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| 1 | Should I call? I got a match on bumble a couple of days ago. Talking through the app went really very, very sexual. Got her number and made plans for this Friday. The problem was she never agreed to an official time. Should I call today to set up a permanent time and place for the date?Just something to add of my experience with tinder, which I've had a good amount of success with in the past. I once had a conversation go really well and wanted to call to set something up, but I didnt warn her that I would call. She didnt pick up and was real freaked out and turned off by it. I think it's a different situation when you meet a girl in person vs through an app. More girls on dating apps, though cute, seem kind of socially awkward. I know in a lot of cases they can be new to the … | /r/seduction | 06/09/19 01:28 AM |
| 0 | First night out solo, first pull but not a complete success (Pics + Story inside)Ehhh that's a grey area to say the least. Cant just always assume a girl at your place automatically means sex and that you just have to "push through that" last minute resistance lol. Kind of tiptoeing rape there. Escalate, go in for a kiss. If she refuses it's not worth risking rape, there are other women... You did the right thing OP. | /r/seduction | 24/08/19 08:36 AM |
| 1 | Just got out of a LTR, what now?I mean, that's generally a pretty bad reason to break up and I'd say you made a mistake in most other cases, but you are young and that relationship is pretty much all you've experienced. Dont regret it. I mean you will, but youd regret not knowing / missing out on the experience more and that's far worse. Youd forever have this gnawing question of 'what if?' You'll eventually meet other women to date | /r/seduction | 24/08/19 06:23 AM |
| 2 | Men are in relationships but all of them surely can't be acting like how PUA and seduction techniques tell you, so how are they doing it?I've been in a 2 year relationship and a 6 month one. Neither involved any pua techniques at all at any point. I think the most obvious factor is that the two of you should get along well and enjoy each others company, have the same humor, and have compatible personalities. You cant exactly learn that but I'll admit some pua is good at the hook and maintaining interest until you two are comfortable around each other and you can just stay fully at ease Maintaining a relationship is dependent on k… | /r/seduction | 19/08/19 08:54 AM |
| 3 | Going out to a bar tonight to get rejected at least 10 timesGood shit man. Glad you're taking control of your own life and not resulting to self pity and misogyny over at r/braincels. You'll go from virgin to getting with as many women as you want | /r/seduction | 18/08/19 05:17 AM |
| 5 | Might have fallen in love with a 6 when I was already dating a 8.5Just be honest with your 8.5 that you're a piece of shit and cheated. Should make things easier. Why even ask for advice when you're in the wrong no matter what you choose to do? | /r/seduction | 17/08/19 12:45 PM |
| 1 | Don’t know if I’m into women or notJust be upfront about it. Say you're gay but that you were always curious about having sex with a woman. I mean that's probably the only way you wont be embarrassed of nothing happens | /r/seduction | 17/08/19 12:40 PM |
| 1 | How to have an AWESOME night outYeah, I just wanted to correct the mindset that this flat out "wont work for an introverted person" as you said. You can make an argument that it takes more effort since you have to push yourself more, but if you really want to get it done, you will. | /r/seduction | 15/08/19 07:10 PM |
| 42 | How to have an AWESOME night outI hate when people mix extroversion and introversion with social skills. You have the ability to be the life of the party no matter what. You can technically be extroverted but a bit socially awkward. Introversion just means you prefer your alone time and being with other people drains energy. I mean this scenario is definitely farfetched but the idea is that you should just be talking to everyone. Really only in an extremely ideal movie like scenario would this happen. Either way, Todd Valentin… | /r/seduction | 15/08/19 05:41 AM |
| 1 | How do I pick up a milf if I am only 15?Yeah but can they trust a fucking 15 year old boy to? | /r/seduction | 15/08/19 12:47 AM |
| 1 | How do I pick up a milf if I am only 15?He's telling you reasons women wont want to fuck you. Wait 4 or 5 years and then you'll actually have a chance at a mild. 15 is so young I'm sure 99% wont even consider it. Just because something is legal doesnt mean its probable to happen | /r/seduction | 15/08/19 12:46 AM |
| 1 | How do I pick up a milf if I am only 15?Just because it's legal doesnt mean older women want young guys. I cant imagine myself being attracted to a 15 year old and I'm early 20s. Theres a big difference in looks between a 15 year old and 18/17 year old even On top of that a lot of 15 year olds are still very immature. The social stigma of having sex with someone so young is already incredibly negative, now imagine having to worry that they'll likely tell all their friends and out you. Could work with a stranger, almost never with your… | /r/seduction | 15/08/19 12:42 AM |
| 1 | My friend has good game but gets little to no results with women and I feel bad for him. What can I do as a friend to help him?+1 for this. Maybe he's shooting too high and needs to start somewhere else. | /r/seduction | 15/08/19 12:37 AM |
| 0 | Girl on tinder wants to meet me but do I look different on the tinder pic? U.K.Difference in candid pics or between your tinder pics and the album you linked? Anything outdoor and better yet, candid, have so much more success than selfies it's not even comparable. Seriously, they just make you look more interesting, fun, and normal. As for the album one of them looks slightly different but you kinda just look pissed. Theres really not that much of a difference tbh and you are your own worst critic. I used to be worried that I looked too different from my pictures but no on… | /r/seduction | 15/08/19 12:33 AM |
| 0 | Girl on tinder wants to meet me but do I look different on the tinder pic? U.K.Yeah they all look bad, especially for tinder. You want to use candid ones or at least ones taken outdoors and try to limit the number of selfies. No selfies if you can. But you dont look too much different between the pics. I think you just need to smile and have some expression in your face when you meet her which shouldn't be difficult | /r/seduction | 15/08/19 12:26 AM |
| 2 | I love Trader Joe’s.If you are able to make some sort of observation it will definitely feel a lot more smooth and natural. If you can't think of one though don't use it as an excuse not to talk to her | /r/seduction | 14/08/19 06:35 AM |
| 1 | Im sorry im just very, i don’t understand. So you guys say to just go up and talk to her but thats the hard part for me.That's how it works. You have to learn somewhere. If you think of all the guys at your school who are successful with women, how do they all do it? You can probably easily imagine them going up to and talking to the girl first. Just say hey what's up, ask her about something topical related to the class, and then slowly progress from there. Make observations. If you guys are able to choose what you're drawing ask why she chose to draw whatever she chose. It's a skill you learn and if you don't s… | /r/seduction | 14/08/19 06:31 AM |
| 2 | Do I have to be super masculine when I game?I don't get what being liberal has to do with anything. I think Russell Brand is the perfect example of someone not at all hyper masculine (in stereotypical terms of liking sports, guns, and beer) and extremely liberal. He pulls like crazy, even as someone with some fame it's pretty impressive... he is overly sexual though. It's all about confidence and you don't need to act any specific way to have confidence. That's your problem, you don't have confidence. Your problem isn't because you aren't… | /r/seduction | 14/08/19 06:11 AM |
| 1 | I feel like most of the advice in here about night game, assumes the girl is on her own, how do you handle big groups?Having each girl describe one another sounds great, I'll have to steal that. | /r/seduction | 14/08/19 04:15 AM |
| 5 | I feel like most of the advice in here about night game, assumes the girl is on her own, how do you handle big groups?Pretty much this. If there are only 2 girls without a wingman it might not even be worth hitting on one since it'll be so difficult to separate the two. One thing to add: I'd prefer to open on the girl you're interested in and say something along the lines of "Oh, are these your friends?" and introduce yourself to them. Makes it easy to show which girl you're interested in right off the bat and is one less thing to worry about. There's a chance they'll throw their most desperate friend at you ot… | /r/seduction | 14/08/19 03:49 AM |
| 4 | Everybody sucks before doing 100 approaches. Don't complain, approach.He's lying/exaggerating. One pickup artist was banned from the UK, Julien Blanc. But him being banned isnt completely absurd. As far as I can tell there isnt any law against it. Just talk to women, spit game, and dont force yourself onto them too much and you'll be fine. | /r/seduction | 12/08/19 08:30 PM |
| 4 | Everybody sucks before doing 100 approaches. Don't complain, approach.He's fucking lying. One pickup artist, Julian Blanc, was banned from the UK. Dude is an actual peace of trash and takes advantage of timid women in places like Japan when it's obvious they're uncomfortable. Probably banned for disturbing the peace or something. If you just approach women and treat them like normal humans and dont force your dick in them you'll be fine. | /r/seduction | 12/08/19 08:26 PM |
| 4 | Friend writes text for meThe whole "Lucky for you, I'm in the mood" thing seems a bit overly obnoxious and douchey but hey, it worked, so what do I know. Obviously being assertive and direct is important but if you dont play the part in person a text like that would be even more strange. I'd have preferred a simple "We're going to Reggaeton tomorrow at 9, dress nice and be prepared to sweat." To me that's just the right level of cockiness you want. | /r/seduction | 11/08/19 10:22 PM |
| 1 | Boys I'm actually making it, from cringe and needy to LIT AS FUCKNo hard feelings. Part of the reason I say that is because I was the same way and I was super insecure, would even inflate my stories a bit. I guess you grow out of it, but if it comes up naturally in conversation it's not anything to sweat. Mostly depends on context | /r/seduction | 09/08/19 04:18 PM |
| 9 | Boys I'm actually making it, from cringe and needy to LIT AS FUCKShit, maybe it's just my personality but that is pretty cringe. Like I get the excitement and happiness but it seems this guy is coming from insecurity seeking validation and I wouldn't be surprised if he brags to his friends each time he has sex | /r/seduction | 09/08/19 12:40 AM |
| 2 | I’m 23 M hit it of with a cougar, asked to join a 3some with her male lover...Should I?I'd do it. Try to find out some more details though, specifically what the guy gets out of it. Does he just do it for his wife because he gets to have a threesome with another woman? But don't ask/imply that directly, simply ask if it's for her pleasure or both of their's. Or is he bi and likes guys as well? If you aren't bisexual then the latter can be a problem, if you aren't afraid of testing the waters then you should definitely consider the experience. It may be interesting and give you the… | /r/seduction | 09/08/19 12:35 AM |
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