Lefaid Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
8	What is your view on the reasons for modern divorce? My ex pretty explicitly uses modern messages to explain why I failed her and our marriage failed. So one point there.	/r/Divorce_Men	07/03/25 08:25 PM
2	Does it get any better once papers are signed? It is important that you still find ways to enjoy yourself when you don't have the kids. That is the first step to moving on.	/r/Divorce_Men	28/01/25 01:16 AM
2	The divorce subreddit is sickening!!!! I know what you mean but it is hard to find value is that perspective because no one gives a crap about our perspective.	/r/Divorce_Men	05/01/25 07:19 PM
1	International child support advice? How does one leave the US to live in poverty?	/r/Divorce_Men	01/01/25 04:23 PM
2	International child support advice? Your situation does not make sense to me. You make far below the US minimum wage and yet you were paying $860 a month and now seem prepared to spend $1000 a month. You in fact were generous with the $800 number. And now you want to go to court to get that number down, because you actually make.... What $500? $1000 a month? Even if I say $1500 a month, how did you afford to give $800 away there?... The reality is that if you already made the compromise, it seems like it is too late to change anyt…	/r/Divorce_Men	01/01/25 04:01 PM
1	What were your breaking points? I had 2 breaking points. The first was after laying my heart out to the marriage counselor, she declared that I need to stop lying to him about what was going on. The second was after a 1 on 1 conversation where she declared she had no interest in continuing the relationship, she found nothing attractive about me and there was nothing I could do to even have a friendship with her. She was staying with me because she was stuck with me for a variety of reasons. But I wasn't dependent on her at all…	/r/Divorce_Men	24/12/24 03:23 PM
2	I’m out. Yes, you leave. You are being used and getting nothing out of the relationship. Don't let your kids see you be used like this. If she doesn't want to work on the relationship, then it is her responsibility to figure out how to survive without you. It is not your job to take care of her beyond what the court demands you do.	/r/Divorce_Men	23/12/24 11:58 AM
1	Seriously thinking about leaving--need to read success stories. I don't see how divorce is going to fix this. You still have to coparent when it is all said and done and these same issues will still come up.	/r/Divorce_Men	23/12/24 12:55 AM
2	Working on yourself I am saying that you shouldn't want her back. It is over. Don't work on yourself to get her back. Work on yourself for either the next woman or just to feel better about yourself. You two broke up for a good reason. It is important that you force yourself to move on.	/r/Divorce_Men	18/12/24 08:08 AM
5	Wife wants M-F, I want 50/50. How to get her to agree? You don't. You drag it out until you get the best arrangement for the children you 2 share, 50-50.	/r/Divorce_Men	09/12/24 03:51 PM
9	Working on yourself You aren't getting her back. You don't want her back. That part of your life is over. You need to accept that so you can move on.	/r/Divorce_Men	30/11/24 04:02 AM
5	What Next So much this. The real reason men get screwed in divorce is because we do not stand our ground and we let our ex's dictate to us what the early stages of the divorce will look like. We let them plan as if we don't exist and adapt to whatever that looks like Nothing says we have to do that and our chidren need us in their lives like they need their mothers. If she is intent on ruining your life, don't make it easy and your kids will have a strong and present father in their lives.	/r/Divorce_Men	28/11/24 10:56 PM