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Ok, I guess as he’s ok with his friends cutting him out of their lives with no explanation.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 08:01 PM
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But your not in a relationship with your friend! So you’re going treat every women on the street like shit for doing something you don’t like even when it has nothing to do with you and will never effect your life in any way. Ok Kyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 07:53 PM
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Disgust you because you have unresolved trauma. Non-monogamy is on the rise. Your gonna have a hard time meeting someone who is or hasn’t been in an open relationship of some form.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 07:38 PM
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I’m confused on this too. She started an open relationship with her partner that is not OP and who is (assuming) open to and benefiting from it as well. As far as the post goes, the female friend is not asking OP to be an active part of their open relationship or encouraging OP to practice open relationships as well. The female friend has nothing to do with OPs mom’s infidelity. OP is…. Mad about the choices someone else made that doesn’t effect them at all. I don’t blame this friend for asking …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 07:22 PM
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It’s shit like this that keeps men form getting women and not their height or bank account.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 11:01 PM
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Christ, I’ve never. I’ve told insecure guys I was wildly attracted too that I didn’t care what “chad” looked like, because this guy was my version of a 10 and not “chad.” So are they confusing it with that? I’ve said that I don’t dump dudes because their front tooth is slightly crooked, or they have a too big nose (I love big noses on guys),etc. I’m not that fucking shallow. I’ve told a ton of dudes that they don’t need to be perfect Greek/Roman gods to get women. But I’ve never told a guy flat …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 08:41 PM
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This. But they have to hear it from another man. When women talk they just hear “womp womp womp.”
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 08:24 PM
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Typical RP response
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 05:57 PM
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Whatever dude. All I’m saying it that’s a pipe dream for these guys. Because if they think secular women have too high standards then they’re in for a surprise.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 05:53 PM
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The kind of traditional virgin til she’s wed women TRP wants is the super conservative Christian type who looks down on anyone who isn’t as godly and pure as them. So irony is that these men, who typically have a high N count, expect the women they sleep with to be a pure as snow, will never get that type of woman. Not unless he’s a uptight conservative godly man who’s also a virgin (because these people will literally shame you to an early grave if you’ve had sex outside of marriage because it …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 05:42 PM
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Downside is her, her whole family, her church, and her community, will expect YOU to also be virginal and insanely religious and drill you into the ground with interrogations until you can prove it. And I laugh because every TRP dude here would never think women were worth saving their virginity for or turning to religion for.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 05:09 PM
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Naw, I’m not per se. Men gripe and moan about how they only want sex and they don’t even have to be attracted to who they’re fucking. They only want a hole to use. If that’s literally the case then does it matter if they even fuck a woman at all? If women, with their high standards, feminism, and tireless crusade to be seen as human beings, say they won’t stand to have their bodies be used by men who only want sex, then men have a likely alternative who views sex the same way they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 12:50 AM
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After you
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 11:11 PM
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That’s the spirit!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 10:40 PM
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If the men here seriously think all women are the bane of their existence, they should go fuck each other and leave women alone. You all claim men have higher sex drives so it’s only logical that men go after the only gender that matches their own sex drive. Other Men. Guys will fuck anything that moves and even lower their standards to fuck women they aren’t attracted to. So obviously attraction isn’t needed. Everyone looked the same from the back. Ya’ll can be the biggest fuck boys and spin pl…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 10:25 PM
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She’s not like other girls
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 10:15 PM
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They’re basically uppity sorority girls with dicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 09:56 PM
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Ok, but how successful are these relationships? Do they become LTR or are they couples in a FWB/ situationship for a good 2-3 months before moving on? If we really look carefully at modern dating and apps more people are in non-monogamous or committed relationships. Because the apps foster the grass is greener attitude and also instill insecurity where everyone is suspicious that their partners is “exploring their options,” which makes couples less emotionally and morally committed to each other…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 06:43 PM
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Welcome to PPD
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 06:28 PM
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How … would I even know? Does he brag about it before he even takes a girl on the first date? WHY?? Is he trying to be my sugar daddy and he’s stating all the bonuses I can expect with my weekly allowance?? And who wants to hear some guy prattle on about his dates with other women? I seriously I would kick this guy to the curb. That shit sounds too petty to even be real.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 01:39 AM
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Which country?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 01:27 AM
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Yet if you tell men that they would do better IRL because so few women use the apps they’re scream “eww! Don’t wanna!”
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 01:26 AM
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Largely depends on what you mean. I don’t go out often but when I do I get a lot of compliments on my outfit, hair, etc. (like like button down shorts with loud obnoxious prints or vintage clothes) Like 2-3 times a day. Hell, even my dentist has complimented my shirt. But none of those guys were hitting on me. If we’re taking about over the top, “girl you got a nice ass/I’d fuck you/ what’s your number” like, never.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 01:14 AM
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Dating apps are only good for people who want a quick hook up with a new partner ever night/week/whenever. That’s it. Or fuck boys/girls who think seeing the same person every other week for 2 months constitutes a real LTR before dumping them because, can’t spend your whole life with the same dude/chick, can ya. There’s plenty more fish in the sea to fuck/ grass is greener, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 10:19 PM
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Cats belong to women now. Cats are for women only. Don’t ask me why. I don’t make the rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 05:17 PM
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I’ve been lurking on a off for nearly two years. I’m always seeing new usernames but I swear all of you sound like you’ve been here longer than I have. Is half of PPD getting repeatedly banned and making new usernames or is there really this constant influx of new RPers.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 05:14 PM
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And it’s especially ok if it’s to manipulate women. Because sex objects don’t have thoughts and feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 03:05 PM
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The whole philosophy of RP is to be purposely be predator. And the worst part is they’re PROUD of abusing women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 03:02 PM
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You can flip this around and say the same thing about the TRP. These chads and wannabe chads are influencing the majority of men to treat women for sex and like they’re less than human, which in turn makes it harder for women to find a reliable TLR. But not everyone has to date these guys. In fact, they don’t which is why there’s a new post complaining about it daily.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 06:30 PM
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How is being drafted by the government to fight a war = gaslighting men purely for female approval? Is the government female now?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 06:24 PM
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K, so then it’s simply porn fodder when a night in gets too lonely. You don’t here guys saying their girlfriends a MILF or cougar and mean it with respect. But maybe I’m jadded. I’m 33 and my last boyfriend (29) called me a cougar as he laughed about how was such a washed up old bitch with his friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 02:23 PM
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I typically haven’t heard that as a positive thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 05:08 AM
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Don’t men despise any women who has pushed out a child that isn’t theirs tho? The single mom hate here is insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 05:07 AM
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The closest I’ve gotten was a guy took me as his plus one to a 3 course xmas party dinner with open bar at an upscale resort. The party was hosted by the company he worked for. He didn’t pay a cent.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 04:28 AM
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But it’s men that put this idea of high/low value and claiming dating is like going into a job interview. It’s men pushing the idea around that they have to be 6’4 giant with a six figure salary and new Jag. But it easier for men to blame women and say they’re the ones demanding these things rather than doing any self reflection. Men also assume women think exactly like they do. Why do you think they’re so pissed/miffed when any woman disagrees with them?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 07:52 PM
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Totally. So many men drag E-girls and OFs chicks for using their sexuality for money and attention, yet these are the same men who shower these women with money and attention. How does that make sense?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 06:49 PM
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Bro, every one of your comments proves more and more how clueless you are about women, and how much you’re talking out of your ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 04:18 AM
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Typical answer from a 12 year old redditor
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 11:37 PM
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No man has ever taken me to a 5 star restaurant completely on his dime. Where the hell do they think men are taking women on dates?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 11:34 PM
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The economy is also vastly different today than it was before which plays a huge role. My parents started a family early because they were also able to buy a house, 2 cars, with minimal debt on two average state salaries. That just ain’t the case today.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 11:32 PM
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Wrong. Many men want children and will pressure women into have their kids because they want someone to carry on the family name. And then are completely fine with not taking care of those kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 11:28 PM
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Historically women have been considered washed up old maids by 25. And men? They simply get more attractive the older they get. There’s no female equivalent to the silver fox that I can possibly think of or ever heard.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 11:24 PM
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PPD is filled with these men for one. Every week there’s an argument that breaks out in the comments over how women are either a. Gold diggers or b. Never pull their weight financially. When asked if men would feel more comfortable with no partner who earns as much or more than then the answer is always a unified “no” followed by some claim that Men have to be the financial providers whether they want to or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 11:18 PM
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You didn’t read my comment. You don’t have to join a yoga class for middle aged single mothers to meet women. Women do exist in the wild. They don’t hide in caves with their girlfriends like weird recluses and rely on Uber eats to survive. They go grocery shopping, to coffee shops, to clubs, to concerts, to parks, and other places that men frequent. There’s nothing stopping you from attempting casual conversation with them at any of these places.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 05:58 PM
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That has nothing to do with TALKING to women about mutual interests that you meet at bars, coffee shops, friends groups, concerts, clubs, etc. that can casually lead to getting her phone number. This is exactly how you guys shoot yourselves in the foot each time. You run around thinking, “I can’t ask women what foods they like, what books they read, which Netflix shows they watch, what they hobbies are because they already talk to their girlfriends about it! Guess I can only ask them if they’re …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 05:44 PM
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… so you know if you can fuck her. Finished that sentence for ya.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 03:53 PM
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Never. On the other hand, I’ve seen first hand a lot of guys treat woman like absolute shit because they don’t want to “be too nice.” I’m talking like putting her down constantly and acting like they are pure gold and she’s dog shit under their shoe kinda mean (and these guys are always single again very quickly).
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 01:33 AM
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There’s a new thread everyday about how OLD doesn’t work for the majority of men so logically they would want to step up their social game and talk to women IRL. But for whatever reason, men (specifically those who seem to lurk on PPD) can’t get it thru their skulls that women are people too and are capable of doing a myriad of normal people activities, engaging in normal people conversations, and other thousands typical people shit men can easily (and instantly) bond with them over. Instead the…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 09:01 PM
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Every time a woman explains something here it’s like all the men suddenly plug their ears screaming, “Lalala can’t hear you” so there isn’t much point to it anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 06:52 PM
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I’m super into tall skinny nerdy art fags. And being a skinny nerdy art fag myself it works out pretty well.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 06:25 PM
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Fast easy sex usually comes with fast easy STIs.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 06:04 PM
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How old do you think OP is?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 03:41 PM
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Women can’t just make as much or more money than men! That’s the rules of PPD!!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 03:39 PM
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This has been my experience too. The people I know who did end up married to their highschool sweethearts usually spend a number of years apart after graduation and then happen to reconnect and get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 03:32 PM
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They weren’t worth keeping.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 05:06 PM
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We never got past that “dating” phase regardless of living together for years. It felt like I had a roommate with benefits and not a real partner. He also was needy and leaned on me constantly for support daily. It was to the point that I was reassuring and mothering him for hours everyday with little to no time for myself. I was so busy with his problems I didn’t realize that my needs were never met and pushed aside. He never even asked me how my day was because the second I got home it was tim…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 04:27 AM
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He turned out to sexually assault his next partner after me for real so….
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 04:02 AM
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Really, no one is allowed to have more than one relationship during their life now?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 04:00 AM
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That’s weird. All my male partners never had an issue speaking openly and freely about any of those issues any time and (sometime to my embarrassment) anywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 07:00 PM
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I personally know men who believe 2 months is a LTR
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 12:08 AM
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Why do have to have the same convo over and over again? When women say they prefer tall men they mean men taller than their own height and not a magic set number. A guy who’s 5’8 is going to feel tall to a girl who’s 5’2. Just like a 6’4 guy is going to be tall to a girl who’s 5’10. Perspective matters a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 05:29 PM
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You probably didn’t understand my comment. I never meant to say women don’t think their male friend are attracted to them/ their male friends aren’t attracted to their female friends. What I’m saying, and the commenter above me, is that men have reason for not fucking their female friends the first chance they get. Also, typical PPD going out to paint men in the worst possible light like their slaves to their sex drive and can’t function as a person outside of “me man, must fuck!”
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 01:31 PM
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This 100%. The men in this sub don’t give their own gender enough credit. It’s almost always an extreme of “me horny! Me fuck!” and y’all aren’t cavemen (at least I hope a lot of you aren’t). Humans are complex social creatures and there are always a millions factors in place that effects why we do or don’t do something.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 10:19 PM
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It depends on the circumstances. I ended my long term relationship because I realized that, for various reasons, I was with the wrong person for the wrong reasons, and being single in comparison was the better deal. Also, people take breaks from relationships often with the intention of getting in another relationship sometime down the road and they don’t put a timeline on it. Being single right now =/= being single forever no matter how much the red or black pillers wanna argue that it does.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 08:38 PM
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If the foreplay is good she will be begging and pleading for you to penetrate her immediately.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 08:02 PM
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It mind blowing how many men think rougher harder everything to the point their about to chafe the skin right off their dicks is better? I dated a guy who’s ultimate turn on was “fucking girls faces.” Which was literally jackhammering into my head until I nearly vomited with him hands clasped on my head so I couldn’t escape. I would never do that shit again because the reconstructive throat surgery wouldn’t be worth it. Plus it was the biggest turn off knowing he doing something to me that I did…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 07:58 PM
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Sometimes I seriously wonder if anyone here has actually had sex before.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 07:31 PM
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I’ve never heard a women say, “ugh, don’t you hate it when guys make you so wet and horny with foreplay you just wanna POUNCE ON THEIR DICK?”
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 07:30 PM
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I honestly believe this would be the popular opinion from redpillers because, I think the ultimate red pill fantasy is that they can turn any average woman off the street into a submissive trad wife because they are the chose one women should simp for. If there was a large demographic of women like this (that didn’t come with a strict religious lifestyle- because I doubt any of them, at least here, would even attempt that life) there would be a lot less complaining about women being women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 05:45 PM
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I’m here for the short kings
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 06:08 PM
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The belief that women will only pick 6’4 guys is ridiculous and some of us don’t want giants. I’m 5’3. I dated a 6’2 guy and, Jesus Christ, never again. I still have whiplash from having to look up so far to talk to him, tall=/= bigger dick, and just the sex overall atrocious. I would rather be with someone closer to my own size.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 05:40 PM
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Because of this sub I’ve completely let go of all hope that love is real and will instead settle for a situationship with whatever sad sack comes across my path until I adopt my five cats.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 09:16 PM
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Take a bit of time to read some more threads and you’ll find dozens of comments from guys here that admit they will fuck women they find disgusting because sex means nothing more than satisfying their biological urges. Yes, they’d rather pick the 10 next door or the cute 8 at the coffee shop, but when they’re really feeling it the 2 they found on tinder will do for now.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 07:05 PM
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A lot of men on here go around calling women terrible, derogatory slurs, and then wonder why women shrink away from them. So yes, fixing their deep seeded gender issues through therapy will make them more approachable and attractive to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 08:57 PM
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Only men can be victims, ok?!?! Us women have everything in life handed to us on golden plates 24/7 since birth just for having a vagina. How dare you not think of the poor men suffering from the crippling burden to fuck who they please and screw around until they die old age without being called a whore or being judged for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 07:26 PM
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Imagine being so deep in your own pool of hatred you being thinking everyone who shows you any kindness and affection is secretly out to get you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 01:09 AM
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Basically, the anecdote is only valid of it perfectly fits your specific narrative. There’s no possible way, out of all the billions of people on the planet, that ONE could have a different experience or viewpoint that you. That’s the Manosphere in a nutshell folks!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 09:20 PM
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Personally I would like a life partner… but living in reality I know the best I could hope for is a “void.”
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 01:29 AM
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Not when you take frequent breaks to sit down on the couch and watch “the best parts” of the office between dishes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 03:01 AM
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I had to show my 30 year old ex boyfriend how to hand wash our dishes when the dishwasher broke. It took him 2 hours to clean half a load.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 11:58 PM
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Haven’t lurked their since the height of BethaME’s scam course extravaganza
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 09:11 PM
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It’s interesting if you like watching the same dead horse being beaten repeatedly
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 08:53 PM
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Besides PPD, which subreddit do you like to lurk to see stupid people being stupid?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 08:39 PM
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IMO the reason dating is such a shit show is because people treat relationships like they do iPhones. As in, they’re looking for a status symbol they’re constantly trying to upgrade for a newer, shiner model rather than focusing on forming a real, lasting relationship with another person.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 11:41 PM
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I don’t think men can handle that sorta thinking yet. The mental stress could kill them
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 05:40 PM
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If They’re looking for places where men think respecting women for more than how fuckable they are isn’t a foreign concept I wish them all the luck and implore they share their success.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 05:36 PM
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Number 2 is definitely true by the men of this subreddits popular opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 09:04 PM
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God, finally someone said it! I’m so sick of men complaining about this that have obviously have absolutely no real clue what they’re talking about. They’re basing all their assumptions on shit they read on Reddit or that one really bad date from 10 years ago (like we all haven’t been there too).
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 08:44 PM
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K, but if women “close their legs” you’ll will still call us dumb cunts but this time it’s because our standards are too high, too reasonable, were male hating feminists, etc. and why should women deign themselves sex just cuz you say so??
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 11:47 PM
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Yes! Nearly all the guys here shit all over the women for being duped (aka a pump and dump) by men and call them dumb cunts for going after the bad boy or not vetting our dates, but the thing is we do. We drill the shit out of guys on what they’re looking for, stalk the hell out of their social media profiles (if they even have one), etc. to make sure we’re going after someone genuine. But the problem is these guys make themselves look like the nice guy when they’re really lying straight to our …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 02:08 AM
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The only time I have ever felt uncomfortable when a random dude hit on me in public was when he was obviously old enough to be either my father or grandfather. Any other time I am extremely flattered or at the very least impressed (despite this sub claiming this never happens and all women loathe men looking at them).
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 07:22 PM
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You’re posting in PPD. Here men are never wrong and always the victims of an unjust society and women are bags of shit just for existing that deserve every bad thing they get. Edit: I forget to add uses men as ATMs and gold-diggers
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 10:52 PM
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I know guys who get paid bank to write two short blog articles for the company website a month which is 100% regurgitated shit off google, the spend the other 90% of their time posting on Twitter. Such a hard life.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 10:49 PM
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Grammar. I think what we need to do is convince him grammar is a good thing one must use to their full advantage.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 07:53 PM
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I counted two periods and one comma.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 07:51 PM
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Good for you. I’m sure the 80% of the men who haven’t gotten laid in 5 years thank you for doing your civic duty.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 10:46 PM
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Still, that leaves 4/5 men with no chance in hell. So is fresh pussy really guaranteed? Because your talking like marriage is a crapshoot for men because men can easily walk into a bar and walkout with a new chick… then say that majority of men are lucky to have a woman even look at them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 10:14 PM
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Don’t the vast majority of men here claim that all single men are struggling for even a glimmer of hope for a date (unless they are the 0.01% who are outrageously hot I.e. Chad or a loaded 6 figure earner)? First, how is that even guaranteed taken these alleged facts men have stated with their graphs and pie charts. Second, men age just like everyone else and there is no guarantee they will age well. Unless you’re planning on spending the rest of your life paying for escorts.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 09:16 PM
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If women are such a huge chore stick to your fleshlights and escorts. We will gladly be cat ladies if it means not having to put up men who constantly bitch about how much “work” we are.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 06:51 AM
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Simple. Most of those men who say they want a LTR ARE the fuck bois. Do you seriously think people aren’t capable of lying?? On the internet?? If men advertised that they only wanted women to use women as a ONS then no woman would give them the time of day.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 02:38 AM
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You mean the men we’re attracted to as apposed to the ones we don’t find attractive? Gosh, I’m so sorry our standards are so high that we won’t fuck the sewer rats we find lurking in the gutters.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 01:45 AM
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So women are no longer allowed to have their own options and values now. Cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 07:24 AM
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That’s impossible. If PPD has thought me one thing it’s that women always get flooded with simps simply for having a vagina. NO EXCEPTIONS
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 02:09 AM
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Hit it on the nail. A lot of these guys lack complete awareness, emotional intelligence, or empathy. They are stuck in a mind set that just because they view sex in one way everyone has to as well. They can’t grasp the idea that women view sex differently- and that women are perfectly valid in doing so.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 08:14 PM
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This. Women only have their looks (and youth). Men here with counter being ugly in the face by saying they make up for it in height, a six pack, money, fast cars, intelligence, etc. Because men are valued for these things. But can a woman do that? Can women be valued for the same things a man is? No. Her only value is her looks. Edit: and looks count for a lot more than “just don’t be obese.” Unless all the men on this sub are admitting they’ll gladly start taking all the butter face women of th…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 07:41 PM
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But those were humans. What about the zombies
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 07:36 PM
6

I’m deceased 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 05:27 PM
0

Are you trying to say that attraction is subjective and not objective? That is brand new information! Say it again for the people in the back.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 05:00 PM
20

But remember, women’s standards are too high. Wanting a relationship is far too unrealistic. They should settle for being a good ole pump and dump instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 04:53 PM
0

Yes, height can certainly impact things for women. There are men out there so hung up on height they won’t date anyone above a certain height because, “she might look as tall or taller than me if she wears heels.” It leaves a lot tall women feeling just as shitty as short men.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 02:37 PM
1

You do know where you’re posting right? I don’t need to hold you hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 04:12 PM
1

My whole comment is specifically about women and their experiences. So sorry I forgot how this subreddit gets so butt hurt if men aren’t made the center and glorified hero of every discussion. No where did I or anyone say that can NEVER happen to men or try to vilify men. Ever. You jumped to that conclusion for no reason because this subreddit focuses on hetro relationships so yea, the women’s experiences we talk about are gonna be with men. Cuz who else would it be with? Their fucking dogs or c…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 04:02 PM
1

Stop reaching and learn how to read above a first grade level. No where does it even say that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 03:08 PM
2

What do you mean by the way they think? Like, one of more logical and the other more emotional? Couples like that can certainly get along successfully as long they communicate effectively and respect each other’s differences.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 09:01 PM
2

It’s important to be on the same page about where you are in life and where you want to be in the future. You don’t have go looking for someone who checked every single little box on your checklist. They do have to agree with meeting you on important life milestones like getting married, buying a house, having kids, where you want to live, what kind of lifestyle you want, etc. Mostly anything outside of that is easily negotiable.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 07:27 PM
1

To the majority of PPD men I’d say the safe assumption is yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 04:01 PM
2

Yep, they will get the “easy sex” but will still bitch about how they have to pay and that sex workers aren’t handing their pussys out like free candy (just like how they bitch about paying for dates in order to bang “normal women”). And yes, most women are not gonna be serious about a dude who hooks up with working girls every week.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 03:53 PM
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Ya’ll try so hard to ignore every word women say and reach so far make yourselves the victims, then wonder why women don’t respect you. It’s laughable.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 03:35 PM
-1

Lol, the men on here do the same exact thing. Funny how you never have a problem when it’s them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 03:52 AM
21

To them ugly women don’t exist because it completely contradicts how women are supposed to have zero problems with dating, endless options, and have a constant steady influx of simps flooding their inboxes. Only men are allowed to suffer in the dating world.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 02:11 AM
1

Whatever you say, trog
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 12:20 AM
0

Umm, I’m sorry you’re reading comprehension is so bad you see it that way? No where at all did I blame anything on men. I gave an antidote to illustrate how normal well adjusted not crazy women will act “crazy” under sever psychological distress. Where the fuck are you even getting, “uh duh men bad!” ?? You’re also completely ignoring how I said that some women DO have legit mental issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 12:15 AM
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It can be the same for both genders. This topic happens to be about WOMEN so we’re talking about WOMEN. What are exactly trying to argue here. Also learn to read. No where do I say this ONLY happened to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 12:00 AM
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Everytime a guy says his ex is “crazy” I step back to take a look at how he treated her. More often than not the relationship was heavily toxic on BOTH sides and woman was reacting badly to being mistreated and heavily gaslit. Well adjusted people don’t throw their ex’s clothes on the lawn and lite it on fire…. But they can after being exposed to long periods of mental/ psychological distress. That isn’t to say some legit do have mental issues. But it isn’t always the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 10:58 PM
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Sure, let me gather all my sources since you’re so concerned and threatened by the thought women wanting sex through any point in time.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 08:23 PM
4

Naw bro, I have a MA in medieval studies. The belief that women were mega horny back then was a real thing that can be found in multiple real historic texts. Another example was that there were dozens of male aphrodisiacs to get men in the mood but none for women simply on the assumption that they didn’t need it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 07:58 PM
7

The funny thing is historically people thought women were the horny ones. In medieval times it was believed that women needed constant sex for their health and they could even divorce their husbands on the grounds that they weren’t getting dicked down enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 07:49 PM
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Going to piggyback on this to agree and add that I e seen far too many people pick purely shallow or physical attributes as the end all be all criteria for relationships. He has to be 6’3 or she has to be this skinny, fit, have the hair texture I like, manicured toenails, be between these numbers on a mane up scale of attractiveness, must make 6 figures, etc. And if you do get that person, ok good for you. But do you need that? what if they don’t respect you or any of your values, ideas, or beli…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 06:34 PM
-1

Seeing any human being as an object to use and then quickly throw away like garbage is wrong. Like god damn, no wonder this generation is having such a fucked up time
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 06:07 PM
2

I never asked to be a part of this
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 05:27 PM
9

Had a guy who seriously opened the conversation with, “guess you’re hot enough for me. Now gimme a list of your deal breakers so you don’t waste my time.” The way he said that is an entire field of red flags. I never wish for anyone to die miserable and alone but I hope he does.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 05:06 PM
1

Or maybe you’re red pill minds have such a hard time grasping that different people all have different experiences, and that not all of them will not fit your narrow views.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 09:08 PM
4

No dawg, I say she’s hot because I have eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 03:34 AM
1

Lmfao, like half this sub claims to be average dudes who juggle multiple women. And just like these dudes, they never say up front, “hey, I’m gonna fuck 3 others chicks while seeing you fyi.” They always act like they want to serious relationship and are not seeing anyone else but when the time to sit down and have a talk about being exclusive rolls around they chicken out and cry about “not being ready for anything serious.” It’s the same shit you always accuse women of doing. Well, men play th…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 03:32 AM
0

Lol, the only ones with Chad tunnel vision are 90% of the bitter men on this sub. I’ve seen the guys she dated and I would not call any of them chads. It may be a novel idea to you but average men do date.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 01:47 AM
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Or she just didn’t want to bother with men who wanna play around by dating multiple women at once with no intention of starting a relationship with any of them. Which many men on this sub admit to doing
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 03:13 PM
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One of my good friend is in this age range. She just got into a relationship after being single for 3 years. And she was looking and striking out on a lot of dates. Like. She is mega hot (solid 8-9), hella funny, extremely smart, and fickle dudes where either turning her down or trying to string her a long to fuck around with other girls. It’s tough out there for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 01:27 AM
0

The same can easily be said for men
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 03:55 PM
0

K, you’re welcome to live in your doom and gloom red pill world where you always lose.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 02:43 PM
1

So women don’t show interest, add to the conversation, provide date ideas, give gifts, and act overall human being, etc. they simply sit in their chairs looking pretty while telling men “no”
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 01:37 PM
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So basically you’re saying women can’t hold conversations, come up with any date ideas, or have genuine interest in any other human being. Thanks! You completely proved my point about men of this sub thinking dating is one sided.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 01:37 AM
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It’s bizarre that men on this sub take dating as completely one sided. Like women are soulless sex bots who can’t think or do anything on their own. The last two men I dated I was one who Initiated the first kiss and planned the first date. Afterwards it was collaborating on ideas of things we’d both like to do. On top of this there was dressing up to look nice, sweating about saying the right things and telling the right jokes, looking into his hobbies so I could ask him more about them and sho…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 07:33 PM
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For hundreds of years women were FORCED into marriages they had no say in. It’s a tradition still in place in many parts of the world today where a man can pick any woman he likes, walk up to her father and say he wants to marry her, and bam, it’s done without her agreeing to it at all. If that isn’t a real life example of men being entitled to women I don’t know what it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 12:29 AM
1

When women are rejected they’re expected to take the L with minimal to no complaining. When men are rejected their entire gender is under attack.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 12:24 AM
2

K
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 03:11 AM
2

Bet living under that rock is nice
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 03:01 AM
3

So men don’t want sex and the manosphere is not encouraging dudes to score. LMFAO. Believe what you wanna believe bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 02:45 AM
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Are you a troll? Nearly every post in this subreddit has long winded posts from men claiming sex is a basic biological need like food and air, and that their whole goal of interacting with women is. for. sex. The entire manosphere philosophy is about how to get as many women to have sex with them as they can by whatever means necessary (they call it “having game”). There are dozens of discussions of men saying they can’t even be friends with a women if she isn’t having sex with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 10:18 PM
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They certainly are by men who care way too much about body count. If this shit didn’t matter we wouldn’t even be discussing it nor would men be fetishizing virgins.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 09:07 PM
5

So women can’t have casual sex? They can only have sex with one man in a committed relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 08:44 PM
2

Men here want a woman who will have sex with them right off the bat. They shame and ridicule women for taking their time to get to know him before sleeping with him by claiming women are stuck up, picky, have high standards, etc. As for failing to vet, re- read my first paragraph. Men willingly admit that they lie and emotionally manipulate women into thinking they want a serious LTR when all they really want is a pump and dump. How the ever-loving fuck can you tell until it’s too late?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 08:42 PM
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Women wouldn’t care so much if a guy preferred a virgin of women weren’t mercilessly slut shamed for having sex even once. Edit: forget status for a sec. I would be more curious to know what makes these men, who possibly have a high body count themselves, believe they deserve a virgin? If men are going to hold body count against women why aren’t they holding themselves to the same high standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 07:39 PM
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So let me get this straight… men have no qualms admitting that their primary goal is sex and they will lie, cheat, and manipulate to get it, then dump the women for their next conquest. But if this manipulation works it’s the woman who should be shamed because she “went after the bad boy” and didn’t see that she was being used… But if women wise up and vet their possible partners to see if their are any red flags or get the “ick,” they’re also shamed for being too picky. Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 06:48 PM
4

No. But don’t get mad when we choose to filter out fuckboys and incels. Wait a tick…. You already do.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 03:03 PM
13

Men absolutely 100% do shame women for financially depending on men. Just look at any thread on here with RP men moaning about how women don’t contribute enough to the household financially, are gold diggers, or trying to “abuse men” by relying on them to pay child support for their own children when the man up and leaves. Like I said, most young men, unless they are extremely religious, in their 20’s don’t want to even think about settling down and having a family regardless of financial status…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 08:06 PM
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I see this as nothing but a catch 22 men make for women. You say a women is most valuable when she’s young, but unless this woman was born with a silver spoon and achieves the sort of financial stability she would need to NOT have to pursue a career to support herself and her family,she would need to depend on the man for stability- which you all shame women for doing. Further more the majority of young men don’t want children OR to date a woman with a child, so there’s no guarantee he won’t aba…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 07:21 PM
1

The problem with men is that they want to see the world from strictly a black and white perspective and the world, especially attraction -which women have constantly been shouting like broken record is on a very broad spectrum- doesn’t work that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 06:52 PM
1

Something like this I consider private between me and my partner. If anyone outside my relationship asked I’d say, “fuck off, why do you need to know?” The number of your sexual partners isn’t written across your forehead so why would you need to broadcast it to the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 11:10 PM
1

This sounds like a you problem. Not a men problem. And when I say men I mean no incels who blame Chad for all their problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 09:55 PM
1

Doubt
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 09:49 PM
3

Who are these average women with if not average men? It takes both parties?! (And don’t even try the “they’re all doing the same chad” excuse. Plus you all are constantly griping about how women hate sex/don’t want sex/ aren’t having sex and now they are hooking up more than men?? Pick a lane. If men are the sex crazed ones in society that have to have it as much they need air to breathe, shouldn’t they be the ones taking birth control?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 09:39 PM
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Don’t studies show that male both control is more effective and has less side effects than female birth control. If a man doesn’t want to shoulder the responsibility of kids either while sleeping around or in an LTR why won’t he? Some women suffer such bad side effects that they simply can’t take contraception safely. They have to rely on a man always wearing a condom. And if your in an LTR and on the same page about not having children, I don’t see why the the man can’t be on it the woman not (…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 07:24 PM
9

This is a good example. Personally I don’t mind because I’ve played a fair amount of video games in my life. But for me I want a well rounded person with multiple hobbies we can bond over. Even ones that I’m not included in we can still talk about them and let him I have genuine interest in his life and hobbies. It’s really only a problem when ONE hobby takes over someone’s entire life.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 03:04 AM
1

Are we now implying that all women have to be turned on at the sight of every Tom, Dick, and Harry walking down the street in order to like sex even once? Stop. Get some help.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 08:58 PM
1

Women want sex that is fulfilling with partners they find attractive (which is a very broad and subjective spectrum). I don’t know why this is such a hard concept for this subreddit to grasp. Just because women aren’t garbage pickers doesn’t mean they hate all sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 08:50 PM
8

I’ve read a lot of delusional shit on here but this takes the cake
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 12:57 PM
4

I’ve lurked for three years and have seen far more offensive usernames on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 08:19 PM
1

So basically you got burned and now no one can have nice things. Cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 06:53 PM
34

The first time I heard the term my mind immediately went to “murder victims”
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 06:37 PM
5

So women can’t make mistakes and grow through dating and relationship experience but men can. That’s what you’re saying. And you all say double standards are something women simply…. make up!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 06:29 PM
1

When I’m dating someone and seriously invested in them, I’m staying with them. No Chad is going to pry me away from someone I see real long term potential with just to get dicked down by good ole Chad-o once.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 04:29 AM
1

I always drink my coffee black. And I’m over 6 ft tall
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 10:56 PM
5

Only on the internet
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 10:55 PM
12

He doesn’t want anyone to have nice things
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 10:24 PM
2

It’s like no man in this sub has ever heard of a prenup!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 10:22 PM
8

Seriously, if anything I know women who work part time for extra cash ON TOP of their FULL TIME jobs, AND while taking care of all the housework, AND taking care of the kids. Unless you show me a full study that the majority of women do this your claim is baseless.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 10:05 PM
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They zoom in on the .01% that paints women in an unflattering light and venomously claim that ALL women are like that what painting themselves as victims. Or, at this point, I swear most guys here are basing all their claims on that one girl who turned them down once to justify how awful women as a whole are and how hard men have it. Let’s conveniently forget that men have historically had the upper hand and the majority of the say in literally ever aspect of life. Even when you throw every stud…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 09:56 PM
2

This is starting to sound like a you problem. There exist men that are marriageable. There are men who WANT to get married. They’re also not rich. Just because YOU don’t find value in marriage doesn’t mean ALL men cant/ don’t want to get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 09:41 PM
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I bet they can’t believe that it’s easier for me to take myself out to dinner and I don’t even need to negotiate with anyone over what to eat or at what time.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 08:52 PM
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Don’t you find it weird when women do this same thing they get called out
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 08:22 PM
2

I wanted to bring up women shaving as a counter point. Body hair is natural. HOWEVER, women are typically considered more attractive when they shave/wax/laser ever follicle off of their body. We could very well walk around in our tank tops, shorts, bikinis, etc with bushes under our armpits and forests growing on our legs but generally guys don’t like that. I don’t see how that is any different from men growing their beards to look more attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 07:07 PM
5

Had a FWB that wouldn’t do full drag but would wear thigh high nylons with garter belts, high heels, eyeliner, etc. and it was hot AF. Haven’t seen him in years and still get 🥵thinking about it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 07:00 PM
1

This is probably the most accurate description of this sun. Every discussion it’s like no one wants to acknowledge that the world is a very big place and average people are still getting into relationships and going on dates everyday. Instead they make want to make excuses for how they, personally, aren’t doing well.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 02:46 PM
1

What? Relationship don’t work by flipping a coin! You need much more than luck to make something work.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 10:52 PM
1

This whole exchange proves that this sub needs more input from people in successful relationships than the continued doom and gloom “life of too hard cuz you gotta be tall, six figures, six-pack abs, blah blah” circle jerk.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 10:31 PM
2

Haven’t we reached this same conclusion 10 billion times already?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 10:23 PM
-1

Is that 1-2 Total? Or 1-2 “high value” women with a sprinkle of x number of “low value women” inbetween? In my observations men tend to purposely leave out “low quality women” from their body count, which obviously makes it lower, than whine about how NO ONE with sleep with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 01:08 AM
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I’m the same. The face is the most important. After that I’m ok with the majority of body types. As long as they aren’t medically worrying obese or manorexic because I’d prefer my partner to live as long as me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 08:58 PM
1

The men will also say that you need to get a six pack because some how abs magically improve everything…. Even though realistically you will be in the same place with the abs.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 08:17 PM
0

What do you consider rare? A date/sex every week? Every two weeks? That sounds average to me considering that the average person has interests and responsibilities that would keep them busy outside of getting their next lay. Or Do you believe the average man/woman has sex with a new partner every night? If not their unsuccessful? Pick a narrative. Either guys are getting an average amount of sex and are big bad about it because they aren’t some dream version of themselves they have in their head…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 07:51 PM
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Lmao, I don’t believe for a second that a dude who’s 6-9 would give a women who’s a 5 the time of day when he could get better. And drunken ONS don’t count unless you also want to count the women who are legit 10s who have ONS with dogfaced men who are 4s. Which I doubt you would because it goes against your narrative. You all are making pussys sound like mystical unicorns that control the minds of men. They don’t. A woman who’s a 5 is gonna get a man who’s 1-5 just like a man who’s a 5 with get…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 05:53 PM
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Though can’t it be both ways? Can’t a man also want a committed relationship with someone he can have sex with (because why would you want one with someone you find repulsive). And can’t women also have sex with someone who also wants a committed relationship with her? You making it sound like they’re both mutually exclusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 05:29 PM
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Dude, in your last paragraph you’re explicitly implying that you’re basing your observations on thirst trap accounts. Those aren’t real. Those girls aren’t real. They are purposely putting on a unrealistic persona AS THEIR JOB. Their job is literally to be too hot for any man to get. That’s the fantasy of instathots- the unattainability. Real people in the real world (off the internet) don’t pull that shit because they are looking for genuine human connection.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 05:22 PM
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Are you saying that men don’t want committed relationships? And that women are willing to commit to long term relationships with men they aren’t sexually attracted to? I want to see cold hard facts with at least three vetted resources please.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 05:14 PM
3

If you really listen to these men they actually have decent luck with women. They do go on dates. They do get a fair amount of sex. But these women aren’t the instathots they slobber over on the internet, so those women they take on dates don’t count. They aren’t “high value.” Those women are below them. Those are just to fulfill their need for sex because the model they DM on the gram every day never replies. The models are who they believe they deserve to be with but since they aren’t getting …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 04:40 PM
3

Transactional relationships are taboo? WHEN?! The majority of this sub believes ALL relationships are nothing but transactional.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 09:00 PM
1

How many dudes out there deny being red pill while ironically throwing out mad red pill energy?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 07:37 PM
6

Had a guy come up to me with a flower and after polite small talk said, “I was thinking of giving you this flower but I decided I want to keep it.”
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 09:30 PM
8

If reading the room was simple this subreddit wouldn’t even exist because we’d have nothing to debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 04:45 PM
1

I dumped a guy because of it. He was giving off hints of being an incel/ misogynistic red piller, but his posts on here were down right abusive. 100% sure he got a site wide ban because of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 01:27 AM
3

According to the men of this sub women never have any issues dating and get every man she could ever want so idk why this is even a question.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 04:35 PM
1

TL;DR: men as a group have historically set the standards for what society considers “masculine” and get big mad at women when they, as individuals, don’t meet those standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 04:55 PM
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Are you seriously trying to tell me that women don’t care about personality, intelligence, charisma, etc. and sit around all day fretting over whether they can find an 8 foot giant or not? Get the fuck out of here.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 02:24 AM
3

You keep telling yourself that. I personally know many very attractive women who get passed up by guys they’re interested in. But keep pushing your narrative that women never have issues with dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 12:17 AM
4

Theoretically if an ugly woman can get a date why can’t an ugly man. I’ve seen tons of ugly dudes with decent looking girlfriends. Stop trying to make it sound like this never happens. Lol, you literally proved my point for me! You just said it yourself: average/below average men are fucking women, albeit unattractive ones. So average/below average dudes ARE having /capable of finding sex unlike how this sub likes to make it sound like it’s impossible for them to do so. But is it because she’s a…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 11:55 PM
3

You seriously think that a disgusting, morbidity obese woman is having more sex than the average man? Who is fucking these women then? It certainly isn’t Chad Thundercock.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 09:17 PM
3

You’re basing everything too much on shallow attributes and that will set you to be stuck in a perpetual doom cycle. You should be looking at these men’s attitudes, how they treat themselves and others, what kind of skills they have and how they use them to create the success they have, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 08:50 PM
7

It’s like men can’t fathom that women also get a huge about of matches not engaging with them. The matches maybe high but the inbox is dead.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 07:02 PM
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Though most women ARE looking for LTR which is the issue most women have. They’d be wasting their time on a guy who just wants a one time hook up. And how are men Locked out of the dating market?? Unless they intentionally lock themselves out. That’s completely absurd and makes a bigger case for how men simply want to stay shut up in their echo chamber of self pity. If fat, pimply, blue haired, rad-femme hasn’t bathed in two weeks Betty can get a date (which by this thread’s logic she can get a …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 06:43 PM
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And if online are we talking about quality matches where you make an effort to get to know the other person or how guys haphazardly swipe right on any woman including ones they would immediately turn down IRL.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 06:25 PM
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If said woman is a fitness model with every filler known to mankind injected in her face, sure. For the average woman (which this sub has an insanely over exaggerated opinion on what average is) she is not going to get 35 new guys simping over her everywhere she goes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 06:15 PM
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If the thread earlier about what men prefer in women proves anything, it’s that men are just as picky as women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 04:17 PM
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Wow, guys really want to have their pity party crying about how every woman, whether she’s an 8 or a dog faced 2, has her inbox constantly overflowing with thirsty messages. Hate to bring you down to earth but the 80/20 rule definitely applies for women too.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 04:14 PM
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You described someone I know personally to a T and it’s scaring me. Just add the part where women are constantly confused or crazy and need to be told how wrong they are because he is the very epitome of perfect logic and morality. He is never the problem. He is perfect.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 09:41 PM
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WHO??? Don’t we shame men who prefer fat women to skinny ones? Has that not been the butt of a million jokes throughout human history?? Am I going crazy??
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 08:58 PM
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Right? Look at that sex-privilege showing!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 10:14 PM
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Did you read what I said? Women are and want to be paying for dates but men are for some reason against that because, “it’s muh duty.” When no one said it was.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 07:19 PM
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They do which is why the dudes here contradict themselves so much. They go on about how women take advantage of them financially, but when meeting women who are more than willing to pay for dates, they (even the dudes who boast about wanting equality too) get all angry and insist that “it’s the man’s job to pay.” Ok guys, what do you want? Equality isn’t a one way street.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 05:51 PM
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But the dudes here don’t want to pay for a chicks dinner or anything else for her either! Make it make sense!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 05:08 PM
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I feel like it’s all over the place. I generally like anything form Joseph Heller, Tom Robbins, Haruki Murakami, Chuck Palanuik or Steinbeck
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 07:32 PM
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Need good book recs so I don’t rot my brain or let social media reduce my attention span to that of a golden retriever.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 06:24 PM
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Tinder is by far the worst offender. I’ve seen three word profiles.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 06:22 PM
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Funny how ya’ll get so uptight if anyone mentions the mere SUGGESTION that men should be responsible for their own actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 02:31 AM
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You say in a subreddit where everyone plays like blame game like it’s an Olympic sport.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 02:27 AM
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Sharing is caring
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 10:57 PM
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Guess we’re going to ignore married men who walk out on their marriages. Life ain’t black and white.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 10:52 PM
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They just need to wait until they hit 50 or 60. Then those 40 year olds are gonna start to look mighty hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 10:37 PM
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But the purity of the blood line?!?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 10:34 PM
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Except men skip out on child support all the time. Besides, they were the ones the decided to nut in some chick instead of pulling out. That should come with just as many consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 09:53 PM
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Then explain why it’s WOMEN who want more easy access to birth control/ abortions and it’s MEN who are trying to take these things away from them??
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 08:51 PM
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Exactly. Makes cheating easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 07:05 PM
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The imaginary ones don’t count ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 05:15 PM
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Anyone who doesn’t believe this has never seen the majority of dudes on dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 04:20 PM
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Spoken like someone who’s never even had a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 04:14 PM
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Instead of blaming the woman who dedicated her life to raising those men, why aren’t you holding the men who ran out accountable? If men become criminals due to absentee fathers it’s the absentee fathers who are at blame- not the mother who actually stayed and took on the responsibility of being a parent.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 02:21 PM
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Lmfao! Good luck being alone then! If your standards are so sky high a living breathing person can’t live up to them that ain’t my problem. But hey, if you get to tired of your left hand you could always marry a Vocaloid plush like dudes in Japan do. So maybe there’s a little hope for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 03:30 AM
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This statement is so black pill it’s blacker that the blackest black times infinity. I can’t even take that statement seriously. That’s how fucking absurd you sound.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 03:22 AM
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PPD drinking game: take a shot everytime you come across a double standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 11:01 PM
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Most of the men in this sub will proudly boast about how they will throw out a girl like yesterday’s news as soon as she sleeps with him cuz “lol, got what I came for” and wonder why women make them wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 10:09 PM
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I don’t even think this sub likes women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 09:11 PM
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The version of self improvement these days seems to be limited to “get a six pack” and if women aren’t throwing themselves at their feet it’s the world that has a problem since apparently a set of steel abs makes you perfect. But truth be told, a six pack will not fix the mental and emotional damage these guys are toting. I wish these men would realize real improvement starts on the inside and THEN works it’s way out.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 06:19 PM
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She’s the heart and soul of this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 06:08 PM
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