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I find eligible and attractive men pretty eaaily, I'm happy with the state of things. This might just reflect the type of man I am attracted to. I rarely (if ever) meet selfish lovers and I've never had a crazy ex who stalked me and shit. I probably couldn't give good advice because I might not be the woman you're trying to attract. Use say find an aesthetic and style that suits your face and body type, have lots of female friends and work on self improvement (mental health, skincare fitness ect…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 04:46 PM
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There's not a male and female version of everything, because were different. But generally pick mea, simps, orbiter and cool girls all display needy and sycophantic behaviour as a desperate attempt to attract a partner. Men and women are rightfully criticising their own gender for doing this.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 04:43 PM
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I'm not talking about clitoris size, I'm talking about it's location. It's called C-V distance.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 04:40 PM
4

"are ya winning yet son?"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 11:54 PM
7

I'm not studying my son's dick. Stop watching pornhub - it's rotting your brain.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 11:54 PM
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No no theres science behind this. Where the clitoris is located on the vagina determines if a woman can cum through PIV. Our the distance between the clitoris and the urethra. You should look it up - it's quite interesting !
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 11:53 PM
1

Yeah, it works for me. I guess it's like relationship lite.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 08:51 PM
5

Yes but not with an ERECTION
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 08:49 PM
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I've seen innumerable dicks in my time and the flaccid dick is rarely an indication of how big it is when hard, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 08:47 PM
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Yeah I have to relentlessly rub my clit manually during PIV. And it's quite small so I can't rely on friction. But usually it's from oral sex - that's pretty fullproof for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 08:45 PM
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Yeah, probably my mother. Ran around after my dad who didn't appreciate her. Then married a guy and ran around after him and his GROWN SONS - who didn't appreciate her. All the while working a full time job. She's generally a very maternal, home maker type but these guys all took the piss out of her. People will ruthlessly walk over kind hearted people.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 08:41 PM
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We have all been there, Hun.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 08:35 PM
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A pick me is literally the female equivalent of a simp. A woman who runs around after her man and is a bit of a doormat. It's called 'pick me' because there's an air of desperation about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 08:34 PM
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Great description, the only accurate one on here to be honest. It's the INTENTION that defines whether or not she is a 'cool girl'. Being into lads stuff is one thing, pretending to be into lads stuff for male attention is another. I would add that there's also a level of misogyny with these girls. For example going along with shitty behaviour to seem 'cool'. "Hah, make me a sandwich jokes are so funny. I'm not like other girls who get pissy at them"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 08:32 PM
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Huh? Those women are the pickmishas, lol. They want to live the fifties house wife dream and live happily after with their prince. And THEN you see those same women turn into miserable alcoholics because they're so unfulfilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 08:25 PM
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Are they scum? No, of course not. Is it a terrible strategy? Yes, of course it is. Same goes with simps
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 08:23 PM
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Does this even need to be said ?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 08:18 PM
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I don't cum from PIV, so I'm not in that 30% bracket.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 08:17 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 11:27 AM
1

Even among Christians, women are more religious. 80% of Christian women are "Absolutely certain" in their belief in god while only 72% of Christian men are. How does this make sense ? If you're not certain that God exists, you're agnostic
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 11:21 AM
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K
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 11:18 AM
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I don't think struggling to socially distance on your own for a year makes you 'fragile"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 11:11 AM
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Yeah, 💯 They're both single guys living on their own so this year would have been really tough had we not met each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 10:56 AM
1

Whatso you think of a 39-31-40 ratio?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 10:23 AM
3

Who the fuck started this dad bod thing?! I find it hard to believe that women are actually attracted to that?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 10:22 AM
1

Haha!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 10:20 AM
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I actually cut a woman off because she was doing this to her husband. It really wasn't cool and I thought it's was just sad and pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 10:18 AM
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I FINALLY bit the bullet and had 'the chat' with my fuck buddy of eight months lol. The outcome was really good. He's wants to be exclusive and keep things as they are, and he's ok that I was to keep it separate from my daughter and not so the whole moving in/ marriage thing. It's just so nice and chill. Very happy!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 10:16 AM
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Oh that is very much the situation in the UK - most people don't know their neighbours names. During lockdown I got to know two of them as we spent a lot of time on our doorsteps. It turns out we have quite a lot in common (despite being 51, 42 and 29). We actually spent Christmas day together which was nice and on boxing Day spent ten hours laughing our tits of after taking magic mushrooms
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 10:14 AM
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Woman: Drawing, hooping, reading, gardening and psychedelics. I'm trying to reach myself violin
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 10:02 AM
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Ouch! At work on Thursday I tripped up on the stairs, hit my knee - and literally fainted. I have no idea why my body decided to do that? The knee was barely bruised
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 10:00 AM
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Sure this happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 09:59 AM
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I mean, yeah - it makes sense. The women get excited at the chance of banging Chad, they are horny for a hook up but 'chicken out' at last minute when their sense of safety kicks in. Most women aren't going to feel safe going straight to a dudes house - even if he's drop dead gorgeous. I've used tinder specifically for hook ups but I've always had to spend a few hours with the guy first - just for some minimal vetting.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 09:59 AM
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AKA changing your ringtone
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 09:54 AM
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A friend of a friend used to sell smack and crack at his local mosque lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 09:52 AM
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Don't be Muslim though. It's a sausage fest: But Muslims hate pork?!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 09:51 AM
1

Whenever I've heard TRP talk about the CC - it is not akin to 'modern dating" I have only ever heard it described as a conscious decision women make before they DECIDE to settle down (usually with someone less attractive)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 09:47 AM
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My neighbour is actually my best friend and the thought of him listening to me bang is quite horrifying lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 09:46 AM
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Oui
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 09:45 AM
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It's an implicit turn of phrase used to make a point.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 09:03 AM
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Eww, dudes that slag off their ex girlfriends..so petulant and tells me they ain't got over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 01:43 AM
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I think we're crossing wires here. What I am saying is that feminism became such a 'thing' in the west because women (on the whole) decided they didn't want to be 'passive" and wanted to take part in politics and business.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/21 11:26 PM
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'they" as in the red pill?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/21 11:24 PM
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I actually enjoy casual sex, and I orgasm with fuck buddies and even ONS. But most women I see PREFER monogamy and have short term and long term relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/21 11:23 PM
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That women deliberately ride the CC through their 'better' years and then settle down as they approach the wall. It seems younger women prefer monogamy in their younger years and a lot of those relationships just don't work out.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/21 11:22 PM
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I'm good, thanks. I've got a dude with a big meaty cock who gave me a screaming anal orgasm an hour ago. I did almost cry from happiness, so you almost got your request ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/21 10:13 PM
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No. Same humour, similar sexual tastes, similar world views ect ect
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/21 10:12 PM
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I tried that once and it was just cold and uncomfortable
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/21 09:49 PM
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I strongly disagree with the redpills 'cock carousel' theory.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/21 09:48 PM
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Im referring to someone else's cock.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/21 09:47 PM
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I've got a really nice and girthy cock, actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/21 09:45 PM
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Women do this to.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/21 08:53 PM
5

This is just insane. Blocked
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/21 08:51 PM
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Or they just strongly disliked her policies? In the west - feminism is a powerful force, you can't deny that. For feminism to have become what it is now - it needed to appeal to the majority of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/21 08:50 PM
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Where I live, most relationships start of as 'casual sex'. I've - you hook up with someone, fuck a few times and then it becomes a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/21 06:23 PM
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Right, so most women didn't vote for trump.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/21 06:21 PM
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Yea
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/21 04:15 PM
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Oof
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/21 04:11 PM
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To each their own!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/21 04:11 PM
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120 minutes a day in a car? That's my idea of hell
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/21 02:53 PM
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Post modern neeoo maaaarxism
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/21 02:51 PM
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Hehe.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/21 10:19 AM
1

Obviously I was pointing out that passiveness doesn't get you far in life. Also women don't want to live in a world where all the world leaders and CEOs are male. THATS. why they don't want to be 'passive'.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/21 10:18 AM
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Yeah, exactly lol. Like 'oh boy, I get to smile and be pleasent and have decisions made on my behalf!' Nah sis
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 06:49 PM
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This is actually very common. A very large chunk of children have parents that are no longer together. For the most part, they are fine. It becomes an issue for the kids when the parents act like petulant arseholes towards each other. Which, tbh - happens to a lot of 'intact' families.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 05:01 PM
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I am actually comparenting (unplanned pregnancy and a break up) and it works well for us. We both love her very dearly, but we don't love each other. She's actually got a very realistic view of relationships for this reason. The only issue is the financial side, obviously. We both need to pay for separate two bedroom flats each - as opposed to the three of us sharing a two bedroom place.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 04:59 PM
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I think it does
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 03:10 PM
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Yes, I think it's good to get it out your system, for men and women. It's also good to prevent FOMO happening in LLTRs I look back quite fondly at my slutty phases. Even the times that were shit were kinda funny in their own way and make good stories. But generally my life philosophy is to have fun with life. I'm consider myself a salubrious hedonist.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 02:46 PM
4

You are allowed to swear on Reddit, mate
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 02:42 PM
1

That's not how this works, that's not how any of this works
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 01:54 PM
3

Take the risk, get the snip or don't have sex. 'You can have anything, but you can't have everything"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 01:53 PM
4

We are all tables on this blessed day
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 01:50 PM
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How can you pretend to bring orgasms to the table?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 01:50 PM
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Anal, I bring anal to the table
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 01:49 PM
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I actually jokingly call my lover 'dickeroo' (a play on the word 'deliveroo' which is a food delivery company. I call him up some nights and he cycles over to fuck me silly and then goes home again XD
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 01:45 PM
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Being passive doesn't help you become CEO or prime minister.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 01:38 PM
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I've always had equal relationships and that's always worked well for me. I like taking charge of my own life and hate having decision s made on my behalf. The ONLY exception is ordering food and sex. I can never decide what to eat so it's imperative that the man makes that decision for me (or a waiter if we're at a restaurant). I love being submissive in the bedroom for reasons I can't explain. I just love a hunky man that takes complete control. Yum yum yum. I can't explain it anymore than I c…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 07:28 AM
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Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 07:19 AM
2

Being passive IS shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 07:18 AM
2

Article specifically states that the rate for male victims is very high. Trp: this is all made to paint women as victims !
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 12:45 AM
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My main issue is that this attempt to paint every woman as a victim hurts women who actually have been victims of this The OP says that 1 in four men are affected. If they're painting any group as 'victims" then it's both genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 12:40 AM
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Lol!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 12:37 AM
0

That's not a bad thing
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 12:37 AM
6

That story was fucked. Fuck Chris brown
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 10:32 PM
2

Omg! I once met a guy who's martial arts company was called 'steel fist' and literally two weeks later I was in a sex shop and they had anal live by the exact same name. I absolutely destroyed him over that one XD
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 10:31 PM
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I've had about thirty sexual partners (maybe thirty five) they all tried to make me cum, some way or another. These guys were often ONS and drunken party fumbles. This is a cultural thing, not a gendered thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 10:27 PM
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And if a dude fucks a ton of chicks, no one will know who THEIR father is. Both lead to incest, because in both cases the dad is unknown.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 10:23 PM
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You mean not part of a big conglomerate?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 10:10 PM
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I think people have an issue with how everything is defined Because when the definitions are really broad, we don't get a very good picture of what's really happening. Having a better picture makes it easier to deal with the issue. . A "fake" cry for help is.... a cry for help and that person needs to get out of the relationship and into therapy and figure out what the emergency they are feeling is. I wouldn't say otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 10:08 PM
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Ah, ok. I'm a bit overwhelmed with info and it's hard to know what's good or not!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 10:06 PM
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Haha!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 10:05 PM
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They're defining some DV as 'shoving'. Obviously that behaviour is not acceptable, but I don't think we should scare people into thinking the situation is worse than it is. I think we need to be careful not to create a narrative where people who suffer actual abuse are undermined.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 10:03 PM
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At that age I had puppy fat around my face, my face looked more defined as I aged. There's a slight trend with young women having surgery to remove that 'puppy fat' to look older. It's an odd industry.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 09:55 PM
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fist agencies Heh.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 09:52 PM
1

Do you know a lot about skincare?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 09:52 PM
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Depends what you mean by 'uncommon'. Maybe one in twenty women? I mean, if it was really common - there wouldn't be as much cultural backlash against it. A dude that it's a woman is social suicide.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 09:50 PM
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I like your flair
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 09:45 PM
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I can't comment on other countries, but in the west I think the majority of women have had their arse slapped or been groped by a stranger at least once. Ide say rape is pretty uncommon, but everyone knows at least someone who has been raped. Partner violence? Yeah quite uncommon, but it still happens. One ex of mine pushed me over in the street and I hit myself pretty hard on the concrete. That was the single only time he was violent in the 7 years he was together - I'm still not sure what came…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 09:45 PM
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Yes, this is common sense. Why would anyone spend lots of time and energy constantly getting new women (which is supposedly quite time consuming for blokes) when you can have on or more return customers?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 09:26 PM
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Its there, but it's not widely talked about which is kinda the point OP is making. Really, it should be one of the main tenants that is emphasised a lot. Also just looking at the field reports, A LOT of those guys evidently have not read that post and taken it in.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 09:23 PM
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There is nothing wrong with sex but at a certain point it’s a matter of gluttony. Hahahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 09:11 PM
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Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 09:10 PM
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Either that or they're really inexperienced.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 09:08 PM
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Arousal does not cause an orgasm, it makes an orgasm possible. No matter how hot you are, if the woman is not stimulated a certain way - she won't cum. Also, 'i had an orgasm' doesn't mean 'sex was amazing'. Some orgasms are more frequent than others, some are more intense and some have a more enjoyable build up than others
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 09:07 PM
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I will :) Currently I'm tired from chasing autistic kids around a school all day :p
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 08:12 PM
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That would depend on the woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 08:12 PM
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In the UK we have the saying: 'I wouldn't kick them out of bed if they farted" when we're talking about someone we think is attractive. I'm so proud of you for actually living that saying XD
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 08:11 PM
0

Exhibit A
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 08:01 PM
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Hopefully my partner likes it too Like..you're not actually sure?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 08:01 PM
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Lmao, I like this account.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 07:59 PM
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Probably don't care enough to make an effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 07:58 PM
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Pleasuring men is pretty straight forward and talked about more. Women don't really need to be 'taught" about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 07:27 PM
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BPD - passionate, exciting and uninhibited. Whilst there's lots of 'lows' there are lots of 'highs" and people get really caught up in the 'highs".
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 07:17 PM
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Dude, I was going to make a post about this. Unstable men and women rarely have trouble attracted the opposite sex. I think it's because 'unstable" people are often uninhibited, passionate and interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 07:15 PM
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Oh yeah, this is one of my biggest criticisms of it and it's what gives it less credence IMO. Being a good lover is central to actually keeping women interested in you. Ide argue that it's more important than frame and game. There's one sex book in the sidebar, but looking at a brief review - it really over emphasises the psychological aspect of sex (like being dominant) and tbh that doesn't appeal to all women. Knowing how to kiss, tease, pace yourself and eat pussy is are the number one things…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 07:13 PM
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A good parent teaches them when they should and should not follow their peers
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 07:03 PM
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That's fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 07:01 PM
1

?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 06:23 PM
1

Hahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 05:20 PM
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When traits are compartmentalised, men get all the cool ones and women get all the shit ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 05:18 PM
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What do you think happens to vaginas when they're aroused?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 05:16 PM
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In the UK we call it 'yellow car effect'. People who buy yellow car suddenly see them everywhere. It happens when you name a child sometimes. You pick a name that you think is quite uncommon and all of a sudden you find loads of children have that name.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 04:26 PM
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Oh my god... 'giny tingles" is a slang term and the user you replied to created her own slang 'butterflies in the clit'.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 04:20 PM
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I know so many friends that met their partners on tinder. Tinder is whatever you want it to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 03:53 PM
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Oh I'm sure it exists. I've just never known it to happen to someone I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 03:50 PM
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Genuinely was one of the hottest guys I've ever dated. He had the most extraordinary eyes and was so passionate about everything. I didn't understand the term 'they lit up the room when they walk in' until I met him. Alcoholism destroyed all of that though, a great tragedy :(
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 03:49 PM
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Yeah, that's all I've ever heard said about height outside of the manosphere.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 03:46 PM
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Eh, there's lots of different reasons. Fashion and make up is great fun though. It is a hobby in itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 03:45 PM
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Google
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 03:44 PM
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Never met one who does.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 03:44 PM
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Dude, chill out. Yes, women vaginas tingle when they're aroused. That is why 'butterfly clit' and 'giny tingles' exist as slang words.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 03:44 PM
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Well obviously - no dudes know their girth so how would women ? It's something you just hold and think 'does this spark joy?'
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 07:37 AM
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Inb4 reeeeee
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 12:51 AM
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Same for my guy. Honestly I've never thought about height until I came across this sub. I got pissed and asked him how much of an issue it was for him and he was like 'meh, for some women I guess? I dunno..I do ok'. Totally non plussed about the whole thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 12:51 AM
0

Ide be so fucking happy if my fella got cum gutters. It's trying to convince him without sounding like a shallow bitch which is the problem..
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 12:44 AM
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Tbh height never occured to me or even in other conversations with women (and we talk about men ALOT). Its just something I see on the internet all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 12:43 AM
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Ha.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 12:43 AM
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Thats because the dick length thing started with men insulting other men - it was never from a woman's perspective. Then it just became an age old meme. Ask around - women have a much bigger preference for girth.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 12:42 AM
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Yeah. He's a pretty happy chappy though, doesn't seem bothered by it at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 12:16 AM
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Lmao. I can never ever tell when you're being serious on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 12:07 AM
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No I couldn't give a fuck about his height. He has a wonderful face and gorgeous body. Heights never been a thing I think about.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 12:06 AM
0

I think the birthmark was kinda cool, the way it was placed was kinda artistic in a way - and it was dark brown, not ppink. It always felt more like an accessory than a defect - a bit like a scar.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 12:05 AM
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Who tf cares, it's all about the girth anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 11:58 PM
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Good for him. Hunky male bodies are an absolute gift to the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 11:57 PM
1

A party boy is someone who ENJOYS parties, specifically the hedonistic and social aspect of it. Hitting parties JUST to get laid, is not the same as enjoying parties.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 11:54 PM
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I want to look fabulous so I can admire myself in the mirror for hours.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 11:51 PM
2

I think that line is misinterpreted. Doing what YOU want, despite society/ men frowning on it is 'empowering'. Not casual sex in itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 11:50 PM
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I appreciate your honesty
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 11:47 PM
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Loooool
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 11:45 PM
1

Fuck knows tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 11:45 PM
3

A bunch of socially awkward intros trying to get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 11:42 PM
1

I do to
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 11:05 PM
0

No. A 'wanabee" is a boy who 'wants to be' a party boy. I'm saying they're not into parties in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 11:04 PM
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Well I dunno how tf I managed that
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 11:02 PM
2

Giny tingles = tingles in the vagina.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 11:01 PM
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No, I mean they're not the type to party.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 11:00 PM
1

You've never heard of giny tingles?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 10:46 PM
0

I recon between 5'5 and 5'6.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 10:46 PM
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Well I'm confused. He's a teeny tiny bit taller than me and I'm 5'5. But he says he's around 5'7 I mean..people call him short, he's known for being short.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 10:45 PM
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i don't know how tf I managed that lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 10:31 PM
1

Haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 10:17 PM
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Last one: 5'7, bright blue eyes and dark eyelashes, toned body with almost a six pack (he has a physical job). Quite a large, dark birth mark on his face. Symmetrical features with nothing oversized but a kind of weak chin and jaw. Dresses like a fucking hippy, no style whatsoever aha. Current one: 5'5 (I THINK), very muscular and quite 'stocky' (thick chest, arms and legs), symmetrical face, strong jaw and quite masculine facial features, perfect teeth. Dresses very plain. First one looks like …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 10:15 PM
3

I don't know what you mean by top 20. Examples ?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 10:00 PM
1

I think I'm a gay man in a woman's body's
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 09:30 PM
2

Bleurgh
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 09:25 PM
2

Yeah, he should go and live in the jungle. Preferably one with cannibal tribes.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 09:20 PM
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I meant bisexuals having actual threesomes. That's a lucky guy enjoying two people.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 09:16 PM
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So he's married but keeping it secret? Bit wierd
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 09:09 PM
1

If they're bisexual, it's not cucking. It's a guy enjoying two people.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 09:04 PM
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When did he get married? Can't see any info
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 09:01 PM
1

Women masturbate by rubbing their clitoris with their hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 08:53 PM
1

Some of my friends have what's called a 'handfasting'. They have a lovely party outside in the woods with all their friends and 'commit' love to the person they're with. it lasts a year and they can 'renew' it every year. It's kinda superfluous, but it's good fun and means something to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 08:41 PM
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Huh? Move on means try to forget the bad memories and move forward with your life. Don't sit there overthinking your break up and the person who broke your heart. Try and do something to occupy your time and start planning for the future instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 08:38 PM
1

Mines super small so I have to rub it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 08:32 PM
2

Yeah 100%. Fat people work sedentary jobs and spend a lot of time on their arse at home. If you don't have a sedentary job then you probably don't see many.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 08:28 PM
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Someone married him? Yowza
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 08:23 PM
1

Since when we're TRP 'party bros'? They're literally the opposite
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 08:17 PM
5

What? You mean captains don't need a mummy to look after them?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 08:15 PM
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Do you mean mmf or mfm? In the former they're definitely bisexual. For the latter they've either got a fetish for submissive and slutty women, or they're cucks. I've had an MfM but not with a boyfriend. They were both dominant guys that wanted to see a girl be really slutty aha.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 08:10 PM
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I was at the park after school so most adults were 30 - 50. The UK is actually quite fat (OBS not by US standards) but I guess fat people don't go out to the park or walk about much? That might explain why people see less of them?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 06:39 PM
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Penetration feels amazing as long as it's along with clitoral stimulation. Rub the clit whilst he penetrates.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 06:37 PM
2

In the UK, NOT having a tattoo is unusul.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 06:36 PM
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I think sex on the first date is fine, and lots of casual encounters turn Into relationships. Casual sex can be very enjoyable, and most men want women to cum. 'orgasm block' happens when you're not relaxed, too drunk or the guy is REALLY bad (like doesn't know the clitoris exists or is really selfish) Obviously there's always a risk with casual sex, and I completely understand women's decision not to take that risk. 'straight' women that have FFM threesomes are either closet bisexual or just re…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 06:34 PM
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I've browsed the sources but not found that specific part - not that I disbelieve you. Crazy. I was at the park when I read this and everyone was about my size with a few sizes smaller and bigger (my body is 39-31-40). I'm in a city in the UK though.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 06:23 PM
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A friend with benefits by definition isn't 'monogamous'
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 05:12 PM
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Yes, and they can do so without looking gay. Retinoids and moisturizer for skin smoothness and development of wrinkles, gym, haircut to suit face shape,. Work done to teeth (I got invisiligns for 700 quid).
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 03:50 PM
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Whats the median weight when you control for age, though?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 03:48 PM
1

The times they are a changin' BioNTech co-founder says gender equality made vaccine possible Özlem Türeci credits firm’s more than 50% female workforce for speed at which first viable jab created
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 03:44 PM
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Yeah. Once you're comfortable, it doesn't make you more happy. You need enough to keep the stress at bay and then a little bit for leasure Also stupid work weeks ruin mental health and happiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 03:41 PM
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User name checks out
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 03:33 PM
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29F A nice pub, early evening on a weekday. We hit it off, have a laugh, we get a lil drunk but not wasted and then we smash. The smashing is lovely and we cuddle up to sleep. We wake up, I make him coffee and he orders me a big breaky on deliveroo. We it that in bed and then smash again.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 03:32 PM
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Flirt with him and banter, ask him questions about himself and see how he responds. Of he responds well then increase the flirting untill we kiss, tease him a bit and eventually take his clothes off. Wait for him to text me a few days later and send a few cheeky text messages, hook up again and the rest is history. This only ever happens via tinder, at parties or gatherings. When I'm at a 'hard' party - I'm too Interested in getting fucked up to meet guys lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 08:17 PM
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I wouldn't have kids with someone whos family has a history of twins or triplets. I just couldn't cope with having them myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 07:40 PM
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Travelling as a young, single and childless person is the best thing you can do IMO.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 05:52 PM
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I wish I travelled after uni instead of having serious relationships. It's my one single regret in life
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 03:46 PM
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My ex of 3.5 years had to isolate away from me and I found out he was looking at escort sites, and made a profile whilst he was (evidently) really fucked. I got over it and moved on though - no point in incessantly whining about it and hating on the male gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 03:44 PM
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Men don't just spontaneously propose. The couple decides they want to marry, and roughly when - and then he proposes some time after.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 03:38 PM
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It can't just be coincidental that modern men have less of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 07:31 AM
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Yeah. This is all stuff I learned when I was about 18. Seems strange that so many older people struggle with this. I'm sure there's a feminist rant about this, aha.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 01:09 AM
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Oh noes
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 01:08 AM
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I'm a bit confused. How can they have lots of casual sex if they're really picky?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 12:58 AM
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Yeah that's kinda makes sense. I think essentially women all come from the same physical stimulation (clitoris and vaginal stimulation that isn't too painful) but little kinks and tricks make it more or less pleasurable. With one partner, you can work out the basics of an orgasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 12:47 AM
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Is that when you turn five women celibate ?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 12:43 AM
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There's a reason the British press hate her. It begins with an R and ends with an M.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 12:11 AM
2

How high are we talking?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 12:02 AM
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Lower
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 12:01 AM
1

Omg same. 'and they were room mates' gasp
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 12:00 AM
1

Hehe
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 12:00 AM
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Love ya
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 11:59 PM
2

I still regularly watch vine compilations from years ago. Top tier humour IMO
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 10:53 PM
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, it would be pretty juvenile if you were of adult age and could not talk to your parents openly about sex I don't want to take dating advice from someone who might have a shit sex life, you know? And I can only find out about my mum's sex life if I ask her. Obviously I'll talk to her about the clinical side of things, but I don't want to know the ins and outs
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 10:42 PM
1

Trailer looks good
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 10:38 PM
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Absolutely not. He has to have a similar attitude as me towards sex or it won't work.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 10:35 PM
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My ex boyfriend was literally like Mr Peanutbutter. Wanted to make everyone around him happy and he was overtly positive about life. Sadly his ADHD led to binge drinking which I couldn't cope with and he over worked so much couldn't spend much time with him. Current guy is very affectionate and kind of puppy-dogish. He doesn't have any mental health issues like the previous one though. Boring 9-5 job and plays sports for fun and plays bass. Generally I go for super amiable, positive, extroverted…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 10:31 PM
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There's lots of different cultures in America though, isn't there? Maybe some states do things differently than others.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 10:08 PM
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Yeah well, I'm not trying to attract you or men like you, am I ? I do whatever works for me, and what works for other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 10:07 PM
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I should clarify. Obviously I don't CHASE men. But I used to ask them out, text them after dates and generally make a bit of effort. I just did less of that, and they seemed more interested? I don't get it, but it is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 09:56 PM
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I did. Silly me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 09:52 PM
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Personally I stopped putting in as much effort into chasing men, and found that they were more Interetested when I did that. I also got linked to a beauty sub which is AMAZING (god bless you retinoids).
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 09:49 PM
1

There certainly wasn't a crown.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 09:46 PM
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All dogs that are bred for a purpose have those instinctive traits. Retrievers will retrieve, Dalmatians and grey hounds will run, Jack Russell will hunt small things...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 09:42 PM
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The UK sexual assault and rape sentencing is a joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 09:40 PM
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I love their hunour it's so gloriously surreal and nonsensical.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 09:37 PM
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The British press are cancerous.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 09:33 PM
2

It's a metaphor for 'giny tingles'
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 09:32 PM
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Yoo! I'm crying Because you're sad you can't find it? :P
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 09:31 PM
1

I've never felt lust towards someone I didn't like.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 09:31 PM
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Some FDS advice actually worked for me. I'm not in 💯 percent agreement with them over their ethos, but they say harsh truths that need to be said.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 09:29 PM
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Yes because who doesn't want to talk to their mothers about how good their dad is in the sack.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 09:28 PM
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I had an abortion three years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 09:26 PM
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Oh I see! Yes, your comment makes perfect sense now.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 08:39 PM
2

That seems like an obvious “man” thing but for some strange reason few men on PPD seem to be interested in sports Omg yeah, that's so true.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 08:34 PM
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Oh I see. I don't think any women have a preference for unclean and unhealthy men though
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 08:32 PM
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Surely if you understand anatomy, you understand pleasure? Like poppy said - kinks and preferences might vary - but ultimately all orgasms come from female anatomy being stimulated in a certain way
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 08:30 PM
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Most parents scream at you for not listening to them. Err, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 08:19 PM
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Are you non-american? I'm in the UK and first dates are almost always a few drinks in a bar/pub. I've neverk own someone to bring gifts to a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 08:15 PM
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I think you might be on to something. I'm I the UK and I don't recall anyone asking for or recieving advice about dating. We have the sex talk, but that's all I can think of.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 08:13 PM
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I don't remember any of my friends in the early 00s recieving dating advice from our parents and we all had mothers and fathers.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 08:12 PM
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That is unequivocally bad parenting, it sounds like you gravitated to children with similar upbringing to you - which is what tends to happen. When kids go quiet you leave them to it, or if they're upset you sit down and console them. Private home conversations are pretty private, I don't see how one can be called out for that. Parents have a consensus amongst each other on ways to parent, and they share that information with each other all the time. Also young people talk about their home life …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 08:08 PM
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Everyone has to experience being a bit cringe in their youth. I went through some questionable stages
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 08:04 PM
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Sounds endearing
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 06:52 PM
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What kinda style is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 06:51 PM
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What you're describing is an extreme example of terrible parenting. That's not the norm and not a socially accepted way to talk to your child.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 06:49 PM
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Ok that's actually quite funny
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 06:26 PM
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What sort of 'social norms and expectations" does he not follow ?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 06:22 PM
1

You're just describing an alternative normy. Maybe in the 1950s that would be a 'bad boy'.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 06:21 PM
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Haha, indeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 06:11 PM
1

A good start would be hitting the gym. Makes you look better and feel better about yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 06:09 PM
1

Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 05:35 PM
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I work with teenagers, teenagers with behavioural issues. Plus I was 25 only four years age, so I remember it well. Normalising depression as 'part of their age' is part of the problem. If your kids are showing signs of depression and isolation, address it. I don't get why people plan to have kids but don't actually put any legwork into raising them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 05:33 PM
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Nice
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 04:05 PM
2

One of the most bizarre stories I've heared on here aha
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 04:04 PM
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We already know that children are far more likely to adopt their political opinion on their peers and own social experiences, than that of their parents. So I assume it's much the same with social using and dating. You mix with other humans, have some good and bad experiences and pick it up. I never received one bit of dating advice from my own parents. It was all stuff I learned by dating guys, fucking guys, having good experiences and having heart breaks.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 04:03 PM
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Hormones don't make teenagers perpetually sullen for a decade
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 04:00 PM
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Even if you can't see it, of you rubbed or licked that area - it would be stimulated.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 03:36 PM
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Oh god that's cringe
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 03:08 PM
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I just can't get my head around this at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 03:07 PM
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Not being sexually harassed is the only thing I can think about. Although of you're REALLY ugly, you get harassed for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 03:05 PM
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A fuy who cheats, is unpleasant to other people and exhibits nasty/ antisocial behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 03:03 PM
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That's what I mean. It's all gender bashing reeeee
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 03:01 PM
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This is quite a difficult question from a parents perspective. They come from a completely generation and have totally different ideas on whats 'fun' and 'cool' You just have to socialise. Socialise. Socialise. Mix with women as much as possible and learn to be comfortable around them and find out what they like
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 12:00 PM
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Which all happens after seduction and flirting. NO ONE wants to hear their parents advise them about that, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 11:49 AM
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Lol what guy is going to sit there and listen to his mum talk about seduction, flirting and sexual prowess? They're giving you basic advice on being a good husband/father - not slaying pussy
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 11:05 AM
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r/unpopularopinion= very popular opinions. r/amitheasshole= am I the angel?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 11:03 AM
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Yes. People that deny this are young and have never had a friend or boyfriend longer than 5 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 10:55 AM
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How can you not find it? This makes zero sense to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 10:51 AM
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The vast vast majority put effort into pleasing me. The men who were 'bad' were inexperienced, but ai haven't slept with one of those since I was a late teen. I had one guy who wasn't good or bad, just 'wierd'.(like wanted me to play with his nipples and didn't really know how to kiss). It does actually take me some effort to orgasm, I'm not one of those women who orgasms come easy with. I just have a knack for picking decent men and I feel comfortable with my body and I am comfortable with aski…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 10:50 AM
1

Literally the same as TRP and PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 10:46 AM
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My point is that people aren't using the word properly. So try and look at the context before getting upset over them using that word. I'm not undesirable to all men, and that's fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 10:15 AM
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Given this anacdote, she sounds really invested in the boy. So he should be fine. I think single mother, only child dynamic often works really well. Every family I know like that the mother and child are extremely close.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 10:13 AM
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I'm afraid I can't take anacdotes regarding childcare considering our other conversation about kids this week. Ha.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 10:11 AM
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Yes but you don't want you're kid to be completely aucked into those things, so it entails lots of energy still! My nine year old loves YT but I have to limit screentime. Playing with her, answering a millions questions a day and doing activities is what's draining my energy ha.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 10:10 AM
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It ain't easy, fortunately that stage won't last forever. And he'll be her best friend when he's older.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 11:09 PM
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Same experience here. It's good to hear that other women have experienced this. It totally changed my sex life for the better, to.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 10:45 PM
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All three of my boyfriend's have referred to me as a 'cat' at some point. Not sure how I should feel about that 😃
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 10:41 PM
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Yeah I don't doubt that. The ones in my country (or at least area) are obese middle ages welfare kings and queens with a penchant for beer and shit food. There's occasionally the odd stabby one though. But I agree - the most dangerous people are the people who are willing to fight dirty and have nothing to lose.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 10:36 PM
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'undesirable' is a bit of a cumbersome word and I wouldn't personally use it in this context. In this context, they don't 'desire' these men, which is why they label them 'undesirable'. It's completely reasonable to weed out men you don't desire. Surely those men are better off with women who actually desire them?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 10:33 PM
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FDS endorses and encourages looksmaxxing, actually. I'm pretty sure they bang on about getting themselves careers,to.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 09:01 PM
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My friend kinda got shafted with custody of his children and it generally broke my heart. Perfect dad, very involved with his boys but he can only see them every second weekend for two days.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 08:53 PM
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I always joke that bikers are harmless because most of them need help getting on their bike.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 08:51 PM
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Careful, I got HPV and really regretted that. It took two years to fully clear up and I have to disclose it with boyfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 08:47 PM
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Women are attracted to nice facial features and toned bodies. That could mean big muscles for some, or slim and toned for others.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 08:44 PM
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Wasn't asking you
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 07:13 PM
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It's really I retesting seeing what straight men think hot men look like. The second one looks about twelve.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 05:52 PM
7

Do you view people you don't want to date as 'sub human' ?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 05:29 PM
1

Yes, basically. Not impossible but extremely rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 05:21 PM
8

BDSM. Nothing pretending to be non consensual hough.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 05:20 PM
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Yes. After watching err...questionable porn. Also twice in my younger days when I had really bad sex and felt grossed out straight after.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 03:38 PM
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It's definitely interesting at exemplifying the difference between US and UK gender dynamics I had no idea how different they were
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 01:29 PM
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This is why women need to put more emphasis on sexual chemistry. It's incredibly important. I think studies say women orgasm 50-70% of the time. But again, if they emphasis sexual chemistry and quality sexual partners, it would be much higher.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 01:20 PM
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.less-afraid girls while the other are average girls and they havent had orgasms from what they told me This is very abnormal. Most orgasms happen in LTRs and marriages. (For the reasons you outlined in your second paragraph). Find an attentive man who pulls his weight around the house and cares about your sexual needs. You'll be fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 01:13 PM
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You can have loads of fun with kids in tow and still have an abundance of orgasms.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 01:01 PM
1

How are your knees ?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 12:57 PM
1

For me it's just wit, social skills and 'street smarts'. Anything beyond that is pretty low down on the priority list for me. F29
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 12:56 PM
0

Fun fun and more fun
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 12:52 PM
3

All those things can happen in your thirties
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 12:52 PM
1

Oops! Yeah you need to be drunk enough to be 'fun' not a pain in the arse :)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 08:38 AM
2

If you are a decently attractive older man, A literal unicorn 🦄
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 08:36 AM
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Looooooool
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 03:21 PM
1

Not much. We've had tinder and instant gratification for over a decade now, I don't see what massive social shift could happen next to dramatically make a difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 03:20 PM
1

Most women don't cum from casual sex. Nerves, lack of chemistry, the guy not knowing what she likes ect..lots of things come into play. Personally I enjoy casual sex, but more often than not I can get an orgasm. If I couldn't orgasm from casual sex, then I wouldn't. And I'm sure men would have the exact same attitude if they were in that position.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 03:18 PM
0

Go to more.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 03:07 PM
1

Took me a while to get that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 12:55 PM
1

Innit.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 12:58 AM
2

Thirties looks pretty awesome. You (generally) have financial security, a solid friend group and you give less shits about what people think of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 11:15 PM
1

They both used the all beef diet. He went in a medically induced coma which he had to fly to Russia for. My understanding is because doctors in Canada (and presumably US) wouldn't not do something that dangerous.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 11:06 PM
1

There's no denying he's a smart chap. I think he's just lost the plot a little bit (hense the quack doctors and beef diet)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 09:36 PM
3

Acne scars aren't really sought after
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 07:42 PM
1

Try the ladies over at r/skincareaddiction. There must be skin products to mitigate dark eyes. You should definitely try sleeping more and drinking water.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 07:41 PM
3

Well I'm glad you recovered. Sounds rough
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 07:31 PM
22

How often are those guys drinking alcohol and going to parties? That's where most hooking up happens. If you study and don't party you're really minimising your chances of getting laid
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 07:26 PM
2

Lots of dudes dig heroine chic. Slim women tend to have pretty faces IMO.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 07:25 PM
1

He said that postmodernism is derived from marxist ideology, not that they're the same thing. He calls a lot of things 'post modern neo Marxism'. Anyone writing about philosophy should use the correct terminology. A philosophical or political idea that overlaps into another is not the same thing. It's just very sloppy on his behalf. He has an auto-immune disorder that causes psoriasis and depression, that's the only reason he eats meat, his daughter has the same disorder. Also there's a thing ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 07:18 PM
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I agree it would be extremely stupid. And yet I see it in front of my eyes multiple times every day. Right. So those people, along with Peterson - shouldn't be taken seriously . I'm just attacking the fashionable lefty idea that Peterson is "the brain of the Alt-Right"; lady your bubble is so When did I say anything about him being right wing? Please quote me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 06:57 PM
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He's obviously using his knowledge of the human brain to sell people what he KNOWS they will want to hear. Psychology and marketing have always gone hand in hand. He knows that Incels, climate denialists and people who are groups of people that over lap - so he's just selling what he knows they wanna hear.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 06:26 PM
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Two bullshit philosophies, if you know anything more about them other than the fact that they are both bullshit you have wasted valuable brain space and learning time that could have been used for literally anything else. Imagine if someone called every right leaning person a nazi? It would be stupid, wouldn't it? He's welcome to critique both philosophies. But using them in the complete wrong context exemplifies his ignorance towards philosophy. It's just buzzword bullshit used to enrage people…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 06:23 PM
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Where did I attack him for being right wing? Nah he pushes pseudo philosophy and doesn't know that Marxists and post modernists are different. Anything he dislikes is 'post modern neo marxisssmm' Oh and he's a hypocrite. He pushes the 'addicts need to toughen up and find meaning in their life if they wanna quit drugs' and then when he became an addict he went to a quack in Russia and had them force him into a comma so he would not have to recover from addiction himself lol. Oh and he eats an all…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 06:05 PM
5

Lol I think I remember that thread. Imagine thinking you have a captain when you're essentially his mummy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 05:54 PM
-2

We do indeed live in a society
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 05:50 PM
6

That's because the lobster queen has built his career on incel rage bait.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 05:49 PM
1

Yeah, good point.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 04:46 PM
1

Lots of grandparents are still working themselves and have years to go until they can retire. And great grandparents often have too many great grandparents that they can share the burden of all of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 04:46 PM
1

Cuckoldry? Yes please.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 03:29 PM
2

Porn? Realistic?!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 03:28 PM
5

No but they watch a hell of a lot of sitcoms
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 03:26 PM
1

Adventurous men are better in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 03:19 PM
13

Follow beauty advice and look attractive That's it. That's their only good advice
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 07:34 AM
2

They were great guys to me, but would be horrible for my kid because of how inconsistent they were Huh? That's not what I said, at all ?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 07:33 AM
1

I don't mind a bit of cover up for spots and when I was younger I loved guys in eyeliner. But generally not much
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 12:03 AM
1

Yeah. My friend had one in the desert whilst she was traveling. Poor thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 12:02 AM
2

Absolutely. Its very hard with a baby, much easier with an eight year old. Also very dependant on the mums support system and how often the father has the child.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 11:29 PM
1

Aww that's sad. Poor dears.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 11:23 PM
2

takes off glasses Oh my god!she's hot!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 11:16 PM
1

The problem with dating advice books, is that the reader doesn't know whether the writer has any credence. Not only that but people have to apply their own individual strategy because individuals generally want different things from each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 11:14 PM
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29f. Honestly it's not much different. Broke up with kids dad and dated around, met someone after five months. I introduced him to daughter after we dated four three months (wanted it to be longer, but didn't have much childfree time to date back then). After she knew him for a bit, I asked her how she felt about him living with us and she was enthusiastic about it. We shared rent but kept most our finances separate. He played with my daughter and occasionally took her for days out but most the …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 10:35 PM
0

Whatever you say mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 10:21 PM
0

Yeah, when they were older.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 10:16 PM
1

Nah, it's awesome. You should try it sometime.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 10:12 PM
1

I've always wanted to go but when I looked it cost about 900 quid.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 10:11 PM
0

Yeah, it's very easy when someone else takes the responsibility off your hands
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 10:09 PM
1

I know you don't LITERALLY mean you treated them like actual cats. But you're trying to frame it as easy, when in fact parents exhaust themselves by spending hours a day teaching, nurturing and providing a safe and healthy environment for their children. (Not to mention providing financially) Not appreciating this is unequivocally disrespectful to the person doing this - which is why it's very understandable that you would be divorced.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 09:20 PM
1

Might be a cultural thing
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 08:58 PM
1

You compared child rearing to looking after a cat.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 08:39 PM
1

I approach all the time. If I'm a party i'm usually only attracted to a couple of guys. If I waited for them to approach me then I could be waiting for a while, lol. Last guy I messaged first on tinder and actually asked him out. We both flirted back and forwards and ended up back at mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 08:38 PM
1

Quite.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 08:24 PM
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I'm sorry but basic psychology says that if you're child's mental and physical needs are not met, they will grow up with learning and physical disabilities. So either your ex did everything (which justifies her divorcing you) or you're not being honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 08:22 PM
5

Yeah, because most men on drugs can get a raging boner.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 06:25 PM
1

I hope her and the kids are ok anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 06:21 PM
1

Are you ok?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 06:20 PM
2

Yeah, amongst other things. The countryside in the UK is mostly wealthy people. Part of the reason people split up less is because they have less money stresses and it's isolating for mother's to be on there own.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 05:45 PM
2

She ended up taking loads of money from him and leaving him.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 05:44 PM
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Well of course she left you lol. Most women would if this was the guys attitude to parenting: https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/ltabgv/comment/goxkt6t
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 05:43 PM
2

Letting mum do everything
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 03:48 PM
1

Do you have kids with her?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 03:40 PM
1

Someone who adds value to my life. This can be in myriad ways
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 03:29 PM
1

Yeah, I love being single and feel no rush to get into a relationship. For me, there's no real benefits to a boyfriend or marriage. I don't want any more children, I don't get lonely and all my sexual and emotional needs are met. Of course it inevitable that I will eventually develop feelings for someone - in that case obviously I won't avoid things blossoming. Not looking, not not-looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 03:28 PM
3

What don't you understand ?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 08:55 AM
7

What women doesn't get wet and horny when a guy gives puppy eye?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/21 07:49 PM
2

That's the opposite case in the UK. Rural mums are more likely to have live in husband's or partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/21 07:39 PM
6

Men don't know what 'no make up' looks like and they have no idea what work goes on behind doors to make women look attractive. When they say 'I don't care about make up and cloyhes' they mean "I don't like loud or badly done make up, and I don't care about fashion styles'. Clothes accentuate body parts that men appreciate, they also compliment skin tone and eye colour. Make up accentuates facial features that they find attractive and give women a 'glow' and obviously they appreciate a women bei…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/21 07:35 PM
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https://tenor.com/btoeL.gif
/r/ExRedPill28/02/21 03:18 PM
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There isn't some priority list of traits that people have. They have a set of traits that all need to be met for the person to be interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/21 12:08 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/lszfg2/comment/gouwaw3 Hahahah
/r/ExRedPill28/02/21 11:57 AM
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I'm into BDSM and maybe 1/8 of men I meet are also into that. Nothing crazy, just a bit of bondage /spanking ect (no rape play/daddy shit). I've only copped off with one dude that was into something I considered wierd. That was spitting and he claims the fetish started shortly after working with the government lol. Most people I know are serial monogamous and have bouts of slutty stages in-between relationships. I know one couple who have threesomes and do puppy play but I don't really ask them …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/21 10:24 AM
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You would say that - you're trying to sell something. The problem is that when ten guys say 'ill just talk to her, I'm only one person' in one hour : it's overwhelming.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/21 07:17 PM
2

It is pretty well known that Street harrasment is out of hand in New York city. There's lots of social experiments that show this.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/21 05:28 PM
5

You can't have a beta for a fuck buddy. That's not what 'beta" means.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/21 04:10 PM
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Because in places like new York that's what happens. Guys just constantly stop you to try and chat you up.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/21 04:09 PM
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That's good, Its very hard to articulate so I'm glad that example worked! She is a wonderful woman! I really enjoyed that show.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/21 03:51 PM
1

I don't care who they are, how they look or where they're from. It's overwhelming to constantly be stopped and spoken to by men because you're hot to them. I would rather none of them did it, even if it means no good looking ones do. Casual chat in a social setting that leads to flirting is fine. Like a pub, club or event. I'm more than happy to be chatted up there. I'm there to meet strangers and men so of course I'm very open to men asking for my number. I'm even perfectly happy to talk to str…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/21 03:47 PM
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It was never a huge battle with me and my ex. If he came home from work really tired and exasperated, I would it. If he came home from work and I was really tired and exasperated with the baby - I would do it. Obviously I did most of it as a STAHM, but we both cared about each other and used our empathy to recognise how to share the paid and unpaid labour fairly.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/21 12:15 PM
1

Jesus christ
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/21 12:11 PM
3

Yeah, guys on here are very young it seems.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/21 11:49 AM
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I think they do but in my experience that jealously/insecurity starts at forty-forty five. That's when the detrimental signs of aging really show.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/21 11:47 AM
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Gender parity in government (Sweden have this) and equal representation across all other industries. I think some Industries will always appeal to one gender more than the other (men are never going to be that interested in childcare, and women are never going to be that interested in a lot of physical jobs) but theres no reason why Hollywood for example, should be a boys club.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/21 11:43 AM
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Explain
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/21 11:41 AM
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Yes. Everyone I know uses a combo of both. They'll go out at the weekend with their friends and keep their eye open for women/men and then they scroll their tinder every other day and talk to people on there. I used to scroll for ten minutes a day/every other day, but I would also be looking for men at parties/ clubs ect
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/21 11:40 AM
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I think- Ugly - facial features are oversized/undersized or arranged in an unusual way that's not aesthetically appealing. Unconventionally attractive - facial features are undersized/oversized or arranged in an unusual way that IS aesthetically pleasing. I would also put the woman from Queens gambit in the second category.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/21 11:27 AM
2

Yep. Just please fuck off..in not ever EVER interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/21 02:13 AM
2

I know what your saying - but it's not his internal features that make him attractive. He is PHYSICALLY attractive, in an unconventional way. Basically on paper his facial features shouldn't look attractive, but they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/21 02:12 AM
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Partly, but he is also attractive. I think he is very attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 08:13 PM
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Isn't it sad for our society that we are at a place where people feel so alienated to each other than they prefer to meet each other through the interface of a mobile app instead of talking to each other directly. No, no I don't. I like being able to navigate public spaces without being hounded by creeps. I just want to go to the shops without five different dudes stopping me on the way because he's looking for sex. Every single city has a plethora of bars and parties as well as groups, meet ups…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 07:48 PM
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No he's not ugly, it's unconventionally attract. A bit of a difference. Plus I think women fall in love with his character in films, haha
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 07:29 PM
4

How ugly are we talking?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 06:52 PM
2

No, don't leave the kids with the church.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 06:45 PM
12

Hmm...I don't think so. Facial attraction is #1 for women and lack of entails are hard 'no'.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 06:17 PM
2

I doubt it's one in nine. I don't think that many women can stomach what sugaring entails.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 06:12 PM
1

Yes because the nice people at seaking arrangement would never lie to encourage more customers.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 06:08 PM
1

Woosh
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 02:48 PM
1

It's considered wierd. There's nothing wrong with it..it's just uncommon.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 11:31 PM
1

S'alright. I would like a smaller waist. All my weight goes to stomach and boobs. You can't have it all I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 11:29 PM
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There's a kink for almost ever body type. It might not be popular, but that does mean that guys are lying when they say they like it. They just fall in that niche group. I mean, have you been down all the wierd rabbit holes ? r/bimbo r/tigerstripes r/wierdboobs r/noass
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 11:27 PM
4

Goals
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 09:19 PM
1

Alternatively you can introduce a glory hole to your bedroom. Hey, the centre of decease control have already recommended it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 06:10 PM
2

You know, I actually relate to this slightly. Have you considered that deep down you don't actually want a relationship? And that you're making excuses to not settle down with someone seriously? Sometimes no matter how perfect someone is, of we're not in the right place to commit -then we can't make ourselves The guy I'm seeing is perfect on paper, and there's a lot of attraction and sexual chemistry. But I just can't commit right now, and I have found myself trying to make excuses as to why he'…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 06:06 PM
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Having the means to up and leave a bad relationship outweighs how stressful work is. Yeah, work sucks and it's tiring, especially when you have other responsibilities. But it's a small prove to pay for autonomy
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 05:43 PM
1

Haha
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 05:40 PM
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Drop your phone through your legs into the shitter and then tell me thigh gaps are good
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 05:13 PM
2

Abso fucking lutely
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 05:04 PM
1

Looks (facial attraction, toned, healthy looking) Chemistry (the sex is good, they have fun together, not too much drama present) Similar worldview/ values (politics, religion, outlook on life)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 04:00 PM
2

Press X for doubt Lots of dudes here are icked out by vaginas
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 03:56 PM
0

Definitely belongs on r/sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 03:54 PM
1

Were really not
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 03:53 PM
4

Haha
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 03:46 PM
1

I guess I'm pretty average. Get up and go to work during the week, come home quick nap and time spent reading/ internetting/ speaking to friend on the phone. Quick run/ exercises, food, skincare and bed. Get twatted on a Friday night with friends. Either the pub or someone's house. Party/gig/club on special occasions. Wake up late saturday and get takeaway, walk if weather is nice, make big lunch on Sunday and chill/do gardening/do hobbies ect. Sometimes get twatted Friday and Saturday, sometime…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 03:45 PM
1

Sure
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 03:37 PM
1

That's what calculators online say - could be wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 03:37 PM
1

Unfortunately I'm rectangle, not hour glass :( Are you implying it's because these dudes put an effort in because they wanted to see me again? Because a handful of them didn't. (actually, two this year didn't)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 07:59 AM
1

I'de say I'm pretty normal, on the curvy side. 39-31-40 and 5"5". Good skin, normal face (nothing amazing but no odd or oversized/undersized features).
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 07:45 AM
6

My kinda guy
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 11:51 PM
5

Oooh yeah, love thst
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 11:48 PM
0

Quite frequently. There's a lot of hot guys on tinder that I've met. I've also met dudes at gatherings and parties. I actually love the whole process of spark -> flirt-> sex...such fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 11:44 PM
1

Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 09:31 PM
1

Actually outsiders say this about the UK - but not quite the extent of sweeds. I've heard foreigners say it's difficult to make friends, but once you do it's really solid. We also like our personal space but really really let lose at pubs and parties. YouTube the underground during the week versus the weekend
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 09:31 PM
2

Oh wow Sweden sounds awesome. Dip me in chocolate and Fred me to the chads.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 09:29 PM
1

Yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 09:27 PM
2

Although I do sometimes go deaf in one ear for a minute or so. Oh I get this! So strange
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 08:32 PM
1

I'm not talking about likelihood of orgasm, obviously that is more likely with a regular partner. And FYI - fuck buddies are a thing, and you don't 'love' them. I am asking you to provide evidence that a SINGLE orgasm is MORE INTENSE if you love someone. Like, how is the rush longer or more intense just because the person you're with loves your? I don't want a single person anecdote
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 08:07 PM
1

Tldr ?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 08:01 PM
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No it doesn't make 'total sense, chemically' lol. Loads of stuff gives you dopamine and oxytocin (including sharing food, lol) but that doesn't mean the intensity of a single orgasm is more intense. And I don't really see how your single anacdote supports this theory of yours
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 07:55 PM
2

Ok just googled it. Seems pointless? Also dick firmness and texture > silicon
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 07:51 PM
2

That says an orgasm is more likely, it doesn't say that they're 'better'. Also you don't have to be in love to have a regular partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 07:46 PM
1

That doesn't address my question. Where is the study that says emotion increases the intensity level of a single orgasm?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 07:41 PM
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Lots of us do. And if we dont, we can see the same guy again and cum the second time.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 07:23 PM
1

I didn't mention friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 07:21 PM
4

Wouldn't it mean he felt less?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 07:19 PM
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Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 07:09 PM
1

I know what oxytocin is Where's the study that says you have more intense orgasms the more you love someone ? Genuinely interested
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 07:09 PM
0

I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 05:36 PM
2

Make up is amazing fun and a really good hobby.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 05:22 PM
2

Wanting or not wanting kids, lots of drama in her past, a difficult family, difficult to live with (really messy or really OCD).
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 05:16 PM
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Few men are willing to openly admit that they are having dating/sex appeal problems Yes, and giving advice is often seen as a bit insulting, because it requires you to point out their flaws
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 05:12 PM
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Do people give women advice either? I've only ever seen women exchange beauty tips and self love stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 05:10 PM
1

There's like ten manosphere subs
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 04:31 PM
0

You're talking about a tiny little island -- I'm talking about American stand up comedy, aka actual stand up comedy that people care about. No need to read anything after this
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 04:29 PM
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I'm saying that things are changing and there's an increase in female comedians and female writers. Sarah pascoe and Katherine Ryan are everywhere atm, they're obviously getting the numbers on. As lots of female comics have said, it's a a bit of a boys club and hard to work your way up the top. Much like lots of other industries. Also the two women I listed were writers, not just accesses.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 04:21 PM
1

Not for me they're not. I don't see how emotion can make a physical orgasm more intense. Like, how would that even work?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 04:17 PM
1

Well for me, if the sex is good but I just can't reach orgasm - I just have a second encounter with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 04:16 PM
5

I do actually really enjoy casual sex. I like variety and I like the excitement of a new partner, as well as all the flirting that leads up to it. Now obviously not every guy wants to see you again, and that kinda sucks. I don't feel 'degraded' but obviously my ego takes a small blow. I've had one moment where I started to feel 'grossed out' during sex. I wouldn't say it was 'degrading' but it definitely evoked disgust. Basically, it was just sloppy and unenjoyable partly because he didn't reall…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 04:10 PM
1

Comedy is more often than not self deprivation, there's an element of indignity to it. Plus to be a comic you have to pushpretty hard to be seen - and men are just more ambitious. Things are changing though. Way more women are entering comedy, at least in the UK. Fleabag and this country both won baftas.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 04:02 PM
1

I fuck men of all races and creeds. Never seen this phenomenon.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 03:40 PM
1

If I had a boy I teach him to be socially adept and confident. I'de also get him into sport
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 03:37 PM
6

My 6"2 neighbour hasn't had sex in three years
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 03:36 PM
6

Wow hot take, no one ever says this on here
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 03:34 PM
5

I think this is really left field and I don't really observe this supposed phenomenon
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 03:22 PM
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You've got to remember, not all women are feminists and not all feminists have the same view of gender and gender performances. Most of us are not in the 'all gender is a social construct" camp and most of us don't want to destroy the concept of gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 03:21 PM
2

I thought it was standard that men enjoy getting women off. Reddit is wierd
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 03:14 PM
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This is where I don't relate to lot of women on here and Reddit to an extent. I've had maybe..30 - 35 partners and they all made me cum or at least tried. The only exception was about two highschool lovers who were very new to sex themselves. Standard for me is kissing, touching, give and receive oral and then PIV. Regardless whether it's a BF or a ONS.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 03:13 PM
1

Because when you're I'll you lose your hair and your hair loses its shine. Also most women are less attracted to shaved guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 03:10 PM
3

Right And are women en masse going up to random dudes and telling them that they don't like their specific unchangeable traits?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 07:54 AM
2

Uh huh..
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 01:36 AM
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But why? Can men not tell the difference between my Individual opinion and that of other women? I often say I like black guys, and guys with long hair - is that me 'shaming' non black guys with short hair?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 01:31 AM
2

Generally 'real man' is shorthand for 'possesses masculinity traits that I perceive as positive'. For some its bravery, being a good father, independence, ect. Tradcon women might might have their own definition such 'provides for me, leads the family'. And a man might define a 'real man'' as 'assertive, fucks lots of women, amazing at sport, mows a damn good lawn. It differs to the person using it. And wanting a man to possess masculine traits that are NOT add odds with feminism does not make y…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 01:29 AM
4

So no one should ever talk about what they like because it upsets you?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 01:15 AM
3

It's rare but it happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 01:14 AM
1

Swedish women are the most gorgeous women in the world - they'll be fine, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 01:05 AM
8

Lmao at the idea that blackpills reproduce
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 12:30 AM
3

Oh yeah, the man sounds like a compete fuckwit. Instead of leaving him for a non-fuckwit, she tries to adapt to his fuckwittery.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 12:24 AM
2

This isn't 'womens' problem then, it's a problem of your backwards culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 12:22 AM
1

My attraction to muscles is some deep, visceral primal thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 12:18 AM
3

The minute they open their mouths about it on the internet - in the public square - it's tacitly a demand for others to give them what they want. This doesn't make sense. People talk about themselves for all sorts of reasons, especially on the internet. It's just...chatting. Again, you're using 'demend' in the wrong context. Saying 'If you want X from me, then you need to provide me with X' is not the same as 'give me X!'. A women saying 'I will only date you if you bring X to the table' is only…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 12:12 AM
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Makes sense. They don't have many alternative reasons to date men, so they prioritise sex and attraction. That's pretty much where I want to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 12:07 AM
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Yes. You should see contrapoints video on 'degeneracy'. It's quite interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 12:02 AM
2

I'm not denying it happens - but you frame your comment like it's some common thing in the modern world.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 12:01 AM
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Well I've looked into it and hair is a sign of youth and health. Men lose hair as they get older and hair loses its shine when you're u healthy. So maybe subconsciously I am picking up on that? Big bright eyes are perceived as more trusting and amiable, which is why lots of people like that. This 'type' is often slightly effeminate and I think effeminate men are often better lovers. They seem more 'in tune' with women and know the art of love making (complete stereotype but you catch my drift). …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 12:00 AM
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Women should never be expected to give Incels sex, and men should never be expected to act masculine for women. See how this works? I think your using 'demand' in the wrong context. A woman saying 'I want X' is not 'demanding' anything, it's basically a request that potential men are free to refuse. Likewise, if an incel says 'I want sex' then that's fine - it only gets problematic when he starts to talk about 'taking" sex AKA rape. Let people have their expectations and aspirations. If they fai…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 11:50 PM
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https://youtu.be/AOH0Qys5Ptc
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 11:05 PM
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They do NOT have the right to bully and pressure men into becoming like Conan The Barbarian Who does this though? This isn't a 'thing'. Men aren't getting bullied by women because they're not those traits you listed.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 10:38 PM
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Degeneracy is great though.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 10:36 PM
2

which, again, I support - but then turn around and expect men to be some sort of cookie cutter version of what they want Why can't they? What's wrong about that? Having standards doesn't take away autonomy from anyone, even if they're completely unrealistic. If women have standards that can't be met - then that's their problem, and their problem alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 10:35 PM
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Eh - a type is someone with specific characteristics or physical features/ aesthetics. I like slim, toned floppy dark haired men with big eyes and pretty faces - that's a type. I also like sporty and physically masculine guys with 'sweet' personalities - that's another type. I don't like nerdy guys who listen to metal - that's a type. I don't like sharp facial features and really skinny bodies - that's a type. I don't like chavs/ roadmen who are covered in labels - that's a type. It's not that I…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 09:48 PM
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Amazing in bed, my looks match (or higher), low drama, no mental health issues/ addiction, employed, extroverted and fun to be around. I'm high libido and sexually adventurous and enjoy giving in the bedroom, I rarely start any drama or have much on my life, I've never had a mental health issue or addiction, I'm employed and probably always will be and I consider myself very fun to be around :p I rarely struggle to have a partner, so my expectations must be realistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 09:40 PM
1

No need to be snarky mate
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 09:30 PM
2

You can actually look up life time n count in men and how it correlates with height.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 09:06 PM
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Can we talk about men's height? No one ever talks about it on here and did you know women care about it? Please stop commenting me on how women are attracted to height. Comment was said in jest
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 08:59 PM
1

Yes but in a non-social setting, you only have moment to 'impress' a woman, and the majority are not open to it in the first place. Like OLD, you need to be good looking (or above her SMV) for her to give you a chance. Social situations and locations are the best, because they give the bloke an opportunity to actually Interact properly. Parties, pubs, gatherings, work ect
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 08:53 PM
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Haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 08:49 PM
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I recall another part where he takes the wrong turn on the freeway and she doesn't say anything and they spend an hour driving on the wrong one.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 08:48 PM
1

A surrendered wife, according to Doyle, does not exert "inappropriate control" over her husband; she leaves all decision-making up to him, and she smilingly expresses her gratitude and appreciation for everything he does. She also grants him sole custody of the checkbook, and has sex with him at least once a week, whether she feels like it or not. (Doyle says that when she's not in the mood herself it helps get the juices flowing if she plays an old Steely Dan album. To each her own.)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 07:54 PM
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u/SmurfESmurferson Right on que
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 07:45 PM
3

Well there's nothing stopping you!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 07:40 PM
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TIL. Do you have a source?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 07:40 PM
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Yeah imagine all the other stupid stuff he does? Interestingly she's also a feminist (or claims to be).
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 07:40 PM
1

I very much doubt that relationship falls into the category of 'working well'.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 07:34 PM
1

Does testosterone give men nice jaw lines?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 07:30 PM
1

Well that's the book from the RPW side bar and central to their philosophy AFAIK. That specific book is their 'must read'. Oh god I would never do that. I think the whole concept completely retarded for anyone that wants a happy, fulfilled and autonomous life. I can understabd why men are drawn to TRP as it (at least tries to) serve their imperative - so they (supposedly) get fulfillment out of. But the idea that women get fulfillment from serving the male imperative makes little sense to me. I …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 07:28 PM
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Yes because romantically successful thirty year olds are going to have a reason to frequent that sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 07:07 PM
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From the super clever writer of 'the surrendered wife' Even on the larger issues, I have found a little generosity goes a long way. The biggest test was when my husband wanted to buy a car we couldn't afford. My natural instinct would have been to fight him. This time, I did a calculation: the price of a new car in return for matrimonial harmony. The choice was obvious. I gave it my blessing. He bought the car. We were broke, but he was deliriously happy and, in turn, exceptionally nice to me. A…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 07:05 PM
2

How can you be 'masculine' on a dating ap?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 06:57 PM
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Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 06:47 PM
1

Strange
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 05:31 PM
1

Try and relax more, it night elongate it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 05:24 PM
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They go south during the winter
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 03:32 PM
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Depends where you are, I suppose. In the UK we value personal space, so it's a big no-no here. Obviously there's exceptions, but most people have never met another human who dated/fucked as a result of cold approaching in non social settings.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 12:39 PM
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No I don't like submissive cucky guys. And the men who like that are overwhelmingly cucky and submissive (or bisexual)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 12:36 PM
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You can't force people to like John's. It's been legal for decades and decades in the UK and it's still seen as weird. Same with many other countries
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 12:35 PM
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I Know what you're saying (and trust me, I've looked this up ALOT) there is a certain type of dude who does the former, and they're always really wierd.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 12:33 AM
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I like MFM threesomes, but I just find cucks really wierd
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 12:25 AM
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I think it's less than it was. What with 'generation woke'.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 11:58 PM
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We have a UK version and one bloke killed himself so it was cancelled. https://youtu.be/bUz_blZssnk All kinds of crazy!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 11:58 PM
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Ooohh. We had Jeremy Kyle and one bloke killed himself so they shut it down, lol. It wasn't really complicated, actually pretty straight forward. We were flogging a dead horse and needed to end things. Everyone's so much happier now
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 11:40 PM
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No idea what that is
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 11:36 PM
2

I don't think many people use the term whore or slut any more. I've not heard it in that context for a while
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 11:31 PM
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Obviously I felt awful, but it was the catalyst I needed that prompted the break up. Deep down I knew the relationship was wrong, but I was in complete denial. We had a kid to, which made things hard .
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 11:24 PM
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Loooool
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 11:23 PM
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Oh, neither. Broke off with partner and cut off contact with other guy
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 10:58 PM
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Yeah, kissed someone and had quite intense feelings for them for a while. Broke it off with current partner shortly after.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 10:49 PM
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Aaaaaand I'm wet
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 10:47 PM
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Can I be in the screen grab ?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 10:44 PM
0

I'm not saying most TRPs are autistic, but there is a HUGE overlap in their characteristics.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 10:25 PM
0

Flubber jubs
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 10:23 PM
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It's not necessarily the ability to have multiple (though that is cool!) They just seen more intense with women Obviously, there's no hard science behind this - but fron how I've heard the two genders describe there's, and how both genders look during orgasm : women's seems better
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 10:22 PM
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Just going on the stories I hear online, there's loads of them. FtM felt orgasms were almost entirely located in their genitals, and were shorter. MtF said it came in waves and was a full body experience that lasted longer The latter sounds exactly like mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 09:03 PM
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There's actually very little research on orgasms, and what the process is. Let alone with trans people. Obviously we can't compare trans women orgasms to cis women's, or trans men's to cis men's - but we know that when their biology changed after surgery and hormones, so did their orgasms. And just reading the experiences of trans women's orgasms, they sounded very similar to mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 08:57 PM
1

right up my alley As the actress said to the Bishop.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 08:51 PM
2

The actual rush lasts for 30 seconds?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 08:47 PM
1

Haha, you'd love England.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 08:46 PM
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Yes it is biology, which is why it changes when your biology changes. When you take different hormones and have your gentials completely changed, it will change your orgasm. I'm obviously only referencing trans people who are post op/ post hormone change
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 08:45 PM
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All women should really teach themselves how to orgasm with themselves or with a guy. We all have the nerves that cause orgasms - it's just a case of unplugging the mental blockages and knowing how to stimulate yourself properly. I think a lot of women have mental blockages and find it difficult to 'let go' or they don't masturbate enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 08:42 PM
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Being a fat guy seems worse, though. If you're a fat bird, at least there's a sliver of normal looking men that are attracted to you. There's almost zero female chubby chasers
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 08:39 PM
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Absolutely loved pregnancy, child birth and breast feeding. It's just a shame that it's so high risk and damaging to a lot of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 08:37 PM
2

Why tho
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 08:36 PM
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Like a phantom limb? I've heard body being trans as having a faulty 'body map' which is your sense of knowing where your body parts are with out seeing or touching then (like how you can touch your nose with your eyes closed) So when they have the 'wrong" genitals, it feels like their body map is 'faulty" I've not fully looked into it, but it's interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 08:36 PM
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Yeah I hate being so weak. I run, plank and do squats every day, and my over weight gym freak friend (he freaks out when he sees a gym) is ten times stronger than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 08:30 PM
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Cat calling is quite rare in my town (and reserved for spring and summer in most cases). New York was fucking horrendous. I don't know why any woman would love there. And that was me when I was walking round with a child with no makeup and trainers. Not dolled up with heels.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 08:27 PM
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The ability to have queefs is a privilege
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 08:25 PM
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When they changed their bodies, it changed how they experienced orgasms. I don't fully understand it, but that's what they are saying
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 08:23 PM
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https://youtu.be/LW0s9if4_3Y
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 08:13 PM
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Indubitably, and trans people actually pertain to this. Female orgasm is an eye rolling, whole body experience and lasts 10 - 15 seconds. Men's is a short outburst and more of a 'release'
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 08:10 PM
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I try not to use it for money because it's pretty gross for the poor cashier to handle my boob sweat lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 07:44 PM
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u/SmurfESmurtherson. Right on que.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 07:35 PM
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I'm quite well endowed up there, but covering up my cleavage is pretty easy and stops the comments. It's a bit shit because my clothes are essentially chosen based on the behaviour of men. Oh well. Biggest problem is them hurting when I run and BOOB SWEAT. Good pen holders, actually
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 07:33 PM
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I do aspire to be a proper cougar one day. All in good time !
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 07:28 PM
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I like threads like this because people just use them as an excuse to make a thinly veiled bash at the other gender. Just waiting for 'being sad and depressed after the wall because no one wants to wife me any more' and 'not having any support whatsoever because men are so shit to each other'. Any way - I'll probably go with receding hair and less intense orgasms
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 07:01 PM
1

Batwing balls, omfg that's genius :') :')
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 06:56 PM
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I think you over estimate how good the economy is social mobility.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 06:34 PM
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It's actually the opposite. Super alpha and hyper masculine men usually pair up with strong willed, assertive women - not submissive ones. 'stacys' are actually quite psychologically masculine
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 06:30 PM
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I'm 29, no idea what advice to give tbh Be attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 06:08 PM
1

Hmm...I'll go about three years youngrt and three years older than myself. I find men attractive as young as about twenty, but I don't really meet any so I haven't hooked up with any
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 05:30 PM
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He's fine, I just don't feel like a relationship now. They come with responsibilities that I don't really want to take on right now Oh and maybe I still wanna wear lippy and smash younger lads ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 04:42 PM
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I've never seen it IRL outside of highschool, only on the internet - and that's by both genders. Maybe I don't really hang out with the sort of people that do that, and I don't think I actually know any virgins or Incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 04:40 PM
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How is that being like a teenager? Should people get into relationships with other when they don't feel right about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 04:36 PM
1

Wow that's an interesting study, thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 02:19 PM
1

He's harmless
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 02:17 PM
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Haha. Would like to see the lifestime lays statistics
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 02:02 PM
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He's..interesting. writes lots of a paragraphs that unfortunately not many people read.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 01:50 PM
2

Cool, stay there then.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 01:49 PM
1

Mechanics as in sex positions
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 01:49 PM
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Yeah it's funny how height difference plays a part in sex machanics.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 01:31 PM
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I DGAF about 'faith'. The current army (at least US and UK) serve the government, not the people. The people do not benefit from their constant BS war in the middle East Oh, and 'degeneracy' is awesome, btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 01:17 PM
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K
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 01:03 PM
1

AHH sorry to hear that
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 01:03 PM
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It's some deep running male thing that I think us women don't understand, lol. I enjoy cocks (a lot) but never found them funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 12:49 PM
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Well it's that they go completely off tangent. Sid incidious does the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 12:38 PM
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Oh yeah. I sold pictures for a while and whilst most the men weren't 'horrible' (like rude, threatening ect) they were all very 'off' to me. I was just starting to hate men and I stopped pretty early on. It just wasn't good for my outlook on them
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 12:34 PM
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I don't k ow how anyone with a moderate experience of.. life, can read that and not think it's absolutely hilariously bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 12:33 PM
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Doesn't sound like you had a great experience with men before being an escort, which is sad but also quite interesting. Well thank you for sharing light on this :)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 12:32 PM
1

I've never ever made sense of any of your comments on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 12:30 PM
1

Wonderful, aren't they ?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 12:26 PM
1

Please explain how I'm acting like a teenager
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 12:25 PM
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It's fully legal here in the UK. Also Germany, NZ and aus.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 12:24 PM
1

Yeah, I think so.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 03:59 AM
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I think most guys just like talking about cocks tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 03:58 AM
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There's myriad reasons why they break up, and it's not something you can perceive as an outsider. Also some people just fall out of love, and love isn't something you can force.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 03:49 AM
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Yeah, but it's pretty visceral. I'm not acting different towards him (at least I'm trying not to) but I don't feel like I respect him anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 03:45 AM
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Insulting someones lack of masculinity is the most effective way of bringing another man down. Guys are more likely to be homophobic and use small cock jokes for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 03:43 AM
1

Nonce confirmed
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 03:41 AM
1

So the characteriatcs of John's are no different than that of regular man's? Like, there's no discernible difference between men who pay for sex and those who don't ?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 03:40 AM
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His whole post is about party girls, as a whole. Anyone who has been a 'party girl' or simply knows a lot - knows this stereotype is completely off What do you think happened to all the young people who grew up in the rave explosion in 90s Britain? An enormous subculture that brought casuals, skinheads, punks and goths into one giant subculture and regularly engaged in hedonism and electronic music? They took ecstacy for the best part of a decade, drank, fucked each other brains out and then the…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 03:37 AM
1

How original
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 03:26 AM
1

What scene is he talking about, then ?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 03:24 AM
1

I'm ok with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 03:23 AM
1

Can't you get a friend abroad to order some modafinil and post it to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 03:21 AM
2

Why don't you go on 4chan and enjoy absolutely no moderation.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 03:19 AM
2

<3
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 03:11 AM
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Oh I was heavily involved in the party scene. My ex and I owned a rig and put on free parties, I also worked in festivals for a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 03:10 AM
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Relevant https://youtu.be/QNbeF-Hihjc
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 03:09 AM
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A lifestyle he has evidently not been part of
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 03:07 AM
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Lol military men are cucks/simps. I don't care that they're 'tough' they're servile lapdogs to the government. Not 'alpha" in the slightest
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 03:07 AM
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I didn't say there was 'milions' 'just much more compared to the number you have. And 'not trafficked' isn't an marker for 'salubrious prostitution.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 03:03 AM
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Depends on the drug.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 03:01 AM
2

You could say the same about coffee and most food.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 03:01 AM
2

Something similar happened to my brother. He didn't really brag about it - just admitted it. I've not been able to see him the same way since.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 02:59 AM
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Snap
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 02:55 AM
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Ah yes, this is a good point. Just because they're not 'trafficked' on paper - it's doesn't mean everything is fine and dandy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 02:55 AM
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Lol you're last comment is so jay from the Inbetweeners. It's uncanny.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 02:52 AM
2

4/10
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 02:44 AM
5

I hope you walk into a room and forgot why you went there.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 02:33 AM
2

Just pick up your dog turds, or don't get a dog.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 02:32 AM
0

Yeah - what you've listed isn't my experience of regular men. They exist but not half of them are like that
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 02:26 AM
2

Keep going..
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 02:20 AM
2

I don't actually think dog turds make good manure. I do gardening and cat and dog shit kills everything. I like going for walks in the woods and dog turds just ruin that experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 02:19 AM
1

50% of men I meet in the dating world are definitely not 'creeps'. Maybe like..five percent ?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 02:17 AM
1

In the UK, nclb was citrated by researchers and people in the childcare and education sector and social workers. They outlined all the areas that needed Improving and pushed for funding and policy change. I did a degree in childhood studies. I've seen all the research that goes into these policy changed. Policies aren't just randomly changed on government whims - if anything, they push back because they don't want to give sectors the funding. EDIT: In the UK we had 'every child matters' not 'no …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 02:15 AM
2

I would take them off the beaten track in the forrest to go to the toilet. I reeeeealy hate it when people do this. Bad!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 02:10 AM
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Yeah, that's what I suspected. There just seems a disproportionate about of dodgy John's compared to normal guys. I get a few creeps on tinder, but quite few and far in-between.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 02:09 AM
2

I'm actually blackish-pilled. I'm the first to admit that looks are hugely important to me. But no where in my comment did I say 'height isn't an issue at all!' it was an anacdote to highlight that 'its not as big an issue as a lot of dudes make put'. But thanks for the jab.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 02:08 AM
2

I'm waiting for the adrenalin to subside before I do something else exciting.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 02:05 AM
1

But how many dudes with red flags are there in the first place ?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 02:01 AM
1

Attitudes run up and down, not top down. For example, school teachers contribute and write research around childcare and pedegogy. That goes to the child commissioner and then policy regarding school gets changed.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 01:59 AM
1

Oh I see! What's your perception of 'johns'?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 01:52 AM
2

That's a part of it, but not all of it. In the fifties, parenting was very 'cold' and breastfeeding was discouraged. That generation of people decided they didn't like that aspect of their upbringing so they became warmer with their children. My parents generation (70s) had a lot of freedom. But they had quite a few dodgy encounters (friends being hit by cars, peedophiles in public parks, park equipment which was frankly a health hazzard) and they decided to take better care of my generation. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 01:50 AM
1

Are you an escort? I can't remember.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 01:43 AM
1

Have a day off. He's not been to a party once in his life.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 01:41 AM
3

Last night I got wine from the offy that had a cork and not a screwtop.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 01:39 AM
2

Big dogs are amazing but my god..their turds are enormous.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 01:39 AM
1

Field reports be like: https://youtu.be/QNbeF-Hihjc
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 01:38 AM
2

Huh? No, parents often adopt their 'dos' and 'donts' of parenting based on what they experience themselves. Unfortunately, they often go about it wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 01:36 AM
1

My last word is laster than yours
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 01:35 AM
1

Are you jay from the Inbetweeners ?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 01:24 AM
-1

The last word
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 01:20 AM
3

They don't value 'risk taking'. That's the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 01:19 AM
1

https://youtu.be/jQYdKKmF-PQ
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 01:19 AM
1

If men just fucked a bunch of women and 'spread their seed' - wouldn't that just result in a lot of incest within tribes? I always think about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 01:17 AM
1

People are social constructivists because of social construction.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 01:13 AM
3

You should definitely do it at work.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 01:11 AM
-1

sigh
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 01:07 AM
2

I'm in the UK, not the US - but from what I can gather, the younger generation are a lot more risk adverse and shelter compared to older generations. They also have significantly less money which is needed to go out and meet people.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 01:04 AM
2

In British English, 'quite' means 'fairly'.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 01:02 AM
2

Thanks for your input x
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 12:54 AM
2

That was some top tier cringe, very good. It doesn't sound like he knows ANYTHING about 'party world', apart from watching 'skins' once. My past (and present) experience was not that they were an especially attractive bunch - we call ourselves 'sesh creatures' for a reason, lol. A particular favourite quote is: Her womb is scarred from bouts of STD's I don't know is how anyone can associate with TRP when it's so overwhelmed with cringe like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 12:49 AM
2

Doesn't matter. How you internally feel about women is irrelevant. It's how you look and how you act.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 12:41 AM
2

Actually, AFAIK lots of John's are actually regular looking guys. Sex workers say this all the time. Which is interesting because paying for sex isn't always about satiating make horniness - there's another reason they want to pay to fuck women. It's all very interesting stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 12:35 AM
1

Oh shit, it genuinely is an essay! Before I read it, is it actually worth taking the time to read? Like, is it funny ?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 12:28 AM
2

Yeah - I do have to go with my gut. It doesn't feel right, and that's all I need to know really. It's sad because I genuinely don't want to stop seeing him. It's gonna be tough !
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 12:26 AM
2

No, it's because a large portion of John's are genuinely 'creepy' and have red flags all over them. I've only dipped my toes in the industry and I noticed it myself. Sure, a lot are normal, but there's a very disproportionate amount of very dodgy men who pay for sex. Even when it's legalised, assault and murder is disproportionately higher in that industry compared to others. Even strippers will tell you this. There's way more sexual assualt and bad characters in strip clubs compared to regular …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 12:23 AM
1

He's perfectly lovely. We have great sex and I'm very attracted to him. Kinda similar personalities and sense of humour, to. Partly it's because I spendlt most of my twenties in relationships and I want to be single for a change (outside of lockdown, anyway). Also my last relationship kinda burned me, and I think that's playing a part. This has never happened in my life. Whatever the circumstances - I've always wanted to LTR someone I really like. It's very unlike me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 12:14 AM
1

Yeah sorry, that's what I meant. Most gay dudes are open.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 12:09 AM
2

I mean it's very odd, I don't hate it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 11:26 PM
2

It doesn't apply to everyone, of course. But having very different upbringings and privileges can cause tensions and misunderstandings.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 11:25 PM
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I do think it's funny but it's just wierd that they're advising each other on how to make jokes.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 11:23 PM
2

Even if I was a guy, how did you get that from my comment ?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 11:12 PM
2

I'm blackish, not fully black.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 11:09 PM
1

How did you get that from my comment ?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 11:08 PM
2

Tips on 'lightening the mood with women' from r/theredpill. (4) And, if you have already fucked the girl... my personal favorite is to turn around, unzip my jeans but keep them buttoned, and pull just my pipe out... then turn around while it’s out and resume conversation like normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 10:56 PM
2

He could have just asked me to clarify what I meant instead of getting pissy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 10:50 PM
2

I am actually blackish pilled
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 10:48 PM
1

Link
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 10:47 PM
2

It is a subculture, lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 10:47 PM
2

Wait to you see where you rank on democracy!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 10:46 PM
1

Lots of opportunities for upward mobility in the USA ? I don't think so.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 10:31 PM
2

Just noticed a lot of posters are in tech and STEM.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 10:30 PM
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I think people underestimate how important it is to have a partner with a similar lifestyle and upbringing to you. My ex had significantly more money and a wonderful upbringing and it meant we had very different perspectives around things and challenges.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 10:27 PM
2

So many TRPs are in tech, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 10:14 PM
3

What do you think a 'party scene' is ? Are you ESL ?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 10:14 PM
2

Aren't gay men mostly poly ?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 10:03 PM
0

Really? My impression is that TRP are mostly nerdy, Introverted and socially awkward - which is a lot of tech guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 10:01 PM
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Why does women shitting have to do with anything? It doesn't matter what you think about women, if you don't sell what women buy - you ain't getting laid
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 09:58 PM
2

Normal guys..maybe two or three a year when single. Guys on the party scene? Maybe like..five a year when single
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 09:56 PM
2

Yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 09:39 PM
2

Oohh..thank you. In my head I thought it was waist or hips - which wouldn't have been right.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 09:37 PM
1

Lmao, you guys are a hoot.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 09:37 PM
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I actually just remembered it is fully legal in my country (UK) however it is in no way normalised. Same with Germany and australia afaik.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 09:00 PM
1

Yrah
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 08:57 PM
1

No
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 08:31 PM
1

I agree but the men on here would rather have a shit sex life than a good sex life with someone who has fucked other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 08:13 PM
2

Yep
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 08:12 PM
3

Well, you can't make people normalise anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 08:12 PM
3

With FGM - I think because theres a high number of families in the UK from cultures that do this is a ritual - so it stands to reason that there are a lot of kids in the UK who have had it. With trafficking, I think researchers are just aware that it happens a lot but it's very difficult to catch people, as there's such a large network of people involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 08:11 PM
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That's worrying that they have found so little. There's similarly very few FGM cases that are investigated - but on reality they happen quite a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 08:00 PM
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I think the hate John gets isn't because they're seen as 'dodgy' but because of how we conceptualise sex in the modern day. Sex is seen as something two people do together for enjoyment. The thought of one person enjoying it, even though the other doesn't is seen as 'off' Then you also have a portion of people who think any sex outside of commitment is 'wrong". I don't see John's being normalised any time soon, but I do think that sex work will gradually become legal everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 07:58 PM
3

Yeah, I don't think many even care. Even sex workers find John's a bit 'creepy'.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 07:28 PM
1

I've only had two boyfriends. One was 7 years and the other was alnost 4.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 07:25 PM
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Edited
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 07:23 PM
1

Women who wait six months to have sex don't have high libidos
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 07:23 PM
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Tbh - even sex workers dislike 'johns". They're (generally) not the best of people - for what ever reason that is. From a feminist perspective, legalising was always about protecting sex workers from harm. How we perceive 'johns" is not really discussed
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 07:01 PM
1

Well yeah - because the women have low libidos and don't care much about sex
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 06:46 PM
1

They weren't 'ugly' - that's my point
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 06:43 PM
1

So because I haven't had one single relationship all my adult life - I'm doing something 'wrong' ?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 06:41 PM
1

I mean - going on the general consensus of 'doing well' I actually was. Had enough money to go out every weekend, travelled Europe, I ate decent food, had nice clothes, had lots of friends ect ect
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 06:15 PM
1

Oh 💯 ! It's tragic. They have a world of information at their finger tips and they don't bother to look this up to improve their chances Don't get me started on fishing photos. It's the most effective contraceptive in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 06:09 PM
1

What does 'inseam' mean ?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 06:06 PM
13

Yeah. My last boyfriend was about 5"6 and my current one is 5"4. They've always had a girlfriends or a fuck buddy in their lives. They are however fun, extroverted people with six packs and quite handsome faces (Imo, anyway).
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 06:05 PM
1

Yeah, going to have to think about it, I guess What with covid everything is up in the air at the moment and making big decisions isn't the easiest
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 06:02 PM
1

I didn't say it was an indication of a healthy and rewarding lifestyle. I said you CAN have a healthy and rewarding lifestyle and still have time to procrastinate. For example - I had a reception job once and I played looooads of words for friends and chess whilst I was at my desk. Some would say that's a bit sad - but at that time I had a really decent life and I was very happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 05:59 PM
1

Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 05:51 PM
1

Yeah. Spent my twenties as a scruffy party-girl and had the best time. Now it's lockdown and I have developed a wierd obsession with my appearance and it's made me much less happy - lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 05:51 PM
1

Yeah there was one on here yesterday. His face was fine (no abnormal or over sized- / undersized features) and supposedly lean. But in his picture he just looked..I dunno..awkward and dorky? It's strange how someone can look 'awkward' from just a picture - but when you see it you'll know.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 05:46 PM
2

I remember seeing Incel selfies once and they really weren't that bad looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 05:43 PM
2

Yeah - knowing what you want is a process in itself, really
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 05:41 PM
2

Depends on how much they post, I guess. If they're procrastinating at work because they have an easy job - then I wouldnt sayits an indication of something bad. If they constantly post throughout the day, all day - then yeah.. definitely a complete saddo.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 05:39 PM
1

Explain
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 05:26 PM
7

Hmmm, separate wings of a massive house - maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 04:08 PM
3

Well, there's maybe three people on here that I would take advice from. Plus I'm bored and feeling a bit moany
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 04:07 PM
6

Well you, obviously
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 02:19 PM
1

Yep
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 01:40 PM
2

No he's not 'judt a fuck buddy' thats the whole point of the comment you replied to
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 01:39 PM
2

Looool It's completely the opposite.
/r/ExRedPill21/02/21 01:26 PM
2

Part of me thinks this - but generally I like to be as kind to others as possible. I have been in his position before and it was bloody horrendous, emotionally
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 01:24 PM
3

I don't think so. I think most women have the ability to find another man whilst I'm theyre in a relationship, but the majority of them don't. When I was in my relationships, there was always guys around who I could GF up. But I was attached to my partner and had a bond with then - so I didn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 01:22 PM
1

Good write up
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 01:15 PM
2

I've had a 'fuck buddy' of sorts since last June, and we're getting quite cosy with each other. I see him every Friday night and occasionally on Saturdays. It started with quickies, but now we have take-aways together, spend a lot of time cuddling, text each other memes most days and he's met my friends several times. The thing is, I'm so burned by my last relationship that I can't bring myself to be in a relationship with him. There's some sort of mental block that's making it impossible to be …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 01:11 PM
2

Lmao I love your flair
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 01:03 PM
1

I'm not American so it's very different here. We also get paid holiday five weeks a year.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 12:54 PM
3

Yes, very true.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 01:06 AM
4

He was gorgeous but absolutely batshit crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 11:58 PM
1

Haha, same.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 11:55 PM
0

This is very on point, good wrote up. If he's actually as lean as he says, better clothes and posture are definitely needed. My initial reaction was 'looks overweight".
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 11:43 PM
17

Urgh, I hate it when people do this. Why would you have an alcoholic boyfriend? Why would you have a boyfriend with anger issues?! Well he wasn't like that at the start. I wish people accepted the fact that over long periods of time -people do change. Especially when they have more stress in their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 11:19 PM
1

Why do you think it is wrong ?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 08:51 PM
1

Oh ok. Yeah I don't believe all that BS
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 08:03 PM
2

Well redpill and pink pill are different ideologies. I'm not sure exactly what pinkpill is because I can't seem to find their sub. Pretty sure their radfems, though. But red pill sometimes just means 'truth'. A lot of conspiracy theorists claim to 'red pilled'.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 07:55 PM
1

Ah, shame
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 07:51 PM
3

Yep. I've got eyes and can literally see all the data that says otherwise lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 07:03 PM
1

They do give amazing advice and are not judgy. If asked any other women about waist training or plastic surgery they would try and talk me out of it lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 07:01 PM
2

They're pinkpilled, not redpilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 07:00 PM
2

Ok you've lost me
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 06:55 PM
3

little bit of a duck Girls want one thing and it's fucking disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 06:45 PM
2

Where does it say she ignored the guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 06:44 PM
2

Yeah 💯. For me it's looks, sexual prowess and an amiable personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 06:41 PM
3

Of course. I could find an ugly rich guy to date in about five minutes
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 06:22 PM
7

I think most women prioritise looks over income - otherwise most women would be dating old, rich uggos
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 06:16 PM
2

Ah! Very good.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 06:15 PM
1

Wow this is very Reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 06:14 PM
8

If you want to look good for women, you would benefit from knowing what looks good to THEM.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 05:54 PM
5

I can only do that on the sliver of men who actually list their specific job title. This is a tiny percentage of men IMO. Online dating is predominantly about looks and the ability to write someone funny in their profile
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 05:52 PM
19

Someone who spends an inordinate amount of time on one single forum is probably going to be a bit of a weirdo. Especially people who did it before the pandemic and have been on here for literal YEARS. You do occasionally get some insightful nuggets of wisdom though. Even though I wouldn't take advice from the internet, it's interesting seeing people's different perspectives and experiences
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 05:50 PM
4

I've never seen a guys income listed on old. Occasionally they write down their job or industry - but I wouldn't know how much they earned based on that
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 05:48 PM
3

The brand and cost of your sweatshirt is irrelevant. Your outfit doesn't really match and you look a bit..odd. Wear plain clothes that match (on colour and style) and definitely hit the gym
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 05:47 PM
9

The vast majority of men I see on OLD don't list their earnings at all. Occasionally they write what their job is but I wouldn't know how much they earn doing that most of the time
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 05:45 PM
11

You're facial features are ok. You desperately need ahaircut, better clothes and you could benefit with losing a bit of weight. Also you look really miserable in that photo, try smiling.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 05:39 PM
8

Haha, you got given a HOUSE?! Well no shit, of course you can live on minimum wage.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 05:35 PM
3

Having less money comes with stresses, especially as you get older. When you're young with no responsibilities it's not really an issue. But also you can so fun things with money. i couldn't afford to travel on minimum wage, or go to regular concerts ect
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 05:34 PM
1

No it's because they're uninhibited and adventurous. For most people, uninhibited and adventurous sex is the best
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 05:31 PM
1

Huh? That's a really bizarre thing to say
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 05:30 PM
1

How is my username relevant?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 05:29 PM
2

Or they don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 05:28 PM
2

Even just drugstore SPF applied daily works.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 05:28 PM
1

Nope. There's literall science behind the causes of wrinkles, which means you can implement a routine that works. For example sun causes skin to age, so daily SPF helps. Retinoids help skin Renee cells, so it helps it look smoother and healthier. I could go on
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 05:27 PM
1

Try some other subs for a change.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 01:52 PM
7

Haha, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 01:51 PM
1

She comes and goes, a bit like me. The sub is great because you occasionally get comments like this, but you have to sift through so much shit to get there
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 01:48 PM
1

Why share a bloke with another woman when you can have one to yourself? I don't see what's in it for me ?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 01:43 PM
1

I'm just saying it how it is Feminism IS being taken seriously. If it wasn't, it wouldnt have changed so many policies and cultural attitudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 01:39 PM
1

Aging well is a very good trait to have. Good for you guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 01:37 PM
1

Yes. Women need men on their side to achieve their feminist goals.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 01:37 PM
1

I read that he dated his 19yo adopted daughter.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 01:31 PM
5

The same reason theyre always talking about other dudes dicks
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 01:30 PM
10

Guys would rather shag hot women than not hot women? Wow, what other wisdom do you have to share ?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 01:29 PM
1

You're actually luck because oily skin really decreases aging and lines.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 01:27 PM
1

Except they do take it seriously because street harassment has declined and is now results in workmen getting sacked by their companies. Point one to fenminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 01:25 PM
1

The thing is - I would rather NO men harass me, even if that means rich and attractive ones don't. Like, either we tell all men to stop, or we allow them all to harass us. And having spent three days in new York, regular harassment was fucking horrid to experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 01:10 PM
1

Hmmm. I don't find him attractive myself, but I could see how others possibly could.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 01:04 PM
1

I decline then so far that I don't bother to find out what class they are. It's just so wierd and socially inept to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 12:54 PM
6

I really don't understand why straight men won't look after their skin. It takes a couple of minutes out of their day and it really helps prevent wrinkles and acne.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 12:52 PM
1

I don't know any woman, or man, regardless of age - who had sex as a result of street harassment.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 12:41 PM
3

Ironically, being paranoid about how 'masculine' you appear, is not masculine in itself. Men who DGAF what other people think of them are masculine.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 12:37 PM
3

Yeah, that's what I have always done and it works really well for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 12:35 PM
2

I think abstaining from sex is the worst idea if you actually like sex. Sexual compatibility is really important for most of us and this needs to be figured out early on.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 12:34 PM
2

Oh wow, that is really interesting. I wish you tsais and Prozac Becky had your own sub for content like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 12:31 PM
1

Depends on the level of crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 12:28 PM
1

I guess crazy girls are more uninhibited and adventurous - which is generally what makes good sex
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 12:28 PM
1

Well yeah, obviously
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 12:23 PM
1

Yeah, I do feel for Americans. The situation over their looks really diar if you weren't born into the right family or area. Also with regards to college - most people here can afford to go - regardless of background. You get given money to study and you only pay it back when youre earning a certain amount of money and then it is paid back in installments.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 12:22 PM
1

Women opposed cat calling and Street harassment way before internet dating was a thing. The vast vast majority of women never had, and never will like being hit on on the street when they go about their business. They want to be hit on in designated social scenarios where that sort of thing is actually appropriate.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 12:19 PM
1

I swipe away from anyone who has this on tinder. 9/10 they're absolutely incorrigible people who are actually terrible at sarcasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 07:27 PM
2

Wait...who grazes and scars their knees giving blowjobs? I've given maybe four digits worth of blowjobs and I've never scraped my knees, let alone scar them
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 07:24 PM
2

I'm confused...how do knee scars correlate with sluttiness ?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 06:49 PM
2

That would definitely turn me on.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 06:48 PM
5

I wouldn't say they are being 'encouraged' one way or another. Rather, there's been a socioeconomic and cultural shift which means millenials are spending their thirties like it's their twenties.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 06:34 PM
1

So what about it? Why would I care what others think about my partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 06:30 PM
2

I attract my version of a 'hogh value man' which means they are high value TO ME
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 05:02 PM
2

Doesn't mean that all that 25% have a mental illness that manifests in the same way
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 05:00 PM
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Yes I agree. I also think that placid activities (gaming, porn, Reddit, Amazon shopping ect) Ardmore addictive and detrimental than we let on.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 04:24 PM
2

Yeah, it's why I stopped watching porn actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 04:22 PM
6

Girlfriending up men who cause harm to others is the opposite of 'caring'.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 04:06 PM
1

https://youtu.be/iXTtZV8Tkwo
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 04:05 PM
2

Oh I love him! Not my type physically, but I fell in love with his character in Sherlock. Also he has a gorgeous voice
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 04:03 PM
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They weren't 'great girls' then.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 04:02 PM
3

Yes absolutely. This was right after the recession in one of the highest unemployment areas. If it was for that Id either marry a guy with money or probably do porn or deal drugs.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 04:01 PM
1

No?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 03:55 PM
4

Some people just don't have a moral compass and if they find someone attractive , they don't care about how many people they hurt.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 03:23 PM
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I thiink t's obvious that their followers are mentally ill - and also heavy drugs are often involved (Charles Mansons followers were all fucked up on drugs). Mafia men are usually hard and very rich which women like, and drug dealers give them free drugs and take them to decent parties
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 03:16 PM
1

How is 40% 'most people' ?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 02:14 PM
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My point is that gaming and seduction techniques learned online are retarded. If a woman is on your sofa after a date - chances are she wants to fuck you. Then it's a case of not saying or doing anything stupid to fuck up your chances.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 01:55 PM
1

According to your study, 40% of couples met online. Which is exactly my point
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 01:51 PM
7

Being a sycophantic doormat doesn't appeal to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 01:48 PM
2

Hahahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 01:48 PM
1

Link doesn't work
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 01:46 PM
1

You sound like you don't get out much. Normies socialise with their friends at the weekend, hit bars and clubs and have houseparties. Sex via friends of friends, work colleagues and acquaintances is where most people meet partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 01:39 PM
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I'm a young millennial, I have friends and colleagues who are gen z. They meet, date and fuck amongst their friend circles and with people they meet at parties. If Old has a ratio of 1:4 m and f, where do you think those women are meeting guys they fuck?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 01:32 PM
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And they don't need to read forums from internet strangers to know how to escalate, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 01:30 PM
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Yes, it is. As a woman, dating strategies revolve around having guys throw themselves put you and trying to pick the right one out of the crop. So advising each other on who to weed out, and why - is an effective strategy
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 01:05 PM
1

Have fun with that. Sounds like a massive waste of time
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 01:03 PM
1

Well I'm a woman and dudes hit on me at bars, parties and clubs. In the 14 years I've been sexually active, this has not changed.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 01:03 PM
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It absolutely has. Modern women don't sit on dudes sofas waiting for him to make a move, lol. You both flirt and escalate between you until you both end up having sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 01:01 PM
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Why do you guys act like swiping is the only way women meet men? Only 1/4 of people on tinder are women. They still go to parties, clubs and literally the exact same places they did before OLD.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 11:35 AM
1

Looool
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 11:33 AM
1

Join the club
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 11:31 AM
1

Peedos. Peedos everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 11:26 AM
1

if it works, it's realistic. I don't have trouble finding men that fit my particular standards - therefore it is realistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 11:23 AM
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Like I said. 18 is where you're still learning. You don't sound like you understand women, dating or socialising in the slightest and obsessing over that isn't helping. Stop whining on the internet and spend your youth going to parties and having a good time.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 11:14 AM
3

How are they neets if they earn money ?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 11:10 AM
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I thought when they were mentally stimulated and had their social needs met - rats stopped taking drugs?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 11:09 AM
2

You're one of millions of people in the exact same position, dear. Chin up - brighter days WILL come.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 11:08 AM
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I disagree with your title. Young people know more about the opposite sex because mixed gender friends groups are much more common with millenials and gen z. Also, newsflash - MOST people struggle with the opposite sex at 18. You are still learning and it takes a while to get into the swing of things. Don't beat yourself up about it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 11:01 AM
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Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 10:58 AM
1

Retinoids help woth acne. There's something else that's really good which begins with a B, but I forgot what it is. Ask over at r/skincareaddiction EDIT: Found the product https://www.nhs.uk/conditions/acne/treatment/
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 10:57 AM
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It's because it's considered 'cool' to fuck a celebrity. Either way - most men will not reach celebrity status in their life so putting all their eggs in that basket is stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 07:39 AM
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Yes, they are. Women are attracted to men within three years their own age. Untill they hit forty and they start liking younger guys. Age gaps of ten years are pretty uncommon for women in their twenties, and over time they're becoming even more uncommon.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 07:37 AM
1

Try a company called 'the ordinary''. Their retinoid cream is only 7 quid. Moisturizer costs about three quid from your drugstore and you can often buy it with SPF in it. I use retinoid once a night, moisturizer twice a day and SPF in the morning. Moisturizer and SPF helps keeps lines and wrinkles at bay and retinoid is the holy grail of skincare.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 07:35 AM
1

I've never actually seen a 'pencil dick', and I've seen alooooot of dicks
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 07:31 AM
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Welfare helped. I went to university after the bloke at the job centre recommended it. After I graduated,finding work was a lot easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 07:30 AM
1

It's 2021 dear
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 07:28 AM
1

Sup?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 02:34 AM
1

Length usually correlates with girth.(Usually) long dicks are thick - so that's what they mention.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 02:32 AM
2

Those will help is beta game, but most dudes don't want to be beta.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 02:25 AM
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Yeah, the manospherian rhetoric is some Poe's law shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 02:05 AM
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I've been a 'neet' at certain points in my life and it was pretty shit to experience. It was never some permanent state of being, let alone an 'aspiration' - just a rough patch due to bad luck and not the best upbringing. I'm really blessed that where I live, the state helped me out financially so I didnt need to find a guy to do that for me. I was able to get a degree and find a full time job and here I am now
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 02:03 AM
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I thought women had ridiculously high standards?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 01:56 AM
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If you can meet a nice guy despite having a long checklist, why wouldn't you? If it's realistic for the individual person, then it's not an issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 01:55 AM
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Right so sex is really low down on your list of wants and needs Most men are not like this, so they should do the things I suggested
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 01:47 AM
3

I don't know! How do you get to forty and not know this?!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 01:46 AM
1

Thank you :) I'm trying to make this year worthwhile !
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 01:39 AM
0

Expensive? Lol, not in the slightest! Time consuming? Again, not really. You can exercise at home (I spend half an hour a day). Skincare is cheap (see 'the ordinary' online) and takes about five minutes a day. A haircut can be pretty cheap. You just need to find the right style to suit your face. (I never pay more than twenty quid for a hair cut) and only needs to be done once every other month. If you can't spare such a small amount of time and money to improve your chances with women - then wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 01:38 AM
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Game is overrated. Women usually decided if guy is fuck able within seconds of meeting.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 01:30 AM
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Well yeah, obviously it helps. Retinoids can minimise lines on the face, as can SPF and moisturizer. A decent haircut and suitable facial grooming can accentuate attractive facial features. Stylish clothes can make you look cooler. A rocking body does wonders, and is achievable with regular work. There's so much men can do.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 01:28 AM
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Oh laaaawd I have a story for you. There used to be a British realty TV show called 'embarrasing bodies'. On it - people with embarrassing bodies would talk to a doctor, be examined and get a diagnosis. Anyway, one chap went on there and said 'people always tell me I smell bad. I shower everyday and I'm really hygienic. I don't k ow what the issue is". It then cut to a scene where he's tending a bar and he says 'sometimes customers say "what's that smell" and it's incredibly embarrassing.' So th…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 01:24 AM
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Fuck knows. My two best lockdown friends are men of 43 and 51. They have not had much luck with the ladies at all. The 43yo told me he hadn't been laid in 'years' (which I'm assuming is three years). One is 43 who looks about mid thirties (thanks to oily skin and good genetics). He has nice facial features and is 6'2" tall. He also dresses really dorky, has huge glasses and a big belly (legs, face and arms don't look fat though). The 52yo eats really healthy and has ok facial features. His has l…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 01:15 AM
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I don't know the measurements, I just know a good girth by touch. I hold it in my hands and think "does this spark joy?'
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 01:01 AM
1

That's not what pumping and dumping is, but thanks for sharing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 12:09 AM
2

The ol poophole loophole.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 12:07 AM
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Finally some sense on this sub! Current lover is 5inches but very thick. It really does get quite intense at times. I don't know why it isn't talked about much because most women are I agreement about this
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 12:06 AM
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The RPW on here are also depressing IMO.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/21 10:12 PM
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No it's never happened. I've had a couple of ONSs where the guy didn't want to hook up again but that wasn't really a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/21 07:47 PM
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I've had a relationship for seven years and one for three years. With the first (seven years) - none of us had any money, so the financial benefits of marriage never applied to us. We never owned a house and always had our own bank accounts. I just didn't see the point in marriage. The second one only lasted 3.5 years. It was on the cards but I wanted to get to know him for a lot longer before marrying him. I was correct to do so because it didn't work out.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/21 07:45 PM
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Yeah but he's not asshole in a masculine or funny/cocky/charasmatic way. He's an asshole in a whiney, smug way. I guess rule 34 really does apply.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/21 07:34 PM
2

Loads of women swoon over benedril bumbersnatch...but Michael Cera? No lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/21 07:30 PM
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Before the gays took over, JGL and and Elijah wood were all over ladybonars. They are both very boot choices. Ben DAPiro doesn't have facial attraction or charisma so that is a very odd choice indeed
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/21 07:27 PM
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Obviously anyone with fame/money is going to have ladies after them. But women don't swoon over Michael Cera en masse, like they do Adam driver. One is viewed as attractive and the other is considered 'meh'
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/21 07:23 PM
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Yep. Bottom line is it doesn't work - they end up with men who like to walk over women. I would say the exact same thing to a male pickme. Have some respect for yourself otherwise you will be miserable.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/21 07:17 PM
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Kinda sad to be honest. That behaviour (much like men simping) results in them getting walked over. I normally ADORE cringe - but r/redpillwomen was even too much for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/21 07:13 PM
1

K
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/21 06:26 PM
2

I don't see how that is in anyway relevent to my point?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/21 06:15 PM
1

Well, yeah - that's the cruz of it. I think we've dealt with a hell of a lot of problems throughout humanity, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/21 06:07 PM
1

No I don't know what you mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/21 04:22 PM
1

Who's 'our' ?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/21 04:19 PM
16

No. They like him because he's tall, has a deep voice and is unconventionally attractive'.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/21 01:28 PM
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No, Adam driver is 'unconventially attractive'. He has odd, oversized facial features which are usually associated with ugliness. He's very attractive in an odd way- which is what 'unconventially attractive' means.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/21 01:27 PM
1

Can you tldr this ?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/21 11:39 AM
0

No, I'm not attractive to introverts in the slightest.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/21 10:51 AM
3

And do people call you 'alpha' alot?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/21 10:49 AM
2

I'm not going to type out the entirety of feminisms complaints. Of you've got to 2021 without realising what these are - you are inordinately imperceptive.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/21 10:47 AM
1

Err...the UK's economy is completely fucked. Go look.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/21 10:43 AM
3

One week. That's not abnormal.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/21 10:41 AM
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It's about long term benefits over short term benefits. Countries that had a very strict lockdown at the begining were able to eventually reopen and with that - their economies. The UK had one of the more half arsed lockdowns and it resulted in our economy being fucked in the long term. Which is exactly what scientists said would happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/21 01:59 AM
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Either they're selfish and don't care about the impact it has on everyone, or they're stupid and are ignorant to the facts. For both - I don't respect them and will ghost without a second thought. I don't see what your one single annacdote has to do with this. There is no consensus that says 'covid is dangerous for everyone'. The point is it's deadly for vulnerable people and it is overwhelming health services. If anything the government are downplaying covid, not overblowing it. Their priority …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/21 01:01 AM
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but honestly the most radicalizing catalysts are men being men. That is a PROPER red pill right there. Shame guys can't deal with it, though
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/21 12:02 AM
1

I just outright ghosted. They referred to the virus as 'hoaxvid' and I blocked and deleted there and then.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/21 11:57 PM
4

Wat
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/21 11:56 PM
5

See, I always see men who are ok with fucking on periods. Not having sex for 1/4 of the years sounds pretty shit to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/21 11:40 PM
1

It's not nonsense to yeet sexual or romantic partners who you don't respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/21 11:33 PM
1

Even doctors spread misinformation because they're sick of lockdown. I care about the scientific and medical CONSENSUS - not a handful of people who tell me what I want to hear.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/21 11:32 PM
1

People aren't necessarily worried they'll catch covid and die, they're worried they will catch it and pass it onto someone who might die. Plus, people (for the most part) don't want to contribute to the spread of covid because for one thing - it's making this shit drag on for longer than it should.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/21 11:30 PM
1

I guess sometimes you can't be bothered to get into a debate, and you don't respect them enough to consider their feeling about ghosting.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/21 11:24 PM
2

Yeah, happened to me last year. Met him on a hook up site and he was really hot. I even made a few jokes about how someone as pretty as him could probably get away with anything. We were talking about sex and close to hooking up and he referred to covid as 'hoaxvid'. And when I asked 'you think it's a hoax?' he said 'Im not debating it with noobs, but basically the numbers are all lies'. A few weeks earlier I had been to hospital (non covid related) and seen it myself. So anyway, I started ghost…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/21 11:22 PM
1

Literally noone in my close friend group and wider friend group complains about the dating market. They have a few flings and ONSs, have relationships, have their heart broken and start again. Such is life. One of my friends said he hasn't been laid in three years but he moves 'glacial'. Once he actually put an effort in, he met a nice lady on bumble.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/21 06:08 PM
1

Women dating older divorcees are a pretty niche group.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/21 06:05 PM
1

You would think that someone talking about the wall also knows about beta bucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/21 06:04 PM
1

Well yes, my original comment was in reply to someone talking about mid thirties men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/21 06:03 PM
2

'younger' guys as in guys their age. I would say that three years is the same age bracket.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/21 04:17 PM
1

Hate to say it but yeah, you're right.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/21 02:46 PM
3

Strong anime vibes, here.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/21 02:43 PM
2

A very small sliver of men in the modern, western world are dating chicks ten years younger than them in their mid thirties.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/21 02:38 PM
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Yes, I know what the data means Again, it doesn't contradict my point that women in their mid wenties are predominantly going for men THEIR age, and not mid thirties men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/21 02:24 PM
1

I called you a snowflake because you're 'speacial and unique' not 'delicate and easily offended"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/21 02:22 PM
1

Then dont
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/21 02:05 PM
0

Woop de doo
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/21 01:19 PM
1

Just because they desire tall men, it doesn't mean they 'get' tall men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/21 01:12 PM
3

Yes, getting young pussy isn't that common unless the guy is rich or famous.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/21 12:55 PM
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Right, so mid twenties women are going for mid twenties men, not mid thirties men. Which does not contradict what I said. Edit:it's interesting that women stop finding men most attractive past 39. I had no idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/21 12:50 PM
1

There's been a huge cultural shift, and sadly lots of people are getting left behind. Most millennials I know simply cannot afford to have children, even a mortgage is a pipe dream. This is going to be even worse for the next generation of young adults who will be living in a post covid economy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/21 12:31 PM
2

It's more 'lets be acquaintances' than 'friends'.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/21 12:25 PM
1

'lets be friends' usually means. 'lets be acquaintences and part on good terms'. Most women don't want to be 'friends' with guys that have feelings for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/21 12:25 PM
1

Yeah. It certainly gets better as you get older
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/21 12:22 PM
3

Who said they were ?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/21 12:19 PM
2

She should get a fuck buddy or have a fling. Relationships come with a certain set of expectations and responsibilities. Understandably not everyone is in the right place for that. Sometimes people need to stay single for a while, get their shit together and focus on themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/21 11:27 AM
3

It happens, just not that often. i think I've seen it twice on my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/21 11:23 AM
5

You're literally describing a beta bucks. Most dudes don't want this
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/21 11:22 AM
1

Good for you
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/21 11:21 AM
1

I won't marry full stop. But those are the only conditions that I would. I don't see what other practical purpose it could serve.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/21 11:18 AM
1

Omg chill out dude, stop getting so offended about literally nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/21 11:17 AM
2

Men can exercise and get lean. They can look after their skin (though most are clueless about that). Women can get lean, wear make up, they're clued up about skin care, they can get nice hair cuts, dress well ect ect. There's sinply not many attractive men full stop, and that number dwindles when those men encounter hair loss and wrinkling/ sagging.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/21 11:16 AM
1

This is a really weird thing to say. Obviously 'fun' differs from person to person.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/21 11:13 AM
2

Yes you're a very special snowflake and all other people are wrong when it comes to child rearing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/21 11:11 AM
1

That's literally what the next SITC is going to be (minus Samantha which sucks)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/21 01:10 AM
1

It literally means 'I have fun when I'm around him'. It's not some cryptic phrase, and its not necessarily even sexual or romantic. My neighbour is 'fun to be around' because he DJs and we take mushrooms together. My fuck buddy is 'fun to be around" because he makes me laugh and we have awesome sex. My daughter is 'fun to be around' because she's so full of life and constantly makes me smile.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/21 12:59 AM
1

You should knlw that older father's also carry this risk. Father's over the age of 45 are at a higher risk of spawning children with autism compared to their younger counterparts.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/21 12:51 AM
11

Literally every parent and every person who works with children says 'looking after children is stressful'. I don't think every single one of them is 'doing it wrong".
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/21 12:34 AM
1

Tldr?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/21 12:29 AM
0

They could be on maternity leave or working from home.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/21 12:24 AM
1

No need to be rude, that was obviously a typo.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/21 12:20 AM
2

Sure
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 11:50 PM
2

I think those tests fail to realise that vast majority of humans have very little Integrity and therefore are unable to answer honestly. People have very skewed and flawed perceptions of the inner workings of their brains.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 11:47 PM
1

Yeah, women lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 11:43 PM
2

Oh fuck no.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 11:42 PM
1

No way are less than 10% of 40yo women 'not attractive" that's just crazy. At forty they have just developed wrinkles and started the sagging process. Not an issue if they have a skin regiment, good diet and don't have loads of weight to sag. Or are you American?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 11:42 PM
2

I don't actually know who she is or what this reference is about.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 11:36 PM
1

Women of all ages decide if a guys fuck able within seconds of meeting. He just needs to not fuck things up from that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 11:36 PM
2

No I thought it was hilarious and it stuck in my head.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 11:30 PM
0

Where did I mention someone not working ?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 11:30 PM
2

Most women decide they want to fuck a guy within seconds of meeting. Humour, flirting and 'personality' helps but it only raises his SMV by a few decimal points.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 11:21 PM
3

Will have to agree to disagree. Game doesn't cause arousal. Looks do and game just amplifies it. Aging does not bode well for facial attraction, that's a universal thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 11:02 PM
5

You once called me 'fat' when I pointed out my BMI was 'healthy'. You're hardly the sharpest tool on the box.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 11:00 PM
1

Going on TRP/blackpill here - only about 20% of men are attractive in their PRIME. So 20years later that 20% will be slashed to 10% (maybe less).
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 10:51 PM
10

If I'm a SAHM and my husband earns the most money, I need some sort of security so that I won't be financially fucked should the marriage come to an end. Also, if one person dies then the other person has more financial security. That's the only reason I would get married, and personally it's just not going to happen for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 10:47 PM
5

Game absolutely helps in regards to 'boyfriend material' (that I won't deny). I think you just can't comprehend what it's like to be a female and be aroused by a man on a raw, primal level. Thick, healthy hair, glowing skin, muscles and high testosterone just...does things to a lady. I don't usually agree with black pill but I think on this regard they have things right. When given lots of options - women are shallow. And I'm sorry but most people will disagree with men not being hit as hard wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 10:43 PM
1

I don't see the point of there's no sex involved. I have friends and family for love and companionship
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 10:33 PM
2

Lucky lady
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 10:30 PM
11

Too bad those women are going for the younger, more attractive guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 10:29 PM
1

Styles one of the most gorgeous faces I have ever seen. I don't normally pay any attention to famous men/ heartthrobs but when I see him my jaw almost dropped
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 10:11 PM
3

Honestly, I'm not sure. Most men I went home with were comfortable talking to me but not particularly sexually aggressive. Some where in-between, I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 10:10 PM
1

That's not what UD says: https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.urbandictionary.com/define.php%3fterm=Cougar&amp=true My point is that older women are either seen as harmless or milfs, rarely creeps. Considering most older men are not regarded as attractive, they're perceived as creeps. Being an 'attractive, older rugged man' is something the majority of men cannot aspire to. However plenty of women can aspire to be milfs.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 10:07 PM
2

Well firstly, women shouldn't care about men's perspectives on n count. You shouldn't adjust your actions to what dudes may or may not like. And you are kind of right - n counts often sound 'worse' than they are. If I have three, two year relationships, three flings and one ONS in my entire life, I am already on 7. Quite easy to do in ten years
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 09:25 PM
1

Depends on how they broke up and how close they are. 'all my exes are crazy and I don't get on with any of them' is equally a red flag..
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 09:20 PM
3

Sorry to hear that. I would personally shave my head.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 09:18 PM
2

I exclusively date/ fuck guys with a full head of hair (longish, but not long enough for a pony tail). White bit in the hair is fine, though. I can't speak for other women. I have male friends who shave their heads and they do fine with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 09:17 PM
1

Different studies say different things (not that I particularly care about social studies).
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 08:55 PM
1

Rollo is the worse. It's all rage bait - click bait stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 08:55 PM
2

Who says that?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 08:54 PM
1

Bad toupee effect. You don't know someone has good plastic surgery if it is good.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 08:51 PM
2

No you've got it the other way round. Well kempt older women are regarded as milfs and cougars. The male equivalent is a 'creepy old guy'.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 08:50 PM
2

It's literally a MLM. No better than Juice plus or invigaron
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 08:47 PM
3

I dunno, I think game/charisma ect is overrated by TRP. Most women want a hot dude deep down, and hotness dwindles when dudes get older. I don't think a great sense of humour and a decent job can counter a receding hairline and crow's feet.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 08:45 PM
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I think the last study I saw said women peaked at 25, and it often falls on each side of that. You could be right about men, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 08:41 PM
4

Men and women both get less attractive with age, but that starts when the individual develops the physical signs of aging like lines on skin, balding and sagging. Fortunately most individuals are attracted to their age match, so it's not really an issue that twenty somethings don't find them hot any more Fertility is an issue for some, but not all. And there's so many options for those with dwindling fertility. Only fans is basically a MLM. Women MAKE MONEY by talking other women into joining. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 08:37 PM
5

The 'hot' men she 'used to bang' will have aged with her, so they would still be in her 'league'.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 08:32 PM
2

(narrator) It was not a fun read.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 08:27 PM
1

No, lol. Trp has been around for over a decade. At present, it is used interchangeably amongst normies as meaning 'incel' and it now has connotations for meaning 'conspiracy theorist' (anti vaxxers and quanon call themselves 'red pilled') No normal, neurotypical young man is going to visit a sub and think 'wow, these guys seem like they have their shot together and I should take advice from them'. I don't care what it used to mean, this is the current state of its culture and this is why it's dw…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/21 05:27 PM
3

The wall bullshit is the epitome of feelz over realz.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/20 05:00 PM
1

What do you think ?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/20 07:35 AM
1

Ben DAPiro
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/20 11:53 PM
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This so called 'shit testing' happens to me on a weekly basis on tinder from straight men. It's almost like people use banter to break the ice and have a laugh with each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/20 08:45 PM
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This isn't about dating or gender dynamics. Neurotypical people use banter with friends, acquaintances and colleagues as and way to joke about and bond. Both men and women do this in the early stages of dating in an attempt to have fun and to break the ice.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/20 08:43 PM
6

aka watch what they do, not what they say
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/20 10:29 PM
1

I like muscular dudes but they are nearly always basic bros / normies.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/20 10:24 PM
1

That would depend on your social circle/ culture/ country. Everyone I know does it when they're single. It's rare that I meet someone IRL who doesnt.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/20 04:55 PM
1

Its a great idea. I hate sharing a bed with someone. It's nice falling asleep in someone's arms but I never sleep through the whole night. Rest is extremely important. I don't know why drake thinks this means the couple arent fucking? They're quite capable of walking over to their partners bed and having sex with them. Its not rocket science.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/20 04:51 PM
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The key word being EXPEREMENT. Women aren't going to do sex acts, ENJJOY THEM and that not do them with their H/BF. They try something, if they like it then they will do it with you, if they don't like it then they wont do it with you. If you're not happy with what she brings to you in the bedroom then move on and find someone with more chemistry. Why is this such a mystery to so many men on here?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/20 04:38 PM
0

If you dot think that is 'normal' you might want to reconsider who you surround your life with.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/20 04:35 PM
1

Where did I say that?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/20 04:34 PM
5

That's usually what you see on the dark underbelly of society with 'hard' drugs. You're average weed and recreational drug dealer isn't swapping drugs for sex. Like the person above you said - they have good social skills and an active social life where they meet a lot of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/20 08:09 PM
1

Its healthy to walk away from a relationship where both or one of you is unhappy. It's pretty (dare I say it) 'blue pilled' to think that relationships are supposed to permanent and continuously amazing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/20 08:04 PM
1

Imagine OP's girlfriend refusing to have sex with him before marriage, unlike her many ONS/exes. She says she doesn't do that anymore But that didn't happen?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/20 07:48 PM
2

His rhetoric generally sounds pretty in touch with reality and he gives me the impression of being pretty mentally stable. The blokes narrative also isn't emotionally charged which gives him more credence.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/20 07:46 PM
2

Same here.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/20 07:42 PM
3

Thats not 'most relationships'.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/20 07:41 PM
7

Most men would want a cupcake and a blowjob - which is what the GF in OP is giving him.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/20 04:47 PM
-1

Sure
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/20 04:46 PM
15

People hate divorce? well I never.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/20 04:40 PM
7

Do straight men not like food being made for them? what dimension am I in?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/20 04:38 PM
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Congratualtions - you're a normal healthy man who has normal, healthy relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/20 04:36 PM
13

I think a lot of couples go in waves. Lots of sex at the beginning, and then after that they have good months and bad months. with my last LT bf - we sometimes had two months where sex was once a week, and then suddenly we would be at it like rabbits for a couple of months after that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/20 04:33 PM
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Because these dudes have never had a good relationship (or any relationship at all) and think its normal for boyfriends and husbands to jump through loads of hoops and get missionary, socks on, lights off sex once a week. In reality - a lot of relationships start of as casual sex partners and they both developed feelings. Shock horror - guys like being in love with a woman and enjoy the benefits of having a partner in crime. My current fuck buddy gets sex maybe twice a week and occasionally we g…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/20 04:20 PM
3

I'm going to have to start archiving my 'feeld' conversations - I am 100% they would disgust you! In all honestly - When you have a super weird and wrong kink - it is usually males that are into it rather than females. Aside from that, maybe some of it hails from a more puritan time.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/20 03:26 PM
0

I cant take anyone seriously who says 'fake news'
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/20 07:46 PM
1

Its becoming less appealing the more opportunities that women have.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/20 03:12 PM
3

You know what they say, ego prevents fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/20 03:09 PM
1

This is not a 90s sitcom. No real life people are meeting at stores and at the bus stop. They meet at pubs/ clubs and online.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/20 03:03 PM
2

Nope. Its about knowing context and social cues. A guy walking up to me in the street and asking how my days going? weird. A guy coming up to me in the bar and asking me how my nights going? normal, expected behaviour. A guy complimenting my smile at the bank? weird. A guy complimenting me on my smile on tinder? Normal, expected behaviour. If you don't believe me and want to push this weird narrative, then that's fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 11:10 PM
2

Its about context and understanding social cues. Most men, regardless of looks - can navigate sex and dating without being dubbed a 'creepy'.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 08:59 PM
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It is VERY dependant on location. In my city it rarely happens. In London it happens regularly. In new York it happens incessantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 08:57 PM
2

Yep. Things move and change.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 08:29 PM
1

It's odd because women in those cultures are able to provide children AND work. They work their arses of usually.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 07:32 PM
0

Jokes aside - it has died its death and its unlikely that it will ever make a comeback. How and why it died is just speculation.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 06:55 PM
5

I have no fb and I'm rarely on IG. I'm a 29yo woman. Most adults are at least AWARE now that it is bad (there was a whole netflix doc about it). People just don't delete it because it's addictive. I still have watsapp - so im still in the loop with friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 06:48 PM
1

It would depend on WHY you are unsuccessful. Find that out first and think of a strategy that caters to those specific problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 06:31 PM
2

It's a form of sex work.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 06:05 PM
2

Its phenomenal. I would love to hear your feedback of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 06:00 PM
4

Its died its death I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 05:59 PM
2

Ooh, good word (: Some of it was very relatable, but some of it was definitely off. The fact that no one got raped/assaulted made it pretty unrealistic. The storyline with charlotte being addicted to her vibrator was pretty relatable lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 05:54 PM
8

With tinder dates, yes. Although - my last boyfriend wanted ME to wait (and we waited till the fourth date) and the boyfriend before that was a friend who I got with when I was drunk. as a general rule - I like having sex ASAP. I hate the idea of investing in someone and for the sex to be bellow par.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 05:51 PM
2

The closest thing to that is 'fleabag' and it's amazing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 05:49 PM
3

OP said 'successfully'
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 04:02 PM
2

I'm definitely dobby - and I like to think shes a mixture of mark and jeremys personality. I actually went to a rainbow rhythms once (it was called five rhythms) it was one of the funniest moments of my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 04:00 PM
2

That is exactly how my friends talk in private lol. On my current watsapp group we're divulging threesomes and lesbian experiences atm.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 03:56 PM
1

It has a team of writers. It is loosely based on the lived experiences and writings of candice Bushell.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 03:55 PM
1

So many dudes on here are total marks.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 03:42 PM
13

I dont 'date' but I meet dudes for drinks (if we initially met online) and I like him - then we're getting laid that night. If the sex went well - then I'll see them again. Rinse and repeat until relaitonship happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 03:32 PM
6

All my relationships are men who I found really attractive, fucked them casually and it blossomed into a relationship. I don't like the term 'pump and dump' because I think both men and women are within their right to lose interest in someone after fucking them. It just happens sometimes. I just accept it for what it is and move on with my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/20 10:36 PM
1

shortcomings you just had to go there didnt you...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/20 10:10 PM
1

No. It's entirely irrational to fill in gaps yourselves and decide how to interpret data based on that. And people vote for parties for all different kinds of reasons, and often its just about prioritising some policies more than others. The difference in that study was only about 10%. For all we know feminists could have mostly written 'high satisfaction' but where outnumbered by other non feminist democrats who voted 'low satisfaction'. I mean...its feminists who bang on the most about sex - s…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/20 09:20 PM
2

Well either journals have credence or they don't. If you think they're 'garbage' that's fine. Just don't use any of them in debates or apply them to any part of your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/20 08:59 PM
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That's...not how studies work. You need to control for specific variables in studies to deduce what impact that variable has on the results. If you looked at the original sources (instead of a brief article) they normally explain this. More republicans are against abortion, but that doesn't mean that all the people who voted conservative are anti-abortion. If you want to make the argument 'feminists have comparatively worse sex lives' you need to look specifically at feminists, and not just a de…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/20 08:44 PM
2

you do you, bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/20 08:26 PM
2

Ah yes - your link to a study about democrats and republicans really shed some lights on the link between feminists and sexual satisfaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/20 08:22 PM
2

cool
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/20 08:14 PM
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Literally all your sources use surveys. And you have the audacity to criticise mine for using surveys? OK. If you read the articles, you will see that they themselves say you should take it with a grain of salt. I also dont know what the republican/democrat studies have to do with feminism? Your last paragraph is too emotionally charged and vague, it's hard to take seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/20 08:10 PM
3

that was quite a funny interaction lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/20 07:56 PM
1

I do the bare minimum. I want to enjoy my life, so constantly watching what I eat and passing up peccadillos doesn't really appeal to me. I try not to get high/drunk more than once a fortnight, and I have junk food maybe twice a week. I stopped smoking completely and go on maybe three small runs a week. PPD has had the opposite effect. I'm constantly being told that as a woman I can be super picky and 'punch above my weight'.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/20 07:55 PM
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I mean there have been studies on sexual satisfaction and men dating feminist women (and women dating feminist men) have better sex lives. https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s11199-007-9319-9 I haven't seen any studies that say that feminists are ugly. Fell free to prove me wrong though.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/20 07:45 PM
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Men married to feminists have better sex lives though.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/20 07:27 PM
1

My point is that some people don't know THEY are on the spectrum themselves. If they don't know what they have, how would you? Unless someone has quite severe autism, or they have had it diagnosed and told you about it - you wouldnt know if they are on the spectrum or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/20 03:22 PM
1

Also, unless you're also a gym bunny - you're going to find gym bros pretty boring after a while. There's just only so much I can talk to someone about protein lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/20 03:19 PM
1

I have noooo idea. I'm just hoping something bad wont happen to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/20 03:17 PM
0

Are you suggesting that it's better for males to learn the hard ("natural") way rather than researching in advance? Of course that's what I'm suggesting. Studies are not going to show you how to be socially adept and read social cues. All the stuff that is about 90% of dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/20 03:16 PM
0

And thats fine. Social awkwardness and fucking up is a part of growing up. Most people stay awake at night thinking of a horrendous social/dating situation from forever ago. You live, you learn.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/20 09:27 PM
1

How do you know? Some people don't get diagnosed until they're well into their 30s.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/20 09:25 PM
1

lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/20 09:19 PM
1

I dunno - the jocks and gymrats I know seem to be pretty apolitical. They're (generally) not the sort of people to spend long periods of time siting down and learning about the stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/20 09:19 PM
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