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-4

Lmao damn dude, I wrote that with sincerity. I've been working on holding frame even when challenged. Careful not to project you're own whiney bitchness onto other son.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/15 04:22 AM
-16

Perhaps unicorn was too strong a term then. Good girl though.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/15 09:28 PM
-5

Women aren't the little angels they're made out to be. Horses though sounds bitter.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/15 09:24 PM
-2

Just me. Go ahead and tell me she's gonna cheat on me down the line. I'm not in denial to that possibility.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/15 09:22 PM
-13

Yeah it wasn't so much other shit, like what's for dinner, she would just talk and talk and seem unfocused. I worded that badly.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/15 09:21 PM
-11

I'm not rich, but I think I had some RP in me after some hard lessons from my first girl.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/15 09:20 PM
-6

Good advice, I've always got the idea that everything can go to shit in a minute in my head. It keeps me motivated to improve myself actually, and it indirectly shows her I don't need her, I just want her.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/15 09:19 PM
-7

I've realized all things go sooner or later at some point, I've accepted this.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/15 09:18 PM
-16

That's cool, take me down a peg if you feel the need. My intention was to show no matter how good the girl, RP still is nessecary. I've actually been sleeping with her for four years, commited to her for the past two.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/15 09:17 PM
-59

No, she's mine until further notice.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/15 09:16 PM
-1

Absolutely, I'm only going up from now on.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/15 09:15 PM
8

My friends give me shit in front of my girl sometimes. They are insecure and like someone else said, crabs in a bucket. I've learned to recognize it so much that I can spot an insult coming a mile away. This takes away a lot of it's ability to hurt me, much like a cliche joke you see coming a mile away doesn't really make you laugh. Example: Me, some friends and my girl are chillin. One friend talks about meeting up with one of his buddies from school. He says "You probably know him, you were at…
/r/askTRP23/08/15 04:00 PM
2

I can't speak for the military, but college is awesome and will give you ALOT more freedom to experiment, have fun, get an education. Just be smart about it. IMO self-imposed discipline and growth trumps the rigidity of the military, though you can't deny the military would be useful. Idk, my 2 cents. Depends what you are looking for.
/r/askTRP22/08/15 04:38 AM
9

Just do it man? I think you are thinking too much. Don't conform, but dress nice and seem proffesional, or something. If a frat doesn't accept you for being asian then you don't want any part of them anyway. That's RP. Conforming is BP.
/r/askTRP22/08/15 04:34 AM
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Was hard for me to understand those texts tbh, but after she said "sounds like you got some sexy plans" I would've said something like: "Well i had sexy plans with you but if not I can find somethin else to do" If she still says no, find something else to do. Of course I'm new at this, so any vets feel free to shoot this shit down if it's no good.
/r/askTRP21/08/15 05:34 PM
1

Which is what I did with my current girlfriend for about a year before I commited. After a while though I realized this girl was a real diamond in the rough, tough being slutty, alchoholic sorority girls who kind of disgust me now.
/r/askTRP21/08/15 05:29 PM
1

This: When I took up jiu jitsu and stepped WAAAAYY outside of my comfort zone from hiding in my room gaming to going out and training with dozens of people in a fairly dangerous sport, my confidence skyrocketed. However, these experiences only bleed over in a limited way. You could be a champ in the ring and still afraid to talk to girls.
/r/askTRP21/08/15 05:26 PM
1

Well I actually did that to a girl once when I was a kid. Had a girl in my bed and just felt her up/teased her the whole night. I wanted it, but she had a bf that I kind of knew and couldn't bring myself to fuck her. Of course it ruined the relationship anyway, but since that day that girl STILL hits me up randomly, boyfriend or not.
/r/askTRP21/08/15 05:21 PM
2

While I agree one shouldn't seek the comfort of their girlfriends like one would seek the comfort of their mothers, I personally think it's ok to confide in a girl in an LTR. If it's seriously long term and there's too much hiding of emotions from her...well what's the point? IMO if a bitch doesn't respect that I can have feelings too then she can take a hike. Maybe you talking about your daddy problems isnt a huge turn on...but at the same time I have a hard time staying in the moment sexually …
/r/TheRedPill20/08/15 03:43 AM
3

Not really, I don't feel very weak. I'm in really good shape actually and I box. But even with someone who's 5'9 i have to look up at them. I would kill to be 5'9 dude, literally. My weakness is more mental, I'm insecure, and I'm insecure because I'm basically a runt.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 06:24 AM
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Yeah that's the key phrase here, "awkwardly short." I do feel like a miniature man in a lot of situations, as painful as it is to type that out. It makes going to bars and shit...not fun. Like the other night I met up with a friend and his friends, all literally fucking 5'9-6'1, and I just felt akward breaking into their circle and having to talk up to them. Ugh man, shitty hand to be delt with. I'm gonna stop now before I get too personal haha. Thanks for the input.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 06:18 AM
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I appreciate that man, thanks
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 06:13 AM
4

I feel like I shouldn't have to say this, but "punching" girls is what you might call "breaking frame" aka losing your shit aka being influenced by words to the point of violence. Don't do that.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 04:49 AM
1

This summer since swallowing TRP I have been lifting 3x a week, boxing 2x a week, doing a ALOT of reading about RP stuff (in book form mostly) and have just been trying to expand my confidence and comfort zone in general. Based on her attitude and behavior towards me lately, id say it's working.
/r/askTRP17/08/15 02:41 PM
2

I trust her, but I am a bit insecure to be honest.
/r/askTRP17/08/15 04:23 AM
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Thank you man for the thorough answer, this is what I was leaning towards. I do trust her, she hasn't given me reason not to. I like what you said about the testing part. I'm getting better at adopting an abundance mentality, especially since improving myself, I just get caught up sometimes. Losing her would hurt, but I understand that it would only mean it wasn't meant to be. I guess I just worry she's going to be upset with me and maybe be a little more flirty than usual...but the same princip…
/r/askTRP17/08/15 03:56 AM
1

Werd I got you, but for all I know her co-workers could be a bunch of Chads. I know at least they're not losers, just average guys, some possible Chads in there, plus any friends that go.
/r/askTRP16/08/15 09:13 PM
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5'3
/r/MarriedRedPill16/08/15 07:37 PM
1

Seriously, RP is great and is helping me man up in my relationship, but a lot of advice I've found is too extreme for an LTR which must be handled a bit more delicately.
/r/askTRP15/08/15 04:11 AM
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This, I hate to call em total betas because from what you all described about good guy friends, these guys can be good for me in some ways. I've decided I'm going to make more of an effort to see them. But it's the constant shit sent in my direction that keeps me from reconnecting. I guess it's nessecary, I ditched them a bit, but now when I'm around I'm the punching bag of the group. And no, i don't like my girl around when that's almost half my night, honestly. i do like the iron sharpens iron…
/r/askTRP11/08/15 05:25 PM
2

So if a dude annoys you at lets say the supermarket, how do you make him do push-ups?
/r/askTRP25/07/15 02:00 AM
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Word, solid advice thanks. I know this might sound ridiculous to a lot of you, but even hearing that helps me let it go. I'm really on the right track right now, feelin damn good about life. Just a few hang ups from the past poppin up.
/r/askTRP23/07/15 03:22 AM
1

Just being honest, it still bugs me yeah
/r/askTRP22/07/15 04:02 PM
1

When I was 16 I asked a girl out by telling her she had the most beautiful eyes I've ever seen, in front of like 6 other people my age who I heard snickering behind me. Took me all night to work up the balls to tell her that...got her number, obviously didn't go anywhere. She was way outta my league anyway.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/15 01:36 PM
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She's living with me for the summer and doesn't have any friends of her own. She understands the need for "guy time" and knows when to hang back, but I don't always like to leave her all alone.
/r/askTRP20/07/15 04:31 AM
1

What does the rubber band do exactly?
/r/askTRP14/07/15 04:07 AM
1

So how do I go from being a "sponge" or someone who's easily swayed by other's words to a "stone", or a someone unaffected by shit tests?
/r/askTRP14/07/15 02:38 AM
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