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Click on thread -> Scroll down to the bottom -> Sh*t this is long -> "I ran out of space on reddit."
/r/TheRedPill15/12/19 08:41 PM
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test
/r/TheRedPill16/09/19 05:59 PM
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Test
/r/TheRedPill16/09/19 05:39 PM
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I feel like, we should analyze the posts from r/ relationships here, and discuss them in the comments. OP, I agree with you on most points. However, the guy's behavior is definitly both Dark Triad and very puerile. Who the fuck let's a plate sleep at their place after meeting her 48h prior? Lol, what a fool. This guy is messed up, who invests their time in a woman like this, just to forget her next week ?
/r/TheRedPill16/09/19 05:39 PM
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I feel like, we should analyze the posts from r/ relationships here, and discuss them in the comments. OP, I agree with you on most points. However, the guy's behavior is definitly both Dark Triad and very puerile. Who the fuck let's a plate sleep at their place after meeting her 48h prior? Lol, what a fool. This guy is messed up, who invests their time in a woman like this, just to forget her next week ?
/r/TheRedPill16/09/19 05:38 PM
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I feel like, we should analyze the posts from r/ relationships here, and discuss them in the comments. OP, I agree with you on most points. However, the guy's behavior is definitly both Dark Triad and very puerile. Who the fuck let's a plate sleep at their place after meeting her 48h prior? Lol, what a fool. This guy is messed up, who invests their time in a woman like this, just to forget her next week ?
/r/TheRedPill16/09/19 05:36 PM
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Don't.
/r/askTRP20/08/19 01:26 PM
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Fix your diet, workout. Cut out porn. Stop masturbation for a while. Report back in 60 days if this helps...
/r/askTRP20/08/19 06:46 AM
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I'm not sure if I have time to see her and fuck her one last time before she goes. If I do it's going to be a squeeze. Don't Fight the Last War.
/r/askTRP20/08/19 06:44 AM
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When you invite her, set it at most 2 - 3 days in the future. Ex: On Monday, you invite her Tue, Wed or Thu (max). I've had more positive responses like this. Enjoy !
/r/askTRP20/08/19 06:42 AM
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Touch means she is interested ! Read the sidebar and act fast. If you don't invite her out the next time you see her, she will next you.
/r/askTRP20/08/19 06:30 AM
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OP, more information is needed. How exactly have you lost frame ? How easy would it be for you to get a plate ? How easy does she think it would be for you to get a new plate ? Are you making her jealous / dread ? How is your social life ? How much time are you spending together ?
/r/askTRP20/08/19 06:28 AM
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Is this a red flag or something? This is a trap.
/r/askTRP20/08/19 06:25 AM
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What qualifies her as a potential LTR / plate ? Let her reschedule / show interest.
/r/askTRP20/08/19 06:22 AM
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Am serious. Yes, but no, humans are subjective. Let me explain with mathematics: A = The man that makes them feel. B = the best for them. C = Ergo, the best man. You're saying A = B, thus C. Objectively, the best man, is not the man that makes her (specifically) feel the most. Women don't walk around with an accurate map of the value of all men and rate you on that scale. They all have a warped map, based on their own experiences and history. If you can conjure feelings in her, you can be a lose…
/r/askTRP20/08/19 06:13 AM
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Solid reminder. Appreciated !
/r/askTRP20/08/19 06:07 AM
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Women don't need all the men, they need one. True. Women only need one man. The best. Wrong. They need the man that makes them feel the most. Emotions over logic.
/r/askTRP19/08/19 03:59 PM
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No. Scarcity is the opposite of abundance.
/r/askTRP19/08/19 09:53 AM
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"I just love my body" = I have self-esteem issues, and I'm not sure I'm worth anything. Please tell me I'm pretty.
/r/askTRP19/08/19 09:51 AM
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Set a date. Logistics. Have a good time. Hint: Act like you've done this a hundred times.
/r/askTRP19/08/19 09:48 AM
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You can.
/r/askTRP19/08/19 09:37 AM
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she started taking videos of us kissing with the Snap camera. Distasteful, Insta-next in my book. Start recording when you make out next time and film your own amateur video.
/r/askTRP19/08/19 09:36 AM
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look at me like I have 3 eyes and aren't into me. Do you have 3 eyes ? A honest self assessment of your physique, where you should improve / where you can't, is crucial. Join a social circle, you will get laid automatically, as long as you aren't weird and follow the advice in How to Win Friends and Influence People. Betas get laid like this ALL the time, so if you are even putting in an ounce of effort, it will happen to you. Scale this up, depending on how much free time you have to multiply y…
/r/askTRP19/08/19 09:33 AM
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Being scarce Setting standards & boundaries (in all relationships) Giving honest compliments Voice tone (often mentioned) Reputation ( at places you visit often)
/r/askTRP19/08/19 09:28 AM
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It seems to me that most girls are desensitized to guys grinding on them and it's not something I should be ashamed of doing as long as I'm not coming up to them unknowingly. your SMV is high enough.
/r/askTRP18/08/19 09:44 AM
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It's called monk mode. Bonus points for going to a remote area and living like an animal.
/r/askTRP18/08/19 09:43 AM
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They have to meet certain standards... how else can be aroused ?
/r/askTRP18/08/19 09:41 AM
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There is a subreddit. Big Dick Problems.
/r/askTRP18/08/19 08:57 AM
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How do I relax and enjoy a nice fuck? More experience.
/r/askTRP18/08/19 08:42 AM
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Agreed. In addition it will teach you a lot about human psychology.
/r/askTRP18/08/19 06:01 AM
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Keep It Stupid Simple (KISS) Approach and Stay Don't leave until they tell you to leave or they themselves walk away Hit the gym Old fashioned lifts are best Eat right Minimize fast food Dress your best Get into a habit of talking to everyone!
/r/askTRP18/08/19 05:59 AM
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Diet & Exercise is #1. All else follows from this. Next, start planning your day.
/r/askTRP18/08/19 05:56 AM
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Lolita by Vladimir Nabokov.
/r/askTRP18/08/19 05:53 AM
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It is as you say. Read the following post: Why is it so fucking hard to find a girl that has actual hobbies? They all have the same interests: eating, drinking, shopping, and gossiping
/r/askTRP17/08/19 08:11 PM
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It's a shit test.
/r/askTRP17/08/19 08:06 PM
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OP, you need to be a tad bit more descriptive here.
/r/askTRP17/08/19 08:05 PM
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Chicken and egg problem lol
/r/askTRP17/08/19 08:04 PM
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Sparkling water
/r/askTRP17/08/19 08:01 PM
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(1) Start a field report journal (for yourself, write honestly). (2) Learn to think for yourself. As your own questions, and answer them in your journal. Plan your night before, and evaluate how it went afterwards. Define your goals, metrics, and then act on them. (3) Learn to dance 2-3 basic dances. I'm not a talker, I usually just pull from the dancefloor. Ideally girls on their own would be best, but I think they're practically non-existent here. Yes, they exist. Depends on what kind of venue…
/r/askTRP17/08/19 02:08 PM
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Being alone doesn't suck as much as being a side ho. Here's the problem, I realize now the only thing I want in life is this guy. So, what will it be ?
/r/askTRP17/08/19 01:56 PM
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Age, experience and exposure. The more you learn about women, and how they behave, the less power they will have over you. So go out and APPROACH. Even most hot girls are basic bitches, who don't have any hobbies. You are projecting when you see a 10. To overcome your projection, understand their behavior better. Once your dating experience goes up, you will notice that overall, they have very little to offer (outside of sex) and your interest will wane.
/r/askTRP17/08/19 01:55 PM
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(1) Use this memory as motivation to get stronger. (2) Forget about him. By nurturing revenge fantasies you lose control and give him power over you. Think of it like the anger version of Oneitis. (3) Forgive your past self, for not punching him in the face back then. (4) Strike a conversation with him, to clear the air, and move on. (5) If the bullying was extremely bad, pick a fight. Make sure he gets a few punches in so that there is no lingering anger from him afterwards. *Anything is better…
/r/askTRP17/08/19 01:43 PM
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Usually this leads to a one night stand and not repeated sex. In my experience.
/r/askTRP17/08/19 01:01 PM
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I see, so you’re saying agree and amplify? I need to practice that. I find chicks here don’t often understand sarcasm (language barrier). It's about moving the interaction in the direction that you want. Agree & amplify is just a tool to reach the next checkpoint.
/r/askTRP17/08/19 08:16 AM
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You: "Yes, I don't even know how to cook." Her: ... You: " How about you teach me Tuesday at 9pm ?" Emphasis on strong eye contact.
/r/askTRP17/08/19 07:39 AM
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I told her to just go home and that's it. Why ?
/r/askTRP17/08/19 06:49 AM
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Anyone have similar experiences with no fap? a Thai hooker ?
/r/askTRP17/08/19 06:40 AM
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It's how you say it. Being playful and teasing is key
/r/askTRP17/08/19 06:38 AM
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I really feel that if I go as soon as she tells me I will be operating in her frame. What do you really want ? If you just want to get your stuff, play into her frame, get your stuff and close this chapter. How long have you been together ? Do you know her parents and could convince them to pressure her ?
/r/askTRP17/08/19 06:36 AM
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For a more stable emotional self, have you tried fasting ? Simply drink water and don't eat for 48 - 72 hours, should help your hormones stabilize and be good for your willpower muscle. Diet plays a huge role in your mental well being.
/r/askTRP17/08/19 06:27 AM
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You're right. Have you successfully plated a girl you fucked on the first date ?
/r/askTRP16/08/19 09:31 PM
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So that's why she seemed sad, when I pulled out the condom. Edit: Seriously, yes, starting to see the theme. It sucks, I guess the older they are, the more time they have to plan-
/r/askTRP16/08/19 09:24 PM
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You can try and booty-call this and she's going to do / say what you like but her subconscious and manipulation game is stronger than yours and if you're not careful, you might be moving in together very soon. Word-for-word what a friend said...Don't see the moving in part happening but her hamster definitely assigned me a mythical role, before we even met... her manipulation is very much on point, but I'm just no thirsty enough. I guess this is why I've been feeling like the "pacing" is wrong. …
/r/askTRP16/08/19 09:19 PM
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Very likely... and shockingly this behavior is supposed to work.
/r/askTRP16/08/19 08:58 PM
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Likely ! Hadn't thought about it that way... Thought girls only showed off relationship material.
/r/askTRP16/08/19 04:53 PM
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True... and she seems to be the hottest from her friend group, so perhaps there is also the Cheerleader effect.
/r/askTRP16/08/19 04:49 PM
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Dude, it has only been two weeks... There hasn't been any time for emotions to grow.
/r/askTRP16/08/19 04:48 PM
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Vetting. How do you vett ? Youngin asking. Not enough experience to see the long term implication of immediate behavior.
/r/askTRP16/08/19 03:50 PM
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Yeah, population control...
/r/askTRP16/08/19 03:46 PM
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What are yout thougths on the NoFap subject? Tried it, and I'm currently following it as best I can. There isn't any scientific data, because there is little research done about it... but do you really believe that your grandfather was beating it 5x a week when there was no internet ? Would it be helpful through a red pill perspective? It would give you (1) more time, (2) mental clarity, (3) drive to achieve your goals. NoFap = NoPorn imo. A lot of technology power works similar to how current f…
/r/askTRP16/08/19 03:44 PM
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Do you enjoy listening to Sade ?
/r/TheRedPill06/05/19 06:55 PM
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The greatest impediment on reaching any kind of success, is running after too many goals. Your post reads as: "Here are men that choose to focus their lives on 1-2 aspects. They are wrong." The title is pretty much spot on, but the post is... let's just say excellence is NOT about women. Excellence is about the self. An attractive man is respected, even revered, let alone being the heartthrob of many a woman. Without that respect, there is no foundation for the rest. But that respect is earned. …
/r/TheRedPill27/04/19 10:49 AM
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Well written and thought out, thank you. I'm currently in a slump and have been for a while. While adjusting my diet I noticed that I am more/less effective at work depending on what and when I eat. It's incredible to realise that biochemistry, and by extension brain chemistry plays a big part in WHO you are. Post of the month.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/19 10:01 AM
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One question: why are you finishing your degree, if you've never worked?
/r/TheRedPill17/05/18 03:51 AM
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Great reply. However I would advise against cutting out salt. I find fasting much easier, and enjoy better cognitive performance while drinking salted water. Obvious you need quality salt for this.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/18 09:07 AM
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What do you think about this guys ? should I talk about what happened in the bar to make it clear ? It was quite a disrespect but comming from a bitch I just wanna fuck I don't care a lot , what would you do in this situation ? It is clear you already look down upon her and her behavior. Take it from me, there is nothing to be gained by "teaching" her how to act properly. You can't convince her to act properly, if she wanted your D, she would have behaved. Also, if you take out a girl on a date,…
/r/askTRP10/12/17 11:14 AM
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That book is the original self improvement book.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/17 07:45 AM
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Thank you, very interesting!
/r/TheRedPill04/06/17 10:09 PM
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Society is not a meritocracy. Humans are emotional based creatures and not logical based. This is why society will never be a meritocracy, why guys have irrational confidence score and why you are feeling down… Men who offer conventional value are respected by other men, this is why women like them. Read this again. Girls are a bit 2 dimensional in that aspect. Digging up a past comment: I'm sure you have heard of the female hamster. His sense of masculine identity comes from his internal hamste…
/r/seduction29/05/17 11:48 AM
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You use a few logical fallacies. Yes, my statement is ethical, does that mean it is false? No it doesn't. Second, how do you know there are no toxins remaining? There are always toxins involved. The hazardous ones spread way better from eating uncooked meat. Even more so when it is of the same species. Third, chickens are irrelevant because we are talking about pigs. Fourth, go eat raw pig and get your anger issues fixed.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/17 11:09 AM
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As in, an animal eating a corpse is not disgusting? Good one.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/17 08:46 AM
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Replied in another comment.
/r/seduction25/05/17 09:15 AM
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https://relampagofurioso.com/2016/05/09/the-rationalization-hamster-10-effects-that-prove-women-love-bad-boys/ The rationalization hamster is a legendary creature dwelling deep in the minds of the self-delusional, and is particularly common among young liberal women. From birth, the rationalization hamster enters a symbiotic relation with its host, whereby whenever the host feels a craving to do something completely insane and malicious that will have horrible consequences for everyone in the lo…
/r/seduction25/05/17 05:11 AM
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You can let them know, give it a try and see how they react, but don't apologize for who you are. I'm sure you have heard of the female hamster. His sense of masculine identity comes from his internal hamster. Kinda how girls justify irrational thoughts with emotions. To be honest, for a realistic person, a solid self worth comes from his way of life and his achievements, this is what OP is trying to explain. Find something you want to achieve and then work towards it. Bonus points if you get mo…
/r/seduction24/05/17 02:52 PM
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OP, how will you make a chick feel interested if you are acting aloof. Not trying to take a shot at you but if I'm not a blip on her radar she will care even less if I do act aloof... This is smth I've often read but never actually witnessed
/r/TheRedPill06/02/17 11:54 PM
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How did you fuck women who couldn't stand you?
/r/TheRedPill06/02/17 11:51 PM
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Lesson learned: Goals before action
/r/TheRedPill31/10/16 05:21 PM
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To read this post was the best choice I made today
/r/TheRedPill24/08/16 02:18 PM
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Look up 'Critical Thinking'
/r/TheRedPill04/08/16 04:44 PM
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Even slight nerves can be detected by a woman. If you can't own that shit 100% don't approach until you will own that shit 100% with absolute confidence and IDGAF attitude. If you have any nerves it means you are not outcome independent. That's a catch 22, just approach. I agree with most of the reply, still take it with some salt. I responded, "ahh shame flick me a message if it doesnt work out. Yeah ill catch you at the gym :)." Mmm you basically told her that you'll wait and that second place…
/r/askTRP21/06/16 04:27 PM
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That's the point! He's using sarcasm
/r/TheRedPill14/06/16 06:12 AM
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Yes, however girls like drama. They will get it this way or that way, why not control it with mystery?
/r/TheRedPill10/06/16 09:22 AM
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It feels like it but the good news is, there is no catch 22. Be the wolf in sheeps clothing.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/16 10:07 PM
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This is all explained in The Slight Edge by Jeff Olson. Worth reading!
/r/TheRedPill27/05/16 09:21 PM
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Interesting insight, thanks for including sources.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/16 06:27 PM
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Tell her to shut the fuck up. The reason she is walking over you is because you did not establish dominance
/r/askTRP16/04/16 11:44 PM
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Make a long term plan for the best, worst and average outcome. Then calculate how much you want to have before quitting. As young man your age I can't tell you much about the financial side but I can tell you this: As someone who has travelled often it really is great. It's also not great. Depends more on the people you meet then the places you go. What are your reasons for travelling?
/r/askTRP11/04/16 02:37 PM
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Best post in all this thread, really puts things into contrast. +1 /u/throwaway-aa2
/r/TheRedPill17/03/16 03:45 PM
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Break up if you honestly don't like her sexual past. This IS a major dealbreaker. Had to make a similar call once before.
/r/askTRP06/03/16 02:50 PM
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Tell her that you fell in love.
/r/askTRP06/03/16 02:46 PM
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Yes, you are giving her too much! Have you ever heard a woman think out loud? If I even attempt to write down the thought process she has my mind will go mad and my manhood will fall off. You know what to do.
/r/askTRP06/03/16 02:43 PM
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Ask her out to a bar or unrelated event using B language, then escalate and ask her if she's engaged. Strike while the iron is hot!
/r/askTRP05/03/16 02:00 PM
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I agree with that statement. Part of reality is also that some do not have 'built in' physical and social self defense (since the basis for evolution is diversity). Now, you don't need to believe that I have internalized what I write. It's more comming from how I was raised (i.e bluepill) than kindness. What is self-respect to you? Have you always held yourself to high standards?
/r/askTRP05/03/16 01:50 PM
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There is nothing wrong with doing what they want. If standing up for themselves is what they want then they have a right to. We are alive so we have a 'right' to do anything we can and want, regardless if its morally right or wrong, because that's life.
/r/askTRP05/03/16 12:27 PM
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It would be in their right
/r/askTRP05/03/16 12:08 PM
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I don't think about it like that. I would think of helping them. Edit: I'm choosing a better class of problems :)
/r/askTRP05/03/16 11:41 AM
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I get dates, kino and can pull to my crib. When I escalate and go for the lay they get LMR or "let's just be friends" me... at this point I often slow it down and try to see date them a week later and they lose interest. This has happened 5 times in a row. Put the game on hiatus. How do I change that?
/r/TheRedPill24/02/16 12:08 PM
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+1 will check it out
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/16 12:02 AM
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Thanks, to you as well. Your post reminded me of how the game works. /u/grendalor summed it up perfectly: Average is actually below average.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/16 06:23 PM
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I can really relate, except I don't have a Rachel
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/16 06:03 PM
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"Rachel, the reason I haven't got a girlfriend is that every time I try to chat someone up, or go on a date, or show any form of interest in any woman other than you, they reject me" Had to pause reading here because I was laughing so hard. True words
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/16 04:46 PM
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Comon bro, she's a MILF! Who knows what she would have done to OP had he not run!
/r/TheRedPill12/01/16 12:09 AM
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It's because TRP was born from PUA. Therefore it tries to distinct itself from the oh so evil community of Pick Up Artist, to (figuratively) kill the father. If you use common sense, there is some very deep knowledge inside.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/16 11:55 PM
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The real Lesson Learned is that /u/OmLaLa is drowning in pussy
/r/TheRedPill11/01/16 11:25 PM
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I second this comment, so much
/r/seduction30/12/15 01:52 AM
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The opposite is true as well, it's not because it makes you sad that it's true
/r/TheRedPill26/12/15 05:05 PM
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Thumbs up for relating to your post on power
/r/TheRedPill07/12/15 06:47 AM
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Very enlightening read on the subject. As someone who recently started educating myself in logic and old greek stuff... I'm curious whether you have advice to share on critical thinking. How is it similar and different to argumentation?
/r/TheRedPill30/11/15 08:15 PM
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You might be trying in the wrong places. Like you I came back into the game recently after not really coming back a year ago ;) Like you I went out on halloween with friends, enjoyed the music and danced the whole night... I started off shy, but the music was so good I had to try out my new dance moves on chicks. In my opinion hiting on girls at the club is not much different than online dating or chatroulette. Lots and lots of input, and minimal results. Plus in the process the ego gets brushed…
/r/seduction02/11/15 12:29 AM
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Actually I do become less attracted when I realise she is out for D tonight and I'm as good as the next guy
/r/TheRedPill08/10/15 04:16 PM
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Great contribution. I have only one question, what good is it to nurture different personas when most people intrinsically respect similar values and desire the same? In Red pill analogy, why make different personalities when you can simply become "Chad"?
/r/TheRedPill08/10/15 11:05 AM
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In a one dimensional reality I agree with you. In a broader sense Beta are reactive and not proactive, which means that acting on anger would be considered part of it.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/15 10:51 AM
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You post a lot of statements without any causation... can you be more specific on the why of her sexual problems and her self hatred?
/r/TheRedPill28/09/15 07:39 AM
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Probably won't respond and wait for her. With no response she'll stay silent for a while. I'd chat a bit, and reschedule for in 3 days (at most). If she can't soft next.
/r/askTRP27/09/15 01:44 PM
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Context: Am in my early 20's and often find myself in parties and other social settings where I give away time to people I might never see again, without any benefit in terms of self development.
/r/askTRP27/09/15 01:29 PM
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Use kino and touch her! If you need ideas look up the Vin DiCarlo kino escalation ladder
/r/askTRP27/09/15 01:11 PM
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Perhaps you are trying to rationalize that meeting girls should be more complicated. If alcohol is involved it can mean you are as good as any other guy and she is DTF. Alright, I don't think the problem is being affectionate, it's that you are doing too much too soon. Slowing down and going from first meeting to texting to seeing each other again over a dozen days, will make it more comfortable and 'natural'.
/r/seduction26/09/15 07:14 AM
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To get a girl to be in a relationship with you, change your thoughts, your mindset. Join social clubs and hobbies where you are forced to interact with a lot of people and build a social circle. Fix the self esteem issue and confidence. As a fellow man, I can tell you that online dating is full of shy guys who have no social skills and no life... and girls know this. You are fighting an uphill battle, and wasting a lot of time in the process. This might be confusing for you to grasp but you are …
/r/seduction26/09/15 07:03 AM
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Where do you meet these girls? Context is important.
/r/seduction26/09/15 06:33 AM
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To win, all he had to do was not fight.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/15 06:22 PM
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For a second I thought you were talking about astrology and chocked on my meal.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/15 06:13 PM
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I'm pointing out that things aren't black and white, that she could be sleeping with anyone. (If one fwb was Chad, do you think she would even think about doing it with other guys? ) The above is an addendum and not my point tho. The point is, that if you read between the lines OP is saying, beta bucks alpha fucks. But if you ever get laid you know there is so much more to life than just banging a women who Newbies reading this post might unconsciously absorb the indirect meaning of this post (a…
/r/TheRedPill14/09/15 03:05 PM
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OP just because the FwB's are getting laid it doesn't they are Alpha. Proof: What kind of Alpha would share a girl that sleeps around and respect themselves in the process?
/r/TheRedPill14/09/15 08:34 AM
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Avoiding and ignoring standard questions such as "What do you do?", "How long...." and turning the focus of the conversation towards interesting more unexpected subject is a great way to start getting to know people.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/15 10:14 AM
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Giving advice and being interested genuinly in someone are different things. Early on in interactions they can be seen as mutually exclusive.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/15 10:07 AM
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A trick: Ask yourself what colors her eyes are
/r/seduction10/09/15 03:59 PM
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NLP
/r/seduction10/09/15 03:54 PM
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Was i wrong for calling the girl a cunt? Timing. There is nothing wrong with keeping your frame once you said it, but in a circle of betas and entitled chicks she/they can just ignore you (and reality while living in their bubble) and ostracise you from the group. Watering down the truth in humor and ambiguity is more effective. Use your witt against shit tests and frame grab. What you did is like shouting at an angry person, it only works if they respect you. Not trying to take a jab at Jesus h…
/r/TheRedPill09/09/15 08:07 AM
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Haha, I was talking about the book 'models'
/r/seduction03/08/15 04:23 PM
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There is no major difference between a young and an old woman, proceed as normal. If you don't know, look it up and practice. You've made it this far, I suppose you can read "models". I have to ask tho, is this a troll post?
/r/seduction03/08/15 12:31 PM
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All cool, what's your question bro?
/r/seduction03/08/15 10:28 AM
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It has some points about refocusing happiness on internal values. It's one of the few books I'm glad I started reading despite the title. Well worth it!
/r/seduction16/07/15 08:18 PM
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The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People
/r/seduction16/07/15 08:08 PM
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Not trying to crash your party but there is no "easier way". The only way you can approach that hot girl sitting in the park is by talking to her.
/r/seduction14/07/15 09:17 AM
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To feel comfortable in any situation where you are not "feeling it" all you have to do is to own it. OWN IT. If you're out for fun, accept the fact and that you're out on your own and act confident, because you are comfortable, everyone is too. Yesterday I saw a guy stand in the middle of the club, just looking at everyone dancing for 3 hours straight hahaha. Don't be that guy, go talk and dance.
/r/seduction12/07/15 07:41 PM
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Quoting /u/TomSaylek Asking how to approach girls in general is like asking how to drive. There are many steps mainly being confidence in self. If you have that it doesn't matter where you are because a large % of the premise is the same. Im not being an asshole but its the same question countless times asked. There is no magic method. There is practice. More practice and practice beyond that to feel a second nature confidence. Best of luck. And don't forget to get laid ;)
/r/seduction11/07/15 07:39 PM
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Shia LaBeouf principle, is this a thing?
/r/seduction11/07/15 07:38 PM
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It's both easy and hard. You already figured out what the problem was, now you need to use your brain to figure out what to do. As you read more and more books, posts, and articles about self improvement you will see that the author rephrases what they have found in other mediums and slightly change it. The most important thing is that you need to use your brain to go from where you are, to where you want to be. Look at the facts. Distinguish emotional thinking from logic. Understand your emotio…
/r/seduction11/07/15 07:38 AM
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Don't tell them your real age?
/r/seduction11/07/15 07:23 AM
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I want to hear from you what you did to improve your love life and what tips you have for me. To be honest, going out in the daylight and starting conversations works really well at increasing my confidence. I tried tinder again and it puts me in a position where I have to compete with other guys, the girls are picky, and it depends on how good I write to get a date. The process is just too selective and it takes a lot of mental energy... It's just easier to go out, get a couple numbers and feel…
/r/seduction11/07/15 06:49 AM
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Oh and I should also mention right now I primarily do online dating on OkCupid and Tinder if that makes a difference. Yes it does. Have you tried daygame?
/r/seduction10/07/15 03:18 PM
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Did you look into the Mystery Method? Like other users, I strongly recommend mindset instead of canned lines :)
/r/seduction10/07/15 03:13 PM
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Is it normal to have that extra interest in a girl you pickup? It depends, everyone is interesting and boring in their own way. If you're in the game, it makes sense that you're going to meet girls that will attract you more than others. As /u/eazyThoughts commented it's best to get sex out of the way and to focus on her as a person. If you feel that you're into her just because she is hot, you probably are... spend some more time together, with the right mindset and experience you will be able …
/r/seduction10/07/15 03:09 PM
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You put your hand around her waist while talking to him, use kino to your advantage. If she's into you, she'll like you more for it.
/r/seduction10/07/15 06:46 AM
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She needs to feel comfortable to share private information, and then she will comply. You started a conversation and she has no idea what you want from her, she is going to be on the defensive. First you need to gain some comfort and show her what you're about. After that, there's no problem with asking where she is from (as long as it's not too direct) once you've talked a little and you know she is comfortable. For ex. "In which part of town do you live?" is better than "Where do you live?". R…
/r/seduction09/07/15 08:26 PM
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huge confidence boost haha
/r/seduction09/07/15 06:02 PM
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Use "plausible deniability." This, even if it sounds like total bullshit to you ;)
/r/seduction09/07/15 05:50 PM
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It's a lot of texting, half would have worked just as well. Still, second that, smooth game.
/r/seduction09/07/15 11:03 AM
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With the juice?
/r/seduction09/07/15 10:47 AM
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You didn't make the conversation interesting enough. For example you should focus more on her and why she choose to go to said university and then throw in some general knowledge about the topic of discussion. "She appeared a little old", " She said about applying to community college while I told her about my studies at a top 10 university" You might have communicated disdain or seemed rude unconsciously, it's best not to compare yourself, keep it light and funny. After that i asked her where s…
/r/seduction09/07/15 10:43 AM
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I often invite girls to my place before kissing them, and escalate there. So I disagree on this 'basic technique'. Often I invent a reason for them to get up to my place, even if it's silly.
/r/seduction08/07/15 03:28 PM
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The number is just a tool to see her again and escalate.
/r/seduction08/07/15 03:19 PM
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Approach a girl in the subway and in the bus. And keep doing it ;)
/r/seduction08/07/15 03:16 PM
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To someone who has never lifted weights, how would you compare it to running? I've found that working out, especially cardio, helps a lot with my confidence.
/r/seduction01/07/15 12:37 PM
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She likes it because it makes her feel desired. Is this a defense mechanism or do you genuinely think it's boring to flirt with a girl? Once you 'get' the girl you have to keep the attraction as well, and this involves small talk, spending time together and flirting.
/r/seduction29/06/15 08:54 AM
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OP you're not trying to see if she's receiving well, you want to be direct, charming and use kino to escalate. You like her regardless if she's receptive or not, so take a chance, it's okay to be rough on the edges. When starting out it's best to focus on the easy things and be direct. Trust me, if she is not into you she will let you know! Later you'll get used to it and be able to understand her reactions. By the way, we might be in the same city ;)
/r/seduction29/06/15 08:43 AM
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