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| 1 | How do y’all even score second dates?If she doesn't start talking about future plans or seeing you again then you move on to the next. A girl thats interested will make it known. | /r/seduction | 30/03/26 05:54 AM |
| 1 | If a girl texts you "sometimes later for sure" when trying to get her number, what does it mean?Bro you are overthinking this, if a girl doesn't give you her number in like 2-3 days max its not worth the effort or shes more attracted to a different match. Every girl I have every matched with that leads to having sex/relationship has always been excited about about going on our first date. Its a palpable feeling that you can just tell your both into it. | /r/seduction | 28/03/26 04:45 PM |
| 1 | If a girl texts you "sometimes later for sure" when trying to get her number, what does it mean?Lol is this guy serious, people have been interacting with strangers since the dawn of time. Get over your fears and be more social. | /r/seduction | 28/03/26 04:39 PM |
| 2 | My ex keeps randomly texting, calling, once in a while...Its the entire book, its just how to be good at life and it translates incredibly well to being successful with women. Mark Manson is a social genius and gives great advice. | /r/seduction | 28/03/26 07:04 AM |
| 1 | Is lunch dates/ during the day dates good for a first date?Exactly, if she likes you none of the specifics of date really matter. If it does shes likely using you for money/food. | /r/seduction | 26/03/26 05:02 PM |
| 1 | Is lunch dates/ during the day dates good for a first date?With online dating first date is really the second date since you both have never met. Simple drinks or coffee is great then pivot to a different location or plan a evening date once you know the other person is real and interested/legit. Totally agree. | /r/seduction | 26/03/26 04:58 PM |
| 1 | 2nd date, help a brother outPutt putt, really any activities that allow for flirtatious banter. If you didnt kiss on the first date make sure you go for one this time, member she wants to be desired not admired. Let her worry about relationship status and just go have fun, if shes into you nothing else matters and it will go great! | /r/seduction | 16/03/26 09:31 PM |
| 1 | Did seduction change over the years?There is a serious lack of men with confidence to simply dial a women's number. I swear you will stand out more if you take that risk. | /r/seduction | 16/03/26 05:58 AM |
| 1 | Does she like me, or am I delulu?There is no magic formula of the right things to say to make a women who is not attracted to you flip her switch. Does it happen, sure just like anything in life wild things can happen but its usually only once the guy figures out hes better off without her. The point is, make your intentions known and gain experience with women by failing over and over again. Dont worry about how many times you fail, it only takes one success to make you forget all about the struggles before you got laid. | /r/seduction | 28/02/26 08:25 PM |
| 2 | Does she like me, or am I delulu?Listen the reality is sure pickup is fun little back and forth of flirting that can swing the odds in your favor but it only matters if she is attracted to you. You will get better at that over time. Even the most successful guys get rejected by women who dont find them attractive. | /r/seduction | 28/02/26 05:17 PM |
| 1 | Does she like me, or am I delulu?Practice failure its the only route to success. Dont worry about if it works or not, your gaining experience and getting better each time you fail. | /r/seduction | 28/02/26 05:14 PM |
| 1 | Does she like me, or am I delulu?This exactly, like your looking at dating wrong. Women and men appreciate be upfront and honest with your intentions. Starting off playing mind games just messes with your head and eventually fails or makes you look like a creep. | /r/seduction | 28/02/26 05:10 PM |
| 4 | How Do You Know If “I Have a Boyfriend” Means She’s Not Interested or Just Testing You?Couldn't have said it better, pursuing after she says something like this is just creepy. | /r/seduction | 24/02/26 10:08 PM |
| 1 | How are average looking men supposed to meet women?First step is going out to just go out and have fun while meeting women and having no intention of sleeping with them. Try a dance class, easy way to get outside your comfort zone. I know it sounds counterintuitive but women can tell when your just trying to get laid. Flirting is a subtle art. | /r/seduction | 10/02/26 10:43 PM |
| 10 | i think she flirts with me even though she has a boyfriendDate single women there are plenty... | /r/seduction | 10/02/26 06:14 PM |
| 1 | Getting ghosted on tinder! what do they want to hear??This is good advice, the key to being unique and interesting is loving yourself first and not just people pleasing to get your way. | /r/seduction | 04/02/26 04:05 PM |
| 1 | Getting ghosted on tinder! what do they want to hear??I definitely agree with that, tinder was already becoming a joke then. You pretty much have to pay to even have a shot. | /r/seduction | 04/02/26 04:00 PM |
| -2 | Getting ghosted on tinder! what do they want to hear??Might be your experience but I met my fiancé on tinder in 2022, we're getting married this summer. Also I wouldn't consider myself very good looking, maybe average or above average. | /r/seduction | 03/02/26 08:19 PM |
| 12 | Getting ghosted on tinder! what do they want to hear??"My texts are very generic honestly" this is your problem... comment on something she is doing in her photos. Be creative and be unique. You have to stand out when shes getting 20 dms from other guys. | /r/seduction | 03/02/26 07:59 PM |
| 5 | Does a lack of physical touch in early dating ever get better?Finally someone said it, if your waiting for a woman to start initiating your doing it wrong. You are the leader in these interactions. | /r/seduction | 03/02/26 05:56 PM |
| 3 | It's easy as fuckYeah and that will happen till you learn how to be comfortable while doing it. The only way you will get better at reading her and talking is if you keep putting yourself in that situation till your comfortable enough to just be natural. Im not saying flirting isn't also valuable skill im just saying the easiest way to display confidence with out saying a word is by dancing and just enjoying yourself in the moment. It shows your not outcome dependent and just there to hit on women. The easiest w… | /r/seduction | 28/01/26 03:46 PM |
| 1 | It's easy as fuckAny and all kinds of music. Dance to your own beat it doesnt matter if its perfect, being unique makes it more attractive. Just remember not everyone is gonna like it but when you find someone who does or reciprocates with you that's when the sparks fly 🕺 | /r/seduction | 28/01/26 03:40 PM |
| 24 | It's easy as fuckThat's just a mental block because you care how other people perceive you. Women love to dance and if you go out and dont give a fuck who cares, women love it. Its the purest form of confidence you can have and its extremely attractive. | /r/seduction | 28/01/26 02:16 AM |
| 4 | Destroy your ego - there's nothing wrong with dating a 3/10 girl when you're a 3/10 yourselfStop thinking of things as a number rating or scale, people are either attracted to eachother or not. The difference in looks is irrelevant. | /r/seduction | 26/02/25 06:09 PM |
| 3 | A study by DatePsychology found that 45% of men aged 18–25 have never approached a woman in person for a date.Also to add to that women who are interested will usually be making eye contact and giving body language signals. If you're just approaching any woman you think is hot the success rate will be minimal. Learn to feel the vibe, its like magnetic energy that's tangible. | /r/seduction | 11/02/25 04:40 PM |
| 2 | How to confirm a date without seeming needy.You're overcomplicating it. This is a person you have never met before. Just keep it simple. If she is excited to meet you, she won't cancel. If she cancels, she's a waste of time, and it's that easy. | /r/seduction | 26/09/24 02:48 PM |
| 0 | Keep struggling with building sexual tension/going past friendly vibesThis, literally. Making a move is the best filter for finding out if she likes you. It saves you both time. If she's not, thank her for the date and move on. Its not rocket surgery. | /r/seduction | 17/09/24 08:20 PM |
| 1 | Are people here actually having sex?It is quite entertaining to read while in a relationship 😆 | /r/seduction | 16/08/24 09:19 PM |
| 8 | How to lose your virginity in 2024It may be illegal, but it's still there, lol. It always will be. | /r/seduction | 27/06/24 06:42 PM |
| 1 | Do you have to physically escalate on the first date?How is trying to kiss someone in the context of a date she agreed to considered sexual assault? If she pulls away and you creepily keep pushing, then sure that's assault. | /r/seduction | 18/06/24 09:10 PM |
| 6 | PSA: never feel guilty about dating multiple girls at onceHow did she hurt you bro, you went on one date, lol. You put her on a pedestal in 24 hours. | /r/seduction | 12/06/24 02:58 PM |
| 2 | Why will women suddenly turn their backs on you?I wish more guys would understand this. Body language will tell you everything you need to know. | /r/seduction | 03/06/24 04:03 PM |
| 15 | Looking for wings in Chicago areaTry BWW or wingstop | /r/seduction | 28/05/24 10:28 PM |
| 1 | I've been seeing a lot of guys here say they get ghosted after the first date "went well" and here's the most probable reason whyExactly, it's how you act after trying to kiss them that matters. | /r/seduction | 28/05/24 03:52 PM |
| 1 | I've been seeing a lot of guys here say they get ghosted after the first date "went well" and here's the most probable reason whyThis only works if you kiss her on the 2nd date. | /r/seduction | 28/05/24 03:46 PM |
| 2 | How long would you wait to setup a second date?For real people here seem to think not appearing needy is the most important thing to the detriment of their own game. It's not rocket science. You can text without appearing needy by playing dumb games. An even better way to gauge her interest is just to call her the next day and set up a date. | /r/seduction | 21/05/24 08:51 PM |
| 2 | How do you escalate and stay out of the friendzone.Guys who have success know this, you will turn off some women by polarizing, but it doesn't matter if it works on one you like. | /r/seduction | 23/04/24 05:26 PM |
| 1 | Nice Guy texting mistakes to avoidOr skip all this nonsense and call her, stand out from the crowd! | /r/seduction | 19/04/24 07:51 PM |
| 2 | Some uncomfortable truths about the friendzoneIf she is talking about other guys she likes in front of you, then it's too late, and she only sees you as "Just a friend" | /r/seduction | 19/04/24 07:03 PM |
| 20 | Controlling thirstiness/lust is one of the most important components of being an attractive manOh my God, yes! I actually told the last girl I went on a Tinder date with I wanted to wait because I liked her. We're now in a relationship going on 15 months 🤣 | /r/seduction | 22/03/24 04:03 PM |
| 1 | Tips for texting a tinder date?This is generally pretty accurate. Anytime I hit it off with a girl on a date, she usually texts me in less than 12 hours that she had a great time. You can kiss on a first date, but with online dating, it's okay to wait until the 2nd, but if you don't go for a kiss on that date, you're pretty much screwed. | /r/seduction | 09/02/24 09:01 PM |
| 7 | Being shamelessIn first paragraph when you said "looking for hot bitches" I knew you failed. Your struggles will continue until you dont view women as sexual objects. | /r/seduction | 09/02/24 04:54 PM |
| 3 | Hobby photos on dating apps questionGet some more attractive hobbies like cooking or woodworking. You know skills that actually improve your life. | /r/seduction | 07/02/24 04:28 PM |
| 1 | How to have masculine “energy” in a charismatic way?My girlfriend and I both love lotr, we nerd out over it all the time. Part of being masculine is accepting who you are and being ok that not everyone is going to like it. | /r/seduction | 26/01/24 07:13 PM |
| 4 | I have been friendzoned by over 30 women. Here’s what I’ve learned:There are so many great single women out there that it will blow your mind | /r/seduction | 07/09/23 06:31 PM |
| 4 | I have been friendzoned by over 30 women. Here’s what I’ve learned:"Models" by Mark Manson helped me alot. | /r/seduction | 07/09/23 06:28 PM |
| 4 | I have been friendzoned by over 30 women. Here’s what I’ve learned:On that same note, a girl once told me, "There's nothing more attractive than a man describing something he's passionate about" | /r/seduction | 07/09/23 06:25 PM |
| 1 | I fumble girls by being too honest.I have a massive ego This right here is your problem. | /r/seduction | 06/09/23 08:17 PM |
| 1 | I fumble girls by being too honest.Best book on improving your life in general, not just dating. | /r/seduction | 06/09/23 08:13 PM |
| 10 | What I noticed about men that have a hot girlfriend.Lol | /r/seduction | 05/09/23 05:22 PM |
| 0 | How do men who aren't on this sub get girls?this is the best comment on here 👍 | /r/seduction | 01/09/23 04:10 AM |
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