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How do you not know much of their story? Obviously, this was an incredibly important event in your boyfriend's life. You don't care about his past, though it's so blatantly affecting the present and your future? Maybe it would be a good idea to learn more about the situation. Just talking about it may allow him more closure than he's had before.
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/17 01:38 AM
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The methods are not mutually exclusive. Use both.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/16 09:37 PM
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Excellent frame control. Notes for the future: Have something fun or interesting to do at your place. You often need to give her a plausible reason for coming over. This allows her to bypass her LMR in her own mind.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/16 10:29 PM
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A woman's n-count is much more important than a man's. There is no hard-set deal breaker number, but lower is better. Lying about the n-count is extremely common. There's really no way to verify, so it's very easy to get away with. In very general terms, triple what a woman says. Men are more likely to overestimate their number. A few people probably don't share their number, but I've never really known a couple who didn't at least have a general idea about their SO's sexual history. N-count is …
/r/RedPillWomen15/12/16 02:57 PM
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The logical argument against this is that now she will never have the experience of being faithful to her boyfriend.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/16 01:43 AM
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Can confirm. I once went on a date with a girl who told me her complete dating history from 15 until 25. There were about 5 "abusive" boyfriends in there. I remember just being in awe that she would tell me this. I never spoke to her again.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/16 12:23 AM
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I've also found this to be true with online dating. The problem with this, is that women use height as a filter. If you're close, you can lie and get away with it. It doesn't bother me that a 5'6" girl wants a guy that's 6', it's the 5' girl that also wants a 6' guy. I admit, it can be a little frustrating. However, in person, it's much less of an issue. TLDR online dating isn't the greatest.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/16 11:09 PM
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This is off topic, but it took five years and a proposal for you to find out you weren't attracted to him? You were attracted to him before and then stopped? What changed?
/r/RedPillWomen14/11/16 12:46 PM
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Seriously, don't underestimate how attractive the ability to cook/bake is. So, yea. It has been five months since my fiancé and I broke up, and I am considering starting dating again. 5 months after a 6 year relationship, you are nowhere near being ready to date again, but I understand your rush.
/r/RedPillWomen13/11/16 06:43 PM
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I'm only clinically obese at 5'2" and 180 lbs. You already answered your own question. Attraction is not negotiable. Make it your absolute priority to lose weight. It's really that simple. No need to see a therapist, head to the gym. It's going to be difficult, but seems like it's more difficult now.
/r/RedPillWomen13/11/16 06:36 PM
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Did you research the vast majority of successful couples who decided not to sleep with other people?
/r/RedPillWomen13/11/16 04:46 PM
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Short answer, no, it's not healthy for the relationship. Whether you've fucked 4 women or 400, there is always a desire to sleep with more. However, indulging in this desire will destroy your relationship. If you want him to feel more fulfilled, be his personal slut. Fulfill his desires yourself.
/r/RedPillWomen13/11/16 03:48 PM
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Even without ED, as you said it, reduces refraction time (the time between possible orgasims) fairly significantly. It also provides a much harder rod and you can maintain an erection with zero effort. Good use if you don't want to worry about performance issues. Reliable generics can be found on the web easily. Most do contain the active ingredient, at least in my experience. The cost in the US per pill via a pharmacy is probably prohibitively high for most at around $50/pill. Cialis is an alte…
/r/TheRedPill11/11/16 04:38 PM
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Agreed. Dating sites in general are a bad deal in a time/results ratio. The available market is skewed toward women who aren't being approached in other settings and/or women with unrealistic expectations given what they can offer. There's an occasional decent catch, but overall it's not a great experience. In general my results are as follows: My base standard: 6/10, no kids. Messaging 100 girls gives a response rate of around 25% including those profiles who are not members or not active. Of t…
/r/TheRedPill10/11/16 05:55 PM
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This is completely false. Drink when you're thirsty. You don't need to drink more. Science.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/16 09:17 PM
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You asked me what possible upside there was in raising kids not your own and I gave you some REAL WORLD examples from my own life. Yes, but they don't illustrate your point. None of those examples were a good reason to willingly raise a child that's not your own. I'm still on the thread of the idiocy involved claiming adopting a family makes you the same as a guy whose woman cheats on him. Please don't refer to getting involved with a single mom as "adopting a family". It's more "adopting two pr…
/r/TheRedPill07/11/16 08:43 PM
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Bro, with respect, I don't give a shit about your personal life experiences. Anecdotes are worthless. The core arguments remain. ALL THINGS BEING EQUAL, it is better to raise your own children rather than someone else's. AND stay away from single mothers as a single man. AND who goes to spring break in Panama?
/r/TheRedPill07/11/16 07:04 PM
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What is the upside to raising your own kids then? Or looking after your elderly parents? Adopting a dog? Volunteering for a good cause? Giving to charity or doing anything at all for that matter? In order, furthering your genetics, strengthening family ties and relationships you enjoy, companionship, furthering a good cause, etc. True, you shouldn't let TRP or anyone else dictate what you do. But you have to defend your argument. All things being equal, why would you want to raise another man's …
/r/TheRedPill07/11/16 05:29 PM
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I agree. Provisioning is not bad. However, provisioning for a child who is not your own is not a good way to maximize your happiness.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/16 05:17 PM
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True. It's not the same. It's worse. Why on God's green earth would you make a decision like that? You have limited resources, time, money, love, etc. Why would you spend them on another man's child instead of your own? What's the upside?
/r/TheRedPill07/11/16 03:55 PM
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I don't think anyone is arguing that guys with kids are chumps. I think the argument is guys with other guys' kids are chumps. There's nothing wrong with being unselfish. I encourage it. However, I don't encourage men to willingly raise other men's children. There are plenty of women out there without kids. There's no reason to be in that kind of situation. If you're already in that situation, that's your choice and mrp would be more appropriate. That's not what this post was about though. I thi…
/r/TheRedPill07/11/16 03:49 PM
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Not sure where you're getting that from... No, but I would go so far as to say marrying a single mom firmly places you into cuck status. You married a women who gave her more fertile, youthful years to someone else, and you're stuck raising his kid. The fact that you willingly do this makes it infinitely worse.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/16 10:46 PM
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Hot girls love sociopath-behavior, man. No one loves sociopathic behavior. They love guys who have enough respect for themselves to not put up with their collective shit. She relates to blowing minor things out of proportion to elicit a response. Why? Subconscious shit testing. She also loves when you correctly identify said shit tests and blow them out of the water. This is easy to do if you're actually an asshole. If you don't give a fuck, it's easy to blow shit tests off. This is why assholes…
/r/TheRedPill04/11/16 08:28 PM
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retroactive cuck Golden. Yea, but it's just too dangerous for my tastes.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/16 11:34 AM
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The average man gets about as much action as a white crayon This is golden. I'm for sure stealing it.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/16 08:31 AM
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A friend of mine has a thing for attracting single moms via tinder/online dating sites. Or, should I say, single moms are attracted to him. He's your average nice guy, though not bad looking, with a stable job, who's responsible and looking to settle down. The way he tells it, they're crazy in bed. Though, this would obviously dry up pretty quickly after being in a relationship. He also has a strong desire to start a family and feels that this is like walking into a pre-made one. Of course, we t…
/r/TheRedPill04/11/16 08:30 AM
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Sure, but your decision produced unnecessary conflict without any benefit to yourself.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/16 08:52 AM
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Why didn't you just text her when you knew you were going to be too tired? I don't see how it was advantageous to you to change your mind without telling her. What did you think was going to happen? Seems like just a lame move and the loss of a plate. Congrats?
/r/TheRedPill16/10/16 11:58 PM
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Lol. Your "frame" is wanting to go to a sex club? That's adorable. GTFO and update us after you've finished junior high. You're a shit captain. Fuck off. :)
/r/MarriedRedPill13/10/16 07:07 PM
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Yes, they do believe that. But the truth is that they make the decision to cheat way before the act and on countless occasions; usually subconsciously. Do they admit or even grasp that concept? Lol hell no.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/10/16 03:06 AM
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lol, have you ever cheated on someone? It's not a moment. It's a real decision that you make before you even go out. There's no "it just happened". The possibility is there before you step out the door. You make the decision to cheat over and over and over again for days until it actually happens. Think about that. Can you change? Maybe, but there's no reason to be with someone who's already demonstrated poor decision making.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/10/16 09:13 PM
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You had me until you said you're staying with her. It will happen again...and again...and again. It's so much easier the second time. Forgive her, sure. But divorce her.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/10/16 09:08 PM
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Not that this is gold-standard advice, but never date a woman who is older than you. There's just no good reason to.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/16 10:37 PM
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ALL tits sag after 25 at the latest.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/16 06:58 AM
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I don't think it's necessarily a red flag. If I had A cups, I'd totally get some fakes. They practically pay for themselves in free drinks and favors. Not to mention, after 25, they start sagging. I'm totally ok with some maintaince.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/16 06:55 AM
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This is the best post I've ever read. What. The. Actual. Fuck.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/16 06:53 AM
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It's not defamation if it's true...
/r/TheRedPill27/09/16 10:56 PM
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Where are you getting this ASPD diagnosis? That's extremely serious. Like, watch your back you might get murdered serious. Also, it's extremely interesting. What was the gain for her? Validation? Why not have a regular affair?
/r/TheRedPill27/09/16 10:54 PM
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lol, bro. First, she's certainly attractive, at least in my opinion. But at her age, HB 8 is being generous and includes the fantastic bolt-ons. Second, plastic surgery and/or good looks does not = legit hooker. Abusing betas for drinks, favors, and gifts? Sure. But this girl is a self-proclaimed escort. It would be impossible to know beforehand. They take these secrets to the grave.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/16 10:50 PM
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You'd be surprised. I'd say a good 1/3 of hookers are in some sort of relationship where the guy is in the dark.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/16 10:11 PM
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I am not familiar with that one. I'll have to check it out ;) I know I'm making light of this serious situation. I'm sorry you had to go through this man.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/16 10:10 PM
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Any links to a profile or something? Backpage, P411, TER, etc? Hurry up with that upload! I'm dying to hear the story.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/16 09:06 PM
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A few months into the marriage she tried to cut back on the sex. She was met with a firm no, and told she had 36 hours to submit or she would find herself without a husband. Can I get an amen? Preach brother.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/16 08:54 PM
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Bro. I'm slightly younger, but there's no excuse for dating any girl even close to 30. There are so many 21-26 year olds out there. Seriously, as I get older, I date younger. 22-24 is the sweet spot.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/16 08:52 PM
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Yea, I'd like a number HB9, petite, toned but easy on the muscles, with DDs and a side of nympho.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/16 08:50 PM
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It's not so much taking control as it is having some self respect. Usually, the right course of action when you're not married is to dump her.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/16 08:48 PM
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It's only valuable experience if you're doing something of value. If you're spending your time on a worthless career and riding the CC, you're worse off than you were when you were younger.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/16 08:47 PM
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I haven't noticed worse sex in younger girls. I'd say on average lower 20's and upper 20's are about the same. Though my age range is 19-30, so I don't know about older.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/16 08:45 PM
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Please use better formatting.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/16 07:46 PM
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I've never met a woman who was more mature than she was at 22. More broken, damaged, tired, and fat, sure. But never more mature.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/16 07:44 PM
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I've had this conversation with women countless times. I always ask "Who would I rather date; you at 28 or you at 22." They have no regrets. They always argue that their mistakes make them who they are today. I wholeheartedly agree and say "that's why I wish I would have met you when you were 22". The difference is X number of dicks, sagging tits, and a wider waist. The insignificant rise in their bs career is irrelevant. "It’s this logic that has most of my 30-something guy friends dating girls…
/r/TheRedPill26/09/16 07:42 PM
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Get the fuck out of here you pathetic cuck.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/09/16 04:56 AM
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Yes. Much more depending on the rotation.
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/16 08:42 PM
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The last two years are much less stressful than the first. It won't always be like this, well until residency. Food, bjs, and not being needy would be welcomed.
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/16 12:28 AM
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She'll be fine. There are plenty of betas in the porn industry looking to wife up the used goods.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/16 04:40 AM
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You deceived me = you raped me in her mind. Not a great idea.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/16 02:21 AM
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I am VIP/Diamond status with money and readily apparent wealth. Really wealthy people aren't VIP/Diamond status at the local 2 bit boat who like to show off. You are a beta. Good for you for refusing an unsolicited BJ from a stranger, but the fact that she even thought you'd be an easy mark should tell you that you're exuding the wrong vibe.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/16 02:20 AM
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Yes, I'm sure we can all get laid relatively easily, but my HB rating is not yours. You might be plowing things I couldn't get hard for. Depends on the kind of girls you're pulling in at starbucks. If you're pulling 8s and up who are sexual deviants, more power to you. Mostly though, you really are paying them to go. The convenience of sex on demand without having any investment, besides a small monetary one, is alluring. It's also nice to mix it up. Plus, I don't have to have coffee with her. T…
/r/TheRedPill23/09/16 02:11 AM
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Lol. Check out seeking arrangement. Your one stop shop for amateur hookers. Some of them go into it hoping they can just hang out with some millionaire and get paid for it, but most of them understand that sex is part of the "date" or they're not getting a second one. This is hypergamy out in the open. Be mildly good looking and under 50 and you'll understand what women feel like on dating sites. Get loads of messages per day and crappy "?? Don't like?" messages when you don't respond. Pros: you…
/r/TheRedPill23/09/16 01:34 AM
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But she wants the address and phone number of the bar you're at with the guys along with photo updates every 15 minutes and phone calls on the hour and "oh, I was just in the area. I didn't even know you guys were here".
/r/TheRedPill22/09/16 09:46 PM
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I'd have to disagree. I think they cheat more often and feel less guilty about it, but they're terrible at planning and covering their tracks. They can only think ahead one step; not two. They'll think to tell you they're "going out with the girls" and "staying at a girl's house" but won't think to check that friend's fb to make sure she's not out of town. They'll ask their friend to lie for them, but won't think to cover more objective tracks. They'll delete texts, but not recent calls, etc. Ev…
/r/TheRedPill22/09/16 09:44 PM
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https://youtu.be/m4aiRu6lB2A?t=6s
/r/TheRedPill22/09/16 07:45 PM
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Her time as an escort is probably worth much more per hour than mine as a trainer. Not to you it's not. Assuming she's actually serious about what she does, the going rate is usually $300-350/hr. This is the absolute maximum her time is worth. At this price, the most disgusting slob of a human can get laid. However, you should not be willing to pay this, as pussy is plentiful and you can get laid for free with relative ease. If you determine she's worth a session, the cost is what you could have…
/r/TheRedPill22/09/16 07:41 PM
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Your "RP" multimillionaire stepfather raised a kid that was not his own. I can't think of anything more beta than freely choosing to raise another man's children for 2nd hand pussy.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/09/16 10:10 PM
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This post is almost entirely BP. I'm sorry if I don't want to take relationship advice from someone with such a terrible record. Most of these are tips that "should" work, but it's the same stuff most guys on here have been trying for years. In an ideal world, this would be great. We don't live in that world.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/09/16 10:06 PM
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I don't think so. Just focus on yourself and everything else will fall into place. The whole revelation of the red pill is them at the ideals and goals you once had don't exist, at least not in the way you imagined them. It's about taking that drive and focusing it one yourself;the only person you have control of.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/16 08:17 PM
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The average man in our current generation warrants no respect. This is the real problem. Make better men here and that will be the beginning of the tide changing.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/16 04:43 PM
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I expect the average man to try to fuck anything he values over a 5/10. I do not expect him to have enough abundance and self-respect to actually make good decisions concerning women.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/16 04:22 PM
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But, have you ever tried responding in cat noises? Maybe we're the crazy ones... /s
/r/TheRedPill09/09/16 04:20 PM
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So if I apply dread, I can keep my fatty gf? Thanks, RP! lol, you "SO". She doesn't sound that significant.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/16 06:21 PM
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Don't hit 3s. Have some self respect.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/16 04:22 PM
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Always get a day-after confirmation of the previous night's fun. A simple "Did you have fun last night?" will do the trick. It's good to get into the habit. Save the texts.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/16 04:46 AM
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First, welcome brother. It will be repeated 10,000 times but read the sidebar, lift, etc. I recommend The Rational Male more than anything. Second, we need a little more info about you and your relationship. I ask solely because it will determine whether this is something you even want to continue. On to your main issues: When she interrupts in a rude way, you sternly tell her not to interrupt you. She's likely play it off as no big deal and unintentional. It doesn't matter. Don't act butthurt. …
/r/MarriedRedPill07/09/16 11:50 PM
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Great post. I love the idea of submitting articles under a female pseudonym. Last word of the first paragraph should be "allowed", unless you were going for an excellent pun about how male voices are silenced in current media. lol
/r/TheRedPill07/09/16 08:59 PM
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"HL" and "LL" don't belong in this sub. You're in the right place, though. It's gunna be a long road. Good luck!
/r/MarriedRedPill11/08/16 08:23 PM
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AA = agree and amplify AM = amused mastery
/r/MarriedRedPill04/08/16 03:21 AM
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Not worth plate status. Too much headache. You're getting attached because you though she was something she's not. If you stay, you'll also hamster it away. "Well, if his dick wasn't hard, it doesn't really count" and "the past is the past". Dump her. She can't even get this guy up. Her bj skills must be lacking . Make it a point to date girls who could raise the dead with their mouths.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/16 11:03 PM
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Haha. They won't wait for you back to be turned. They'll do it at dinner, cuddling during a movie, while you're picking out wedding locations. It's not the actual cheating that I'm surprised at, it's the level of cognitive dissidence they're capable of. It's truly amazing.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/16 06:37 PM
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Maybe. But even if he did things perfectly and this never happened, he'd be with a woman capable of it. Fuck that noise.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/16 04:39 AM
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You went to the doctor three times for a bike injury?? Lol, what? You either have the worst doctor in the world or you meant chiropractor. Entirely different things. Also, major HIPAA violation on part of the secretary. Also, this post was worthless.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/16 03:22 PM
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The fact that they openly told you that you essentially have no SMV indicates that they are using you for companionship, validation, entertainment, time, and possibly money. They are so confident in this arrangement, that they are willing to show absolutely no respect for you whatsoever. Next this bitches pronto.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/16 02:53 AM
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Post them anyway. If they're valuable, they'll stay. That rule is shit.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/16 04:47 AM
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You're a 19 year old girl in a LDR? Why? Did all the guys around you die in a freak accident? Why would you willingly start a relationship that is so difficult?
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/16 02:00 AM
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He will/should lose interest if you don't have sex with him...eventually. If he is interested in a LTR with you I would expect him to wait a maximum of 3-4 dates before it would become an issue. If he sees you as a plate, it won't be worth his time to go on more than 2 without getting laid. It's not really that cut and, but it's a guideline you can use.
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/16 01:53 AM
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I highly doubt he just blurted out, "hey, I could sleep with other women." This was either a response to the shit test of "I won't sleep with you, but I'm sure other girls here will" or the comfort test of "there are girls here that will sleep you. Why spend time with me?" Both of which were correctly handled by acknowledging his perceived SMV, displaying value, and maintaining frame. A point validated by the fact the woman in question is now so interested in attracting this guy that she's askin…
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/16 01:46 AM
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You're no king. The best sex you can get is from your crazy ex wife. You didn't go from peasant to King in 7 months. You read some stuff on the Internet and went to the gym a few times. Cool. Let us know how it goes in a couple years.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/06/16 04:55 PM
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The fact that you've met 8 women in your life that you considered "the one" tells me that your standards of a life long mate are way too low. OP suggests that we can avoid this by refraining from pussy for a time to set the frame of the relationship and demonstrate our discipline. You'll find that most girls you meet aren't worth more than a couple dates without sex. If you wanna get your dick wet, that's easy. Find someone you'd spend time with should be a lot harder.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/16 06:22 PM
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Awesome FR. Welcome to the world of women. Not only are you more sexually experienced, confident, and just plain happy, but you now know the true market price of pussy. Every time you decide to pursue a girl you're attracted to, you'll always compare the time/effort/money you're spending to what the actual market price is. You'll have a pseudo abundance mentality and this will naturally lead you to be more successful with every woman. You also have great stories and perceived social proof. Drop …
/r/TheRedPill10/06/16 05:13 PM
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None of them accused him of rape. They basically said he was a shitty boyfriend. Why chicago reader wrote this book of an article is beyond me.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/16 11:34 PM
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It's "you're" you ignorant fuck. Spend more time reading and less time writing worthless posts devoid of anything useful to this sub.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/16 04:54 AM
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But, again, you're not showing contempt for no reason. You're justifiably unhappy about something and aren't afraid to communicate that. That's what she's attracted to.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/16 03:21 AM
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You're mixing correlation with causation. Your mom doesn't stay with your dad because he's a dick. She stays because she thinks he has a higher smv, status, money, convenience, etc. You don't have to be a dick to dominate the relationship, nor should you. Lead and they'll follow.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/16 12:47 AM
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Yea, this is total BS. It should be obvious to anyone with any experience in losing weight or building muscle. This is more likely the results after 2-3 years of a complete lifestyle change. Totally possible, just not in that timeframe.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/16 07:36 PM
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You broke up with her for going out to a bar with friends while you were away? Lol. Good luck out there, bro.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/16 03:28 AM
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What does this have to do with TRP?
/r/TheRedPill28/05/16 07:58 PM
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Worthless post. No lessons. No substance. No formatting. No basic spelling or grammar skills.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/16 02:22 AM
0

I stopped reading at "glowsticks".
/r/TheRedPill16/05/16 12:01 AM
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She's "saying" she doesn't give a shit about you. Drop her.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/16 12:57 AM
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Sorry you had to go through this man. She lies to you. She lies to her friends. She lies to herself. It doesn't matter if things are perfect or terrible. She's shit and will act like shit regardless.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/16 10:09 PM
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What? Formatting. Sentence structure. Substance. This post is lacking in all of the above.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/16 06:06 AM
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I smell BS. Why would you pull back on sex for no apparent reason? There's more to this story and you're only doing a disservice to yourself by leaving it out.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/16 06:37 AM
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Whoa, double digits!!! I remember when I was 12. They're not at odds; you just suck at both of them.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/16 07:59 PM
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What does this have to do with trp? This is why car salesmen are fading away. They have nothing to offer an even moderately informed customer.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/16 11:23 PM
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I stopped reading after "dude".
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/16 04:55 PM
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100% tell him. There's no question. Why would you even consider keeping this from him?
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/16 04:50 PM
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You shouldn't have even asked for the number. Give yours, say something like "it's easier to text" and be done with it. She'll text you or she won't. "Give me your number" is more needy than anything. At the very least just say "what's your number". Granted saying "give me your number" in person would be much more successful than it would be in text. "Put your number in my phone" and the like work decently well in person, but sound demanding over text.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/16 02:07 AM
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It's more likely that your lack of sexual experience, emotional state, and confidence was the problem. Sure, I suppose jerking off all the time would make it harder to cum while getting a bj, but I've never really experienced this. If she's not doing it for me, I tell her what to do. If she's not jerking it hard enough, tell her to jerk it harder. If I want it deeper, pull her hair and choke her. She's not going to be insulted if you tell her what to do. They actually like it. Don't buy a flesh …
/r/TheRedPill02/04/16 11:06 PM
2

The gender switch is always a good test. It's insane how people think. The guy's been out of a job for about 8 months. That's a while but not crazy. Maybe he should consider divorce and get some alimony instead. /s
/r/TheRedPill26/03/16 07:42 PM
7

Fantastic post. Thanks for the insight.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/16 09:22 AM
9

Christ. Prepare yourself. This is going to sting. You're a pretty shitty person. You can't even control your alcohol consumption. You were in a shitty relationship because you made shitty decisions. It literally took a physical beating to wake you up. Having no self esteem or any intrinsic worth, you proceeded to do the only thing you know; trade sex for the validation and worth you seek. Of course, you can't sustain a relationship with any decent guy for any length of time and soon fuck up. Now…
/r/TheRedPill07/03/16 01:34 AM
6

Prepare to get reamed by this sub and rightly so. You're already overthinking it. The answer is it doesn't matter. A coffee date? Unless she doesn't drink at all this is a bad idea. Make sure your mom drops you off at least a block away so your date doesn't see her. She as a 7 year old. Are all the women without kids in your area taken/dead? If not, why would you date her? You talked about astrology and disc golf. I'm sure her panties are soaked from that riveting conversation. You are indeed fu…
/r/TheRedPill06/03/16 09:47 PM
4

Ok, yea. This was not a paternity test. It was a DNA analysis. Because CF is autosomal recessive, they deduced that they guy was not the father. This makes a world of difference. The solution is also a lot easier. They must tell the guy the results of this own CF testing. They must also educate him on what it means. They may let him put 2 and 2 together and figure out he can't be the father, but if he asks, they are ethically and legally bound to tell him the truth. If they lie, he would easily …
/r/TheRedPill06/03/16 09:25 PM
4

I don't understand how this could really happen. A guy needs to give tissue (blood or a swab) for the test. Wouldn't he demand to see the test later? And, since the test concerns the baby and guy, I would assume he could demand to see his medical records which would include this test. No doctor would be ethically ok with outright lying to the guy. At most, if they for some reason believed the test to be the property of the mother, they would say he needs to ask her.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/16 09:16 PM
22

Lessons learned. Don't feel bad for her. She's a 36 year old slut. Honestly, I might even message the hubby just to fuck her life up, but I'm kinda mean that way. But seriously. Don't spend another thought on her. Ignore if she ever hits you up.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/16 11:02 PM
2

You are certainly taking the shotgun approach to women. Sometimes that can work. It is a numbers game after all. But that style in a confined area won't work as well. Don't talk to the police. There's no reason to. Decrease the frequency you're there. How do you know this was posted all over Facebook? The fact that you're hitting on "dozens" of women at a time tells me either you've either found the holy grail of college campuses or your standards are too low. Limit yourself to 7+ out of self re…
/r/TheRedPill03/03/16 10:55 PM
1

Agree. Forgive but never forget. You don't have to hate her, but you sure as hell don't have to be with her. Let go and move on.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/16 03:40 AM
3

I don't like the idea of doing it because he'll reward me for the rest of my life or something. Do it for whatever reasons get you to sleep at night; just do it. I'm making the commitment to be his partner, whether he's a doctor or a plumber. That's true, but these require two different set of expectations for the relationship. He will always be my priority, but my attending dental school is important to both of us too. We've both talked about it, and he would never want me to throw away somethi…
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/16 04:42 AM
2

It's great that you're concerned about this. You should be. As stated here already, be a sanctuary in every way. Whatever your stress level is, his will be 100 times higher. Minimize your negative venting. Cook food for him. Do the day to day chores. Provide good sex. A BJ is acceptable if you are absolutely not up to it. Minimize texting unless it's to tell him he's amazing and you'll be waiting in sexy lingerie for him (send pics). Your job is to minimize stress. Your graduate school is a dist…
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/16 02:37 AM
-1

This is the classic argument idiots make for not knowing proper grammar. Read a fucking book for once in your life. Think of it as another leg day.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/16 04:51 AM
1

I honestly can't understand this post. Seriously, the writing is so bad I don't know what you're trying to communicate. Maybe try some grunting noises. I wish I could contribute, but my brain hurts.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/16 04:49 AM
3

Christ. What the actual fuck is this? This is the most cringe worthy crap I've read in a long time. Let us know how puberty goes for you. Seriously. Though I'm sure you're time isn't worth much, it would be better spent doing literally anything else than watching a movie with this girl. Surely you can see this. From your writing style, I'd guess you were 12, but since you're making drinks, I'll assume you can go to a bar. Go and find anyone else. You'll have better luck getting laid and if you w…
/r/TheRedPill22/02/16 04:39 AM
1

Great post.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/16 05:57 PM
1

I don't even need country. I'd prefer continent. That gives me enough information to determine if it's culturally relevant to me.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/16 03:20 AM
1

You can waste your time believing in forgotten rules but I prefer to adapt and ENJOY THE DECLINE. Adapt and stop the decline, if only for you and yours. Can you have that apathetic stance on online things - where you don't try to interfere with the self interest of the USER who wants to discuss amoral sexual strategy? What sexual strategy? Fuck as many women as possible? Fuck the best woman possible? Fuck HB 2-4s on Mondays, Wednesdays, and Fridays and HB 9s on Sundays? There are a lot of compet…
/r/TheRedPill18/02/16 08:21 PM
1

There's some merit to this. Age range would be nice - High School, College, 20's, 30's, etc. Maybe marital status and continent, too. The shirtless pics are a little...weird...unless it's a post specifically about lifting...I guess.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/16 05:53 PM
9

The standard rule applies. Triple whatever number she gives you. If that's too high for you, turn and run.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/16 05:46 PM
8

The car analogy is perfect for women. Maybe I'll make a post on it later. It just lines up so well.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/16 05:44 PM
3

LOL this is a classic. I've observed this several times in my life.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/16 05:44 PM
5

The appropriate response to this is "I'm not looking for a relationship either. I simply enjoyed the sex and company. No hard feelings. I'll see you around". This demonstrates you have little invested in the relationship and were around only because it was beneficial to you at the time. Also, this gives you a clean break that can easily develop into a few booty calls here and there without much work or drama. This conversation is really letting you off the hook for commitment more than it is abo…
/r/TheRedPill18/02/16 05:41 PM
0

Nothing could be further from the truth. Ideally, morality is embodiment of love not selfishness. If I wanted to be selfish, I'd be apathetic. Obviously, people use the guise of morality for things other than this, but that's a comment on the lack of true morality rather than its presence.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/16 04:55 AM
1

Congrats. Great post and thanks for sharing. I'd love to know more about the end of the marriage.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/16 10:37 PM
2

Excellent post. I've observed the same things. I'd add that personality is important, though it's secondary to looks and status on the Smv scale. You don't have to be a billionaire model, but there is a certain threshold to each quality we must meet before any woman would think twice about us.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/16 04:08 AM
5

Thank you for asking the hard-hitting questions.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/16 04:03 AM
1

I don't know what you're trying to say. Yes, I think examples from fiction and lyrics should be allowed. That's what I was writing about. I understand the rule, I just don't think it's beneficial to the sub. For instance, if I wanted to share the story of The Fisherman and His Wife, which describes things like husband/wife dynamic, how women value things, lessons on contentment, etc, I couldn't under these rules. It has a talking fish in it and is nothing more than a simple fairy tale, but it ha…
/r/TheRedPill16/02/16 10:58 PM
2

The flying spaghetti monster is most displeased with this post. May he have mercy upon you.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/16 09:58 PM
5

We didn't ban allegories and parables. We banned the endless posts of "Hey guys, isn't the bald guy from breaking bad alpha?" Good. I agree, though I haven't seen many of them. "Discussion of overarching popular culture themes, however, is on-topic and makes for an interesting analysis of the shifts in cultural thinking." Great, but we need to reference cultural works for good discussion. I understand what you're trying to say, but the rule doesn't read that way to me. Weakness against what? Tha…
/r/TheRedPill16/02/16 09:56 PM
1

Honestly, I haven't seen many examples of this. Maybe in a comment here or there, but certainly not in actual posts. Maybe they're already being blocked. The red pill theory, and what individuals choose to do with that knowledge are two entirely different topics. Yes, I would agree that a post that would argue against basic trp tropes like awalt wouldn't be useful to our members, but discussion of our choices certainly is. TRP is innately amoral. Like a set of tools, they are inherently neither …
/r/TheRedPill16/02/16 08:56 PM
3

Prohibiting posts stemming from fiction and literature is incredibly short-sighted. To argue that valuable lessons cannot be learned from these sources is decidedly ignorant to say the least. Though not many posts directly pertain to fictional works, there have been some excellent discussions within threads which often use literary sources to illustrate points. Furthermore, lyrics from current songs are a great way to view current thinking about any topic; trp included. Artists' work reflects cu…
/r/TheRedPill16/02/16 08:47 PM
4

This is hardly an extreme example. The hypergamy violence analogy is totally off. I mean, you could say "all people are like that" about anything.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/16 12:42 AM
14

Thanks for the post. Lessons well learned. Looks like you got out in just the right time. Personally, I would have just thrown her stuff in the trash if she couldn't be bothered to pick it up, but I'm glad it worked out for you. Nice job recognizing a potential source of drama and hard nexting her after she opened up about her "bf". No matter how good the lay, there would have eventually been too much crap to deal with. You got yours and got out. Well done.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/16 10:11 PM
1

Oh, no. I agree. It's not a RP example. I filed it under rant. It's just a snapshot of current affairs. I thought it was interesting. It was the first time I'd seen something like this.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/16 09:44 PM
0

No, I think what you're saying is valid. We have this kind of thinking permeating our culture. How do we deal with it? I have no idea. At least in this example, I made one comment pointing out the absurdity in reacting to the post by telling the guy he has a small dick and is a piece of shit, etc. Soon after, it was a free for all of repetitive vomit, so I left it at that. There's no real way to "win" in this case. I don't think I'm going to change anyone's minds about this. Obviously, avoiding …
/r/TheRedPill12/02/16 05:17 PM
3

Simply a picture of the way people are thinking, thus posted under the correct flair. Take from it what you want. If you don't think it's valuable, down vote or ignore. If you have a thought on the topic, discuss it.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/16 03:36 PM
10

I agree that it probably isn't the best decision to air your dirty laundry to the public. If we were in her position I'd hope our friends would defend us, but I know that it would be quite a different conversation. Do you honestly think the same comments would be made if the gender roles were reversed?
/r/TheRedPill12/02/16 02:00 PM
107

So true! I'll let the cops know. lol
/r/TheRedPill12/02/16 12:51 PM
-64

Pics of what? The comments? I'll just post them typed up. I'd like to keep this anonymous. As far as the mugshot is concerned, it's public record, but I'm not going to post it. Also, let's just say there's a huge difference between FB reality and police station reality as far as pictures are concerned.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/16 12:30 PM
1

Welcome to the world we live in. Be upset, but use this knowledge to your advantage. Know that chivalry is dead and women killed it. Be selfish (to an extent) and be rewarded.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/16 03:00 PM
1

I don't understand what the problem is. Is this a story of unrequited love? Ok, that's too bad, but that's not really an example of AWALT. It doesn't really illustrate anything other than she's not into you. What's the big deal? You say you liked (loved) her but after she rejects you, you describe her as selfish, spoiled, etc. Seems like you made a bad decision. Especially since you were never in a relationship with her. You did the things you did not out of love or any ideal, but for selfish ga…
/r/TheRedPill05/02/16 10:21 AM
1

You're in your early 20's. Don't waste time on a woman who is 10 years older than you with 3 kids. To say it'd be dating down is an understatement. It's not even worth it for just getting laid. Lots of slutty fish in the sea who are younger and don't have kids.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/16 04:49 AM
12

Why would you choose to love someone who has previously fucked over multiple partners? Screw her? Sure. But why love her? There a lots (some) women out there that haven't cheated multiple times. I know AWALT, but some are better than others. Don't love the ones on the wrong side of the scale.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/16 02:33 AM
-3

It's too cold to be day gaming out here. I'm surprised there are even people out by the bean. Check out meetup.com. There are lots of decent groups around. Of course, it's hit or miss, but it's a more scheduled thing if you're having to make a trip into the city.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/16 02:27 AM
22

Get the heck out of there ASAP, bro. That's a toxic environment; emotionally and physically.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/16 05:16 PM
2

Thanks for the post. You're mistaking you and your wife's emotional callouses as strengths. For what is likely a myriad of reasons, you've both become numb to each other and others. Whether this is better or worse than an alternative in your situation, I can't really say. I find that some of our emotional qualities mirror our physical ones. To illustrate, after an injury, the body often forms scar tissue. While this tissue is marginally stronger than that which it replaced, the underlying functi…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/01/16 05:10 AM
0

Work on cultivating your stunted femininity instead. The only joke here is you.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/16 04:26 PM
0

You're attracted to a girl who cheated on her boyfriend at the drop of a hat and then took a bunch of antidepressants in an effort to gain sympathy and attention from others. Sounds like a unicorn. Go for it. Looks like you've learned a lot from here. I love that you're afraid of the repercussions from her bf "as a man". Bro, you're very far from being a man. You're a pathetic beta who was so thirsty for poon that you couldn't pass up an opportunity to make out with some crazy slut who texted yo…
/r/TheRedPill16/01/16 08:34 AM
6

Get this shit out of here. "Husband stops putting out" lol. It would take some serious "letting yourself go" for this to ever even remotely happen. Do you have any married friends? This is definitely not a common issue with guys. "But she needs to get her vag pumped". I had no idea the laws of biology changed overnight and women now experience the same sex drive as men. Must be tough. "Husband has black knights comforting him" lol, we'd most likely tell him it's his fault for being a BB/shitty l…
/r/TheRedPill16/01/16 08:15 AM
14

You have a lot to learn. It has nothing to do with how the relationship is going. It has little to do with you in general. It has to do mostly with her base hyperagamy and her feelz at that moment in time. Once you realize this, you'll learn how truly depressing the state of current affairs are. All you can do is work on yourself and make careful decisions.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/16 07:14 PM
2

It's successfully reversible in a vast majority of patients; the number declines with age and length of time after the procedure. It's currently frowned on to have the procedure done knowing you'll have it reversed, but the numbers aren't so bad that it would make it a poor decision. Regardless, one guy deciding he doesn't want kids and doing something about it isn't how we lose.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/16 05:38 AM
13

I agree; I don't care what she does either. The real thing that got to me was the praise from the comments. Do what you want, but I'm not going to give princess a thumbs up.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/16 12:40 AM
8

How dare you try and slut-shame here you sexist pig! She's an independent woman and can do whatever she wants with her body and her life. You not only have to be ok with it, you must encourage it!! /s
/r/TheRedPill10/01/16 12:36 AM
13

I recently had a conversation with one of my good friends about this very topic. I said that when the price of a good (sex) is known by everyone, people make much better decisions. If I know I can get an hour of great sex with a HB8-9 for $X, that's the absolute highest price I'd pay for it; whether that's in money, time, emotion, etc, or a combination.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/16 12:35 AM
6

Maybe, but even if the whole thing is made up, the value is in the reception of the article by others.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/16 12:29 AM
189

Wow. Just wow. It makes me sad that someone is paying this girl to put this shit on a digital page. Allow me to translate the first article for some of our newer members! If I can stop throwing up in my mouth, maybe I'll translate the rest. 12 Reasons You Should (not) Date The Retired Party Girl 1. She can "hold her liquor". This girl's been drinking since she was 13 and never stopped. She likes to think she can keep up with you and your friends, which means a bigger bar tab and lots of puke sta…
/r/TheRedPill07/01/16 04:43 AM
-2

I can't understand your rambling. Add reading to your New Year's resolution list. Your grammar is terrible. It's SAW not SEEN "A lot" is two words. Correct punctuation is way too much to expect, I guess. I'm surprised you could even get through the sidebar without an adult's help. Improving your mind is just as important as improving your body. Get your shit together.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/16 04:25 AM
2

Thanks for the post. It hurts to see another guy fall. Just a quick note though. If you're doing double dates and making plans for nye, you are most certainly her bf, regardless of what you say. Actions, not words? Don't we say that all the time? Not that there's anything wrong with that; I just don't see the point of denying it. If you're not going to upgrade her, treat her like a plate. If you're thinking more, describe her as such. Whatever is cool.
/r/TheRedPill01/01/16 01:20 AM
6

Thanks for the post. Here's some stuff to think about. tl;dr: This isn't a huge problem and will probably go away on it's own with minimal effort. Stick to the basic RP principles and get out of your own head. What exactly is the problem? You found a decent girl you actually like? Let me take her off your hands while you waste the rest of your life away banging vapid plates you can't stand for more than a couple hours. I think a lot of your confidence/abundance mentality has come more from a pla…
/r/TheRedPill29/12/15 12:26 PM
1

Christ, this is amateur. No, you're not RP, you're BP trying to convince yourself you're something other than a loser. You've spent half of your life (13-26) chasing "women" to some degree instead of working on yourself. I assume you're barely literate and have somehow managed to get someone at the local library to read you posts from this sub. You took that information and used it to be an even bigger loser than you were before. "It doesn't feel right with my BP brain yet, and that's my next bi…
/r/TheRedPill27/12/15 07:48 PM
1

Redheads? WTF? Some of these are good things to stay away from but you have serious issues like self-harm in the same list as a natural hair color. Get this shit out of here. Go work on yourself instead of making lists like an angry teenager.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/15 07:37 PM
1

Noooooo! You've now ruined that game for me as I look at my character through RP lenses. I remember a dialog choice of something along the lines of "Even though you've tried to murder me and everything, I forgive you and you can be a good person if you want." I'm going dark side next time.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/12/15 02:02 PM
10

Great post. I must have picked up the wrong 3D glasses, because both of my lenses were red. It was all downhill for me after Rey says to Finn twice "Let go of my hand!" as he (twice) saves her from a swift death. Not to mention that for the first half of the movie, Rey is solely concerned with returning to her home planet to wait for her parents to return; everyone else be damned.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/15 01:51 PM
3

I'd like to preface this with saying thanks for the post. I'm sure a lot of us have been in somewhat similar positions at some time. However... WTF are you thinking? She got out of a LTR, hooked up with you because you were an easy transitional guy, grew bored, thought things might work out with the ex, found someone new or whatever, and ended things with you. A tale as old as time. That should have been the last time you talked to her. Obviously, she's not qualified to be anything more than a p…
/r/TheRedPill22/12/15 01:43 PM
0

Med student here. Just finished a urology rotation, so I've dealt with testosterone levels a bit. If you don't have any symptoms (high fatigue, hair growth abnormalities, ED, low libedo, etc) it's unlikely that adding testosterone to your system would have any beneficial effects. Also, keep in mind that testosterone can vary widely from day to day and by the time of day. Why were your levels checked in the first place?
/r/TheRedPill23/10/15 12:24 PM
12

Jesus. They're like children. Thanks for the report. Shoot us an update sometime.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/15 12:17 PM
0

While the role reversal is a breath of fresh air, I don't think we should be supporting this type of bs behaviour from men or women. The article doesn't go into much detail, but it looks like they had a prenup in 2013, so the money situation should be clearly defined already.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/15 12:15 PM
1

Thanks for the post. While the "treat others according to the respect they deserve" rule is generally fine, I don't feel like that's something that is all that valuable or unique to TRP. Furthermore, if you want to discuss Christian morality, a better focus would be Matthew 22:36-40. To summarize, Jesus is asked what the greatest commandment is and he replies: Love God and love others as yourself. So, it's not "treat people the way you'd want to be treated" but rather love others just like you l…
/r/TheRedPill21/10/15 08:33 PM
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