TheRedArchive

~ archived since 2018 ~

Leewaak Archive

View 5 posts and 198 comments by Leewaak on TheRedPill subreddit and various other subreddits related to The Red Pill community.
Search in:
In subreddits:
More
Filter by year/month:
Upvotes Comment on Subreddit Date (UTC)
1

This is a personal point of view but for me an Intermediate is someone who can get his fair share of girls that are 6's and up, who struggles at times and gets consistent results at times, using standard universal methods, but someone who can hold his own weight and knows what hes doing. Someone who's advanced, is someone that has a blueprint with personal tactics who figured out creative ways and schemes that work for him that lets him get a consistent amount of girls constantly and rarely has …
/r/seduction03/06/26 08:31 PM
1

Thanks for the insightful response, i would think that guys that frequent Guru groups are mostly beginners as well. I just hoped we had a medium for veteran guys to share their experiences and advanced techniques. It feels kinda lonely to not have a medium with people on the same experience level as you who share your same interest
/r/seduction03/06/26 07:36 PM
1

Dm me and ask me what you need
/r/seduction25/05/26 01:21 AM
13

To be completely honest with you, Luck. Thats it i got really good at getting girls and i use the same tactics with every girl regardless of her looks. Most of them are 7-8, but twice i hooked up with personal 9-10's. I didnt try anything different, didnt change anything. The opportunity presented itself and it just happened.
/r/seduction18/05/26 06:35 PM
2

Yeah im not sure about "Trust" but they have to be comfortable with you. Thats the name of the game Make them feel comfortable.
/r/seduction22/10/25 05:47 PM
2

Thanks for the tip (pause)
/r/seduction19/10/25 12:49 PM
1

Grok is the closest but make sure to add " be accurate and objective" at the end of each enquiry, it boosts its objectivity
/r/seduction19/10/25 12:24 PM
7

She massaged my chest, didnt care for it but i pretended to like it so i can ask to do it to her.
/r/seduction16/10/25 12:24 AM
1

Damn you already reached this level 💀
/r/seduction14/10/25 08:26 PM
26

I dont want to toot my own horn but im like your dad a little bit in some regards. Im a logical thinker and results oriented only in approach type of guy with practically 0 emotional intelligence or care. And i figured it out young as well that its all literally a statistical game. I knew about the "numbers game" before even finding out about the sub. And i money ball'ed the entire approach of getting women, as in testing approaches, noting everything down, checking which approaches and blueprin…
/r/seduction13/10/25 10:35 PM
94

Or just a level of understanding its a numbers game with very small margins of success when shooting your shot to a complete stranger many times when i'm scrolling down my past chats i find some girls that i've spoken to for a day or two that i have 0 recollection of ever speaking with them. Thats how much you should be engaged in the numbers game. Sometimes a girl will literally tell me that we already spoke but i have already deleted her after she stopped responding and forgot all about her, t…
/r/seduction07/10/25 02:06 AM
266

Here's the secret champ, most people take the initiative while being nervous, at the start before you familiarize yourself with a certain action from repetition you will always be nervous. Its a myth that people take action when confident, take that out of your perception of life. I was nervous before exams,boxing matches, dates, business stuff, always went out and did my best. Im really good at getting girls these days and i still get nervous from time to time. The only way to beat this is real…
/r/seduction05/10/25 03:14 AM
37

Conversation casanova by Dave Perotta, couldnt hold a conversation with a girl to save my life, i read this book and i could instantly have easy conversations with girls and flirt with them. I evolved and gotten better afterwards but i still respect it a lot.
/r/seduction03/10/25 03:52 AM
1

Meh the social thing is overrated in my personal experience, i only have 1 friend, no social media, only 23 and never really leave my room unless for work, necessities and dates. I'd say showcasing status and success is way more important than social proof, i do so (shadily) and get a ton of girls
/r/seduction28/09/25 11:48 AM
16

Im not a deadbeat but im a Broke average looking 5'7 130 pound dude that gets his fair share of girls the secret is : realizing its a skill that you can hone and get better at, once you stop using 2010's Hollywood movies blueprints for getting girls you will start getting good at it.
/r/seduction25/09/25 09:45 PM
1

Oh indian, understandable. Just go with your gut feeling, enter the room look at her and let your indian mind lead you to victory, i believe in you
/r/seduction25/09/25 03:39 AM
0

You have to have low iq theres no other way, thats what im saying and you misunderstood what the original reply is talking about and you're arguing with me about something that i agree with. Go read a book nigga
/r/seduction25/09/25 03:30 AM
0

How did you come to that realization ? All he said is "looks" which can mean natural beauty or what you're saying. And when people say the statement the op is mentioning they mean not handsome not those who havent hit the barbershop in a while
/r/seduction24/09/25 10:26 PM
-1

I do love myself, but i rarely if never take care of my appearance if the circumstance doesnt call for it. If i dont have a date lined up or a professional setting is calling then i dont really cut my hair or facial hair and just wear the same stuff everyday People are different. Standards are different
/r/seduction24/09/25 10:24 PM
1

Thats what i said its a really nice chance booster, but not necessary Not really one just has to get good at getting girls its a skill that needs to be worked on. I know of guys that are tall, fit and charismatic and just get the odd success with girls here and there The other guy that i know of that gets girls like candy is a friend thats similar to me. Hes just really socially smart and knows how to game girls Im not special at all. Im a guy with practically 0 social life and barely leaves his…
/r/seduction24/09/25 07:19 PM
1

Its just a bonus you dont need it unless you're in one of the extremes when it comes to body build, yes its a really nice chance booster but not necessary Im a 5'7 guy that weighs 130 pounds and never stepped foot a day in a gym, and i get a fair share of girls
/r/seduction24/09/25 07:08 PM
2

Yeah i agree, again an advice is relative to the sub its shared on. This is R-seduction if i was on a marriage sub i'll share your advice but in this god forsaken sub people will find more of the results that they're looking for going with what i said.
/r/seduction24/09/25 03:53 PM
2

I mean because im not interested in them neither other than how they look, our personalities RARELY match ( it does sometimes i would be disingenuous if i say it never does ). I find many girls super pretty that i would like to date and i have to change my personality and interests and sometimes even stories about myself to pique their interest. Its draining im not going to lie BUT only relative to time spent with each individual, like i can date a 100 girls for 2 weeks each without ever feeing …
/r/seduction24/09/25 03:45 PM
21

This is in itself bad advice as well ironically same as the one in your quotations. Looks matter but only to a certain extent. If you never shave and dont take care of yourself and put 0 effort in, you wont find success, but at the same time you dont have to be a Chad model You HAVE TO maximize your look based on what you're working with, find a nice haircut that suits you, find some type of clothing that works well with your build and try to hit that 7/10 benchmark on a good day and you're good…
/r/seduction24/09/25 03:29 PM
1

This is just fairy tail make believe that serves nothing other than give people butterfly feelings in their stomachs. Its not productive at all. I always adjusted my personality relative to the girl im interested in, and it served me wonders. Had a lot of fun and made memories that i literally go back to this day to make me feel happy when im going through life
/r/seduction24/09/25 03:26 PM
2

"Be Yourself" thats just flat out wrong " focus on your career first and women will come later" i mean thats good for you, but it doesnt have anything to do with getting girls "Hit the gym" only relevant if you're really fat or super skinny. You dont need to be fit at all ( at most its a bonus ) but not necessary. "the right girl" there is no right girl, i've met multiple girls that were perfect partners, when it comes to loyalty, compatibility, and feelings for me.
/r/seduction24/09/25 03:23 PM
1

Not really this is extreme difficulty ( in luck). This is a very unlikely to happen. Move on
/r/seduction15/09/25 07:05 PM
1

for Fun and Challenge honestly. Some girls are very pretty others are amazing at conversations for long durations, some are very fun to hang out with, all girls have different personalities and attributes and all have different stories and lives, some are interesting some arent Some have very pretty eyes others got a really nice smile, some have really nice boobs. Girls are amazing one of my favorite genders for real
/r/seduction10/02/25 05:17 PM
2

Thats interesting, im from north africa im white washing and look italian. My question was mainly is it easier to hook up or get laid with american girls compared to eastern europe for example if u already know how to get girls. Is the hookup culture there that much of a magnifier ?
/r/seduction19/01/25 10:41 PM
0

Hi morocco is from north african and we’re mostly white but not that pale. Me personally i look highkey like a white italian and have soft hair. I did use passport mode once and i had average returns but thats ok my profile was mostly created for moroccan girls, with a bit more fine tuning i could get more results from the american girls audience
/r/seduction19/01/25 09:27 PM
1

Thats just one cause of it yeah i agree. But theres many instances when u say or do something that has doesn’t correlate to preselection. That can just simply tick her off or raise up some red flags or reminded her of a ex or simply just turn her off like in this instance of her man being younger than her. That can just be a no no to her even if she hits it off with them
/r/seduction03/12/24 06:12 PM
4

Women dont always have a stagnant mind frame, a small thing like her man being younger than her even by a few years can shift her entire idea and interest of him. If you had experience with a lot of women you’ll realize just how fiddle their interest is in cases other than when they’re fully in love. They can change their mind at any small thing u did or say in the beginnings
/r/seduction03/12/24 05:49 PM
2

Just tell her you’re 26 and keep it pushing. The only thing to consider when lying about age is if its an illegal or predatory situation. Here you’re cool just tell her 26 and do your thing
/r/seduction03/12/24 05:34 PM
9

If you want real advice that u will see instant results from. Dont tell her, enjoy your time with her as long as it is fun for you. And end it with her when it starts to seem like a drag. All that be blunt with her and tell her that ur not looking for something serious or “vague answers” doesnt work for 99% of women. It sounds good but it never works. Dont tell her, enjoy yourself, end it when you feel like its the proper time
/r/seduction30/11/24 10:35 AM
0

I can give you an answer that will show you instant results ( from experience ), but it will be unethical and you will have to fake it till you make it. Since this sub became a bit pussified lately if u wanna know DM me
/r/seduction13/10/24 08:55 PM
12

Nah this sub is undoubtedly the best thing on the Internet at good advice for getting women. At least at one point it was. Now a days its filled with “ just be yourself” “ wearing a 1.5 extra inches shoes is manipulative” ass shitty generic advices. This sub was thee place for Results based advices that work in real life without care for sugarcoating shit
/r/seduction12/10/24 03:00 AM
83

With all due respect i’m seeing a lot of resurgence of Bad advice in this sub lately, half of your advices have nothing to do with getting girls Cars,clothes,muscles, “Hot and soothing” voice, bikes and random knowledges. All these have nothing to do with getting girls consistently Having Hobbies have nothing to do with getting girls The only way to learn how to get girls is to PRACTICE exactly getting girls nothing more nothing less. Pick one type of approach that u feel comfortable with, type …
/r/seduction11/10/24 10:47 PM
-3

This is going to be a results based advice, im going to be downvoted but fk it. Get you some insoles around 3 inches is cool. You will find way more instant success as a 5’10 man rather than a 5’7 man Sleep with them with ur shoes on. Surprisingly not many girls asked why and those who did were super ok with any half assed response i gave. My go to afterwards usually was “i guess i was that excited about you that i forgot to take my shoes off haha“ i usually get a little laugh from them aswell a…
/r/seduction11/10/24 03:33 PM
12

Why not ? Recommend it and more bro. I dont know why theres still some people here that still get scared about pulling unfamiliar methods. As long as you’re not hurting anybody or doing anything illegal. Its all fair game I pull a lot of unethical methods aswell and have gotten a lot more success doing so way more than i couldve ever imagined. Shit, women pull way more fake shit to boost their attractiveness and pull better men. But we as guys gotta play the game to the most ethical by the book …
/r/seduction11/10/24 03:22 PM
3

Never have expensive first dates. Just some chill affordable stuff. Because u dont know how things will transpire
/r/seduction11/10/24 01:37 AM
0

Its not suitable as its a specific number of women in the class. You have limited volume Why constraint yourself to a limited number of approaches available.
/r/seduction10/10/24 08:36 PM
-1

Lmao so women lie about their face card with filters and makeup, wear push up bras, lower their body count to give themselves more value. But i guarantee those same women are the ones that ur dating unless you go for the 5% of girls that dont use filters on their pics dont wear makeup and wear push-up bras. But u draw the line at adding a few more inches to ur height on ur bio. Shut ur lame ass up
/r/seduction10/10/24 12:32 PM
2

Leagues do exists. Looksmatching is a term created for a reason. People will just tell you no it doesnt exist because they dont want u to be scared of approaching cute girls because they want to encourage you to approach. Which is commendable but its a lie nevertheless and not the reality of things, its just like how girls always tell other girls they’re pretty even though they’re not to boost their confidence. 90% of the time girls that are objective 8-10’s will never be found in a relationship…
/r/seduction09/10/24 02:38 PM
6

Move on man it could be either 1. She wasn’t interested in you romantically or sexually but you seemed safe and interesting enough to hang out with She couldve seen or sensed something in you that someone in her past gave the same energy as you and burnt her. So her defense mechanism went up. It literally could be just this. Ur energy just reminded her of an ex and she sensed red flags. You couldve done absolutely nothing wrong how i know ? Because it happened to me in both ways. Look a lot of w…
/r/seduction01/10/24 05:12 PM
0

Social media approach, check my acc i wrote a post about it. I explained more replying to the comments It will be a fun read
/r/seduction30/09/24 07:32 PM
1

With all due respect. you have no chance as an indian with a thick indian accent and broken english in the US. My advice is purely factual and no emotions involved. Indian men are not the best looking ethnic group in the totem pole i’d say the lowest. You’ll be going against guys that are on average way better looking. Plus it became a stereotype that indians are dirty this past year ( i said stereotype not a fact as i dont know personally, but it doesnt matter if its a fact or not because thats…
/r/seduction30/09/24 06:34 PM
-2

Not really. SM approach is really viable and a better option aswell i wrote about it once here
/r/seduction30/09/24 06:21 PM
0

Can i ask you a favor for my guidance lmao. Hows the dating scene there from what u see ?
/r/seduction28/09/24 10:36 PM
0

I thinks theres a french seduction sub on reddit check it out
/r/seduction28/09/24 10:29 PM
20

Induce flirting in texts, and in general however you communicate with them before setting up a date, i had this issue once years ago, and i realized while re-reading our convo. That i didnt Flirt once. Since then i fixed up
/r/seduction20/09/24 04:45 PM
122

Btw Interested for the most part doesnt mean interested specifically in you, but more so interested in being approached at that time, or interested to get to know someone
/r/seduction19/09/24 05:09 PM
0

Conversation Casanova by Dave Perotta
/r/seduction19/09/24 02:15 PM
-1

I start disagreeing but after we’re already going out or i already closed
/r/seduction19/09/24 12:55 PM
-5

Yeah i read it in a book a long time ago when i was starting out, open ended questions changed my life, buy yeah you have to agree with whatever they got going on and tell them what they wanna hear
/r/seduction19/09/24 12:35 PM
1

100 cold approaches will take you around a week, you can get to a 100 dms in 2-3 hours and you’ll bank 1-2 girls from it, chilling in your shorts in your home
/r/seduction19/09/24 11:46 AM
3

Girls are like that, thats why the general advice here is “you’re not really in unless she’s naked in your bed and even then !” Girls are an ever changing bowl of emotions and decisions, i had a shit ton of talking stages throughout the years and even till now i have no idea if i can get her out on a date or not, doesnt matter how well the convo is going Girls are unpredictable as shit so dont trip, thats a cannon event for all of us
/r/seduction18/09/24 11:03 PM
5

Then dont approach when ur with friends and enjoy ur time with them. And go out a different time to try to pick up chicks ? Fuck do you want us to say it’s pretty straightforward
/r/seduction18/09/24 10:57 PM
2

My guy im from a super religious country, imagine my closing percentage haha
/r/seduction18/09/24 07:19 PM
0

Never had this happen to me. You said yourself once or twice so just know its rare I would think that they were just bored and enjoying the convo but weren’t planning on meeting up, so when you brought it up seeing how they were enjoying the convo they tried to give you a chance but you had to make it a very good exciting enjoyable date for them to accept. Which means they weren’t interested in meeting up from the start, but if it was an offer they couldnt turn down then sure Next time it happen…
/r/seduction18/09/24 01:42 PM
6

-Play the Numbers game In your first approaches : -Take it as a learning experience rather than getting chicks experience -have the mentality of you’re learning as you go and focus on seeing what works and what doesnt hit the Numbers game you’ll eventually learn what u need from Trial and Error if ur focusing on improving as u go Do this a whole lotta times a week and pay attention to what works and what doesnt. And what u did right and what u messed up on
/r/seduction18/09/24 11:53 AM
1

I read a book called “conversation casanova” i was still that logical serious guy but i still had a fair share of girls, i’m more playful now but i consciously focus on making them laugh and tease them. I changed up not exactly for failure with girls, but those dates were boring to me. Now i just dropped the nonchalant gimmick and tried being more playful flirty with a heavy trolling side in non serious convos and a bit silly. i had more fun dates like this
/r/seduction18/09/24 11:50 AM
2

Yeah i stopped for a year and a half to work on other things in my life and when i came back i was rusty as shit and didnt even have success with girls that were interested But i just had to get on the pedestal and after a couple of weeks of approaches and talking stages, i managed to get back to the level i was before i’d say im even better now. And all this just happened like 2 months ago So dont trip you’re just rusty
/r/seduction17/09/24 08:04 PM
2

Hell no, before i learned game and how to have interesting convos with girls and when to throw flirtatious remarks and when and how to escalate, i used to always fumble either by them becoming bored and me not knowing to how juggle between topics and keep convos with girls interesting, or fall into a “friendly guy” scenario cuz i didnt know how to throw flirtatious remarks, or never close because i didnt know how to escalate. Its very easy to fumble girls that are available to be approached in b…
/r/seduction17/09/24 07:36 PM
1

Make a move at a conversation high, like a low risk put your arm around her then go from there
/r/seduction17/09/24 06:07 PM
7

Facts. Out of a shit ton of approaches and many successes only a single 1 i managed to find success with and she didnt seem interested from the go. And that was years ago Every other girl i’ve ever found success with was interested and talkative from the start. like 99% of my successes were from girls who seemed interested from the jump
/r/seduction17/09/24 06:04 PM
5

Not gonna lie most girls arent like that. So most men arent used to that. So just tone it down a bit. a gift here and there,acting affectionate from time to time and stuff like that is cool. But being on that type of timing always a lot of men just arent used to that and will have a negative reaction towards it
/r/seduction17/09/24 06:01 PM
2

No you’re just bitching. What do you mean superficial ? Its not filters on snapchat. Like i said yeah you’re ugly but putting effort and taking initiative and trying out what i said, getting a better toned physique, having clear skin, getting a professional hair stylist that will boost your look, will get you to a passable state which is an average 6/10 From there you’re game with girls that are 6-7/10. I never said you will become a super attractive guy and you will pull famous IG models. But y…
/r/seduction17/09/24 04:43 PM
0

Look i’ll give you a very honest and factual answer, most guys around and from this subme aswell, are around 6/10 on a normal day chilling in their room or busting they ass off in a job, but when we do take care of ourselves get a good haircut, trim the facial hair, dress our best and smell good, most guys can get to a 7/10 on a good day I dont know if you put significant effort in bettering your look before you go out, or u just half ass some clean clothes and brush ur hair a little bit Looks-m…
/r/seduction17/09/24 01:59 PM
3

I mean with all due respect, a 5’3 indian from mainland india, you’re playing the game on Hard difficulty
/r/seduction16/09/24 10:42 PM
3

Sex just to have sex was only fun my first time, after that i was trying for pretty girls that i actually wanted to smash them, not just to put my dick in something And its always been fun when you get a success with a pretty girl.
/r/seduction16/09/24 08:21 PM
19

Im not gonna lie i woulda swiped left, with all due respect have some dignity my guy, she flaked on you twice and ghosted you, now you’re trying again Unmatch her and move on. Hit the Numbers game again and try with different girls, try to make it a habit of not giving girls that arent interested in you your time of day, she might’ve just liked the attention and conversations but didnt really plan on meeting you in person
/r/seduction16/09/24 05:15 PM
1

Shoutout to the Eskimo bitches !
/r/seduction16/09/24 01:46 PM
1

Then dont have relationships with lady friends ? Theres a shit ton of girls in your city go pick up some I feel like some of these posts are just engagement bait from time to time
/r/seduction16/09/24 01:45 PM
27

With all due respect its because you sensitive losers go into things expecting a different feeling from what the experience gives, its casual sex its not meant to be fulfilling or help you find yourself, or help you find meaning in life. Its for Fun, nothing more nothing less, casual sex is not to fill a void thats making you feel empty or be fulfilling, its to fuck cute girls be adventurous and have Fun. Thats it
/r/seduction16/09/24 01:00 PM
39

What are some of these questions man, do you think theres a special blueprint for exactly the scenario of “post yoga session with women that are still sweaty but are still talkative but only for a few minutes” ! No, just practice having convos with different girls multiple times and at one point you’ll find yourself picked up the conversational skills necessary, and it will become easier to hold convos.
/r/seduction16/09/24 03:29 AM
1

Read replies i explained it thoroughly in one of them
/r/seduction16/09/24 03:16 AM
3

On social media yes, with all due respect go check your sister’s IG inbox if she has a good pfp, or create a tinder and put her pic and see how many approaches she’ll get But yeah in real life guys mostly approach in Clubs/bars, not many indulge in Day game so i agree with the occasional approaches in that regard but anything else no way
/r/seduction15/09/24 09:08 PM
7

Yeah if you have that pic as a pfp on IG, or your main on Tinder you’ll get a lot of approaches, you look good i think you’re just unlucky, it had nothing to do with how you look if thats the pic you use online Do you check your follower request and inbox on IG ? Maybe make ur account public and post selfie stories that way it will reach way more guys than just ur followers if u had a private account. And again you look good on ur pic have more confidence
/r/seduction15/09/24 09:04 PM
7

Just a question is that you on your pfp ? If so then something isnt right
/r/seduction15/09/24 08:57 PM
5

Hmm, that’s interesting i apologize for mistaking you for a guy, i’d say put some filters on that slightly boost your appearance but doesnt change it drastically, just to give u an extra notch in looks, so you’ll get more hits and when meeting up ur real life look isnt that different As guys we always know that in real life she’ll be a notch down in appearance we’re used to it, do that on dating apps and social media Non-online try to sit in places guys go to to pick up chicks try to sit in bars…
/r/seduction15/09/24 08:54 PM
40

I doubt ur really a girl, cuz even the least attractive girls get hit on a fair share
/r/seduction15/09/24 08:45 PM
142

With all honesty, just have a an IG account post some stories and you’ll get a lot of DM’s doesnt matter how ugly you are as a girl, or make a tinder Guys swipe right on anyone, you’ll get a shit ton of matches even as an ugly girl
/r/seduction15/09/24 08:39 PM
13

I’ll give you a results based advice but i’ll be downvoted but fuck it, if when you dress up well and get a good haircut can pass for younger do it, tell them you’re 29, their brain will take it way better than 30 even though its one year Just like how every corporation puts 4.99$ rather than 5.00$ psychologically the brain is way more attentive to the first Number, especially vocally when you start with Twenty something rather than Thirty something
/r/seduction15/09/24 06:22 PM
1

I’m very introverted, but i can make myself be social for a short period of around 3 hours a day after that I’m exhausted. and i use that widow of opportunity when i have a date. I try to not indulge in a conversation with someone prior to a date
/r/seduction15/09/24 02:15 PM
7

I want to experience as many girls as i can, theres a notion that “All girls are the same“, when it’s inherently False. Each girl i’ve been with had her own Personality, Unique Traits, different experiences, going thru different stuff, each one had her own Story. Some were very interesting, some were not Plus each one has her own Beauty traits, one will have a very pretty smile, one will have a super fine voice, one will have a look that’ll make u nervous Some will be super pretty, some will be …
/r/seduction15/09/24 02:10 PM
1

Not really ur going against very frail chances, i’ve been doing this for years, i think people here just dont wanna seem like dickheads and i respect that, but the just keep looking and you’ll find girls just trynna fuck, is a very hyperbolic advice of what happens in reality, You already have less than 10% with every stranger girl you approach, and with those that succeed, the absolute vast majority will step away when they realize u just wanna fuck, And that give her vague non committal answer…
/r/seduction15/09/24 02:01 PM
0

I’ve been doing it for years i probably did DM girls who were friends a couple of times, but i never had any problem with this issue it was never brought up, if you wanna be extra sure if you follow 2 accounts and they aswell follow each other, IG will tell you that you 3 are mutuals, but yeah i never had this issue at all I try to stay away from the extremes, if a girl has a few thousand followers or less than 100 followers i tend to not DM, if a girl is following like 30 people i’m sure she ju…
/r/seduction15/09/24 01:42 AM
0

Yeah i do keep a lot of guys in following to balance it out, and i unfollow all the girls who dont follow back in a couple of days, to keep following low and move to new ones I dont know where ur from, but where im from everyone had their account as private even guys, so go with whats the norm
/r/seduction15/09/24 12:26 AM
1

Read my replies
/r/seduction14/09/24 11:52 PM
1

Funny you asked, from my last one No, i got an unregistered phone number to my name, and told her another name. Good question Make sure u change ur IPhone’s bluetooth name i messed that up but thankfully she didnt see it
/r/seduction14/09/24 10:00 PM
-1

My last 3 breakups went 1: i ghosted, 2 : I literally told her straight up “im not interested anymore” literally the exact phrase she left me on seen and that was that, 3 : she was mad that she was in the hospital and i didnt call her the entire day and when we spoke she was pissed and told me dont bother me again, and i didnt Not a single one of them have i heard from again, this is when i adopted the 2-4 weeks method, if i hit then cool if i didnt i move on, that way none of them were attached…
/r/seduction14/09/24 09:55 PM
-1

Im not gonna lie y’all saying tell her “ im not sure what im looking for but if i can feel the vibe between us and think i found the right person i have no problem making it a real relationship “ when OP only wants to Fuck, is just pure manipulation as that is literally a LIE But y’all tell yourselves that to make yourselves feel better about the shitty intentions behind those smooth words Keep it real all that smooth talking bullshit is just extra steps of Manipulation, its the same concept Im …
/r/seduction14/09/24 09:04 PM
2

Im gonna be frank. Lie I was doing the numbers game, got into a lot of Official Relationships that i made last 2-4 weeks, if i managed to smash by then cool if i dont i move on. I keep them short so even if i move on they wont really get hurt but at the very most just pissed at me. Thats the balance i found between making the RS official for them to be comfortable and me getting laid consistently and the same time i dont hurt them as they’re mostly very short RS that they dont become attached I …
/r/seduction14/09/24 08:00 PM
2

R-seduction is pretty cool for the most part, its the only sub that people actually give Realistic and good advices and answer them to the tee with no sugarcoating,no moral compass no BS, just straight results based advice But thats for the most part of course lol
/r/seduction14/09/24 03:12 PM
1

Thats how it works, people who get constant hookups and constant successes are the one who try a shit ton, thats just the reality of the game.Stop Bitching If you dont want to approach either by using apps or approach in real life, then with all due respect you will never have constant anything, other than the very rare and occasional girl shooting their shot first, and those are very frail and low chances,so if you wanna play that game good luck
/r/seduction14/09/24 02:09 PM
2

You can tell when people have no idea on how to actually get girls consistently.
/r/seduction14/09/24 12:33 AM
1

Yeah im starting to figure that out, this is mostly an old guys sub, i thought it would be mainly people under 30
/r/seduction13/09/24 03:40 PM
1

Hey 👋🏻 If they reply i go “I seen your pics and thought you look pretty, can i get to know you” sometimes i add a smiling emoji sometimes i dont Its pretty simple and straightforward but it yielded the most consistent results for me, been using it since i was 17 im almost 22 now, of course you can come up with something better if u put more effort in
/r/seduction13/09/24 03:26 PM
1

Yeah only DM those who follow back if they dont remove from following to keep it low and move on to the next chick
/r/seduction13/09/24 03:24 PM
2

Yeah the obvious answer is you need to get better at having interesting conversations with girls, as its a you problem read “Conversation Casanova” by Dave Perotta, when i was starting out this book helped me a lot in navigating conversations and keeping them interesting while flirting and getting to know girls
/r/seduction13/09/24 03:23 PM
2

Its good compared to effort put relative to success found, cold approach it will take you an average of 4 hours a day, going out to different spots, trying out different bars, getting drinks and spending money at each of those bars to not look out of place, Ubering around, walking a shit ton to different spots, with the success rate of around 10% out of every 100 Cold Approaches, and a 100 approaches will probably take you around a week My SM approach method, its lower in chances relative to the…
/r/seduction13/09/24 03:21 PM
2

First of all everything about your post is wrong, being financially stable, physically fit have nothing to do with getting girls those are self improvement advice not seduction advices, they wont help, at most they’ll be a little boost to your chances Being mentally healthy is needed to navigate anything in life, but you dont need buddhist level of mental stability , just dont be overly mentally stressed and you’re ok, most people u see walking arent in the best mental state, but they still have…
/r/seduction13/09/24 01:49 PM
1

I mean each guy here who actually cold approaches consistently will tell you, you need to hit that 100 approaches mark a week, mine is just super easy and doing it from ur bed in shorts so you can afford to spam more approaches, as getting 400 SM approaches will take less than half the time to get 100 cold approaches
/r/seduction13/09/24 12:51 PM
1

I believe people here see cold approach as a way to get out and be social and as a self improvement and working on yourself type advice, when in reality this is a sub to help get chicks not self improvement i just gave them a very easy approach that u can do from the comfort of ur own bed in shorts and yields consistent results and im getting downvoted so fuck em this is what i get for trying to introduce easier ways to help beginner guys get the hang of things Then theres this myth that improvi…
/r/seduction12/09/24 08:45 PM
2

Yeab for sure, that will give you a boost of results for sure, but all my success really just came fr choosing my best looking pic and thats that just a profile pic. No posts no Highlights nothing
/r/seduction12/09/24 08:11 PM
3

I go to my following find people i know for sure live in my city it can be friends, check their following, and pick people from there that i dont know, and look for girls on their following list and follow every cute one i find do this a few times and IG will fill you suggestion bar with girls from your city or accounts in general from ur city. from there follow the ones u think are cute, and keep finding new girls from their following and the following of suggested accounts The more u do that t…
/r/seduction12/09/24 08:05 PM
1

From this sub yes, its called Day game
/r/seduction12/09/24 08:00 PM
2

I literally have only my pfp with 0 posts and 0 reels and a half assed bio and i never post stories
/r/seduction12/09/24 05:21 PM
2

Yeah i’m tired of responding to guys here explaining to them the math, they think every girl has a lot of guys DM’ing her, but in real life they’re the only one approaching that specific girl I’ve had more guys trynna argue that Dating apps are better than cold approach enthusiasts, when thats the worst type of approach for 90% of guys On IG/DatingApps/RealLife, a girl will always be approached and you always have a low chance of success with any specific stranger girl Might aswell do it from th…
/r/seduction12/09/24 05:20 PM
4

The only extra chance boost is if they follow back, if they dont then dont bother, unfollow and move to the next chick
/r/seduction12/09/24 05:07 PM
1

Sure
/r/seduction12/09/24 05:06 PM
1

I dont which spots you’re insinuating, but i agree if you’re looking for a specific type of girl i guess you’d frequent the unique places But yeah on SM you get every type of girl, some i smashed, some were only comfortable with making out and so on
/r/seduction12/09/24 05:05 PM
1

Yeah i explained that in another reply aswell, you mostly DM those who follow back if they dont move on
/r/seduction12/09/24 04:52 PM
2

Yeah recently i’ve gotten into building up my IG more aswell, we all just get to the same conclusions i guess, meaning we’re on the right path of figuring more stuff out haha
/r/seduction12/09/24 04:51 PM
1

No i said getting girls thru SM is just more comfortable and easier than cold approach when it comes to comfortability and ease i never said that each guy would find more success on it than cold approach because that’s subjective on what ur better at My point is to encourage guys to try SM approach as if you get the hang of it, its WAY more easier to do and yields consistent results aswell, plus its literally from the comfort of chilling in ur bed I never said its better at getting more girls st…
/r/seduction12/09/24 04:49 PM
1

I’m mostly a stay at my room type of guy, i only like to leave it for necessities, i meet my 2 friends once or twice a month, and the rest is im just chilling in my room Thats why i gotten really good at getting girls while chilling in my shorts on my bed lol The last time i cold approached was probably 5 years ago, out of all the girls i’ve had in life only 2 came from non SM approaches
/r/seduction12/09/24 04:40 PM
1

Writing is insane, but yeah DMing random girls, the same as approaching random girls in public or bars, or swiping random girls on dating apps, same concept The only different concept is Social circle approach
/r/seduction12/09/24 04:17 PM
2

And that is completely understandable, and i wish you the best my guy I’m just trying to help out the guys get easy results that dont know what they should do to get some girls. Plus it doesnt work like that getting girls will help you get valuable social skills AT EXACTLY getting and talking to girls, and confidence/conversation skills at exactly speaking with girls in a getting to know format Im an example of that, i have a shit ton of confidence talking to girls in dates and became really goo…
/r/seduction12/09/24 04:15 PM
1

And this is coming from a guy that did find success on Tinder, granted i only used it for 1 months and bought Platinum, and i managed 3 dates that month But after that month i realized i could do it for free and get the same results, and again each and his own individual experience
/r/seduction12/09/24 04:09 PM
4

You’re doing what we call, equating your personal experience to the norm, i can tell you that the vast majority of guys dont find success in Dating apps now a days, you’re overestimating your chances, 20% is too big of a percentage, its mostly the top 10% that get consistent play from dating apps and 90% don’t without the occasional hit here and there With my strategy more than 50% of guys here could pull it off,
/r/seduction12/09/24 04:04 PM
2

I always tell guys this, you only have success with girls that are available to be approached at that time, i literally tested this a whole lot of times When i start dating them i ask them why they answered my DM and they always say they were just feeling it at the moment, and ask them to show me their DM list, its always super full and some guys are way better looking than i am And i did that literally many times with different girls, and its always the same exact case
/r/seduction12/09/24 03:47 PM
2

My guy obviously with any kind of approach, you need Game and a good understanding of how to hold conversations with girls and escalating + you need to approach and hit the Numbers game I never said you dont need any type of game, thats a core component for any type of approach
/r/seduction12/09/24 03:40 PM
3

I lowkey agree with dating apps, because Match group made them a pay to play, and they control the visibility of your account But social media approach is so much easier, you can just chill in your room and Spam DM’s and some will bite I think people in this sub encourage going out and being social as a form of working on yourself and self improvement for some reason that why they always encourage it But if we’re talking solely getting chicks, SM will yield as many results just chilling in your …
/r/seduction12/09/24 03:37 PM
4

Not really 1 : with Tinder you have a specific amount of approaches 2 : on tinder only the top 5% of guys get and key word here consistent play you need to be really handsome On SM just have a pic that you look a good 7/10 and you’re game And im talking with experience from using both, with the same pictures, i get way more approaches just spamming DM’s and get way more results than any Dating app, granted i never paid for them so i dont know the margins of success of paid subscriptions
/r/seduction12/09/24 03:27 PM
4

My go to is Me : Hey 👋🏻 if they replied i go : i just saw your pics and thought you look pretty and i was wondering if can get to know you Its pretty simple and straightforward but this is the one that yielded the most results for me Obviously you can come up with better openings if you tried hard enough, thats just what worked the most for me
/r/seduction12/09/24 03:23 PM
5

With all due respect No that is a hugely wrong statement, girls DO have moments when they feel like being approached and other times not Yeah asking them that is mostly when i’m already dating them and a few weeks into the relationship, i used to do that when i was starting to get a more understanding of things Yeah it has a low success rate but at the benefit of the ease of DM’s, it’s mostly 1% success rate, but you can burst thru a 100 DM in 2 days. From my experience its 1-2 girls successful …
/r/seduction12/09/24 03:19 PM
3

I mostly DM any girl i find cute back then i used to go for 6’s and up now a days its more so 7’s and up but i do pursue them, mainly from the suggestion bar or checking out following of different public accounts i keep following low and follow as many as i can if they follow back i DM, if they dont i remove them and move on On FB/IG I do that a few hundred times a week it only take around 2–4 hours a week, and i find success with 1 or 2 girls weekly
/r/seduction12/09/24 03:15 PM
3

Yeah this works for you because you’re already going to be at those places regardless, keep doing you my guy 💪🏻 But most guys here GO to those places for the sole purpose of getting girls, and dont go on walks because they like to, but because they want women Im just saying its a really underrated type of approach that yielded a lot of success and its easy as fuck and not that demanding, plus u dont spend money and its mainly chilling in your room I just wanted to shed more light to it
/r/seduction12/09/24 03:08 PM
8

Like i explained in another reply. The abundance of guys is always there, girls get approached many times be it in person/Dating apps/DM’s If you approached girls a lot you will realize you only find success with those that were interested at being approached at that certain time With the ease of DM’s and with abundance, you are bound to DM a girl at the right time when they were feeling it, even though they had many prior DM’s I literally always ask girls this and asked some to show me their DM…
/r/seduction12/09/24 03:03 PM
8

Because Tinder chooses the visibility of your profile, and you have to be really handsome to get consistent play there and its a play to pay now a days and you have a specific amount of swipes when your profile visibility is already controlled if you approached girls a lot you will realize you’re mostly successful with girls that are available and interested to be approached at that time Meaning the girl that you found success with, if you wouldve approached her a day earlier, she would not have…
/r/seduction12/09/24 02:58 PM
8

Lets be real Dating apps only work consistently if you’re super handsome as a guy, most guys only get a couple matches a week, with it rarely leading to dates, plus with Match Group owning the big ones it became a huge pay to play for the normal guy
/r/seduction12/09/24 02:43 PM
1

IG/FB
/r/seduction11/09/24 01:53 PM
0

I prefer social media approach, you can spam Hundreds of DMs a week, 1-2 will bite every time plus i be chilling in my own room i dont have to travel to different spots, try out different bars and different places, and walk a shit ton, plus buy drinks every bar so you dont look out of place, plus you have to uber or drive back and forth I just be chilling in my room, and spamming dms, i learned how to text and flirt and keep convos interesting thru text throughout the years, by the end of each w…
/r/seduction10/09/24 07:53 PM
3

Most of the time they dont do it directly, as in stare at you and smile, inviting you in is mostly when you approach and start talking to her, her very first responses are with a smile, rather than a cold face and serious tone to help you realize that she doesnt wanna be bothered, but a warm energy and a smile from the go, to let you know she was open to being approached at that time Or on SM she follows instantly and likes a story of yours or something, or when you DM her to start talking, shes…
/r/seduction09/09/24 12:46 PM
2

If you read my original comment i mentioned twice how he’s supposed to go out there and approach and PRACTICE as you learn way more thru trial and error i literally even put the word practice in Caps Taking responsibility is first assessing the situation and see what’s wrong, doing research and figuring out the solution and taking initiative and acting up on it He has 2 thing holding him back: 1.his inexperience: this is pretty simple to combat as its not rocket science, he needs to research the…
/r/seduction09/09/24 01:13 AM
1

Like i said he does need to stop bitching but what he needs to so is find solutions relative to his situation, rather than hardhead dumbass his way to something thats just not gonna work, someone who sucks with women will be too dumb to realize that different cultures need different types of ways to pick up chicks relative to whats normalized there No country is a goldmine for cold approach, but some countries you will find more success than others, Spain and France arent some magical spots, the…
/r/seduction09/09/24 12:55 AM
1

My guy, cultures differ as much as i hate people who bitch about not approaching he’s just factually correct Sweden and germany are social Hard mode difficulty, just getting a hello from a neighbor there is rare His responsibility is to stop bitching and find other courses of action and find solutions relative to his situation, where im from cat calling and cold approach became a ❌these past few years, as it became so rampant compared to previous years, but i adapted twice and found solutions So…
/r/seduction09/09/24 12:42 AM
1

i agree with the idea that a lot of people here make shitty excuses to avoid approaching girls, but unfortunately he’s right tho the swedish culture is similar to the german one, there cat calling is basically very rare, and appproaching people in public or having small talk is looked at as very weird even making small talk with the cashier is bizarre , i know some friends who went to study there and who were social monsters here, and its been years and they couldnt make a single friend, some cu…
/r/seduction09/09/24 12:26 AM
2

You’re on the other side of the coin of my situation, here where i’m from cold approach is so rampant, that girls absolutely hate it, each girl gets approached a few times every single day, that all girls started to absolutely despise it, now it has a 0% success rate, The good thing is theres many types of approaches out there, cold approach is just the popular one Theres social media approach : use your best pic on your profile pic on IG/FB have a few cool activities you’ve done on your reels a…
/r/seduction08/09/24 11:50 PM
26

I heard sweden is hard in making new connections be it friends or gfs, as friends are mostly set from childhood and the dating world there is mostly from social circle. BUT there are degenerates im every society AND You said you approached a few times and managed to get their number or socials, thats already a success that means this can work we’re getting somewhere You have to realize the name of the game is the Numbers game, i’ve DM’ed/approached/TinderMatched with literally close to a 1000 ri…
/r/seduction08/09/24 10:06 PM
14

Worst advice on this sub, women dont come flying out of nowhere when you start working on yourself, 99% of women dont shoot their shot but invite you in to shoot yours
/r/seduction08/09/24 09:52 PM
2

The whole point of seduction is to find those who are interested and escalate with them, it was and is never about turning uninterested girls into interested And interested means she in the mood to be available either to be approached or DM’ed, not necessarily interested in you Move on.
/r/seduction04/09/24 01:56 PM
2

Have long conversations with her, through text, Calls or when meeting up, and ask her about what you want to know in a conversation-high after talking for a while When girls get comfortable talking they will tell you anything about them. Sometimes you dont even have to ask, somewhere down the line in a long convo they will tell you everything, but its better to ask in a conversation-high when she you can see thats shes comfortable and having fun talking
/r/seduction31/08/24 06:23 PM
0

To answer your last paragraph, have short term situationships i only do 2-4 weeks with a girl then break things up with her, if i managed to hit then cool if i didnt at least i managed to experience dating her and having cool convos and dates with her. The pain girls get after breaking up with them is not usually out of love but more so Attachement, thats what i learned through experience, breaking things up with them after 2-4 weeks, doesnt leave them as hurt or broken rather pissed at most but…
/r/seduction31/08/24 06:19 PM
2

Lmao what a jealousy envy filled text, the goal in this sub is the get women not act like one
/r/seduction30/08/24 03:10 PM
0

I do only Social media and online approach i never cold approach i think you missed the point where i said i live in a super religious country, meaning most girls arent looking for pre marital relationships, so most of the approaches go on girls that already arent looking for anything. Thats why i implied if you live in a non super religious country your numbers will be higher, but somehow you didnt wanna read that part
/r/seduction29/08/24 10:13 PM
1

Out of close to 1000 approaches, i’d say i had 15-18 successes, some i dated some i just enjoyed as a talking stage but ghosted them after a date.
/r/seduction29/08/24 08:38 PM
5

If i succeeded in a put my arm around her after a while of talking and flirting, and she didnt budge, or if i succeeded in holding hands with her, i literally just ask for a kiss when im in a conversation-high while having eye contact and close to each other, sometimes it works sometimes it doesnt. This isnt the most practical professional dating guru advice, but its the most simple straightforward one thatv yields consistent results for me.
/r/seduction29/08/24 03:09 PM
1

Congrats thats actually super cool, its still in my bucket list to game a foreign girl, most i’ve gotten close is a girl with double nationality who speaks my countries second language rather than the main one, still a fellow countrywoman
/r/seduction29/08/24 03:02 PM
4

I live in a super religious country so the vast majority wont indulge in pre marital sex, i only have 2 bodies, but i reached 3rd base a whole lot more. If you’re in a country where religion isnt too prominent, you will have way more bodies relative to your success rate
/r/seduction29/08/24 02:35 PM
46

4 pillars to follow : Maximize your look based on what you’re working with. Get good at interesting conversations with women and escalating with those that are interested. Practice a lot on any woman that is interested, until you get the hang of when to throw flirtatious remarks, get the hang of juggling between conversations and keeping them interesting, knowing when to escalate, and getting good at knowing what works and what not. As to keep it real with you this step is very important. As you…
/r/seduction28/08/24 11:21 PM
3

I have no idea bro, just try to maximize your look based on what you’re working with im a super skinny guy so i never had the chance to wear skinny jeans, so i always invested in clothes that fit my physique, you’ll always find me in a light hoodie with a jacket on, summertime i dont wear slim t shirts, you’ll find me in a moderate oversize shirt but not too big, just enough to hide my skinny physique and not look too big on me and i’ve never had any comment from a girl ever calling me skinny, j…
/r/seduction27/08/24 12:30 PM
6

Lmao i have no idea, the time frame between the last nonchalant gimmick date and the playful outgoing personality date is 1,5 years, i stopped dating for a long while trying to get some other things straight in my life, and when i came back to the game and went on a date, i guess i just forgot everything i’ve learned in speaking in a low tone voice and speaking slowly and other seduction tips, or maybe i’ve just changed in that 1,5 years who knows bro
/r/seduction27/08/24 12:22 PM
6

Lmao what u mean wishful thinking i had multiple girlfriends in my life, i had 3 girlfriends in the past 2 months, i feel like ur just projecting yourself onto this sub, if you had to become super muscular to get girls good for you, but i did that without ever stepping foot in a gym, like i said master conversational skills, maximize your look to at least a 7/10 on a good day, and you’re game, all thats left is the numbers game
/r/seduction27/08/24 01:39 AM
7

Passing the minimum attractiveness is not by being a super handsome 6 pack having guy with a model face you goof. if you can dress well get a good haircut smell good, and get yourself to a 7/10 on looks on a good day then you’re game, all thats left is the numbers game and a good understanding of conversation and escalating, then you can get your fair share of girls will you get 10’s every day? No. But you will get constant 7’s and up with an occasional good looking girl here and there. And that…
/r/seduction27/08/24 01:26 AM
7

He always insinuates that the sole advice there is to get women is to be hot, which insinuates in its turn that only the top 5% of men get women, when thats objectively wrong, getting girls consistently is all a numbers game and learning how to have conversations with girls and escalate with those that are interested, as long as you dress well and take care of yourself, and learn how to game girls and develop a blueprint any average bloke can get his fair share of girls All that you have to be s…
/r/seduction27/08/24 01:07 AM
7

Bro do you know how many times i’ve spent 5+ hours texting girls or on call at night time till they went to sleep, these girls love nothing more than to yap about nothing, all she have to be is interested and she wont stop talking.
/r/seduction26/08/24 10:31 PM
26

You have the worst advices here on the regular my guy. Holy shit
/r/seduction26/08/24 09:04 PM
314

Thats the secret champ, you cant, girls love talking and you have to be ready to do so aswell. You have to fake it until you make it, yes you could luck out on an occasional girl thats down from the jump, but those are very frail and small chances. try to change your way of conversation, recently i went from a nonchalant gimmick in dates to a more sillier outgoing personality, where i introduced more flirtatious remarks and a trolling side, and it made my dates WAY more fun and interesting for m…
/r/seduction26/08/24 08:33 PM
5

A little pro tip : try to get “with those” just to practice game and how to have flirtatious conversations, deep conversations, how to toggle between topics, how to escalate the relationship to a sexual one. When i was starting i used to practice on a lot of girls that i wasn’t interested in, i even had a full month “test” relationship with a 5/10 to understand how to navigate a relationship and keep her interest going, all this helped me a lot further down the line when i actually tried getting…
/r/seduction26/08/24 02:08 AM
11

You’re too deep in, whatever weirdo stuff you’re talking about doesn’t work in real life situations, and trust me this is coming from a guy with no moral compass and gets his fair share of girls.
/r/seduction26/08/24 02:03 AM
24

Lmao im on the same boat as you, except im from a religious country and on the younger side 21M, so my pool of girls 18-20 are going to be more sexually restricted than older ones. I just had 3 successful girlfriends these past few months and all of them were looking for long term stuff,so i had to cut ties with all of them but im still looking. Lol i cant offer advice but i will offer consolation as a guy thats going through what ur going on a harder scale lol
/r/seduction25/08/24 10:22 PM
3

Ur the second guy to mention the close in age thing, but if you ever dated girls around that age, you’ll know that they’re vastly different in how you spit game to them in how you have conversations with them, and how to escalate with them, the game for an 18 yo girl fresh out of high school and 22-23 college girls is hugely different
/r/seduction24/08/24 10:42 PM
1

Yeah that makes sense thanks for the explanation
/r/seduction24/08/24 09:01 PM
4

There’s a big difference between girls when they’re at that age, the game you spit to an 18 yo girl is not the same how you game a 22-23, way different mindsets and conversations
/r/seduction24/08/24 08:56 PM
1

Sure thanks for your answer, i know but im talking on the average, like will i find more success finding girls sexually active in their early 20’s rather than girls 18-19, or is it just in my mind, since i get most of my dates from dating apps or IG i get to know their age early on, so i wanna know which ones to put more effort in
/r/seduction24/08/24 07:16 PM
2

To keep it real with you, from the hundreds and hundreds of approaches i’ve made throughout the years, i only ever escalated to dates/relationships with girls that seemed interested and open for a talk from the jump, or even those that do respond and do consistently, if they were doing so with short sentence responses or one word responses, i couldn’t close, so yeah for the most part i agree but there are no absolutes, plus interested doesn’t particularly mean interested in you, she’s interested…
/r/seduction05/08/24 02:18 PM
10

If you’re talking when you already got her to date you, and a few weeks into dating and things are still going well, play the push pull method. Search about it learn it and apply it. It gives the best result in this case. If you’re talking any other case then you have to specify more
/r/seduction01/08/24 03:42 AM
2

And to your original statement, if you wanna learn cold approach LEARN EXACTLY cold approaching, lifting weights, meditating, starting a business Will not teach you how to get a girl in bed, write “cold approach” on the search bar in /seduction. Read everything you find on tips and all that learn everything you can, pick what works for you by your logistics and what you can handle, and go Approach as many girls as you can, remember for every 100 girls you’ll get 1-2, use every tactic you learned…
/r/seduction31/07/24 07:01 PM
1

No i’m not im a decent 7 if i dress well and get a good haircut, i can show you my picture that i use and probably a selfie of what i look like right just chilling, shoot me a DM and judge by yourself
/r/seduction31/07/24 06:56 PM
0

Look man the Very honest truth is, all that working on your self bullshit isn’t important, you wanna get girls ? Practice how to get girls. Lifting weights,fixing your diet, staying hydrated,sleeping 8 hours a night won’t teach you how to build a blueprint to get girls constantly. If you dont like cold approaching theres many other types of approaches that works The only way to learn how to get girls is to practice exactly getting girls I’m 5’7 skinny never went to the gym in my life i barely ha…
/r/seduction31/07/24 06:49 PM
1

Not really i made myself toxic, the first time i ever got a girlfriend after struggling to get one, my first set of actions after it is to go get another one. So yeah it can happen
/r/seduction31/07/24 05:25 PM
8

I dont know how y’all do it honeslty, i was never in a situation where i was talking to a girl for a period of time with no development, its either she’s interested and im in there or shes not and im gone, i never in my life spoke to a girl for more than a few days, without either setting a date or ghosting and moving on. Stop giving uninterested girls your time and energy, you already know the answer, girls will shit talk behind anyones back, doesnt mean they wanna cut ties with anyone, i’ve ha…
/r/seduction31/07/24 05:01 PM
2

If you dont enjoy something stop doing it, the name of the game is to enjoy yourself, theres Many different approach methods, try to experiment some more and find how you enjoy picking up girls
/r/seduction30/07/24 06:32 PM
3

Yeah its gonna be tricky, its way different game that works for 15-17 highschopl girls, and 18-21 AND 22-25, its an ever evolving thing, you’re going to have adjust and learn how to game a girl in college its different than picking up highschool girls, on the second part i cant help, you i’m a social medial approach guy not real life
/r/seduction30/07/24 06:31 PM
2

I literally do everything you do aswell except the first part, i pick them up in my car i always take girls to the same spot its like a little ocean area where you can park the car and look at the ocean from up ( girls love this romantic setting shit ) i dont pay for dates aswell. They’re mostly in my car in that area i told you or getting ice cream aswell,i also only go for women that are easy from the jump and show interest back aswell, i hate chasing or that hard to get shit,the only differen…
/r/seduction30/07/24 04:04 PM
1

Yeah i only had 1 girl that i approached in real life but the settings were all in my favor, i went for it and Banked, but for the most part its SM approach, i dont rely in waiting for the right opportunity while im out, because im a shut in i rarely leave my house if its not for necessities, plus i only have a couple of friends, so i mastered the art of getting women while being in my room until i have to see them
/r/seduction30/07/24 02:56 PM
1

Seems like you did have a blueprint in that work place lol, but i agree its a numbers game, cool to see someone doing it in real life, im more of a Social Media approach type of guy, good shit bro
/r/seduction30/07/24 02:43 PM
1

Nice job, how did you make such a big leap in success rate during your PHD phase
/r/seduction30/07/24 02:34 PM
1

Interesting what blueprint did you follow to get constant and consistent results, and how did you get a 35 YO woman while younger than 24, i find difficulty making a girl even a few years older interested when they know im a younger guy
/r/seduction30/07/24 02:32 PM
1

Yeah i was mostly asking about people’s success in Seduction in this sub and what their journey is looking like, but yeah just brush off my original question i guess
/r/seduction30/07/24 06:45 AM
0

Lmao yeah im just messing around, i meant your success in Seduction so far i just tried to say it in a funny way
/r/seduction30/07/24 06:16 AM
2

Im more of a Social media approach kind of guy rather than cold approach, i shoot my shot at any girl i find remotely cute, when they reply and stick around for about more than 5 texts, i recheck their profile for more pictures, if i like what i saw i keep going and im lucky that day its all good, if im not i try to hone my skills on whoever replied back
/r/seduction30/07/24 06:13 AM
1

Sure mine is 7 inches on a warm Summer
/r/seduction30/07/24 02:35 AM
2

Bullshit, i always use the ones that reply back but i dont find attractive to practice and tune my skills and sharpen up my game if i had quit for a while
/r/seduction30/07/24 12:29 AM
2

Good job getting out of depression, my number 1 tip that helped me most in getting girls is Volume, you have to realize every guy that you see pull multiple times got rejected 100x more, at the end of the day you wont remember a single girl of them but you’ll remember every single one you pulled and had a relationship with, im a DM only guy, 5/7 girls were from sliding in DMs, the other 2 i was just lucky, in a week i DM every cute girl i see on IG or Facebook, that i follow and managed to get f…
/r/seduction30/07/24 12:19 AM
6

You’ve hit it right on the nose, you already know the answer, no one wants a depressed girl about her self all day long, so forget about her and try different girls.
/r/seduction29/07/24 10:47 PM
18

Its going to sound a bit silly but it gave instant results, i used to never have a problem approaching girls and rejection, but when i do get a number i didnt know what to say or keep a conversation with girls, so i read a book called “ Conversation Casanova “ by Dave Perotta, it taught me most of i know about talking with girls especially “ Open Ended questions “
/r/seduction29/07/24 10:35 PM
1

Nah man dont do it in Turkey, the culture is Very Hard on men who approach women there, thats like one of the worst countries to do it in, but im not 100% sure, do your research on reddit of people who went and tries there beforehand, good luck my guy
/r/seduction29/07/24 08:29 PM
38

Learning how to have conversations with girls and keep the conversation going and interesting while adding flirtatious remarks, the first part was more important
/r/seduction29/07/24 08:27 PM
3

Interesting i live in morocco, it’s probably IG arab models cosplaying as moroccan girls, a Tall Hijabi Girl with a clothing that shoes their figure ? I’ve never seen a moroccan girl like that in real life.
/r/seduction29/07/24 08:20 PM
2

You’re talking about Gulf Women, moroccan girls are rarely ever hijabi, and Super Short for the most part
/r/seduction29/07/24 08:11 PM
2

Moroccan girls, one was Half Belgian Half Moroccan
/r/seduction29/07/24 08:08 PM
1

Look my brother like i said i’ll keep it 100% with you, NO ONE is born with a natural gift of knowing how to get girls, obviously theres gonna be a few here and there but 99% dont know how to speak to girls, meaning WE ALL had been rejected multiple time before getting a girl, its a learning curve, it’s something that you have to learn, read some of the subs here of people Cold Approaching 20-60 girls a day, for practice and getting Laid with Maybe 1 or 2 of them, and thats 1 day of rejection, i…
/r/seduction28/07/24 05:01 PM
1

I dont know if you were speaking to me but, my answer is its Because i researched seduction a lot before starting, and i knew before hand that Everyone gets rejected WAY more than they pull, but when they pull then you have a cute girl going for you, and if tou do that multiple times than you have multiple cute girls going for you throughout the years, i always knew that everyone who pulls gets rejected way more than not, so i knew the game, plus i shoot my shot at strangers 100%, so who cares! …
/r/seduction27/07/24 11:24 PM
1

Not really 90% of girls that ive dated came from sliding in DMs, we were strangers to each other before my DM, i only had my profile picture going for me which has a 7.3 rating on attractiveness on photofeeler as we speak. The other 10% was cold approach to strangers aswell
/r/seduction27/07/24 11:21 PM
3

By the way im 5’7 with shoes on and skinny and probably a 7 in looks
/r/seduction27/07/24 08:06 PM
3

Hey man hope u doing good, i’ll tell you straight up Seduction is a game of Numbers and percentages, i’ve dated multiple times in the last few years, ive gotten rejected 10x more, ive smashed a few 9-10s in my life, ive gotten rejected 10x, ive had girls number literally more than i can count and remember, ive gotten rejected 10x more, at the end of the day you will NEVER remember the girls that rejected you i literally cant remember 1, but i remember EVERY girl i smashed and dated or went out w…
/r/seduction27/07/24 08:05 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter