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Not at all. You will be the designated driver if needed. Sometimes alcohol can create unnecessary issues. Not all see this. I suppose it depends on how much one drinks.
/r/seduction29/12/21 03:28 PM
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I wanted to ask this very question. Is it ok to openly flirt with another person while your SO is right there?? Have we lost all sense of boundaries? Frankly it’s a painful situation that just raises more questions.
/r/seduction06/11/21 09:54 PM
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This! Work it! 😂🥳😃It’s part confidence, attitude, and conversing! All things necessary to engage!
/r/seduction25/10/21 02:23 AM
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Keep in mind, there is plenty of proof written that ex’s will come back and it might be 20 or 40 years later! That I’ve lived. Are they truly available, playing a game or anything else… well that is for OP and anyone dealing with this kind of situation to figure out. At times there is growth on both sides and a better connection. OP needs to follow his heart as this is his story and any regrets would only be his. Good Luck!
/r/seduction23/10/21 12:11 AM
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Sometimes the one thing we want that gets taken away, we seem to want more. There is such a thing as “attachment style”. It was a rude awakening for me to discover my own. It’s important to know oneself and understand even in friendships some people trigger emotions inside we wish didn’t happen. Just another approach of looking at loss of a relationship.
/r/seduction15/10/21 05:36 PM
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Agreed… there are many interesting choices for either free or less expensive dates. I appreciate your thoughts on approaching. If she backs off a bit, maybe he will see her as a friend and move from there. If it’s “just sex” for her, well there are others. Boundaries are important and he spoke his it seems.
/r/seduction11/10/21 02:43 PM
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Meetups.com Groups of things that you enjoy doing! One connection can lead you to “the one” Volunteer work also and you will feel Great!
/r/seduction10/10/21 01:58 PM
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This type of herpes…. Is usually more prominent in someone’s life when they have a lot of stress, lack of sleep, or dealing with multiple issues. While it’s contagious, there is nothing to be ashamed of here. This passes through families sometimes. An innocent kiss and you’ve shared it. You might meet someone who also has it…. Your sexual activity- probably best on a “need to know” basis. Let’s face it, we all have done things! Cheer up!
/r/seduction06/10/21 12:35 AM
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What do you like?
/r/seduction05/10/21 03:54 PM
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Absolutely! 😊
/r/seduction05/10/21 03:54 PM
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Well thank you I think? Are you suggesting ménage a trois? 🥳 Uhm… if so, yep that’s a definite surprise Lol
/r/seduction02/10/21 06:57 AM
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True! Anyone interested in you, will chase you. Watch! I have chased. For women it’s a bit different as we are used to being chased. It’s primal and very much seductive. If interested we will allow ourselves to be caught and if not interested well you will know. It does feel a bit unnatural for me as a female to chase but when interested, I’am going for my objective.
/r/seduction30/09/21 10:12 AM
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Wow!! Love is powerful and while in “it” euphoric! So yes this!! Giving of oneself to another is something that always gives back!
/r/seduction30/09/21 10:00 AM
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Awe…. There is always something interesting to ALL of us and there is another that sees it too! Whatever you enjoy doing in your free time, practice excelling there first… find your passion. You will be happier for this and life will continue to move your way. 😊
/r/seduction27/09/21 02:24 AM
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I replied back to share that I received his note, that I was already in a relationship. You would have needed to have read the note! I have a blocked number. I did in fact share this with the man I’am seeing. I even shared a copy of the note. He had no problem with any of it! After rereading the note, and clearly texting with the man, he was looking for a “hookup”. Interesting enough is that “people” determine the chains they put upon themselves. I’am free and no relationship holds me down from …
/r/seduction25/09/21 11:36 AM
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Oh I agreed with you… I noted the reasons this was not for me. The whole post is to hopefully share that this type of approach could work.
/r/seduction24/09/21 06:21 AM
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That’s kinda funny…. I’am in no way trying to be hurtful either. Yes… it’s challenging at times I agree! The best thoughts are affirmations you give yourself as you approach… you succeeded!!! Now what will the outcome look like? Sometimes you fall so hard for someone you just can’t help yourself… even you are amazed at you! 😊
/r/seduction24/09/21 02:32 AM
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There is something about a “full moon” that sometimes brings out “crazy”. Google the topic… the fact that it also happened to be the first day of fall… that just happened to be a coincidence that I personally mentioned. Probably because I happen to watch for season changes on the calendar. Somethings are more important to some people than others. We have four seasons where I live.
/r/seduction24/09/21 02:23 AM
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Totally understand your point. I grew up exchanging notes in school… still have some… a paper pack rat 😆
/r/seduction23/09/21 06:08 PM
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Here’s another thought… you only get one time to make a first impression on someone. If that’s a love interest that ends up being many years… it’s all been worth it!! Seduction is an art!! Enjoyed by a few of us 😉
/r/seduction23/09/21 06:02 PM
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You’re killing me lol Love you men!! ❤️
/r/seduction23/09/21 02:19 PM
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What pictures are you requesting lol
/r/seduction23/09/21 02:11 PM
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My thought is that it’s a “cold approach” if he had remained respectful well.. not with me but there is another example where this “move” was effective in this thread. So “having game” is anyone’s interpretation … basically if you succeed to your objective is the thought here.
/r/seduction23/09/21 02:04 PM
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Good for you! I thought the approach was witty and I was flattered. It’s the texting afterwards that he did and that I’am involved that set this to a no thank you! Thanks for sharing!
/r/seduction23/09/21 12:11 PM
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It’s quite interesting that you mention Ted Buddy….the man I’am dating bunked with Ted before his… well let’s say “habits began” After the texting… it was not appreciated! I nice note is “hey your cute”…. The next line should not be… I’ve got eight inches and…. Would you like a picture? I assured I had lived my whole life without and was doing Great! That I felt sorry for my daughters! No sorry. Done!
/r/seduction23/09/21 12:04 PM
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True! And he might just think that his age and what he thinks is mine… are enough to qualify interest? It’s difficult to say! I rarely mix words. I immediately explained when he started where he did…. Which was at a “hookup conversation” that he assumed I was “in need of something?” Lol He backed down to explain a few things… of course I too explained two things… sorry but they are 38 and 41 yo daughters… lol and that I chased older men my whole life…. I get it! I advised… I’am not your teacher……
/r/seduction23/09/21 11:57 AM
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I had to take my lunch back inside because I thought he might be watching… after texting with him it appears that he is “open” for contact but I’ve advised that I won’t be…
/r/seduction23/09/21 11:46 AM
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Why did you consider it desperate? It’s a “cold approach” ? Just not done? It actually has happened twice to me this year now. Is that crazy? Two different men, same parking lot. Though the first man was face to face first and then left the note.
/r/seduction23/09/21 11:41 AM
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Shout it to the roof tops! 😊Women have been put in a “masculine” routine and it gets old! Testosterone around that takes charge is wonderful. Of course you understand that I’am speaking of agreeable situations.
/r/seduction22/09/21 02:56 AM
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Ok…. please share lol 😂
/r/seduction21/09/21 04:11 PM
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Here’s an option start your Food Truck event with telling her that it’s going to be a “shared event” She will be puzzled and then explain that every other Food Truck purchase is on her. If she’s against this idea… consider making her have space between you and the “friendship” you are in?
/r/seduction21/09/21 04:05 PM
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I had to look up your reply lol. I’am not familiar with the term? My update is that we are talking and as Venus and Mars go… so too do we. Misunderstandings will occur and better communication will be used to hopefully avoid either of us getting blind-sighted. What’s in store remains to be seen. Optimism is the way I lead.
/r/seduction21/09/21 01:50 PM
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Actually I’am always first impressed by the mind. It’s just the way I’am hard wired. A persons’ personality, sense of humor those are very important to me. Grab me with some quick wit and we are talking!
/r/seduction04/09/21 10:03 PM
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Show up and see what comes up 😎
/r/seduction28/08/21 06:29 PM
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I have read a book to my male friend before and the book has many ideas in it. There are over 200 plus ideas. Get a book and chose your poison via his choice/your choice at different times and play! Meet at a bar/restaurant and pick the other one up? Seduction begins in the mind first for most. Watch one of many movies that will turn you both on… Nine 1/2 Weeks might be a good one… Communication is key!
/r/seduction27/08/21 11:32 PM
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My whole life “older men always”. One year, ten years or May/ December situation (if you understand) it’s a preference!! Men like breasts, legs, tush, blondes, red heads or brunettes… see where this is going? You are drawn to something naturally that’s all. Now here’s something new… as I’ve gotten older… I’ve considered the above. Life will always change and that’s the blessing here!
/r/seduction26/08/21 01:10 PM
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Well as commonly mentioned, the statement of what you want to say is definitely going to need thought about your intended receiver. Keep in mind… being seductive, “ as you are stating”doesn’t always imply a long term situation to unfold. So there’s that too… how well you like someone and how you first approached that person will never be repeated. Sooo if you desire short term… step back…. just in case there is a slap coming at you for your comments lol
/r/seduction24/08/21 11:25 PM
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She missed the chase… just a guess… women are all different.. she’s still young and may not know herself yet. Been there myself. Follow your heart and guard it while you are at it!
/r/seduction23/08/21 07:57 PM
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I’am curious about that statement? If a relationship ends… why is it necessary to block anyone unless there is abuse? You describe something that I’ve never considered as an emotion…. to block someone because you have “feelings for them” Would you elaborate? I frankly think leaving a door open is always better. Just me.
/r/seduction23/08/21 07:52 PM
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FYI: this situation has been unchanged for many years and likely will continue. What is not being said here is this… when men/women stop talking, complimenting you…. How men/woman feel about that!! Take each moment for what it is! That is a human you are talking with and hopefully they are being respectful and like manners should be the same. Women pursue men too!
/r/seduction22/08/21 10:29 PM
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Smiling 🙂 Love your handle 🤣 You guys most often make my day here 🥳
/r/seduction17/08/21 08:03 PM
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This is exactly why I read this thread…. Understandably r/seduction appears to be headed up by the males but keep in mind…Venus and Mars is being taught by males all of the time. Please remember to be respectful! If this were all women posting…. Would you be interested in reading? Just curious??
/r/seduction13/08/21 12:50 AM
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Oh wow!! I’am not your age… however I felt a need to reply! Your situation is mine with a an only our experience is online, FaceTime and phone calls due to distance. A lot of connection can happen this way! Don’t underestimate yourself! Don’t think upping the “moves” is always best either! That’s a case by case or woman by woman situation. Relationships are complicated and maybe she’s not for you this week, maybe something is unfolding and she’s not sharing it?? If you really like her… just step…
/r/seduction13/08/21 12:39 AM
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I was excited to see the topic but not for where it has gone. I enjoy my male friends. No gifts and never expectations!! She will learn…. My interest was how men felt when the situation is described as I’am explaining it. Nothing sexual is happening. If you were dating someone in the same scenario would this present an issue for you?
/r/seduction31/07/21 07:47 PM
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I will approach the man as well…I smile, I flirt, I make a comment 😊Body language is important!! Hope this helps!
/r/seduction30/07/21 01:51 PM
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This!! So true!! I was approached at my job by a man and he was inviting, fun, inquisitive and of course flirty. He asked for my number and yes crazy me gave it…. Two weeks later he text me. We’ve met for breakfast and we text and talked. What’s next? The idea should be that if they aren’t interested… hopefully it’s with kindness you will find out!! Experience will definitely build inner strength.
/r/seduction10/07/21 07:57 AM
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Your mind will control all of your dreams, aspirations and goals!! If you only realize that what you desire might not happen over night or next week. Hope is incredible and giving off a sense of well being is magmatic to most people! Smile and be happy others will wonder what you are thinking about, what makes you this way and possibly ask! Life is a “State of Mind” Choose yours!! Good Luck! You’ve got this 😊
/r/seduction08/07/21 01:53 PM
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I’ve read an article about holding your lovers gaze for four minutes to help establish a powerful connection. So yes, this is huge!! I often start here and I’am highly sexual. The men that don’t figure this out … well it’s all a part of seduction and trust me less is more where I’ve been. You must observe… I’am quite visual as well… have read many a book on seduction. It’s about chemistry and finding the “right” connection!
/r/seduction30/06/21 03:28 PM
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You’ve got that right!! In fact as a woman who has walked away from two marriages due to control and abuse issues… now owning my own lifestyle which is less monetarily due to not being college educated or in the workplace for many years… well let me explain it this way, I’am not for sale, won’t settle for another situation that compromises my morals or independence because they happen to make more money than me! Single life has many benefits and owning who you are and who you aren’t is HUGE! Sti…
/r/seduction29/06/21 07:43 AM
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I’am sorry but reading this made me sad. Trying to lay every woman… So many ways I wanted to reply. Hopefully you’ve grown from what you’ve stated and realize that physical and mental health are both important factors in relationships period! If only there was a way to connect “players with players”… unfortunately those of us seeking “truth” often have a forest to travel through!
/r/seduction27/06/21 02:28 PM
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Awesome explanation! I would dance to that.. well with the “right” partner of course!
/r/seduction20/06/21 03:19 PM
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Everyone is hitting the park! 🥳Yea!! Take a hike around the area to explore of course! Make sure to continue good eye contact when possible. The Bluetooth speaker sounds awesome!Music makes the world go around! It’s quite calming...just know you don’t have to have it all planned out!Sometimes life happens while you are living it! You may find an inspiration along the way that “feels” perfect! Good luck... 🍀
/r/seduction04/06/21 12:44 AM
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If someone tells me they like something about my clothes, maybe the outfit or just one piece.Saying you are beautiful, cute or pretty whichever is your choice... will also be a boost for her! You could also offer that when they are done/free that you are available for small talk, juice, whatever is available... for your situation! Learning to think a step ahead will place you in “The Hero” spot and it’s a wonderful spot to be in! Good Luck Pilgrim 😊
/r/seduction26/05/21 09:59 AM
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Think again...
/r/seduction24/05/21 07:49 AM
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You are saying a mouthful here! In all honesty the men I’am usually with meet me in my mind and it has very little to do with how attractive they are. Make me laugh, be warm, kind, complimentary and you can go very far real quick... it doesn’t mean I’am jumping in bed but you are building a relationship with me.
/r/seduction24/05/21 07:48 AM
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Offering my two cents from a woman: if I initiate contact then I would like a conversation please! A small or short text back is you wasting both of our time. Take the moment and see where it goes... there could me a million reasons the first date didn’t happen. Put that behind you and move forward... I’am actually sitting in that spot right now! First date got canceled suddenly and no second one set up but the guy says “we are good”. Well with me actions are my words so time will tell for me. Y…
/r/seduction22/05/21 04:01 PM
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Sags are truly Awesome people 😊 Seek them myself!! I was going to comment as a female all of the items mentioned can work both ways 😎 We are all people hopefully trying to make an honest human connection! Be kind!
/r/seduction17/05/21 09:47 AM
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Wealth is what Shakespeare was implying. So it could be used now to be construed as whatever you go after you can attain. I hope this helps! Any time I am searching for an answer I find Google to answer most if not there Quora is also helpful.
/r/seduction13/05/21 12:29 PM
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It’s a common Shakespeare saying! 😊Many poets, authors and philosophers have placed throughout time “famous sayings”. Reading is your best friend! I hope you like reading! 😊
/r/seduction13/05/21 10:33 AM
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Here’s a odd thought... in Retail we are taught to say “Hello” to any customer within five feet of us. Maybe just start thinking “The World is your Oyster”! I truly like your willingness to think outside of the box! Keep it up and don’t just look for cute girls. That little old lady has a cute granddaughter and so on. The fact that you are an awesome and genuine person means they want you to meet people they know!
/r/seduction13/05/21 08:13 AM
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Awesome decision for your self confidence! Now you can find another that can see your magnificent self! Dating Coaches advise to date with “Abundance”. It took me a while to grasp the whole thought process but it honestly is the best process! It also helped to establish that letting go of a dream that could never be was the best decision for me! I’am learning new ways to date in a new world and highly recommend all of the free advice others offer until you get what you want! Self respect is impo…
/r/seduction11/05/21 06:58 AM
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From a woman’s prospective just know that I wondered the exact same thing! So after about a year after I had dated one man I did wonder why we had stopped. Was it because I had pushed him away? So I asked. He replied... that he had been heartbroken earlier a few months and simply not ready to move forward. Most recently on a blind date, I also wanted feed back. The very same information was given back. This man realized he was not yet over his previous relationship and therefore not ready to ent…
/r/seduction10/05/21 05:25 AM
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Please approach! The worse thing that can happen is you find out she’s already in a relationship, but hey maybe she has a friend! It actually works both ways. Women wonder if they should approach men, and will they also be made vulnerable in those few moments that they reach out. If only there was a clear cut way?! Timing is often everything!! What two people are looking for, wiling to share, it’s anyone’s guess and no one’s business but those two! Been here before and likely to be again. I’am i…
/r/seduction05/05/21 01:38 PM
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Please!! Not every woman wants to be “courted” as you described! The art of seduction is just that. An Actual Art!! Different for each Woman! Man! We are NOT that cut and dry!
/r/seduction01/04/21 05:22 AM
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This topic strikes a nerve. I’ve walked this road with a man that had the grace to tell me when I said “I had been a fool “ that he didn’t know any!! Please understand how that made me feel!! Our friendship remained intact and my self esteem did as well!
/r/seduction18/03/21 05:00 AM
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I don’t know the study but recently had this situation and can relate to the effects. Yes it did work that way. As I gave. I always give. Usually it’s well received. This time my heart is in my hand broken. Men have to invest period! I’ve learnt my lesson!
/r/seduction17/03/21 07:36 PM
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That works both ways 😊
/r/seduction17/03/21 07:30 PM
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If you think you are talking to someone not “true enough “ get the hell out!! Present day or forty years ago... BS is still BS and it is a waste of time!
/r/seduction13/03/21 11:21 AM
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Love the comment! You attract what you are
/r/seduction13/03/21 11:11 AM
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I work in Retail and generally speak to every customer within five feet of me. I’am more friendly than others true. Outside of my job it’s a bit different. I’am not trying to meet, or be picked up so my radar is very low. You might have to talk to me. Just sayin 😊
/r/seduction23/02/21 11:09 PM
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