That’s a bit… pessimistic. Every foriegn woman isn’t just settling for you
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 10:39 PM
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I mean, on the one hand you are right that money does tend to be valued more highly in Latin America or Asia generally, but on the other you can definitely find a women in those locations who loves you for you as well. You gotta take your time though and not rush into things though (that’s the leading cause of relationship disasters I’ve seen abroad)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 10:37 PM
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Well… um, yeah hahhaha. Now if the goal is finding a partner, then the goal posts shift a little 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 10:16 PM
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Can confirm works great! Only caveat is you want to filter for groups which have (mostly) the same people showing up consistently, otherwise it can be hard to build relationships that stick (at least for me)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 09:48 PM
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OP needs to go outside more.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 06:00 PM
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Personally I don’t think money is much of a boast dating wise, as long as you have enough to contribute something to the relationship. If it were really significant my coworkers who struggle in dating would never have an issue (I work at a big tech company, and all of us are well above average income)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 05:47 PM
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Yeah in the US I agree with this. America is a tough dating market to be a guy in.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 04:50 PM
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Internationally yeah that’s definitely doable, the US dating market though is much more competitive for men. You’d have to be top 20% to pull that age gap off in the US (or just get really lucky)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 04:50 PM
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I’ve also never heard of a man specifically looking for a virgin to marry
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 04:43 PM
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It happens, sure, but I can’t for the life of me see this being a widespread thing. Guys who love their older wives aren’t going to drop her if a 25 yr old came knocking — sure a small minority may, but certainly not the majority?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 08:05 PM
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I mean, unless you put in a ton of work being autistic alone will get you turned down by like 100% of women haha. Doesn’t really get more dire than that? Being short sucks don’t get me wrong, I just get the sense short guys think of it as the worst possible thing. Its not haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 08:01 PM
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💯
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 07:31 PM
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Yeah all men do not act like that. I’d suggest you meet more men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 07:30 PM
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Tall men can have autism too 😔 Though I have learned to mask my autism pretty well, so do pretty well for an autistic dude in the states. I’m 6’2, not sure how much that really helps tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 07:10 PM
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You really need to go to the Philippines good sir 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 07:07 PM
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Exactly!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 05:30 PM
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Totally agree, that’s why I spent a ton of time learning how to mask my symptoms well 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 04:58 PM
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That’s fair, most do tend to stay on their socioeconomic strata that is true, but people definitely do date outside of their strata is all I was getting at. Most of my work colleagues are either married to their HS/college sweethearts (and quite often here there is a large gap between what he earns and what she earns) or married to someone of a roughly similar socioeconomic strata, though usually the woman makes less. There are totally dudes who are married to government administrators, or nurse…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 04:55 PM
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I’m a senior engineer at a big tech company lol, and if I really liked the hairdresser or retail worker I’d totally date her seriously! Maybe I’m an exception? I know plenty of other coworkers who would do the same?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 04:34 PM
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Yup, that can go for both genders! Dealing with a jaded person ain’t worth it, definitely made the right call rejecting them 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 04:28 PM
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Ohh okay, I read that wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 04:25 PM
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Sure, men tend to value looks more than women, I think we can all agree on that. I think we can agree as well men would try to date up in looks if they have other qualities (such as status, great social skills, etc) that women value as well. But where is the controversy on these points?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 03:35 PM
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Hold up — are you suggesting most women don’t get selected on OLD?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 03:25 PM
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Oh it’s possible. Drop an attractive white guy in the Philippines, and watch the role reversal happen. He’d become the selector, not the women haha
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 03:23 PM
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Sure men may visually find a 21 year old the hottest, but you do realize that if a man wants to date a woman seriously, he is going to be interested in her maturity level and her personality? There’s a reason I usually date women 25+, and its not the looks (the 18-21 yr olds have better looks). Its also not like I am some special snowflake of a guy, literally every guy I’ve ever known looks at a woman’s personality as well if he wants to consider her as a serious girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 03:22 PM
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You’re not seriously claiming men only date 18-21 year olds right? Have you been outside outside, ever?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 03:18 PM
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Yes, they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 03:16 PM
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Sure, men care about looks alot, but if they genuinely like their current girl they’re not just going to dump her the second a hotter women looks at them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 03:14 PM
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PPD comments are not stats. Women are valued for much more than their ability to have kids and their youth. I mean have you ever talked to a married guy who genuinely loves his wife? Just get him talking sbout her and watch his eyes light up talking about her AS A PERSON!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 03:12 PM
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That seems rather pessimistic. Why are you past the point of no return?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 05:59 AM
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… yeah, I’ll just excuse myself from this particular thread
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 05:30 AM
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To be fair they are rather resistant to putting in work I will give you that. They operate under the view that they should already be good enough as they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 05:24 AM
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Lmao. How’d you manage jump to human trafficking from what I said!?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 05:21 AM
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No one asked you to clap, but you are being unfair to that dude and infantilizing his wife. You don’t know them, you don’t know the dynamic between them. They could be very happy — both of them. You just started making assumptions because he is 11 years older. She was 30, she was fully capable of making adult decisions. Also, when he is in his 70s she will be in her 60s. She won’t be a spring chicken either.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 05:20 AM
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Again, 24 is about the youngest I have heard. 30s is much more common. Well… I’m not sure me speaking about it will have any measurable impact on normalizing anything? Its pretty normal in the Philippines already as well, so.. thats just the status quo at this point
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 05:02 AM
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Haha no you phrased it great!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 04:58 AM
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So attractive dudes have options, what a shock.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 04:57 AM
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I work in a big tech company with loads of white dudes, their standards are not high! If anything many are endlessly simping hahah (poor dudes, I hope they grow out of that pit)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 04:43 AM
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White guys are tedious and selective when responding? When did that start happening (and why was I left off this memo! I’m white!)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 04:36 AM
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Its not that I dismiss my fellow elderly people (30+ 😅), I’m just much more cautious with considering them. Usually women 30+ have had bad experiences, are very picky, are newly minted ‘virgins’, or otherwise are just old like me and more into a ‘boring stable’ relationship — and I’d still want there to be SOME fun in the relationship yo. 35 specifically though? Idk man, I’m pretty reluctant to date someone older than me. But if me and her really clicked and I found her attractive? Sure, I’d be …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 01:55 AM
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I’m 32, and most often I look for women in the 25-30 age range. I’d personally be open to a women as young as 22 if she was mature for a LTR, but that’s about as low as I would personally go. I figure that 22 is about when a woman would have graduated from college, which seems like a fair demarcation point. For hookups though 18+ 😎 — as long as you and the woman are both down and cool with something casual what’s the harm?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 01:35 AM
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🤣 There’s some truth there no doubt, but something about the phrasing gave me a chuckle!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 01:22 AM
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She was 30. Calm down there he wasn’t raiding the nursery or camping in front of the High School. She was a fully grown adult woman who is able to make her own decisions.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 01:18 AM
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I’d push back on men always being willing to drop their current partner if a younger hotter one came around. That implies men ONLY value women for their looks, which I call BS on. Do you have any stats to support that claim?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 01:13 AM
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To be fair, I usually go for women 25 and up, 22 is just my bare minimum. You are correct though there are plenty of single moms in the Philippines though, even though the college attendance and finish rates are quite high. The issue there is birth control is stigmatized, so most women just don’t use it. Pair that with a lack of sexual ed, and alot of young women get pregnant when they are young and the young guys usually bolt. It’s sad really 😞
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 12:37 AM
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Lol, I’m not arguing you should applaud them. I’m just reporting what I have seen, and that is not quite as bad as people make it out to be from an age perspective. The most common age for older retirees’ girlfriend remains in her 30s, so sure, thats an age gap, but even older than 24 too. 24 is about the minimum I have seen is what I am trying to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 12:12 AM
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You’re not wrong, that does happen. But I think its a bit harsh to claim they are all openly transactional, I haven’t found that to be the case either. Some are, some aren’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 12:02 AM
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Definitely this
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 11:18 PM
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Seems like more of an American thing tbh. Most women I’ve met in their 20s (especially mid 20s) in the Philippines were looking for someone mature, responsible, and financially stable to start a family with. A dude in his 30s would be a good match for that set of desires.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 11:09 PM
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18 is a… bit young, no complaints from me! They’re not all desperate there though (some are though that is true), its more that age just isn’t a big deal to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 10:37 PM
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I’ve found that if both partners in a relationship are committed to living a healthy life and support eachother to ‘stay on the path,’ more often than not both the guy and girl stick with it. I’d definitely recommend passporting though man, I’ve been very happy with dating overseas (and just foreign cultures in general too)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 10:32 PM
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What if she was working out and eating well that whole time? I’ve seen plenty of gorgeous 35 year olds who did that. You could filter for women with healthy lifestyles?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 10:22 PM
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Yeah exactly. Hooking up I can understand, a serious relationship though… I am genuinely confused by that. At least 22 seems fair to me, they could have graduated college by then.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 10:20 PM
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Genuinely curious: what’s wrong with dating a 25 year old woman? Why do you feel you would regret that relationship when she is 35?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 10:16 PM
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Well okay then, to each their own
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 10:14 PM
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I’m just saying age gap relationships are very common in the Philippines, so assuming he does get his shit together and remains heart set on dating a woman that young (still confused on the appeal of a serious relationship with a woman that young tbh), well, that’s something he can make a reality there. Plenty of 18 or 19 year olds would look at a guy in his 30s as a viable option for them as a dating partner in the Philippines is my point. Different culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 10:13 PM
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Have you really been in that position? Having an 18 or 19 year old woman who is serious about wanting to pursue you for a serious relationship as a 30+ dude? I have, and honestly.. ‘ick’ is the best word I can think of to describe how I felt.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 10:09 PM
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I mean, if he just wanted to hookup with an 18 year old and she was down? I don’t see the harm there. I dunno about dating her seriously though haha
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 10:05 PM
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Yes, that is how aging works lol. What did you mean by this???
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 10:01 PM
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I mean, if you’d like an age gap relationship, go to the Philippines! I’m not really sure why you’d want to pursue a serious relationship with a woman who is 18/19, but if you are heartset on it, you can absolutely find 18 or 19 year old who would be down for that. Personally my minimum age for a serious relationship would be 22 (at least she graduated college), and even then I’d be keeping my eyes open for signs she is mature for her age. But if you’d just like to hookup with younger women of t…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 09:58 PM
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Whooopsie haha, I mistyped. I meant to say: he felt the women always wanted HIM to buy the women something 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 09:55 PM
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I mean, I can understand a 22 year old for a 30 year old dude (if she is mature for her age), but 18.. she may have not even finished high school. Thats a pretty big maturity gap and lived experience gap there? If you’re just hooking up, okay, no problem as long as everyone is down with that. But a meaningful relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 09:34 PM
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Agree, it’s best for that dude to look for a younger 20s woman in that case. It would be hard for that guy to keep up with a woman in her 30s (or to even meet her expectations)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 09:31 PM
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Yeah the handbag comment was a social circle thing I think, but he did complain alot about American women ‘being all about things (meaning, material stuff)’ Another thing he said was he felt American women always seemed to want him to buy them something. He was a college guy, and young, and its just one dude I know. But I figured there was some value in relating to you the lived experience of a Filipino guy who was born and raised there and came here for college, if only to slighly broaden your …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 09:22 PM
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I don’t live there yet (planning on moving there early next year), but I have been on a number of longer trips there (longest was 6 months). Sure, there are sex tourists who visit the Philippines I won’t dispute that, but I’ve not personally hanged around in those crowds so truthfully cannot say which age of women they prefer. Most non sex tourist expats (you know, regular dudes who moved there) tend to date in the 24/25-33 age range, but most of those dudes are older retired folks. Actually, a …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 09:17 PM
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Idk man, I’ve had that opportunity many times in my 30s (in the Philippines)… its different when it is happening to you IRL than just thinking about it abstractly. They’re just SO YOUNG and immature. Its just kinda icky somehow
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 08:50 PM
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I’ve spent quite a bit of time in the Philippines (where age gap relationships are common), and am planning on moving there early next year. I’m also 32, and personally I tend to date women in the 22-28 age range. While I get attention from 18/19 year olds that’s just… a little young for me 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 08:48 PM
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Filipino women are not perfect, I am well aware of that. But I’d stand by what I said before, it is pretty accurate on average. I’ve been back and forth to the Philippines many times, and my best friend (guy I met when we we were both in middle school) is Filipino himself, and over the years I’ve been adopted into his family, in a manner of speaking. So I also know quite a few Filipino guys as well, snd they’ve said much the same thing. Hahha one of his cousins came over to the US to go to colle…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 08:39 PM
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Doesn’t that depend on the woman? They all looked to be having a blast to me, I’d say they were winning! I also have no clue if the guys were hookup guys or their actual boyfriends. I didn’t know those women, I’m just reporting what I have observed in my day to day experiences when I was abroad
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 07:26 PM
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No, a specialized one. Not in the sense of being better, just highly adapted to a specific niche
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 05:37 PM
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Autistic people in general also tend to be very innovative, and in their narrow fields of interest (savant style of autistic people) can substantially exceed NT performance in that area. They also just look at the world in a very different way than NT people do, which in itself allows them different perspectives. So my pet theory for the continued existence of autism in the gene pool is that, in small numbers autisic people are just useful. Again, don’t want a whole platoon of them haha, but a h…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 05:15 PM
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I understand women on the spectrum have their own struggles as well, and I don’t feel I am misogynistic. But at the same time, I honestly think what I said before is fair and accurate. Women really are more sensitive to social skills in a partner than men are (not that men are not sensitive at all, only that they tend to be less sensitive than women).
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 04:59 PM
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I thought you would say that. That’s how I felt when I was younger too. Honestly, if you can arrange it somehow, I’d spend a year in SEA and just date around. Trust me, you’ll learn more about social skills and dating in that year than you would back home haha. The Philippines is an awesome place to start, just be up front that you are looking for something casual and not serious (many are looking to marry there, don’t string them along) After that you can see how you feel — if you like Asia, fi…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 08:43 AM
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They are fairly common throughout Asia really, even in the developed parts (though less common there). I’d be curious to see stats on satisfaction with large age gaps from there, I might give that a Google
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 07:49 AM
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Well… I have seen toooons of old dudes married to young women in the Philippines. We’re talking, like, 22 year old women and 70 year old dudes haha. To be honest most looked fairly happy at a distance?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 07:45 AM
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Admittedly I don’t have female friends who are the party sort, I only have the chsd guys perspective on the matter and the experience of my friends (regular average dudes) who did try to date ex party girls to go on. I personally have been… well rejecting ex party types to be honest (Honestly I have not the faintest why I started getting interest from ex party type of women haha, all I’ve been able to think of is they’re looking for a provider now?)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 06:39 AM
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Can I ask why passport broing is a last resort for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 03:06 AM
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This is also very true.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 03:02 AM
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Finding a healthy BMI woman, who isn’t materialistic, has traditional family values, is hospitable and down to earth and doesn’t have a narcissistic attitude and isn’t entitled is… not easy to find in America. That woman is also your average Filipina haha. I can definitely appreciate where the other poster is coming from when he mentions ‘higher quality women’ — I honestly think he is right. He seems a touch jaded yes, but… there honestly is a quality difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 02:59 AM
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I could just be getting the terms ‘expat’ and ‘passport bro’ conflated (they seem to merge together alot on this forum), but I have met tons of guys who did exactly that — they went from the US to the UK/Western Europe/developed parts of Asia (Japan, S. Korea, etc). They all seemed happy with their dating results as well (I didn’t get the sense they struggled to date in America though, only that they weren’t finding the kind of woman they desired for various reasons)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 12:06 AM
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I mean, I don’t have any ill will against western women. I don’t think they are bad people who lack morals or values or anything like that. It’s just easier to get into a relationship with a quality woman overseas than it is in America, because standards tend to be lower overseas and you as a guy get a SMV increase by virtue of being a foreigner in general. Said differently, passporting lets you shoot out of your domestic league, so to speak. I don’t think its only about sexual access though for…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 12:01 AM
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You can have both, in that you can get a remote job paying US rates while living abroad. It can take some work to get yourself into a position to do that, but it is doable.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 11:41 PM
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I really have seen both of those happen to guys I know who have attempted to date ex party girls, not saying they are guaranteed outcomes either, only saying that it can happen. Personally I’d choose to date other kinds of women, though other kinds of women could do both of those things as well
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 10:10 PM
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Early to mid 30s lol, and they’re very successful with women as well!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 10:05 PM
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This is all anecdotal of course, but it was the chads I’ve befriended irl who warned me not to go with the reformed party girls lol. Their reasoning was that those kinds of girls will just endlessly compare you to every guy they were with in the past, and will never be satisfied as a result. They also argued that reformed party girls tend to not put any effort into relationships— if anything is going a bit badly, they won’t try to help fix things, they’ll just bouce to the next guy. From what I’…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 09:55 PM
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Personally I wouldn’t go for a reformed party girl either, and I’ve rejected plenty of women like that over the years. I think more men would consider a reformed party girl to be a settlement then you might think
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 09:40 PM
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Well, I am 32. I’d say dating in America for me still isn’t very easy though (for understandable reasons), but the biggest change I’ve noticed is the amount of women obviously looking for a provider coming my way now. I’ve bounced around all the FAANGs for the best part of a decade now (once you intuitively understood leetcode and system design its easy), and I’ve always been a saver, so I can understand why I basically have ‘provider’ stapled on my forehead hahah. I filter those women out thoug…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 06:08 PM
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Could you explain why gender or race matters to the power structure? I’m genuinely not seeing how they do. Still looks like a clesr case of oligarchy to me. If anything the patriarchy argument seems to me to be an intentional deflection by the oligarchs on society. Why have people angry at the true oppressors (the rich), when you can manipulate them to get angry at eachother for different reasons? You see that strategy all the time — Republicans va Democrats for example? Despite their much publi…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 04:54 PM
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I did actually! I was playing one sport or another from middle school until I finished college. I just never had that father figure sense from any of the coaches though— guess I was unlucky there
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 04:46 PM
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That is fair, they do have the comeback kid reputation. But who can say no to ultra intelligent AI Waifus!?!?!? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 07:50 AM
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It makes dating a touch more difficult! Haha, its not impossible though, it takes a ton of work to learn all the social skills everyone else just absorbs like a sponge but you can get decent socially at least with time. Becoming a passport bro rather than trying to date in the West also helps a ton!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 07:01 AM
1

Oh I definitely agree with that — I’m actually new to social media at a relatively geriatric age of 32! I’ve never used any of the other ones, they just never appealed to me and I didn’t like the privacy aspect (or lack thereof)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 06:23 AM
3

Just speaking personally I would have liked to have had a father figure when I was growing up — the best substitute I found was in books, which is absolutely less than ideal!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 06:07 AM
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Thats… an excellent list haha. Looking back on myself growing up and as a young adult, I really would have benefited from everything you listed be available to me! Last 3 point’s don’t quite apply to me but the rest were spot on
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 05:55 AM
1

Yup, no doubt about that!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 05:52 AM
4

Likely more haha
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 05:51 AM
4

Some dudes with autism aren’t exactly the… best dudes 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 05:50 AM
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They’re better able to mask their symptoms as compared to ND men, and men tend to be more forgiving of women making social mistakes than women are of men making those same mistakes
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 05:48 AM
2

Thats a fair distinction, and I admittedly have no clue how successful Western women are at getting commitment from these foreign guys. I was just pointing out that there are plenty western women out and about overseas
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 05:34 AM
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Lol yeah probably
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 05:24 AM
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Most ND women tend to prefer NT men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 05:23 AM
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They are, but my argument is that their gender is incidental. It wouldn’t matter to the existing power structure if their gender was female for example— they would be able to wield power and influence on an equal footing with the men. My point is that, in this system, gender doesn’t matter. Wealth does. Hence, it is oligarchic, not patriarchal.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 05:18 AM
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I dunno as the gender of the congressional members and the President really matter all the much in the US. The US is not really run by them anyway — the members of Congress and the President exist as a legitimitzing facade for the actual rulers, who are the rich. The rich on the other hand don’t seem to particularly care about gender — their sole ideology is hoarding as much of the weath unto themselves as possible. I think the better term to describe America is ‘oligarchic’, not patriarchal, be…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 03:05 AM
5

Exactly! Oprah has infinitely more power than I (a man) do!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 02:54 AM
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I really don’t think its fair say men (in general) have more power. It just isn’t true. A tiny slice of men have most of the power, not most men. Most men live pay check to pay check just like most women — we are economically equal in general, not withstanding the tiny slice of non representative men who run the show (the oligarchs). I feel the term patriarchy is not descriptive of this reality, the word oligarchy however is.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 02:47 AM
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Politically the US is a oligarchy — rule by the rich for the benefit of the rich. It just so happens most of the current oligarchs are male, but I don’t think these oligarchs really care about gender. They care about themselves and their families having as much of the wealth of society as possible, as quickly as possible, consequences be damned. On a day to day social level things feel fairly neutral— I as a man don’t feel there are any systemic advantages afforded to me by virtue of my gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 02:43 AM
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I understand that, online its definitely ‘today is Tuesday, time to login to the forums and take a dump on Western women (same as yesterday!)’ Most expats aren’t even on forums though lol. They just… move. There’s also a surprising variety of reasons for why they moved in the first place, and cost of living (being lower) and less stress are currently the two leading causes. Third though is ‘dating is easier I love it here’ haha, but this is just my anecdotal experience, and I hardly know every e…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 11:23 PM
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Hmm… at least with Filipinas, I’ve found they can sort of understand where I am coming from after we’ve been together long enough. I tend to be rather aware of whats going on ‘inside’ me though — I’ve been meditating for years, so I have a pretty good handle on how my brain works at this point, and I’ve learned a variety of coping skills as well. But otherwise, it boils down to being open to communicating how you feel to her (and her being open to listen to that). Similar to how things are with …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 11:16 PM
1

He’s never gonna live that one down that’s for sure!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 10:29 PM
1

Well this certainly isn’t stats, but this reminded me of a funny thing that happened to me recently. I recently met up with an old friend of mine from high school, and he had his oldest kid when he was super young (18). So we were hanging out in his living room, when out of the blue his 14 year old kid comes running in, waving his phone at us and loudly proclaiming: ‘I’m gonna become a passport bro and get all them bitches!!!’ I burst out lauching and my buddy looked soooooo embarrassed hahah. S…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 09:42 PM
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Really lol. Most guys I’ve met really don’t seem to think about Western women at all really. They’ve lived overseas for years already and have integrated into their chosen countries. If you ask them how dating in the new country compares to their home country they’ll all say it is better than their home country, and sure they’ll highlight the downsides of western women then. But you’ve got to ask them to do a comparison for them to bring up Western women at all. But you’d expect them to prefer d…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 08:26 PM
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I for one can’t wait for realistic sexbots! Not sure what my future Filipina would think of that though 😅😂
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 08:16 PM
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Are you in the UK? Maybe it’s different there? In the US, unless you are a chad… it’s likely not going to be a yes haha
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 07:58 PM
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Japan will go extinct haha, sooo many guys there already prefer their virtual girlfriends as compared to attempting to get a real girlfriend. Imagine once the tech has advanced? Japan’s birthrate will be like 0.2 per woman haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 07:09 PM
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Oh, okay. In this forum those two groups of expats tend to get grouped together under the ‘passport bro’ label, so I was unsure which you meant
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 07:05 PM
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The most pushback I’ve gotten for my proclivity to date overseas IRL from American women is: “why don’t you just find an American women” lol They truly don’t care indeed, its only a handful of terminally online women who have an issue with it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 07:03 PM
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That’s fair, the most shade I’ve heard expats abroad throw on ‘women back home’ is that they like dating abroad much better than they did back home haha. But I’ve yet to hear one launch into a 30 minute + rant about the evils of Western women… well except for the jaded divorced guys hahah. But I mean, that’s understandable. They had a bad experience back home, and I guess are still working through their saltiness 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 06:57 PM
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Most of the expats I’ve met who are living abroad really are looking for real relationships. Idk about the passport bro influencer guys tho
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 06:52 PM
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I’ve seen a ton of Western women (from all over) throughout South America, and many were most certainly chasing after the local guys haha. Not sure if they were looking for hookups or more but it happens. Plenty of American women also go to various parts of Western Europe to look for relationships too, and they seem successful from what I’ve heard. Western women totally can become passport sisters as well man, heck a friend of a friend of mine lives in Greece specifically cause she likes Greek d…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 06:46 PM
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Yet almost every expat I met abroad was either in a long term relationship or married… I’d argue the norm is men seeking a real relationship, and the minority is the casual sex dudes (and the even smaller minority is the red light dudes)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 06:42 PM
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Filipinos have a pretty good view of Americans in general, but overall yeah thats a pretty common take
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 06:19 PM
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Its pretty rare in America too? Not sure what the stats are off the top of my head, but I’m pretty confident in calling that a rare occurrence (which ideally shouldn’t occur)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 06:15 PM
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I’ve traveled quite a bit in SEA, and I’ve yet to meet a guy who has impregnated a teenager or who was jumping with glee at the prospect of doing so. Where are you getting that strange tid bit from?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 06:07 PM
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If you’re a software engineer you can even keep your career while working abroad 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 05:33 AM
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As a ND guy looking to move to the Philippines early next year, what kind of inward looking did you mean? I’ve been a practicing Buddhist for many years now (I don’t think I am a terrible person is what I mean here), and I’ve done my best to improve my social skills. I’ve been to the Philippines before and done very well at dating there, so aparently they don’t find me too offputting either. So, I think I’m done a reasonable amount of inward looking and had some positive results overseas? I’m st…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 05:05 AM
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Is it all that bad? It seems everyone ended up reasonably happy. The world isn’t perfect after all
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 04:51 AM
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Wow that’s a great write up, thanks for sharing it!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 04:48 AM
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That… hasn’t quite been my experience in America! Usually those dudes end up in the friendzone?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 12:35 AM
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I mean, that’s honestly been my experience (and the admittedly few autistic women I have met also agreed with it, and said they felt bad for autistic guys because of it haha)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 09:38 PM
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A few ways. 1) I am easily overwhelmed in larger social settings (though thankfully not at work for some strange reason), which makes parties and things of that sort difficult to manage. 2) Despite putting in a lot of effort into improving my social skills, sometimes I still won’t know what to say or I’ll misread social cues occasionally (I can read the more obvious cues of interest from a woman, but the more subtle ones can escape me) 3) I’ve always had a pretty good sense of humor, but sometim…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 09:36 PM
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On the third point, how would you advise a man with functioning autism improve at doing that?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 09:25 PM
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I think you’re forgetting about us high functioning autistic dudes 😔 I’ve put a ton of work into improving myself in the States, and I’m still not very successful there
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 09:18 PM
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🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 09:17 PM
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Tons of guys find a common bond or connection with their partners overseas dude. Foreigners have hearts too you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 09:16 PM
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Personally I found standards for men WAY lower in SEA than in America. In East Asia its a bit different, but in general (barring South Korea and Japan to an extent) standards there are also quite a bit lower than America too. Actually— come to think of it — I’m not aware of anywhere where standards for men are higher than America? I can think of other places (like South Korea) where standards are as high as America, but can’t think of anywhere where standards are higher?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 09:14 PM
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I’ve done my best to do that lol. So far I’m able to mask my symptoms for a month or two of knowing a new person! As in, for the first month or two they don’t appear to even know I have ASD. Sooner or later I slip though, but most people still are surprised I have ASD after I finally tell them I do! So hey, progress 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 08:17 PM
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He is just a touch jaded haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 08:12 PM
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Well… to be fair there really are some great women in America too. I have high functioning autism though, so for guys like me I’d definitely agree that dating overseas is hands down better, but for more NT guys I can’t say
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 06:11 AM
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… yup I just found those comments and now feel a little silly 😅 He did a great job of explaining what I was trying to convey haha!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 06:05 AM
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I can think of quite a few stories of guys retreating back to the west after getting burned abroad hahah. It definitely does happen! There’s a reason just about every expat’s first piece of advise is to ‘take your time’ I don’t think the majority of overseas relationships are centered around green card acquisition by the female party either though, that’s definitely BS.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 05:59 AM
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Growing up in the states my best friend was (and still is lol, failing with the English here haha) Filipino. Over time I gradually became ‘adopted’ into his family, in a manner of speaking, to the point that I basically am friends with (or at least know) his whole extended family back in the Philippines. I’ve also travelled to the Philippines for work and on vacation plenty of times now, and over the years I’ve made many friends in the there whom I regularly keep in contact with. I’m currently p…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 05:54 AM
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That’s all very fair, I fully agree with your points 🙂 I didn’t mean to imply autistic women don’t have struggles too, I have met a few and talked to them about their dating lives so I know they also struggle in their own way. It just seems the autistic men seem to struggle more on average (and to be fair we can be taken advantage of as well, so thats a concern shared between the genders)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 05:28 AM
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I’m hoping to move to the Philippines early next year (from the US)!! I’m totally down with integrating into Filipino society as well 🙂, not a problem for me!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 04:10 AM
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Well, I was basing that off research done on the matter! I’d can hunt down some links if you’re interested? Do you happen to live outside the US? I wouldn’t say American women are raised to be paragons of grace and beauty haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 03:50 AM
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Meaning unclear lol, foreign women or American women?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 03:33 AM
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Especially my fellow autistic dudes, I really feel they can benefit a ton by becoming a passport bro! Gotta spread the word a little so it reaches them 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 03:30 AM
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🤦‍♂️ Some are like that sure, but the vast majority aren’t. I see you’ve never been to the Philippines (if you had you wouldn’t say that), but you should give it a try — you might like it even!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 03:27 AM
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I likely have high functioning autism, and I’d totally date a fellow autistic woman. I think women on the spectrum tend to have things easier than men, because there is research which shows that women are better able to mask their symptoms than men. Also, men tend to be more forgiving of women making social mistakes than women are of men making the same mistakes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 03:24 AM
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There’s always more immigrants too!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 03:19 AM
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American Dream 2.0: Leave! Haha
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 03:15 AM
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The US only has 4.23% of the global population, so just for easy numbers lets say it has 4% of the world’s men. Each man is different, and likely wouldn’t all flood same country as a result. So I find it a little hard to see how even every American male moving to the far corners of globe would move the gender ratio needle of any one foreign country
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 03:09 AM
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Yeah lol, passport bros are a small niche of a small niche! The vast majority I met were just old retired dudes haha
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 02:48 AM
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Well, for the ones who self identify as a ‘passport bro’ I’d say that is accurate, but I really haven’t met many who called themselves that. Virtually everyone I met just called themselves an expat, and those guys usually had their casual dating phase when they first went abroad, followed by their serious dating phase then marriage. Most of the expats I’ve met have no idea what a ‘passport bro’ even is haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 02:30 AM
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🤷‍♂️ They all seemed happy enough (the guy and his wife), but I didn’t know them well enough to know that
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 01:34 AM
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Lol, that doesn’t explain the loads of married dudes I’ve met in Thailand/Vietnam/Philippines. Passport bros are people too, they’re not identical NPCs.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 01:02 AM
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Depends on the woman/family. Often enough there is that expectation, but not all the time. I’ve met plenty of foreigners in the Philippines with a Filipina wife, and the foreigner was paying nada to the family.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 12:55 AM
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Does not very successful count? Then I’d qualify! As for my solution, I’m looking to move to the Philippines early next year!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 06:11 AM
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But clearly I’m perfect, ergo you must be perfect to date me!!!! 😂 This is definitely a western thing though!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 09:55 PM
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For me its cause of the high functioning autism haha
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 04:56 AM
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Thats very true, it can take a bit of practice early on to ‘get good’ at being in a relationship. Hopefully your first foreign GF is understanding and patient, but there will be more chances if she isn’t 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 02:09 AM
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I also have high functioning autism, and despite me being a one-message dude on this forum (high functioning autism? Become passport bro!!) its not quite as impossible in the states as I think you believe it is. Even I have had relationships in the states — 8 to be exact, and I’ve even had hookups (14 in total). So while yes my numbers are well below average for a 32 year old dude in a major metro in America, my count is > 0. Said in less words: if I can do it, anyone can do it! Haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 12:51 AM
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Well, I wish him luck with that! Maybe there will an AI sexbot service that appeals to him in the future 😅 As for older guys shooting for younger women — it could be the case that they eventually find takers. Plenty of younger women date older guys. So that doesn’t seem unrealistic to me? Might be harder than dating their own age, but if they are happy with their results power to ‘em right?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 05:41 PM
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Might have had better luck in Vladivostok or Perm, but goodness that’s a high bar. Given how challenging dating is for your average guy though, I still think these cases are the exceptions? I’ve never met a regular dude holding out for his model (or dating one either!)
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 04:58 PM
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Definitely this.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 10:19 PM
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Thanks for broadening my views on this! I truly had no idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 09:09 PM
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Oh, my. Um. I don’t know what to make of that! I can’t imagine guys like him are common? I’ve never met a guy like that, and this is the first story of something like this I have heard!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 08:55 PM
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Because that depends on the guy. I have met plenty of guys who HAVE made it in the West — they just preferred eastern women. Are they somehow losers for going after what they want? Other guys didn’t make it in the west, thats very true. I’m in that category— I have high functioning autism. Dating in America will always be a challenge for me, no matter what I do. While I have had 8 relationships in America, it was always a challenge to get a relationship there. Should I just shake my fist at the …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 08:46 PM
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Depends on the girl and how close you two are, but… yeah if a hotter guy came along I’m sure some of the hotter women would leave in that case. It’s not paradise over there or anything. Its also not unique to Filipinas or Thai women or anything either. Plenty of western women do exactly that as well. What you are describing is a woman thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 08:36 PM
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This is just bizarre to me lol. Was the guy a chad? Then I’d understand 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 08:24 PM
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This wouldn’t explain the guys I’ve met with Japanese wives 😂 Japan is not a poor country. Also met guys with Taiwanese wives — again, not poor. In SEA, the local beauty standards really do favor people with lighter skin tones. So, as a foreigner with a lighter skin tone, yeah, you are more attractive to the locals. If you are financially stable on top of that, then why wouldn’t they want to date you? Also, not everyone in southeast asia is poor. Take the Philippines for example— there are plent…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 08:21 PM
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Plenty of horror stories involve the woman just leaving the kid with you once she gets her green card. Having a kid isn’t a guarantee of anything really. Then again I’ve met couples who married abroad, then moved back to the west and have been married for decades in the West. So it can go either way really, at the end of the day it depends on how strong your bond with the woman is (and what sort of morals she has)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 08:17 PM
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Two reasons: 1) They were raised in the West, and hence adopted the local beauty standards via their upbringing. 2) In the West, hot SEA women receive a TON of attention from Western guys. Its a common, everyday thing for them — so they naturally get very picky. In SEA, Western dudes are a rarity, not a everyday thing. You’re the exotic foreigner (as the white guy) in that case then, which is always a plus.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 08:02 PM
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Huh. Thats a new one to me! I’m at a loss on that. Maybe cheaper housing (but if that was the reason you’d imagine both partners would be on board?)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 07:59 PM
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At least in Southeast Asia…. Yeah white guys do have dating easier there. Don’t think anyone would deny that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 07:42 PM
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Oh! Thats… an interesting case. Can’t say I’ve heard of that scenario occurring in real life, I’m also struggling to see why someone would do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 07:36 PM
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You can definitely raise successful kiddos overseas, I’ve seen plenty of now adult kids who were raised by a foreigner with his wife in that foreign country. The young adults turned out happy and normal. Not sure where the controlling aspect is? I always make it clear from the beginning that I’m looking to move to the woman’s country permanently, and I am not interested in returning to America. They’re adults… they can choose to say no to that? Most expats I’ve talked to also don’t want to retur…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 06:53 PM
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Ah, the tired old ‘she only wants a green card!!!’ Simple — don’t bring her back to the West. No K1 Visa (for the US). Magically — no green card! If you fly to a different country, flawnt your wealth and rush into a ‘relationship’ with a local girl then what did you expect was going to happen? At that point you scammed yourself. Fools rush in; so, be choosy and take your time. Learn to spot the red flags. Never lead with your wallet. Have fun! Make good memories with her. Then stay in her countr…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 06:02 PM
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Sure thing lol, I’ve never had an issue getting promoted so far 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 04:40 AM
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The KGB would surely miss its work quotas in the gulags then!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 03:29 AM
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I’ve met several guys teaching English remotely in the SEA region. Could you do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 12:20 AM
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Um… okay. You know some interesting dudes! I hope they are either named chad, or enjoy becoming a dog dude (is that the male equivalent of a cat lady?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 11:22 PM
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Um… I don’t ask for equal financial contribution? I even said that in my first post lol. I don’t mind changing diapers. You are welcome to retain your career as well… as I clearly said in my first post?? If you’d like to stay home I’d support that too?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 11:20 PM
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I don’t complain about any of that? I don’t ask for a equal financial contribution from the woman either — actually, to be honest I’ve never dated a woman in America who made even close to my income. I never complained about picking up most of the financial slack though? I don’t have kids though, but if I did… the logical thing is get them childcare if my partner would like to continue working? That means paying for said childcare, which is no problem (and my employer might actually cover that a…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 11:15 PM
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Um… she heavily implied that? He said I am not dating an overweight woman, and she said don’t date your looksmatch (despite him not being overweight!?) A healthy BMI athletic man’s looksmatch is not a chubby woman. At all.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 10:51 PM
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Yeah… alimony needs to go the way of the dinosaurs and disappear already. Women are fully capable of supporting themselves in this day and age, alimony is a obsolete custom at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 10:48 PM
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Forgive me for being dense, but in my out of home excursions in the strange land of America… I almost exclusively see guys with women who are approximately their looksmatch (if anything the guys might be the slightly better looking one, and the woman might be a bit younger)? I can’t say I’ve met many men who have told me ‘no way would I date her, I’m holding out for my model who will surely appear any day now!!’
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 10:44 PM
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Personally I’ve always found slavic women to be the hottest in the world haha, but then I went to Russia (prewar!) and… yeah… their personalities left a little to be desired! To do this day I’ve never understood guys raving about ‘submissive’ Russian women, the ones I’ve met could give tanks lessons in hardness haha. Maybe I was just unlucky? At any rate, I think Eastern Europe is beat avoided for the foreseeable future in any event 😅 Ohhh! Thats what you mean by a white festish. I totally agree…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 10:32 PM
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Totally cool to have different preferences like that, I do agree on Middle Eastern or European women being quite attractive but personally women of African descent just aren’t quite my thing. Nothing aganist them, I just don’t find them attractive. As for the fetish question, I think the hang up is we might be approaching the definition of that word differently? For me, I think a woman with a white guy fetish means she is willing to ignore that guy’s personality, and just wants to have sex with …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 10:06 PM
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Personally I’ve been rather successful in my software engineering career— always received great performance reviews and pretty much always worked for a big tech company. Can’t say chasing career success has really made me any happier though? Personally, I’m looking to dial things back and get a more relaxing remote from Asia position instead 😁 Dating in the US is pretty tough as well, and when I found how much easier dating is overseas by personally visiting a bunch of foreign countries for exte…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 09:31 PM
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I think what you’re saying applies more to China really — especially the bit about replacing you with another white guy on a whim bit! Filipinas are famously jealous and territorial— they’re the sort who will hold onto their current partner tighly and seek to keep all the other women as far away from him as possible. I haven’t… ever seen a Filipina just drop thier foriegner boyfriend for a new one on a whim and never heard of it happening either? China though is its own beast. While the women ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 07:38 PM
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That’s been spot on in my experience, well said!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 06:58 PM
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Syntax error, unable to parse 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 06:53 PM
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What do you do for work? Personally I’m a software engineer, and most people at work are socially awkward as well haha. Heck people look at me as the social guy there 😳 — and this is in one of the big tech companies to boot! I’ve never had a problem being ND as a software guy, and have yet to receive anything but glowing performance ratings in my 1:1s with managers. I’m not certain, but I don’t even get the sense people at work even know I’m ND 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 06:51 PM
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To be fair I have also managed to get into relationships (and hook ups) with NT women in America as well. Its not quite impossible, just challenging.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 06:47 PM
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I didn’t get the sense he meant money when he said high status? I mean, I also make a mid 6 digit income and am 6’2, but that hasn’t really furthered my cause in America haha. I think he meant more socially skilled and dominant?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 06:34 PM
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I have definitely found Filipinas (but also Thai, Viet, Indonesian, etc) women to be less focused on the shallow stuff and much more interested in who you are (are you loyal? Are you nice? Are you funny? Also, yes, are you financially stable? You don’t need to be rich though!)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 06:20 PM
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Well, when I hear the word ‘fetishized’ I think of people wanting anyone who (in this case) is white — regardless of what their personality is or how they get along with that person. I haven’t really found that to be the case in the Philippines at least, its more that the local beauty standards are for people with lighter skin tones. Meaning they see you as hot if you are white, but they still want a person they like and get along with. I hope that made sense haha?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 06:17 PM
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Or date overseas lol. You don’t have to stay in the US dating market if it doesn’t appeal to you 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 05:04 PM
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Oh! I’m a software engineer, so the easy go to for me is a remote job which is cool with me working there so I haven’t investigated the possibilities too much. I’ve met some guys teaching english online in the Philippines so that’s an option too, but beyond that I dunno
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 04:43 PM
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Not sure what you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 04:14 PM
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You’re coming from a good place, but I really don’t think more shaming will help. Just let people choose who they want without the shaming 🙂 I’m autistic, and while yes I’m not exactly chosen as much as I would like in the US I have found a solution to my dating difficulties— date in the Philippines haha. I think with time my fellow autistic dudes will find a solution that works for them too 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 06:01 AM
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She might have omitted that bit of info 😅 I don’t personally know too much about the USSR outside of the WW2 context, I just knew a bit about the housing system from what she told me of her experiences living in the USSR
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 05:49 AM
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I once spoke with an older woman who was a young woman in Moscow in the 1980s, and she said something that kinda stuck with me since: “say what you will about the USSR, but you never saw homeless people there” Not saying the USSR was a paradise or anything, but seems like some aspects of that system may not have been horrid.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 05:19 AM
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Thanks! That’s the hope 🙂 Pretty sure there’s always room for another foreigner as well if you were so inclined to check it out there as well? Dating is substantially better there than in America ya know
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 04:55 AM
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💯 agree!!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 02:43 AM
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I have indeed traveled overseas (many times), and am planning on moving to the Philippines early next year 🙂 I’m excited! Also yes I am white, which admittedly does help a smidge.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 02:35 AM
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Thanks for the sources!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 02:32 AM
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Its what autistic women told me haha, I do grant I have no academic source for that and am happy to be corrected 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 02:27 AM
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Usually men aren’t quite as sensitive to how women hide their austism (if that makes sense), whereas women can usually pick up on my hiding my autism after a month or two (I used to be unable to veil my condition at all, so hiding it for a month or two is progress haha!)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 02:13 AM
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A lack of compassion? Thats an interesting take. Personally, I have been a practicing Buddhist for many years, and compassion for myself and others comes pretty naturally to me. I can’t say being compassionate towards women has really helped with dating in America though, at least as far as I’m aware.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 02:10 AM
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Usually autistic women are much better at ‘hiding’ their Autism, and hence tend to not have much difficulty finding a NT partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 02:04 AM
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While I of course don’t know every socially awkward woman in America haha, my personal experience is that women like that tend to strongly prefer more socially capable partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 02:02 AM
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As a fellow high functioning autistic dude… have you considered looking outside America? While I have had some success in America, it is quite challenging for guys like us and truly isn’t the best experience overall. Personally I love the Philippines (and Filipinas), but that could just be a me thing. Dating in the Philippines is genuinely a good experience for me, and standards there are much more reasonable than in the states. While with a ton of effort you might get yourself some action in Am…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 02:00 AM
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I’m also in a major US metro (for now), and toooons of women complain about coffee dates (early on! Like the first date even!) being ‘low effort’ and push for fancy dinner dates. Like… entitled much lady?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 01:03 AM
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Just a smidge 🙂 I’m the sort who doesn’t like to overstate things, and to be fair being white just helps get your foot in the door (and maybe makes her more willing to overlook any gaffes you might make), but its still on you to show her a good time at the end of the day. Also… you might just not vibe with the girl at all, and no amount of paleness, no more how ghost like is gonna outweigh that (well… usually at least 😅)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 10:19 PM
1

Yes and yes
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 10:10 PM
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I can definitely see where you are coming from, I’ve certainly had my share of experiences like what you described. Personally I found more success finding intellectually stimulating women by taking classes, and meeting them around campus. Another thing which worked well was attending presentations or other nerdy kind of events (mainly a big city thing admittedly), and running into women that way. Friends of friends works great too! Just some ideas. As for financially supporting her family, I ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 09:58 PM
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In my case, there are limits to how high value I can make myself. I am likely on the spectrum, which through no fault of my own imposes certain limitations on me. Over the years I have put a ton of work into improving my social skills, and while I have seen a large increase in my social abilities compared to my younger self I’m still not quite the most charismatic person in the room (though fortunately I’ve always had a good sense of humor, so thats been a help!). So I do understand where you ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 09:10 PM
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I am white, which is a bit of a help in the Philippines dating wise. I’m also on the younger side as compared to other foreigners (32), which is also a plus. Those things do help yes, but they’re not the end all be alls either
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 06:25 PM
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While I don’t live there (yet), I have spent quite alot of time in the Philippines and have dated a fair bit there. Personally I found dating in the Philippines to be hands down better than dating in America — the women are feminine, much nicer, there is much less obesity and you as a guy seem valued as a person much more there. Standards are reasonable and not in the stratosphere. Also — dating is FUN there, not like America where it feels more like a tough job interview (great way to remove ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 05:34 PM
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Yup, I know they’re not subservient haha. I’ve been to the Philippines quite a few times already (longest trip was 6 months), and I’ve dated a fair few Filipinas so far. I know they’re not perfect, and I also know what to filter for to weed out the scammers. Some of them genuinely are sweet, some…. not so much! Thats the same no matter where you go though, people vary. Still much prefer dating in the Philippines to dating in America, even though Filipino dating is far from perfect (no where is t…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 02:14 AM
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I’m reasonably physically active (CrossFit 3x a week), tall (6’2), and work for a large tech company so make comfortably above averge income. I’m also likely on the spectrum though, but I have also put a TON of effort into improving my social skills over the years — which has paid off to a degree in the US, but no where near the levels I feel OP is implying in his post. I’m currently planning on moving to the Philippines early next year lol — US dating is just a raw deal at this point. I’ll choo…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 07:00 PM
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Personallly, in college I really struggled dating. It only got a bit easier (in the states) after I put in alot of consious effort into improving my social skills after college. But what also came after college was traveling for work overseas, and that opened up a whole new world for me. Dating overseas was anything but pointless for me overseas, if was awesome! (and I don’t want to go back to dating in the states lol). So for me (yymv) dating post college was ALOT better!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 02:05 AM
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You do realize that 6’2 high earning dudes are anything but average right? They’re rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 07:55 PM
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I mean, I don’t shun LTRs and I still struggle in America? I don’t feel my standards are too high either. Might want to add a qualifier: NT men who stuggle… (rest of title) — I’m likely on the spectrum, which would explain my struggling.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 12:59 AM
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Personally I’m looking to move to the Philippines early next year to counter that disqualification — at 5’9 you’d be considered tall in the Philippines you know. Just sayin 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 04:05 AM
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I’m 6’2, but I’m also likely on the spectrum. Dating is still tough for me in America though — height is just one part of the whole package women are looking for.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 02:34 AM
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In 100 years climate change will have rendered most muslim- majority countries unlivable. They won’t dominate the world, most of them will be climate refugees.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 05:27 PM
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Have guys really rejected you en mass specifically for being inexperienced? That just blows my mind they’d do that — personally I’d much prefer the inexperienced woman over the high milege chadsexual woman. When are you telling the guys you are inexperienced? I’d leave that detail out until like the 3rd date (or maybe never if saying it makes you uncomfortable).
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 06:22 PM
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Never!? Christ man, I haven’t had quite the rosiest dating career in ‘Murica but all the women here aren’t monsters. But if feel its that bad have you considered becoming a passport bro?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 06:08 AM
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That’s some darkness there man, though… you do make some valid points.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 05:34 AM
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I’d happily date the ‘weird loser’ who didn’t go out alot and party, and wouldn’t mind a bit if she was inexperienced. I really don’t think many men would mind? After all what’s the issue?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 04:47 AM
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Just don’t be fat plz 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 01:02 AM
1

Which state did you grow up in?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 12:31 AM
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Oh gotcha, yeah that’s pretty easy then haha
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 08:01 PM
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In the states?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 06:46 PM
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From what I’ve seen passport bros have been saying dating is substantially easier (which is true) overseas, but I haven’t heard them arguing that the women there are desperate to pursue them?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 06:20 PM
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Ah okay. Cambodia just has been the nexus point of very disturbing stories like that (I’ve never been there, and… hesitate to go haha)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 04:51 PM
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I fully agree 🙂 Personally my worst relationships and dating experiences have been in ‘Murica, and my best overseas. So it not just that you get more chances abroad, I really do feel you are more likely to find a better quality partner there as well. Not that they are all perfect angels overseas, or that you should rush into things and not take your time, but if you are smart about it and take your time it really does feel like the way to optimize your dating life. For the haters, I am not tryin…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 04:49 PM
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Are your parents from Cambodia per chance?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 04:43 PM
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I wasn’t referring to J Cole (or any other successful singer, completely agree women are easy mode for them)— I was only talking about the tech guys I met in SEA (and myself, cause I’m also a techie). None of us were paying for attention as you are claiming.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 03:47 PM
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That’s pretty much me. I’m likely on the spectrum, and I’ve put more work into improving my social skills and dating life than anyone I’ve ever met. While I have improved greatly as compared to the younger me, there is only so much I can do via work alone — in a manner of speaking, I was born with brain damage after all. Thats not exactly being born with a ‘winning hand,’ so at some point you just gotta accept your limitations and make the best of your situation. Life isn’t fair, it is what is.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 03:32 PM
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Okay, which privileges are you referring to?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 03:27 PM
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As a tech nerd who has been on longer trips to SEA (longest 6 months), neither I nor any other tech nerd I knew there paid for sex or sought a mail order bride.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 03:26 PM
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SEA countries aren’t really that poor overall. Yes, there are poor people there (same with the US, drive around in the South long enough and you’ll see third world conditions too) but its not the abject poverty you seem to be implying. While most don’t have all the western luxuries, they do have the necessary things. Thailand and Malaysia for example are actually upper-middle income countries, and Bangkok and KL are very well developed cities. I’ve seen plenty of poorer places in America than ei…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 03:22 PM
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That’s a rather harsh take. Why do you believe expats are pursuing desperate women?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 03:13 PM
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Yeah if they’re imagining the local women throwing themselves at them and begging for sex, they’re going to be sorely disappointed. On the other hand as a foreigner you will have many more options there than you ever did in your home country, with women with much better attitudes (and infinitely lower obesity). Still a win in my book 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 03:10 PM
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Its 💯 this
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 03:06 PM
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I don’t know if this would make you feel better, and this is just my anecdotal experience, but I’ve yet to see a passport bro dating a woman from the squatter (a Filipino term for people living in abject poverty). Seeing people living like that is definitely one of the downsides of living in developing countries, but I really don’t think there are many guys who view those women as marks. Most guys just felt bad for them, and would try to give them some money or food and wish them well. I know th…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 03:05 PM
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… I see you are unaware most people in the Philippines speak fluent English? In Malaysia it’s virtually everyone. As for Thailand, English is less common there, but in the major cities most know it too. So… date the ones who know English? You’ve also not met many women from SEA have you? They’re not ‘submissive’, and they’re not the sort who would meekly become domestic servants.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 01:33 PM
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At least in the countries I have been to in SEA, women had the same rights under local law as men did. Which countries, and which specific rights are women lacking?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 06:14 AM
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Or the grass is just greener abroad?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 05:34 AM
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It can yield very positive results (not always, but pretty often), and at a certain point the marginal value of earning more money declines (imo the biggest draw America has is higher potential income generation).
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 05:31 AM
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Most of the guys I’ve met overseas didn’t move because they couldn’t get women at all (and some were oddly successful, and I didn’t get a gut reaction suggesting they were lying), they were just dissatisfied with the quality of matches they were getting in the West. Personally that’s why I’m working towards becoming a passport bro as well. There was also a sizable cohort who moved just for the lower cost of living, and the dating came along as something of a bonus haha. But that was the minority…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 04:09 AM
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I met a few guys who were teaching English online — both in Thailand and the Philippines. I don’t know how much they were grossing but both seemed pretty comfortable, and the only requirement for teaching english (according to them) was having a bachelors degree (in anything) and a TEFL certificate. That certification only takes 4 months. So there is always that option too.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 03:59 AM
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Thats fair, it is difficult to pull off unfortunately
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 03:50 AM
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Oh! I misunderstood, my bad. I’ve never known either the media nor others like them to be interested in the truth haha
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 03:47 AM
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That is true, but it is doable. While the most common means of doing this is living off retirement or pension income of some sort, there are plenty of remote software devs and data analysts I run into over the years (I’m a software guy so I mostly seek out like minded folks). Came across some sales guys too. Point is, it’s doable, though I do grant it can take some work to get everything job wise setup for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 03:44 AM
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The vast majority of passport bros are not trying to control or manipulate anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 03:41 AM
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Depends on where you go — you can live very well on 2000 a month in the Philippines for example, which isn’t exactly a herculian income.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 03:40 AM
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I’ve a fairly good idea of what a passport bro is lol, and I have traveled fairly often to SEA on extended trips. I have met tons of expats along the way, and while yes there some seedy guys the vast majority were just regular dudes looking for normal, healthy relationships and ultimately marriage. You have an unwarranted negativity towards these guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 03:33 AM
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Dude, most expats or passport bros aren’t sexpats. Most just want regular relationships. Have you ever traveled overseas for an extended period of time and met any?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 03:27 AM
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If you’re a top 20% dude than sure, but as a member of the bottom 80% approaching has not historically yielded much (in the US). Tbh its kinda a waste of time once you get used to handling the resulting rejection? I could just enjoy my day out and about with my headphones in and a podcast on 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 02:14 AM
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I think most average guys would give a chubby girl a chance, I’ve seen it happen plenty of times. I personally wouldn’t (and I’m pretty average ish), but that’s just because chubby really turns me off (just how I’ve always been), but I’ve always had the sense I’m more sensitive to women being overweight than is the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 08:36 PM
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You do realize several civilizations in the past have tried the whole ‘only a few men reproduce and most are shut out thing’ and none of those civilizations survived very long? They collapsed or were easily conquered. I’m not saying women need to be controlled like they were in the 1950s, but your eugenics idea clearly ain’t the answer either bro. Clearly the whole 63% of young guys are single needs some sort of mutually satisfactory resolution (where both men and women can be happy with the sol…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 04:45 PM
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My reason for wanting to move to the Philippines is not solely because of the ‘skinny bitches’ haha, but that’s a big factor in it (and I’d be lying if I said it wasn’t!) I’m totally mystified by your powerful aversion to guys moving abroad for that reason though. I mean, take me as an example— I am 6’2, not fat and in descent shape (crossfit 3x a week for the last two years), work for a large tech company with comfortably above average income, and while I may not be god tier at social skills I …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 07:22 PM
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I can see where you are coming from, you make good points. I’ll go point by point, but from a personal perspective (thats what I know best). For me, my work trips have usually been 2-3 months long, with the longest being 6 months. So I have a fair degree of exposure to what life would be like living in SEA (Philippines in particular). Because I travel fairly often as well, I’ve made local friends in quite a few countries, and me and my Us friends are used to facetiming and things like that for k…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 06:47 PM
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Exactly! Like: okay, you guys work that stuff out. I’m gonna go over here instead and enjoy myself. Best of luck with all that!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 06:28 AM
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I’ve travelled to SEA quite a few times now, and in particular I enjoy the Philippines. The locals speak English for the most part, and the culture shock in my experience is pretty minor. I’ve never felt unsafe when I have been there, and crime rates are not bad there either. If my current job was fully remote, all I’d have to do is… move there, and that’s basically it. Income from purely foreign sources is not taxed, and you can stay essentially indefinitely on strickly tourist visas. Its reall…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 07:58 PM
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Here’s an analogy for ya — if you are a fisherman, and you found a new fishing hole which has 4x the number of fish you are looking for, why wouldn’t you select the new fishing hole?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 07:41 PM
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Damn, thats an excellent explanation man!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 07:31 PM
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Because I’m your average white dude lol — I am taller and make good money yes, but that’s more than countered by being nerdy and not quite the most charming guy in the room (though I have improved alot in that department compared to me in my 20s)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 06:19 PM
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I mean, I’m just one guy. I can’t imagine little ol me is going to make any perceptable difference, and its still pretty tough to pull off the passport bro life from a financial standpoint. So the barries to entry should mean passport broing really won’t move the needle in America or in destination countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 06:16 PM
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This is basically the argument for why I’m working towards becoming a passport bro — the US just gives you a low quality of life and a raw deal. Finding a quality partner and a nice house outside of the US is really not too difficult by comparison, sooo, why stay in the ‘greatest’ country on Earth?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 04:41 PM
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I am as skinny as my ideal woman would be. For me I found eating only one big meal a day (dinner) and going to crossfit 3x a week did the trick 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 01:53 AM
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Personally skinny is the ideal for me, but someone a little chubby is okay by me (as in you can visually see they are larger, not sure if I am being descriptive enough). Also I am a bit of an odd ball on this one I’m sure, but I actually prefer women with small breasts and a small butt. Big breasts/butt actually turn me off!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 01:32 AM
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As a guy, nice and not fat are my two big requirements. I myself am not fat (though I am not super muscular either), and I’d like to think I am nice as well, so I’m don’t think I’m applying a standard to women I myself cannot meet. For context, I am 6’2 and high earning (I’m a techie), but I am nerdy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 12:32 AM
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I respect them, doing that takes quite alot of impulse control on her part. All other things being equal, I’d much rather choose the virgin woman over the high n woman 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 10:22 PM
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I’m 6’2 — but I am also nerdy. There’s no line of women looking to date me in America haha. Height isn’t the end all be all (I know from experience!)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 10:12 PM
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I’m likely on the spectrum— what worked for me personally was reading a bunch of books (Robin Dreeke’s are pretty much all awesome and the most helpful for me personally) and dating overseas lol. I get sent for work to SEA fairly often, and am looking to move to the Philippines next year. I don’t have advise for dating in America in particular though, all I know is thats hard af haha
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 10:01 PM
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Doing that in America just seems like it’d be a painful experience for me personally lol — I’m a very average white dude. When I’m overseas for work though (usually I get sent to SEA) approaching is definitely fun, and often enough rewarding 😁 (and I’ve yet to be badly rejected overseas either, they’ll let you down nicely)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 09:32 PM
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Option 3 please 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 08:34 PM
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