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Breaking out of the awkwardness phase is really fucking hard, and it's not consistent how long it takes because every guy has different factors that affect how they behave around women. While throwing yourself into that situation will eventually become so routine for you that it no longer affects you, you might want to consider doing something else in addition to that to help build your confidence. Going to the gym, dressing better (/r/frugalmalefashion is a godsend for college students who want…
/r/seduction31/10/14 03:06 AM
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Se names don't lend well to nicknames.
/r/seduction24/08/14 04:46 PM
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It does depend on what kind of piece it is. The song I wrote when I was 14 was very embarrassing, but something else might not be.
/r/seduction31/07/14 02:34 PM
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Haha the least favorite question is great. I wonder which of my creations is my least favorite. Okay nvm it was really bad, I don't want to talk about it.
/r/seduction31/07/14 01:12 PM
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The hidden statement behind every shit test is "I am bad at communicating effectively and feel the need to manipulate others". A shit test is a woman's (or a man's) way of devaluing the gravity of her/his own words. How can everyone take you seriously when nothing you say is ever as serious as it sounds?
/r/seduction24/07/14 12:02 AM
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Realistically you're doing nothing wrong. There's no problem with being the funny guy, but I understand that it comes with it's downsides. Maybe get a bit more sarcastic and jaded? You can still be funny, but it's not a goofy funny, more of a Jeff Winger kind of funny where you're also taken seriously because you're a little darker about it.
/r/seduction20/07/14 07:41 PM
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Everyone says "sense of humor" but that's a dumb phrase because a sense of humor is extremely non-specific. I like a girl who can make and take a joke at her own expense.
/r/seduction17/07/14 05:15 PM
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His point was that the girl's lack of confidence turned him off to the point where he didn't even consider waiting. It put him in the shoes of a woman approached by an unconfident man.
/r/seduction12/06/14 03:32 PM
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Most of the time people aren't trying to look beneath the surface. If you're trying to exude (false) confidence, people won't stop and wonder if it's genuine. They'll just go with it. It's easy for them to tell when you're really unconfident when you stumble over your words and stutter and sound unsure.
/r/seduction12/06/14 03:30 PM
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People always told me I had shit posture. Once I decided to fix that, I just straightened up whenever I noticed that I was looking down. It's really helped with my confidence too because I don't subconsciously put myself beneath them anymore.
/r/seduction11/06/14 04:10 AM
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Looking young is a curse that affects me too. I've tried remedying it by trying to dress better but my next step is cardio to burn off the cheek fat and have leaner features. Mentally, you can only get older through experience. I'm only 19 but I know that looks only get you so far. Work on your patience and rational thinking, those are two traits that people respect in mature adults, but other than that you just need to live and learn.
/r/seduction02/06/14 05:23 AM
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Eye contact, while difficult for people just starting to break out of their shell, is an extremely powerful and simple way to create interest. I've taken to looking directly at people as they walk by, and it creates an intimidating air just because most people just don't make eye contact with people on the street. It's great for your confidence and will help out when you actually talk to someone.
/r/seduction05/05/14 05:58 AM
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Dressing up can mean a hell of a lot of things. There's a level of casual you should maintain in the situations that call for it. Save the suit for a business venture or a special occasion. You can look good without going overboard. /r/frugalmalefashion is good for getting great deals for nice clothing (I assume a 20 year old doesn't have $400 to blow on one pair of boots) and generally it ranges from stuff like suits and blazers down to plain jeans.
/r/seduction04/05/14 08:33 PM
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I don't think it meant fashionable, I think it meant flamboyant.If you see a guy walk in with a well-fitting suit, a sharp tie and well-styled hair you don't think "what a fucking prick, I'm not hiring him". However, if you look like a funky hipster you're probably not doing yourself any favors.
/r/seduction19/04/14 03:28 AM
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Of course, but as far as reddit goes I don't think I've really used /r/seduction in months.
/r/seduction21/03/14 06:14 PM
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I've recently discovered that aside from the usual "confidence" and overcoming AA, the most I can do is work on my appearance. Go to the gym and wear nice clothes. /r/frugalmalefashion has a much better day-to-day impact on me than /r/seduction nowadays.
/r/seduction21/03/14 03:39 AM
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It's easy to get intimidated by reciprocal eye contact so practice on a mirror. Eye contact should be captivating so as to hook them in, so when you're looking at yourself in the mirror forget about the rest of your body and focus on your eyes.
/r/seduction24/02/14 08:29 PM
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You have to own that stutter. It doesn't matter if you botch a sentence or not, you have to be totally cool about it. Next time you're talking to someone new, not necessarily a girl, if you stutter, just smile and say something like "sorry, I've got a stutter" and then keep going. It eases the awkwardness and if they'll be more understanding of it if it happens later.
/r/seduction30/12/13 11:30 PM
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It's hard to go from 0-60 quickly, so to get in the zone, I put on a smile first, straighten up my posture and lightly flex my muscles (I'm pretty scrawny, but I've been hitting the gym lately and my arms don't look like noodles anymore). Then, when I tell myself how attractive/funny/smart/desirable I am, my body language already reflects the confidence I'm trying to trick myself into feeling.
/r/seduction03/10/13 03:05 AM
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This why Mike was so good at picking up chicks. He went to Billy's!
/r/seduction23/09/13 04:14 PM
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I think a train station isn't the ideal place to approach people. The bar is a location commonly associated with meeting people, and especially sexual partners. Chances are, the girl at the train station just wants to go to work/go home.
/r/seduction20/09/13 03:25 PM
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CAROLINE!
/r/seduction20/09/13 03:22 PM
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The orbiter refers to a guy who hangs around, circling a girl, waiting for the perfect moment that'll never come, wasting their time and emotions on a girl who has no idea what he wants and thinks of him as a friend. This has nothing to do with the girl. Most girls just think he's their pitiful friend who has no luck with the ladies. The douchebag chick is well aware of what this guy wants and tugs his strings ever so slightly when she wants him to do something for her. Most girls are not like t…
/r/seduction18/09/13 12:08 AM
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That's a bit misogynistic. If I knew anyone who knowingly toys with someone's emotions, strings them along for years and takes advantage of their emotion vulnerability, I would call that person a douchebag. Most females are not like that.
/r/seduction17/09/13 07:34 PM
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You seem to have come a long way. I would recommend avoiding Farah though, your description indicates that she's a bit of a douchebag.
/r/seduction17/09/13 03:02 PM
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If it's really bad, we leave dandruff shampoo in his shower caddy.
/r/seduction24/08/13 03:54 AM
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Um.. I have a friend who routinely flakes on get-togethers, and as a result me and a bunch of other friends put a bunch of frosted flakes in a sandwich bag and hide it in his dorm room for him to find every time he bails on us. Should I do that to a girl who does not show up?
/r/seduction23/08/13 04:58 PM
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I've worried about this myself. In terms of my own personal insecurity and the aspects of other guys that contribute to that it's easy to develop a sense of being less than the other guy. My approach to it is that every other guy out there, whether he is stronger, smarter, better looking, more talented, anything, is missing the one crucial thing that means that he'll never be able to outdo me: He isn't me. Likewise, every guy who you think is better than you isn't you, which is a weakness. You h…
/r/seduction13/08/13 01:10 AM
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All right, first off, you did good. You went for it even after you blew the first attempt. Next, here's what you do: Walk into class fucking better than ever. Joke with everyone, smile at her and all of her friends (for added effect, wink at one of her friends), be energetic and active. Even if it all is a lie and you don't feel like that inside. Remember, if you can maintain an illusion of confidence for at least a little bit, people will start believing that you believe it. She'll see a guy sh…
/r/seduction02/08/13 03:23 AM
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Try smiling before making eye contact. A smile, as cheesy at it sounds, makes everyone look a little brighter and once you've made eye contact you can tweak it a little bit to make it a little more flirty. People are more likely to be receptive to people who smile more, so it's the threshold to more interaction.
/r/seduction24/06/13 04:25 PM
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I really liked the "learn by teaching" portion of your story. I've never thought of overcoming my own anxiety by dragging some other chump into the mix. The most important thing to remember here is that even when you're told all of the tricks and secrets of seduction, none of it is worth jack shit unless you put it to use, and that's what you did.
/r/seduction24/06/13 04:20 PM
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I remember, a friend of mine tried to set me up with a girl by promising that I'd teach her a Bb Major in the same way. Shame I wasn't interested, she's attractive, but I see her as more of a friend. It did however open my eyes to the possibility of kino through teaching guitar. However, through experience I know that learning guitar is a shitload more effort than a few lessons. I wouldn't recommend it as a serious thing to teach, but more of an excuse to wrap your arms around her.
/r/seduction13/06/13 08:43 PM
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I've started doing this. I used to freak out when girls would just up and stop replying to my texts, but I realized that you're right. If they're nothing more to be said, say nothing.
/r/seduction13/06/13 02:47 AM
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Slowly being able to tell her more about yourself, make her feel like she worked hard to find out this stuff about you. Shit! That's where I've been fucking up. I open up at the drop of a hat! I need to be more reserved, more guarded, to make my deepest secrets seem very intimate.
/r/seduction03/06/13 05:51 PM
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Get muscly as fuck. I know a ton of short but built guys who have no trouble with the ladies.
/r/seduction02/06/13 05:01 PM
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For all intents and purposes, it is. It was a dance, and he walked in with a fuck-it attitude and had tons of fun despite being the shortest and youngest.
/r/seduction20/05/13 10:34 PM
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My friend brought his little brother (freshman) to one of our mixers at my residential high school (we're seniors) on Saturday. That kid danced on more girls that night than I ever have. It's all on how you approach it. Don't give a fuck, don't try to get anything out of it, just do it to have fun, and fun will come to you.
/r/seduction20/05/13 07:21 PM
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Hmmm, this is interesting. Avoiding asking questions forces you to be more assertive. You sound more secure in yourself simply because you don't have that telltale upward inflection at the end of every risky sentence. Picture, if you will, the difference between a guy who is very nervous who says "Do you want to grab some ice cream after dinner?" versus the same guy who is still nervous, but says "Let's grab some ice cream after dinner." In the second scenario, the lack of the question makes him…
/r/seduction22/04/13 02:19 PM
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Let him pay for dinner? Isn't it common courtesy to pay for your own meal if you've decided against seeing him again? Otherwise you're leading him on.
/r/seduction07/04/13 06:01 PM
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If you tape paper towels to your pits, you can do whatever with the knowledge that even if you do sweat, it won't show, which will be the confidence boost you need to not sweat. Unfortunately, I can see this making paper towels a crutch for you, so take care if you do this.
/r/seduction02/12/12 06:09 PM
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