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I’m asking if I should try again. Not, was I wrong for not wanting to have her current fb rotation rubbed in my face at dinner
/r/seduction28/01/26 03:29 AM
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You aren’t understanding my position. We all know the possibility/probability of a female having options and current fwb’s. Why tf do I need to hear about it over dinner though? That’s not a little weird to you? At all? Be real
/r/seduction28/01/26 02:59 AM
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And that’s 100% her right to do. Doesn’t mean I want to be reminded of it over dinner bro. That’s ridiculous. You really going to sit here and act like that wouldn’t faze you?
/r/seduction28/01/26 02:56 AM
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I think she did slightly sense it and tried to recover later on at the bar. I tried my best not to show it, but I had also told her before the date that I could stay out all night, but at the bar after dinner I told her I have to be up early so I had to leave soon.
/r/seduction28/01/26 02:46 AM
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She asked me if I was seeing anyone and I kind of gave her a weird look because it caught me off guard. I don’t subscribe to the idea that it should be normal to just talk about how big of a whore you are on a first day, regardless of your intentions. I don’t know why everyone in here is trying to normalize that. Just seems so weird to me. I’m not a prude and I’ve had my fair share of hookups, but the entire point of a date is to impress each other, turn each other on, build sexual tension, gaug…
/r/seduction28/01/26 02:40 AM
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Thanks for the responses man I appreciate the feedback and analysis
/r/seduction28/01/26 02:21 AM
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A particular 3 some was definitely the best sexual experience I’ve had as an adult. Not the best experience or even my biggest flex. But in the sexual category it was the best. And not even the fact that it was a 3 some but the entire situation surrounding it and how it happened including the two women who were involved
/r/seduction27/01/26 11:43 PM
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I’m sorry man I’m sure you realize this but this is all on you. I’ve had some nuclear missed opportunities in my day but I could never imagine sharing the same bed with a female on vacation and not having sex. I would bet my net worth it was yours for the taking. You just need to execute. There should be no scenario where you take a girl on a European trip and don’t end up having tons of sex. The second layer is having her in your bed. We’re talking about a grown woman who 1000% knew the role an…
/r/seduction27/01/26 11:35 PM
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I could have left after dinner you’re right on that. But I also considered that after a few drinks I might have been able to forget about it enough to at least salvage the opportunity for sex. But in the end I just wasn’t able to get past the audacity of her comments lol.
/r/seduction27/01/26 10:34 PM
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You would rather hear about other guys that a girl is currently messing around with than for her to just not mention them at all? I’m not saying lie to you about them. But at least omit info about their existence during a first time date? That logic is completely foreign to me man.
/r/seduction27/01/26 10:17 PM
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See that’s the thing. There are two main reasons I didn’t bring it up to her. One being I knew it would instantly kill the vibe on her side, even though she purposely tried to provoke that response which just doesn’t make sense. Why provoke a response that you don’t want to get? Other reason is that I felt that regardless of how I felt, both roads (remaining silent while being completely turned off or being vocal about my disinterest in hearing about other guys) inevitably led to either me or he…
/r/seduction27/01/26 10:09 PM
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That might be a fair and accurate statement but I know how I felt at that moment in time and I just wasn’t feeling it. Wish it weren’t the case but it was. That’s why I’m posting on here looking for feedback
/r/seduction27/01/26 09:46 PM
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You’re probably right about this I’ll admit
/r/seduction27/01/26 09:44 PM
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I respect this breakdown. Does make sense to me but at that moment in time I hadn’t considered it.
/r/seduction27/01/26 09:43 PM
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Idk man I’ve had a lot of tension that was built during dinner. My proof is that I’ve left with enough of them back to my place directly afterwards. It also give me a very easy out if I’m not feeling them or vice versa. I agree that drinks is also a good one but not all women want to start a first meet with alcohol.
/r/seduction27/01/26 09:21 PM
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I like dinner. It’s an easy way to gauge how you need to approach the rest of the night. You either cut your losses at dinner or you transition somewhere else.
/r/seduction27/01/26 09:14 PM
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Pretty sure she was hinting at that, but by that point I was already turned off. After some clarity I’m regretting my decision
/r/seduction27/01/26 09:04 PM
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That would be my intent if I did ask her back out
/r/seduction27/01/26 09:03 PM
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Nobody said she’s owes me monogamy. I’m not ignorant. I obviously could safely assume I’m not the only man she has interactions with. What I am saying is that it’s completely reasonable and acceptable for me to not want to hear about it, especially on a first date.
/r/seduction27/01/26 09:00 PM
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To be clear I was never under the impression that she was searching for an ltr and neither am I. But regardless of the end goal I don’t want to hear that shit during a date
/r/seduction27/01/26 08:47 PM
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No I agree with you. It was just such an odd outlier to her demeanor and behavior the entire rest of the night both before and after those comments.
/r/seduction27/01/26 08:37 PM
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That was my gut feeling. Talking to my sister about it afterwards made me second guess it though. She thinks it was some sort of weird test to see my reaction or to make me feel some sort of urgency. I don’t really agree but it did make me wonder.
/r/seduction27/01/26 08:30 PM
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Lol I also had this happen with my biggest crush at the time in school. 10-15 of us were out at this legendary swimming hole/camping area at night drinking and having a good time. She asked me to go to my car and listen to music and dance. The parking lot was about a 10 minute walk from where everyone was so it was secluded. I was a HORRIBLE dancer and didn’t want to embarrass myself and was obviously too stupid to take the hint so I told her I didn’t feel like dancing. Later on her and another …
/r/seduction07/01/26 08:39 PM
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Hahaha! Without the coworker situation I’d have made the move the first time she came to me without hesitation. I HAVE to be able to save face in this situation though. Otherwise it’s not worth it.
/r/seduction07/01/26 07:24 PM
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I feel like they already think something is going on
/r/seduction07/01/26 05:24 PM
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That’s what I’m worried about lol
/r/seduction07/01/26 05:23 PM
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You could definitely be right. I’m not necessarily disagreeing. The weird thing for me is I’ve never had a girl talk that openly with me about their sex life whom I hadn’t already fucked or would eventually fuck later on. Mind you this is a M/F interaction in an office/workplace setting in 2026 lol
/r/seduction07/01/26 04:35 PM
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I thought about that but at this point it’s no longer risk free because the conversation has already passed. Only thing that would fix that is if she were to bring it up again
/r/seduction07/01/26 04:31 PM
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I partially agree with you. She knows I’m not gay but I could also see her being comfortable with me, at least more so than anybody else in the company.
/r/seduction07/01/26 04:28 PM
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Can you explain why you think that?
/r/seduction07/01/26 04:22 PM
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They’re all from the gym. I feel like I’m definitely in the top 5 better looking guys at least in the time slot that we go to the gym but my wife is also in phenomenal shape and I think she brings my stock up as well.
/r/seduction06/01/26 03:19 AM
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Positive… One of them told her she saw us both checking her out and said we should all hangout sometime really soon because she was about to move out of state. Another one told her that we’re a hot couple and was pretty flirtatious from the get go. The third one had been eyeing me for quite a while and her and my wife actually had this imaginary beef going on until one day she approached my wife and then invited us over for drinks that night (my wife said she forgot to reply back), and the 4th o…
/r/seduction05/01/26 05:03 PM
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Man everyone’s mileage may vary. I had like 3 hookups between my late teens and early twenties, while my friend who was a weed dealer was hooking up with different girls daily. By the nature of the business he was always coming into contact with chicks, chilling and smoking with them and one thing would always lead to another. My path was very different and didn’t start until after I met my now wife. She is bi and women for whatever reason gravitate towards her. We regularly get approached at th…
/r/seduction13/12/25 01:29 AM
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Any other situation I’d have gone for it a long time ago. But the gym and my workplace are two places I will always be extremely cautious with. Pretty much if it’s not a sure thing, or if they aren’t the ones to approach me I’m just assuming it’s not worth it.
/r/seduction10/12/25 09:33 PM
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