Leeleechirps Archive

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2	When "The Little Things" start slacking. You mentioned you were feeling quite lonely, that is what stood out to me the most. What has changed in your life lately ? Perhaps instead of needing more from him, you may need more time with getting in touch with your relationship with loneliness. I guarantee that If you do this, you will know exactly what you need to communicate to your husband, if anything.	/r/RedPillWomen	23/02/20 04:28 AM
6	Full-time working Red Pill Wives & Moms, How do you keep going, doing it all and not resenting your husband? Okay- 3-4 hours is video games on weekdays and 12 hours on the weekends??? Damn, this a boy, not a man. He’s acting like a boy anyway. There are a few different routes: Need to be a safe place for him to share his emotions. He numbs out to games and porn instead of being in connection. What is he avoiding ? Help him to learn how to handle discomfort. He’s probably got a low threshold for that. He needs to increase it. Do less aeound the house. Couples counseling Resentment is a killer. You’ve go…	/r/RedPillWomen	03/02/20 04:57 AM
1	Dealing with refusal to marry Are his parents divorced ? Curious to know why he doesn’t want to get married. That would make a difference to me. But from experience, I wouldn’t waste my time trying to make sense of it, take his word for it (by word I mean actions too)	/r/RedPillWomen	03/02/20 04:42 AM
2	Am unable to satisfy my husband - looking for tips from women in similar situations Yes, I agree. I meant her part in destroying the marriage, not that she was 100% responsible. I think it’s up to both of them. If she doesn’t speak up then she’s contributing to the problem	/r/RedPillWomen	01/02/20 04:37 PM
27	Am unable to satisfy my husband - looking for tips from women in similar situations You are enabling him. You need to set some boundaries and expectations. Do less, and the natural consequences will show. Stop making dinner and doing laundry for a few nights. If he takes initiative then you’ll know he’s capable. Anyway, my guess is that you are resentful. Which understandably so. But you’ll only get more so and end up destroying the marriage unless you stop enabling right now and let your husband step up or shut up.	/r/RedPillWomen	01/02/20 05:27 AM
–	What's for dinner? Sunday’s is my prep day. I go to the farmers market in the morning then spend the day cooking. That way I only have to clean clean the kitchen once a week	/r/RedPillWomen	26/01/20 12:39 AM
–	What's for dinner? Pork roast in crock pot With carrot, potatoes, celery and a loaf of French bread. My husband is out of town this weekend so me and my son are eating it two nights in a row :)	/r/RedPillWomen	26/01/20 12:38 AM
2	What are some physical hygiene tips/Ways you like to care for your physical hygiene? Congratulations! I’m a SAHM so that helps, I can get ready anytime of day (which was the case when the baby was very young). Also, having a gym membership with childcare. I know that YMCA has childcare and they typically have one in most cities. I stick to a routine with bedtime, no matter what. This ensures consistent nap and wake times so i don’t have to be left wondering. Before the baby starts crawling, its easy to stick to self care. After they get moving, things get a little more difficult…	/r/RedPillWomen	22/01/20 04:16 AM
14	What are some physical hygiene tips/Ways you like to care for your physical hygiene? -I go to the gym 3-5 times per week. -same morning routine to put myself together for the day -two showers a day (quick rinse in morning and a bath at night to relax). -plenty of sleep (which is hard with a toddler but I try) -clean clothes, without lots of pictures or labels. -I keep a gel manicure on at all times, my nails are long and strong bc of this -chew with my mouth closed and keep fresh breath -try and keep my movements regular -I also have a bidet installed in my toilet bc I guess you…	/r/RedPillWomen	21/01/20 06:38 AM