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| 120 | Was invited to a New Years party last night and knew no one besides the girl I had a crush on. "JUST FUCKING GO". I went and learned my biggest lesson for 2016. | LeeLuaP | /r/seduction | 02/01/16 03:33 AM |
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| 1 | Women are uncomfortable around me, what do I do?Ask people you trust (not your parents or relatives) if they genuinely think something about you is “creepy”. | /r/seduction | 12/11/18 12:02 AM |
| 2 | Killing Your Ego: The #1 Trick To Solve Your Approach AnxietyThis was very beautifully written. | /r/seduction | 30/10/18 08:18 AM |
| 1 | The amount of Instagram follower whores on Tinder is one too manyMaybe it's to check for social status. If your ig shows a ton of social proof, then that might be a conversation starter or shit test for you to see if you're the real deal. Shallow, but it can separate high status from low status | /r/seduction | 25/02/18 06:10 PM |
| 23 | Seduce her with your eyes!No, read it again | /r/seduction | 25/02/18 06:07 PM |
| 31 | Models by Mark Manson, full audiobook narrated by the authorDefinitely a great one. I recommend his copy of "The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck" Truly a masterpiece. | /r/seduction | 14/03/17 12:55 AM |
| 5 | Anyone tell me why women are typically alot less nervous in the attraction phase between a girl and a guy? Are they really just better at controlling their emotions than men or is there something more involved?This might not be as true as you think. What I've tend to notice is that girls in general are A LOT more anxious/self-conscious. Very attractive women are typically very conscious about their looks, more so than guys. So once their looks are blemished, then their sense of beauty/identity is damaged. Also very attractive women are needier than you think. Once you stop giving them so much damn validation (like 99% of men), they start to question why they are not getting validation from you. | /r/seduction | 26/01/17 09:16 AM |
| 7 | Text I got from my friend that's been making me think, hope it helps some of you as wellWrong mindset. Girls shouldn't be chased as a way to satisfy your ego. Your mindset should be "I like me; I'll be fine either way". Girls come naturally if you're a fucking awesome guy. btw, "awesome guy" has the meaning that you give it. | /r/seduction | 18/01/17 09:43 AM |
| -3 | How To SEXUALISE Your Conversations With WomenWould love to read the book! | /r/seduction | 21/07/16 04:31 PM |
| 1 | Where are seddit's LONE WOlVES? You know who you are.Most of the time, I do have one of my close friends who I wing with but I typically go to parties alone. I'm a lonewolf in everything. | /r/seduction | 21/04/16 06:46 PM |
| 3 | Stop Acting Aloof Around GirlsI only saw the post title of this post before work and applied it all throughout day with my co-worker and I. Instead of acting aloof and uninterested like I usually do, I initiated conversation first, locked eyes and engaged her, and it fucking worked. I dropped her off afterwards, because she wanted me too, and she was joking how "nasty" i was for drinking slightly expired milk. Then she threw in the comment, "I bet the girls you kissing don't know that" or something like that. Holy shit, she … | /r/seduction | 20/04/16 03:47 AM |
| 1 | I transformed my entire life in 7 months. Here's my story so far. Thanks for everything /r/seduction.Thanks for sharing! I'm going to save this to reread for motivation. Also, how can I join the whatsapp group? I'd love to join. | /r/seduction | 13/03/16 06:20 AM |
| 0 | Can I just straight up tell her how I feel?And you do this by communication through body language and sexual attraction which is built by flirting and kino(touching). Study body language. | /r/seduction | 04/03/16 03:52 AM |
| 8 | Can I just straight up tell her how I feel?Don't do that OP, I basically was in the same exact scenario when I told my FRIEND, "I'm really attracted to you". She immediately said she was already talking to someone. That's fucking bullshit lol. Girls are SO damn emotional. They won't logically think "OP is a really cool guy, he respects me, and is nice" and want to convert that into sex. YOU HAVE TO BUILD SEXUAL ATTRACTION AND SIMPLY "LET THINGS HAPPEN". I've learned the fucking hard way, so many lost female relationships because I didn't… | /r/seduction | 04/03/16 03:51 AM |
| 3 | Buying a girl a drink, in the right context example [FIELD REPORT]Me and this girl just came back from smoking and walking around the park at night. We were comfortable around each other and she doesn't have a clue I'm into her. I've given her no signals besides playfully touching her/pushing her. As I was driving her back, I kept thinking "should i just fucking go for a kiss?". I ended up not doing it because I thought patience and persistence would bring me the result, not the "just fucking do it" mentality. Should I have kissed her? | /r/seduction | 24/02/16 05:44 AM |
| 1 | Mission #1 of 10 for overcoming approach anxietyThis is something I do every day I work at Panera Bread (Cafe-Bakery chain restaurant) lol. I ask every single customer that walks in, and it has really helped me: have good eye contact with strangers, practice charisma with strangers, learn that most everyone is polite and sociable, and how to have general small talk about random subjects. To people that have anxiety with being sociable to strangers, I HIGHLY recommend taking up a job as a server/waiter, host, or a sales associate at Panera/Sta… | /r/seduction | 24/02/16 01:24 AM |
| 4 | Should we be vulnerable with everyone around us, according to Mark Manson?I took it as, being vulnerable means being okay with who you are. | /r/seduction | 23/02/16 09:43 PM |
| 10 | What PUA video has been the most help for you?This one is great. It talks about the impact of how you say things rather than what you say. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tX5zYvMrbZg&index=27&list=WL | /r/seduction | 10/02/16 11:50 PM |
| 3 | for beginners: the first baby step to get out into the new world of being your best version possibleGreat tips. Started applying these a year ago and the whole dynamic of every single on of my relationships is different (I feel). People respect me a lot more and I find myself having more power. | /r/seduction | 31/01/16 05:19 AM |
| 21 | "Look, we're friends right?"Me: "ahh I see you got new jeans" Her: "You always say that!! These aren't new!!" Me: "Look, your ass looks great in those jeans." Her: I literally have no fucking clue how she will take this. | /r/seduction | 24/01/16 05:58 PM |
| 6 | "Look, we're friends right?"Can I do this to my co-worker? I always jokingly say how she is wearing new jeans and she reacts saying I'm ridiculous. We are very touchy feely and display very flirty body language towards each other but we barely ever have actual conversation (bc of culture/personality differences) Should I use this line while we're on the cash register when no ones there? lol | /r/seduction | 24/01/16 05:57 PM |
| 2 | I have no problem getting first dates. But clearly I'm doing something wrong on them.Maybe it's due to the fact that women can't connect with you. You might be employing all of these "gimmicks, canned lines, and techniques" but lack the empathy and vibe the girl is looking for. | /r/seduction | 18/01/16 05:43 AM |
| 3 | How do you respond to a girl feeling bad about cheatingFollowing...i am also pursuing this girl who has a boyfriend. | /r/seduction | 10/01/16 06:05 AM |
| 1 | Chasing sorority sisters while not being in a fraternity yourself, experiences? Doable?Your chances are higher if you are in a frat but it doesn't matter. Make as many frat friends as possible. Get their numbers and drink with them. They will invite you more. And just talk to the girls there. They will ask you "oh hey are you in this fraternity lol" and just tell them you're rushing. That's what I always say. Then proceed to flirt and do whatever it is you need to do. Fuck your excuses. You don't need to be in a frat. | /r/seduction | 10/01/16 06:01 AM |
| 2 | Had a girl in bed and didn't make a moveLol, I love your frequent lols. But personally, I think you could do better. If you do want to persue her though, I'd say go in for a kiss asap. Flirt with her and do heavy Kino. Connect with her. If she is very receptive and you feel the frisky vibe between yall then say "wait" abruptly and lean in and kiss her. It will work. | /r/seduction | 10/01/16 05:58 AM |
| 1 | I Kissed A Girl At MidnightFucking awesome dude! Hope you will continue to escape your comfort zone. | /r/seduction | 02/01/16 03:35 AM |
| 2 | Deciding to Move Out of My Small College Town to a Bigger City Was the Best Decision EverThank you man good luck in your pursuit too! | /r/seduction | 26/12/15 02:33 AM |
| 4 | How to get laid playing guitar?Girls aren't attracted by specific actions, they are attracted by lifestyle. This will be very generic but try and pin point how you can be the better man that will get laid. Go out more and socialize and flirt. You'll get better at this with practice. Have a couple of passions(playing guitar is a very attractive one but will not be the ultimate seducer) Live the same with or without the woman. Think that a woman can only improve your life but don't let your happiness be dependent on a woman. Ha… | /r/seduction | 26/12/15 12:57 AM |
| 8 | Deciding to Move Out of My Small College Town to a Bigger City Was the Best Decision EverYou couldn't have said it more better OP. I moved to Atlanta from a small ghetto surburban city where a large amount of people fit the same uninteresting category: Ghetto, redneck, ignorant, only white basic girls with their camo jackets. I have met so many women here in ATL at my university and in general. Here strangers actually talk to you, people are very well educated and motivated, and its diverse as shit. Girls are hot too. | /r/seduction | 26/12/15 12:51 AM |
| 1 | What should I [20M] as a virgin do when watching netflix in bed with girl [20F] to lead to us having sex?She wants to fuck you. You don't need any more hints, if you keep stagnating, she will friendzone you quickly and it will be even worse when trying to escalate things with her. You really have to be in the moment and not plan things ahead, but here is a general guideline for what will happen: lie in bed together cuddle caress her softly, on her shoulders, stomach, legs, inner thighs, etc. be smooth while doing this. don't be choppy and touch here and there, everywhere. kiss her neck make out aft… | /r/seduction | 12/11/15 07:29 AM |
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