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ADVICELeatherProfit1396/r/RedPillWomen29/01/22 03:32 AM
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I’d tell him how you feel. Maybe phrase it nicely and calmly, expressing your worries about his health and how that will affect your family. Tell him you will support him in his journey and also see what you can do about keeping certain foods out of the house and encouraging daily walks or some other form of physical activity you guys can do together. Your concerns are valid. This doesn’t just affect him. If he’s not healthy, he can’t be as available for you and your family
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/22 07:18 PM
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Yeah, I agree that the distance has made some of these issues stick out more . Although we have also had issues when together more in other ways. Yeah, I was thinking that too. I’ve tried limiting masturbation when I was seeing him regularly and I think it helped a bit. It’s sorta hard to do when it’s been months of no sex though although it’s not like it would be impossible. Right now my sex drive has basically tanked so I’m unintentionally doing noFap. I’ll continue to talk to him and we shall…
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/22 10:49 PM
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Well, he was going through grief. I told him I was there for him through text and tried to be empathetic but I kinda didn’t know how to navigate it/what to say and apparently didn’t say what I should have said and I knew he had a lot going on with family so I tried to also give him space. But I guess I didn’t do it the right way or the way he needed such as asking more. I have apologized. It hurt him a lot but he also has told me he knows I’ve been there for him in the past(a LOT has happened in…
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/22 12:38 PM
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We do have fun time together but sometimes even when we do “fun activities “ we can be rather serious. I love the idea of lightening the mood with those suggestions. I’m going to try to bring it up. We usually just chat most days but often we are tired or don’t have much to say about our day. I’ve wanted to incorporate “dates” or something more than just talking at times.
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/22 12:09 PM
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Yes, mainly not being as present when he was going through a hard time and then not always communicating my expectations in a direct way. He also remarked that at times he didn’t feel “good enough” in the bedroom and that he felt like I’d be better off doing it myself since I have trouble finishing when with him. I am trying to be better for him but sometimes I’ve wondered if he can really “let go”.
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/22 12:06 PM
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I get what you mean. At this moment we are probably going to live separately for several reasons once we move. The reasoning has me worried too. Like I understand he has trauma that affects his views on sex, but it definitely doesn’t seem normal
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/22 03:49 AM
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Yes! It just hurts. I feel like there is this natural desire to feel desired by the one you love. It’s also hard because I feel like I hear so much how guys are so sexual, and then he doesn’t even want to be sexual with me…
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/22 05:19 PM
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I’m further on in my relationship but I have felt similarly. The frequency of sex dropped and we even have stopped having sex for a period. It can be very frustrating and hurtful to deal with, to feel undesired.
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/22 04:53 PM
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If you already know you are infertile, it makes sense to eventually disclose it, probably while talking about kids and stuff. I’d honestly probably bring it up earlier as usually stuff like kids comes up earlier if you are dating to find your future spouse. My partner really wants biological kids, however, he’s ok with surrogacy or using other sperm if one of is infertile. I know some women who found out they were infertile after marriage. Most are religious so they weren’t ok with IVF or surrog…
/r/RedPillWomen25/12/21 05:15 PM
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Ah, I see. I think it is hard for me to let go and be completely trusting so that’s part of it. Also just not being able to be in the moment. I think if I could be trusting and if I felt like he knew what he was doing and could please me how I like, it would be hot
/r/RPChristians17/08/21 12:43 PM
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Idk if I’m allowed to comment as a women… my partner has tried this and I do not like it😅. I am very sensitive and often find myself stuck in an uncomfortable position with my hair being pulled unintentionally or get an itch I need to scratch. Losing that control also feels like an instant turn off. Maybe I’m the minority🤔
/r/RPChristians17/08/21 04:23 AM
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