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Imagine your husband only eat your pussy on your birthday and is very unenthusiastic about it... At some point you meet some of his friends (women) and yall get to drinking... one of them brings up how he was the most enthusiastic pussy eater in college and not only had he often done so to most of them, but with every one of his exes, often begging them to allow him the privilege on the first date.. You'd still "be happy that he changed his ways" ?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 02:21 AM
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"Hehe, sorry honey. I know I hapily paid the mortgage when I was with my ex, but people change. The past is the past, so I'm going to be charging you rent." (She asks why?) "Misandry! You're insecure!" 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 02:13 AM
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Way to assume Im a failure just because i'm calling out a silly platitude and nice to ignore the example of it being put into practice that I gave. You know its BS that doesn't tangibly relate to you making it through your struggle.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 02:07 AM
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If I was 5" shorter, with my same face, I wouldn't be allowed.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 07:51 PM
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Failure is success in disguise. A cute platitude that people say to others to check off their own "positive attitude" box, but neither a thing anyone actually believes or practices. Imagine a family ready to go on a road trip vacation: "Dad! Why are you slashing the tires and beating the car with a baseball bat?" "Because if we fail to go on this vacation, it's a successful vacation in disguise, son."
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 07:47 PM
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Totally agree that that would be great. It's just that sadly, I don't think its realistic for most men to think that'd be something they could find, someone who would value them enough to be that kind of partner. Most guys are probably seen more as resource dispensers than complete human beings. If they let on that they have an issue, that would just create panic about how that issue could affect what they can provide.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 04:55 PM
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I thought people in this sub knew that men and women are different? Seriously, didn't think they knew. Thats not the PC narrative... so I was figuring it would be better to provide an example that might get a couple people to scratch their heads and think "Hmmmm. Maybe thats because men and women are different." rather than outright saying that that's the (obvious) reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 04:50 PM
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Yes, deal with it on your own. "dealing" with the root cause by involving women, especially a partner is a mistake, unless you're too indirect to breakup and want to give her the ick factor so she'll do the breaking up.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 11:35 AM
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They often rate women more harshly and have weird standards I don't fully understand. Those guys did that too, rating women harshly, but they would still sleep with women they rate poorly. Usually their ex girlfriends are very attractive Same, always. The less attractive women were mostly when they were in between GFs because they wouldn't settle when it comes to GF. Alpha widowing isn't something I've personally seen irl. I haven't either, but they, especially one guy, thought it's real. Idk i …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 11:32 AM
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Women wear make-up for themselves the way men work overtime, follow trends, buy flashy cars, and buy 4br houses for themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 11:17 AM
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I think that being used for your body is a bit more dehumanising than being used for your resources, I disagree. At least they're being valued for something pertaining to them as an individual. Valuing for resources is totally detatched from the individual. That's being valued for the payment from tasks you do, tasks usually done for someone else. That's why so many not-very-attractive dudes say they wish women used them for their bodies instead, because its slightly less dehumanizing. And havin…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 11:16 AM
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Chads are extremely picky about girls at times. I've seen the opposite. My chaddiest friends are the ones who have been the least picky, slept with MANY would be left swipes from me. My one bro would occasionally say "That ho ain't gon have no boyfriend again, yall know that right?" When I ask what he meant, he laughingly explained that he was implying that those less attractive women he slept with would never be able to get a guy like him again, and therefore would never be satisfied with whoev…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 11:09 AM
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No. Stable housing isn't running the streets. Idk what you even mean. I'm saying if you have a nice house, why not enjoy that after work rather than spending money running the streets to try and appease women who are usually restless, always needing to run the streets and be seen
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 04:26 PM
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Oh well ig Difference is I'm not bemoaning this fact, nor claiming ALL women are state agents hellbent on making men contribute to thet mutual demise. It is what it is tbh. Consumerisms intertwining with "matrimony" is odd for every thinking person, and Im... I'm just here for the hilarity surrounding the immediate stifling of bringing up anything remotely resembling an understanding of the above (which you attempt to distract me from noticing, somehow, by claiming I'm " baaaad" at dating.)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 02:27 AM
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Nah, pal "When I came to the internet, I found that I wasn't the only one seeing others who'd been experiencing the same BS. There were others who reached the same conclusions I, on my own, learned to keep quiet about due to understanding that I had understanding few were aware of." Your attempts to mischaracterize what I was saying won't stop a growing number of men from independently, over the course of time, reaching similar conclusions, being gaslit, and then finding out that they weren't ju…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 10:49 PM
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There is zero problem that I am aware of. Wait, are you trolling me? Dangit, that doesn't usually work on me! Nice job, if so. If not, Reminder: you became latched onto trying to start... some kind of seemingly endless dialogue over me saying I found a different persons' platitude to be ridiculous and comedic Me, repeatedly trying to explain to you the above "reminder" in various ways is all that I am aware that this situation "problem" is.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 09:56 PM
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Why do you need to tell yourself that? How odd of an assumption. My belief on that has nothing to do with what i've read on the internet other than seeing that the experience is extremely common with others, it's not just me. I have done cohabiting frickin twice, and had other GFs, that's what was my influence 1st did cooking, worked part time... and didn't wanna do full since I did. Was fine witn that... until as time went on more and more demands to run the streets after my long days at work, …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 08:09 PM
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Got nothing to do with what I was commenting. I literally have no clue how you could've misinterpreted that I'd said anything remotely like "someone fix men cant stand not being in relationship" Gotta love reddit At least I've already reached clarity with the original poster I was responding to.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 08:02 PM
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"Sorry, sir. You should consoom more product more conspicuously in various businesses establishments, or select yourself out of the genepool"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 07:06 PM
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Lmao running the streets isn't a fundamental of life, thats a fundamental of being a cog in a machine. My goal, FIRE takes precedence over keeping up appearances, running dem streets to conspicuously consume here and there because the media says that's what one should do in order to "live" "life".
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 07:05 PM
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Was cohabitating with normal independent professional woman from small town Broke up Started working much less, making a few tens of thousands less per year, due to not having to work performatively LOL After <2 years, realize had more money than during relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 07:03 PM
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This isn't about me, bro, but nevertheless, be realistic. You really think most guys have the luxury of screening for that? When attractive multimillionaires often wind up with leeches? Thats the behavior most common in our culture, so for many its work to be able to support a leech, or stay chillin with your pups.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 07:00 PM
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I wish it were merely redpill nonsense. That'd be nice. Maybe women will actually become progressive and in time, that'll only be redpill nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 06:57 PM
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Lmao lmao no no no. While I've mostly made good money as an adult, seeking to check tbat box solely for them, in addition to providing for myself better.. I can't count how many times I have fantasized about how if this ex or that actually contributed beyond an occasional dinner or cleaning up after herself here and there. No clue how many times I wish I'd meet a woman who is supposedly common who'd be okay with me leaving 6 figure career because "money isn't everything" (have since left that ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 06:52 PM
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Ah the old "women have money too" Very true, but thats theirs. Their partner still usually better have enough to supplement her impulses needs to even get a foot in the door.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 02:53 PM
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I didn't think that someone who said "You can build your own life however you see fit." would be grounded enough to admit that not all things a person might undertake are as simple as the person merely deciding an outcome, and that outcome materializing. So you're one of the outlier platitude sayers who isn't totally out of touch with reality!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 01:22 PM
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Nah. Me and every dude I know would always go to social gatherings especially if women would be there, and we would often joke about how we didn't actually want to go anywhere other than for that reason. But most guys dont have the luxury of a perpetually light schedule, light enough for them to pursue enough social gatherings to form a known presence amongst anyone there. Once careers began, Having 3-5hr after work to cook/eat/relax before having to be asleep to get up early enough to workout b…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 10:07 AM
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My point, as I said, was simply addressing the hilarity IMO of the thoughtless platitude, regardless what the platitude is being applied to. Anyway, not being able to do as much casual sex as he'd like might make man feel pressure to enter a relationship he otherwise wouldnt.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 03:31 AM
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I'm unsure if you're doing the reddit game (pretend to not understand) but I'll pretend you're not. I was responding to the platitude below: You can build your own life however you see fit. If this platitude is true, become a billionaire (if you see fit). Also, people would say "Just do it, bro. Stop being insecure, and go get da billions." If anyone actually believed that platitude. Like imagine someone saying that in a serious manner. LOL. So all I was doing was pointing out the comedy I deriv…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 12:37 AM
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It ignores factors beyond an individuals control which is delusional. Inb4 "worry about what you can change, ignore what you cant" or however the platitude goes, it doesn't make sense to hyperfocus on or worry about factors outside your control but pretending you are in charge of how they effect you tangibly is delusional
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 12:35 AM
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I'm in no way insecure about being single. How would you get that from my skepticism/laughter about out of touch platitudes parroted by people of privilege looking for a way to feel unique, albeit a copy/paste way?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 12:32 AM
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LoL what is that even supposed to mean? I have no idea, but I can do it too: Is anyone stopping you from being a multi-billionaire? No. No one is. You get to decide ™️
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 09:46 PM
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Because even if a guy improves enough physically and financially, if he has the "wrong" emotional response to anything, he could trigger a womans ick factor. So rather than trying to endlessly stay woke on whatever women arbitrarily decide is or isn't "acceptable" emotions (or "acceptable" reasons for having those emotions), and operating within those limitations, it's simpler, and probably more effective overall, to just discard emotion and be stoic.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 09:14 PM
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You can build your own life however you see fit. The privilege/naivety in these kind of meaningless platitudes always makes me LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 09:08 PM
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Not an incl. That's just my opinion on why governments would never allow mandatory paternity testing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 05:42 PM
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Imagine writing a short story to a stranger, accusing them of being terminally online as a passive agressive way to release frustration from not knowing a slang term that can be understood in under 10 seconds... oh wait... you could easily just be doing the Reddit/women thingy where you're just pretending to not know what they're talking about. In which case nvm LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 10:15 AM
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Nah, dude. All abusive assholes have the same manipulation superpowers that interfere with womens innate personality sensing psychic abilities
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 09:53 AM
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Governments wouldn't do that because they know it would cause western society to collapse from shattering the illusion of "their" family for many men. Cant have the labor objects knowing about stuff like that, they'll be less productive and consoom less. This IMO is same reason for pushback against blackpill tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 09:16 AM
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"Do you think it's possible for humans to do shitty things and betray other humans?" "yes" "Whoa! Seriously, dude, get help! You're nuts!"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 09:09 AM
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I always figure those types are just super paranoid about their dudes becoming aware of each other LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 09:06 AM
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Lmao why is "insecure" basically only used like the same as this: "Get in my windowless van otherwise you're insecure" Like people can and do realize the word (among others) is usually just an attempt to shame/trick someone to do something that benefits another at their expense, you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 09:04 AM
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Men with low perception and awareness. Men with that bluepill naivety that women love (to exploit) who don't have much experience with women. Otherwise they're playing dumb and just taking what they can get
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 08:55 AM
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Lmao toothpick skinny white dudes who seem to only wear beaters and have 300lb GFs are super common in my area.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 08:46 AM
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Aside from the fact that below is an example of what's going on here: You: "A or B" Rando (me): "A, and here's why." You: "So do you mean A?" lmao yes, like I already said, that's better than cucking yourself IMO
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 10:52 PM
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No. I would never suggest a poly relationship is better for any man. A below-average man is better off gaining some self-respect and staying single rather than cucking himself And a man who could do well in an open relationship would be better off finding a woman of value that he didn't feel the need to supplement with randos
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 07:03 AM
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With polyamory and non-monogamy becoming more common why are so many men so vocal about shaming it? Poly is just a more polite socially backed way of saying "you're not good enough, but you're useful/ might become useful so I want to keep you around pretending to be in a relationship with me while I slut it up like a single college kid." So basically men who are equally sluts, bored guys with gfs they're mutually ambivalent towards, or desperate dudes with no other options who also lack self-res…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 05:29 AM
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"Vibe" is to "looks" what "stability" is to "money/resources" A way of saying something potentially controversial, but with better optics that leave room for interpretation
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 11:04 PM
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LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 11:00 PM
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Honing the skills necessary for keeping their safety net ignorant
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 10:56 PM
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Pretty much, but don't sweat it. Most guys are still either gullible enough to believe otherwise (just tell them you like the vibe at the club or whatever), or they force themselves to believe otherwise to in order to feel better about being in their relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 10:47 PM
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I began seeking more younger women after realizing that from 25-50, there isn't much difference in many womens maturity/hobbies/interests from the perspective of a man. Older women often mistakenly believe their numerical age and years of having done the compulsory act of repeatedly completing tasks for others in exchange for money is a badge of "maturity". But it's not, thats just what people do... because they gotta. Often its the same behaviour as MUCH younger women, just lower energy, and fr…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 10:48 PM
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The guys might have heard all the lectures all their life from seemingly miserable people telling them "do what I do" and don't see the point, don't want to become like them. Or maybe they just take a look around, take a good look at society in general, and see nothing that is relevant to them, or nothing interesting enough to pursue that seems to have any payoff. There could be many reasons idk.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 11:42 PM
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Oh I added those for emphasis on just how much ick factor that gives guys whether they have the balls to admit it or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 10:53 PM
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An ultra-promiscuous woman is to men what a short, obese, broke guy with bad hygiene is to women. Just as somen women are honest about their disgust with such men, some men are honest as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 02:14 PM
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Not always. One of my exes was virgin when we began dating and I had like 10 bodycount then. She asked and I told her. Still was crazy about me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 02:12 PM
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They’re allowed to sleep with whoever they like, aren’t they? Same as women in other words Those are your words. Let me guess, you didn't mean "same" literally, and actually you meant in theory men can sleep with whoever they like. There. I walked it back for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 11:27 AM
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Irony of assuming so much while bickering about others making assumptions
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 08:34 PM
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People like you assumptions simple black and white mind Calm down and enjoy the irony, bucko.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 08:29 PM
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Seriously, women dont do that? Sure, they may not be as vocal or obnoxious about it as men, but they definitely do that when a guy meets their standard of "very attractive".
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 07:58 PM
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I guess different folks be having different experiences or something... maybe perhaps yk.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 12:08 PM
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You're coping. Once I was at a party drunkenly trying to break stuff and fight people. Most people there were staring at me like some kind of animal, and I got kicked out. Later on, I found out from a friend that the cute young woman I was leering at for an inappropriate amount of time had a crush on me, thought I was "cute". She became my gf for like 2 yrs lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 12:04 PM
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Not necessarily that that's rare in and of itself, I just never hear about women leaving a relationship for that reason often. It's usually for another dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 11:35 AM
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Well as I said, I can only speak from experience, and if you were questioning your sexuality, that's kind of an outlier circumstance.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 01:28 AM
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I didn't say that no guys choose those profiles. Also, never said that was on women. I even have no problem with them doing that all. Who cares? LOL All I was doing was making an example that things are NOT equal, in response to you saying "Same as women in other words." Because few, if any guys could get away with saying something so ridiculous. Understand now?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 12:35 AM
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In my experience they don't leave because of not doing well mentally for a time. If anything they just become more demanding in the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 12:32 AM
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With the exceptions of the guy being abusive or suffering loss of income, the woman most likely would be leaving solely because she had another dude in mind or one who she already was with. Whenever you hear woman say she left a relationship to "focus on myself" quietly assume she looking for massive amounts of dudes. Is what it is
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 11:51 PM
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So what you're saying is that high quality women who has her shit in order will happily let a good looking guy treat her like total shit in every way just because he's good looking? Absolutely, to a certain point, and for awhile. I know this from experience, though I never gave anyone the Chris Brown treatment Would you let a good looking woman treat you like shit? Absolutely not Isn't that called being a simp? Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 06:55 PM
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"What do you mean you'd prefer I stop bathing in the kitchen sink for most of the day, honey? Thats strange, it doesn't cause you pain (resumes bathing)"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 08:38 AM
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Same as women in other words Brb changing my tinder bio to "I'm tall so no girls under 5'6 sorry not sorry. And please ffs actually be funny" I can expect good results also, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 08:21 AM
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My saying "women love an ignorant/naive man. So remember to stfu, bros." Is some of the best relationship advice for guys ever IMO
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 03:04 AM
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Imagine indirectly af telling a stranger "Pay for the privilege of doing a chore for me that you don't enjoy much while I scrutinize you, and be entertaining while doing it, like a working jester." and not understanding why the stranger finds that tedious.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 02:55 AM
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My guess would be tptb are trying to get in front of it potentially affecting consumerism. Men spend waaaaaay less when single.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 10:09 PM
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The typical passport bro is invisible to his female equivalent and below. Passport bros counterpart (and "below") have on demand access to casual from slightly above average+ guys, even if infrequently, and that's enough for them. That's really all there is to it. Passport bro is merely trying his best to cope with that, albeit IMO in a ridiculous way.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 09:53 PM
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Well thats good. Hopefully she's just going to be with her friends and they aren't a negative influence then.
/r/MensRights10/03/23 12:44 AM
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Lmao youre overthinking, pal. Guilty for what? For being 38 and understanding what the club scene and yacht parties are frequently about? I find it sad to hear that at that age (assuming she's your age) a woman still doing the same single person activities while married. Might as well date a 25 year old at that age if women just gonna wanna pretend to be 25 perpetually 🤣
/r/MensRights10/03/23 12:10 AM
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Lmao lets say he had 100mil. Dude would have had to have converted all his money into 20-50 brand new Bugattis for him to be broke from Romanian police confiscating his cars. Its very unlikely anyone would do that, convert their net worth to just one thing, especially something like just cars.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 10:13 PM
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👏 now thats what I'm talking about!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 06:29 PM
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Is there any way for me to even put forward any ideas to you that would make you go 'hmmm' I recommend focusing on what they said, rather than being hung up on their username. Their comment migh'tve made you go 'hmmm' but you still could've at least tried.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 04:20 PM
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So to sum everything up, I am making the point that the liberation of the sexual market has led to a massive reduction in the incentivization of functional behavior and societal contribution among men, Though I don't think it's quite that bad yet (guys are very very easily sold broken pieces of the "tradational package", and for a whole lot more, and most dont notice...) If a problematic level of the reduction in the incentivization of functional behavior and societal contribution among men were…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 12:45 AM
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Give the technology little bit of time. If the eventual "nEw eStiMatEs bY eXpErTs say 9 out of 10 women between the ages 18 and 100 have already had AI deepfake porn made of them unknowingly by men!" type fearmongering doesn't kill it, the discourse would prolly get like, agree with: "Rejecting women for high n count or cheating was always misogynistic. wE kNoW that already. But now its ultra-misogyny, putting more trust in what mens patriarchyAI says than in what human women say." Or "CANCEL" L…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 07:17 PM
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Nah, it's no violation of anyones rights. Very few people take that notion seriously. Hyperfocusing on that seems like an attempt to steer those guys away from realising: you can be mediocre barely freaking functional, not doing anything to make yourself "attractive", heck not even seeking out anyone, and still have attractive women showing interest in you regularly, while ignoring the more "responsible" and "mature" guys throwing themselves at them... As long as you're ever so slightly taller/m…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 05:25 PM
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Any theories why this is getting so widespread? 10:1 simp/dancing monke to normal dude ratio. Means they know they can just make pushy demands, or say nothing at all, and it's all still met with praise except for maybe on some obscure corners of the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 05:06 PM
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Ah, but I was literally explaining since you didn't understand my initial comment. So what ya said there isn't applicable. Like I said, you're tired? Get some rest.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 07:51 AM
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Well there we have it. Reactionary response with a fragile ego on show it is then. Or, you know, a joke about your extremely condescending, tone deaf tone LoL. I'm tired Then take a break, Mr. Monopoly-on-reasoning. Preaching nonstop to all the ignorant randos has its perks, but if you're sleepy, by all means have some rest!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 07:24 AM
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If you're intelligent, you'll ask what I meant by what I just wrote to learn and discuss further. If not, you'll be reactionary in your response. No. you! *I'm the guy who says stuff so deep that simply reading it isn't enough, and bears further explanation. So go ahead, ask me what this means, bucko. "if you're intelligent"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 06:45 AM
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Spoken like a person of extreme understanding. How rare!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 02:22 AM
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Well, no. Well, I don't know what the average person would think but I would expect women's entry into the workforce to cause an equal loss in male LFP. LoL you're agreeing with me on what one would expect womens entry into the workforce would cause, but still can't help adding a touch of virtue signaling/disingenuousness, why? Internet culture be crazy af no joke! So extra! Would you also feign such ignorance at what the average person would likely think if the subject were whether or not the s…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 05:39 PM
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An average person would expect womens entry to the workforce to cause an equal loss in male labor participation. But it has had a small effect on male labor participation due to males still having to adhere to "outdated" gender roles. IMO this is just a case where corporations(the govt) realized that they could mine the entire population for their time and labor resources, rather than just males, and was eager to see this happen. Now there are less families, led by men, working mostly for their …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 05:22 PM
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No one's forcing men to settle. Many factors force both men and women to settle all the time. Most people are polite enough to not mention it, especially to their partners. I fail to understand why anyone would enter into a relationship that they don't seem is worth any effort. They wouldn't. But they might if they thought it was worth minimal effort in comparison with other options. And furthermore, how the fuck do men think it's appripriate to say that women should be more enthusiastic when th…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 12:25 AM
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I've never heard that redpill said that, but then again I'm far from knowing enough about it to be its spokesman. But I think its more that they arent enthusiastic about what they get hence "no more good men". The guys don't feel motivation to try in relationships because they're settling too hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 10:22 PM
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How so? This is my first time hearing that red pill says otherwise. Always thought "redpill rage" was the frustration at having to try hard for not much that they gotta get over in order to spin plates lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 09:40 PM
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I'd say guys are usually settling slightly more, so that would make sense for his exes to be slightly more into him than vice versa.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 09:34 PM
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it's like a picky child not wanting to eat the burger in front of them and only demanding steak[,knowing that mommy will throw out the burger, and make them a steak often enough, despite their siblings snacking on cat kibble.] TBH most will realize that 32 year old career women doesn't love him, she's just afraid of dying alone. The fact that it's not the best look to be candid about most topics on this subreddit suggests otherwise. People, especially modern dudes, love being delusional about th…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 07:07 PM
3

Your pretending to not be aware that that is the stock reply if you switch the genders aside, Thanks for your honesty in how senseless that reply usually is used.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 06:05 PM
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Dude, you’re interacting her because you want to put your sex organ INTO her body. "Women only interact with men for wholesome reasons mostly pertaining to obscure aspects of the mens personality, and have no objective in mind when interacting with men they find sexually attractive." Would have to be at least somewhat true for your complaint to make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 06:03 PM
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"He doesn't owe her more than friendship, sweetie. And since it takes two to tango, if the friendship wasn't great, maybe that means she should re-evaluate and work on her personality."
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 03:54 PM
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The fact that you are so condescending that you would just assume that someone who is an MD would be dumb enough to be unaware that that looks good on a dating app is astounding and hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 04:14 AM
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No. Not telling you that every man on the subreddit has those things. Forgot to include those things on the never-ending list of requirements when making my example. And that's probably because all of the items on the never-ending checklist of requirements are largely irrelevant. I know a MD. Fit, sociable (moreso than me), etc guy who has never had GF, only a few dates. He's gone above and beyond on the always-expanding checklist, so what else can he do? Frankly, if you have to do all those thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 03:31 AM
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Honestly I was gaming the most while I was working too much. In addition to being one of the only things I had energy/time to do in the little time after work before sleeping, it was a distraction from how depressing work was.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 12:04 AM
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I wouldn't say I've tried "everything" and didn't have to try many things. I was dating while being an immature alcoholic, without any strategy than hitting on women I found attractive, as were many guys I know. So I feel like telling people who struggle in dating, "You haven't done enough, you're making excuses." is something the type who think that they always have to have the answer to something says out of frustration. I imagine its equally frustrating for guys who adopt strategy, change the…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 08:55 PM
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40hr gamers lol. By that logic, assuming they're financially comfortable enough to game 40hr/week, while being stereotypically jobless, What would be the point in a job? Because it looks better to say "I run around doing tasks for randos all day" than "I do what I like and have access to all day."? Also, wouldn't having a full time job have the same effect? Where are the people saying "YoUre SiNgLe bEcAuSe yOu WoRk tOo mUcH", which tbh from my experience actually did make it harder to date. Work…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 08:08 PM
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"I have tried everything" and "I made dating app profile" are not acceptable answers. Im curious as to where you'd move the goalposts for someone who did both of those. And what you'd say about someone, a very immature person, who was dating before ever trying anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 07:36 PM
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males YIKES aRe yOu EvEn TaLkInG abOuT pEoPLe?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 06:21 PM
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What are you on about? I'm not an incel. Bold of you to assume so much. That's exactly what I'm talking about. Someone says something that you can't quite pinpoint why you don't like, other than knowing what they're saying is seemingly unpopular, and all of a sudden some tirade and calling them incel. Lmao. That is all I was pointing out to begin with. But since I be believing looks matter slightly more to women, you'd probably consider me incel. Which would be a second example of misusing the d…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 07:44 AM
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If I'm smart enough to consider it, surely those who steer public discourse through media are probably also smart enough to see the benefit in changing the definition to include believing any of a growing number of ideas that have nothing to do with celibacy, so that it's easier to paint any undesirable/dissenting ideas as "incel rhetoric" and quickly dismiss/cancel someone, with most people following suit to avoid "guilt" by association.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 06:55 AM
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I could make decent posts, but I find watching "wrongthink" assumptions that I had in early age become more popular due to commonality of experience, and watching other young men realize, with age, that it wasn't necessarily us who had it wrong, is more entertaining and productive than writing posts that would be met with gaslighting, delusion, and insults (for not parroting statespeech)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 04:05 PM
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Any other guys noticed this? I've said before that that the main reason I ever did pnd/ghosting/hypergamy was due to the hopeless mentality of "If you can't beat em, join em." For a long time, after moving to a large city, it seemed like such a small minority of women I came across didn't want ONS or weren't looking to cheat on BFs that it didn't seem realistic to seek out anything other than ONS, and each time, after realizing post nut clarity of "This isn't what I want. Not fully." I just made…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 01:26 PM
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I think if you can't be satisfied outside of a relationship you can't be satisfied in one. "No food for you, pal. You're not happy with your stomach grumbling, so you wouldn't enjoy me cooking you one of these steaks." Joke aside, I understand your point, and agree to a point. But it makes me think: I'd guess that most people in relationships voluntarily entered them, and everyone, especially men, have heard "...and you gotta put forth effort and communicate and compromise and..." in order to "m…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 12:29 PM
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freak outlier, who would have sex if he stopped be a fat fuck who watches hentai all day and has no friends. Nah, bro. Thats a stereotype to misdirect men from reality. I know a single young MD who is a nice person, very smart, fit, sociable. But he's very short and Indian, living in USA. Last I heard, he was still single, and has never had a date or kiss.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 05:09 PM
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It would take 31 years to count from 0 to 1 billion.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 04:59 PM
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You might even see some women lobbying to make polygamy legal again if they get desperate enough as there mathematically cannot be enough top tier men to go around "This is a human rights issue! If you don't support it, you're a misogynist on the wrong side of history."
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 04:58 PM
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Lmao I've always said If any sizeable number of people genuinely believe that BS and problems are of such great help to an individual, and werent just parroting platitudes, there would be profitable businesses where you pay them money just to make your life harder so that you can "achieve" better.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 04:56 PM
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Availability
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 08:26 PM
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Not from the act of war or its direct side effects. Think: people of Ukraine fighting vs surrendering to Russia. They perceive having something to fight for, against Russia. Continuing to have whatever it is that they perceive is worth fighting for is the kind of "benefit" I am speaking of. surely you must've already realized that
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 08:56 AM
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(c) the fact that while it was young men doing the fighting, it was women and older men who would most benefit from the fighting. "Moreover, it is hard to think of any war in which those who fought were not young men — a group that typically has the lowest relative benefit from victory. The stay-at-homes, be they women or older men, tend to benefit the most" This is interesting. In the recent past, in the western world, almost all young men still had great benefit from fighting, albeit less so t…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 08:16 AM
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Lmao no none of us was behaving as bad as option #1, but all of us had some pretty cringe moments.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 07:22 PM
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Women don't care much about the personality genes, only the looks/height ones. Source: old roomies and I were regularly slaying while living/acting like hyperactive, drunk, violent toddlers 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 06:53 PM
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Lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 06:47 PM
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One of my exes friends said she told her she was going to date me because she "could just tell" that I have a big dick. Unfortunately I didn't yet understand that that was a red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 06:45 PM
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Looks, height, and in distant third, money, which can make them feign the same feelings looks and height provide, causing them to give consent. LoL
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 06:34 PM
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Most of the times it's virtue signaling or it is missing some details Ppd guy: I'm 5'5. Many women say that's too short. Ppd gal: What? You sound insecure. One of my ex bf many years ago was 4'11. You should work on your attitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 07:03 AM
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Not choosing any path by making an observation. If I told you staying in my basement and never leaving would make you happy, would it make you happier to pretend thats true? Of course not. Why then does society expect grown adults to be happier pretending that lonely servitude is their dream? Thats basically all I'm saying. Surely it's inconvenient to elites that any of their livestock would think that way. But for ordinary folks, I find it bizarre that they'd have a problem with someone seeing …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 07:39 PM
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You don't gonna argue with me about it, buddy. Enough guys seem to find being lonely beasts of burden fulfilling enough that for others, there's a society LOL Why complain at me for pointing out the ridiculous of it? answer that one to yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 07:14 PM
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Probably those would be equally frustrating, but pretending that toys and being a labor object is as fulfilling as that plus a significant other is silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 06:15 PM
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As if intimate companionship can be replaced with a "career" or collecting funko pops? I've always thought like that, "How folks gonna tell those dudes 'just work a job and buy toys'? Do they think guys who struggle to find GF have lower-functioning brains or something, and that that alone would actually be satisfying?"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 05:16 PM
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Is this common for most women nowadays, Lmfao in 100 years dudes will be asking the same questions. Most men just don't, or more likely, can't handle opening their eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 05:04 PM
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Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 05:12 PM
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Yes! The scenario you say makes perfect sense! Although I'd personally prefer to contribute 170k and 30k respectively, with 20k each for aggressive investing/saving/scheming to leave the hamster ball and enjoy human life, and 10k each to play with.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 05:11 PM
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Legally, sure. But likely the guy is buying BS and spending more than he would otherwise, pays for most stuff, and his wife "helps" with the phones and internet bill, maybe the next cheapest bill as well, and never ceases to mention it. I did cohabitation with 2 gfs, and both times, somehow despite having another person who makes money in the household, I spent less single. How? Not having to run the streets to entertain, not having to just always be having to buy some random stuff that adds up.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 04:26 PM
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analogous situation for women: [removed]
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 03:31 PM
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Yeah right. No woman making 60k would tolerate paying much, or contributing anything reliably on schedule if their spouse made 200k unless he's way more attractive. I'm pretty sure that dynamic (if the man is the higher earner) was said to be "abuse" a decade ago. Swap the genders and hubby paying 80% of his 60k salary is "mature, real man" and woman keeping 80% of her 200k salary is "empowerment" lololololol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 03:29 PM
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I think most people that hate the subreddit who participate actually just hate their reasons for being on the sub reddit, and the struggle to find enough comments that align with their worldview to support it LOL So on one hand, theres blue pillers who are desperate to somehow reinforce to themselves the notion that dating is a pure meritocracy, performatively smiling through the tears when they catch a guy saying "looks matter" like at least I'm not that incel. I shave trendy haircut on my pota…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 01:36 PM
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I despise the phrase, but "This." "Excuse me? Women earn money too nowadays, incel. Women don't care about money." Yes, ma'am! And I'm glad for ya too! Go do those tasks for an obscene amount of time git dat munnuhh! The thing is, those funds don't mean jack. You're not willing to share them. Might as well tell poor people of the world 'Elon has billions, don't worry about money.'
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 03:46 PM
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You could see the cogs turning in her head when she was challenged and she realised her stupidity and her soul died a little. Coping mechanisms shouldn't take you that far off course, bucko. She was stifling laughter because she knows damn well that she doesn't have to answer. She understands that society answers for her, their answer is that she is correct no matter what, and that plenty of simps will be competing to pay when she decides to take on a temporary supplemental income LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 03:35 PM
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Bro, that just means you're an upgrade! Those kiddos gonna come home to you as their dad for cash, not those lowlife baby daddies. Step up, bro!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 03:30 PM
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It isn't hard to understand. Consider your college bros. How many of you realistically could hookup at will? In my group of 7 bros, one guy could outright slay, while myself and another dude did about 50% as well. The rest got zero action other than their GFs who constantly had them stressing. So extrapolate similar succes rate to the general population, and you have your answer. 50% of women are sleeping with 10-30% of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 05:16 PM
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It's definitely possible to know ones own height, general attractiveness level, race, and income level.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 07:37 AM
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Lmao what's to disagree with? Just tell him "Your experience isn't valid because it conflicts with what I believe like to say."
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 07:31 AM
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Total BS. I was doing ridiculous immature shit, acting like a violent toddler, and having fear/anxiety while slaying.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:46 PM
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Lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:44 PM
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Remember, guys: Nice (NOT nasty individual) in womanese = eagerly compliant jester, always "on" who seems unintelligent enough to not cause anxiety (ie. So bluepill he'd never suspect cheating even if he walks in on it)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:24 PM
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So you're suggesting the majority of women supplement their mans income and not the other way around? That's just dishonest.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 08:17 AM
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No you're not LOL. I don't know many guys IRL who don't have it like that and neither do you if you're being honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 07:51 AM
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No yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 07:19 AM
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No. That expectation is the same as then even though women make money too, its for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 06:57 AM
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What are you talking about? I've had gfs and been engaged, bro. Although I was exaggerating, it gives a picture of reality. My exes likely only were with me because I tower over them and they found me handsome.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 04:39 PM
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What was wrong about my observation and how did you correct it? You, having taken my comment at face value, assumed that I was "emotional". I corrected you by Explaining I was neither being 100% serious nor emotional about it.. and I even basically said sorry for disappointing you that I wasn't being totally serious LOL As for your comment to another user, if it was flipped and a women exaggerated facts to make a point, would you label her logical or emotional? Probably would think "oh" and not …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 01:53 AM
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*descriptive(of current society, especially online) response Sorry if you're becoming emotional imagining all the folks who can see the same
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 08:46 PM
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I agree. Ngl I was spamming dick pics/ "hi. come over?" for awhile because on OLD because I wasn't taking it seriously. There didn't even seem to be much correlation with saying low effort oddball stuff and failure/success.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 06:12 PM
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I think the culture where people are conditioned to make their first priority spending most of their waking hours completing tasks or solving problems for others hurts a lot of guys success. I cant speak for all guys, but after working I wanna chill at my house. To me it's more than just a prop, another checklist item to impress women/family/friends, so going out frequently feels like another task since theres often not much time for hobbies etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 04:52 PM
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I simply made an observation about your comment But I did correct your wrong observation like you asked. Anyway, in the event you aren't being disingenuous, if you click below you'll find my comment to another user regarding the comment you're writing to me about. Only you know if its your first time seeing it 😉 "Exaggerating what I mostly see on social media/dating apps. Thankfully IRL is better"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 04:36 PM
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True. Some believe 95% of men are repulsive creeps. Others believe only 80% of men are repulsive creeps. Some have interest in 6'+ handsome millionaires, while others interest is 6'+ handsome millionaires who occasionally wear trendy glasses. Some value abortion above most else. Others outright worship abortion. etc
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 04:21 PM
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"Only gets lowest tier, short (4" above average height for males) Chad when he's had way way too many, and other girls aren't around, so at 25, she's only had sex with 28 guys, and no one wants to commit other than creeps (6/10 and/or <6'3 guys) so she is single."
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 01:19 PM
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You ever live with a woman, bro? That would be dishes she left from earlier while YOU were at work lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 11:13 PM
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"Multi billionaire personality"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 11:09 PM
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Ikr Dontchu blame me! Blame whoever let me get THAT drunk!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 11:07 PM
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lower their standards and be more realistic about what they can actually get and when they do, get gaslight with "Ofc those women dont want to date you if you don't have any standards and would sleep with any of them." Most mens standards, although varying (unlike womens) are quite low as it is, and average mens standards, almost by necessity, are usually rock bottom. But men keeping their standards much lower than womens after learning how things are imo plays the one of biggest role in the dif…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 05:29 AM
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Lmao dude is just reading page from womens handbook that instructs: "He doesn't like something you'd prefer he did? Call him insecure/misogynist/inCeL etc."
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 05:16 AM
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The celebrity men women like come in all shapes and sizes, tall, short, ugly, weird looking, skinny, muscular, different races, overweight. Does someone saying this count as proof of multiverse/ multiple dimensions?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 05:17 PM
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🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 05:04 PM
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You're arguing with your own delusions as well. They never said you said monogamy was "pure fear".
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 08:45 PM
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Positivity born from numerous past positive experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 10:27 PM
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Confidence is basically outwardly conveying the inner expectation that things will go well this time, as they mostly always have before.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 09:34 PM
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I'm happy with them, yes. I'm also happy for you and with you too, bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 02:18 AM
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The women in UK are hot beyond USA American women, bucko. It's basically fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 02:01 AM
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What are you implying, pal?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 01:36 AM
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So you cannot disagree and you agree? Of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 12:45 AM
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Bruh you're smoking more MJ than me to say that. They're hotter in UK!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 11:10 PM
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No. I hope you feel better, pal.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 10:20 PM
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UK women much hotter than US America women. !FACTS!<
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 10:13 PM
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Tap below for correct answer to question in title: "Because it asks something, sacrifice, from both men and women."
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 10:17 PM
1

Just take the avocadopill already, bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 10:10 PM
1

Theres a looooot of things sunglassessss doooooo for a personnnnnnn. A loooooot.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 10:09 PM
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Men, keep in mind what's treasure for you is trash for someone else and she can easily trade for a better currency. But the same can be said also when you're Tyrone so that doesn't matter bro. If she doesn't come to your house 1st date, it never began.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 11:42 PM
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Is it possible to smoke so much that your beard becomes a THC dispenser, and when you scratch it, you become high or higher? I was just going to smoke, but was scratching my face and beard and became high enough to where instead of smoking more, I'm making this post. The effect was similar to taking 1-2 hits from pod. How is this possible?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 09:13 PM
0

They don't understand a woman not wanting kids, How don't they understand making sure it less messy when they gotta branch?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 07:04 PM
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I'm talking about the time you actually do it, not about deciding.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 06:56 PM
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Having consideration for her beyond bathrooms, showing her the place you're going to chill at while she works during the week right away so she knows whether it'll be much of a commute in between coming over to chill with you (for a few hours max) is something only a real man alpha big grownup would do. Sounds like you should grow up, pal.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 05:47 PM
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If she didn't want to do it within 15 minutes of meeting through a mutual friend, she just wasn't that interested
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 05:35 PM
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If she doesn't want to go back to your place 10 minutes into the date, she's tryna play you, bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 05:26 PM
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What? I wear tank tops (and pants with a 3rd "leg" for my penis) year round because they're comfortable, bro. It has nothing to do with getting attention. In all seriousness I do be wearing tank tops/sleeveless hoodies often, but how big should my arms be while doing this for it to still be acceptable in your opinion, kind internet stranger pal?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 05:25 PM
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If she doesn't succ u on sight, at first meeting, she doesn't love you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 04:19 AM
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If she didn't offer to take you out...and succ u... she never liked you, homie.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 01:49 AM
1

What I said is self explanatory I'd like a harem But one wife is better than enough
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 09:40 PM
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and harems Yes this is what I want But just one wife is enough
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 07:31 PM
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"Someone's gonna be fucking her during this process, why shouldn't it be me?" was my (realistic af imo ) mentality going in, hence rp tactics... There is no conflict of interest. I'm looking for a relationship, but most women I meet arent. I don't wanna be "the chump" LOL i can tell you from experience that the low effort guys are exactly the ones you fuck and dump lol But the high effort ones are putting in "work" while I'm here saying this, and fucking her, while he's "getting to know her". Bo…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 06:41 PM
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maybe it’s lack of effort? This makes sense. I mostly act in a low effort manner due to rp theory (lol) and experience showing me that that produces best results. Maybe she didn't like my initial low effort and is trying to turn the table. Idk
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 06:15 PM
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You might need to talk to her. Nope. The one who talks less wins in fwb mode They will be able to say more than a stranger on the internet. More doesn't mean accurate They know you better. True, but I wouldn't say "relevant" If it makes you feel any better “hot enough to fuck but not take home to mom and dad” is still better than “nooooope!” At least with nope you don't have feelings already a lot of PPD dudes here would probably kill to be where you are at) Kill to be effectively discarded?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 06:12 PM
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🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 05:48 PM
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Brutally vague, but I understand. I'm just trying to figure out if it was me so I can learn what to do to be seen as bf material instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 05:47 PM
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I gotta good house, car etc, am "good looking", wasnt acting stupid to her. Like wtf could it be. I thought we both mostly check each others boxes for more than fwb, but apparently not. I'll go read it though. What you're saying makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 05:45 PM
1

So you're basically saying it's not me, its her?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 05:29 PM
1

"Is the explanation longer than what you typed?" is all I'm wondering rn tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 05:27 PM
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Broooo she is so hot and even told me she loves me before changing her mind. How tf can I do that?? Now that I think of it maybe she is doing this as revenge because I didn't say "I love you" back at the time as it struck me off guard.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 05:13 PM
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Idk what rmv is, and I'm only struggling with things that aren't pertinent to being bf material, at least I think
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 05:07 PM
1

But why am I not BF material?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 05:05 PM
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Yet another girl only wanting to be fwb after saying otherwise before, and me wanting more 😭 I still said yes, so does this make me a simp?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 03:58 PM
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Lmfao if she didnt strip and start making out with you on sight, she was never really into you, buddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 03:54 PM
2

Tell me what you're smoking, pal. Please, I'm having a rough day!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 03:51 PM
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Just in: 50% of married men are 4'11, obese, sensitive janitors who do 1000 hobies to make up for their height/weight
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 04:24 PM
2

And then the exact same thing happened again, a scraggly emo kid I had a crush on in school asked me out, I said yes because I already had a crush on him, but after hanging out he was again just really awkward to be around When I met my last two gfs, I was being very awkward. With one, was so inebriated, that I can't even adequately describe the level of awkward behavior I was doing it was that cringe/abnormal yet she still went out with me. and had weird interests and it was all just a complete…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 03:59 PM
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What incentive do I have to lie? Conformity to the popular narrative? Subconsciously you know keeping clueless dudes clueless now means a bigger pool of delusional simps to potentially fall back on and manipulate later on? My two guesses.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 03:39 PM
2

Also LOL at “pathological” That also made me lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 01:10 AM
3

Lmao based
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 07:11 PM
6

How are these high standards? They aren't, pal.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 04:37 PM
0

"Maybe some self-exploration is needed to figure out why you find the majority of women unattractive is all I’m saying" LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 02:46 PM
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Women should ONLY date men they're attracted to. Fair enough, but why is men ONLY seriously dating (have intent for long term) women we're attracted to seen as misogyny?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 06:43 PM
2

Well maybe the solution is for us to be together since you don't lie about these things, while all but efectively 0.005% of women do LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 06:30 PM
2

But I'm not. I genuinely don't understand how that would be your problem, let alone a problem in general.. "It is what it is" Isn't problematic.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 06:28 PM
2

That's not a problem it's just an observation but my observing it candidly is a problem... for women. Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 05:14 PM
1

I don't think women are hive mind but every girl I have been involved with on all levels says something about either finding me more attractive than "other guys" or things about my height relative to theirs, as though those are the only things that matter about me. If only one of them like my music, encourage me, my passion, things that actually make me me besides the packaging, I'd believe yall wasn't just as (if not more) superficial while weirdly lying about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 05:13 PM
1

One of my exes, her ex who still was in love with her was objectively (at the time we met) "better" than me except he was shorter. Why then, except for height, did she date me?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 04:55 PM
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Im not short though! And I believe that that has been key in me having had girlfriends, hookups, and interest from women... !because they have said such "I like how much taller than me you are"!< So to know that height gives me an advantage, from my experience, while also knowing women like to say "Height doesn't matter", it's bizarre, yes, but does that mean I'm supposed to be like "No I'm not gonna date you because if someone asks, you're gonna act like you like short men too" (while knowing t…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 04:52 PM
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I dont think its embarrassing, just odd beyond explanation. I imagine myself claiming to like double onion/no cheese/no sauce pizza, and that I even prefer that combo, whenever someone asks me why don't I like that kind of pizza And wonder why, when I've never eaten that, and nothing was ever stopping me from trying it, and I know that I wouldn't voluntarily eat a pizza like that...would I even say that?? Only women know the answer LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 04:30 PM
2

LOL Even if only .005% of men said "I use blue paint." ?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 02:41 PM
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So if all men like painting, and every guy had several pictures of a blue sky they painted, yet wherever they were asked about the color they use for the sky, went "Its green" while also denying lying, and acting confused when you point out we only paint it as blue.. You'd stop finding all men sexually attractive? And it'd be sad/hypocritical for you to sleep with any? Men and women must think hella different then, because I look at it like, she's only gonna be saying lies like: "I wish my bf (6…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 02:35 PM
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acknowledging the short men with girlfriends, Often got tall money or the woman who isn’t interested in money Is the only one of her kind in her city of 1.5M people... 😂 Still isn't as hilarious as picturing someone, in a serious tone, saying "Hey, my mane. You single because of yo beliefs about the world, not because you 4'11."
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 02:09 PM
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"The only reason women wouldn't date short, fat, bald, sensitive, poor men, is because those men (who women find most sexually attractive) have n counts that are way too high. Women just dont like high n count men."
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 01:54 PM
1

How is that hypocritical? Whether she's honest about what she finds attractive or not has nothing to do with finding her sexually attractive, which is relevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 01:36 PM
1

Unless I'm missing something. The other ni99as it'd also be happening with. not everyone roll like that, fam
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 12:48 PM
1

I don't typically ask or bring it up because I know enough to play bluepill and pretend it doesn't matter at all to me. But I know I haven't been far off because besides virgins who I was their first, the ones I figured low count, said so eventually, without asking, because priors came up in conversation. Or their friends made comments indicating such. The ones who were high count, that I figured were, eventually either told me, their friends "let it slip" in convo, or met enough "exes" and male…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 02:20 PM
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Women actually be thinking they got superpowers to make them unreadable lol. If anything my experience says it's far easier for men to do that, even unintentionally. Often got the always bizarre "I can't tell what you're thinking." in relationships. Never been far off on n count guesses (low vs high) with women I've been involved with. Heck, a couple bros and I, all upstanding "open minded" bluepill presenting dudes IRL in polite company have on multiple occasions been hanging out with some girl…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 07:25 AM
1

A night here and there is enough for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 03:17 AM
1

If you had a warehouse full of nice cars, any of which you could have brought to your home to use as long as you'd like, would you really care to spend time pining over cars in print?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 02:27 AM
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Are you a guy? If so, with enough experience you can get a generally good idea. If you're a woman, it'd be doing a disservice to bros everywhere by telling you which behaviors to try and hide lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 02:14 AM
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Nope. I prefer it when looking for relationship because why waste time with someone who love da streets more than any particular individual?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 02:11 AM
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Propaganda
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 06:54 PM
0

LOL I'm gigastacysexual because of hypergamy. If gigastacy dates you, you know it's because she wants to, and not because shes settling.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 03:35 PM
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IDK maybe they just aren't taking things too seriously. I use many emojis IRL 😱 most often for no reason🙊 other than to entertain myself and the few people who find them funny 😺👏.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 04:40 AM
1

Yes 😱
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 12:23 AM
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When I was 17 had gf that was 21. She could buy beer, unlike girls my age. Why wouldn't my bros have shown support?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 12:23 AM
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Idk I'd say thats just damage control, a polite, womanese way of saying: "Most men are so repulsive that we don't distinguish them from women, who we (straight women) find similarly attractive. They're repulsive at first but if they prove rich and sycophantic enough we may temporarily feign attraction in exchange for their service. That's different from mens attraction."
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 03:13 PM
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Been with both high counts and virgins, and I wouldn't even say theres much correlation between experience and competence. Consistently worst was highest known count. Consistently best was virgin when we met.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 06:50 AM
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You aren’t attracted to the vast majority of women, so either you’re gay or asexual. Lmao by that logic women are hella gay or asexual since they find the vast majority of men unattractive
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 06:40 AM
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If you can think of it, I've done it. So you recorded a jazz album on an airplane, flying the plane and playing sax at the same time?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 06:32 AM
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You didn't answer their question, and that's not even remotely true for everyone at all. I would totally date a tall women, my height or even taller... But would she date me? Or would she deflect, and use the default assumption "they don't like us" in order to not have to say "You're not 6"+ taller than me, repulsive." LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 12:50 AM
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LMAO precisely. Society itself is a form of cucking.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 05:17 PM
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Perhaps war removes some competition, but I'd say "society", being a participant in it on the ground level, already removes most from that competition. I look at it as society itself is a farm, and those above it range from various farm workers, using the farm as a means to an end, up to the leaders, owners of the wholescale operation. The mind numbing drudgery of confinement to such a farm isn't felt by most, as they're placated enough with what "society" has to offer, and so they stay in "thei…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 05:05 PM
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Men who aren't oligarchs/political elite/ultra-wealthy (enough to not have to participate in drone culture) essentially function as organic robots helping to maintain the funhouse that is the world/society of oligarchs/political elite/ultra-wealthy. "Society" is what they sell those robots as their world, and most buy it. Of the few who dont, they usually, by design, blame those who aren't even responsible for the state of things. So I'd say war is less of a way to cull, and more of a thing like…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 04:33 PM
2

Yes, bro LOL she look like my ex
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 03:57 AM
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I don't believe you, this is the internet. If when women say no men < 6' online, on their OLD bios they're lying. Men saying blackpill or want to date younger women are also lying. You're reading this text but it's not real.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 03:26 AM
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Naturally. Thanks for confirming your double standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 03:24 AM
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I didn't see it and no one says you have to agree with most women I thought you were implying that most women think of age the way you do. Personally I, like most people date the person, not a number indicating age. One ex GF is 4 yr older, although I suppose to you she's a creepy predator LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 02:47 AM
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Lets pack up shop, folks. No one believes anything they're saying here. Intetnet isn't real. Everything is satire LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 02:44 AM
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But I was a creepy predator when I dated a girl 4 years younger, right? LoL
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 02:42 AM
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Wasn't asking for a device was asking if you thought it was creepy if a 30 year old were to ask you out, and giving the example that in my experience most women do not think the same as you about age.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 02:41 AM
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LMAO when I first heard "Women like it when a man is vulnerable with them." I quickly went and told my ex "I'm vulnerable rn." "About what?" she asked Me: "I don't know." Her: "You're ridiculous."
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 02:36 AM
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This, the fine, varying, arbitrary line between "acceptable" and "unacceptable" venting is why many men learn it's safer to just say nothing and pretend to not have any problems as best as you can LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 02:33 AM
1

Yes. Women like it when a man blames himself for things outside of his control.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 02:31 AM
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I've gone through my life without any make-up and no woman (or man) has ever even hinted that I should be wearing it. Only Gigastacy would say something like that
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 02:15 AM
2

I'm black and that movie is absolutely hilarious. Please watch it. Like the other person said, the blackface is satirical.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 02:13 AM
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Does it really hit that different? How? Just like dudes aren't spitting red/blackpill talk IRL, women aren't randomly blurting out "Men under 6' are repulsive" LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 02:00 AM
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If a 30 year old asked you out? Most recent ex is 4 years younger than me and prior to me she was dating a dude 10 years older than me! Clearly not all women have age hangups, I wouldn't even say most do. More recently almost all of the women who have shown interest/initiated are 5+ years younger. Not gonna turn that down because internet rando says thats creepy LOL. OLD matches range from 10 yr older to 12+ years younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 01:58 AM
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So my ex GF 4 years older than me is a creepy predator? Lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 01:49 AM
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Send pics otherwise it means you don't have anything going for you 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 01:44 AM
2

Those men arent docile eager sycophants are idiotic manchild
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 01:42 AM
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So when women say online and on dating apps that they won't date below a certain height, they're lying, or it somehow doesn't count because its online? By that logic no one actually believes redpill, because after all, that stuff is said online.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 01:26 AM
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Because you never know, bro. I'm mostly average and yet have dated stacies. In fact, stacies-gigastacies are the only demographic of women thats shown me consistent interest, or done approaching first. I'm gigastacysexual and won't settle for less than stacybuxx/gigastacy now. Know your worth, kings 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 09:44 PM
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Sure, thats true, athough it has nothing to do with the reason why someone might swipe on everyone, which is what I was answering about
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 03:09 PM
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Id say it's possibly redpill, but not necessarily. Understanding that most women care about a guy's job far more than the opposite it is not indicative of "redpill". Also, I know of guys who probably don't have the slightest clue what "redpill" means outside of Matrix films who want traditional wives.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 02:33 AM
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Man: (says something woman doesn't like) Woman: "Look! That man incel was saying the redpill."
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 01:51 AM
1

Is this exchange...actually propaganda?🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 12:20 AM
1

When looking for a fish, and it doesn't matter which, cast a wide net.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 12:15 AM
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What if a man thinks that? Is it "misogyny"? 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 03:19 PM
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They called all women(even their girlfriends) whores, they bullied weaker men and barely passed through school. LMAO one of the most successful with women dude I know, a guy who most women we known thought is so "nice", once told me when I was having problems with GF: "All women are whores, bro. All of them. Why are you even worrying about a whore?"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 03:10 PM
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I identify as 6'11, and naturally, I'm gigastacysexual. It's time to start respecting peoples height identities.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 02:49 PM
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🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 02:44 PM
1

Dude be writing lyrics like: "She only want to text with Chad, I'm in her DMs feeling sad 'It must be cuz my wrists are too thin' And Chad did all the sex with her, I'm in her DMs feeling hurt 'Your n count got too high, you bitch' Whyyyyy is it hard for me, I'm nice, texted over 100 times, oh thats just females She left me on read Ohhhhhhh, you know I tried, sat there nearby her side, but she never appreciate a gentleman She went home with Chad She only want to text with Chad, I'm in her DMs fe…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 02:23 PM
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Bro, you know that as cis amab men we usually can't resist making sexual comments whenever we see females cleaning out animal cages.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 01:37 PM
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believe women fuck 30 dudes a year They gets a new chad from Tinder each week, sometimes more, so at least ~52 dudes a year.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 01:11 PM
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Most guys couldn’t agree on which women are in the top 10-15%. This right here. One of my exes, I thought was so HOT, yet my best bro, not so much. Same situation with him too. One of his GFs he thought was so HOT, I thought was "alright, kinda cute." Also I think with women there is more agreement on which men are top 10-15%.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 03:47 PM
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Why are redpill guys so angry Aint got no redpill merch 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 07:38 AM
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Not necessarily literally 100, but "a lot" is something that varies from person to person, so 100 makes it clear that you're talking about a number that's uncomfortably high, for most men who have not successfully been shamed into believing that the woman having a "high" count is beneficial to their relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 02:36 PM
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I don't know what you mean. I said 100 as a figure of speech denoting a "high" count. Also, I was speaking about my own personal opinion and speculating that some of the others who have a preference for a not sky high count might have such a preference for similar reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 02:33 PM
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not wanting to be compared to the faceless [horde of] Joe[s] from the past. Id say it has less to do with comparisons, and more to do with understanding that if 100 other guys were just playthings to her, what makes you any different in her eyes? Because she says so to keep you there until she done stringing you along? Nope, learnt how that goes, and know too many bros who also had to learn that the hard way, and once I learned, although I still dated high n count woman (convenience, and she hot…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 01:59 PM
2

So they 6'2 and taller?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 01:14 AM
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"Most women wouldn't date a 4'11 man, therefore most women are shortphobic." Must make sense to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 01:08 AM
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Experience
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 01:03 AM
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If you didn't do sex when you call her 15 minutes after getting her number, she's already cucking you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 11:05 PM
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Younger women show more interest in me than women my age or older women. All OLD matches have been young except for one woman 2yr younger. One gf 2yr younger, and one 4yr older are the only exceptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 11:03 PM
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"I like the office, cats, coffee, and netflix. [Fast food] is better than [other, similar fast food]." Seemingly accounts for 1/4 of all bios.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 10:13 PM
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All I was doing there was giving an example of common women's logic, like the "Disagree with ME even slightly? You hate everyone like me" Type thinking
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 03:24 PM
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I have no idea what that's supposed to even mean? I personally am not remotely short by any standard nor was I shaming anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 03:21 PM
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You are viewing all men here as a single organisim, rather than unique individual humans with varying opinions, saying varying things 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 02:41 PM
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True. That or tell themselves they're "the one", somehow superior to that long list of similar men their girl ran through. Its rough, seen it a few times with bros.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 09:31 AM
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we gotta start worrying about men's too. But women don't worry about mens n count unless its too low. Virgin man is to women what town bike is to men 🤢
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 09:13 AM
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Only guys who have little experience with women cannot tell pretty quickly though, so they're not really concealing anything. I had figured an ex had high n count, didn't ask, just figured, and so I didn't take the relationship seriously. Was just there for convenience, waiting for the right time to run a play from the high n count playbook... And say "next!" 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 09:04 AM
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It doesn't have to be jealousy, nor would I even say it is for most guys. Its simply "I'm loocking for LTR. Why choose someone who jumps from guy to guy habitually?"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 08:53 AM
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I mean that a man having a preference that his girlfriend hadn't slept with half the town isn't engaging in shaming. Often women call any preferences men have that they do not like "hate", "shaming" etc. in order to shame us into lowering the bar.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 05:00 AM
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The stupidity that is equating "understanding impulsive, hyper-promiscuous behavior increases likelihood of failed relationship" with "hate"? I did reiterate that, and doing it again.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 04:57 AM
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Nope. I wouldn't call them whores, I'd just be glad they self-selected off my radar as "serious" prospects. Having preferences, when men do it, isn't shaming. Imagine saying that women "shame" short men just by generally preferring taller.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 04:26 AM
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Does feigning boldness online to strangers in a low-effort, yet mean way make you feel better about the kind of relationship prospects you have, buddy?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 04:24 AM
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Why women be ultra-insecure about they bodycount tho? Like, if you don't want someone to know something about you... That at the very least suggests insecurity about what you did. Almost like yall know the implications fully, but just wanna trick/shame men into not knowing. !pro tip: We know to pretend not to care if asked whether or not we do IRL....And we know not to ask, especially if we're not trying to get serious... And we know to really pretend not to care if told a high number without ou…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 04:01 AM
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the men here hold hateful attitudes towards women "I would prefer if my gf hadn't slept with half of my friends befo- I'm gonna have to stop you there, sir. That's a hateful attitude. Non-hateful men prefer it when their woman has slept with the whole town. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 03:55 AM
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everyone always recommends joining a club or taking some kind of class which is both impractical if you work odd hours [full time] and inaccessible to most people outside of big cities. Wow! First time seeing this on the internet. Was beginning to think everyone online just has infinite free time and money.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 10:47 PM
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Society preaches that lie, bruh. And it makes sense. How else would you get sentient men to forgo their better senses? "Perform these tasks for me for the majority of your waking hours for the majority of your lifetime and in addition to what I choose to pay you, you'll get [insert lies]" Is basically all most men know.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 07:57 PM
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!"If women was really hardcore feminists they'd want to beat the wage gap so hard that they'd be outearning they mans so much, he wouldn't gotta work anymore, and could just stay chillin."!<
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 04:24 PM
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!Only incels don't like it when a girl they like brings home another guy!<
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 04:13 PM
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If ur not doing only missionary-style silent darkroom sex, she won't respect u, bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 04:08 PM
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Makes sense. I mostly agree and I'm glad you aren't in the camp that gets mad when questions are asked about what seems, to one who looks at things more indifferently, is magic-level repetitiveness about how "beneficial" things one derives no tangible benefit from somehow are. Possibly the most direct, concise, and actually explanatory answer I've ever gotten on reddit about this subject, so I likely won't ask the question to anyone again, I'll just assume 50/50 they mean it like you do or are p…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 05:23 AM
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nothing worth having in life comes easy, Work for me, as personal assistant, for $3/hr. Sure, it'll be hard, and take you a bit longer to save paper, but won't the difficulty make it so much more rewarding when you get $100 rather than if that was your hourly rate to begin with.. I think that statement is incidentally true, it is what it is, but I wonder, are you one of those who romanticizes struggling for the sake of struggling? That seems common nowadays, and if so, is that a coping mechanism…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 04:44 AM
2

Your bro told you a good advice
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 04:56 PM
1

Mans done took internet advice about workin as substitute for 🐈 literally
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 10:34 AM
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I understand what you mean, although that seems kind of defeatist mentality, and only helps those looking to push the double standard. Might as well find a way to agree with it at that point... But on the other hand, that particular double standard isn't all that serious and doesn't affect many guys despite what some corners of the internet might have us think. So taking a dgaf attitude towards it, while it might not affect you (or most guys) personally, could be easier on the individual at the …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 04:29 PM
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Ooohhh. Can I put a new spin on that and use it for racism? "I ain't finna stop bein racist. That's just how I be, so realise it and move on, pal." What insult/shaming language do I use towards anyone who disagree though??? Gotta silence those pesky folks amirite.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 02:37 PM
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Not everyone and not at all times, but mostly. Like why do most people gotta have words coming out every 30 seconds and be asking "whats wrong?" if one doesn't do that. Like what does either of us really have to say? You work a job? Okay then, you should be figuring out how to get out of that plantation mess rather than talking at me about something from the TV. You like it, and don't wanna? Cannot relate.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 02:18 AM
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A problem for whom? Like in the sense: "This guy don't wanna hear me rambling about some s*** someone else told me. He's problematic."
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 11:27 PM
4

Just how much taller is current BF
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 10:31 PM
2

Not even they know
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 10:28 PM
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Aint no one fraid to dig unless they gotta lotta bodies She start to sweatin when u dig then u know she a thotty
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 10:25 PM
9

Women with higher counts do tend to cheat more. They almost always have the one or two “side FWBs” too. This obvious non news is why women shame men for bringing up n count. They want to pretend we dont already know this, or at the very least wouldn't figure that out.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 10:15 PM
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Lmao 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 10:11 PM
2

What if one feels that way about everyone in general? I think men feel that way more often because mostly everything is a survival task. We see through the corporate/state BS better, and know firsthand life in society is not all fun n games, just gotta pretend it. Also if you encounter people and you automatically know, 99/100 times its: "Someone is talking. They must want me to do something, re-do something, pay money, or listen to them say something about something non-pertinent to either of u…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 09:56 PM
1

And maybe the reason this female attitude is so deep seated is that it is true. Imagine if the klan, or any hate group were to use that logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 07:34 PM
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They both were working, he bought cars for everyone including her. I think hers was getting work done at the time. Also, he did less work hours after marriage so those arguments are ridiculous. Imagine if I lived with you and and spent most of my time complaining that you were getting on my nerves and not doing enough to appease me and then you bought a PS5. My PC breaks so I take your PS5. Would it really make sense for someone to say that my presence helped you get that PS5 and so therefore it…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 06:40 PM
2

It's reality in my and several other guys experience at least
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 05:28 PM
1

Because of a contract, not in any reasonable sense, only technically. My mom once took one of my dads cars (that he paid for, for himself) and he call the cops. They said sorry sir, its marital property lmao. So
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 05:27 PM
-1

It doesn't matter what they do (work/don't work) usually assets are split by default, all being considered "marital property".
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 04:03 PM
1

Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 01:21 PM
2

I wasn't attempting anything lmao I was just giving my take on what the other commenter was saying, speaking from experience. Only was considering casual from a "can't beat em, why not join em" mentality, and know others who feel similarly.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 01:20 PM
1

How did you get that from what he said? I interpret as "chad knows he doesn't matter to her but temporarily, and moves on before she replace him, then repeats.." Not that that's what anyone wants to do indefinitely
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 03:27 AM
0

So if a stranger walk up at you like "Hi, I just saw you and don't think you're attractive. I'm just immediately asking you out rn because I'm into you for vibes. That's so so so much different than looks, yanno? Like who even likes looks, hahahahah, number?" You wouldn't reject him?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 03:04 AM
1

"Average" = 6' or taller, six figure income, average looking
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 02:38 AM
3

Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 02:35 AM
2

Are you suggesting men try to pass as women to become "lesbians" and they'll get more matches 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 02:34 AM
1

USA lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 12:47 AM
1

<span class="md-spoiler-text">I AM NOT YOUR THERAPIST</span>
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 04:18 AM
1

Nah, I've been left by a GF for someone else before. That was a more "detrimental" breakup. So IMHO letting things get to that point, again (and again) for the sake of a few more random units of a time with a "great" woman would feel more detrimental, worse than simply ending things before that likelihood. Imagine a random man being so self-absorbed... Thinking "Sure, she left dozens of normal guys, but I'm the exception.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 01:48 AM
1

No. You could live in a vastly different culture and don't pay attention to America or things Americans say.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 01:09 AM
1

I'm saying both potentially have negative repercussions, that's why I'm comparing them. In fact, I'd guess most men would rather have a watch or something stolen, than be made to believe that they are a "permanent" or "long term" prospect, only for them to find out later that they were just another Mr. Next, Mr. In-the-moment Personally I have left a relationship "early" to avoid becoming Mr. Next. No one enjoys wasting their time. There's plenty of women who were promiscuous in the past now mar…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 01:03 AM
2

I don't have a prejudice. If I didn't want a friend of a friend who had a history of habitually stealing to housesit, would you say I'm insecure or have a prejudice? Of course not. Most people would say that that makes sense, why would I look to be next in a long line of.... So why in the interests of trying to achieve the best relationship outcome is it, or should it be seen any differently?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 11:52 PM
2

Lmao just imagine. If things were equal, if men were to act like women, a typical response to a woman saying 4'11 is too short for her to want to date would be "So why do you hate all men?"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 11:49 PM
0

Pleeeaseeee women think men exist simply to fit their standards. You ever seen how a woman reacts when she finds out a man isn't interested in her? You try being a guy and saying "no" to a woman when she's with her friends in public.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 11:43 PM
1

Bro, how are you not familiar with current American culture?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 11:41 PM
1

To break up with her is either insecurity or confirming to a conservative social perception by men [getting what is likely an inevitability out of the way, pre-emptively, on your own terms.] TBH
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 10:31 PM
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I know some insecure folks, bro. This one ni99a don't want one cat at his house cause all he used to do is steal. Im like, fams, why you so insecure, he was jus finding himself, and he don't steal no more. Stop being iNsEcUrE and let dude housesit for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 10:26 PM
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Some people with many millions like that are just extremely generous, and believe it their mission to help others financially. So I was asking you, if such a person were to ask you if you would like some large sum of money for such a reason, Would you turn it down because it wouldn't feel worthwhile to you, unless they made you do a song-and-dance for an arbitrarily long period of time?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 09:57 PM
1

Not misinformed. It's not convenient for women if too many of us menfolk know that they aren't exempt from the possibility of shitty behavior. Only they're supposed to have alarm bells going off at red flags, not us LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 09:38 PM
-1

So if someone said "Hey, want one of these spare millions I got laying around?" You'd genuinely ask them "How long can you make it take?" (in order to make it more worthwhile for you)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 09:35 PM
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Yikes. Imagine a man saying anything so hateful and generalizing. At best, one would see [removed]
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 09:29 PM
1

Thats an apples to oranges comparison. You're comparing a type of intercourse that a woman wouldn't be opposed to, with a partner that she wouldn't be opposed to, as she gave consent and only after finding out he was "manipulating" her by dishonestly insinuating he was there for long term, did she not like the transaction With a type of intercourse a man would be opposed to, with a partner that he would also be opposed to under all circumstances. A better comparison wouldve been to say men haven…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 09:21 PM
1

I don't think that many people value many people's opinions, nor do I believe any mature person does. Thats just the state of the world IMHO. So I was asking you considering that you were refraining from doing so from the belief that you "can't" do that, according to society, while men "can", and was pointing out that you could (without societal repercussions) and men largely cannot without repercussions (not that we should)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 03:31 PM
1

Yikes
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 03:27 PM
1

You just perceive it as such. If you live in America, no one (other than the minority of men that aren't simps) would say you did anything wrong if you did that. What about catcalling guys you find attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 02:29 PM
1

"Hi show bobs asap plz"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 04:04 AM
1

why do men emphasize looks when paying compliments to women they’re interested in pursuing? I think it's because that's what we most have interest in when going by a brief bio about things that lets face it, everyone does: work, hobbies etc. and are on their own mostly uninteresting. Also since we appreciate when women compliment our looks, we assume women, who seemingly go out of their way to play up their looks beyond what we do, would like compliment on something they're trying to convey. “yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 04:03 AM
1

I don't personally think they should have to, but a case could be made they should for the sake of equality, in that many of them recommend such to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 03:43 AM
1

LOL so it's yours? What qualifications must one have for it to be "theirs"?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 03:40 AM
2

Like its honestly hard to fathom how a guy can be tall and good looking and still manage to fuck things up. Because maybe he was figuring: "Simililar looking dude, but with more money, slide in her DMs, and it's 'HER house, anyway remember?' I'm out before she kick me out like that!" Or he could've been from a situation like mine, where my mom contributed to down payment some percentage, and from then on, entirely on his own, my dad made the payments... Yet that wasn't enough! Never did she let …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 05:55 AM
1

"Teehee 6'10 and good hobbies teehee"
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 04:40 PM
1

Is this an autistic discussion?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 07:36 PM
1

Lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 03:40 AM
6

You seem to be speculating that my bros and I were dating stereo types that live in your mind, given those names. Nothing could be farther from the case though. This is varying dudes dating varying women and having similar outcomes at random points in time... And when we discuss it, given that none of us are dummies, can relate to the same sense of hostility shown when discussing it outside of our circle. Internet is making this type of information more widely available across all strata though.…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 11:25 PM
7

I see it all the time on ppd where guys will say they got cheated on and all the guys they know got cheated on (I just cringe cuz it sounds like an exaggeration). Mostly faxx, sadly. It do often be like that. Best bro is gigachad-like, and I'm tyrone-like Happen to us, and all of our bros, regardless status/money/looks... It doesn't matter. My one bro, ultra gigachad mf, had it happen while at a slightly low point. thats what's cringe tbh* So basically it can happen to anyone. Stay safe, bros.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 09:02 PM
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Dude, I'm black, and it sounds like you're working off of an assumption that all of us have the same thoughts LOL. Many black guys are bluepill, and many are totally not. That has nothing to do with race. That being said I do reject victim mentality, a mentality that's popular among all demographics these days, though each one is quick to point the finger at the other for behaving similarly for different reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 11:32 AM
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How do redpill and incel types make sense of relationships like this? LOL almost no doubt it'd respectively be something along the lines of "Hy9erg4my is so bad these days that even Chads are now having to get with 5/10s." and "Just take the racepill! If Chads even slightly a shade too dark, best he can do is 5/10! Broootal!"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 01:17 AM
3

Can I use the good old "Why are you acting so insecure?" here, where you're not praising situations that have the potential to actively harm your relationship, or is that only acceptable to say to dudes?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 01:03 AM
2

I never said you said everyone could. Why are you even saying that? I was just hinting that average [any other race] likely wouldn't fare as well as you do, or at least I've never heard of it. Also was initially going to ask "Do you mean 6'4, jacked, and flaunting big money pics when you say 'average', dude, or do you mean average in the way your fellow man can comprehend? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 12:41 AM
1

Could you perhaps be actively trying to blackpill people?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 12:23 AM
1

LMAO Just be.... strikes again
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 11:59 PM
1

If a woman is unable to find the kind of relationship that she wants with the people she finds attractive, that is her issue to deal with [the fault of the patriarchy]. FTFY If a man is unable to find the kind of relationship he wants with the people he finds attractive, that is his issue to deal with.[he should just lower his standards, and quit his misogyny habit] TBH How it actually be😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 03:46 PM
2

very few of them for the “n3kb3ard” stereotype In your opinion, I'd say. Perhaps there isn't much distinction to be made between that stereotype and the "average" to "decent looking" man in many womens opinions. In other words, unless you far exceed "above average" you're only distinguishable from an "ugly" stereotype in your own mind, or to other bros, and only just barely different in the mind of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 03:40 PM
4

Brooo they in ur DMs yet?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 06:47 PM
1

Don't speak of me like that, kind friend. Please. Don't speak inaccuracies because you don't like a joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 04:19 PM
10

"Bro understands Reddit" award
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 12:54 PM
1

C'mon, that's clearly exaggeration, a joke LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 12:42 PM
5

sub-par behavior "Non-trillionaire, not 6'10, and no multiple doctorate degrees" I'm assuming
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 12:37 PM
1

Autistic af post. Or maybe I'm too autistic to comprehend it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 05:28 AM
4

What kindo 🍗y would say that? Satire?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 05:18 AM
25

If you want to drive to the grocery store, you would take the shortest, fastest, and most direct route. No. You're looking at it the wrong way, dude. Getting groceries takes time. So if you want groceries, you gotta go to the hardware store, then the autoparts store, then the gas station. Then go home, read a book, and play some videogames. Don't think about the groceries, just focus on yourself, and good food will be in your kitchen in no time.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 02:03 AM
4

You forgot "have the luxury of tons of freetime that runs concurrent with when she's available."
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 10:05 PM
6

are you all just from another planet now? That backhanded insult doesn't answer the question or show that you actually have an answer either. I'd say "hitting it off with someone" simply means meeting someone and experiencing a mutual feeling of wanting to see more of each other though.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 09:58 PM
2

Whether she's demanding: Rocket scientist plastic surgeon aerospace engineer multilingual gender studies expert that's 8'7 and multitrillionairre, Dont question her standards for entry to being able to pay to speak to her So we're on the same page?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 08:15 PM
10

I like "career focused" women, so long as that, career, isn't her primary focus. It's just a means to an ends unless you're literally saving lives on the regular.. and even then, you and those you "love" should come first. Ideally her attitude towards career/ambition should reflect such beliefs. A career should do something for you, and your family/friends, not be a hindrance to the development of boths relationship. I have had a "career", that while it provided income, was a hindrance to self-d…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 11:22 AM
3

What does that even mean? What did I say? LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 10:30 AM
15

I am sure you will get 100 matches or messages your first day as a woman She is "highly educated". How many of those matches are likely to be rocket scientists who are also lawyers who practice multiple types of medicine, or otherwise meet her presumable minimum educational requirements?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 04:01 AM
1

I have no way to understand a world in which you wouldn’t want to compliment the person you love? And I have no way to understand your use of this strawman, as I neither said "I don't want to complement the person I love.", nor insinuated that, or anything similar, by any means.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 06:59 PM
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divest from toxic masculinity Most guys lives aren't like that men bad buzz word though. My bros and don't neg one another, and the ones who do get called out for it. Maybe men and women just differ, so while for women, a friend complimenting them is no different than a compliment from a romantic partner (which seems off, given how much men are told to remember to give compliments to our gf/wife) But for men, it definitely isn't on the same level as a complement from a romantinc partner, complim…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 05:32 PM
1

Those things are neither of direct benefit to them, or a mans earning potential/status.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 04:26 PM
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If you are hungry, you eat[take a shower and go outside. Forget about eating, and food will materialize inside you. Its not hard. You must have a bad personality for not knowing that.] If you are thirsty ,you drink.[grow up and realize there is more to life than hydration. Go play a sport, read a book, and learn about politics, and you just might not feel thirsty anymore] If people treated everything like they typically do when discussing dating/relationships LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 03:57 PM
1

Most autist post I've seen all day cmv
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 02:45 PM
4

Objectively, none of that is gaslighting. So... if I tried to convince you that there's something defective with YOU, for simply disagreeing with me on that definition (which would be gaslighting YOU), explain how it wouldn't be, since that subreddits users did the same thing to OP when he said something they disagree with, and you don't consider it gaslighting in that case.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 08:28 AM
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Willing to bet if they break up she'll hook up with a guy in a week tops. Inb4 "So what?? after a breakup, when emotions aren't at their best, people behave differently. Emotions are complex."
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 08:25 AM
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You are saying the reverse of how that word is used in this case. That subreddit essentially said "You're a misogynist (your feelings are invalid)" Because he said something they didn't like, Which indicates them gaslighting him, and any men that read it to believe that they're defective for thinking "Hmmm. My gf must've been waaaay more into this guy that she slept with upon meeting than me who she made wait monts."
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 08:22 AM
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OP said a "mean" thing that that subreddits users didn't like, and their comments reflect them gaslighting him: That he, his "misogyny" is the issue. Him finding out his GF doesn't find him as attractive as a previous guy, and not being happy about that, isn't misogyny.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 08:11 AM
1

It's only a very recent phenomenon that gaslighting/shaming don't work on vast majority of men. So it would make equal sense if it was various state operatives, whether human or bot, employing the only tactics they understand to have another oblivious consumerist/worker pool.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 07:49 AM
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No. I wouldn't call something I merely tolerate, Which gives the impression that I don't actually like it, as "hot." Neither would most folks. You can understand that. Also, you can understand that no one made you jump out there and call asshole behavior "hot". Could've just led with the canned response!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 03:02 AM
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Well there, now you've said the "standard" response: A bit better optics with that, minus the assumptive rant at the end. Can't find anything I've said to even resemble that I think all girls love assholes. It was you who made that behavior out to be a plus (when combined with 10/10) looks in your comment I first replied to, and I don't believe you're a representative for ALL women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 02:44 AM
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Being an asshole is only hot if you are 10/10 handsome. Lmao surprisingly forthcoming language there. Usually on this topic there is at least some attempt to behave as though that behavior is NEVER attractive, only tolerated.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 02:17 AM
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