| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 41 | I miss my family | Least_Wash8355 | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/09/23 06:53 PM | |
| 10 | How to deal with the fact that my stbxw is going to be sleeping with other people | Least_Wash8355 | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/09/23 10:27 PM | |
| 9 | I had a nightmare last night | Least_Wash8355 | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/09/23 04:25 PM | |
| 7 | How to deal with the fact that my stbxw is going to be sleeping with other people | Least_Wash8355 | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/09/23 10:27 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 2 | Shit show continues (vent)Well, i hope you figure everything out man. Divorce sucks. I was on here not even 4 months ago struggling to stay alive and looking for others who have been through it too. After I lost everything my job let me go saying I was too distraught to work there. I picked up a bartending job to get by, started working out everyday before work. My ex wife has a new guy that immediately replaced me. I’m also not able to see my daughter. Unfortunately you eventually move on. I did. I don’t want my ex anym… | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/01/24 05:42 PM |
| 2 | Shit show continues (vent)You never gave real context to why you left. It seems like you just up and abandoned your family and act like a narcissist the entire time. You chalk your bad parenting up to tough love. And now they’re royally in a fucked up situation that they have to figure out how to move on with life alone. You should not have sent that message to that child. You’re making things about you whether you think it’s “the truth” or not. My wife cheated on me and left me, took the house, car, everything. Do you t… | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/01/24 03:35 PM |
| 10 | Unable to trust a new partner because of the divorce trauma.I don’t know man, that’s a weird chick for sure. She needs to keep working no matter if she’s your girlfriend, fiancé, or wife. Don’t fall back into the trap. Let this hardship be your fuel to deserve better. And by god don’t get married again. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/11/23 09:34 PM |
| 1 | Met another womanI’m this close to suicide 👌so yeah, I hope I find someone else one day too. My ex wife already found a new boy friend less than two days after our separation. Now we’re a couple of weeks divorced. She said he makes her “melt by just looking at him”. She introduced him to my daughter and my daughter said when she gets older she wants to steal him from her cause he’s so hot. I just got laid off. I’m on my moms couch. A decade wasted. I have nothing left. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/11/23 04:17 AM |
| 2 | Are AP's really this dumb?Today is a bad day. I don’t feel strong at all. But reading this again helps. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/11/23 04:05 AM |
| 2 | Obsessed with Getting her BackAcceptance is the hardest part | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/11/23 06:06 PM |
| 2 | Help. I feel lost.It’s tough for all of us brother. Aimlessly sitting there. Dwelling on what was. Dwelling on my now ex wife’s new boyfriend who “makes her melt” according to her. All while I lay in my sorrow. I tend to read to pass the loneliness by, but any hobby would help I suppose. I tend to drink and it makes me happy temporarily and then when I’m sober it’s just the same shit again. I had to cut back. And then, on top of everything else I got laid off this week. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/11/23 05:52 PM |
| 1 | I feel better todayYeah, I feel you man. I work 8-5 mon - fri. But when I get home I’ve been using alcohol to calm myself and deal with the loneliness. I’ve only been able to pick my daughter up from school twice a week. That takes all of ten minutes. Which means I’ve got literally 20 min with my kid a week. Shits been fucking me up so bad. I’ve been trying so hard to act normal around her, not get sad, and just try to be happy dad. I know my wife is mean as shit, so if I keep staying cool with her I figure in the… | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/10/23 12:48 AM |
| 1 | I feel better todayThose nightmares are the worst, literally rips you apart. That’s my current struggle. That, and I’m coping with alcohol. I know I know, don’t drink, but Jesus this shit is a bitch without it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/10/23 12:18 AM |
| 1 | It's over.You forgot to mention the loneliness. That shit is horrible, but otherwise yeah, you’re right I guess. Not to be a downer, I’m just having a rough go of it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/10/23 11:38 PM |
| 2 | Are AP's really this dumb?My wife destroyed my reputation and friendships, I have no one. I have nothing, she took everything. I’m wallowing in my grief and medicating with alcohol. I know that I have to get it together, but I also want to lay down and melt into the floor. It comes in waves. I’m just hoping that I wake up tomorrow and realize it was all just a nightmare. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/09/23 12:25 AM |
| 9 | Are AP's really this dumb?The issue was definitely my ex wife hanging out with the 5 divorced milfs and partying with them every weekend. I knew that shit was bad news, I tried to warn her. What do I know? She got the house, kids, animals, new exciting dudes to fuck. And I got a hotel. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/09/23 09:32 PM |
| 4 | Just in a slumpI’m right there with you. I’ve got nothing left. She took everything. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/09/23 09:12 PM |
| 2 | Suggestions for support and filling up timeI’m trying, but it comes in heavy waves. Yesterday I was fine. Today I’m coming apart at the seems. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/09/23 08:06 PM |
| 2 | Suggestions for support and filling up timeThis has been my escape too. I’m essentially a complete sad, depressed, wreck the rest of the time. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/09/23 08:04 PM |
| 2 | I miss my familyShe can go out to just about anywhere and have multiple dudes hit on her, she will have no problem at all finding thirsty dudes. I’m sure your girl is the same. It’s just not like that for us, we don’t go out to bars and have Multiple girls hitting on us like that, we’re expected to do the hunting. Bro I’m about to say fuck it and go to Latin America and get some hot ass Latino chick who doesn’t speak English. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/09/23 12:40 AM |
| 2 | I miss my familySame, my ex is a total babe. Fucking sucks. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/09/23 11:15 PM |
| 8 | Never thought I’d be in this position…Right there with you my man, honestly this sub has helped me so much. You’re in the right place. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/09/23 03:10 AM |
| 4 | I miss my familyThank you brother, I needed to hear that. It’s too bad I can’t talk to you everyday because lord knows this shit comes in goes in waves. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/09/23 12:15 AM |
| 6 | I miss my familyMornings are sucking for me too though, waking up and remembering what I’ve lost. Realizing that’s it’s not some nightmare and then reality washing over me before I can even get out of bed. Waking up alone. Eating dinner alone. Knowing that she’s out there with thirsty guys who are having sex with the woman I’ve had locked down for 15 years. My god. How I have fallen. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/09/23 11:27 PM |
| 1 | I'm not healedAgreed, I will never be the same. I sure as fuck will not be able to have what I’ve lost. And I’m positive no one I meet will be as hot as the wife I’m losing. | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/09/23 08:18 PM |
| 3 | How to deal with the fact that my stbxw is going to be sleeping with other peopleI’m in that deep dark depression now, haven’t ate in days, can’t focus at work, can’t sleep. I’m shell shocked. It sucks that my stbxw is so hot, that makes it so much worse. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/09/23 10:38 PM |
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