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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 7 | Recovering from RP | Leather-Standard6288 | /r/ExRedPill | 24/04/23 11:47 AM |
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| 1 | Men who were Red Pill, but are not anymore, what was the single most important, hard lesson you learned that led to you leaving?🍻 | /r/ExRedPill | 01/05/23 12:57 AM |
| 1 | Men who were Red Pill, but are not anymore, what was the single most important, hard lesson you learned that led to you leaving?You too ✌️ ..yes i love flirting and banter ..jt is fun. I used to do that till the metoo stuff became a big deal. After metoo i totally stopped approaching women/hanging out with them alone. Even if a woman tries to get flirty or friendly, i back the fk out saying some lame excuse lol..but i am slowly training my mind to not be that paranoid.but i think i have lost of my old funny / cheerful attitude with ladies post metoo...around lets say 2017..maybe in one to two years it wll be back to norm… | /r/ExRedPill | 30/04/23 10:22 PM |
| 1 | Men who were Red Pill, but are not anymore, what was the single most important, hard lesson you learned that led to you leaving?Best wishes to you too..i love dirty talks as well with the right person who wont judge me as a perv but enjoys a good flirt back and forth. I have never wanted to be a perv or a creep becoz i feel for the other person's comfort but having read stories from rp and metoo i dont have the balls to try flirting with a woman for the fear of accusations in social media and elsewhere. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/04/23 09:41 PM |
| 1 | Men who were Red Pill, but are not anymore, what was the single most important, hard lesson you learned that led to you leaving?I had no fear of marriage or divorce until i came across RP content. Reading about horror stories of men whose lives got destroyed by partners allied with the courts made ( and still make) me fearful of a relationship. My fear is that no matter good a husband i am, there lies a chance that i will have the same fate as those men. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/04/23 07:09 PM |
| 1 | Men who were Red Pill, but are not anymore, what was the single most important, hard lesson you learned that led to you leaving?I still feel that way unfortunately. One wrong word/look/silence/speech..breakup/divorce . | /r/ExRedPill | 30/04/23 12:56 AM |
| 4 | Men who were Red Pill, but are not anymore, what was the single most important, hard lesson you learned that led to you leaving?I am in the process of detoxing, not fully there. But the single most important, hard lesson was that i observed myself becoming more toxic to the good women in my life. Women who did not do any harm to me, rather loved ( and still loves) me. I caught myself feeling negative things about them and it pained and still pains me. They do not deserve my toxicity. In my real (non online) life i have only had mostly positive relationships with women. Listening to RP has made me very cynical and slightl… | /r/ExRedPill | 30/04/23 12:44 AM |
| 7 | Former Red Pillers, how lonely did it get when you took on these beliefs?Very lonely. I did not lose anyone i loved or important to me. I did not lose my family. However i have lost my interest to pursue a romantic relationship. Also, i noticed am mentally more cautious around women. For e.g., in public transport, etc. If i have to be near a women i find myself very wary. I do not like to sit near a woman (except my mother or family member) in a plane. Basically such paranoia. I have talked to a therapist about it multiple times. He says he understands where my fear … | /r/ExRedPill | 24/04/23 09:47 AM |
| -23 | If redpill is what women want, then why do RP men hide that they are RP?Because women get offended if they hear about it, duh. Most ppl dont like to hear the "truth" about their nature. It hurts their egos. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/04/23 12:11 AM |
| – | Redpillers make women not want to date menMany men don't want to date women either. The sentiment is mutual. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/23 10:15 PM |
| 2 | Do men even enjoy dating women?Fair enough. I could be equally boring from the pov of the women ive been on dates with. But the feedback ive gotten so far is that they really enjoyed the time. But unfortunately i havent felt the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/23 02:40 PM |
| 2 | Do men even enjoy dating women?I have a lot of interests and the topics of conversations vary. I dont go in with an agenda (with respect to stuff to talk about). It could be about anything that the other person wants to converse about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/23 02:34 PM |
| 1 | Do men even enjoy dating women?What a well balanced and wise answer..bravo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/23 02:05 PM |
| 2 | Do men even enjoy dating women?All of the women Ive dated have been really boring to interact with. At the end of the dates, I've felt drained of energy, money and time. It was my friends who asked me to try dating and I wanted it to give it a try but at the end of that ordeal, i am more convinced of my initial view that dating is a waste of time and resources. I am not blaming women per se since i dont feel the same way about women outside of a dating setting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/23 02:01 PM |
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